pallet wrap bondage

This evening has me heading to the BDSM communities local monthly hang-out, Rascal's.

There is a certain pretty lady, who sent me an email requesting to bottom to me in play tonight. Her submissiveness towards me is strong, leaving me to feel powerful.


Little does RC or this "other woman" know, but I have plans to bind them as one during a scene later on. Beat on them, rough them up some, then have fast no nonsense sex with each of them once they are immobilized together naked, chest to chest.

Pallet wrap is quick, pretty, shiny and strong!

It's so much fun having the upper hand. The two of them have met in passing once before, tonight they shall get better acquainted. ha ha

copulating

OK not quite like rabbits, more like bunnies.

I am horny as hell and we have been fucking like bunnies for days.



Ah, I have a charmed orgasmic life.



Now someone get me a carrot!

Sybian Sex Machine, Vancouver

I need a graphic designers assistance. Someone to take the clubs new name (which has now been chosen) listen to the mission statement, then be able to create a sexy, simple, bold Logo pulling together all of those elements and hand it back to me almost immediately.

If this is you, please email me at jennifer@libidoevents.com This is not a paying project, it is one in which a donation of your time will be required and in exchange you will be rewarded with club credit and my forever gratitude.

On a more personal note, in my bedroom right now is a Sybian. A Sybian, yes it's true I've got one of those infamous sex machines at home with me. It's good to have friends. I picked it along with 10 dozen condoms up earlier today, I'll tell you more about this acquisition later.

With my daughter away this weekend, I plan on turning on the Sybian and going for a number of wild rides towards orgasmic pleasures. Well in-between working, packing and the start of the move process: we are sorting our furnishings & personal stuff, figuring out exactly how we want our place to be.

The word family resonates quite nicely around the three of us right now, no one is working at it, we're just becoming one at an ease that is astonishing. The way we are together warms me like nothing I've ever experienced and seeing my daughter fall for RC and he for her has reaffirmed for me the power of love.

The birds, Sophie & Foster moved over here today and are currently settled alongside all of us, RC brought them in this morning when he got in from work.

It's been such a long day, I need to head to bed early. RC is working tonight, not home till 7:30 in the morning, so I've got the bed to myself. He is missed, it's still hard to say good-bye when we need to part. It's not possible to keep our hands off of one another, we connect with our skin.

Kissing Class & Orgasms

I managed to spend 5 hours in a row bolted to a chair working alone today. It is mind blowing the amount of paperwork that is before me right now. All I wanted to do was sleep, actually have a looong nap, but I was on a role accomplishing things and never was able to rest my head on a pillow for any amount of time.

That's not quite true, I did lay down and masturbate a few times over the day. Having orgasms daily, regularly is so much a necessity for me. Not only do I enjoy the physical sensations attached to my orgasms, but the stress release it provides is critical for my mental health. And it's true as well that I use O's to keep me awake at times.

Dropped by my PO box and emptied it's contents into my bag. The latest issue of Power Exchange Magazine. A few new books: Erotic Fire Play, Master / slave Relationships and another on the Theory and Practice for Leather slaves. Should make for some great discussions after finding some waking hours to read them. And just to go "Ooh and Ahh" all the books are autographed by the authors and written to me. Sweet.

There was more stuff in my PO box....I also found a 3 page poem from a student who had been in one of my Dominance classes when I last taught in Seattle. Profoundly moving and exceptionally well done, a poet he is, he wrote about me. How flattering. A signed, sealed and delivered contract for upcoming work, and a notice to renew my box. What a haul and all good.

I've got this brand new Kissing class and it's first one is scheduled for this Sunday, it's couples only and an erotic adventure. Believe it, have I ever created a class that will leave couples breathless with a renewed passion towards kissing.

April 22 Sunday
6:30 - 8:30pm
Kiss Me Like This - couples only
presented by Jennifer
Love Nest 4687 Kingsway, Burnaby
$40 couple pay at door

Kisses are at times tender, endearing, sexy, suave, teasing and sophisticated. From the subtle, the pre coital to the full on public display of affection variety, this class will ignite some passion between your lips and in your relationship.

You and your partner will be guided through an awakening of oral delights. You’ll be shown how to deliver a multitude of kisses and given tips to interpret smooch reactions and read body language. Learn to be the recipient of kisses as well as how to differentiate and master many lip locks to have your lover feeling everything from teased to toe curling pleasure from your intimate lip touch.

high on life

So today was a spectacular day for me. Starting with a luxurious sleep-in with RC in the morning, making a monumental decision regarding the new club club mid afternoon, dinner was a shared tasty family experience, then off to teach an evening class that was such a delight to facilitate.

Tonight's subject was Butt Sex & Anal Pleasures, we were at The Love Nest in Burnaby and everyone attending, both men & women brought many questions and I was able to get them the answers they were seeking. What was special was J. a woman in class, who brought me home made beautiful chocolates on sticks. Not just any shape chocolate either, rather a bulbous cock being held by a woman's hand, bouncing breasts and a very happy large dicked rabbit. Being good, I shared them with others in class and brought myself home the remains.

Truth be told, the chocolates are one part of the fundraising campaign for the new club, again, details on this to follow in the coming days or weeks. Fundraising projects should be kicking off soon, watch for information on this so you too can support the new club.

Then after class, something unusual happened. The group was friendly, interested in my new venture and filled with curiosity. I filled them in on a few details they were wanting and then we sat and talked about everything for about 45 minutes, till 10:30. They generated such great new ideas for me and also pointed out a few things I'd yet to explore. It is rare for me to "hang out" after a class and talk about my own projects, usually people want to leave right after class as it's late so they can head home or stay briefly to ask me specific short sex questions without others being around.

By the time I got home, yes it was late, though I was feeling on top of the world.

I'm loved. I'm respected. I'm successful. I'm in love. I have family. I am happy. All I really need now is more time in the day to make the most of myself and all that I still want to become & create.

EDIT: Before me right now is a brand spanking new sexy camera with an outrageous amount of capabilities, an exorbitant gift from RC. Once I finish reading the book that comes with it, I plan on posting some photos of the chocolate cocks & breasts I was given. (before I eat them)

Win Free Tickets

It’s sexy, sex positive and very fun; which is why they are offering you a chance at tickets!

HERE ARE THE CONTEST DETAILS:

Film: Crossing
Date: For the week starting Friday, April 20^th

Theatre: The Fifth Avenue at Fifth and Burrard.
Time: Check local listings

WHAT TO DO? Reply with your name and email address by 11 am, Thursday, April 19, 2007.

associate@relevision.com

Winners will be drawn and contacted via email to come down to the store (across from the theatre!) and pick up a pass which admits two.

Good luck!

(Libido Events is even mentioned in the credits to this movie. Yeah!!!)

Sensual Play For Lovers class

For those of you who read yesterdays post about SIN City, and my plan to hurt RC, well, mission successful. I beat them man with my 6 inch stilettos until he was black & blue. It was so much fun. He took it so well from me, that women he didn't even know were offering him kisses and petting him afterwards to make him feel better.

All in all an excellent night out for each of us. And we were home and in bed by midnight, because today I have to teach this.....

April 15 Sunday
2:00 - 4:00pm
Sensual Play For Lovers, a fully interactive class
(couples or kissing friends only)
presented by Jennifer
Club Eden 11041 River Road North Delta
call to reserve your spot 604-589-2582
$50 couple

This is a very exciting, fun and highly charged class to take. We will have plenty of erotic fun and play with group sex-energy. Everyone attending will only be paired off with the person they came with.


Sensual play is processed in the mind of your lover as well as
their body. The goal of this workshop is to give you tools to
stimulate all of the senses and imagination at the same time as you
get to practice them. (cool, warm, sharp, slick, pointy, smooth,
rough, abrasive, feathery, tickles etc.)


This workshop will cover the things you need to do in advance of
sensual play to enhance your experience, from talking to your lover,
to setting the tone and expectations for an experience. We will
cover types of props to include and how to incorporate them into
your play. We will also cover the many erogenous zones of the body
on men and women and talk about the types and variety of sensations
you can apply to each. We'll discuss how to layer sensations on one
another and how to escalate sensation as you heighten your lovers
energy. We will also cover what to do when you've get there and how
to bring someone back to earth.

Everyone will gain new ideas from this workshop and those with ideas
of their own are welcome to share them in a collaborative
environment.

Everyone must wear underwear and tank top or underwear only. Everyone attending must participate.

walk on the wild side

Tonight is work for me. Happily it's a Sin City night, and RC and I have plans on being there, right after returning his mother back to BC Ferries. It will be an early night for us though as he works tomorrow by day and I'm teaching Sensual Play For Lovers at Club Eden in the afternoon.

Straight to Sin, grab a drink, socialize a little, then time to drag my man down to the dungeon for a thrashing. Me thinks, he needs to be roughed up some by me.

Variety of devious toys to be packed still to torment with and ubber sexy club clothing chosen next to seduce. Go Jennifer!

trying to keep up

We have started the moving process. We have a system in place to sort and merge our belongings. We will be settled by June 01 together as a family. I'm almost certain we couldn't have planned this to go any smoother if we had prayed for it. Life is amazing.

Today I was given excellent news that allows me to do another large step on Monday towards the opening of the club. It is very time consuming dealing with all of this and also a weight for me emotionally. Mix this in with a good dose of anxiety around personal success and another of fear of the unknown, combined it's been an almost lethal combination making me unable to move at times. However....Monday is a BIG day. I have somewhere to be early in the day and appointments following all day long and I will be there. No prompting needed, we're down to the wire now. It's all in the details.

meeting Mom

RC's mom arrived to the mainland today for a few days visit. How exciting that we finally get to meet one another. Did I mention that she reads my blog? Well, she does and she has in past read it with RC's sister.

Mom and RC were talking earlier, getting the chance to catch up some together as mother and son should. This of course prior to my arrival for dinner. Mom looks at her son and promptly without missing a beat, demanded to know from him, how exactly the J was doing that I had written earlier in the week about carving with a knife into his bottom. To say the least, she was alarmed. RC assured her that he was healing well and that it had all happened in good fun.

(then he phoned me on the phone laughing, to tell me what his mother had just asked him)

Can you imagine showing up to meet your partners mother for the first time and her only exposure to you was reading your journal and finding out that you were a sex activist and you'd carved a J with a knife into the ass of her son recently?

We had a great meal together and she and I got along very well. She's cool. I'm eager for tomorrow when I'll get some time with her without my daughter around so we can talk more candidly. Plus there is still an Easter surprise for her that is going to blow her mind!

A Full Cup

Measure of my Womanhood...

1. wearing cosmetics daily is of no interest to me
2. a beautiful teen-aged daughter and plans on having a baby
3. ability to orgasm with myself and with partners
   
4. breasts that produced milk enough to feed my daughter and soon another
   
5. breasts that are pierced for my pleasure and that of my partners
6. pubic hair that though once a full bush, is kept groomed short and flattering
7. understanding the difference between need and want
8. knowing when to say NO in bed
   
9. facing the consequences for saying YES in bed
   
10. comfort around my body size, shape, appearance, finally owning it
11. ability to ask for what I want sexually in detail, without shame to a partner/s
12. loving intimately & sexually more than one person at a time
13. acceptance of the power of my womanhood
14. lovingly familiar & intimate with my sexuality
15. my naked form has become beautiful
16. being called Ma'am from a youthful stranger
17. being able to check the 25-35 year old box on forms
18. menstrual cycle that runs monthly
    
19. breasts that shift with each passing year
20. owning bras that push up and forwards my breasts
21. buying jeans that accentuate my posterior
22. answering to "girl or babe"
23. noticing hotties that are barely legal age
24. no longer buying into empty advertising promises
25. multi orgasmic and ability to ejaculate
26. can find beauty & lust for, in both men & women
27. needing a nap after rounds of sex
    

uh oh....

RC's espresso machine used to look like this. And then, I broke it. I snapped the handle right off of it. This was last week. I had already apologized. Then last night as I was rolling the birthday man into bed, he made an announcement.

"Jenn, tomorrow at 1:00 I want you ready for your punishment for the breaking of my coffee maker." Described how he wanted me dressed and said we'd deal with it the next day. I fell asleep happily eroticizing the scene that was going to happen between us.

I was careless and broke RC's coffee maker and so punishment was due to me. A paddle and his hand were the implements of choice. Lifting my skirt up high and having me pull my panties round my ankles I was getting weak kneed, wet with excitement and a twinge of fear.

Then he pulled me towards him for an over the knee spanking that left my bottom bruised and me begging for forgiveness, you can imagine that I learned myself a lesson.

up, up and away...

Standing in the living room naked was RC earlier this afternoon. He was looking very hot and buff. A brightly colored helium balloon tied around his swollen cock with strings of ribbon, it's his birthday and laughter was filling the room. That he let's me do funny (and mean) things to him, keeps our relationship fresh & exciting.

Tonight I have a delicious surprise for my man on his day of celebration. Later in the week, I may fill you in on the details. Suffice to say it required me to enlist the assistance of a cute, young, girl-friend.

Suggestions for Events

This afternoon I spent precious working hours on short-term planning for the new space as I'm heading there again tomorrow morning to check in on progress. My mind is going in a million directions these days and I could use some more of your help on this one thought.

What events would you like to see in the new club? Included on the calendar already are

• pansexual play parties
• women only play parties
• bondage events
• outside educators
• as a rental space to outside groups
• Libido Events Erotic Arts Curriculum classes
• Libido Events offices (my Coaching space & Personal office)
  
• Libido Events Sex-Positive Lending Library

And a great number of other wonderful and sex positive events, though I'm not going to list calendar events here quite yet. What I want and need from you is suggestions for specific types of events that you would like to see or can think or dream up that are not mentioned already so as to fill up the calendar.

Please email your suggestions to me and/or post them here. Thanks

princess notes

Happenings of a Princess...

1. Finding a select few pairs of seemimgly perfect womanly shoes to try on in a downtown store brought a smile to my face. Instead of waiting for the sales assistant to offer me help or even allowing me to do it for myself, RC drops down to one knee where he removes my foot ware in a very sweet manner. Then still on his bent knee he placed each new shoe on for me, strapping my ankles in securely so I could parade in front of a mirror till a decision could be made as to which ones made me happiest.

2. With the intention of pampering me RC had set up the massage table earlier in the evening because he said I needed and deserved a good massage. A 90 minute full body massage, where RC worked my entire naked body free from stress, then put us, to bed.

3. Flowers in all colors two weeks in a row, glorious large arrangements that make my dining and living room look so bright & lavish, then the third week a vase filled with orchids.

4. Me: sprawled out in the large lounger in the living room, naked with a cold drink in my hand. On the TV, girl-on-girl porn, yummy. On the floor between my spread legs was a cushion and perched upon it RC could be found for some time, pleasing me. Wild wet orgasms ensued.

in support of anal sex

play time

Fond memories from last night...RC emitting low muffled agonizing screams mixed with rounds of him giggling uncontrollably while being tortured. He was naked on the bed, face down buried into all the pillows with hands clenched to the sheets and his ass exposed. Me and my body weight straddled over him, sitting in the small of his back, ordering him to be very still in my stern dominant bedroom voice. Blade in hand, I carved a letter J into his posterior, a little ragged in places, but not because of my hand, no no. Where it looks rough is due to RC thrashing around despite being told to, stay very still.

All in all, excellent handiwork.

feedback on G-Spot class

Hi Jennifer,

I really enjoyed the G-Spot class last night. It was both
informative and fun, which is how I feel learning should be! You
really have a wonderful style of teaching and I'm grateful for the
friendly and warm, yet very professional approach you used to engage
us in our learning about female sexuality. I'm looking forward to
another class with you soon. This time I'll bring my partner!

Thanks so much to you and Allison for your generous open-mindedness.
I'm quite sure it will lead to increased pleasure for at least one
more beautiful and sexy woman this week..... :-)

Brad

I never even noticed

Today in my mailbox was a small envelope that I'd been awaiting on pins and needles to receive, the contents though minute in size was most valuable to me.

Recalling last week.... RC, the teen-ager and myself sitting at the table enjoying dinner together and the phone rings.

I answer, only because it is Bella. (Allena)

Bella: "So honey, did you lose something last weekend when you were here?"

Me: thinking deeply, "Nope, nothing, why?"

Bella: "Are you sure, because in my bed I found a bead....."

Me: at the dinner table, pulling up my top and pulling my breast free from the bra to exclaim "holy crap, you're right! I did leave something behind." "Wow, thank you for finding it and can you believe it is still straight through my nipple in perfect place without the bead securing it there."

Teenager & RC: looking at my one breast sans bead to hold the barbell in place and smiling oddly at me in shock, laughing at my predicament to one another, while continuing to eat dinner.

Bella: "I found it in my bed honey, likely lost during my birthday celebration."

Me: thinking in my head, I likely lost that during our three-some on her birthday morning wake-up. While saying out loud "can you mail that to me ASAP in a padded envelope so it doesn't poke out and get lost for good this time."

Bella: "Done"

Later after dinner RC taped a piece of medical cloth tape over the piercing to hold it in place till the bead arrived as I didn't want to have to remove it.

The bead came today and is now secured again on to my left barbell where it belongs.

G Spot class Burnaby

tomorrow night I'm teaching my G-Spot and Female Ejaculation class, plan on being there...

April 3 Tuesday
7:30 - 9:30pm
Finding and Stimulating the G-Spot & Female Ejaculation - with live demo
(open to men & women, couples & singles)
presented by Jennifer
Love Nest 4687 Kingsway, Burnaby
tickets$25, pay at door

Finding and Stimulating the G-Spot & Female Ejaculation

Are you a squirter or gusher, or aspiring to be? Want to help your lady enjoy her G-Spot? This is the class for you.

Join Jennifer and one of her lovely woman friends for a hands-in demonstration on techniques to please for G spot stimulation & ejaculation potential.

Clitoral & G-Spot Anatomy from both an internal and external view. Choosing a toy or your own hands? Getting you both ready for the often transformative experience. When the G-Spot is stroked, there is often a sensation or urge to urinate. By learning techniques to both understand then move beyond this urge many women can experience heightened arousal and for others ejaculation becomes possible.


*please bring a notebook & pen to class