Yesterday was an unusual day of sorts. Jason who is rarely sick enough to take a day off, spent the day in bed being rather unwell. Of course with my husband home bound my day of work was shot, I just never get anything completed when he's around as he is such a handsome distraction.
In the evening I headed to the Lounge to see a coaching client and then Deviant Dining, a great group gathered to eat and to laugh their asses off. The odd humor we shared last night is partly what made the event so wonderful indeed.
After dinner and late now, at 9, my friend Marilyn packed me into her car and drove me into the city for the grand opening of a new adult store. We arrived to Sweet around 9:30 and it was packed with people eating, drinking and making purchases from the new place. While there we ran into a fantastic bunch of people that we both know so we hung out with them and plotted future kinky encounters.
With luck obviously on my side, I won a huge gift basket as well and even managed to buy a swanky new pair of panties from their new line of clothing the store is carrying thanks to my pal being their buyer.
Jennifer ... Vancouver's Sex Educator, Sexuality Coach and Activist. The content of this blog is not suited for those under the age of 18. What you'll find here is a written account of my personal journey in sex positive culture both personally and professionally.
Friday, December 09, 2011
Thursday, December 08, 2011
Sexy Acronym
In an email I received today from a man who was describing to me the sort of woman he and his wife would like to meet for a threeway, he wrote that the woman should be "KVBW".
Unknowing what that acronym stood for, I just had to inquire.
KVBW is short for Kinky Versatile Bi Woman
And that my friends was news to me.
Unknowing what that acronym stood for, I just had to inquire.
KVBW is short for Kinky Versatile Bi Woman
And that my friends was news to me.
Wednesday, December 07, 2011
Participants Needed!
An Anonymous Online Survey on Women’s Online Porn Habits and Masturbation
Sex Educator Jamye Waxman, M.Ed and History and Women’s Studies Professor Hugo Schwyzer, PhD are conducting a short, anonymous survey on online pornography and its impact on women’s masturbation habits.
The survey will take between 10 and 15 minutes to complete, and will be the initial part of what they hope will be a larger study. The answers obtained from this survey will help them determine where to take their research and which aspects to focus on (e.g. body image, self-pleasure, etc.).
To take the survey click here.
Sex Educator Jamye Waxman, M.Ed and History and Women’s Studies Professor Hugo Schwyzer, PhD are conducting a short, anonymous survey on online pornography and its impact on women’s masturbation habits.
The survey will take between 10 and 15 minutes to complete, and will be the initial part of what they hope will be a larger study. The answers obtained from this survey will help them determine where to take their research and which aspects to focus on (e.g. body image, self-pleasure, etc.).
To take the survey click here.
Sunday, December 04, 2011
Glitter In The Air a NYE to Remember
DECEMBER 31, 2011
9 PM - 1:30 AM
DRESS CODE ENFORCED
COST: listed below
Tickets: jennifer@libidoevents.com
9 PM - 1:30 AM
DRESS CODE ENFORCED
COST: listed below
Tickets: jennifer@libidoevents.com
Put on your red shoes and come celebrate the end of 2011 with a bang. Ring in the New Year with a sizzle. Enjoy a saucy evening of sexy party games and just plain old sex games. Our human dessert platter is back and filled with delicious treats all night long, perhaps while watching our provocative slide show. Bring your toys, bring your party hats, be an exhibitionist or be a voyeur. Just be ready to experience a night of glitter, glitz and glamor like no other. Tickets are limited, so book now and guarantee you don't miss out.
(this event does not have alcohol EXCEPT for a toast drink at midnight and we are a smoke free facility)
DOOR PRIZE FOR THE MOST GLAMOROUSLY DRESSED MAN AND WOMAN
Ticket Prices
December 1- 15
members: $40
non members: $50
December 16 - 31
members: $45
non members: $60
Life Time Members $15
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
Liberator Products Sale
I just LOVE Liberator Products, so much so that I own oh about eight or so. And you should own a couple as well, they offer something for everyone.
Happy Holidays from me to you. Go shopping with this sweet deal...
25% off Entire Site - Enter gift code “JIVE49” when you checkout.
Liberator Website
Happy Holidays from me to you. Go shopping with this sweet deal...
25% off Entire Site - Enter gift code “JIVE49” when you checkout.
Liberator Website
Monday, November 21, 2011
and life continues on
Wow time flies, it seems I have been negligent in posting for three whole months. Tsk tsk, this was not intentional on my behalf. It happened more due to my being caught up in life, you know how that goes I am sure.
So let's bring you up to speed on where life has taken me, I'll keep it brief and just hit the high points. Then as I start to blog again more often, you'll have some frame of reference for things.
Currently I have a head and chest cold and Jason is over due for his post vasectomy cum in a cup appointment.
Last month I turned 39 years old and celebrated with a trip to Las Vegas. While in Vegas, Jason and I finally were married, it was all previously planned and we even did it live on the internet. The ceremony was progressive and exactly what we wanted it to be for us. Want to watch it, write me and I'll send you the link.
The end of this month Pickle will be two, its rather remarkable how fast he is growing up. My daughter will be eighteen soon and the difference between raising them both is just night and day.
The Lounge turned four this month already, it's kinda crazy. Over 2000 members at this point, this next year is a time of great change for my professionally.
My relationships continue strong and steady. Allena's cancer has been kicked and she made the decision to forgo augmentation and during it all she met someone super special to her. Amy remains a spit fire and so not one to fit into a label and the rest of the tribe are quite seriously more of a handful than I am.
Ben makes me laugh and reminds me to give myself a break now and again, I admire his outlook on life. Marilyn is the friend I wish I had twenty years ago, she has wisdom that I cherish. Sheryl shows me that one woman is capable of so much on her own. Victoria's struggles are an obvious reminder to me to take the time to listen to others, she is a source of strength. Judy is proof that regardless of age, love and a reshaping of ones life is always possible. Lisa has shown me a steady relationship of friendship based on respect. Clive hears me and always has the time, his family values are admirable and his advice is sound.
My health has been on a slow climb out of the depths of hell thankfully, but not without much suffering, piles of money spent on drugs and a lot of medical professionals helping me. To be fair, Jason carried me through the worst of it, and when he was unable to do it any longer, the hospital was there for me to be admitted to.
We did a complete remodel on the outside of our home as well and the renovation process was enough to make me feel like running away. But it's done now and damn, does it ever look fantastic. Both Jason and the companies we hired did a way better job than I ever could have hope for.
My Taboo Sex Show touring schedule for 2011 - 2012 started last week with a four day teaching gig in Calgary. Later this week, I head off to Edmonton to do it all over again, then no more shows till January with Taboo.
It has been a time of great introspection for me these past few months, I feel as though I am coming out of a fog. The rat race had kept me busy for so long, that slowing long enough to check in with me and take care of my family and priorities was just suddenly a must do item for me.
So let's bring you up to speed on where life has taken me, I'll keep it brief and just hit the high points. Then as I start to blog again more often, you'll have some frame of reference for things.
Currently I have a head and chest cold and Jason is over due for his post vasectomy cum in a cup appointment.
Last month I turned 39 years old and celebrated with a trip to Las Vegas. While in Vegas, Jason and I finally were married, it was all previously planned and we even did it live on the internet. The ceremony was progressive and exactly what we wanted it to be for us. Want to watch it, write me and I'll send you the link.
The end of this month Pickle will be two, its rather remarkable how fast he is growing up. My daughter will be eighteen soon and the difference between raising them both is just night and day.
The Lounge turned four this month already, it's kinda crazy. Over 2000 members at this point, this next year is a time of great change for my professionally.
My relationships continue strong and steady. Allena's cancer has been kicked and she made the decision to forgo augmentation and during it all she met someone super special to her. Amy remains a spit fire and so not one to fit into a label and the rest of the tribe are quite seriously more of a handful than I am.
Ben makes me laugh and reminds me to give myself a break now and again, I admire his outlook on life. Marilyn is the friend I wish I had twenty years ago, she has wisdom that I cherish. Sheryl shows me that one woman is capable of so much on her own. Victoria's struggles are an obvious reminder to me to take the time to listen to others, she is a source of strength. Judy is proof that regardless of age, love and a reshaping of ones life is always possible. Lisa has shown me a steady relationship of friendship based on respect. Clive hears me and always has the time, his family values are admirable and his advice is sound.
My health has been on a slow climb out of the depths of hell thankfully, but not without much suffering, piles of money spent on drugs and a lot of medical professionals helping me. To be fair, Jason carried me through the worst of it, and when he was unable to do it any longer, the hospital was there for me to be admitted to.
We did a complete remodel on the outside of our home as well and the renovation process was enough to make me feel like running away. But it's done now and damn, does it ever look fantastic. Both Jason and the companies we hired did a way better job than I ever could have hope for.
My Taboo Sex Show touring schedule for 2011 - 2012 started last week with a four day teaching gig in Calgary. Later this week, I head off to Edmonton to do it all over again, then no more shows till January with Taboo.
It has been a time of great introspection for me these past few months, I feel as though I am coming out of a fog. The rat race had kept me busy for so long, that slowing long enough to check in with me and take care of my family and priorities was just suddenly a must do item for me.
Friday, August 12, 2011
Thursday, August 11, 2011
Weight Loss Linked To Increased Sexual Function in Men
A recent article published in The Journal of Sexual Medicine presents research done by Professor Gary Wittert of the University of Adelaide that shows a very interesting relationship between weight and sexual function. The study looked at 31 obese men with type 2 diabetes, providing them with a reduced calorie or low-fat diet to induce weight lose. The results showed that after 8 weeks, when most men had lost a meager 5-10% of their body weight, the participants reported a rapid improvement in their sexual and urinary problems. The men continued to report improvement for the next 12 months. This evidence leads researchers to believe that erectile function and urinary tract symptoms are related to cardio-metabolic risks.
By now you would think we would have figured out that everything in the body is connected. Being healthy in one way, physically, mentally or emotionally, can often have unexpected effects on other parts of the body. By going on diets and trying to lose weight these men experienced the expected results of weight lose and easier management of their diabetes symptoms, but also got the more unexpected result of improved sexual function. Even a small weight decrease led to rapid sexual improvement. This shows that men who experience erectile dysfunction do not necessarily need to rush out to buy drugs and pills to improve their sex lives. Making a lifestyle change can be just as effective and can improve other health issues.
There are many reasons for people to lose weight, whether it is to become more healthy or to fit into one’s bathing suit. Some of these reasons are much more trivial than others; I’m sure most of us could discuss body image and weight for hours. Regardless of one’s reason for losing weight, this research shows that the relationship between weight and sexual function is more complicated than we had assumed.
Read more here in Science Daily
By now you would think we would have figured out that everything in the body is connected. Being healthy in one way, physically, mentally or emotionally, can often have unexpected effects on other parts of the body. By going on diets and trying to lose weight these men experienced the expected results of weight lose and easier management of their diabetes symptoms, but also got the more unexpected result of improved sexual function. Even a small weight decrease led to rapid sexual improvement. This shows that men who experience erectile dysfunction do not necessarily need to rush out to buy drugs and pills to improve their sex lives. Making a lifestyle change can be just as effective and can improve other health issues.
There are many reasons for people to lose weight, whether it is to become more healthy or to fit into one’s bathing suit. Some of these reasons are much more trivial than others; I’m sure most of us could discuss body image and weight for hours. Regardless of one’s reason for losing weight, this research shows that the relationship between weight and sexual function is more complicated than we had assumed.
Read more here in Science Daily
Wednesday, August 10, 2011
Vancouver Queer Film Festival - 23rd Annual
Vancouver's second largest film festival presents 106 bright and diverse films from 18 countries, August 11–21. Enjoy the best of queer cinema with bold documentaries, vivid dramas and vivacious romances. Join in our outrageous parties and help paint this town pink!
The GLBA is a proud to support the 23rd Vancouver Queer Film Festival. Check out The Wise Kids on August 20, 9:00pm at Empire Granville 7 Cinemas.
In a Baptist church community in Charleston, South Carolina, three teenage friends contemplate the next stage of life. The Wise Kids surpasses the typical standards of the coming-of-age genre; this film is neither cute nor precious. Instead the young protagonists transport us to a world of rare authenticity, depth and compassion.
There's Brea, an introspective pastor's daughter experiencing debilitating doubt; the hyperactive Laura, Brea's best friend and a devout believer; and Tim, the open-hearted son of a single father, confronting his homosexuality for the first time. Weaving comedy, drama and gentle-handed philosophy, The Wise Kids premiered at Outfest this July and took home two Juried awards: Best Screenplay and Best US Dramatic Feature.
"During my teenage years I also began grappling with faith and doubt and sexuality," director Steven Cone (the son of a Baptist minister himself) told The Advocate. "I know that there are millions of church youth out there right now, just trying to find their own way, this led me to make The Wise Kids."
For tickets, previews and more, visit our website.
The GLBA is a proud to support the 23rd Vancouver Queer Film Festival. Check out The Wise Kids on August 20, 9:00pm at Empire Granville 7 Cinemas.
In a Baptist church community in Charleston, South Carolina, three teenage friends contemplate the next stage of life. The Wise Kids surpasses the typical standards of the coming-of-age genre; this film is neither cute nor precious. Instead the young protagonists transport us to a world of rare authenticity, depth and compassion.
There's Brea, an introspective pastor's daughter experiencing debilitating doubt; the hyperactive Laura, Brea's best friend and a devout believer; and Tim, the open-hearted son of a single father, confronting his homosexuality for the first time. Weaving comedy, drama and gentle-handed philosophy, The Wise Kids premiered at Outfest this July and took home two Juried awards: Best Screenplay and Best US Dramatic Feature.
"During my teenage years I also began grappling with faith and doubt and sexuality," director Steven Cone (the son of a Baptist minister himself) told The Advocate. "I know that there are millions of church youth out there right now, just trying to find their own way, this led me to make The Wise Kids."
For tickets, previews and more, visit our website.
Tuesday, August 09, 2011
she's always at my side ...
and I love her for it.
Not a real kiss, more like "how you blow a trumpet". Taken in my kitchen by Jason and in front of all of our kids, hers included, hence the pucker. XOXO
Thursday, June 02, 2011
SULTRY Bath House Party - NEW
This month, for the first time ever in the history of Sultry, we are permitting a select number of single men to join in. This is also the last time we will host this event till the mid to late Fall.
SATURDAY JUNE 25, 8:30 - 11:30
SULTRY - bath house party
-open to women, men, couples and singles
Reservations & Tickets: jennifer@libidoevents.com
You DO NOT need to be a Libido Lounge member to attend SULTRY.
Tickets are $80 for General Public couples.
Tickets are $65 for Lounge Member couples.
Tickets are $35 for Single Lounge Member.
Tickets are $40 for Single Non Member.
All tickets are non refundable & non transferable.
PAYMENT IS DUE IN ADVANCE, NO TICKETS AT DOOR.
Tickets are $20 for Lounge Member Life Time Member couples & $10 for a Single LT Member.
SULTRY Steam, Sauna, Sex - Singles and Couples
Libido Events makes a private rental of a Bath House in Vancouver.
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An evening for the playfully adventurous: Just you and a whole posse of other exciting people, locked in for an evening of debauchery. With saunas, showers, play rooms, and massage tables, the stage is set for sensual, sexual, and fun games.
Get lathered up with countless other people in the shower (the lathering is mutual, of course); have a water fight; pair up (or triple up) for intimate play -- or watch other people while they do. Relax in the sauna between activities while Jennifer runs her version of Show & Tell (not quite the game you remember), Anal Ring Toss and Whipping Cream Get To Know You, have a snack or a cold drink, then dive back into the steam for more.
READ THESE ON SULTRY WHICH WAS WRITTEN BY PREVIOUS ATTENDEES
http://libidoevents.blogspot.com/2008/05/from-new-couple.html
http://sweatshopsissy.com/index.php/2010/09/sultry/
Tickets are first come, first served and are purchased by writing Jennifer@libidoevents.com
Once payment is received, the address and other relevant party info will be sent to you. Be sure to include your email address and your full legal names.
* All inclusive: Entrance to the event, finger foods, non-alcoholic beverages, lounge room entertainment, fun, play stations, safer-sex supplies...
* ...Social lounge with TV and refreshments, play rooms (with recovery beds and massage tables), two large shower rooms, two large steam rooms
* You'll wear whatever you think you can handle in a hot, wet, steamy environment and you'll pack your favorite sex toys, water guns, cans of whipping cream, bottles of chocolate, body paints and anything else risque you can think of to do or use in this super unique space.
* Our own masseuse for couples massages (there is an additional charge of $20 for 15 minutes). Sign up when you arrive!
SATURDAY JUNE 25, 8:30 - 11:30
SULTRY - bath house party
-open to women, men, couples and singles
Reservations & Tickets: jennifer@libidoevents.com
You DO NOT need to be a Libido Lounge member to attend SULTRY.
Tickets are $80 for General Public couples.
Tickets are $65 for Lounge Member couples.
Tickets are $35 for Single Lounge Member.
Tickets are $40 for Single Non Member.
All tickets are non refundable & non transferable.
PAYMENT IS DUE IN ADVANCE, NO TICKETS AT DOOR.
Tickets are $20 for Lounge Member Life Time Member couples & $10 for a Single LT Member.
SULTRY Steam, Sauna, Sex - Singles and Couples
Libido Events makes a private rental of a Bath House in Vancouver.
~~~~~ SULTRY ~~~~~
An evening for the playfully adventurous: Just you and a whole posse of other exciting people, locked in for an evening of debauchery. With saunas, showers, play rooms, and massage tables, the stage is set for sensual, sexual, and fun games.
Get lathered up with countless other people in the shower (the lathering is mutual, of course); have a water fight; pair up (or triple up) for intimate play -- or watch other people while they do. Relax in the sauna between activities while Jennifer runs her version of Show & Tell (not quite the game you remember), Anal Ring Toss and Whipping Cream Get To Know You, have a snack or a cold drink, then dive back into the steam for more.
READ THESE ON SULTRY WHICH WAS WRITTEN BY PREVIOUS ATTENDEES
http://libidoevents.blogspot.com/2008/05/from-new-couple.html
http://sweatshopsissy.com/index.php/2010/09/sultry/
Tickets are first come, first served and are purchased by writing Jennifer@libidoevents.com
Once payment is received, the address and other relevant party info will be sent to you. Be sure to include your email address and your full legal names.
* All inclusive: Entrance to the event, finger foods, non-alcoholic beverages, lounge room entertainment, fun, play stations, safer-sex supplies...
* ...Social lounge with TV and refreshments, play rooms (with recovery beds and massage tables), two large shower rooms, two large steam rooms
* You'll wear whatever you think you can handle in a hot, wet, steamy environment and you'll pack your favorite sex toys, water guns, cans of whipping cream, bottles of chocolate, body paints and anything else risque you can think of to do or use in this super unique space.
* Our own masseuse for couples massages (there is an additional charge of $20 for 15 minutes). Sign up when you arrive!
Thursday, May 26, 2011
Bondage Classes & Dungeon Party - June 2011
Start Spreading The Word....
Max of Seattle is returning to the Lounge to teach another four intoxicating bondage classes and to be our guest of honor for our June Dungeon Players Party. Max's classes have a price increase at the end of this month and his classes are all pre sale tickets only, to save yourself money and to ensure you make the guest list, you'll want to write me for ticketing information ASAP. Information on each class, what to expect and what to bring can be found by reading further along for the event descriptions.
Max's last round of classes at the Lounge were all 2 hours and due to their popularity, this time round all of his classes are 2.5 hours long, giving you even more skill set development time with this guru. Come alone or be partnered up, it will all work out.
Max's classes are:
1. High Security Rope Bondage
2. Bondage For Sex
3. Bondage 201
4. Mean Rope for Sadists and Masochists along with an evening party
5. Plus, an evening play party "Dungeon Players"
QUESTIONS, COMMENTS, TICKETS: jennifer@libidoevents.com
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Description
Reservations and prepayment are mandatory, no tickets will be sold on the day of the event. Tickets are non refundable and non transferable.
Questions, Payment, Reservations: jennifer@libidoevents.com
Ever had someone "escape" from your bondage? Have you ever managed to get away - or not get away - from someone else's bondage? Whatever your orientation, bondage is all about escape, and this workshop focuses on playing with that "escape energy".
If you're a rope top, you'll learn - and see - a wealth of techniques you can use to make your bondage more secure. If you're an aspiring escapee, you'll get a chance to add to your "tools and tricks" repertoire. And if you just want a good show, come watch us pit those two skills against each other.
Most of our time will be spent using people from the audience to demonstrate ways to make rope bondage more escape-proof.
Bottoms will have an opportunity to wriggle their way out while we analyze their technique. We may have opportunities for tops to test their mettle too. And there's a handout you can use as a reminder when you're practicing at home.
Since the class will be structured as a demo, there's no need to have a practice partner, to bring rope or to have any prerequisite skills. If you're interested, there will be plenty of opportunities for you to participate. If you'd rather just watch, there will be plenty of entertainment. Rope Bottoms - this is a great chance to get tied up and to showcase your escape skills.
As always, the emphasis is on learning and having fun.
This workshop is appropriate for all skill levels and all genders / orientations.
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Description
Reservations and prepayment are mandatory, no tickets will be sold on the day of the event. Tickets are non refundable and non transferable.
Questions, Payment, Reservations: jennifer@libidoevents.com
Bondage for sex isn't as simple as you might think. It's easy to make mistakes - resulting in a perfectly nice bondage scene and no ready way to make the sex part work. We'll help you avoid this frustrating experience.
This workshop will get us right into the "what is sex" debate, and we'll be using a pretty liberal definition. Rest assured that we're NOT limiting the workshop to boy-girl penis-vagina sex here. As with all of Max's workshops this workshop is appropriate for all genders and orientations.
Topics to be covered include general considerations, a few useful knots and a variety of interesting positions.
We'll have instruction. We'll have demos. And yes - we'll have plenty of hands-on practice. Sorry - the demos and practice won't include actual sex -you'll have to stay for the party to practice the sex part.
Much of the class will consist of hands-on exercises so you'll have plenty of time to practice and enjoy what you've learned. And, as always, the handout distributed at the workshop will help you when you practice at home
If you can, come with a practice partner. If you don't have a partner, come anyway and we'll make sure you get a chance to practice the basic techniques. Rope Bottoms - this is your chance to meet some rope tops - come learn and get tied up!
Some rope will be provided for the workshop, but bring the following if you can
• (4) 10-foot pieces of 5/16" (8mm) or 3/8"
• (2) 30-foot piece of 5/16" (8mm) or 3/8"
This workshop assumes no previous bondage experience, and is appropriate for all genders and orientations.
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Description
Reservations and prepayment are mandatory, no tickets will be sold on the day of the event. Tickets are non refundable and non transferable.
Questions, Payment, Reservations: jennifer@libidoevents.com
Many of us like rope bondage because it's pretty, sensual and intimate. Tops often like demonstrating their technical skills and bottoms often enjoy the firm, snug caress of the rope.
And some of us like being mean with our bondage - or like being tied up in mean ways.
Come learn more about using rope to produce powerful scenes and intense sensation.
We'll cover motivation, technique, safety and some style elements which complement this type of play.
Most of our time will be spent on demonstrations and discussion but there will be a few opportunities for hands-on practice.
If you're a top and part of your kinky repertoire is SM-based, you'll want to see how you can use rope to facilitate your scenes.
If you're a bottom and you crave the intensity of physically demanding scenes, you won't want to miss these demonstrations and discussions. You'll have opportunities to add to your skill set and mingle with a bunch of mean tops. And - Max will be looking for demo bottoms during the workshop.
A practice partner will be useful for the hands-on portions of the workshop but you'll also get lots out of this workshop if you come alone.
As with all of Max's workshops, there's a handout you can use as a memory aid when you're practicing at home.
Please bring two 30’ lengths of 6mm or 8mm rope and a few 15' lengths of 4mm if you can.
This workshop is appropriate for all skill levels and all genders / orientations. The emphasis is on learning and having fun.
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4. ROPE BONDAGE 201
Max of Seattle at Libido Lounge
Sunday, June 19, 2011
4:00 PM to 06:30 PM
where: Libido Lounge
address: members have our address, non members can email for it map
cost: $30 members, $35 non members / June 1 price increases by $5 for each class
dress code: no dress code - comfortable clothing advised
Description
Reservations and prepayment are mandatory, no tickets will be sold on the day of the event. Tickets are non refundable and non transferable.
Questions, Payment, Reservations: jennifer@libidoevents.com
So – you've learned the "fundamentals" and now you're ready for more.
This workshop helps you get to the next level by addressing the subtler topics which are applicable to most rope bondage scenes.
We'll talk about rope – types, diameters, strength – and we'll have plenty of rope on-hand to feel and evaluate.
We'll talk about resources for rope bondage – where to find rope, hardware, and information.
We'll talk about knots, and we'll practice some of the basic knots you'll use in your bondage scenes.
We'll talk about bondage positions - for fun, for pleasure, for pain, for sex, and for aesthetics.
And we'll talk about the "soft" parts of a bondage scene – things like rhythm, pace, connection, and showmanship. These are the things they never tell you in the books or on the web.
Much of the class will consist of hands-on exercises to help you get familiar with the material in a friendly, low-pressure environment. The emphasis is on learning, having fun, and building confidence.
If you can, come with a practice partner. If you don't have a partner, come anyway and we'll make sure you get a chance to practice the basic techniques. Rope Bottoms - this is your chance to meet some rope tops - come learn and get tied up!
Some rope will be provided for the workshop, but bring the following if you can
• (2) 10-foot pieces of 5/16" (8mm) or 3/8"
• (3) 30-foot piece of 5/16" (8mm) or 3/8"
This workshop assumes no previous bondage experience, and is appropriate for all genders and orientations.
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5. DUNGEON PLAYERS PARTY, Saturday June 18
“with guest of honor, Max"
Saturday, June 18, 2011
9:00 PM to 01:00 AM
where: Libido Lounge
address: members have our address, non members can email for it
cost: $30 members, $35 non members / $25 if attending all 4 classes
dress code: risque, fetish, kinky, fetish, lingerie, leather - no street wear, no jeans
Description
Libido Lounge is pleased to present our June Dungeon Party featuring Max from Seattle as our guest of honor.
Seeing as Max is presenting FOUR bondage classes over the weekend, we just knew all our guests would welcome the chance to party alongside him, send in your reservations and payment now.
Come take part, we welcome you.
DUNGEON PLAYERS PARTY
SATURDAY JUNE 18, 9 pm - 1 am
Members $30 / Member Couples $50 / Guest $35
Reservations: jennifer@libidoevents.com
SPECIAL GUEST THIS MONTH: MAX
Please note that you must also have your $25 cash renewal cost on you if your member number is PRE 850. And your renewal is good for 12 months.
Dungeon Players is a Naughty party with darker tenor. Of course everything you expect and are used to will be there -- the suspension rack, spankers, gyno table, red rocket, set of stocks, cage, sex machines, bondage table, A-frame and bondage chair -- but there'll also be an area set aside for needle play, and there may be a few surprises.
Spankings, Bondage, Floggings, Needle Play, D/s, a plethora of styles of play.
Wear your leathers, bring your slave or your top; come meet someone new or play with someone different -- either way you'll have an evening to remember.
Snacks and beverages are included in your ticket price.
Dress code: You MUST make an effort to dress up. No street clothes, no business suits, no blue jeans, no running shoes, no athletic wear, no camouflage pants, no flannel robes, no sunglasses, and no face masks. Bar/Dancing clothing is not acceptable.
This party is open to men and women, couples and singles. Any type of sex is of course permitted at this event.
Max of Seattle is returning to the Lounge to teach another four intoxicating bondage classes and to be our guest of honor for our June Dungeon Players Party. Max's classes have a price increase at the end of this month and his classes are all pre sale tickets only, to save yourself money and to ensure you make the guest list, you'll want to write me for ticketing information ASAP. Information on each class, what to expect and what to bring can be found by reading further along for the event descriptions.
Max's last round of classes at the Lounge were all 2 hours and due to their popularity, this time round all of his classes are 2.5 hours long, giving you even more skill set development time with this guru. Come alone or be partnered up, it will all work out.
Max's classes are:
1. High Security Rope Bondage
2. Bondage For Sex
3. Bondage 201
4. Mean Rope for Sadists and Masochists along with an evening party
5. Plus, an evening play party "Dungeon Players"
QUESTIONS, COMMENTS, TICKETS: jennifer@libidoevents.com
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1. HIGH SECURITY ROPE BONDAGE
Max of Seattle at Libido Lounge
Saturday, June 18, 2011
1:00 PM to 03:30 PM
where: Libido Lounge
address: members have our address, non members can email for it map
cost: $30 members, $35 non members / June 1 price increases by $5 for each class
dress code: no dress code - comfortable clothing advised
Max of Seattle at Libido Lounge
Saturday, June 18, 2011
1:00 PM to 03:30 PM
where: Libido Lounge
address: members have our address, non members can email for it map
cost: $30 members, $35 non members / June 1 price increases by $5 for each class
dress code: no dress code - comfortable clothing advised
Description
Reservations and prepayment are mandatory, no tickets will be sold on the day of the event. Tickets are non refundable and non transferable.
Questions, Payment, Reservations: jennifer@libidoevents.com
Ever had someone "escape" from your bondage? Have you ever managed to get away - or not get away - from someone else's bondage? Whatever your orientation, bondage is all about escape, and this workshop focuses on playing with that "escape energy".
If you're a rope top, you'll learn - and see - a wealth of techniques you can use to make your bondage more secure. If you're an aspiring escapee, you'll get a chance to add to your "tools and tricks" repertoire. And if you just want a good show, come watch us pit those two skills against each other.
Most of our time will be spent using people from the audience to demonstrate ways to make rope bondage more escape-proof.
Bottoms will have an opportunity to wriggle their way out while we analyze their technique. We may have opportunities for tops to test their mettle too. And there's a handout you can use as a reminder when you're practicing at home.
Since the class will be structured as a demo, there's no need to have a practice partner, to bring rope or to have any prerequisite skills. If you're interested, there will be plenty of opportunities for you to participate. If you'd rather just watch, there will be plenty of entertainment. Rope Bottoms - this is a great chance to get tied up and to showcase your escape skills.
As always, the emphasis is on learning and having fun.
This workshop is appropriate for all skill levels and all genders / orientations.
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2. BONDAGE FOR SEX
Max of Seattle at Libido Lounge
Saturday, June 18, 2011
4:00 PM to 06:30 PM
where: Libido Lounge
address: members have our address, non members can email for it map
cost: $30 members, $35 non members / June 1 price increases by $5 for each class
dress code: no dress code - comfortable clothing advised
Max of Seattle at Libido Lounge
Saturday, June 18, 2011
4:00 PM to 06:30 PM
where: Libido Lounge
address: members have our address, non members can email for it map
cost: $30 members, $35 non members / June 1 price increases by $5 for each class
dress code: no dress code - comfortable clothing advised
Description
Reservations and prepayment are mandatory, no tickets will be sold on the day of the event. Tickets are non refundable and non transferable.
Questions, Payment, Reservations: jennifer@libidoevents.com
Bondage for sex isn't as simple as you might think. It's easy to make mistakes - resulting in a perfectly nice bondage scene and no ready way to make the sex part work. We'll help you avoid this frustrating experience.
This workshop will get us right into the "what is sex" debate, and we'll be using a pretty liberal definition. Rest assured that we're NOT limiting the workshop to boy-girl penis-vagina sex here. As with all of Max's workshops this workshop is appropriate for all genders and orientations.
Topics to be covered include general considerations, a few useful knots and a variety of interesting positions.
We'll have instruction. We'll have demos. And yes - we'll have plenty of hands-on practice. Sorry - the demos and practice won't include actual sex -you'll have to stay for the party to practice the sex part.
Much of the class will consist of hands-on exercises so you'll have plenty of time to practice and enjoy what you've learned. And, as always, the handout distributed at the workshop will help you when you practice at home
If you can, come with a practice partner. If you don't have a partner, come anyway and we'll make sure you get a chance to practice the basic techniques. Rope Bottoms - this is your chance to meet some rope tops - come learn and get tied up!
Some rope will be provided for the workshop, but bring the following if you can
• (4) 10-foot pieces of 5/16" (8mm) or 3/8"
• (2) 30-foot piece of 5/16" (8mm) or 3/8"
This workshop assumes no previous bondage experience, and is appropriate for all genders and orientations.
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3. MEAN ROPE - Rope Skills for Sadists and Masochists
Max of Seattle at Libido Lounge
Sunday, June 19, 2011
1:00 PM to 03:30 PM
where: Libido Lounge
address: members have our address, non members can email for it map
cost: $30 members, $35 non members / June 1 price increases by $5 for each class
dress code: no dress code - comfortable clothing advised
Max of Seattle at Libido Lounge
Sunday, June 19, 2011
1:00 PM to 03:30 PM
where: Libido Lounge
address: members have our address, non members can email for it map
cost: $30 members, $35 non members / June 1 price increases by $5 for each class
dress code: no dress code - comfortable clothing advised
Description
Reservations and prepayment are mandatory, no tickets will be sold on the day of the event. Tickets are non refundable and non transferable.
Questions, Payment, Reservations: jennifer@libidoevents.com
Many of us like rope bondage because it's pretty, sensual and intimate. Tops often like demonstrating their technical skills and bottoms often enjoy the firm, snug caress of the rope.
And some of us like being mean with our bondage - or like being tied up in mean ways.
Come learn more about using rope to produce powerful scenes and intense sensation.
We'll cover motivation, technique, safety and some style elements which complement this type of play.
Most of our time will be spent on demonstrations and discussion but there will be a few opportunities for hands-on practice.
If you're a top and part of your kinky repertoire is SM-based, you'll want to see how you can use rope to facilitate your scenes.
If you're a bottom and you crave the intensity of physically demanding scenes, you won't want to miss these demonstrations and discussions. You'll have opportunities to add to your skill set and mingle with a bunch of mean tops. And - Max will be looking for demo bottoms during the workshop.
A practice partner will be useful for the hands-on portions of the workshop but you'll also get lots out of this workshop if you come alone.
As with all of Max's workshops, there's a handout you can use as a memory aid when you're practicing at home.
Please bring two 30’ lengths of 6mm or 8mm rope and a few 15' lengths of 4mm if you can.
This workshop is appropriate for all skill levels and all genders / orientations. The emphasis is on learning and having fun.
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4. ROPE BONDAGE 201
Max of Seattle at Libido Lounge
Sunday, June 19, 2011
4:00 PM to 06:30 PM
where: Libido Lounge
address: members have our address, non members can email for it map
cost: $30 members, $35 non members / June 1 price increases by $5 for each class
dress code: no dress code - comfortable clothing advised
Description
Reservations and prepayment are mandatory, no tickets will be sold on the day of the event. Tickets are non refundable and non transferable.
Questions, Payment, Reservations: jennifer@libidoevents.com
So – you've learned the "fundamentals" and now you're ready for more.
This workshop helps you get to the next level by addressing the subtler topics which are applicable to most rope bondage scenes.
We'll talk about rope – types, diameters, strength – and we'll have plenty of rope on-hand to feel and evaluate.
We'll talk about resources for rope bondage – where to find rope, hardware, and information.
We'll talk about knots, and we'll practice some of the basic knots you'll use in your bondage scenes.
We'll talk about bondage positions - for fun, for pleasure, for pain, for sex, and for aesthetics.
And we'll talk about the "soft" parts of a bondage scene – things like rhythm, pace, connection, and showmanship. These are the things they never tell you in the books or on the web.
Much of the class will consist of hands-on exercises to help you get familiar with the material in a friendly, low-pressure environment. The emphasis is on learning, having fun, and building confidence.
If you can, come with a practice partner. If you don't have a partner, come anyway and we'll make sure you get a chance to practice the basic techniques. Rope Bottoms - this is your chance to meet some rope tops - come learn and get tied up!
Some rope will be provided for the workshop, but bring the following if you can
• (2) 10-foot pieces of 5/16" (8mm) or 3/8"
• (3) 30-foot piece of 5/16" (8mm) or 3/8"
This workshop assumes no previous bondage experience, and is appropriate for all genders and orientations.
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5. DUNGEON PLAYERS PARTY, Saturday June 18
“with guest of honor, Max"
Saturday, June 18, 2011
9:00 PM to 01:00 AM
where: Libido Lounge
address: members have our address, non members can email for it
cost: $30 members, $35 non members / $25 if attending all 4 classes
dress code: risque, fetish, kinky, fetish, lingerie, leather - no street wear, no jeans
Description
Libido Lounge is pleased to present our June Dungeon Party featuring Max from Seattle as our guest of honor.
Seeing as Max is presenting FOUR bondage classes over the weekend, we just knew all our guests would welcome the chance to party alongside him, send in your reservations and payment now.
Come take part, we welcome you.
DUNGEON PLAYERS PARTY
SATURDAY JUNE 18, 9 pm - 1 am
Members $30 / Member Couples $50 / Guest $35
Reservations: jennifer@libidoevents.com
SPECIAL GUEST THIS MONTH: MAX
Please note that you must also have your $25 cash renewal cost on you if your member number is PRE 850. And your renewal is good for 12 months.
Dungeon Players is a Naughty party with darker tenor. Of course everything you expect and are used to will be there -- the suspension rack, spankers, gyno table, red rocket, set of stocks, cage, sex machines, bondage table, A-frame and bondage chair -- but there'll also be an area set aside for needle play, and there may be a few surprises.
Spankings, Bondage, Floggings, Needle Play, D/s, a plethora of styles of play.
Wear your leathers, bring your slave or your top; come meet someone new or play with someone different -- either way you'll have an evening to remember.
Snacks and beverages are included in your ticket price.
Dress code: You MUST make an effort to dress up. No street clothes, no business suits, no blue jeans, no running shoes, no athletic wear, no camouflage pants, no flannel robes, no sunglasses, and no face masks. Bar/Dancing clothing is not acceptable.
This party is open to men and women, couples and singles. Any type of sex is of course permitted at this event.
Friday, May 20, 2011
Breasts Hand Painted
Exploratorium is always a blast, it is the Lounges kinky carnival. This month we had a couple of new booths that turned out really well. And we changed up how the event runs too and things turned out great. Seeing as I have been under the weather, the team of people running everything has done so splendidly and without incident. I am proud to be considered a friend to such wonderful caring people who surround me both at home and at work as volunteers and as confidants.
The new booth Sharp Pointy Things, Knives & Claws was received with glowing praise by those who submitted on a gynecological table to the woman running the booth's evil ways.
And the body painting booth, was a perfect new addition. Wonderful woman, sexy as all hell, flirtatious, and a killer attitude and she paints, on anything, skin included. This is the art work that Eiralyn did on me and the evil woman's chests.
And all the volunteers running the other booths always do such an exceptional job. Seeing as most of the volunteers if not all, are people I call friends, I am not surprised that the event is such a positive experience for those who take part.
Monday, May 16, 2011
Sunday, May 15, 2011
Libido Lounge Event Reviews
In a moment of weakness after the Sensual Massage Event I promised Jennifer I'd write about my personal experience as a new member of Libido Lounge.
I suppose the possibility of being posted on her blog was more than my inner exhibitionist could resist.
Yet, at this moment my only thought is why the fuck did I agree? Experiencing a new level of open communication (and great sex with your spouse) is one thing, trying to actually write it down is something else…
New Member Orientation:
Saying we would attend was easy. Making the reservation with Jennifer was easy. Driving to the Libido Lounge was a breeze. Getting out of the car was incredibly difficult… "Shit, what are we doing..." "Maybe we’re early and should just circle the block one more time..." "Who's idea was this again?" "Your perfume is too strong my nose is already burning, need some air…"
Yet, as we approached the front door the most extroverted and charismatic lady I've ever met in my life (that’d be Jennifer) whisked us inside with hugs and encouragement to the point where it felt a bit like the movie Charlie and the Chocolate Factory. The New Members Orientation talk itself was exactly as one would imagine a “first conversation” might be. On the other hand Jennifer is beyond words – OK perhaps I just don't have the finesse of vocabulary required to properly describe this incredible lady. That feat would require the tongue {and mind} of a renaissance writer.
We found the Orientation Meeting really turned into a conduit for my spouse (of 10 years) and I to quite literally blow the door WIDE OPEN on communication. It started in the car and carried on for days after we got home, maybe even a full week... "You'd really like to try that?" "I never knew - right now?" "In that position - where…" "Are you sure you're OK with that?" "Yes please." Wow.
Sensual Massage:
I’ve never been really comfortable with my body, especially in public, but this time I was armed with some sexy new underwear (both the store clerk and my spouse had privately assured me it was sexy, hmmm). Just to make it that much more difficult on myself; I can’t remember actually having been massaged in my life. It’s just not something that I’d ever looked for.
This time it was different. This time it was about opening up my mind, about stepping outside of the comfort zone, getting rid of the usual boundaries in a positive and liberating way. At work I can force myself and introduce my way into groups of strangers, it’s part of my job – but oh, gosh, golly, gee in my underwear – really?
Once at the Libido Lounge someone ever so politely suggested I might want get a soft drink – “Oh, they’re in the fridge”. OK, thanks. Introductions were made and as with the gentle yet firm transition from winter to spring, it became so clear that everyone was very “comfortable in their own skin”. Not in an overconfident kind of way, in fact the environment felt warm and welcoming, so cordial, very polite, very normal people with the ever-present tantalizing knowledge of the touch that was to come… Then there was organization, people, tables, towels, oils, “Who’s first?” Me, um well OK… Followed by the heavenly sensation of blissful touches which absolutely consumed me…. and I was converted for life.
Through a fog of sensation I hear the words, “Look up.” Pardon? I open my eyes to find I’m surrounded by 6 gorgeous breasts, nipples, rings, smiles…. it was not mandatory, it was not asked for, it was a gift freely given by 3 charming ladies and hopefully as graciously received (although I was probably dazed and drooling by this point) Told to close my mouth as my face was smothered... Queen’s lyrics drifting through my mind – is this the real world, or is this just fantasy…
There was a change, now it’s somebody else’s turn. More oil –the tension of anticipation. To touch the person you love with other people, and to touch others along with the one you love - to share, to enjoy, to see a loved one and other people all experiencing pure happiness by touch alone is truly a divine gift.
I’d never experienced anything like this in my life. Participating with a loved one just made it Oh, so much better. The confidence, the intimacy, the trust, the naked truth of others was truly incredible. Food for the soul.
I suppose the possibility of being posted on her blog was more than my inner exhibitionist could resist.
Yet, at this moment my only thought is why the fuck did I agree? Experiencing a new level of open communication (and great sex with your spouse) is one thing, trying to actually write it down is something else…
New Member Orientation:
Saying we would attend was easy. Making the reservation with Jennifer was easy. Driving to the Libido Lounge was a breeze. Getting out of the car was incredibly difficult… "Shit, what are we doing..." "Maybe we’re early and should just circle the block one more time..." "Who's idea was this again?" "Your perfume is too strong my nose is already burning, need some air…"
Yet, as we approached the front door the most extroverted and charismatic lady I've ever met in my life (that’d be Jennifer) whisked us inside with hugs and encouragement to the point where it felt a bit like the movie Charlie and the Chocolate Factory. The New Members Orientation talk itself was exactly as one would imagine a “first conversation” might be. On the other hand Jennifer is beyond words – OK perhaps I just don't have the finesse of vocabulary required to properly describe this incredible lady. That feat would require the tongue {and mind} of a renaissance writer.
We found the Orientation Meeting really turned into a conduit for my spouse (of 10 years) and I to quite literally blow the door WIDE OPEN on communication. It started in the car and carried on for days after we got home, maybe even a full week... "You'd really like to try that?" "I never knew - right now?" "In that position - where…" "Are you sure you're OK with that?" "Yes please." Wow.
Sensual Massage:
I’ve never been really comfortable with my body, especially in public, but this time I was armed with some sexy new underwear (both the store clerk and my spouse had privately assured me it was sexy, hmmm). Just to make it that much more difficult on myself; I can’t remember actually having been massaged in my life. It’s just not something that I’d ever looked for.
This time it was different. This time it was about opening up my mind, about stepping outside of the comfort zone, getting rid of the usual boundaries in a positive and liberating way. At work I can force myself and introduce my way into groups of strangers, it’s part of my job – but oh, gosh, golly, gee in my underwear – really?
Once at the Libido Lounge someone ever so politely suggested I might want get a soft drink – “Oh, they’re in the fridge”. OK, thanks. Introductions were made and as with the gentle yet firm transition from winter to spring, it became so clear that everyone was very “comfortable in their own skin”. Not in an overconfident kind of way, in fact the environment felt warm and welcoming, so cordial, very polite, very normal people with the ever-present tantalizing knowledge of the touch that was to come… Then there was organization, people, tables, towels, oils, “Who’s first?” Me, um well OK… Followed by the heavenly sensation of blissful touches which absolutely consumed me…. and I was converted for life.
Through a fog of sensation I hear the words, “Look up.” Pardon? I open my eyes to find I’m surrounded by 6 gorgeous breasts, nipples, rings, smiles…. it was not mandatory, it was not asked for, it was a gift freely given by 3 charming ladies and hopefully as graciously received (although I was probably dazed and drooling by this point) Told to close my mouth as my face was smothered... Queen’s lyrics drifting through my mind – is this the real world, or is this just fantasy…
There was a change, now it’s somebody else’s turn. More oil –the tension of anticipation. To touch the person you love with other people, and to touch others along with the one you love - to share, to enjoy, to see a loved one and other people all experiencing pure happiness by touch alone is truly a divine gift.
I’d never experienced anything like this in my life. Participating with a loved one just made it Oh, so much better. The confidence, the intimacy, the trust, the naked truth of others was truly incredible. Food for the soul.
Tuesday, April 19, 2011
BDSM Class
The Whip Like A Pro Class with Jonn Ireland in May at the Lounge SOLD OUT within days of my announcing it here on my blog. All the seats were snatched up by those in the know.
To keep everyone happy and to continue meeting the demand, Jonn and I have opened a second Whip Like A Pro class on the same day for the over-flow of people wanting to take part.
Class # 2 is from 4:30 - 6:30. Tickets are $25 for Lounge members still and $30 for guests, if you want to take part in this class, you'll need to write me for ticketing information.
Currently, five of the 21 seats in class #2 are sold and I suspect the rest will go with rapid speed as well.
So, get yours now!
jennifer@libidoevents.com
To keep everyone happy and to continue meeting the demand, Jonn and I have opened a second Whip Like A Pro class on the same day for the over-flow of people wanting to take part.
Class # 2 is from 4:30 - 6:30. Tickets are $25 for Lounge members still and $30 for guests, if you want to take part in this class, you'll need to write me for ticketing information.
Currently, five of the 21 seats in class #2 are sold and I suspect the rest will go with rapid speed as well.
So, get yours now!
jennifer@libidoevents.com
Monday, April 18, 2011
BDSM Party Vancouver
Dungeon Players
Saturday April 23, 9 pm - 1 am
Members $30 / Member Couples $50 / Guest $35
Reservations: jennifer@libidoevents.com
Dungeon Players is a Naughty party with darker tenor. Of course everything you expect and are used to will be there -- the suspension rack, spankers, gyno table, red rocket, set of stocks, cage, sex machines, bondage table, A-frame and bondage chair -- but there'll also be an area set aside for needle play, and there may be a few surprises.
Spankings, Bondage, Floggings, Needle Play, D/s, a plethora of styles of play.
Wear your leathers, bring your slave or your top; come meet someone new or play with someone different -- either way you'll have an evening to remember.
Snacks and beverages are included in your ticket price.
Dress code: You MUST make an effort to dress up. No street clothes, no business suits, no blue jeans, no running shoes, no athletic wear, no camouflage pants, no flannel robes, no sunglasses, and no face masks. Bar/Dancing clothing is not acceptable.
This party is open to men and women, couples and singles. Any type of sex is of course permitted at this event.
Sunday, April 17, 2011
Sexual Acts for Shoes
A little while ago, I made a post about Sucking Dick For Shoes. Remember? It seemed so straight forward.
A man read that post and then started writing me most eagerly. This is his second, most amusing note to me on the subject.
I have no clue what to do with his email ... delete it, or even bother to answer it. I answered the first one in such a way that I was fairly confident he would not write again, and damn it, he did. What a man won't do for a blow job, hey?
This man seems quite prepared to buy me new shoes. I wonder if his name is Jason, because I clearly stated in my original post that I suck Jason's dick for shoes.
I make way more than enough money to buy myself fancy ass shoes whenever I want, though sucking dick for them is always more fun. And cock sucking burns a few calories and makes my guy smile too. Its a win for us all. Well, except for the man who keeps writing me, as I won't ever be blowing him.
*his name is not really Penis Owner, I just changed it, to protect him from the hordes of women who would surely try contacting him to offer to suck his dick for shoes if they knew who he was.
A man read that post and then started writing me most eagerly. This is his second, most amusing note to me on the subject.
Hi Jennifer
I hope you don't take this insulting in any ways. I am able to fulfill the role of purchaser for shoes if you don't have any restrictions for your statement. I just don't know it is a particular pair of shoes you desire or it is a certain number of shoes or it can be any chic shoes. I would be happy if you inform me, and also if I misunderstood the whole concept, I deeply apologize.
Kindest Regards
Penis Owner*
I have no clue what to do with his email ... delete it, or even bother to answer it. I answered the first one in such a way that I was fairly confident he would not write again, and damn it, he did. What a man won't do for a blow job, hey?
This man seems quite prepared to buy me new shoes. I wonder if his name is Jason, because I clearly stated in my original post that I suck Jason's dick for shoes.
I make way more than enough money to buy myself fancy ass shoes whenever I want, though sucking dick for them is always more fun. And cock sucking burns a few calories and makes my guy smile too. Its a win for us all. Well, except for the man who keeps writing me, as I won't ever be blowing him.
*his name is not really Penis Owner, I just changed it, to protect him from the hordes of women who would surely try contacting him to offer to suck his dick for shoes if they knew who he was.
Friday, April 15, 2011
SLUT Walk Vancouver
Sunday May 15, 2011
Time: TBA
Place: TBA (downtown Vancouver)
Cost: Free
What To Wear: Slutty, Sexy, Kinky, Provocative, JUST BE YOU ....
Bring: Friends & Signage
Time: TBA
Place: TBA (downtown Vancouver)
Cost: Free
What To Wear: Slutty, Sexy, Kinky, Provocative, JUST BE YOU ....
Bring: Friends & Signage
Description
Follow us on Twitter @SlutWalkVan.
Email us at slutwalkvancouver@gmail.com
Event route and the exact time is not yet set. I will announce here those details as soon as I hear word.
This an everyone-welcome kind of event.
We, as Vancouverite's are uniting with SlutWalk Toronto to move against intolerance and towards education.
BECAUSE WE’VE HAD ENOUGH!
This is cross-posted from SlutWalk Toronto:
On January 24th, 2011, a representative of the Toronto Police gave shocking insight into the Force’s view of sexual assault by stating: “women should avoid dressing like sluts in order not to be victimized”.
As the city’s major protective service, the Toronto Police have perpetuated the myth and stereotype of ‘the slut’, and in doing so have failed us. With sexual assault already a significantly under-reported crime, survivors have now been given even less of a reason to go to the Police, for fear that they could be blamed. Being assaulted isn’t about what you wear; it’s not even about sex; but using a pejorative term to rationalize inexcusable behavior creates an environment in which it’s okay to blame the victim.
Historically, the term ‘slut’ has carried a predominantly negative connotation. Aimed at those who are sexually promiscuous, be it for work or pleasure, it has primarily been women who have suffered under the burden of this label. And whether dished out as a serious indictment of one’s character or merely as a flippant insult, the intent behind the word is always to wound, so we’re taking it back. “Slut” is being re-appropriated.
We are tired of being oppressed by slut-shaming; of being judged by our sexuality and feeling unsafe as a result. Being in charge of our sexual lives should not mean that we are opening ourselves to an expectation of violence, regardless if we participate in sex for pleasure or work. No one should equate enjoying sex with attracting sexual assault.
Thursday, April 14, 2011
Whip Class Vancouver
Saturday May 14, 7 - 9 PM
Tickets $25 member / $30 guest
Reservations & Tickets: jennifer@libidoevents.com
Whip Like A Pro In The Dungeon - 2 Hours
no experience necessary
This is a "Hands on Workshop" presented by Jonn Ireland, Whip Master of Seattle.
Bring your whips, if you have them, otherwise we have many to loan or sell. Participants will learn and practice the various techniques outlined.
Each technique will be demonstrated on my submissive so that everyone may be able to see how particular skills are applied in a Scene and used directly on a live body.
You will learn to use a Bullwhip for wraps and hard strikes to add spice to your Scene, several different ways to throw a Signal or Snake Whip, different and unusual areas to strike the body, positions to use in a Scene when you do not have a rack or a cross, techniques for limited space (like a bedroom), bondage and whips and "trance whipping". There will be a demonstration of double handed, matched whip work.
Whip techniques can vary from light wraps brushing skin with the whip tips, to using the whip tip for cracks off and then on the skin, each one producing different effects on the bottom and being used in different places as the Scene progresses. The Scene can vary in intensity from gentle stroking, to fiery rain and progress into painful, red welted stripes, depending on the intent and skill of the Top and the interests and limits of the bottom.
Time allotment is one hour Lecture/Demonstration and one full hour of Group Practice. Those without a whip, will be able to borrow one for the workshops interactive portion Further, multiple Highlander Whips will be available for sale.
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