Watching Others Fuck

I like to watch other people have sex. It's true, I'm a voyeur.

It's not like I enjoy it all the time. There are times when watching others have sex is my job, it's me wandering through a party ensuring safety and briefly scanning the room over. Keeping my eyes from inadvertently meeting those who are playing, yet stealing stolen glances of peoples most erotic moments.

You might wonder when it's enjoyable for me. It's hot to watch people fuck when I'm not working. When my own arousal is at the forefront and when I am sharing the visual with a partner or a FWB. (friend with benefits)

I have seen my partners over the years have sex with others and thought nothing of it. I've witnessed them being hot and heavy with a person they had just met and I have not been moved by it at all. Well other than to be delighted for them to have found someone to be playful with in that moment.

I don't find it hot to see my partners being intimate with others. Not to date anyways.

However it is sexy as hell to watch two people I do not know, or whom I am not in a relationship with get it on with one another.

The raw moments of lust. The abandon to have sex with others around. The noised grunted, squeaked, screamed and moaned into the room. The smell of their union lingering heavy in the air. Counting their orgasms with them. Applauding their efforts.

Watching people screw when they know I am present is also highly charged for me. It fuels a deep sexual hunger in me to know that the couple banging are aware of my presence and my intent interest in viewing them. It's like being a third without having to put out.

Being a voyeur means I am privy to new ways to interact sexually with my parnter[s] that I may have not thought of previously. Voyeurism is safer sex at it's best. Being a voyeur permits me the luxury of arousal without the sweat. Watching let's me play my own fantasies in my head while my hand is down my pants frantically rubbing my hard clit without regard to when someone else is going to be getting off.

Ironically I find myself generally unmoved by pornography in a digital format. Watching fake performances that are happening for money leave me rather unimpressed. I don't necessarily need a story line either, but I would at least like to be led to believe that the actors portrayed are actually, really enjoying themselves and not just pretending or orgasm and preference for one another for a pay check. Don't get me wrong, porn has it's place for those interested in buying into it, but hey, its not with me.

I do however enjoy looking at sexy photos of couples and women -- and not so much for lone men. It's the interaction between couples that catches my breath and it's the babes with curves that make my clit twitch as I flip from one erotic image to the next.

Call me old fashioned but my preference for watching others fuck will always be the live show rather than the shiny DVD in a case.