Saturday, February 17, 2007

phone sex & cock bondage Vancouver

Last night we had reservations for dinner at The Sandbar on Granville Island. Try as I might to recall the ambiance, I'm drawing a big stupid blank. RC had me mesmerized from beginning to end of the meal, it was a wonderful dinner date.

Before leaving the restaurant, RC excused himself to the men's room with something I'd given him tucked discreetly in his pants pocket. Minutes later he returned to the table sporting a big grin and hand in hand we left together for the car.

Once outside it was all I could do to keep my hands out of his pants. He was wearing a cock-cage and it was locked on him soundly with a small padlock. The keys of course were in my possession.

After I had an orgasm or two in the parking lot and conversations that left me breathless, I really did offer the man the keys to the lock encasing his penis. He declined.

RC drove me home and we made our plans for tonight at Dragon Flys Den out in Surrey. I'm teaching my Sensual Play class there and then we plan on playing. (and he gets his Valentines Day surprise from me)

I phoned handsome this morning to say hello and to check on the state of his cock. Unable to masturbate, or stroke himself in any satisfactory manner, his cock is longing for release. In more ways than one.

To be kind to him, since I was um, hearing his struggle, I decided to masturbate. Through the phone I talked him through step by visual step of my using a heavy glass dildo on myself and then my Hitatchi Magic Wand for an orgasm that was just waiting to escape out of me. I got off, and his trembling penis, tried to jut out the end of the locked cage, but alas, nothing more. Later tonight he knows what he has to do to have himself freed from the bondage to his cock.

If my camera were not broken I'd take a photo and show you two things. First the new bustier and panties in red for Valentines Day that RC gave me and secondly the pile of stuff I need to pack for tonight's Sensual Play class to make it work...

  • Pillows
  • Sheets
  • Towels
  • Music
  • Strawberries
  • Chocolate Sauce
  • Scrubbers
  • Ice
  • Bamboo Skewers
  • Massage Oils
  • Floggers
  • Vibrators
  • Clit Gel / Penis cream
  • Clothes Pegs
  • Restraints
  • Gags
  • Blindfolds
  • Duct Tape

Thursday, February 15, 2007

Tuesday, February 13, 2007


I'm being seen. As a woman, I'm being transparent. As a lover I'm in awe and held in awe.

I want things in this new relationship between RC & I that are new for me to voice. Finding the words to express ones self is difficult for me, I do have a lot of internal dialogue going on, trying to capture the right sentiment first, before opening my mouth and coming out with some silly comment.

I'm treated very well by my friends, lover, acquaintances and feel blessed to be surrounded by such a variety of well rounded people. This is so different though. I'm adored. Together we fit. We are captivated by the other and "us".

I have no frame-work to do this relationship from. It's not based on D/s. It's a partnership. This is not something I have experience with. Welcome to a leg of this blog and my life where I gain voice for myself in some unfamiliar territory. A new relationship.

I have a boyfriend.

Monday, February 12, 2007

a few choice words

Kiss my wings Tink!

That's exactly what my new t-shirt says with a rather righteous Tinkerbell screen printed across the front.

How appropriate.