Saturday, February 02, 2008

twitter-patter

Thankfully the dreaded previous month is over and February is underway, and a leap year too. Last year was taxing. Now finally onto a more exciting month and hopefully warmer.

We are hosting a party for some of our sexy friends tonight. Invitations went out three weeks ago. Yesterday the food was ordered. There was a stop today for really nice champagne, and a few bottles of liquor to keep everyone warm and happy.

All we have to do is walk in the door of our own space 30 minutes before our guests are due to arrive. Turn on the lights and heat, and Ta-Da, we are ready for a night of action.

The ease at which we can now hold events is remarkable since we have no moving about of equipment or gear anymore. No more set up teams and take down teams. Work has become a breeze in many ways. The space is gorgeous and everyone is going to be gaga over it.

Our volunteers will be able to relax and truly kick back for the night, and our friends, will be able to hang out with each of us, as we will not be busy monitoring play or working.

The library keeps gaining selections as guests & members bring in donations to our Sex-Positive Lending Library. I am really feeling the love and the community spirit as our opening is made grand by others kindness and generosity.

The new book shelves will be assembled in the next day or two, then our kinky-librarian will be coming in to catalog everything and make the library ready for our membership to access as part of their Member Privileges.

Tonights party couldn't come at a better time as both RC and I need an evening to unwind. We've been working day-and-night lately so this is a real treat to spend quality time with the people in our kinky lives.

Time for me to go and bathe then pack my play-bag for this evenings adventure. I have plans on doing no work, just being present in good-company and sharing it all with RC.

I am eager for everyone to see our efforts.

Friday, February 01, 2008

A Loss

It is with great sadness that I write to tell you that Fetwear is closing its doors.

For those of you not in-the-know, FETWEAR is an adult store located on the Coquitlam, Burnaby, New West borders. Always carrying an excellent collection of niche market BDSM and fetish toys and clothing. A gem of a resource really.


I've known Tracie and Paul, for YEARS now and will miss them and what they've brought to the sex-community.

Sooooo, before they close for good, run on over and pick up some sweet deals. Starting this Sunday, February 3 everything in the store is 50% off.


All clothing, stockings, shoes and boots, adult toys, lubes and lotions, and all BDSM related items. Everything must go, so hurry in before its all gone. All sales final.

931C Brunette Ave., Coquitlam (at the corner of Lougheed Hwy and Brunette Ave., right behind the French Quarter Pub)

Note our new hours:

Monday - Tuesday: closed
Wednesday - Saturday: 11 - 5
Sunday: 11 - 4





Wednesday, January 30, 2008

Support

My pursuit is not a lonely one.

There are many supporters surrounding me; from working professionals to students and stay at to home parents. Support and allies abound. My friendship, support and sex-positive message has transformed the lives of countless individuals and couples every week, with the numbers increasing dramatically year-by-year.

Some people walk into my life for a coaching session and 2 hours later, leave our time together feeling as though we will forever share a very unique bond. Not quite a friendship, yet we'll call ourselves friends. Because I will have heard you when no others had quite the same before, all the while giving you the support yearned for, yet had likely not even known yet. So practical and so necessary.


Others leave time spent with me, feeling strong enough to venture forth onto a personal journey now with information gained from our time and I will see them in public settings like fetish nights, dungeon parties and other community events as they "come-out" into local sex-positive culture. We acknowledge knowing one another, yet it likely doesn't even come up ever about them being clients, there is just a sudden level of comfort with one another, that hugging upon seeing one another is just so natural.

Couples come to me, naively believing that only one of them needs me, the other is just there to "make the other one comfortable" as we venture forth on our journey of finding them the answers they are seeking. They leave and the three of us are joined as a unit. I helped the one who everyone thought needed me, but I also helped the relationship and that makes the other partner, ever so pleased. I become an ally and someone these people consider a treasured friend.

Others, already self-identified as kinky who haunt local sex events as there evenings out on the town book me on the Hush-Hush to teach them new skills. Skills usually surrounding Dominance and S/m. These people learn fast. They want in and out. It is very different working with some one who already has there style and interests identified solidly yet who has a yearning to learn proficiency in some new art. I applaud those that arrive to me, saying they want more finesse to there play and those who want to create a scene, not just get someone off.
The difference is critical to a memorable experience.

People write to my email address and reveal to me very personal things about themselves and I pick through the information they've given me and try and figure out what this person needs. It takes time to answer the mail I get from people asking questions of me. Over half of these people will never, ever, show up to a party or even a workshop. Yet I give them my time and best direct these individuals to the resources or support they are in need of. These are the people who flock to me when I'm out at events, and Thank Me, for spending the time to personally answer there emails. I never know who anyone is, or what email they are referring to, the numbers are too vast. But I do know this, with support like I have, if I ran for office, I'd damn well win!


Tuesday, January 29, 2008

Snow Day

Much as I love the big white fluffy stuff, cause it just looks so damn fresh and pretty, I am disappointed that it happened in such quantity that it has left the city in driving chaos. The snow is everywhere and a complete blanket of it. How beautiful. Tonight's class is postponed due to it.

Sorry folks, but for the safety of all, we've decided its just best to stay off the roads until they are clear again.

This is the notice that went out to the mailing list a short while ago....

It is with regret that I write to tell you with short notice, that this evenings class on the G-Spot has been moved to an unnamed future date.

The snow has been a lot in Burnaby, continuing into this afternoon. Both my friend and the evenings class model and myself feel unsafe on the roads right now. If not from the ice and snow, then from the wonky drivers motoring alongside us suddenly veering into our paths. It
seems safest to remain off the roads if possible and we are going to do just that.

This class is always very popular, so of course, it will reschedule, soon. Please come on back and see for yourself what information you can turn into skills surrounding G-Spot stimulation.

Thank you for your patience and your continued interest in my Erotic Arts Curriculum.

Monday, January 28, 2008

The G-Spot Class

Tuesday, which is tomorrow, I am teaching my G-Spot class at The Love Nest right across the street from Metrotown, on Kingsway. I bring along a girl-friend, who becomes our live model, allowing class participants to view her vulva, G-Spot and arousal process.

If you've not before taken this very interesting, well guided class, it's time you attended.

January 29 Tuesday 7:15 - 9:15pm
Finding & Stimulating the G-Spot & Female Ejaculation
The Love Nest 4687 Kingsway Burnaby
$25 per person - Cash, pay at door, no advance tickets
Open to men & women - couples & singles



Are you a squirter or gusher, or aspiring to be? Want to help your
lady enjoy her G-Spot? This is the class for you. Join Jennifer and
one of her lovely woman friends for a hands-in demonstration on
techniques to please for G spot stimulation & ejaculation potential.

You'll learn: Clitoral & G-Spot Anatomy from both an internal and
external view. Choosing a toy or your own hands? Getting you both
ready for the often trans formative experience. When the G-Spot is
stroked, there is often a sensation or urge to urinate.

By learning techniques to both understand then move beyond this urge
many women can experience heightened arousal and for others
ejaculation becomes possible. Tips that are tried, tested and easy to
grasp so you can finally stroke your own G-Spot or that of your
partners.

*Please bring a notebook & pen to class

Sunday, January 27, 2008

the remains

This afternoon PA (my personal assistant) came and spent three hours helping RC and I complete various tasks remaining, as well as going over with me the final edits to the Member Packages. Getting this over with will be good for now. I suspect that in a few months, we will be ready to look at doing a rewrite of some of it already as we change and shift over our first year open.

Walked into BestBuy and told the man helping us what was needed. An LCD projector for me to teach with, use for social events and to run movies as background mood to our parties. I am so stoked over this purchase. It cost a small fortune, and yes, we bought the four year extended warranty. It is just so worth it on an item as pricey as this. Yikes! A real hit to the pocket-book, but necessary for what we now have to offer everyone.

Yesterday evening RC set up the projector with much ease and we played a movie across a 9 foot long by 5 foot high white bedroom wall in our bedroom. It was incredible definition, astounding color, brilliant design and only 6 pounds! Remote control, carrying case, the whole caboodle.

The sounds system is in and complete. Oh my god, the speakers just rock-the-place. I mean we have some serious volume and we are fully wired in every room for sound. Not that we need it, but it is nice to know its there. I owe big for this contractor, he wanted no money. No paper trail. Just a sexual trade. I suspect the blow job going down later tonight before bed, is one of a few he will collect over this job well done. Thanks RC.

The To-Do List keeps getting things checked off of it. Unfortunately though, things keep getting re added to the bottom of the list.

Saturday, January 26, 2008

365 DAYS

Happy One Year Anniversary RC.

Our connection needs no explanation. This first year of our lives together has been quite memorable. It's due celebrating how smooth we are together: slick between the sheets, on the same page with a nod, sharing air as our hearts beat as one.

You are the most perfect partner for me. I love you and am in awe of the family we have created with such ease, the next part of that journey shares both our genetics.

This next year is going to morph us into a whole new worlds with our goals set so well. Add to that the fact that You excite me and bring great joy to my life daily and my heart beats madly, happily.

Thank you for sharing your love with me for all the days and nights we've known to say "I love you" out loud.

XOXOXOXO

Friday, January 25, 2008

No Surprises

~~~GULP, GASP ~~~

I still need a LCD projector, in the next couple of days, before our opening. Where to find one is the challenge! You my dear readers, must have some leads, please?


Thankfully we have found our new stereo system and pick it up tomorrow. I was to be in Seattle this weekend, but the plans changed, sadly as I just can't leave home or business right now. Tis good though, as it means I now have the time to accomplish the rest of my To-Do List.


I hired contractors this time round to do ALL the internal work that needed done with the business. And now in the final hours before our membership comes through our doors, there has been a nice quiet committed group of friends rallying around here to help us with the last bit of arranging.

It has been a long time in my life, since I was surrounded by drama. A few years back I had someone in my life who regularly rode the dramatic "emotional roller coaster of life." The best way to explain this person is "Theatrical" as was the constant "Help Me / Save Me" of this partner. I vowed when that relationship was over, to never be involved again with anyone picky or anyone princess like or anyone who needs to create scenes/drama to feel important or loved again. Ever! (this burden has proved tough to shake as well)

Tomorrow is my One Year Anniversary with RC. Our life is beautiful, as is our love. For those of you who know us as a couple you know what I mean when I say it is remarkable that we found one another, as our fit, is Perfect.

Thursday, January 24, 2008

Sad, but true & funny

It is no surprise that I get emails that read a-little-odd from time to time given that my profession is sex work. This letter takes the cake. It fact, he should get a very special hat for coming up with this piece of work.

Hi Jennifer,

I'm interested in throwing a party at my place 2 bedrooms but I was hoping you could help me with some suggestions and guests (5 couples)? Would love it if you could help :) Let me know if you have the time to plan and hopefully set up a party!

btw. I will be a single male as this is going to be a secret....sshhh :_

Thanks in advance, Andie


Andie

Your email is rather strange. It reads as though you are ordering "take-out". Including guests. I have never received such a request before.

If you want to attend an adult event, then do so. There is nothing stopping you, so long as you are 19 years of age.

But whatever it is you are trying to create through contacting me, just know that you can't buy it. And if you really want such a scenario to ever take place, you are going to need to come out of your shell to meet the couples themselves. Because that is how you get people back to your place for a party, you hand pick your own guests.

Don't think that I would bring my friends, supporters and allies to the private home of someone no one knows.

I am not even going to start on the rant, that it sounds as though you want my services-for-free. So, not going to happen. I don't just throw parties, I am creating culture and am a professional.

By the way, "Would you like fries with your order?"

Subscribe to our mailing list
so that you can find a suitable event, where you can meet other
like minded people, and hopefully form some friendships on your own.


Wednesday, January 23, 2008

Orientation Time

Member Orientation: An Introduction to Sex-Positive Culture
$40 yearly basic membership dues


The Intro to Sex-Positive Culture is a mandatory orientation that all potential members must attend before joining. It is designed to introduce the broad range of experiences & services available at LLC. The orientation provides attendees with a history of sex-positive culture in Vancouver and the PNW, then reviews some of the expectations and etiquette expected at our events. Orientations also include a question-and-answer period so that attendees can get any questions answered as well as meet our staff and volunteers.

A Membership Form must be filled in with your Legal Name and dues paid at start of the class/orientation.

Please note: Orientations are restricted to people presenting picture ID showing that they are 19 years old, and older.

Tuesday, January 22, 2008

Turned off

We hit bed early last night, the whole family. Thankfully too, as lately we have been on overdrive getting things taken care of. With RC on four days on right now, and 12 hour days, he is ready to finish his last day of work tonight, which is a graveyard. I was awake though at 6:30 this morning as there was much for me to accomplish today.

I've been asked lately in email, why I removed the comments feature from my blog posts. I turned that feature off, not because I do not not care what people have to say. Rather, because for people who have something to say about my blog contents, then they can either tell me in person or share with me in an email to my personal account. It is my preference to hear from people via this manner of communication, rather than through a comment on Blogger.

jennifer@libidoevents.com


Next, I need a fridge. It would be ideal to find a black one. In good-working-order. Full size. Free or cheap. Can pick up. Anyone got one? Or know where to find one? It is for the kitchen in Libido Lounge, where everyone will be getting their drinks from for years to come. Donate a fridge, help a community out.

I need to purchase a sound system and a video projector system as well this week. Critical. Something moderately priced. Easy to install. Any ideas my friends, leads or tips on where I should be looking to buy these items? Or how about what brands are best or which to say away from. I am not so literate in the world of technology, so your help is greatly appreciated.

If you are an Erotic Artist and you would like to have your art hung on our walls, for sexual explorers to admire, I suggest sending me an email ASAP expressing your interest. There are beautiful newly painted walls, waiting to be adorned with your sex positive imagery and individuals waiting to see your art.

Happily, later this afternoon I have an announcement that I get to make which is long over due to my family and friends. Although I do not feel indebted to those close to me, I have a strong sense of wanting to make them all feel very appreciated. What I have to offer should bring a smile to every ones face. I sooo much enjoy being the bearer of great news.

Life is happy, isn't it? And only what you make of it. Live in the past and you'll be haunted. Live for tomorrow, and you will never understand being present. Live in the moment and you get to experience life at its best. Make no excuses and blame no one. Personal responsibility is the key to happiness in my corner of the world.

Monday, January 21, 2008

Dining at the Y

For those those of you looking for more information on Pussy Licking, tomorrow night I am teaching a public class on the subject. It is open to men & women, couples and singles.


January 22 Tuesday 7:15 - 9:15pm
Pussy Licking Good

The Love Nest - 4687 Kingsway Burnaby
(directly across from Metrotown)

$25 per person: cash, pay at door, no advance tickets



From the silky caress of your warm wet tongue lapping her labia,
you'll soon feel more powerful and in control and she'll know you've
got her pleasure in mind.

With using but a few of the tips and techniques that Jennifer will
demonstrate and share in this class you'll come away more confident
in your cunnilingus and inspired to share what you've learned.

Of course we'll discuss a woman's arousal process and her clitoral,
vaginal and G-Spot anatomy to empower you with maximum pleasure
giving information.

*please bring a notebook & pen to class

Sunday, January 20, 2008

Inspired her to Squirt

So I have been getting a fair amount of email due to my Taboo Show, stage classes. All complimentary and enough to make a girls-head-swell just-a-little. It's nice.



But no where near as flattering as receiving an email that reads just like this....



Jennifer!!

I hope you remember me...my name is sonya
we met at taboo at your ejaculation class...although you met
soo many people that day! hehe
I'm the girl who wants to volunteer

I have great news!!
I LEARNED HOW TO EJACULATE!!

Seriously i've been trying soo hard and i've finally done it!
At your mini class at taboo you said something that really made
sense to me you said that many times girls think they have to pee
but when they run to the washroom nothing comes out!
So that happend to me...I ran to the washroom and nothing came out
I came back determined to get it out and
honestly...i never expected it to be so much lol
It wouldn't stop it was like friggin fountain down there!
Now im on my way to safeway to rent a carpet cleaner!
I made a mess!!
I'm still in shock!!

It felt a lot different than I anticipated...the whole time it was
cumming out I thought it could be urine just cause there was SO
much and it looked like a stream! I hit the mirror 4 feet across
the room from me! But I smelled it and stuf and it's 100% not pee.
I guess the feeling of it isn't so much of a huge orgasm while it's
happening, but I feel incredibly relaxed and happy now

Does this sound accurate?

Anyway just thought i'd let you know that one of your classes
educated me to the point where I can actually do it to myself ;)

Thanks so much!!! Your enthusiasm in the class was amazing
and I can't wait to start volunteering and promoting your classes!!

Sonya


Wow, I feel pretty special right now, and I've made another
woman friend. Sonja is a squirter, and You can be too!



Thank you for sharing with me, your joy and success.



Keep the flood gates open, and breathe.



(and for you reading at home, the girl who has YET to have
a g-spot orgasm, know that they feel different for each
woman as does the amount of fluid released)


Saturday, January 19, 2008

Down The Rabbit Hole

There are two tradesmen here working, they shouldn't take too long this afternoon. The three of us were at Home Depot just a short while ago. New light fixtures, hinges for a kitchen cabinet, moldings and wood for a door, all final details really. There is so little left now to take care of.

The sounds of the saw cutting the remaining pieces, certainly fill me with immense pride. Both guys are humble hard workers, and good friends too. A joy to have such people in my life helping to bring to fruition such a grand vision.

It is next time for the art to hit the walls, and the greenery to fill in the place. I'm contracting a few different artists to exhibit there work here on a rotational basis. Some where in the next week, the last of the framed art will be arriving and hung, and before this happens I hope to have made it to a plant store to find at least three or four different trees for in here.

RC is at work today, he will be home tonight around 7:30 or so. I will be waiting for him, all dressed up in provocative clothing. Dinner will be almost ready. Scotch poured and his robe hung next to the shower.

On my mind the last while, has been the playful memory of one of our early dates together. RC was blindfolded, naked and laid out on his living room floor. I was crouched next to him on the floor, with a crock-pot filled with hot melted wax plugged into the wall.

With wide strokes from my paint brush, I swept dripping heated wax across the exposed body of RC. He gasped repeatedly, but not once said stop. He just laid there, moaning, with his cock engorged, standing strong and upright. Between the wax on his body in strokes, drips and splashes, he soon was encased in layer upon layer of sensation seeking wonder.

I surmise that tonight will involve more wax, nudity and sex as part of our weekend of debauchery.

Friday, January 18, 2008

Sexcapades

On the Libido Events website, we have started listing information on our Orientation Nights For Members. There are already four dates up on our calendar in the coming two weeks, where we will be moving people through the process of Orientation, and welcoming them to the new facility.

This morning my PA (personal assistant) and I worked for over two hours, planning the layout of the welcome packages and the first Free events that are in the works for our peeps who have waited so long and patiently for us to finally open.

This is a child-free weekend for us. I plan on giving RC three days of debauchery to excite and titillate him beyond his best at-home-fantasy.

Red silk sheets are covering the mattress, with sex toys, already plugged in laying out-of-the-way on the floor alongside our bed. Candles are in all the holders and aroma therapy fills the air.

There is a massage table set up in the living room, with oils, potions, towels and candles. There is scotch in the kitchen and cigars in the humidifier. Together we are naked and freshly showered.

We played Wii for quite awhile. I think we have about five different games so far. Tis much fun! We ate delectable roast chicken & yams, fuel was going to be necessary for us to continue.

I sucked his cock, it had been demanding my attention all night long as it swung about while we played Wii. I may have squished his penis as well as done a few minor sadistic things to it with love.

No matter what I did, it wasn't enough to scare him away because shortly he was licking my pussy while sitting in the living room chair. Each cheek of his face, in between my thighs as I laid out comfortably on the massage table twitching in uncontrollable delight. His tongue did an oral caress that was just what I needed in that moment.

I electrocuted him with my new Violet Wand, and he loved it. When someone is trembling saying God NO, that implies they are enjoying something, yes? Over and over again, he enjoyed being zapped, while screaming God NO. It took some convincing to get him to stay still enough for me to make the wand arc enough to zap his cock just so. I was really happy. Who knew that zapping RC's armpits, backs of knees and ear lobes could be such giddy-fun!

Then I let him, all the while he was laughing uncontrollably, use the wand with all its electricity and intensity on my naked bits: and again, fun laughter and squirming had taken over. And to be keep everything even, I spread my legs, allowing RC access to zap my vulva. And he did! With much delight.

We ate ice cream in the living room. Me double chocolate chunk with squares of fudge. And RC some vanilla bean flavor. I ate more than him for sure and it was well needed, all those calories.

There were some mouthfuls of ice cream, after kissing RC, that distinctly tasted like me. Mmm.

Then came the sex. Acrobatic monkey love. Even with new silk sheets on the bed, we do the down & dirty bent over the massage table utilizing the plush living room chair for traction. He slid his cock in my vulva so fast, and with much thrusting, gusto and panting noises, enough friction and vibrations took place, that suddenly uncontrollably there was wet, slick slippery orgasms escaping all over the place.

Tomorrow is a sexy costume, cane, wax and knives added in to our play. Our adult-playground is vibrant and ever changing.

Our sex is exciting, because we set it up to be. Invest in what is important to you, and the benefits will come back to you in abundance.

We make one another quiver.

Thursday, January 17, 2008

the cage gets attention

The cage is exquisite. I found myself on my hands and knees alongside it the other day, looking at it with a wave of nostalgia.

You see I was once in relationship so important to me, that what directed us as unit was his Dominance and my submission. Being locked up naked in a cage was a very hot idea to me. Bent snugly over the cage, legs spread wide tied tight with rope, splayed. Makes my girl bits tingle to reflect on those early years of my sexual liberation.

Fast forward a few years, and someone who loved me, made me a cage. It was sold during our relationship ending.

Again a few more years goes by and now I am a switch. I have found my own Dominant core and yet bottoming still resonates with me strongly and with a sense of urgency at times.

Last week the cage was purchased. I drove it to the facility with it in the back of the vehicle, all the while pondering the future possibilities, now that I own "my own cage" now.

Back when Kara was still my service bottom she liked to be folded up small. We enjoyed and had much fun putting her in suitcases, boxes, utility trunks and laundry bins to keep her packaged up tight and out-of-the-way. She too, liked tight confined cases.

RC, well, I have the perfect plan of what to do to him in the cage, and it involves the help of a few of my women friends. I had to share my idea with him though, to entice him to consider trying a cage "as play". I won, he goes in the cage, and I get my scene. Yippee!


The women in my life today, suffice to say, they are all salivating over the cage, and vying over who will be "the first" to get a play experience in/on it. I am very good at keeping my partners happy and making sure everyone feels important all the while still getting attention from me.

Having unique play equipment that allows our attendees to play in ways they never could at home, titillates and excites me to no-end.

I've been thinking about the floor of the cage. Right now, it is just cold hard steel bars. Some, including myself, would say that left as is, it is very sexy.

However given that I want those locked within it to have a good time, it is a thought to put a solid bottom on the cage, and cover it in a piece of plush soft carpet. I will ask the contractor on Saturday morning when he comes to do some final tinkering around the facility, if he wouldn't mind making a removable bottom for the cage.

Yes, there is a Solid Lock on the cage door silly, we can't have anyone escaping now can we?

Wednesday, January 16, 2008

Where did it go?

I spent a chunk of time today doing a few domestic items that needed tending to. Groceries, laundry, vacuuming, cooking, drug-store, and a few other boring tasks, were all things I accomplished.

While driving about, I started to reminisce about this past Christmas, and the joy we shared together as a family. Then, I started laughing out-loud remembering a "more intimate moment" shared between RC & I.

We were on the island, staying with RC's parents for a few days over the holidays to celebrate Christmas together.

It all started late the night before. In the dark of night, with no lights on, and as we got into bed, we ending up fooling around. Then we ended up having sex. Surprise!

Condom wrapper and condom are thrown about our Private Bedroom floor, the door is closed. No one will enter, it is not a concern.

We fall asleep, locked in a strong embrace together.

The next morning, we awaken and start another day. RC is setting the temperature of the water for us in the en suite bathroom for our shower, as I am in the bedroom cleaning up.

First I find the condom wrapper. Right on the floor, a few feet from the bed, where it had been tossed the night before.

Then, I search and search and search, and can not find the condom itself.

I look through the bed thoroughly before I make it, No Condom.

I lift up the very proper white lace bed skirt, No Condom.

I check on the walls, god-help-us-DO-NOT let it be stuck to a wall, No Condom.

I scan the entire floor area, No Condom.

Dismayed at the where abouts of the condom, I head into the next room.

"RC have you seen the condom from last nights sex? I can't find it anywhere" I say to him as we are both standing naked in the bathroom.

The bathroom has two doors, one into the hallway, and the other into the bedroom that we were staying in.

Before RC can even say no to my question, because I can see the words forming on his face and mouth. Walking along the hallway happily, in slow motion, is the little family dog.

And firmly in her mouth, she is carrying The Condom between her teeth.

Astonished at what I see, my eyes grow wide, and I point urgently at the dogs mouth, all the while calling her name and motioning towards RC to capture her.

In a fast grab at the dog, considering he was laughing so hard, RC retrieved The Condom from the dog, and promptly disposed of it, properly.

It seems that although we closed our bedroom door to the hallway the night before, we had not closed the bathroom doors, and the dog had entered that way.

It's lucky we didn't break our necks in shower, as we were laughing so hard at ourselves and the dog.

Tuesday, January 15, 2008

Home bound

Try as I may to leave the house today to complete some of the many items that have accumulated on my to-do list lately, I was unfortunately unable to find the strength to even dress myself.

My day was spent in RC's robe, lounging around working on the laptop in the peace of the living room, then later mid afternoon, I could be found napping in bed, with laptop on the floor next to me.

The nap happened though after RC had tied me to the head board with rope face up, and then had his way with me. It is a spectacular view to be tied tight, and see his head bobbing between my thighs. It is so good to be loved like this.

I would have made a meal for the family, but had no interest in exerting any energy. The man went out and picked up dinner for us all. Thankfully too, as I was famished by that point.

My In Box was in need of some attention today and then I found a few minutes to clean off my desktop, here are a few photos to enjoy of naughty interest.

First, the new cage we picked up last week for the club...

Second, a photo of my sexy birthday cake, made by a friend T. who is a professional baker. This was for my 35th back in October. What a cake and party that was! Click on the cake to enlarge it, so you can read the words written on it.

This evening I did three things that scared me, three things that I had been putting off due to personal fear. I feel so free to have completed these daunting tasks that have been hanging over my head, now I can move on from this point and conquer the next challenges that life puts before me.

Monday, January 14, 2008

the day after

Not so much sleep for me last night. I was still wound tight. This morning I had an appointment at 9 am so was out the door plenty early despite my body being tired and wanting to remain in the comfort of my own bed.

By the time I got home it was early afternoon. I awoke RC, who was in deep slumber after a 7-7 shift overnight. A short while later found us out at a mall purchasing a new vacuum for LL and picking up some cool graphics for the walls. We certainly needed the vacuum as I was tired of hauling ours to and from the club.

We returned home in plenty of time for dinner, were I fed everyone and together we caught up on life. RC helped me tidy up some of the mess remaining from Taboo, however there is still a bit of organizing left, that unfortunately only I can do. Perhaps tomorrow, as I am too fatigued for any more now.

It was a family game of Scrabble tonight and I find amusing that the letters I end up with form words on the board like..... WOMAN, LOINS & YONI. I had also MONS and PEAK at other times, just no where to put them. The family says it because I am always thinking in terms of sexual empowerment.

Sunday, January 13, 2008

Day Four - The End

Sunday is always quieter, no matter the industry. Sex is no exception. The show was open half an hour by the time we arrived at 12:30 in the afternoon. The most laid back of days for me, in terms of costuming and make-up which quite frankly was needed because everyone working at show, yes, me included, are all exhausted by day four of this monster trade show for sex.

This also means that the crowds were a little thinner and not so liquored up. I may have forgot to mention that drinking is abundant at the show, as most grab a drink and tour round shopping with it in hand. Today was more mellow than any other day yet everyone was still in a frenzy to make quick purchases from all the vendors before they packed up their wares and left. Many of course only have on-line boutiques, or are out of province.

My classes this afternoon were G-Spotting and Sex Tips and both were, filled-right-up! There were people in the audience who liked my classes the day before so much, that they returned to Taboo just to see my next two classes today. And I loved the people in the audience who would suddenly pull out pen & paper and start taking notes.

RC taped the classes today for me, I've watched them already. I've been told I am not to change any of my presentation style, without consulting my posse. It seems they think I am too hard on myself and may well change something that actually works well, and does need anything done to it.

Getting into the frame of mind, to not only educate but to keep engaged a huge number of class participants takes some mental prep work on my behalf. Add into this, RC set-up in the middle of the seminar area with a camera and tripod and yeah, it felt for a brief moment like pressure, then, not so much.

Its so hard to believe it is all over now, I completed all eight classes. There were a solid core group of friends who made possible the smooth look of my classes to each of you, my sincere Thanks for a job well done.

My office area looks like a tornado hit. Some time tomorrow after a massage and a deep sleep perhaps I will have the energy to put everything back where it belongs.

Elated by the success of my classes at Taboo and out future together, it is now time for me to "come down" from the energetic place I have floated in for the past four days.

Time to turn my activist self off and let the woman and mother shine now.