Sunday, April 18, 2010

The Men In My Life


Today I wanted nothing more than to take it easy. We have hosted really big and well attended events for the past three nights and it has just wiped me out, I am drained.

Imagine my delight to be able to capture this moment of play between my two most favorite men in the whole wide world.

Saturday, April 17, 2010

Sexual Abuse of Boys

FRONTLINE GOES UNDERCOVER TO EXPOSE THE RITUAL SEXUAL ABUSE OF BOYS IN AFGHANISTAN


FRONTLINE Presents The Dancing Boys of Afghanistan

Tuesday, April 20, 2010, at 9 P.M. ET on PBS

As the United States deepens its commitment to Afghanistan, FRONTLINE takes viewers inside the war-torn nation to reveal a disturbing practice that is once again flourishing in the country: the organized sexual abuse of adolescent boys.

In The Dancing Boys of Afghanistan, airing Tuesday, April 20, 2010, at 9 P.M. on PBS (check local listings), Afghan journalist Najibullah Quraishi (Behind Taliban Lines) returns to his native land to expose an ancient practice that has been brought back by powerful warlords, former military commanders and wealthy businessmen. Known as “bacha bazi” (literal translation: “boy play”), this illegal practice exploits street orphans and poor boys, some as young as 11, whose parents are paid to give over their sons to their new “masters.”

The men dress the boys in women’s clothes and train them to sing and dance for the entertainment of themselves and their friends. According to experts, the dancing boys are used sexually by these powerful men.

In detailed conversations with several bacha bazi masters in northern Afghanistan and with the dancing boys they own, reporter Quraishi reveals a culture where wealthy Afghan men openly exploit some of the poorest, most vulnerable members of their society.


“What was so unnerving about the men I had met was not just their lack of concern for the damage their abuse was doing to the boys,” Quraishi says. “It was also their casualness with which they operated and the pride with which they showed me their boys, their friends, their world. They clearly believed that nothing they were doing was wrong.”


Under the guise of doing a documentary on similar practices in Europe, Quraishi gained the confidence of Dastager, a former mujahideen commander and wealthy businessman whose business interests include importing autos from the Far East. With Dastager as his guide, Quraishi takes viewers inside the world of bacha bazi, where prominent men compete to own and use the boys.


“I had a boy because every commander had a partner,” says Mestary, a former senior commander who is well connected with major Afghan warlords. “Among the commanders there is competition, and if I didn’t have one, then I could not compete with them.”

“I go to every province to have happiness and pleasure with boys,” says an Afghan man known as “The German,” who acts as a bacha bazi pimp, supplying boys to the men. “Some boys are not good for dancing, and they will be used for other purposes. ... I mean for sodomy and other sexual activities.”

“It’s a disgusting practice. ... It’s a form of slavery, taking a child, keeping him. It’s a form of sexual slavery,” says Radhika Coomaraswamy, U.N. special representative for Children and Armed Conflict. “The only way to stop bacha bazi is if you prosecute the people who commit the crime, and that’s what we need, because the laws are there in the books against this practice.”
In the documentary, Quraishi interviews local police officials who insist that men who participate in bacha bazi will be arrested and punished regardless of their wealth or powerful connections. Later that day, however, Quraishi’s cameras catch two officers from the same police department attending an illegal bacha bazi party.

“Many of the people who do this work for the government,” says Nazir Alimy, who compiled a report on bacha bazi for UNICEF. “They speak out against it but are abusers themselves. ... I personally cannot mention any names because I am scared.”

Quraishi speaks with some dancing boys who fear they will be beaten or killed. “If they stray, they get killed,” says a 13-year-old dancing boy. “Sometimes fighting happens among the men who own the boys. If you don’t please them, they beat you, and people get killed.”

Quraishi also talks with the family of 15-year-old Hafiz, who reportedly was murdered after trying to escape from his master, a well-known drug baron and warlord. In Hafiz’s case, a suspect -- the policeman who supplied the gun that killed Hafiz -- was arrested and convicted. Sentenced to 16 years in prison, the officer was released after serving only a few months. Hafiz’s family says they suspect the boy’s former owner bribed local officials to win his release.

“If only these people were punished, this kind of thing wouldn’t happen,” Hafiz’s mother says. “Whoever commits these crimes doesn’t get punished. Power is power.”

The program will conclude with a detailed update of attempts to arrange the rescue of one of the dancing boys profiled in the film, an 11-year-old boy bought by Dastager from an impoverished rural family. It is a dramatic final chapter, full of new shocks and surprises, and, in the end, provides a measure of justice for the boy and his master.

Friday, April 16, 2010

Clarity

Speak the unspeakable. You must say the very things you think you can not.

People will take notice.

It will take courage.

My strength is an extension of my boldness.

The more bold, direct and forthcoming I am with out shame, the further ahead I move.

What do you need to say out loud, by the light of day?

What secret needs to be revealed? Once it's known, you will be elevated.

The depths of my insecurities once broadcast, lose their power of me.

I hear so many peoples disclosures, and all without judgment.

Free yourself today.

Thursday, April 15, 2010

Human Dessert Platter

I knew when I announced it that the interest would be high.

A Deviant Dining event, with a woman bound tight in ropes and pallet wrap, almost naked, laid out covered in desserts was visually appealing. Hell, she tasted decadent.

Twenty nine people arrived for dinner tonight. It was a fantastic turn out.

There was way more food than all of us combined could have been eaten for the main course .... Sushi, chicken wings, meatballs, baked chicken, quiche, four different scrumptious salads, wonton soups, chicken nuggets, ham, veggie platter, cheeses, breads, dips, 7 layer dip & chips, paninis and more.

Dessert was whipping cream, drizzled chocolate cognac sauce, fresh sliced strawberries, mini eclairs, cream puffs, red gourmet cupcakes and apple pie with caramel sauce. The temptress who was our human platter was gorgeous covered in these mouth watering tasty treats and everyone enjoyed the chance to serve themselves off of her body.

We talked for hours, the crowd was lost in conversations left right and center. After dinner many people retreated to the social area to lay back and let their food settle and others remained seated at the tables, enjoy the chance to chat with such a greatly diverse group of people.

All in all, this night was simply remarkable. Thanks to everyone who came out to have dinner with us.

Wait till you see what we have planned for next months dinner event. (Thursday May 6th) Don't miss out, it is going to be something you'll be thrilled to take part in.

**thank you to G&R for bringing me the most sweet card and a gift too - it really was most kind of you

***Extra thanks to V&S for making the drive, your presence is always welcome. I love you both.

****Donna, thanks for helping me serve up the food and for looking out for S as she was "all tied up"

Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Two Wheeled Mode of Transport

I am in want. I need a bicycle.

Something to get me around my neighborhood now that Spring is really here and better weather is finally a reality.

The last time I was on a bike, to use the brakes, I just had to peddle backwards.

I have never, ever ridden a bicycle with gears.

Truth be told, I don't want to spend a ton of money on a bike either. And ideally I want to buy one second hand.

Nothing too fancy, just something cute, safe, easy to navigate and road worthy.

If I can learn to ride it well enough to feel confident, then I want to purchase a closed in carrier for the back so I can tow the baby along with me. You know one of those three wheeled contraptions that allows the little guy to motor along with me, on the ground though and not up behind me in a seat.

And I am just dorky enough that I may want a bell and a handle bar bag too. But that's for down the road.

First, I need to find a bike.

Any leads? Any ideas?

Have one you no longer want? Sell it to me? Give it to me and get it out of your house or garage, I'll pick it up even.

Thanks.

Tuesday, April 13, 2010

Kink Diet

It struck me the other day that I am not my usual dominant self as of late. It's been a while in fact. Don't get me wrong, I still am a Dominant with the desire to do dark things to others. However I currently lack the energy and eventual follow through necessary to pull off the big scenes that I love to create.

The images of what I would do to someone are constantly in my thoughts. I certainly do not lack imagination.

Play partners are everywhere, I need not even have to look for them as they throw themselves before me.

Implements I have in abundance, in fact an entire room full in our house. The tools to deliver a punch are all within reach.

Play space I have, 3000 sq feet of it, a dedicated playground with everything imaginable.

Perhaps I need to bottom to someone before I can put out as a Top again.

Either way, one thing is certain. My hunger for play is still there, it just seems that I have been on a kinky diet lately.

Monday, April 12, 2010

Recovery Mode

After working my ass off for this last number of days, today I plan on laying around on it and doing nothing other than relaxing.

Sunday, April 11, 2010

Poker, Scotch, Cigars & Women

Friday was Jason's birthday and there was quite the celebration that took place.

After last years party I threw for him without him knowing, I wanted to do the whole surprise thing again.

He knew something was going on, but what it was, eluded him. He was a wee bit fearful and it showed. I found it amusing to watch him be antsy over my plotting and scheming.

I threw a surprise party for Jason's 39th birthday and invite some of his work buddies and another good friend of his too. The party was themed SINFUL.

Scotch, everyone attending was too bring a bottle of to share.

Cigars, bring one to smoke or some to share.

Poker, bring money and be prepared to play.

To make the evening even more exciting, I invited along four of my most lovely and provocative women friends.

The women were assigned the tasks of pouring the men drinks. Lighting their cigars. Fetching snacks for the gentlemen. Being visual eye candy. And of course keeping them stimulated with neck, arms, shoulder, scalp and chest massages.

The guys loved the attention, and they were in their zone being waited upon by women dressed to the nines in alluring evening wear.

As the evening progressed, we women undressed one another and left our outfits aside for our fine lingerie that was underneath. Kissing girls had plenty of male attention.

And of course, there was sex of the live performance variety. Sex machines, fistings, strap-on's and other unmentionable pleasures were all enjoyed by the women only. The men played poker and we were what one might call, the back drop.

Jason had quite the evening as did his friends. Some of the guys were completely overwhelmed by their friends good fortune to have a woman such as me for a partner. That I created such a party for my man and his friends was more than these men could have ever imagined for themselves.

Next year is Jason's 40th. I should start now the planning to make sure it's another memorable birthday. I love him that much.

Saturday, April 10, 2010

Expectations

Whenever one runs a business, one should expect that at some point there will be a disgruntled customer. Libido Lounge is no exception.

We had a man attend orientation late last year and from the moment he walked through our doors, I was confident that he was going to be a person for whom we would be having issues with.

Two days after he completed orientation he showed up for Deviant Dining our pot luck monthly dinner. The event description clearly states to bring an entree item large enough for 4-6 to share. This man brought a partially eaten box of chocolates.

At orientation we discuss with people how to behave at events, what to wear, what to expect and general expectations.

This man showed up for dinner looking as though he had just climbed out of a dumpster. Many people privately commented to me how inappropriate he was dressed.

This same man was also rude to a number of our members at this particular event. The type of rude to which there is no excuse for. I saw it, heard it and also listened to peoples concerns about him after the event was over in private emails.

I wrote the man a letter, telling him that he was not a good match for the Lounge due to numerous rule violations. I also told him I would be giving him back his $40 membership dues.

He wrote me berating me for the decision to take away his membership, stating he was entitled to it. No, no you are not. You are not entitled to anything here. You broke our rules, and upset people in short time at The Lounge. We don't police our events, we talk once in orientation about how things will happen then from there the responsibility is on each member to follow along. Or, out you go.

People who fail to follow the rules, who upset others, and who are unable to comprehend basic etiquette do not belong at Libido Lounge.

We are not a public setting.

We are not a place for you to cause problems.

We are a place for responsible adults who wish to be in a safe environment while exploring themselves.

People who cause alarm or fear, attempt to form cliques, have obvious bias, are prejudice, need to drink or smoke, gossip, can't follow rules and are argumentative have no place at Libido Lounge.

Our oldest member is 80 and are youngest ones have just turned 19 at time of membership. We have slight members, thin members, average sized members, plus sized members and members whose weight fluctuates.

Our members are heterosexual, bi sexual, gay, hetero-flexible, queer, trans, cross dressers, polyamorists, BDSM'ers, swingers, exhibitionists and voyeurs.

Our members are new to exploring through very advanced and all shades in between. Our members are every ethnicity and all socioeconomic brackets.

Members at The Lounge are educated both in life and in schools. Our members are single, married, coupled, men and women.

Our members are gracious, kind, open minded and tolerant.

Failure to follow along with our vision for our membership, is grounds for you to not be a Libido Lounge member.

Friday, April 09, 2010

Ethical Non Monogamy Rules

After receiving a nice request from a lovely couple recently to share with them my rules for practicing ethical non monogamy I decided to re post here what I had written.

Before reading our rules for what makes our relationship work, know that we have created these rules to compliment us as a couple and to keep us safe based on knowing ourselves well and plenty of deep honest discussions. The rules are agreed upon by each of us, together we have come up with the frame work needed to allow us the freedom to explore others sexually.

Our rules are subject to change and have shifted over the years. Currently they are .....

  1. No surprises. No telling the other something after the fact. Everything is straight up from the get go. (the only surprises we like are gifts)
  2. No bringing anyone home for play. This is our nest, it belongs to our family and not outside relationships.
  3. No discussing details about our children.
  4. Practice safer sex at all times, no exceptions.
  5. Time with others happens only when our relationship has had it's needs met first.
  6. No missing important home events for a date.
  7. We do not need to meet the person our partner is dating / having sex if we don't want to.
  8. Emotional availability to outside play partners is slim at best.
  9. Having sex with someone is different than being polyamorous with them.
  10. No involvement with drama queens / kings.
  11. No dating someone who likes to talk about their conquests publicly.
  12. If we ask to know something about one anothers dates, the information will be made available without debate.
  13. Details on what one does with others is not necessarily always wanted - ask before you share.
  14. Before telling someone (whom your dating) that you love them, you must first come home and tell your partner. (see rule #1, no surprises)

Wednesday, April 07, 2010

Watching Others Fuck

I like to watch other people have sex. It's true, I'm a voyeur.

It's not like I enjoy it all the time. There are times when watching others have sex is my job, it's me wandering through a party ensuring safety and briefly scanning the room over. Keeping my eyes from inadvertently meeting those who are playing, yet stealing stolen glances of peoples most erotic moments.

You might wonder when it's enjoyable for me. It's hot to watch people fuck when I'm not working. When my own arousal is at the forefront and when I am sharing the visual with a partner or a FWB. (friend with benefits)

I have seen my partners over the years have sex with others and thought nothing of it. I've witnessed them being hot and heavy with a person they had just met and I have not been moved by it at all. Well other than to be delighted for them to have found someone to be playful with in that moment.

I don't find it hot to see my partners being intimate with others. Not to date anyways.

However it is sexy as hell to watch two people I do not know, or whom I am not in a relationship with get it on with one another.

The raw moments of lust. The abandon to have sex with others around. The noised grunted, squeaked, screamed and moaned into the room. The smell of their union lingering heavy in the air. Counting their orgasms with them. Applauding their efforts.

Watching people screw when they know I am present is also highly charged for me. It fuels a deep sexual hunger in me to know that the couple banging are aware of my presence and my intent interest in viewing them. It's like being a third without having to put out.

Being a voyeur means I am privy to new ways to interact sexually with my parnter[s] that I may have not thought of previously. Voyeurism is safer sex at it's best. Being a voyeur permits me the luxury of arousal without the sweat. Watching let's me play my own fantasies in my head while my hand is down my pants frantically rubbing my hard clit without regard to when someone else is going to be getting off.

Ironically I find myself generally unmoved by pornography in a digital format. Watching fake performances that are happening for money leave me rather unimpressed. I don't necessarily need a story line either, but I would at least like to be led to believe that the actors portrayed are actually, really enjoying themselves and not just pretending or orgasm and preference for one another for a pay check. Don't get me wrong, porn has it's place for those interested in buying into it, but hey, its not with me.

I do however enjoy looking at sexy photos of couples and women -- and not so much for lone men. It's the interaction between couples that catches my breath and it's the babes with curves that make my clit twitch as I flip from one erotic image to the next.

Call me old fashioned but my preference for watching others fuck will always be the live show rather than the shiny DVD in a case.

Tuesday, April 06, 2010

Regina Sex Classes

Later this month I fly off to teach in Regina for the weekend. This will be my first time away for an extended period of time since the Pickle was born.

A change of routine is somewhat exciting for me. I'm eager to get away, yet already I know I will be worried about the wee man getting off track from his schedule without my being around. Adult time for 26 hours though thrills me to no end.

Jason and teenager will be home, so Pickle will be around his family who of course know his routine and behaviors. Hopefully all will be smooth.

Me, I'll be in the prairies, teaching ten classes to a community of people who've yet to be introduced to my teaching style. And also doing two stage presentations as well. I am eager to wow and to impart upon them valuable information to transform their intimate lives.

I'm staying by night with a lovely couple from the local kink community and by day hanging out at The Taboo Show between all my scheduled events.

My itinerary at Taboo Regina is available here.

Want to meet up with me for a cold drink while I'm in your fare city? Drop me a private email and let's coordinate to make this happen.

Meeting new friends wherever I travel to is always a priority. We'll need to meet at the show as I won't have any time available off site except for sleeping and recovery. Trade show days are very long.

I could be persuaded to stay an extra day longer to teach a private class. Let me know ASAP if you're interested in pursuing this with me as I am soon to be booking my flight.

See you in Regina.

WRITE ME: jennifer@libidoevents.com

Monday, April 05, 2010

Proud Mama


Pickle is just over four months right now, by one week.

He can roll over from front to back and back to front.

He's eating banana, prunes and rice cereal.

The little man loves people, is incredibly social and smiling all the time too.

And without fail he sleeps 12 - 13 hours straight every single night in his own crib.

Sunday, April 04, 2010

An Ordinary Day

Yesterday was a fairly ordinary Saturday for me, here are a few highlights worth mentioning

  • I taught 11 women how to give scrumptious blow jobs and expert hand jobs
  • I had my photo taken as I spanked a long time woman friend
  • Jason and I had sex at a party on a gynecological table
  • I massaged two nude women's breasts, using my own oiled breasts
  • I kissed a woman who had never been kissed by a woman
  • Two different women asked me for sex
  • I watched a group of 7 people rimming, doing oral and tit fucking
  • We received two lovely baby gifts from different friends
  • The teenager looked after Pickle while we went to work last night
  • Introduced 2 of my friends to one another, they hit it off and got it on
  • I blew Jason
  • Jason went down on me
  • My man tied up a woman at the party
  • Jason hit a lesbian repetitively with his penis (it was really funny)
  • I was on a bed with 5 good friends, only 3 of which I've ever been intimate with.
  • A film company asked to borrow some of my high end sex toys for an upcoming shoot

Saturday, April 03, 2010

How To Kill A Pecker

I have an unwanted pecker. Get your mind out of the gutter, its not what you think I am referring to.

There is a wood pecker in our neighborhood who has decided it likes making holes in our house. A big hole in the front of our house, and I do mean big, and another on the back side of the house. I have been hearing weird noises for the last week and half but was unable to figure out what it was. That is, until yesterday when the gaping holes were noticed. Then this morning when the hammering noise started, Jason jumped out of bed, threw on my robe and ran outside, just in time to witness a woodpecker pounding away on our home.

Our house. The single most expensive purchase of our lives is being eaten by a bloody wood pecker. I am so not amused. Of course, it would have to happen to us, as our lives are always just so dull that we needed something added in for excitement. Yeah right!

Anyways, I am all for killing the thing. Currently the roof repair bill is going to high enough and god knows we don't want to fix the damage just to have him return to cause more chaos and harm.

So perhaps a BB gun. You got one you would be willing to lend us? Well actually Jason. Because you see, I couldn't shoot a critter no matter how mad I was at it, unless of course it was threatening my life. And at this time the damn bird is only threatening my home, so I am all for Jason knocking it off on my behalf.

There were no holes in our roof previously, the wood pecker made them himself. Jason finds it amusing than an unwanted pecker has followed me home. Story of my life really.

Now, aside from a BB gun and killing the damn thing, what is there that we can we do? We need a fast course of action.

It is not living in our attic as it turns out, just chomping holes into it, then flying away most likely happy about it's accomplishment.

Friday, April 02, 2010

Wrestling Babes

Libido Lounges newest event seeks amateur enthusiasts ...

Women wrestlers will be given a 3 month temporary membership to the Lounge in exchange for their involvement if they are not already members.


Wrestlin’ Babes of Libido Lounge

What’s your porn star name? Quick! Think of it and sign up for this exciting and fun new event. Always wanted to channel that primal sexual energy into a brawl with another luscious female? Join in the fun and put on a bit of a show at the same time.

Libido Lounges first foray into the world regulation holds, touches, clasps, grabs and throws. A women’s wrestling event will be a feast for the eyes, ears. Delectable, raw eye candy right there on the mats before you. Appealing? Goodness, yes! Clean rules, come join us and no ones gonna get hurt (much)

The need to know stuff:

2-3 minute wrestling rounds.

Variable weight classes.

Enter as a:

* willow-wisp (100 – 150 lb)

* curvygirl (150-200 lb)

* succulent lusciousness class (200 lb+)

Multiple experience classes:

___ Oh my, that sounds hot but I’m a novice

___ I’m a rowdy bitch that knows how to brawl

Standard female question: What should I wear?!

Probably something you’re not too attached too, and yet something delightfully sexy, like a bit of duct tape on your piercings! Whatever makes you feel (and look) hot!

What’s your porn star wrestler name? Make it a delightful visual sound for our colour commentator!

Send me an email today with the answers to the questions above and we’ll put you into the program! Oh, and did I mention? There’ll be PRIZES!

WRITE: jennifer@libidoevents.com

Thursday, April 01, 2010

Group Masturbation

They were a couple a few years older than Jason and myself, each with a slight build and the eyes of apprehensive newcomers. He was a watcher, seemingly shy, she was bursting with inquisitiveness yet tamed down for her partner on this occasion.

The night was Jack & Jill, this past Monday evening. I watched them briefly before moving forward.

They grabbed a bed early on and laid out on it. He nude but his underwear, she in a delicate print on her bra and matching panties. Her smile was ferocious, his was a mere upward curve at the corners of his mouth.

Together they were talking in hushed voices to one another, in between bouts of kissing and heavy petting. People milled about, some masturbating, others riding sex machines and another couple on the bed next to this couple were already having sex.

Jason had popped off two orgasms already and it was time for us to have some frolic time with one another.

I asked the couple if we could join them on the bed. The man looked at his wife and promptly said yes. (I knew he would already) We started in doing it doggy style, me on the bed on all fours and Jason behind me. I asked the man on the bed if I could hold on to his leg. "Sure" was all he said, then he closed his eyes tight.

He started to finger his wife and she was groaning, I watched her intently as Jason was buried deep inside me. The man pulled her into the 69 position and they started going at one another furiously. I was still holding his leg while being screwed.

Suddenly I asked the woman if I could touch her and play with her breasts, she shoved her upper body towards me faster than the speed of light. I licked, nibbled and teased her. Jason had the birds eye view of it all.

She was working it hard, sucking his cock and jerking him with hand motions that were erratic. Jason hips were moving so rhythmically that I knew that soon he would be blowing his load.

I grabbed the woman by the hair pulling her head back, putting her ear next to my mouth. "You know you're a sex pot don't you? Your enjoying this all so much you hussy." Then as I pulled her head back even farther and noted her closed eyes I firmly said "open your eyes now!" "look at all the people watching you witnessing you be the steamy lover you are".

As her eyes opened she was met with the appreciative eyes of at least 15 or 16 people watching what was unfolding around them. The reality hit her, she was live porn in this moment. This loud groan escaped her mouth as she rocked herself hard all over her man. She came a few times, I am fairly certain.

As I let go of her I kissed the back of her neck and said thank you. Then wrapped my arms around Jason who was still behind me holding me tight. I stroked his head as we watched a threesome unfold in the bed next to us.

Lately it seems that we've been fortunate to have had the opportunity to introduce many newcomers to the Lounge and to sex in front of strangers.

The man wrote me two days later to say that since Jack & Jill they had been passionately rediscovering one another sexually non stop.

How sweet, to have facilitated something so positive for our new friends.

Wednesday, March 31, 2010

All Things Sex [4]

A Gay BC MLA gets married and takes his husbands name. Damn I love my country.


In Federal politics, Canada makes more cuts to HIV vaccine research and halts plans on the vaccination production facility in Winnipeg.
Crazy stupid hey?

The man behind this pretty bondage pin-up site
is my good friend and Lounge member. Have a peek into his world as a professional "Pleasure Artist".

The Libido Events and Libido Lounge April calendar is now on-line, check out our busy schedule.

A Canadian health authority has enlisted the help of its target demographic to make an education video game about safe sex. The Sperminator is threatening the city, and only Captain Condom, Power Pap, Willy the Kid, and Wonder Vag, better known as 'The Sex Squad', can stop him from covering the world in his evil sperm. It's named Adventures in Sex City.

Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Naughty Party Fast Approaching

This is the monthly party that everyone loves as it has something for all interests and experience levels. You'll need to reserve your space, so do no so now...

There is even a Play Party Etiquette Class which kick starts the evening, if you so choose.



SATURDAY APRIL 3, 9:00 - 1:00 AM
NAUGHTY PLAY PARTY
Cost: $35 member / $60 couple / $40 guest of a member
Reservations: jennifer@libidoevents.com
Open to singles, couples, men and women alike


Please note that you must also have your $25 cash renewal cost on you if your member number is PRE 600. And your renewal is good for 12 months.


SPECIAL:: Vancouver based professional photographer with 20 years experience will have studio lighting and set at Libido Lounge and will be providing mini professional photo sessions. Would you like professional quality images of you in lingerie / fetish wear, or intimate couple portraits, or erotica? The mini photo session will produce approximately 30-50 images from which you can select two images to have edited and retouched in photoshop. All photos from session burned onto CD-ROM for $25.00 which you will leave with at nights end.


Naughty -- A members (and their guests) only play party


At the Naughty parties, anything can happen -- it probably did, at the last one -- and anything goes. Whether your fancy is gentle caressing, hardcore BDSM, sensation play, exhibitionism, voyeurism (no one is required to play), or simply bringing a partner (or two) and having sex in such a charged environment, Naughty is for you. With music turned up, we swing open the doors to our Membership body and let the good times flow.

Sex, Bondage, Slap & Tickle & Social Time

Our massage girl will be on site providing her sensuous erotic massages at $20 for 15 minutes. Sign up when you arrive.

Bring your own toys and towel.

Equipment: Six queen size beds, suspension frame, gyno table, bondage table, a set of stocks, a cage, a kneeler spanker, the red rocket, a rack, seven massage tables, one massage chair and a whole lot more.

++Our Sex Machine the Monkey Rocker will be set up with attachments on sale; they range in price from $25-$50 CASH and once you buy it, you just continue to bring it back to LL so that you can ride each and every visit on your own personal insertable. The Sybian will also be out and attachments can be purchased $75-$90. The ride is free; it is the attachment piece you must buy. We have a number in stock, both singles and double insertables.

The kitchen bitches will return and be keeping the snacks stocked all night long for you.

Dress Code: No street clothes, no business suits, no blue jeans, no running shoes, no athletic wear, no camouflage pants, no flannel robes, no sunglasses, and no face masks.

Monday, March 29, 2010

All Things Sex [3]

Consent in advance is a legal defense according to the Ontario Court Of Appeal.

My good friend Craig sent me this essay on Threesome's and its a good read.

I met Kelly at the Taboo Sex Show this past weekend. She's a smoking hot babe who has a gift with words and is smoldering as a sex pot in a corset. She gets bonus points for gifting me with a box of Purdy's chocolates. She and I will be getting more acquainted over the next few months.

You'll find me in Regina Saskatchewan the weekend of April 23-25 teaching. I'm not listed yet on their website but will be in short order.

Pride Toronto had plans on censoring the messages on banners/signs of those marching, but public outcry has changed this now.

I am looking to write a couple more classes on dating and picking up someone. Can you think of some other topics for classes that you would like to see me teach? If so, please send me an email at jennifer@libidoevents.com