Spice Up Your Sex Life

A few days ago I lost an old friend and a hero of mine to death & still have some family stuff going on that's taking much of my emotional energy, it's been a time of personal reflection for me lately and sadness. (2 deaths in a month has been too much to handle)

I'm busy, busy, busy getting ready to fly to Calgary, Alberta tomorrow for the weekend. There's three classes that I'm teaching as you can see in the poster here and today is being spent packing for each of them.




Friday night is the Realm of Fantasy Play Party and a must attend for me!

Saturday night is a swingers social which permits light SM, as sex is permitted and some light play it may be fun for me to attend, though I am teaching an Intensive on Sunday and do need solid rest before hand.

The chance to play in a new environment sounds cool. From the moment my plane lands in Calgary I'll be on the prowl for someone to bottom to me in service, SM and sex, and perhaps a male Top to beat me in a completely different scene.

Off to finish packing and to ready for my class tonight at Little Sister's Book Store, I'm teaching Sex Tips From a Bi Sexual Woman.

the types of couples I coach

(note: reprinted with full permission & blessing by author, names were of course changed)

Ever wondered who hires me and for what reason/s?

This very attractive couple lives out in Abbotsford, no children, nice home, good neighborhood and has worked with me privately before and we have plans again next week for another four hour private class together.

Hi Jennifer. Frank here, remember me, I hired you in Feb for a Dominance
empowerment private lesson for my wife and her best friend?

Well a couple of months later and I am thinking about hiring you again
for late sept (22nd or23rd) on a friday or sat night for a seminar for
my wife and some of her girlfriends before they go out for a night on
the town. I was thinking about the cocksucking class ( and dang if I do
not write you the strangest emails) again early evening starting at 6 or
7 pm. I am asking you in advance so as to go with what is convenient for
you. so let me know what is good for you.

Secondly I am curious if you would like to do some tutoring/sexpositive
advocacy with my wife and myself. Preferably together, or seperate with
my wife depending on dynamics and comfort level in order to have a
strong dialogue. I know that my wife felt extremely ovewhelmed after her
last session with you You gave her too many options :)

BUT I also know that about a month after she was feeling more
comfortable with it all and I came into the bedroom to find her dressed
ready to impress and she DOMinated and totally (no hiding her arousal)
got off on making me submit. (heh I did not mind at all totally new and
wonderfull experience for me as it showed me that even though I had done
a bit of slap and tickle I had no idea what we where missing out on
cause I was missing the mark as it were.

Betty and I have a nice strong marriage and a very nice sex life, with
heaps of openness when it comes to most all aspects. But I think that
sitting down with you as a couple and having an honest open discussion
with someone who has made a strong and sexpositive impression on both of
us. Would at the very least give us some ideas and to quote you "improve
our game" would be a bonus, cause I think we are playing the game pretty
darn amazingly now.

Anyways after she reads this (not a Bday surprise this time) she can
send it to you. Looking forward to hearing from you either by phone
604-XXX-XXXX or via email at your convenience.

Frank & Betty

Deviant Liquid Latex & Little Sister's

Just off the phone with Jim over at Little Sisters Book Store we talked shop & had a laugh as well. I'm teaching there this Sunday, a class on Liquid Latex, how cool is that!

October 8 Sunday
2:00 - 4:00
Liquid Latex - an interactive class
open to men & women
presented by Jennifer
1238 Davie Street Vancouver @ Little Sisters Book Store
604 669 1753
$15 both advance tickets or pay at the door

Is it art? Clothing? A fetish? It's simply just deviant. Liquid Latex, painted as a single layer coating adheres to the skin as your second skin. Applied many layers over it becomes a top, thong, bold words written across your chest or perhaps a cat suit or hot shorts for your night at the club or in the bedroom! When dried it forms custom wearable rubber clothing & masks for your deviant side.

Jennifer will demonstrate on models a variety of techniques useful to making Liquid Latex a sexy success.

Liquid Latex, rollers & brushes will be available for sale after the class, stock up now either for your intimate play or for your Halloween costume. Ideas a plenty.

Bonus: your ticket to the workshop is also good for 20% off merchandise.

I was pleased to learn that Little Sisters has already started a wait list for my next Cock Sucking class at their store, given that the first one there went so well. Currently I'm teaching six classes from my Erotic Arts Curriculum for them and more up and coming.

We're booking the next round of classes for me to be teaching soon, I'm thrilled to be at Little Sisters and enjoying the opportunities it's presenting me with.

finding a nut

I need to find walnuts still in the shell. Medium to large size.

Three dozen of them to be precise.

Anybody know where to find walnuts? Or have 36 walnuts that I can get from you in the next week?

You'd be my hero, thank you.

Good night.

Oral Pleasure

always makes me feel at least some what better, then again, so does a good beating. Endorphins and orgasms, yummy!

This type of pleasure though isn't on any recommended diet especially when eaten in a single session by one person and it leaves behind no bruises. Chocolate.

challenging times

Work load, family commitments and life are overwhelming.

thud

crash

bang

I'm back

Home from Vegas with a whirlwind of memories and visuals still going on in my head and am thoroughly exhausted. Allena & I saw so much together, there were moments that were breath taking in beauty. Others that were incredible in grandness. Saw architecture that left my jaw open in awe.

My computer & phone were left alone, not doing a stitch of anything except to savor the holiday that I so deserved. It rejuvenated me the time away and gave Allena & I some time together away from our work commitments and leaving us the chance to come together all over again. I love you so much Bella. Thank you.

Must head to sleep soon. Couple of pictures...

This one is for Keith, it was taken at the Star Trek: The Experience at The Hilton Vegas.



This photo is for Albert, it was taken at The Bellagio water show, which we caught 3 of, two of which made me cry. The beauty of the music along with the water display was something that touched me deeply.




Good Night!!!

time away

I'm on Holidays and started Friday and return Friday.

Yes it's true, I'm on vacation right now, sitting in Seattle. In a few short hours I board a flight to Las Vegas where Bella and I will be spending girl time together for days. Unwind and let go, what better place to do this than Vegas right?

We've got front row seats to see Cirque Du Soleil's Zumanity show it's a provocative, cabaret-style production OR adult themed show.

Amazingly we have acquired a front row, dead center red leather duo seat sofa for our personal viewing & make-out pleasure. I'm freaking excited about this! Both the show and the pending make out session.



Today in the states I bought the most adorable red mesh / lace crinolin, it looks so sweet on me and short. Did I mention it's short. It's short. And sheer.

With my existing bosom cupcakes in red (with tassels) from Sweet Soul Burlesque along with my black fitted opera gloves and a pair of heels, all I think I have left to find to complete this outfit is perhaps a new pair of Cuban toed stockings and a new pair of bloomers.

Ok, if I wear stockings I'll need to buy a garter as well to match this ensemble. I was thinking maybe a waist cincher with removable garters built right in would do the trick.

My days are spent avoiding shopping and vanity so it's a nice diversion to have time and opportunity to indulge in such pleasures for a short time.

As a gift today I was given a Boy Scouts Uniform, covered in badges, awards, pins and other mementos. How lucky am I? Blessed be the Godesses that's for sure. There's a certain woman out there whose got a Boy Scout fantasy in mind and soon she may discover that sharing her secret with me has afforded her much pleasure.

Careful darling, you'll know your fantasy has come true when either A. you see me coming at you, wearing a Boy Scouts Uniform OR B. suddenly you are face down on the floor & you feel my boot on your back firmly holding you down

Happy Holidays to me.

toy acquisition

You can imagine my delight when Jenn handed me these recent additions to my teaching / toy collections. She's the owner of Tickled Pink Toys and I get a good number of my sex toys from her and was overjoyed to acquire these new items to aid in my pursuits.

An inflatable vibrating multi speed butt plug (The Deluxe Wonder Plug) and another Cock Ring this one though in latex and with an adjustable loop for varying levels of intensity.

Thanks so much Jenn and Tickled Pink for the fabulous new toys.

gas, cocks & mothers

On my way home from my Cock Sucking class last night I stopped and purchased gas for my car at the astonishing price of 90.5 cents. Yippee!

Driving home from class last night I also realized that I'd left a pillow case full of dildoes on the counter of Little Sisters. Darn, now I have to drive back down town to pick them up. What's a girl to do, I can't go with out all my cocks!

This morning is a drive to Horseshoe Bay to pick up my mom from the ferry terminal, we're spending the day together having lunch and doing some shopping in North Vancouver. My daughter has a Pro D day today and is excited about a day with her mom and her grandmother.

Cock Sucking Class Tonight

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women in bed together

In honor of this evenings class, I unveil this photo.

Jim took the photo of Allena and I awhile ago and it's one of my favorites of us.




Tonight, Wednesday, I'm teaching my Bi Curious class. Bi Curious? Where to Start for Girls Who Want To Date Girls.

Come out and join me if your interested in learning more about exploring where to start when it comes to flirting with, meeting, asking out, dating, sex play and relationships and of course all for women about being with women.

I'm a bisexual woman and have been for many many years. Let me share with you what I know so that you can make the transition to meeting women smoothly and with ease.

September 20 Wednesday
7:00 - 9:30pm
Bi Curious? Where To Start For Girls Who Want To Date Girls
presented by Jennifer
4687 Kingsway Street Burnaby
The Love Nest (directly across from Metrotown)
$25 pay at door, cash only

life goes full circle

This afternoon as I walked out of the orthodontist office with my daughter holding my hand, I had the strangest feeling of deja vu.

Years back at almost the same age, my mother had taken me for braces and in the 80's that was something quite unique still. I know we didn't hold hands and I do remember there being tears involved in the getting on of the braces. It hurt damn it.

Today as I looked at my daughter grinning her new shiny metal smile grin, it made me happy to see that braces had come so far. She had shed no tears, nothing hurt and everyone there was interested in her comfort. How civilized.

I had tan colored head gear, retainers then braces that filled my mouth with metal and it was what it was back then, no options in coloring, size, nothing.

The orthodontist now of course let's the individual choose their own color preferences for the elastics around each bracket with a color palette of about 24 options. Brackets coming in 3 different colors as well.

In a reflection of her own individuality, she selected red for the top and orange for the bottom. What a combo. When I asked her why those colors? Her reply. They're Fall colors mom. I've already been warned that for Halloween and her appointment the week before she's already decided she wants black and orange.

For as many thousands of dollars as this praised children's & youth's orthodontics specialist is making off of my child, I guess it's kind of nice of her to offer color choices for elastics.

My mom got me my smile and I've now done my part to ensure my daughter gets hers.

Sex Toy or Baby Toy?

From my good friend Keith!

Close-up photos of toys, and you guess if
each was (originally) designed as a sex toy or baby toy.

***The Quiz***

I scored: 12 out of 15

Excellent! I am a sex toy genius.
(or so it says, it helps that I own over half of the items pictured.)

last nights date

Jim & I slept in, waking & rolling out of bed just after 11:00 this morning. We'd been out the night before to dinner together, my man arriving at my door with a vase full of bright flowers for me, his girl and wearing the seductive smile of a partner filled with want.


After a leisurely dinner at one of our favorite places to eat we went to a play party and had some much needed fun. Jim tying me up securely in rope and then inverting me from my hips and attaching each arm to a length of bamboo and hoisting me into the air and off of the suspension frame.

He swung me gently for awhile, laying underneath me on the floor on his back, kissing me tenderly as I flew by unable to do anything but what he made me. Later with force he swung me to and fro leaving me to breath through my nostrils only so as to avoid vomiting. More tender kisses, a shift of position with removal of the bamboo pool and inverting me now from my spread thighs and then he played mean.

Pulled out a single tail and was throwing it at me and hitting me in horridly painful areas. Like my calf, shins and toes! Damn it! My masochism has been needing nurturing as of late and both it and I rejoiced in the attention.


Catching up with few people only, together we spent the better part of our date night just concentrated on one another. Of course there were certain friends with whom we had to say a special hello but our energy and focus was on each other.

Leaving at an early hour we headed home, for sex & cuddling. An excellent end to date night.

Women's Only Naughty Party, Fri Sept 15

it's tonight, can't wait to have you join us all...


You'll feel it the moment you walk in, the energy, the enthusiasm, the
raw female magnetism swirling through the air. As you sign in and give
up your ticket (which only costs a measly $25cdn) to the sexy smiling
hostess, you'll have your first glimpse of what a Libido Event: Women's
Only Naughty Party at the lush and lavish Club Eden
is all about. Although you'll have come
dressed to impress and will, no doubt, expect to be wowed (the wonderful
thing about a no street clothes dress code is the ample eye candy);
nothing can actually prepare you for the sheer breathtaking beauty of so
many hot and delicious women in such a warm and inviting space. You see,
this is not your ordinary party this is a sex positive women's only
play party. This is a party for women to celebrate their love (and lust)
for women.

Downstairs, you'll find a comfortable social space that overlooks the
dance floor. In the corner you may spot women swapping massages on the
massage table with others stand nearby chatting. On the couches, you may
spy women with their lips locked in a flirty and hungry embrace
alongside women resting a moment and taking it all in after a long
session on the dance floor. The dance floor itself is a sight to behold
bodies undulating under the flashing lights, dancing around the pole and
with other women. Mesmerizing.

Just around the corner from the dance floor is a laid back kitchen area
that leads into a lounge with a definitely posh club-like feel. The
lights are low, the candles flicker and all around the room women chat
and flirt while getting a refreshing drink (note, the event is alcohol
free) and maybe a light snack to munch on. Out back, you'll definitely
hear giggles from the hot tub (which is clothing optional, of course)
that sits on a large deck overlooking a large and peaceful yard. And if
you listen really carefully, you'll hear the moans and shrieks swirling
in from the BDSM dungeon down the hall and the numerous bedrooms
upstairs.

You are free to do what you wish at this party the space is there for
your to use as you please (respecting, of course, others wishes for
privacy and/or non-involvement). Does the voyeur in you want to see some
fucking or maybe a flogging? Do you want to flirt with reckless abandon
all night long? Do you just feel like chatting with sexy women in a sexy
environment, feeding off the fiery energy in the air? Does the
exhibitionist in you want to come out on display? Do you want to dance?
Do you want to play?

Women's Only Naughty Party (a Libido Event) starts this Friday
September 15th at 9pm and runs till 2am, with the class Pussy Licking
Good offered from 8-9pm before hand (free for all party attendees).

If you have any questions, please feel free to email me
Jennifer@libidoevents.com.

For address, driving instructions and to
RSVP, please contact reservations@clubeden.ca

death & work, life goes on

Yesterday was the memorial for my grandfather and my daughter I made the drive out to Langley to share in the service with the rest of the family. Oddly enough on the way there I drove right past one of my high schools and the very high school were I met Billy. It was a day filled with emotions and old dormant memories swirling round my head from out of no where.

This after we'd been at the orthodontist at 9:00 am having spacers put between her teeth as next week her braces go on. A year after getting retainers, they were finally thrown out to make way for this new leg of the dental journey.

Last night I taught Forbidden Fantasies: Role Playing In The Bedroom at Club Eden to a small intimate class. After such a long day for me, the laid back class was a much needed change of pace. When I finally arrived home last night at 10:40 my daughter was in my bed almost asleep yet awaiting me for a hug. Finally at the computer again and I found 27 pieces of mail that required more than a form letter from me. Yikes!

By the time I turned on the computer this morning at 11:00, there was another 14 emails, not spam, but emails from people needing one thing or another from me or Libido Events. The mail doesn't slow down, nor does people's interest in getting their needs met. The things I get to learn about people, my oh my.

A stop at the post box today and it was filled with booty, Oh my....

- thank you card from the thirteen students I taught at Opt
- box of chocolates
- new book to review
- contract to review
- new DVD to screen
- hand written letter from a woman
- check with a letter
- pair of panties from some unknown person To the panty giver, thank you, they fit me, er um, really snuggly. )
- a magazine

I check mail at least twice a week from the Post Box, this was a certainly a big load!

Oh yes and I got a new Leather Parachute Ball Stretcher AND a new Leather & "O" Ring Cock Cage!

Licks & Lashes is a wonderful place to shop for quality, unique adult play toys, thanks Aaron for treating me so well and always making sure I have what I need.

stunt cunt to the rescue

A couple of years ago I (as Libido Events) hired author and activist Deborah Addington to present a class here locally on vaginal fisting.

Deborah, is a colleague whom I know through work and also the author and master woman who wrote A Hand In The Bush: The Fine Art Of Vaginal Fisting. Her book is great.

The event went off fabulous to a huge crowd at...get ready, The Vancouver Curling Club. Deborah did a lecture, talk and then proceeded to demonstrate her art, her craft and fisted a woman who was laying naked from the waist down in front of the room, full of people.

And the lights, we hung spot lights over the table she lay on to ensure everyone had a great view. It was a sponsored event, by the Love Nest. Everyone was in tight, close together, theater style so a good line of sight was possible.

Deborah is what's referred to as an Amazon of a woman in size. She's got amazing presence. And really big bloody hands. On the outside, she's a hard femme, six feet tall, dark-haired, green-eyed, tattooed and pierced.

This slim woman laying on the table, legs drawn up, feet planted solidly, open wide, rocked for a few minutes as Deborah started the descent, as her hand was creeping deeper inside her. Before she had swallowed up Deborah's hand rather swiftly. She could have taken it right away but the class needed to learn. Go slow, do it steps, talk the class through it. Smiling and happy it was looking like they were a good match. Fister and fistee. Everyone there watched it happen as they listened to Deborah's instruction and descriptive explantion.

Then this woman, petite next to Deboraha pushes herself to the end of the table resting her feet on the floor and slowly stands up. Which in turn brought the Amazon to her knees as her fist was completely up inside of her and wanting to be the ever giving fister, she was there pumping away. And of course, her fist was stuck up inside at this point and due to the new somewhat ackward angle, staying inside was the plan of action, still.

Deborah was arm wrestling a vagina, or so it looked.

All this time Deborah is trying to explain to a room full of people, how this is not the every day fisting experience. Please don't think it should or ever will go for you like this. She's never had a woman before literally climb on top of her fist and bounce, yet that's exactly what I did.

note 1: For you Carolyn. :)
note 2: The volunteer stunt cunt / vagina model for this event had withdrawn her coochie shortly before and the position was literally, suddenly available.
note 3: I'm an exhibitionist AND it's also just part of my job as a sex-activist
note 4: The show must go on.

G Spot class

I've spent 7 hours in front of this computer screen today hammering out business e-mails and writing proposals and such. It's been a long successful day inside alone.

A change of scenery will do me good so I'm looking forward to this evening and heading out of the house. My stunt cunt and I are off to make the drive to Bellingham where I'm presenting my G Spot class for the Triskeli Guild.

Tomorrow night is Forbidden Fantasies: Role Playing in the Bedroom at Club Eden, e-mail now and reserve your seat in class.



September 13 Wednesday
7:30 - 9:30pm
presented by Jennifer @ Club Eden, N Delta
$20 person, cash at door

reservations@clubeden.ca *for your RSVP & the address

Building a fantasy with your partner can be a rich and rewarding experience
which can add new dimensions to your sex life.

In this workshop, we will discuss how to get into the right mindset for whatever
fantasy you have in mind (youÂ’ll get a list of starting points as well) and
weÂ’ll discuss how to add props into your fantasy to add to the adventure.
Topics: pacing, leading, and following will be included, as well as how to let
your partner know if a fantasy is or isn't working.

The largest sex organ is between your ears, be prepared to learn about
communication.

* There is no requirement to attend this workshop with someone else;
attend alone or with a friend or partner.

seducing a workman

There's a man currently on his knees on my porch in the sun. Singing a really good tune and carrying it well. He's got a beautiful face and a firm ass. He's a really dirty and sweaty young man, wiping his brow every 5 minutes on the arm of his shirt.

Perhaps I should tell him that removing his shirt would keep him cooler and provide me with better visuals. :)

Would it be so wrong for me to seduce him, the hired help?

Two minutes ago said man, just looked at me typing here at my kitchen table and said the words...

Hey, aren't you .... Yup, that's right, it's me Jennifer. Told me he saw me in the hallway the other day and recognized me from past events I've hosted. He's been to a number of the workshops Libido Events has hosted with Midori. He asked me if I was a helper at Libido Events and that's why I was there.

I laughed, hard. Helper, sschmelper. I would be the force and energy behind Libido Events, the lone one. He chuckled at the realization of who I was.

Now that he's back working (caulking) on my porch and I now know of his interest in bondage, I'm even more intrigued to seduce him!

I'm 33, he can't be more than 25. He's really sexy, sort of Hispanic looking, trim, boyish, not my type usually, but he can sing and likes bondage.


I may just go into my bedroom and masturbate on my bed, while listening to the sounds of him working & singing out in the mid afternoon sun!

**just my luck, he's just showed up at my patio door to tell me that his pants button just popped off. I offered to give him a safety pin or some rope to hold his pants up with. He declined both. I personally hope his pants just fall off him.