Tuesday, April 08, 2008

After-NOONER

It starts today.

Our new weekly play event.


After-NOONER, a mid day romp.


April 8 Tuesday 12:00 - 3:00pm
Venue: L.L.C MEMBERS ONLY / DROP - IN
$25 cash per person, or $45 per couple

Life Time Members $5

Cash, Pay at door


Your chance to play by the light of day. A mid day opportunity to
enjoy the facility, meet a friend or perhaps run into some one new.
Light snacks and drinks.

Please note this is not a party, rather an event that promotes play.
(No dress code, though you must be presentable)


Open to Men & Women, Couples & Singles. Bring your own toys and
towel.

~~ Donations of gently used fitted queen & king sheets are always
appreciated, as are your generous contributions to our own In-House
Sex Positive Lending Library. Books, DVD's, Music, Pornography, How
To's, Fiction, Non, Fiction, New & Old books, Erotic Art etc... Just
bring them with you. Thank You.

Monday, April 07, 2008

under the weather

My guy has a gut ache.

The attack started yesterday at say around 2:45pm.

It ensued all evening.

The whole night was rough.

Vomit.

Multiple trips to the bathroom.

Sweating.

Moaning.

He got up and put on flannel pajama bottoms and a hoodie before retreating completely back under the covers. Head and all.

When I gently stroked him through his layers, all I heard was a mumble.

DON'T TOUCH ME.

So, I left him alone.

RC got into bed at 5:30 yesterday.

At 10:30 I attempted to sleep next to him in our bed.

No such luck.

Between the rolling around, his stomach grumbling, the barf bucket and all the trips to the bathroom, finally I gave up.

I had resigned myself that it was time to grab my pillow and a comforter from the hall closet and make my way to the sofa.

I awoke at 5:30 this moring and went to try and get back in bed with RC. Nope, no can do.

He was asleep on my side of the bed. Fuck.

Back down the hall to the sofa.

At 7 this morning I awake because the living room is getting bright from the light of day. With difficulty falling back asleep, I am flabbergasted when minutes later, the child awakens for school and comes out to start her day, thus keeping my conscious from all the house hold noise.

Motherhood and partner - hood, both have draw backs. The lack of sleep being the first. Barf and gut aches playing a close second.

I am still awake and working.

RC is still in bed, under the covers.

Sick.

Wish us well.

Because goddess knows the last thing I need, is to go down with an illness.

Sunday, April 06, 2008

Dark & Steamy

It is true, my corner of the world is ever exciting. I am never short on sexy events to attend, happenings worth noting and moments worthy of a tv sitcom series.

Last night was SULTRY. And quite frankly the whole evening was one that I won't soon be forgetting.

Imagine this. I'm naked, in heels on my knees. The floor is tiles and the lighting was "on". Its muggy and the type of hot that catches in your chest. Aaah the invigoration of steam. And I am just-about-finished setting up for the party.

Maybe ten people have arrived already and a few others are just arriving. With the extension cord in my hand, I eye the Hitatchi Magic Wand on the end of it. I reach towards the outlet to plug it in, and BANG.

No it did not blow up.

However it sparked! Then the lights disappeared. They went out all at once. It was so pitch black dark in the entire bath house, that I could not see my hand in front of my face.

Oh my goddesses. Some times I even flabbergast myself.

It is the one thing I had not thought to locate ahead of time in the booking process.

The fuse box, where in the hell was it?

It was both funny and a little disturbing to be in the pitch black for about three minutes while staff ran about bringing the lights back on.

Thankfully.

We played so hard last night and for so long that we both are falling over exhausted today. What a riot, we laughed ourselves silly.

I really want to tell you more about our escapades, but dinner is calling me.

Saturday, April 05, 2008

Beyond Prohibition

Healing Our Addicted City
Location: The WISE Hall, 1882 Adanac St.
Thursday, April 10th, 2008 7-9 pm
Admission: by donation




Vancouver has long struggled to deal with its well-known drug problem,
particularly as it affects residents of the Downtown East Side. Past
approaches have focused the majority of our resources on law
enforcement, to little or no success. This “war on drugs” approach has
proven to be a failure as it has not achieved any of its objectives and
is responsible for the creation of additional social and health
problems. What is needed now is to move the discussion beyond concerns
with prohibition and develop a clear understanding of what a
post-prohibition world looks like.

The time has come to take action on establishing a compassionate,
rational and workable strategy for healing the lives of the severely
addicted and improving our city as a whole.

Join us for a discussion on how we can best move forward to stabilize
the lives of drug users and create evidence-based drug policy.

/Panelists:/

*Mark Haden *works for the Vancouver Coastal Health Authority, and has
almost 25 years’ experience working with drug and alcohol programs. He
has published numerous works on the issue of drug policy and the
regulation of illegal drugs, and currently supervises the addiction
staff at the Pacific Spirit Community Health Centre.

*Ann Livingston* moved to the Downtown Eastside in 1993, and has
witnessed first-hand the damage perpetuated by the “war on drugs”. Since
then, she has committed herself to advocating on behalf of people who
use drugs, eventually founding VANDU in 1998. She is also a founding
member of Pivot Legal Society and is a member of Vancouver’s Beyond
Prohibition Coalition.

*Jerry Paradis* served as a Court of B.C. judge from 1975 until his
retirement in 2003. Over the years, he came to realize the futility and
harm caused the policy of prohibition. Since retirement, he has chosen
to join the group Law Enforcement Against Prohibition in order to speak
out about the failure of our existing drug policies.


Friday, April 04, 2008

peace & quiet

Alone time.

Is mine, this evening.

I am recovering from all the work I've done as of late.

And lest we forget

...resting for tomorrows SULTRY event.

Thursday, April 03, 2008

aah shucks

As it turns out, RC has to work this evening, from 7 to 7. Not such good news, given that we had a dinner date planned with another couple later. It has been rescheduled till next week thankfully, but not without some disappointment today.

What is good news, is that in this whole day, I have not one appointment. My list of things to get done is rather diverse of course

  • shopping at Costco
  • deposit at Bank
  • take down stripper pole
  • delivery of said stripper pole to friends
  • empty out vehicle
  • find my desk top
  • clear my phone messages
  • pedicure
  • make schedule for Sat. / SULTRY
  • change sheets
  • check in: photographer regarding new images of moi

I have been in that intoxicating place of love and lust lately. Every time I get near my hottie of a boy friend, I want to jump his bones and be wrapped up in his presence. I feel this hunger to make love fast and hard, and to consume one another. We've been quite successful at maintaining our bubble of pleasure and creating opportunities for this bliss to happen.

Wednesday, April 02, 2008

teenage mood swings

Being the parent of a teen aged daughter is a constant reminder of how little power I hold over another. Specifically her.

She is a wonderful child.

She is a good girl and has excellent behavior.

Yet for me, she challenges me beyond belief. (sporadically and not really on anything big, just on enough little things to make me scream)

Of all my worries in life and regarding my daughter, I have never been concerned about her where abouts, or how tight we are.

To me this speaks volumes to how well she has been raised, and how far I have come since my parents pushed me out of their crumbling nest.

My daughter though a teenager, is fast becoming a young woman, and her growing up, has really been virtually painless on us both. Well at least in comparison to my own rocky start as a young person.

I guess I salute her moodiness, and celebrate the fact that we are sharing it together.

Tuesday, April 01, 2008

early start

With a To-Do list a mile long, I was out the door at 7:35 this morning moving from one item to the next. The roads were clear and some how I averted all traffic snarls. With ease I ticked off one thing after another from my soon dwindling list.

When I arrived home, RC was already awake, astounding given how he sleeps a lot on his days off. Well, more than I do anyways. Imagine my delight when he spread my legs and worked me over with his tongue & digit moves then pulled out a vibrator and brought me off. Then he put me to bed for a mid day snooze.

Tonight is my Bi Curious class for women, and everyone else in this house has events of their own going on. We are one busy family.

Monday, March 31, 2008

Vancouver Pride Society 2008

Sex that left me breathless and blissed out kept me awake till 3 in the morning with RC. We rolled around in bed creating pleasure for what seemed like hours. And it all started with a massage and ended in each of us having joyful explosive orgasms.



I am very tired today, but last night was so worth it. It was the type of sex that can still be felt the next day, my pelvic floor is still contracting with a hunger for more. My guy is fast asleep still. I require waaay less sleep then he. I've been up and working for hours already.



Today is a lazy day around the house, in our robes. More sex this afternoon before the daughter gets home from school and a thorough clean up from the remains of the weekend Taboo show. Our bedroom looks like an adult store warehouse blew up in it.



Did you know that there is:

4 months - 125 Days - 3,000 Hours till PRIDE Day

Sunday August 3rd, 2008



Hey 3HT & Mark, are you around for dinner on Thursday night. We would love to have you over and cook for you. Send me an email and let me know please. An evening with us that is not at an adult event, holy crap, we hope you can make this momentous occasion.

Sunday, March 30, 2008

a sense of accomplishment

Nine classes in three days are now over. And I feel like the Bell of the ball.

Taboo Abbotsford was eventful.

I met many many new people.
I caught up with friends not seen every day.
I was hired by many new stores.
I was offered a lucrative new play space in Vancouver by the owner of the building.
I now own a Flight Attendants Uniform.
I have more new sex aides/ toys than I will ever be using.
More people recognize me and Libido Events.
My Erotic Arts Curriculum was met with huge acclaim.
Everyone I wanted to meet at the show I did.
All networking scheduled to happen did.
The subscriber list to our mailing list has grown substantially this weekend.


We left home at noon today and were back home by 5:00pm. A sit down family dinner and a game of Scrabble with everyone in their robes. I am officially done on teaching and wish to relax. I need some time tomorrow to catch up on caring for myself.

Saturday, March 29, 2008

Day Two of the show

Second day of the show is now over, and the day had me looking good.

RC had a blast running around doing the metro sexual shopping thing he so enjoys and I moved slow reserving my energy. My voice is starting to crack, despite wearing a head set in each of my seven classes thus far and trying to save my volume. My classes have all been pppppacked.

I love at the beginning of each class, when I ask everyone to raise their hands if they've been in class with me before. Watching all the arms raise in the air and the smiles spread across their faces remembering what I've taught them, leaves me feeling like a power house as I start the class.

Stores, many stores...over five thus far have approached me to now start teaching out in there Valley adult stores. In the coming weeks I will get all the contracts sealed then post these new additions to the calendar. There is nothing better than having store owners come to me because they want me and my Erotics Arts Curriculum. Particularly flattering was two different store owners, hunting me down to tell me that they had taken in my classes and that they were floored not just at my professionalism but also the sell - ability of my education series and carnal knowledge.

None of these things are over night happenings. People waiting and lining up for my classes early. Packed rooms. Stores buying me out and coming looking for me. An In Box that over flows with requests and praise, this is the result of years of activism and teaching. I have worked so hard to create this, though now finally I can be choosy about which work I accept and which I don't. Times have changed.

With out doubt there was no other presenter or educator better received than I in terms of attendance numbers by a long shot! The coming weeks are going to be very busy as I welcome all of these new followers to Libido Events and local sex culture.

Walking through the show with RC we were constantly surrounded by friends who had come to visit. It's nice having ones own posse and that they are all such solid grounded kind people is testament to the wonderful friendships that can be formed in sex culture. Thank you all for the food, snacks, hugs, applause and love it was all so appreciated.

My feet ache, really bad. I wore decent shoes, though heels none the less. Had to. Just had to to go along with my Officer Naughty outfit that I had on.

Lee and Mark are two different local fetish photographers who were both at the show taking professional photos of me while I was teaching different classes today. I am so eager to see what images they caught of me in action as I never get to see myself this way. I'm not bothered by people I know taking my picture for things I am aware of, but I find it a tad disturbing to have strangers at the show taking my picture while I am teaching.

Chinese food awaits me....we brought home take - out. Then sleep. Tomorrow is the final day of the show and my last two classes. Thankfully the day is Sunday, Gods day, so things close down early. Good, because I need the rest.

Friday, March 28, 2008

ready, set, go

Unsure of whether or not Abbotsford is ready for me, but here I come. And I'll be bringing my sex positive education, enthusiasm and voice with me.

Charge!

Thursday, March 27, 2008

readying for the bible belt

It snowed today while I was out driving. This amused me greatly of course. Thankfully it did not stick.

I'm partially ready for Taboo, it starts tomorrow. It is only my personal items that need tended to now. Classes are all ready, and my belongings are sorted.

A photographer has been booked to take some shots of me over the weekend, while I'm on stage teaching. These images will hopefully make a wonderful addition to my professional portfolio.

In a few hours I'll be sending out a mail - out to the Libido Events mailing list about Taboo this weekend, my classes and the shows hours.

I am eager to drive into Abbotsford later tomorrow for the show. It is the city where I grew up, went to school and still had a solid family unit, pre: the divorce of my parents. There are a few stops to check out from long ago that we plan on seeing as I trip along down memory lane, with RC at my side.

The bed to myself tonight as RC is at work, so I plan on taking my new Wahl for a test drive. It runs so quietly that playing with it in the dead of night doesn't bother me at all, as it makes virtually no noise. And the cord is extra long so you can really move around with the toy and have lots of range.


Wednesday, March 26, 2008

cramps equal bedrest

Period from hell started at 4 this morning and woke me from a deep slumber.

The only upside to this bloody situation, getting the rough early couple of days over with before Taboo starts on Friday.

My day will be spent on the sofa, in bed, on Tylenol 3's while clutching a hot water bottle.

Tonight is another Member Orientation, and I am meeting a couple I've been looking forward to making face to face contact with.

Tuesday, March 25, 2008

for my girl



HAPPY
BIRTHDAY
BELLA

you are very loved

Monday, March 24, 2008

Happy Monday!

Aaah, today was the last day of Spring break and the day we had chosen to celebrate with our family dinner and the customary Easter baskets. Somewhere mid day the desire to nest became overwhelming and I found myself rifling through closets and drawers ridding myself of dated clothing & accessories.

A day well spent I must say.

This week is all about readying for Taboo this weekend. Nine classes over three days, and I am their lead. Time to start packing for this shin dig to ensure I have all my stuff together. My fifth year with the show now and my sixth round of productions for them, I am eager though to be in this new venue out in the Valley.

I mailed out those free tickets to Taboo a while back, you should have yours by now if you sent me a SASE. The show schedule can be found on the Taboo site and on the Libido Events calendar.

Recently my collection of "higher end" provocative body pieces, to wear when I am working and looking for that polished image has grown dramatically. I'm eager for this opportunity of teaching at the show, to wear some daring of these new numbers out in public.

Sunday, March 23, 2008

Happy Easter Peeps!

A necessary drive over to Ballard (I'm still in Seattle) for two very important, yet different stops.

We pulled in front of Cupcake Royale and RC went inside to pick up a dozen of these devilishly delightful mountains of sin. There was so much to celebrate that a dozen seemed appropriate.

Then a quick jaunt down the street and we were at our next stop. A few visits back, we had seen some beautiful shiny fabric that seemed suitable for fetish clothing but I had not purchased any. Upon our return this time they had more stock than our previous visit happily. I made fast, snatching enough crayon sparkle purple and a similar amount in forest green to be made into some spectacular new custom designs for my body.

Colors, makes me very happy. As does the woman I've found to be making me some of my latest acquisitions.


We arrived home in excellent time today and even had the strength left to unpack. Unheard of, almost.

Time to ready for our family Easter next. The Costco roast needs to be taken out, defrosted and seasoned. We are celebrating the festivities on Monday, tomorrow. The baskets need to be filled with chocolate, love & treats still.

Easter Peeps
CLICK TO ENLARGE ..... VERY FUNNY

Saturday, March 22, 2008

hot bi babes

There are a lot of adult stores in Washington and some of my favorites too.

Within thirty minutes of crossing the border yesterday, we were in the first store of the day. Of course I left with two different new fishnet shirts, a Wahl vibrator with the complete attachment series and a couple of other doodads.

A couple of hours later in another store in Seattle, bad things happened. I went overboard and made purchases that were impulsive, and sexy. I deserved everything though. A shiny corset in red pvc was screaming at me from the hangers, a pride flag was waving itself in my direction, DVD's were jumping out at me, and a few teaching aides were obviously meant for my curriculum. Must-Own-Items, that are all now MINE.


Out to dinner with Allena, Janice and RC for an excellent meal. They got liquored up, so I became the designated driver. Joy! It was a riot driving around all of us kinky folk. Ended up at a pool / dance hall till really late. We met up with Allena's guy and his new girlfriend to celebrate a birthday there, with another half dozen friends.

It could be said that I danced last night, with my guard down, and relaxed. Charming.

A few people found out who I was without my saying a word at the club. By nights end I had two individuals demanding my contact info, as they both want something from me professionally. Flattering? Sure. Something that I will ever get used to? No.

Even when I make my best attempt at flying under the radar, and trying to not be noticed, I still end up getting attention.

Last night was fun and laid back. I'd do another night like it, just perhaps in a different venue. Something a little less red neck.

The pool / dance hall, was really not a very sex - positive place to be. All the women that were dancing together, were just doing the whole pretend to be bi thing. (for the men watching and hoping for a free drink)

The girls danced side by side, strictly for the amusement of the boys/men watching and not because the women liked or even were attracted to one another. They men could have cared less if the girls were interested in each other so long as they danced close together and put on a decent show, involving the illusion of "two girls getting it on".

So wanting to not be noticed, I decided against strutting out on the dance floor, and getting it on with one of the *many* supposed bi babes out there. Instead, I stood at a distance, giggling at their stage show for the horny heterosexual men standing around looking at them like they wanted to be wanking instead. I was so glad to not be a part of that look.

Not needing to prove my Bi status, or to show my Queer card is a sign that I have matured over the years and thankfully finally have enough sex & people in my life that I don't need to advertise to an entire bar of my orientation or interests.

Instead.

I fell asleep, listening to Bella and RC, laughing and having orgasms. Their sounds of bliss were comforting as I drifted off into much needed sleep.

Thursday, March 20, 2008

All over the map

They arrived one after another. Seventeen people were at Member Orientation tonight. What a great group of individuals to welcome to our new home and sex culture.

I thoroughly enjoyed the class, and much humor was intermixed as well making everything light, fun and fast paced for all.

Can you believe that we are over 280 members deep already? And still going strong. By years end, I can't wait to see where we are with our member base in terms of numbers.

I've been readying for the Abbotsford Taboo show next week. Those of you who sent in your SASE should have your FREE tickets by now, or Monday as I mailed them out a few days past.
If you plan on attending make sure you take in one of my classes or at the least come by and say hello.

It looks as though I have a new contract with a different large entity and may be ready to start making announcements some time soon. Once their deposit check clears and I know exactly what I will be doing I'll update you with the particulars. Really just information on what channel and when as I wouldn't want any one to miss me educating and inspiring the general public with what we are all so passionate about.

The attention is a tad nerve wracking though the exposure is more than I ever could afford out of my own pocket. So, on with the show!

Tuesday, March 18, 2008

Rolling Around

I made another purchase.
Something a little different.
A great deal on it.

Practical.
Fold-able.
Multi-purpose.
Health or Convenience.


It's on wheels.
Has a seat.
Two brakes.
Two handles.

You guessed right.

A wheel chair.

You can't believe it either huh?

Finally we own a wheelchair for medical scenes, or for bondage play.

How convenient that you can now move your victim around regardless of whether or not they are bound.

RC says the wheelchair may well be our most unusual acquisition to date.
(I thought the vote for unusual goes to our gyn. table or the seven massage tables, ha)