Sex Questions Answered

1. Is there anyone on your friends list you would ever consider having sex with?
Ha-Ha, oh yes and each knows it, shyness get's one no where.

2. Sex in the morning, afternoon, or night?
Morning is great, but a good shag any time is welcome.

3. What side of the bed do you sleep on?
Closest to the door, I am a mom. So the left.

4. Do you masturbate?
Of course a lot, and with plenty of orgasms thrown in.

5. How often?
See above.

6. Have you ever taken your clothes off for money?
Honestly, yes, but it's not what your thinking.

7. Do you prefer showers or baths?
A really steamy hot shower.

8. Have you ever had sex in the shower or the bath?
Um yup, all kinds of sex too, I'm a dirty girl.

9. Do you watch/read pornography?
I watch porn, but don't read it. My partners both watch it and read it.

10. Do you want someone aggressive or passive in bed?
Depends on my relationship with them.

11. Would you choose love or money?
Money, I have a child to raise and bills to pay, look after one's self and the love will follow.

12. Your top three favorite kinks in bed?
Domination, forced multiple orgasms and creating endorphins/adrenaline.

13. Has anyone ever gone beyond your personal line of respect sexually?
Many have tried, but my boundaries & personal negotiation skills kick ass.

14. Where is the most romantic place you have had sex?
Romantic sex, not so much. Hot sex, wherever we are when we connect really well.

15. Where is the weirdest place you have had sex?
Tied to a tree in the middle of the woods.

16. Have you ever been caught having sex?
Sadly, it has happened. I offered counseling, money or a shopping trip to wipe the memory clean.

17. Have you ever been to a strip club?
I've seen many men & women take off their clothes professionally. Most were good at it.

18. Ever been to a bar just to get sex?
Never, so not my style.

19. Ever been kicked out of a bar or a club for sexual reasons?
See above.

20. Ever been picked up in a bar?
There are usually a few people trying to get my attention.

21. Have you ever kissed or had sex with someone of the same sex?
Just last night as a matter of fact and for let's say the billionth time.

22. What's your sexuality?
Queer.

21. Had sex in a movie theater?
Don't scare the villagers, I live by this mantra.

22. Had sex in a bathroom?
Public ones a few times a couple of friends ones, and my own. Broke a toilet once too. He He.

23. Have you ever had sex at work?
Seriously at The Lounge I do what I want, so yeah, I get it on at work.

24. Have you ever been in an "adult" store?
I have keys to a couple of them, and spend loads of time in them.

25. Bought something from an adult store?
Yes, but never full price.

26. Do you own any sex toys?
Hundreds and hundreds, the collection is varied and vast. Yummy.

27. If yes, what are they?
Let's just say there are so many that they are stored broken down into categories.

28. Does anyone have naughty pics of you or are you on film?
I have friends all over the adult industry, so yeah, photos of me exist.

29. Have you ever had sex with someone and called them the wrong name?
Once, and I sure upset myself over it, not the other person.

30. Have you ever had phone sex?
Many moons ago - I loath talking on the phone.

31. Have you ever had cyber sex?
Nope, so not my thing.

32. What's your favorite sexual position?
Take me from behind.

33. What's your favorite sex act?
The one where I get what I want.

34. Have you ever had sex with more than one person at a time?
What are friends for!

Dressed Up for Sex

On my feet are new black knee high boots as nude stockings caress my thighs, with a nice straight seam up the back of each leg.

I have on black panties with a built in garter supporting said thigh-highs.

My waist cincher is black and is an under the bust, leaving my breasts free and exposed.

Around my upper arm, is a read leather rose and thorns, and on my face are librarian'ish style red retro glasses.

Tonight it's my plan to get wet, slippery and giddy with a bunch of women. Ride some big waves of endorphins, adrenaline and lust. Oh my.

With no men in site, Dirty Girls starts in just a couple of hours.

Let The Play Begin.

And FYI - this is a work night for me.

Pregnant Sexy Women

Photo's are from last weeks shoot: Enjoy!

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It's happened, and it is a first. One of our Lounge Members (and a friend too) gave birth this evening. I am so happy for her and her new born daughter right about now. The past few hours I have been floating around awaiting news of the arrival of the bundle of love.

This is the first baby to be born from the Lounge, and the child spent many, many nights with us at parties as her mother spent time at our parties. We won't be seeing the baby around obviously for 19 years now, and her mother should be back around in a few months.

I want to be next, the next pregnant woman and the next to have a baby.

Sex Education Vancouver

Much mail has flooded my In-Box, and many calls to my phone to offer congratulations on the engagement post and subsequent email to our members and friends. The love from you all has been abundant, thank you.

Yesterday my class for the BC Center for Disease Control went rather well, it seems I'll be doing it again, and shortly too. This opportunity is huge and one that is on my pride list, I feel really good about being asked to share my knowledge with them and how well received my ninety minute talk was.

I have a gorgeous pair of black shiny pvc pumps that I adore. They have a tan colored skid mark on the side of one of the shoes, and I am stumped as to how to remove it without damaging the finish. Do you have any tried and tested remedies that you can share with me?


I spent five hours yesterday shopping with my bottom, she has been assigned a new job from her employer and is going from a uniform to own clothing. We spent the day looking and buying new clothes for her, and helping her select colors and styles that were not even on radar was a real smile maker for both of us.


Last evening's Member Orientation class was just incredible. Ten people reserved for the class, and ten people showed up. 100% show up rate, wow. And the icing on the cake was that there was six women and four men. Aah, the joys of doing something so successfully. The whole night went rather extraordinary, things went smooth and it was really fun. The group gelled well together and we all had some great conversations too. This group in particular was just primed and ready for the Lounge - great news!

Tonight is Deviant Dining at the Lounge, we hope you'll join us for dinner. It is a casual laid back chance to dine with other members, talk and get to know one another without a party going on around us all.

The Third Sex is Intersex

I spend a lot of my time talking with people about their sexuality and gender. Over the last couple of years there has been more public talk about a third sex and others openly sharing their truth. Many call the third sex, Intersex.

Three current Libido Lounge members identify as being Intersex. Two are medically diagnosed and one is self appointed. It has been a privilege to learn from these people as they have shared their personal journey's with me and their deepest secret of the issue of their gender.

CBC has a documentary coming up at midnight on the 26th of this month, channel 26, it's an hour long and promised to be riveting and eye-opening.

I found this on the CBC website ....

The sexual identity of a person is usually the first question one asks about a newborn: "Is it a boy or a girl?" To most parents the answer is a simple one. But what about the parents of a child born with both female and male genitals? It's a reality no one dares to speak about, the so-called third sex. Most people are unaware that this situation exists, and institutions are not designed to recognize a sex outside male and female.

Read more here on CBC's main page.

Here on the CBC fact sheet.

And here on Wikipedia

First comes love, then comes...

This has been our secret this past week and a half, and I am just now ready to share it.


While in Cuba we went walking on the beach one afternoon in the opposite direction of all the tourists at our resort. RC went a little ahead of me, lazily I was sauntering along staring at the gorgeous views and taking in the beauty of the day.

I was stunned and shocked when I turned from the ocean to see him standing a few feet away, with four words etched into the sand and a stick in his hand.

It seemed so surreal, I was speechless. (it's true) I was unable to believe he was actually asking me a question, especially this question. He stood before me, with eyes opened wide and a smile from ear to ear, awaiting my response.

My head and heart knew the answer but my mouth was not working. My eyes kept reading those four little words over and over.

He had to say the question out loud, the words in the sand, were not sinking in completely. It was like I needed to hear it in his own voice.

RC dropped the stick to the ground and in what appeared to be slow motion pulled a blue box out of his backpack. As he opened it, my own eyes were riveted and my senses were all magnified. He had my undivided attention.

Jennifer, will you marry me?

My answer was YES! Oh my god YES!

As he helped me slide the ring onto my finger I couldn't help but think of our good fortune to have found one another.

I love you handsome man!

BC Center for Disease Control

We went to bed late last night, after a few rounds of explosive orgasms. Wobbly kneed and happy we were. So our wake up time this morning was a little bit late, it was a beautiful sleep-in.

I made a full breakfast for us and then spent time on the phone Allena, my girl. Catching up with her was important and we had a great talk and even are working on plans of an upcoming holiday together, waaay down South.

Still on today's agenda is a trip to Costco, a stop off to The Lounge and our Post Box, a run through the local veggie store and some quick photocopying. Errands for a few hours.

It is so warm and bright out that it really makes me feel good, I so much enjoy weather that is not wet.

If I'm lucky I may even get a chance to read the two newspapers that have been calling my name and perhaps get some work done on a presentation I'm giving next week. I am teaching for the BC Center for Disease Control, an intro class on alt. sex practices. It looks to be most promising, with an attendance of nurses that are needing sound information and exposure to positive teaching in this genre. Go me.

The teenager should be home later this evening, and then she, RC and I will plot and plan our coming week. The schedules we all keep are busy and fast paced, that is for sure.