There is a new little hide-away store that I've found for panties and stockings that is local to me and so I headed there early this morning with high hopes. Though not too hidden as while there I happened to run into a cross-dresser friend happily shopping as well. I walked away with four distinctive stunning pairs of undergarments and a new pair of hose. Having thrown away about eight pairs of panties recently I can rationalize this purchase thoroughly, you see? (plus RC told me to go)
Made the drive to a beautiful wedding in Langley at four pm between friends of mine. The sun was shining as were the hundred and twenty odd guests. Kara who was my bottom for so long as many of you remember, was there as well with her new hubby. Had the chance to see so many pals and old acquaintances, even snapping some candid moment shots on my camera for memories sake. The bride was so well put together, calm and breath taking, that it took an extra moment to notice the ever handsome groom standing proudly next to her staring into the eyes of his love.
Drove to the hospital and picked up my guy from his long work day and we returned home for a quick dinner together. Dressing in our shiny-best pleather and pvc outfits with accoutrement to compliment and off we headed for the infamous Sin City. Not the best club night there, for us this month. Music rocked as always. People and the vibe not so much. This was most rare. (plus with the disaster of the dungeon it's ridiculously difficult to play there now) So, rather than complain, we came home and made our own fun. But not before I had the most outrageous conversation with the new pres. of a local group that is aspiring to be. Incredible to learn that they have enough options for new new venues that he was not in need of any further assistance getting a facility for his group.
Jennifer ... Vancouver's Sex Educator, Sexuality Coach and Activist. The content of this blog is not suited for those under the age of 18. What you'll find here is a written account of my personal journey in sex positive culture both personally and professionally.
Saturday, October 13, 2007
Friday, October 12, 2007
Sundays class
This coming Sunday October 14 from 7:00 - 9:00pm
Finding & Stimulating The G-Spot & Female Ejaculation - with live demo
Open to men, women, couples & singles
presented by Jennifer
Venue: The Love Nest 4687 Kingsway Burnaby BC (directly across from Metrotown)
$25 per person OR $45 per couple - pay at door, no advance tickets
Finding & Stimulating The G-Spot & Female Ejaculation - with live demo
Open to men, women, couples & singles
presented by Jennifer
Venue: The Love Nest 4687 Kingsway Burnaby BC (directly across from Metrotown)
$25 per person OR $45 per couple - pay at door, no advance tickets
Are you a squirter or gusher, or aspiring to be? Want to help your
lady find and enjoy her G-Spot? This is the class for you.
Join Jennifer and one of her lovely woman friends for a hands-in
demonstration on techniques to please for G spot stimulation &
ejaculation potential.
Clitoral & G-Spot Anatomy from both an internal and external view.
Choosing a toy or your own hands? Getting you both ready for the
often transformative experience. When the G-Spot is stroked, there is
often a sensation or urge to urinate. By learning techniques to both
understand then move beyond this urge many women can experience
heightened arousal and for others ejaculation becomes possible. Tips
that are tried, tested and easy to grasp so you can finally stroke
your own G-Spot or your partners.
*you'll want to bring a notebook & pen to class
lady find and enjoy her G-Spot? This is the class for you.
Join Jennifer and one of her lovely woman friends for a hands-in
demonstration on techniques to please for G spot stimulation &
ejaculation potential.
Clitoral & G-Spot Anatomy from both an internal and external view.
Choosing a toy or your own hands? Getting you both ready for the
often transformative experience. When the G-Spot is stroked, there is
often a sensation or urge to urinate. By learning techniques to both
understand then move beyond this urge many women can experience
heightened arousal and for others ejaculation becomes possible. Tips
that are tried, tested and easy to grasp so you can finally stroke
your own G-Spot or your partners.
*you'll want to bring a notebook & pen to class
Thursday, October 11, 2007
doing the naked happy dance
It is an honor that they even phoned me. I was shocked, completely caught off guard for the news to follow.
A large US organization is looking to bestow three national sex-educators with something rather prestigious and coveted. It would appear I was one of the three chosen, and my fellow esteemed colleagues are none-other-than Dossie Easton and Midori. How stellar is that!
As much as I'd love to tell you more details, it's not my information to unveil. But being the recipient of such wonderfully positive news, meant that I had to share some of it somewhere, or I was going to burst.
In a few months there will be a large formal announcement. In the mean time, just know that I am super excited because with this, comes a new opportunity for me, that is rather um, shall we say, grand in size.
A large US organization is looking to bestow three national sex-educators with something rather prestigious and coveted. It would appear I was one of the three chosen, and my fellow esteemed colleagues are none-other-than Dossie Easton and Midori. How stellar is that!
As much as I'd love to tell you more details, it's not my information to unveil. But being the recipient of such wonderfully positive news, meant that I had to share some of it somewhere, or I was going to burst.
In a few months there will be a large formal announcement. In the mean time, just know that I am super excited because with this, comes a new opportunity for me, that is rather um, shall we say, grand in size.
Tuesday, October 09, 2007
know thy self
Some people like sex as a stand alone event. Others prefer sex and bondage together to make things hot. Still others find a third person and the extra hands to be the big bang, while some enthusiasts need the stimulation arriving from power exchange or sensation seeking SM play to get themselves off.
I was reminded today, that although I am a switch and do like to bottom now and again, it truly is situational, my stronger more regular role is as a Dominant. RC was out of the house for an hour or so, and while away I made myself fresh & pretty, put on a pair of high heels and set the bedroom just so.
With the curtains drawn and music playing on the iPod, the bed was made and upon it a large waterproof pad. I pulled out a number of items to use on him from the toy trunks and laid each of them out carefully, deliberately. I set myself out on the bed, in a good-viewing position and waiting in my power pose, I pondered my plan of attack.
Shortly I heard his key in the door and then the familiar click of the deadbolt. I called out, "you'd best make yourself naked before you come in here" and..... he does. Standing in front of me finally I admired his firm frame having him move about for me. His nakedness turns me on as does the obvious reminder that he listens so well.
Imagine my honest surprise when suddenly out the blue, he reaches for my crop and smacks the inside of my still "spread" inner thigh. Not once, twice but three times. And all the while meeting me eye to eye while a wide smile was across his face. Shocked beyond words, my mouth opened but no protest.
It seemed innocent enough to let him hit me playfully, yet within 30 seconds his strikes were landing over my bare mons. I clamped my legs shout and exclaimed with a stern voice, yet still a smile.... "Enough! See these heels", pointing down at my shoes, "if you hit me again, they (the shoes) will clock you in the head!"
And I'll be damned if the boy didn't reach over, grab some rope and promptly tie my legs spread eagled, open to the bedposts. Then he continued again with the crop, stating that the shoes could do no damage now. Still smiling, both of us that is, I allowed things to continue.
Our scene ended with each of us spent, sticky, more in love and my proclaiming that though that was fun, I still when bottoming, prefer to keep my sex and SM play separate.
In the very near future, he will pay for todays indiscretion. And I will have much fun reprimanding him!
I was reminded today, that although I am a switch and do like to bottom now and again, it truly is situational, my stronger more regular role is as a Dominant. RC was out of the house for an hour or so, and while away I made myself fresh & pretty, put on a pair of high heels and set the bedroom just so.
With the curtains drawn and music playing on the iPod, the bed was made and upon it a large waterproof pad. I pulled out a number of items to use on him from the toy trunks and laid each of them out carefully, deliberately. I set myself out on the bed, in a good-viewing position and waiting in my power pose, I pondered my plan of attack.
Shortly I heard his key in the door and then the familiar click of the deadbolt. I called out, "you'd best make yourself naked before you come in here" and..... he does. Standing in front of me finally I admired his firm frame having him move about for me. His nakedness turns me on as does the obvious reminder that he listens so well.
Imagine my honest surprise when suddenly out the blue, he reaches for my crop and smacks the inside of my still "spread" inner thigh. Not once, twice but three times. And all the while meeting me eye to eye while a wide smile was across his face. Shocked beyond words, my mouth opened but no protest.
It seemed innocent enough to let him hit me playfully, yet within 30 seconds his strikes were landing over my bare mons. I clamped my legs shout and exclaimed with a stern voice, yet still a smile.... "Enough! See these heels", pointing down at my shoes, "if you hit me again, they (the shoes) will clock you in the head!"
And I'll be damned if the boy didn't reach over, grab some rope and promptly tie my legs spread eagled, open to the bedposts. Then he continued again with the crop, stating that the shoes could do no damage now. Still smiling, both of us that is, I allowed things to continue.
Our scene ended with each of us spent, sticky, more in love and my proclaiming that though that was fun, I still when bottoming, prefer to keep my sex and SM play separate.
In the very near future, he will pay for todays indiscretion. And I will have much fun reprimanding him!
Monday, October 08, 2007
warm wishes
We've spoken to our extended families on the telephone at length today, and also spent the entire day together, the three of us. It has been very relaxing and well deserved.
Lots accomplished around the house, yet little professionally. *Sighs* I am finding it a challenge to get to some important items tended to in a timely matter right now as my efforts emotionally and work-wise are directed towards finishing a little something special.
Happy Thanks Giving to each of you.
And a special warm Thanks Giving to these dear-to-me people...
Allena, PA, Deej, Carolyn, Judy - from the island, Juliet, Yvonne, T & M, and PG!
XOXOX
Lots accomplished around the house, yet little professionally. *Sighs* I am finding it a challenge to get to some important items tended to in a timely matter right now as my efforts emotionally and work-wise are directed towards finishing a little something special.
Happy Thanks Giving to each of you.
And a special warm Thanks Giving to these dear-to-me people...
Allena, PA, Deej, Carolyn, Judy - from the island, Juliet, Yvonne, T & M, and PG!
XOXOX
Sunday, October 07, 2007
a day in the life
With today being Sunday and all, it seemed only appropriate that we spend the day sleeping and eating. I roused just before 2:00 this afternoon and awoke RC next to me. Together we climbed out of bed around 3:00. T found the whole matter amusing, it's been a long weekend of rest for us all.
Dressing finally around 5:00pm, we made our way to the Richmond night Market.
I consumed spicy squid in a bowl. A bag of blue cotton candy. 1/2 a bag of sugary mini donuts. A skewer of bacon and prawns, yummy. 4 tasty pork and shrimp dumplings. And to round it all off, an ice cold bottle of water.
For purchases, it wasn't much. Just a new mini umbrella that fits in my purse, though RC and T both found a few items to their liking.
Thank the goddesses that the rain held off. This is the last weekend for the market this year in fact. And next year, it has no home yet as it lost it's lease on the property it's on now. I do hope they find somewhere accessible as the market has a wonderful cultural feeling about it, it's a unique environment for shopping, and eating.
We came back home and despite the drive back in the heat of the vehicle, my bones were still cold. With a soak in a hot bath complete, I'm now on the sofa naked, watching tv and surrounded by my family.
Life is fantastic.
Dressing finally around 5:00pm, we made our way to the Richmond night Market.
I consumed spicy squid in a bowl. A bag of blue cotton candy. 1/2 a bag of sugary mini donuts. A skewer of bacon and prawns, yummy. 4 tasty pork and shrimp dumplings. And to round it all off, an ice cold bottle of water.
For purchases, it wasn't much. Just a new mini umbrella that fits in my purse, though RC and T both found a few items to their liking.
Thank the goddesses that the rain held off. This is the last weekend for the market this year in fact. And next year, it has no home yet as it lost it's lease on the property it's on now. I do hope they find somewhere accessible as the market has a wonderful cultural feeling about it, it's a unique environment for shopping, and eating.
We came back home and despite the drive back in the heat of the vehicle, my bones were still cold. With a soak in a hot bath complete, I'm now on the sofa naked, watching tv and surrounded by my family.
Life is fantastic.
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