Learning from a mistake

I have a safe haven in Libido Lounge. It is my personal space and also the sanctuary of our members. Having a facility means we create the rules, without the rules things would go haywire fast.

The system we have in place works smoothly and without incident, enabling us to create constantly unique opportunities for our membership.

It is rare that our bubble is popped by outsiders, it happened today, not once, but twice. Not only myself but others noticed that which was out-of-place. It won't be happening again, this I can assure to all those who felt the ripple.

Today goes on the calendar as the day a new definition of a rule was added to our orientation. There is a always a name next to each rule. And a flag was changed on our events calendar.

Some mistakes will never be repeated.

Investments

After having my new MacBook for months, it was just this evening that my man highlighted for me the feature of it's internal web cam. The camera has amazing features and capabilities. We've been fooling around it with now for all of well, eight minutes.

My lack of experience with such things brings you these masterpieces.

Oh and by the way, we bought a pretty amazing house this afternoon, and take possession in June. Oh my god, I am a home owner now.

This week has been filled with huge ups and downs.

Good night.

Lee Harrington Vancouver

Tonight we put an offer on a house that we really want. It meets all our needs. Surpasses all our expectations. Has some beautiful surprises. The yard is divine. And is in our budget. Life is a roller coaster ride right now for certain.

Tomorrow Lee Harrington arrives. Oh my the weekend of bondage classes, D/s class, Gender class and Bondage Party is a stellar line up indeed. Are you reserved yet for any of these exciting events.

For the record, I am still bleeding a little. Saturday early morning I return to the hospital for more testing. At this point, only time will tell how things are. We are anxious and hopeful all will turn out as it should be.

Thank you everyone for the outpouring of love and support that has filled my in box the last couple of days.

Pregnancy Concerns Vancouver

Don't even ask me how I am doing, because I really don't know.

• 7 hours in the local hospital
• poked for blood by a sweet man
• peed in cup
• 3 internal vaginal exams - 2 of them by sexy professionals
• 2 ultra sounds
• found 1 three cm fybroid
• found 1 one cm cyst
  
• 1 IV to hydrate me
• my cervix is nicely closed still, thank God
• no food to eat
• my man at my side
• saw the baby in some scans
• cramps
• bleeding
• discontent
• wonderful sympathetic nurses
• great Doctor
• hot woman Obstetrician (who is pierced)

I return to the hospital on Saturday morning and again on Monday morning.

Achieving Goals

The last four months of my life have had me on a serious high-on-life. We've been to Cuba as a family, my love proposed marriage and I accepted, we're in the process of buying a new home and now I am pregnant as planned. Business at The Lounge is good and I have taken on numerous long term work projects which are easily making my income increase exponentially.

My long term goals are all being achieved in short order, that's for certain. My head is reeling still from all the changes, yet I have so much support of family and friends that I am not feeling overwhelmed. This is all good news.


It all makes me feel worthy as my investment to my career has been filled with a lot of sacrifices and work.

My family life is so incredible and lacks the emotional roller coaster that so many I know face. It is a blessing to bring a baby into a home filled with such love.

The sense of self that I struggled with for so many years, has pulled together in the last five years to a place where I am stronger than I ever thought imaginable and capable of even more. Where once drama had a place in my life, now the comfort of peace, joy and celebration fill me up inside.

I am gifted in what I do. I hear this from multiple differing sources every single day. My work touches people, transforming their lives, relationships and self esteem. I try to not speak from ego, rather stating of how even I am in awe of what I offer to those who seek me out. It's not that I thought I couldn't do it, rather that maybe there was another better suited. There isn't. It's me, and I work hard to believe in my own worth because then I can continue to serve my practice and business in such a way as to have pride in all I do.

I dream still. I dream of more time to relax, a bigger facility for the Lounge, more travel, a healthy baby and my Masters Degree on my office wall. These are not pipe dreams either, they will all happen and in short order too. These are my new long term goals. Celebrate with me as I start bringing them to fruition next.

Because you see, what ever I dream of or want, I always get. I can accomplish anything.

Scott Paul Designs

I spent some time being groped by a good-friend and professional pervert the other night. The man makes adult products that are incredible. There is nothing cheap about his creations, these are pieces destined to become your favorites in your whole collection.

The inspiration behind each item is unique and certainly not a copy, though a few things are an older staple item, made vastly better by the materials used and the attention to detail to making it spectacular.

Scott Paul and I have been eying one another for years and crossing paths for more years than I care to admit. We both make our living doing adult work and as such have a healthy respect for one an others investment in our chosen craft.

After Scott and I spent some time catching up, I took some time to talk with him about updating some of my toys. This meant he recommended a few things for me to add to my 12 kits. These are kits, with twelve of each item for when I teach interactive couples classes.

I fingered and gushed over this.

And fell head over heels for this.

These beauties are now apart of my teaching collection. I am such a lucky woman to be surrounded by such devious people that are also friends.

After a great discount, I came home all bubbly over my latest acquisitions.

Thanks Scott.

Family Acceptance

As many of you know, my mans mother reads my blog diligently and happily every day along with her morning cup of coffee. She admittedly likes to keep up with me and with our world and finds the blog a good way to know what we are up to. I'm flattered that she cares enough to want to find out the down and dirty on our lives and that she holds no judgment as to our escapades. I like knowing that we are keeping no secrets from her.

Now my own mother, she is a whole other story. She reads my blog somewhat regularly but would never admit to doing so. In fact she acts as though she doesn't even know it exists despite the fact that she has been caught downloading this blogs pages in depth. My daughter saw this herself, so I know it's true.

My mother is standoffish and always has been. Why she reads this site, and fills her mind with images she will never talk with me about is beyond my comprehension. My mother pretends my professional life doesn't exist, and that she knows nothing of all that I disclose here. This makes me see her as petty and negative.

But the mans mother, uses this site as a way to be closer to each of us and to have things to talk to us about that are important to us. I value my mother in laws approach and am bothered my own mothers denial of who I am as an adult woman.

Hi Mom in Victoria! Waves a big hello.

Hi Mom in Qualicum. Boo! I see you. Yeah, I know you're here. It sure isn't a secret that's for sure.

Popular Sex Classes

You wouldn't believe my day.

A horrifically early morning at the ungodly hour of 5:45.

A very long drive.

Check in to our hotel room.

Getting welcomed into a gorgeous facility.

Being sought after all day long by people.

Gifted with a new set of pink handcuffs. Police issue.

Teaching four classes over the course of eight hours. Really!

Adult Sex Education. Cock Sucking & Pussy Licking. G-Spot and Female Ejaculation and Butt Sex and Prostate Play. Interactive Class on Teasing & Foreplay.

More people in my classes than in any of the others offered. My room was too small, but we made it work alright.

Back to the hotel to change into evening wear.

A gala dinner with 350 people.

A soak in a hot tub.

Walk through a very large sex party.

People I knew everywhere I turned.

Left before midnight because I could no longer function.

Back to the hotel for sleep.

Sexy Birthday Surprise

So yesterday was my mans birthday, and like the past couple of years, I found myself stumped over what to do for him on his special day. I opted for birthday experiences to act as gifts, rather than something he would physically own once the day was over. Seems my choices were rather esoteric and as such he had no idea what the day had in store.

He managed to get the day off work, giving himself a five day weekend, which of course meant a big sleep in for the birthday boy. This had him feeling great from the moment he awoke. I made him coffee, his favorite drink, and he drank it while admiring my vulva. Two items he enjoys a lot, coffee and vulvas.

Then we ventured out of the house to run an errand or two and sign off on our mortgage paperwork, this is when he said he was starting to get hungry. I casually mentioned I would take him where ever he wanted for a nice lunch. He chose Mexican and off we went to feast together.

Arriving home, I told him he may want to nap for an hour and he obliged me by doing just that. After about forty five minutes I was in the bedroom next to him on the bed, having a big orgasm, at my own hands. I think he was interested in having one as well, and I said no. You'll need to save your energy for later. He look intrigued by my comments.

With driving map in hand, we drove about twenty minutes from home to a nice little industrial park where we parked the Jeep. When he saw where we were, with a grin that ran ear to ear, all he kept saying was SWEET. His look was that of a kid in a candy store, absolute delight.

We were buzzed into the high security building off the shooting range and immediately were struck with the number of firearms before us. I bought us each a day pass, we chose our own individual guns, a few boxes of ammunition, and then we signed our waivers.

We were ushered into the shooting area, given a lesson on how to handle the guns and how to shoot with accuracy and then we went at it for quite awhile. The man spent years in private schools that had a shooting team, and he is a natural great shot. I did quite well myself, even being able to shoot the mini targets in the upper corners of the big target. Apparently many can not do this. This experience had my man stoked beyond belief and left me feeling as though I had made a good choice for the first part of his birthday. Success.

A stop to get gas for the vehicle and a quick run through Danier Leather to kill a little time, then we made a bee line for Costco. Picked up some coffee and two beauty necessities, before we pulled into The Lounge parking lot.

Once inside, I think he was confused as to why no one was there awaiting us. I turned on the heat and had the birthday boy help me do a little rearranging of furniture. Then I had him get out of his clothes, which he did without batting an eye.

After sending him to the bathroom and having him finish a drink, he was told to lay on our bondage table/cage combo. He jumped up all eager like and flashed me a huge pearly white smile. I took out my bag of hemp rope and proceed to bind him to the table by each wrist, ankle and of course by his chest. He had some wiggle room but not the ability to go anywhere. My handi work was solid and would do its job, for certain. Then came two blindfolds, one tight fitting one over the eye sockets, then a loose fitting one over top to ensure that their would be no-peeking.

I plugged in the Violet Wand and spent the next fifteen minutes running it all over his body while listening to his screams and quivering voice. It was much fun indeed. Making my way to the front door at a specified time, I found three beautiful women awaiting me. I let them in quietly and they set about making themselves at home in our space. They too were all hush hush as they disrobed down to lingerie, sexy outfits and other naughty apparel. Suddenly I was using the violet wand on birthday boy and one set of additional hands was felt, then two and finally a third set. He was trembling in his bonds and not making a noise.

A few minutes went by and I returned to the door, where I found another two hot babes waiting and this brought the number of women up to six. Six luscious babes scantily clad all molesting my man for his birthday.

I went off to the kitchen and set out some food and drinks, leaving the posse to contend with the masculine ball of energy before them. The laughter was louder than the music at times and the sighs and moans were growing in intensity. I knew he was in good hands.

When I returned I found myself making out with a woman, right next to his ear. Another was stroking his manhood, while still others were eating whipping cream off of his nipples. Can you say "Sensory Overload". The erection was pronounced, and the ladies were enjoying this chance to sexually torture their victim.

After much time of toying with the man, and doing things to his body, his blindfolds were removed so he could see who it was that was actually in the room and where all those sets of hands had come from. His laughter boomed as he took in each woman. Far from over, one lady donned a strap-on and put another woman on all fours on top of my guy. The strap-on wielding woman, then too climbed up on the table and fucked her female counterpart using my man as a table top. What a view he had, and how happy he was as the orgasms starting spurting forth from the girl on top off him.

They were kissing one another and him, they stuffed their breasts into his mouth and he happily put out whatever he was capable of doing in his limited mobility position. Across from him with a small head turn to the right, were three women masturbating with legs spread and vibrators plugged into power outlets. Another woman, then two rode the Sybian for their own pleasure and his viewing enjoyment. It was a sight to behold. An all girl sex party with the birthday man as the center of attention.

Eventually he was untied as other beauties came forward and used him sexually. He put out well and accepted their attentions without complaint. There was more strap-on sex between two women on a bed, and he made his way over to watch it, all up close and personal like. He crawled underneath, face up, beneath the woman who was fucking another girl, so he could see her bits. With a shit eating grin he laid there with the perfect viewing spot, while women laid out around him making out with one another. I gave him a blow job while he was intently staring at the girlie bits of the two fuckers. With out any embellishment, the man was trembling with excitement.

I made my way to the kitchen and rearranged some food and prepped the cake. We'd been at it for close to two hours by this point. Returning to the party I found two women sucking his nipples while a third aptly worked his cock over with expert hands. The fuckers had stopped, and one of the woman was working herself over with a g-spot toy, and she, like a fountain, kept liquidating fluid, it was a sight to behold.

Finally I looked at my disheveled man, who was panting, flushed and shaky, and asked him if he could show us how he cums. Putting one had firmly around his raging erection, he pumped it for all of forty five seconds, before he was spurting forth the evidence of his pleasure. Right as he thought his orgasm may end, I positioned my mouth on his dick and sucked fervently allowing him to thrash beneath me and the other women who were now holding him down. It was astonishing how much energy it took to complete this final deed for all of us. We sang Happy Birthday to him right at this moment as the final climax to an awesome experience. He looked so gleeful.

The decadent cake was brought out with sparklers and together we sat around and ate it, the birthday man had three pieces. Then for the next hour and a half everyone sat around talking, cuddling and giggling about our escapades.

We have amazing friends, and a blessed life. The man was overwhelmed by his good fortune to be so well liked by such giving people. I drove us home as he was in no shape to be behind the wheel and when we arrived to our sanctuary, he had a scotch and a big fat cigar on the porch.

It is safe to safe, he had the best birthday of his entire life. Or so he says.

Birthday Celebration BC

Today, the man I love, am engaged to and who is the father of my unborn child celebrates his birthday.

I love you sweetheart and life with you has been nothing short of amazing. Our life together is incredible and this next year is going to be a further extension of our love.

I have an incredible afternoon and evening planned for you, enjoy it all, you deserve it so much.

Happy Birthday.

Swollen Breasts

Today was spent out of the house doing little at a relaxing pace and picking up some nice things for myself. I needed this time to catch up on my shopping and to center my thoughts.

It has to be said that I am quite upset over the fact that pregnant women are not supposed to eat sushi. (raw fish) This is a staple in my diet and something that I enjoy regularly and in abundance and have for over twenty years. Now however this has to change, and cutting something out of my weekly consumption is going to feel like I am being denied. I hate denial, and much prefer to have my own way. Raw fish included. I get that I can still eat cooked fish, and deep fried stuff, but the books and advice also states to steer clear of all the deep fried delicacies that exist. This has me unhappy.

Now for another complaint. It can also be said that my breasts are killing me. Normally not an issue for me, my breasts don't bother me one bit, in fact they just kind of sit up on my chest and have no angst providing properties to them whether or not I have my period, or not. In fact, my breasts are actually over stimulated sexually so I prefer them left alone. However these days, the sisters are huge. In all honesty, they look like I had an expensive boob job. My breasts are large, heavy and very bouncy lately and this is so not how they've been or looked, in well, like forever and a day. When I remove my bra and walk around the bounce actually hurts. And sleeping on my belly, is outrageous, this causes serious boobage discontent.

Tonight is family meeting time. We've found a house we want to buy and there is much to discuss before moving forward with the next move. Oddly enough a new home is sitting really well with me right now, and I am excited about the possibility. Now to get the teenager on board with the idea.

Girl Sex Vancouver

This Friday night is for women only at The Lounge, it is our monthly edition of Dirty Girls. You can read more about the party by clicking here - and note that no matter how much you want to attend, if you're not a Lounge member or the guest of a member, it's not open to you.

Every month a new delicious group of women get's together for cuddling, sex, play, voyeurism, and a hell of a good time. We always have a night that would make your panties wet enough to slide right on off of you.

Certainly the sex is hot, the woman are hungry, the mood is carefree and everyone is super friendly.

I will happily add your name to the guest list jusr drop me an email with your membership number and I'll add you to the guest list right away.

Dirty Girls is the monthly party that I look forward to with great anticipation, as I always manage to get it on in a variety of different ways with lots of women.

Come see what all the fuss is about. You'll love it.

Pregancy and Sex

This morning I saw my family doctor for the first time as a pregnant woman. The same incredible man has been my GP for about thirteen years now, so it was a little celebration in his office when we talked about this new news. He calculated my due date much to my glee, and notified me that December 11 is the big day.

In the afternoon I spent a couple of hours in a coaching session with a lovely couple. We discussed electricity (E-stim) in sex play and vaginal insertion as a new type of sensation to engage in. Our few hours together just flew on by.

Then tonight I taught a class at The Lounge to a most eager group of attendees. It went really well and connecting with each of them was a real pleasure.

By the time I got home I was exhausted and was so happy to see that the man had made dinner and had some waiting hot for me.

Now to bed, the baby and I are weary beyond belief. And there is a hot man waiting in bed to cuddle me.

Lee Harrington, Bondage Class

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Teasing Class Burnaby

Tonight is the Couples Sex Party and there is quite the line of sexy folks attending. The workshop on Threesomes and Group Sex Play is full and the party is at 80% capacity. Should be a rather fast paced evening for all involved and I suspect I'll be wiped out by the end of it all.

Tomorrow my Interactive Couples Only class on Extended Teasing & The Art Of Foreplay is full too. It is going to be one busy and smoking hot afternoon that is for certain.

Then later Sunday afternoon, the man and I are off to look at houses with our Realtor. This excites me to no end and is something I am really looking forward too.

Now, I need to take a nap before all the festivities begin as the next twenty four hours are full of action and draining of my energy levels.

The Pee that changed my life

The last few days I had been doing the pee test. Every time I went to the bathroom and wiped and found the toilet paper white and not red with blood, I was confident that I was pregnant.

I told the man the same too.

He declares, "your not pregnant, we JUST started trying."

I say, oh but I am.

He chuckles and tells me he'll believe me when we have a conclusive test result.

Thursday I add an eleven dollar pregnancy test to our $340 grocery order. Drank a large container of chocolate milk, then drove home.

While unloading the mountain of groceries there was the test.

We ripped it open together. He stood next to me while I peed on the stick.

Three minutes later, the proof was right in front of us.

I screamed once loudly, then bounced out of the bathroom with my knees wobbly as hell.

He stood there holding the damn stick, till the teenager came over with a big smile and grabbed it from him.

Seems I was correct, I knew what I was speaking of.

His parents have been notified, and mine are next. Monday is already booked with a doctors appointment.

Wow, it's all happening so fast.

Photo Evidence

Times are changing.

Last time I was pregnant was 16 years ago, and I was not yet kinky. It will be interesting to see how pregnancy and kink life mesh for me.

Pee on a stick

Masturbation Memories

Last night at The Lounge was our monthly Jack & Jill event. There were a hell of a lot of people present and the night was chock full of action.

Due to the nature of the evening, it really is critical that people be on time, it gives the group time to gel. Our doors opened at 6:50 and were locked at 7:10 leaving a twenty minute window for arrival.

We spent the first fifty minutes sharing stories of our first orgasms, the where, the how and whether we actually new what to expect. Each person took the floor for a few minutes and the memories came forth of such young experiences, hearing everyone tell their own tale was liberating, poignant and certainly enlightening too.

The final hour and twenty was spent jacking and jilling off. Lights dimmed, candles lit, heat on high, everyone out of their clothes it was erotic and the energy level in the air was high.

There were three different couples that put on sex shows, they hit pretty much every flat surface in the place, and were awesome entertainment. Three different women rode sex machines and a man too. Watching this action was steamy and jaw dropping for some.

Our ratio of men to women last night was 3:2. Lots of eye candy, you couldn't escape it and it made for a memorable night for sure.

Three women all brought Hitatchi's, myself included. We all laid on the same bed together and had an orgasm contest, while women fluffers sucked our nipples and kissed our bodies. It was pretty damn amazing.

There was massage going on with vibrating gloves by one man, there was porn in every room and people who had never met before were busy making out.

There was a circle jerk in the back room with a couple of women and a number of men, everywhere I looked there was hotness.

Last night was the epitome of perfect for a Jack & Jill event. Hot, heavy, orgasmic, lots of women, lots of men, happy people, and new friendships made.



The down side: because we now lock our doors to late arrivals a few people came late, and found I was serious when I stated in newsletters that the doors would be locked. They missed out on an action packed night of really amazing pleasure. Don't be late, we mean it, you won't get in, no matter who you are.




Now if you want something truly amazing to do this Saturday, check out our Couples Only Sex Party. You've still got time to send in your reservations so get on it. There are plenty of other amazing couples signed up, come meet them and party with us on Saturday.



Reservations: jennifer@libidoevents.com

Planning Ahead

It seems my mans birthday is fast approaching and since he is such a class act, he deserves a day that will knock his socks off. I think I shall be able to accomplish this too.


He's been informed that he needs to get off of work early, and luckily he asked no questions as to why. Not that I would have answered him anyways.

I've got a thing or two up my sleeve, designed to please him and want the whole experience to be super special and memorable as hell.

It's not the sort of gift that just anyone could pull-off, so I am certain he will be in his glory as the day unfolds.

Love and Compersion will be what makes this say so special.

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Tomorrow is......

WEDNESDAY APRIL 1, 7:00 - 9:30 PM
dinner served promptly at 7:30pm
Deviant Dining with Special Guest Presentation BC Center for Disease Control
DROP - IN $10 Member * $15 Non Member * Life Time Members $5
(non members must bring government issued photo ID)

A free workshop on STi's - sexually transmitted infections, and how to keep yourself and your toys safe

DEVIANT DINING is a Potluck Dinner.

Our popular social dinner event, come meet the other members and enjoy a decadent evening of food and friends.

BRING A DISH that serves Generously 4-6 & we'll take care of the rest of the fine details! Exquisite Company. Sultry dinner conversations.


Mark your calendars now: 1st & 3rd Wednesday every month!

You just need to bring your sexy self, and a dish that is pre cooked and requires no kitchen help, we supply the beverages and accompanying dinner needs.

A great event for those who are looking to make connections and friendships, low key and casual.

DRESS CODE: Clothing is a must. No work clothes. Dress Up a Little if you'd like, some have been known to show up in formal attire even. There is no play at this event, it is a social dinner evening.

Open to Women and Men, Couples and Singles.

This edition, Wednesday of Deviant Dining has the BC Center for Disease Control attending to lead a phenomenal interactive discussion on STI's and how to keep yourself and your toys safe. An excellent opportunity for our members to get their questions answered factually and from a source of much knowledge.

SPECIAL GUEST PRESENTATION:

Come and enjoy a night of dining, a discussion about sexual health and get your questions answered regarding safer sex, toy cleaning and STI information.

Derek Kline is a Registered Nurse who works as an Outreach Nurse with the BC Center for Disease Control . He has worked in sexual health for over 9 years. Derek will be presenting information about sexually transmitted infections, and give time for questions and answers. All are welcome. Derek Kline BN MPH.

Masturbation Event

Listen up all you masturbators, exhibitionists and voyeurs, this Tuesday (tomorrow) is your chance to join in on our monthly very popular masturbation event. There will plenty of people to meet, watch and potentially play with, wear your best smile and see what kind of naughtiness you can get up to.

THERE ARE NO LATE ENTRIES PERMITTED.
DOORS ARE LOCKED AT 7:10

You MUST remember to bring your own toys AND a towel, or *no* play.
Jack & Jill is a drop in event, so just show up, you do not need to reserve.

Tuesday March 31
7:00 - 9:15 PM

Jack & Jill - masturbation event
open to couples, singles, men & women
$25 member / $40 member couple / $30 non member

Hour long moderated discussion & social time followed by masturbation play

QUESTION THIS MONTH: When did you have your first orgasm? (No, you silly goose, not date and time, but when in your life?) What were the circumstances? How old were you? What did you think? Had you known what to expect?



This a fantastic group scenario scene, multiple people masturbating in various forms. Women and men, couples and singles. Join us and of course I am there as a participant every month, making it easy for other single women to join in.

First hour is a discussion on a subject relating to masturbation.

Mandatory: Must attend the discussion in order to participate in the second half of the event. This allows a chance for everyone to get comfortable with one another while engaged in a conversation and still dressed. Remaining time is masturbation.

Be a voyeur or be an exhibitionist. Masturbate yourself, your date, or perhaps a new friend!

Space is set aside for sex. Put on a show if you'd like, you'll have many admirers.

Light snacks, drinks, pornography on the LCD projector, music.

Event Rules will be posted when you arrive. Please ensure you read them carefully once you arrive.