Saturday, June 12, 2010

Mens Sex Classes Vancouver

I have been working really hard lately to complete a four part new series of classes for men only.

This is the finished version of the first and second classes. #1 is already on our calendar to be taught on Tuesday June 29th to men-only and class #2 is the second class being taught on Thursday June 24th.

1. Toys For Boys

Many men assume that sex toys are only to be used on women -- happily this is no longer the case. These days there are a wide variety of products available to tease, please and make male pleasure so much more fun to achieve for the novice to the more experienced lover.

For a great number of men using a toy as an enhancement is not a thought they have previously entertained. Though by the end of this informative class, you will have discovered a few new products that you must acquire.

We will cover solo toys, toys to use with a partner and toys that are enhancers. Come learn about what creams, potions, powders, lubricants, rings, masturbators, plugs, hand held devices and other accouterments can do for your sex life.

You'll be blown away with heightened orgasms and sheer delight at the end result from using many of these products.

2. How Not To Be The Creepy Guy - For Men Only

At every party I attend or host there is inevitably a very nice man who comes off to at least a few different women, as the lonely creepy guy to stay away from.

There are certainly ways to draw women in and there are even more ways to send them running.

In this class we will cover the top things that men do however subconsciously that turn women off and ensure you do not get the attention you are seeking.

Mens awkward advances can be the very reason that you never get any further with the ladies.

This class will support you in social scenarios but more importantly it will give you positive feedback on how to handle yourself in sex play space.

Friday, June 11, 2010

Spare Any Change

For five years and two months now I have been religiously writing here on my blog regarding my personal life and my professional pursuits.

I have shared myself to give others another perspective on sex positivity, sex work and the joys and tribulations of being a lone woman working in these genres.

It is my hope that you have laughed, cried, learned new ideas, questioned some of your own view points and values, been inspired to try new things and been a better more enlightened person due to reading along here.

You've seen photos of my real self and shared in my journey as an educator, activist, partner, kinkster and mother.

So after these five years, I have gone ahead and put a Donate Button, done through Pay Pal on the upper right hand side of this blog.

I spend my valuable time writing and if you spend any length of time reading here and would like to offer me a token of generosity for my efforts, there is now a way for you to do this.

And now back to regularly scheduled programming.....

Thursday, June 10, 2010


I have been exceptionally busy this past week or so. And as such I want to apologize for my lack of entries here. Soon enough I'll find the time to sit down and really put some thought into posting again -- in the mean time, I am jotting down notes on things I want to remember to write about.

There are a number of big projects that are requiring me to invest in them at this moment, so excuse me while I go take care of business.

Wednesday, June 09, 2010

Sex Events in Vancouver

We host an extraordinary number of different events each and every month at The Lounge. Some of these are more popular than others, and a number of them we have perfected so that they are always well attended.

Examples of a few of our events that are hot, popular and recurring ...

Exploratorium is a our sampler event, where, by dropping in attendees have the opportunity to sign up for an try a vast number of selections from the erotic arts. This event is enjoyed so much for everyone that a percentage of members show up every couple of months to partake since the booths offered change each and every month.

Deviant Dining is our potluck dinner event, and a drop in evening at that. Attendees just bring along a precooked entree item to add to the food table and the 24-30 people that show up all sit around lively dinner tables and eat while getting to know one another better. Each month we offer a different erotic dinner experience for entertainment to change things up a little bit.

Jack & Jill is our monthly masturbation offering and it happens on a Monday evening for two and a half hours. By far it is our most unique event and the average attendance is 25+. Women & men as singles and plenty of couples all gather for a 45 minute conversation on a different sex topic every month, then the lights go down and people start putting on live shows, jacking & jilling, riding sex machines and assisting one another to achieve orgasmic relief.

Couples Only Sex Party is our every other month offering to our members. Well attended at around 30-40 people gathered to meet others to have sex with, swap with, watch, have sex alongside and schmooze.

Dungeon Players is our BDSM themed party that we offer every other month. 24 - 45 people is the norm for this event. It is a niche offering and as of June we are now pairing this event with an educational offering each month that it is offered. This month we have scheduled a fire play class open to all to experience.

SULTRY is our couples only bath house party, at an off site rental facility. Sex, steam and sauna. An evening of wet debauchery celebrated 8 months out of 12 with anywhere from 36-50 people attending - plus an in house masseuse.

Sensual Massage Night is where 20-45 people arrive to have the opportunity to receive a massage from 2-4 people and to give massages as well. We put everyone into small groups where you will remain for the event. It is an erotic treat to have so many hands working you over all at once. People are respectful and kind, and you get the type of massage you ask for. Heated oils, massage tables, serenity sounds of music and fresh fruit. It is a night to remember.

You should really become a Libido Lounge Member, so you too can take part in all that we offer.

Monday, June 07, 2010

Measured Growth

So yeah, he is cutting his first tooth and barely batting an eye over it. And he is almost, crawling. This week in his little world is huge for him at 6 months and 11 days old.

Sunday, June 06, 2010

Fight The HST

This was sent to my by my very good friend Craig. And since I don't want to face his wrath, I post it as per his orders.

To my friends in BC, and those of you not in BC but with family and friends in BC:

Read this, chuckle, then (most importantly) go here and find out where in your riding you can sign the petition to fight the HST in person, and then go and sign it -- assuming you agree, of course. (This is not one of those useless online petitions that are a waste of time. It's the real thing.) From what I've heard though, in order for a referendum on this to pass, 50% of voters actually have to vote in the referendum! So when the referendum happens, GO AND VOTE!

Oh, and forward this to everyone you know in BC and post it on your blogs in the next five minutes, or a plague of locusts will descend on you. Honest.


The old priest lay dying in the hospital. For years he had faithfully served the people of British Columbia. He motioned for his nurse to come near.

"Yes, Father?" she said.

"I would really like to see Gordon Campbell and Colin Hansen before I die."

"I'll see what I can do, Father."

The nurse sent the request to the Premier's office and waited for a response. Soon the word arrived that the Premier and Finance Minister, devout Christians both, were delighted to visit the priest. As they went to the hospital, Gordon commented to Colin, "I don't know why the old priest wants to see us but it will certainly help our images and might even get us some favourable publicity ahead of the HST."

Colin agreed that it was a good thing. When they arrived at the priest's room, the priest took Gordon's hand in his right hand and Colin's hand in his left. There was silence and a look of serenity on the old priest's face. Finally Gordon Campbell spoke. "Father, of all the people you could have chosen, why did you choose us to be with you as you near the end?"

"I have always tried to pattern my life after our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ."

"Amen," said Gordon.

"Amen," said Colin.

The old priest continued, "Jesus died between two thieves. I would like to do the same."