knocking on heavens door

Remember the couple that RC and I found ourselves entangled with last Saturday night?

Well I gave them my business card after our delicious time together, and now they've written. One of things I didn't mention when I wrote about our time with them, is that I also had the privilege of walking them through the G-Spot stimulation techniques that I'm so known for.

Hi Jennifer,

It's Tessa and Peter from Saturday night at Eden. We had such a great time with you and Jason. What an experience...... :) The next day we experimented with what you taught us and my God, it worked!...I ejaculated 3 times covering Peter completely! It was pretty cool...so cool we tried again the next day, but to no avail...:( Can you tell us if it takes awhile between sessions????

We also loved your bag of toys! We were thinking it would be fun if you could come over with them and have some more fun. Would you be interested in that?

Hope you are having a great night, and look forward to hearing from you.

Jeeeesh. Such flattery. Of course we'll be in touch, and they are right, it will be so much fun to spend time with my toys and us all together again.

Hump Day

A brief list of what occupied me this day...

• hand-picking 2 pounds of fresh black berries for the fridge and freezer in my gum boots
  
• one on one time with T (she's leaving again this Sun. for the rest of the summer)
• a seriously sought after two hour nap
  
• finished 3/4 of some long overdue paperwork that is going to be very lucrative for me
• enjoyed Organic Orange Peel - Dark chocolate
• answered 20'something emails, and yes I am still behind in this area *sighs*
  
• dealt with banking matters at a local branch of my bank
• picked up this in red to compliment the shoe acquisition a few days back (it was actually made to be sold together - great score!)

Brought home for me was this most amazing arrangement of perfect red roses, long just-opening white lilies, lavender and baby's breath. RC is very good to me, I am so blessed.

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Slip, sliding fun

Well well I am a fortunate woman...

The weather was gorgeous today and the heat was great, I do love the return of the summer sun after a few days of gray skies.

Yesterday T, RC and I talked about a family outing (today), and we'd agreed T could bring a friend as well.

After picking up her girlfriend, we made the mid morning trek across cities till we could smell the fresh air.

It was where the air smelled like ocean and the sounds of lively amused happy people joined as one, that we pulled in to our destination.

Jumping out of the vehicle, and grabbing our day's luggage, we descended upon this place of fun.

We made camp, after finding a clear area amongst the many other families, having a very similar day to ours.

Shedding our clothes, down to our bathing suits, we sat together and ate a wonderful cold picnic lunch.

Then it happened.

We stood in line but for a few minutes before it was out turn.

Each of us grabbed an inner-tube and hoisting it over our heads, we made the climb up to the start of the Big Jim's River Run.

Quickly we four were given the nod of approval and

SPLASH

each of us drops our tubes into the water, climbs our butts inside them
and starts to shoot down, this twisty river run all the while
holding on to our tubes for dear life and
laughing at the predicaments of one another

What fun.

We ate copious amounts of bad snack foods, and hung out sunning together all day. Well, in between going down slide after slide.

Water slides are a a blast for people of any age - we got tuckered out from all the activity.

I was having such a great day that when I realized the time, it became apparent that we needed to start making our way of the park area and into the vehicle. Six and half hours of water fun is about enough in my book.

Driving home, both teenagers in the back seat fell asleep. It was a sight to behold, two very exhausted girls sleeping for the entire return trip.

accessories

A day for accessories.

This afternoon found RC and I standing in Aldo, at the cash-register being handed a bag containing the most exquisite pair of perfectly fitting fire engine red stiletto shoes.

What a find, a must have purchase. And a thank you gift for Saturdays evening out. I am loved and spoiled; an excellent combination.

RC did make me promise to never beat him with these shoes, as I have with others in the past.

Next necessary item was a spiffy new Bluetooth Wireless Headset from Nokia, and all my needs had been met. (RC had the hands free working for me twenty minutes after we got home, driving a standard now made this acquisition necessary)

A stop at the produce store for some staples, as was our original intent when leaving and finally we were able to get out of the god forsaken mall. Thankfully it was early afternoon, the mall was fairly quiet as there were few shoppers and the air conditioning was blasting.

Shoes, panties and sex toys are the items that I have the most of, and that I also go through the quickest. What a surprise.

It is a collection worthy of its own insurance policy.


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Family Update:

My daughter arrived home from Toronto and Mexico yesterday just before noon, having left Toronto at 5:00 a.m. and being through three times zones in 2 days. She went to bed last night at 9:20 and woke up this afternoon at 12:45. That is 15 hours of sleep. She didn't even get up for the washroom, she just slept like a teenager, for hours and hours.

I was so elated to hear her calling my name again ... "Hey Mom".

A Big Stink

We went to bed at 4 this morning, RC and I making love till the wee hours of morning. Essential oils filled the bedroom, and the tea lights danced flickers of ambiance across the room. It was all very romantic as I was given a massage and more oral attention than imaginable. We fell asleep, having sex, me laying on top of my man, and he adoring me.

This hideous wailing noise awoke us at 9:00, apparently that is what the alarm clock sounds like on just five short hours of sleep. There was no choice but to dress quickly and head out of the house. We made the drive out to the airport where I was gearing up for the arrival of my daughter from Toronto via Mexico.

RC and I were at YVR, in front of carousel #5 for about ten minutes before the RCMP showed up for us. Seriously, the RCMP came and asked each of us for our ID. Then asked us what we had been doing 5 minutes earlier as they pulled out their note books and started writing a statement.

Well my daughter is a minor, traveling un-escorted on Air Canada and we are here to pick her up from her holiday at the passenger pick up area. Though her flight is delayed an hour, so were are sitting here, waiting patiently, thank you for asking.

The RCMP demand to know again what we "had" been doing 5 minutes earlier, and I say "five minutes ago I was massaging RC's feet, though his socks, with his shoes removed." RCMP come back with rude, pushy behaviour and then tell us that we are not allowed to wait in front of the carousel for my daughter, but rather back behind some short partition wall. I point out the easily 60, I mean SIXTY other people waiting on "the other side" of the partition wall and the aggressive little male officer, named Hugh, decided to push himself in to our personal space despite having no grounds and not even a charge.

Suffice to say, by the time the Mounties were done there power trip, strangers were watching on, and were none to impressed with the antics of the officers. After hearing from the "public" that they planned on going home and making a complaint to the RCMP on our behalves, we decided to go home and do the same. An older man walked up to us after the incident and said he was ashamed and embarrassed by the actions of the Mounties.

Finding the head complaint officer by phone we were mortified to learn that not only did they have no grounds to move us, or to stop us, but that their behaviour was poor and lacking enough judgement that the Head Officer was now making a drive out the airport detachment to align the attitude of that crappy officer. An apology is apparently forth coming.

Officer Hugh is giving support to the negative attitudes held about our RCMP by the general public, much like Stinky Tink makes others look at the BDSM community in a not so positive light.

It only takes one bad apple to spoil the bunch. And to smell a whole lot.

Sex & HTML

Some days are just a whirlwind of activity. Today of course was one of those afternoons and thankfully for just a few short hours as I was in no head-space to handle anymore than I did.

Slept till the afternoon as it's difficult to leave the bed when it's filled with my guy whose all warm and cuddly. Then rolled out of bed, and headed straight to the computer to update the website with some Fall Party dates and a number of interactive workshops set to happen at a new club out in Surrey.

After getting the HTML completed on the site and published, it was time to head out to dinner. We went for a incredible meal of sushi at this Top Notch Sushi restaurant in Vancouver - RC's friends treated us to this wonderful feast as celebration to something I just-can't-mention, yet.

It was a fast drive home with me behind the wheel as we had to be showered and out to the door again shortly. Arrived inside, stripped out of my dinner dress and pumps, sliding straight into the tub. A perfect shave job, a good soak and dressed I was again in just 30 minutes.

Wearing nothing more than a very complimentary little kinky clothes outfit myself, we strolled in the door of Club Eden just in time for a night of partying. After some socializing and a drink, we made our way to the dungeon. I mummified RC and then pulled out a knife and started slashing the plastic covering him, in strategic places. People gasped as though they were worried for his personal safety. Flogging him later on, and doing some light sensation play to him, somehow gathered us even more of a crowd of on-lookers.

After asking them to move out of swing-range they politely moved back, though still watching in awe as I did various sexy mean things to the boy. Near the end of our scene there was one particular couple sitting watching us, that earlier RC had said he'd found the woman to be attractive.

I struck up a smooth chit chat with them as we were alone in the dungeon now, and within minutes the four of us were upstairs in a Private room negotiating our way through what was to be a fantastic play experience for all.

girl-juice

What a great group gathered at Dragon fly's last night for my G-Spot class, a nice night out at work for me. Thanks again Deej for being both fun AND educational.

RC and I rolled out of bed at the unsightly hour of 4:30 this afternoon. The bed was wet, sheets including pillows were on the floor, our bodies cuddly and warm...and honestly, we were starving after all the sex we'd had. Naked I stumbled into the kitchen where I made a hearty breakfast for us to enjoy, and refuel.

I discovered two excellent positions for "woman on top" sex earlier, had three intense orgasms, savored a 69, got face, gave head, and rode RC till he was thrashing across the bed into a wave of spent happy exhaustion.

At 6:30 my guy left for work and now, I'm home with rest of the night to myself and still feeling amorous.

Happily I have my Hitachi Magic Wand and my new favorite toy which is rechargeable, water-proof and silicone.

Excuse me now, while I go and grab my toys, some lube and a towel and continue my day of debauchery.....

multi tasking

It's been an industrious day here at Libido Events. I've been booked to do a number of classes and events in the coming weeks, in fact I'm even working with a few new people. Still need to upload everything to the website when I next get the chance.

Just recently I have started to feel as though I've caught my breath after the Surrey location version of Libido Lounge. Without any spectacular build-up we will announce our Official Opening in our new city as soon as the license hangs framed on my office wall. You'll be more than pleased by our new home!

Tonight I teach G-Spot & Female Ejaculation at Dragon Fly's Den in Surrey and I'm taking along Deej as my volunteer model. RC's off picking her up from work, I'm making us all dinner and then we are on the road to my class.

About a week ago a beautiful brand new shiny fridge was delivered to us here at home.... a long overdue appliance acquisition as the old one was on it's last legs. That it matches the new dishwasher makes the domestic part of me very satisfied.

growth spurt

I miss not having my daughter home. It's been almost two weeks since she left and I'm eager for her return this weekend. This quiet time without a child underfoot has reiterated for me my deep desire for another child.

We were out earlier and saw a wee-fresh baby cradled in it's new mothers arms, and a beaming father walking next to them. I smiled at the babe. RC pulled me in tighter to his grasp, and said not to worry, we will be making one of our own soon.

Life could not be any better.

lucky girl

My daughter been away for quite some time now, and she's not due back till Sunday. 15 days gone. Right now she is in Ticalli Mexico. It's overwhelming to think of how far from home she is right now, without me and all that she knows & loves.

She phoned me today, not even home sick. Having the time of her life, experiencing another country at the tender age of 13, basically on her own, as she's with 13 other teenagers and a single chaperon. This afternoon they were at the Pyramids of Teotihuacan. I'm elated at her opportunities and happiness.

Next summer she's already decided to do a three week bike trip, across PEI.

She has such courage, an attribute I didn't have at her age. Her sights are always set to do something new, exciting , bold and containing an element of activism.

I have no idea where she gets this from. (grins sheepishly)

And I am really proud of her.

reflecting

Finally with a few minutes to reflect on last Saturdays Play Party and I'm overwhelmed with positivity. Let me share...

1. Set up 5 full beds, 6 massage tables, 7 pieces of BDSM equipment, 1 eight-ft. tall suspension frame, 2 cuddle stations, 1 lounge area filled with 6 large tables & surrounding chairs then brought in a myriad of party supplies to keep things going all night long.

2. RC & I joined another couple in the sex play room, coming out tousled and spent a short while later

3. All volunteers showed up on time, treated everyone with such respect to the point of accolades being sent from party attendees via email to thank me for such wonderful support help.

4. Watched as my guy had a play experience in front of me for the first time, that did not involve me. (I've traveled this road with partners before yet this is all new territory for RC; I'm checking his pulse often to make sure he's doing o.k, though the perma grin on his face sort of makes one believe he's doing just fine in the world of poly)

5. Met an outrageous amount of new people who had the time of their lives.

6. Was able to catch up with many long term community members, and loved, just loved the conversations about Stinky Tink, McEwan, and community sex-politics. Real conversations, honest information and again, I gathered even more support. Tis' good to have friends.

7. The support from everyone at the party, had me feeling the love surrounding the old Libido Lounge Surrey issue.

8. Played with an astounding number of people. Kissing many women. Aiding others to discover something new. Leading some to new heights of pleasure. Flirted shamelessly, it's part of my job description. Assisting umpteen individuals out of their street clothes as the transition at the door is difficult for some. Couples, and even a triad I found myself in the middle of. Yet I kept my knickers on all night long. How did that happen? Perhaps I'm just a giver.

9. Had a couple fly from Winnipeg Manitoba to attend the Play Party - they made many new friends and I was flattered by their arrival

10. Booked 2 new clients in for Private Coaching work later this week

11. At the front counter, I found a total of 4 large bags of sheets donated to the Play Party. Bonus for the event as sheets and duvet covers were super nice and already covering our beds by nights end.

12. Booked Play Parties for the rest of the year, on a monthly basis, because quite frankly there is not an atmosphere similar to Libido Events anywhere else locally. Our sex-positivity shines through in all that we do and people are demanding that I offer these regularly so they will have options in where to go to get their kink-on in the city as their current options are rather bleak in comparison to our Splash.

13. Party-goers were on our door step even before we opened, and at nights end (1:30 a.m.) I was helping people towards their coats.

14. Dyke and queer women in abundance in our inclusive space, as well as girly girls left right and center. Then again, who could forget the women.

SUCCESS

Were you at the Play Party, did you have a good time as well? Do tell.

Pride Vancouver 2007

As a queer woman, I wish you a HAPPY PRIDE!

The parade was magnificent, despite the two lone protesters who set up their home base right next to us for the duration of the event. The man in the photo and I had a short talk, then he promptly gave me a Get Out Of Hell For Free Card.

My God loves me and is not sending me to Hell for my sexual preferences. Instead my God, has given me a living heaven, ripe with the fruits of pleasure for me to enjoy. This is a reward for being true to myself, and my God.

I saw so many people I knew, we had a great time. It was fun taking a couple of RC's friends, who had not before been to a Pride parade. (it's fun to cherry pop)

Todays Mail-Out

(Mailing list information, including unsubscription instructions, is located at the end of this message.)


This email is a reminder about tonight's, SATURDAY AUGUST 4th PLAY PARTY starting at 8:00 p.m and running through to 1:30 a.m. A write up about the Play Party followed by 20 Tips for Success at the party for you to read over before attending. A small write up about parking, reminders about clothing requirements and how to store your belongings at our party, plus at the very end of this mail out is a small list of needed items. If your attending tonight's party, look around your home today to see if you have any of the aforementioned items to donate. Thank you and I can't wait to see you all tonight! This Play Party has no guest list, it is a show up and buy your tickets at the door event.


Located in downtown Vancouver at the corner of Hornby and Dunsmuir Streets for those driving OR easily accessible bus and by Sky Train as we are one block from the Burrard Street Train Station for those relaying on Transit. This is your opportunity to partake in carnal pleasures, meet new friends and watch others enjoy themselves. Join us...

August 4 Saturday 8:00pm - 1:30am
PLAY PARTY- a sex-positive event
brought to you by Libido Events
The Hornby - 3rd Floor 595 Hornby Street [at Dunsmuir] Vancouver BC

Tickets: $25 Woman / $50 Couples & Single Men - pay at door, cash
http://www.LibidoEvents.com/

*No membership required, must be 19 years +


The elevator doors open into a red-carpeted room lit with light bright enough to see by yet dim enough to create an inviting mood. A smiling volunteer offers to check any coats and bags you won't be needing for the evening ahead of you. Then after making your payment, you are finally permitted to see what is behind the screen blocking your view of the rooms and noise beyond.

A full pay bar sits at one side of the main room (you can leave your credit card with them), which holds chairs and candle-lit tables with light snacks for a casual socializing atmosphere. Further on, there is a massive room, 2500 sq. ft set up with BDSM furniture (suspension frames, spanking benches, tables with anchor points, intermixed with massage tables and other naughty sex pieces) and beyond them is a no-voyeurs room for couples only sex play with six full beds and 1000 sq ft. The space has music piped in and contains a stocked area of safer sex supplies, fresh bedding, massage oils and cleanup supplies. Even if you are early, you may see someone already at play in the rooms -- people here are keen to have fun and make the most of their night out.

A Libido Events Naughty Party has an atmosphere distinctly different from a fetish night. It shares the no-streetwear rule: wear your fetish wear, sexy clothing or even nothing at all (the temperature on this floor is set to "naked"). No jeans, sweat pants, boxer shorts or flannel pj bottoms. Dress to impress. However, the main difference is that sex and kink are not kept separate. You are as likely to see someone tied to a table and receiving oral sex as you are to see someone bent over getting a spanking or flogging. Swingers, kinksters, voyeurs, exhibitionists and people of every sexuality are welcome. Come see for yourself what a Naughty Party is like.

jennifer@libidoevents.com



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Jennifer's Tips for a Successful Experience at a Libido Events Play Party

1. Be friendly, make eye contact and introduce yourself to everyone you meet or sit next to. Smile.

2. Be complimentary of the people you meet, there is an attractive quality in or on everyone, find it and make that your compliment. Watch what happens when you make someone feel good about themselves.

3. Keep a respectable distance when watching people play and offer no comments, positive or otherwise. Make no deliberate eye contact with people playing, it's a mood breaker that violates others sacred space.

4. Invite or offer play once to the person you’re interested in. If met by a no, accept it gracefully, don’t take it personally and move on; do not make a request of someone twice. Smile

5. If invited to play by someone that doesn’t interest you, be kind, yet firm, when saying no, and remember it took a lot of courage for that person to put themselves out there. Smile and be grateful for the attention.

6. Have no expectations, then what does happen, will be a bonus.

7. Watch whatever you like and turn your back on anything that isn't of interest to you, but never offer comment.

8. Buy someone a drink or exchange e-mail addresses, make a new friend, two or three.

9. Thank the volunteers that help make this event possible and make your experience a positive one. (makes them feel good and helps you get comfortable talking to people in sex-positive space)

10. If you have a problem with a person, an activity going on, or understanding something, find a Monitor (wearing a PINK armband) or Jennifer to help you figure things out.

11. Remember to treat the venue with respect & tidy up after yourself. This includes putting garbage in the proper containers supplied in each room. Changing your sheets in the sex room after using a bed and putting the soiled sheet in the rooms laundry bin. Spraying down a piece of equipment in the Play rooms after playing on it; use the sanitizer and paper towels provided.

12. Be prepared to talk about yourself in some way and at the same time, listen to who you are standing in front of. This is for those that are hoping to play with the person. Smile

13. Treat everyone well. You will want to be known as that type of person. This will make you more comfortable, thus making others comfortable with you and opportunities to present themselves.

14. Never touch someone without their full consent & welcome.

15. Adhere to our House Rules posted at the Naughty Party. Smile.

16. If you are a man attending and plan on attending alone, know that your chances for finding play in any form go up exponentially if you arrive with a date. You don’t need to play together, but arriving with someone makes you appear safer to others looking at you as a potential play partner for the evening.

17. Remember that you can attend the next Naughty Party and meet other new people then. This may be your first party but it's not ours, Libido Events is not going anywhere. So do not make snap decisions thinking that this will be your only opportunity, know that you can meet that person or opportunity here again and nothing will be lost. [only enhanced with want & time]

18. Libido Events supplies the equipment but you must bring your own sex toys. Clean up & safer sex supplies along with linens are all provided.
*bringing your own sex toys means items such as: favorite condoms, favorite lube, floggers, canes, handcuffs, rope, chains, paddles, house coats etc

19. Remember Naughty Parties have a dress code of sexy pajamas or fetish attire, absolutely no street wear of any kind. Those in street wear will not be permitted to enter. Smile.

20. If you're uncertain of what to wear, try something from this list of suggestions:

PJ's bottoms, Nighties, Lingerie, Silks, Lace, Bra and Panty sets, Nude, Sheer, Rope Harnesses, Chaps, Leather, Latex, PVC, Vinyl, Rubber, Wetlook, Body Paint, Saran Wrap, Liquid Latex, Corsets, Feathers, Thongs, Stockings, Spandex, Heels, Boots, Cabaret, Tuxedo Jacket [sans pants], Uniforms, Smoking Jackets, Kilts, Cross-Dress, Furry, Vintage, Victorian, Gothic, Gender-bend, Fetish Glam, Porn Star...or any other risqué costume you can dream up! Dress to impress and let your own personality shine in your choice of clothing or costume.

21. Leave your valuables at home. There is a bank machine in the building (though not on our floor) and the full bar does accept credit cards. Bring a small tote bag to put your street clothes in at our coat check once you arrive.



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PLEASE REMEMBER: DONATIONS URGENTLY NEEDED of Clean, Used Double, Queen & King Sized Fitted Sheets. Bring them to the party and deposit to the bin at front registration. Thank you greatly they'll go to really good use as you can well imagine.



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If you have any questions about attending any Libido Event, sex-positive culture, community resources, BDSM, Leather or Alternative Lifestyles then ask me as it is a sure fire way to get the answer that you are seeking. Use myself and Libido Events as your sex-positive resource as it really is my pleasure to help make your entry into sex-positive culture as smooth and as safe as can be.

jennifer@libidoevents.com

Looking for private coaching with me? Or a private consultation? Want to book Libido Events to work with your group / school / program? E-mail me
jennifer@libidoevents.com After reading

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ITW 2007

Wow, what a trip we had. The whole time we were away we were inundated with friends, good company and excellent weather. Could not have prayed for a better [work] holiday.

We were in Ferndale Washington at ITW, the annual fundraiser for the Triskeli Guild. So much happened that made me stop and go, I must blog about this but of course I did not bring a computer. Bear with me now as I try to recount but a few of the highlights of camping out with almost 200 kinky perverts in the middle of nowhere for days on end, with a goal of community building and fun in mind.

HighLights

-time with RC away from the distractions of cell phones and computers

-selling RC on the auction block as a slave AND having a woman "buy" him

-watching RC enjoy his scene in the dungeon with the woman

-being Canadian amongst a lot of Yankees

-putting myself on the auction block as a slave AND watching the ensuing bidding war that took place, I was sold for the highest amount that day!

-being bought by a stranger, how scary/exciting

-getting tied to the strangers slave on the dungeon floor, then being caned and single tailed in the bright afternoon sun till my bottom looked unrecognizable

-teaching three classes that were not only full, but also truly well received by those there

-being asked to teach in the coming weeks in three different states (and I have only been to one of these states previously) at various other large kinky events

-I shared the purchase of a VERY hot young gay man on the auction block with a friend Sandy, we bought him for pussy licking

-Bella showed up for an evening with us and brought along her new guy

-The Betty Desire Show made me laugh so hard, it was great. Of course when not laughing I was singing along naked in my lawn chair.

-At the minimum I sucked Whipped Cream off of 25 different women's breasts, in less than 45 minutes no-less.

-Blow jobs out in the open that ended in rounds of applause and later, people inviting me into their scenes to ask me to demonstrate the techniques they saw earlier : ) : )

-Glory Hole made by a couple of the boys for anyones pleasure. It sure looked inviting to me.

-The Chili making competition and it's end results. No I do not mean the winner.

-Presents: A leather wearing pig. A rechargeable dildo by Fun Factory, oh my God am I ever a lucky woman. A pedicure. A beautiful mid-thigh length swing leather skirt. Spoiled silly, how great is that?

-The showers, any event that makes it possible for the masses to stay fresh and bathe, has my utmost respect. Thank you Vicki!

-Spending time with Lee Harrington catching up.

-Laying out on a bondage table tanning myself in the afternoon sun, then suddenly having multiple people surround the table, starting to rub my body, massaging me into bliss without my even having to ask or reciprocate.

-Aiding multiple friends to have orgasms.

-Debunking myths surrounding McEwan and Tink.

-Made a play date with a sexy gay man to harm me, next month when I'm in Seattle.

-Realized that next year I want to camp out for the whole week at ITW, not just a few days.

Low Lights

-We packed waaay to much too eat in the cooler, some of it went bad. Our appetites were not for food.

-Not enough time at the event to talk with each of the people who approached me personally with questions or offers of play.

-Missed Bella's Poly class, though I can't say that I was that eager to sit in a room and listen to her tell stories of how we've loved and learned together in polyamory and the experiences shared between us.

-Not enough sleep: we stayed up late visiting with friends and were up early as people around us woke to have sex, beat each other, frolic and some even sang. AAhhhh.

-Should have brought my gum boots, to wear in the fields. They were not brought because RC said they were unnecessary, he will be punished for this.

-Horrible mosquito swarms, black clouds of them one night only.

-The taste of Deet on nipples & inner thighs, it is worse than Buckleys. Deet works wonders at keeping the bugs at bay.

-We took a double futon mattress with us and I've decided that next month when we're camping an air mattress underneath our bed is required for my comfort.

-Men who felt the need to cover up their whole bodies in layers of clothes while camping. What's with this? Mens chest are handsome and bare bottomed bums or cocks free in the wind are a beautiful site to me. Few men were naked or in little clothing, this bothered me.

-Forgot to pick something up in Bellingham that I had hoped to return with.

-Took a hit in the jaw, and flew a few feet from the impact. Accidents happen.

-Not enough [obvious] queer sex going on.

-Met a person whom I do not trust and this disturbs me. First impression mean much.

Nude Beaches & Hot Springs BC

Ocean tides
About 95% of the ocean, river, and lake beaches in BC are nude-friendly. That's because when you and your friends get there--no one else is there!

WRECK BEACH. One of the most popular and well-known nude beaches in the world. At Ulksen (or Ulksun) in Coast Salish, what the settlers call Point Grey. The whole coast within Pacific Spirit Regional Park is defended by the group below. Designated clothing optional 8 km from Acadia Beach (see below) to beyond Trail 7, including Towers Beach. Map


WRECK BEACH PRESERVATION SOCIETY (WBPS). Your help is needed. Attend meetings, government hearings, fun fundraisers, etc. Some of those events which require clothing are not in this calendar. Get on their e-announcement list judyw@wreckbeach.org or check frequently: www.wreckbeach.org
Their auxilliary, the Wreck Beach Swim Club, also presents indoor swims: see above in "Vancouver-area indoor swims".
--2007 August 12, Sunday, 11th Annual Wreck Beach Bare Buns Run (a fun run or walk). Register 9 am, start 11:30 am near the bottom of Wreck Beach's Trail 6, Pacific Spirit Park, Vancouver, BC.
Register: beachgirl@look.ca or Dena Ellery 604-876-3909 (phone and fax) or mail Dena Ellery, Registrar, 456 East 10th Avenue, Vancouver, BC V5T 2A1.
--2007 Sep 15, Sat, 11 am-3 pm. WBPS Great Canadian Shoreline Clean-up. Wreck Beach Trail 4 to 6 areas. To volunteer, contact Judy Williams 604-856-9598 judyw@wreckbeach.org.


ACADIA BEACH. A section of greater Wreck Beach (see above), between Towers Beach (nude) and Spanish Banks West Beach (textile), northeast of Ulksen (Point Grey). Good for people less physically able: trail very short and gentle.
From top of Trail 6 (the main trail to Wreck Beach), go north on Marine Dr. (the main road around UBC) to big intersection of Chancellor Blvd. and Marine Dr. Turn left. Continue north, then curving east on NW Marine Dr., which goes downhill. As the road curves right, almost to sea level, there's a small dirt parking lot on the left. It adjoins the beach.
From beaches to the east (Jericho Beach, Kitsilano, etc.): go west on 4th Ave., which turns into NW Marine Dr., winding past popular clothed beaches. After you pass Spanish Banks West Beach, you'll see many trees on the right, before uphill stretch of Marine Dr. There, a small parking lot is on the right, adjoining beach.

CRESCENT ROCK BEACH. In south-west Surrey. 6.5 km long: south from Crescent Beach (in south-west Surrey), then east to White Rock. 50-year nude use, though not officially recognized. Use any shore out of sight of trains and hikers. 3 main naturist areas:
-- Most-used part: from Crescent Beach, walk south 10 min.; or from west end of 24th Ave., descend "101 Steps", then south 200 m (just past the giant Crescent Rock Boulder) and around the next point (another 200 m until sand ends and shore is seen from tracks).
-- In Ocean Park area of Surrey, go to west end of 15A Ave.; descend "1001 Steps"; walk north 500 m to "126 mile" railway sign, at many raised beds built above high tide.
-- From White Rock, go south on 140th St. = Nichol Rd. Respect parking rules. Continue to end, Terry Rd., then east 1 block to stairs. Descend to beach, then 1 km west to "124 Mile" marker on tracks, just into Surrey. Use next 1.6 km of beach.
Served by buses 351, 352, C50, C51.
See SURREY'S UNITED NATURISTS (SUN) in NON-LANDED GROUPS section above. sun-assn@hotmail.com

PRIOR LAKE (Long-established nude section). In Thetis Lake Park, near Victoria.

NUDE-FRIENDLY HOT SPRINGS.



CLOTHING OPTIONAL B.C.

being bisexual, for women

I am teaching this class on Monday, this gives you plenty of time. Mark your calendars now and think over the weekend about any specific questions you may have of me. See you in class and don't forget your notebook for pen for note-taking, you'll be disappointed otherwise.

July 30 Monday
7:30 - 9:30pm

Bi Curious? Where to Start For Girls Who
Want To Date Girls

The Love Nest 4687 Kingsway Burnaby, BC
Tickets $25, at the door

Making the move from bi-curious to bisexual can be a tough one. This workshop will cover the basics on dating for bisexual women. Tips on finding the right woman and on what to do when you find one will be on the list things we discuss. We will cover some tricks for writing that personal ad or finding the events and places to meet other bi-women.

We will also discuss etiquette used when dating women...because so many of us are used to dating only men. Often, bisexual women have male partners and whether, when, or even if they are included in your bisexual experiences will also be covered.

and the living is easy...

Summer time and the living is easy...

Tonight is all about packing.

We are going out of country camping and my daughter is taking flight for Mexico.

And while we're away, Libido Lounge gets it internal work completed.

I love summer.

a little morsel

Tomorrow workers will embark upon the construction aspects of the new Libido Lounge. No volunteer help this time round from anyone who is not a paid tradesman until we open for business to our member base.

The new space will leave you breathless with it's obvious suitability and accessibility.

Those who are looking for more information will just have to wait a short while longer as we are revealing nothing about Libido Lounge, it's new location or sudden growth spurt until we are good and ready. [it is fair to say that due to the amount of support received over the Surrey City disaster we were able to do something remarkable]

The clothing line goes to the printers soon, by goodness there is just so much going on.

withdrawal

I quit consuming caffeine 7 long months ago now. I say long months, but rather it wasn't really that long, just the first few weeks where I struggled a little, and now not so bad at all. To confess I do still now and again have a longing for a caffeine jolt, especially with the pace I keep. It was necessary to stop though and an excellent decision for my physical health, and sleep patterns.

This weekend I let go of another vice while I'm away camping. I hope it's as easy.

my Saturday

Every now again, a Saturday happens that is just a blast.

Yesterday was spent lounging around the house after I finally rolled out of bed and RC's arms late morning, or rather, right before noon. There is nothing better than a rainy day on the sofa, naked in a quiet house.

A few days past we had agreed that today from 5:00 pm till bedtime RC was all MINE, to do with as a I wished! He baked delicious chocolate chip cookies, rubbed my feet with lotion, devoured my pussy and then made dinner for us. He spoiled me rotten for a few hours at home as was needed.

Earlier in the week we'd been out together and I'd spotted a shiny black & silver waist cincher with matching panties that screamed for my attention. After a long-hot soak in the tub, and some girl time in-front of a mirror, I donned the new outfit and TADA, we were ready to head out to the party.

I'd been planning some play with my guy for a few days now, but of course he knew nothing about my intentions. Arriving at Rascals it was nice to have quieter evening on the dungeon floor, as it gave me more options of equipment to choose from for our impending scene.

Sitting about for awhile we were able to talk with but a few of the peeps who were around us. Deej was having a blast, Gloria was stunning, Sandy and Sandi were both there, Scarlet had on the teeniest skirt, it was Zorkluns birthday, Deeva was bold, Frank handsome, Keith was there, Gypsy was all smiles....oh my...too many people to even catch up with on an evening when my plan was to play.

Out on the dungeon floor, I choose for our time together a long bondage table. After having RC remove his clothes for me, I spent a moment examining his body and admiring the locked cage covering his jewels. He "assumed the position" for me and with him on all fours, I started to make my way through the implements toys that I'd packed in my toy trunk for this evenings festivities.

Slap, Slap.

Twist, Twist, Bite, Bite.

Bite, Pinch.

Whack, Whack.

Bite, Pinch, Slap, Twist, Whack.

Oh yeah......I love being mean to him. The impact part of our play that is, not emotionally, just physically.

What fun I had beating up the boy, then right at the end...when it looked as though he could take no more. He finally laid still on the table, submitting to my actions and the resulting sensations as they washed over him. Eyes round as saucers, gasping breath, chest heaving, and a great big huge ejaculatory orgasms shot right out of him.

What a gift to receive, for all my efforts.

Endorphins

Adoration

Ejaculation

Playing with RC is very rewarding.