Bath House Vancouver

The date for our new exciting quarterly couples-only party is set for Saturday December 8th from 7:30 - 11:30 pm.

We've rented an entire bath house in Vancouver and are hosting the event there.

It's called...SULTRY.

An evening for the playfully adventurous.

Just you, your partner and 24 other couples, locked in for an evening of debauchery.

Fifty people sweltering in the heat of passion.

Fifty people looking sultry in the steam of the sauna.

Fifty people parched with torrid feelings of lust.

Get your tickets soon as this event will be a sell out, with limited tickets only sold.

$80 couple

Tickets are first come, first served and can be purchased at both our October 27 and November 24 Play Parties.

Email me to arrange pick-up of your tickets if you are unable to pick them up from either of the above events.

*all inclusive: entrance to the event, snacks, non alcoholic beverages, entertainment, play stations, safer-sex supplies
*you and your partner must arrive and leave together

slow day

Slept in till noon.
Seven loads of laundry.
A trip to the produce store.
Four movies from Block Buster.
Shoppers Drug Mart for chocolate and post box.
Home cooked dinner in.
The whole family including the cat, on the sofa for movies and cuddling.
Bed.

period relief

On either side of my belly, down low is all cramped up and my back aches enough to make me stoop. There are times when I loath having my period. Being pregnant will be such a welcome relief to the monthly disasters that are now routinely apart of my cycle. And in exchange for the months without pain, one birth.

for Kathy who brought up calm...

EXCITING NEW SPECIAL EVENT ANNOUNCEMENTS

• A Couples Only Play Event
  
• A Women's Only Play Event
• A Weekend Conference and Gala Evening Play Party
  
• Two Interactive workshops with a well known sexuality author (open to all)

The Couple's Only Play Event is now going to be a quarterly party with 24 couples only, so limited tickets each time. The Women's Only Play Event is now going to be a quarterly event and it will be limited to 50 tickets per event.


The Weekend Conference is a yearly event, and is an enormous undertaking. Watch how well we do it too as our team of volunteers is inspiring.

The two workshops with the acclaimed author are long overdue, we've been friends for a few years, working together finally just fell into place now. You'll love this educators books, they make learning the sexy stuff, really easy.


The Who What Where When and How Much questions will be answered shortly for those of you who are fascinated already by the intrigue of all these exhilarating delights.


This has all become possible because, as you may have been surmising we're about to make yet another incredible announcement from Libido Events as to what we've been doing at Libido Lounge. Very very soon.

the play by play

I awoke this morning to a message from a friend telling me to check -out the noisome Tinks blog yet again. None to impressed I roused my computer from its sleep and what do I find, but yet another post about me, written on her schools paid work time of her. This was her latest attempt at egging me along another of her cruel petty games.

The other two entries for today reflect how the day has unfolded on my end. It seems that once she read my entry, she went and removed her most recent post about me. Today's. And now she has her clan, posse, clique emailing me with threats that what I wrote in my post was wrong to do. Perhaps she forgot to mention to them what sparked such a response, was her original public post from this morning, the one she deleted before jumping up and down screaming, "look at me, look at me! I've been wronged".

Ms. Tink needs to check on her own ethics and that of her schools policy and spend less time worrying about mine.

Likely she's at home now attempting to clear her blog of all the posts made during company work time. A shame many of them are not even on her own site.

Leave me alone.

four little words for you

DATED & TIMED SCREEN SNAP-SHOTS
(of everything to date)

Ethics in the work-place

After doing some brief corresponding with Burnaby's Alexander College it became none to easy to run across Mr. Marv Weftrom the director of personnel.

I have kept an extensive log of stinky tinks on-line posts/rants/comments (about myself & my pursuits) made while on paid work time for the aforementioned post secondary school. An institution with an ethics policy. Posts made to her blog, posts made to on-line groups and of course all done on her companies paid time, over a long period of time.

Let's see how everyone involved feels about this now.

in the line of duty

Slept till 2:30 this afternoon.

Woke.

Stared at computer in bed. Vaguely working.

Dressed.

Went to teach my class.

Had a visit from the police response end of 911 at the store. Three police cars - two marked, one not with Burnaby's RCMP officers in their finest including a blond bombshell, all out front of the store.

RC picked me up from class with a dozen long-stemmed red roses and two barely opening light yellow lilies awaiting me in a beautiful bouquet.

Deej is the best-ever volunteer.

Came home to my daughter, putting her to bed at ten.

RC and I were under the covers, lights out, cuddling into a deep sleep by 11:15.

Despite the calm start to my day and the long over due rest, the evening's antics left me drained.

busy bee

There is a new little hide-away store that I've found for panties and stockings that is local to me and so I headed there early this morning with high hopes. Though not too hidden as while there I happened to run into a cross-dresser friend happily shopping as well. I walked away with four distinctive stunning pairs of undergarments and a new pair of hose. Having thrown away about eight pairs of panties recently I can rationalize this purchase thoroughly, you see? (plus RC told me to go)

Made the drive to a beautiful wedding in Langley at four pm between friends of mine. The sun was shining as were the hundred and twenty odd guests. Kara who was my bottom for so long as many of you remember, was there as well with her new hubby. Had the chance to see so many pals and old acquaintances, even snapping some candid moment shots on my camera for memories sake. The bride was so well put together, calm and breath taking, that it took an extra moment to notice the ever handsome groom standing proudly next to her staring into the eyes of his love.

Drove to the hospital and picked up my guy from his long work day and we returned home for a quick dinner together. Dressing in our shiny-best pleather and pvc outfits with accoutrement to compliment and off we headed for the infamous Sin City. Not the best club night there, for us this month. Music rocked as always. People and the vibe not so much. This was most rare. (plus with the disaster of the dungeon it's ridiculously difficult to play there now) So, rather than complain, we came home and made our own fun. But not before I had the most outrageous conversation with the new pres. of a local group that is aspiring to be. Incredible to learn that they have enough options for new new venues that he was not in need of any further assistance getting a facility for his group.

Sundays class

This coming Sunday October 14 from 7:00 - 9:00pm


Finding & Stimulating The G-Spot & Female Ejaculation - with live demo

Open to men, women, couples & singles
presented by Jennifer

Venue: The Love Nest 4687 Kingsway Burnaby BC (directly across from Metrotown)
$25 per person OR $45 per couple - pay at door, no advance tickets

Are you a squirter or gusher, or aspiring to be? Want to help your
lady find and enjoy her G-Spot? This is the class for you.

Join Jennifer and one of her lovely woman friends for a hands-in
demonstration on techniques to please for G spot stimulation &
ejaculation potential.

Clitoral & G-Spot Anatomy from both an internal and external view.
Choosing a toy or your own hands? Getting you both ready for the
often transformative experience. When the G-Spot is stroked, there is
often a sensation or urge to urinate. By learning techniques to both
understand then move beyond this urge many women can experience
heightened arousal and for others ejaculation becomes possible. Tips
that are tried, tested and easy to grasp so you can finally stroke
your own G-Spot or your partners.

*you'll want to bring a notebook & pen to class

doing the naked happy dance

It is an honor that they even phoned me. I was shocked, completely caught off guard for the news to follow.

A large US organization is looking to bestow three national sex-educators with something rather prestigious and coveted. It would appear I was one of the three chosen, and my fellow esteemed colleagues are none-other-than Dossie Easton and Midori. How stellar is that!

As much as I'd love to tell you more details, it's not my information to unveil. But being the recipient of such wonderfully positive news, meant that I had to share some of it somewhere, or I was going to burst.

In a few months there will be a large formal announcement. In the mean time, just know that I am super excited because with this, comes a new opportunity for me, that is rather um, shall we say, grand in size.

know thy self

Some people like sex as a stand alone event. Others prefer sex and bondage together to make things hot. Still others find a third person and the extra hands to be the big bang, while some enthusiasts need the stimulation arriving from power exchange or sensation seeking SM play to get themselves off.

I was reminded today, that although I am a switch and do like to bottom now and again, it truly is situational, my stronger more regular role is as a Dominant. RC was out of the house for an hour or so, and while away I made myself fresh & pretty, put on a pair of high heels and set the bedroom just so.

With the curtains drawn and music playing on the iPod, the bed was made and upon it a large waterproof pad. I pulled out a number of items to use on him from the toy trunks and laid each of them out carefully, deliberately. I set myself out on the bed, in a good-viewing position and waiting in my power pose, I pondered my plan of attack.

Shortly I heard his key in the door and then the familiar click of the deadbolt. I called out, "you'd best make yourself naked before you come in here" and..... he does. Standing in front of me finally I admired his firm frame having him move about for me. His nakedness turns me on as does the obvious reminder that he listens so well.

Imagine my honest surprise when suddenly out the blue, he reaches for my crop and smacks the inside of my still "spread" inner thigh. Not once, twice but three times. And all the while meeting me eye to eye while a wide smile was across his face. Shocked beyond words, my mouth opened but no protest.

It seemed innocent enough to let him hit me playfully, yet within 30 seconds his strikes were landing over my bare mons. I clamped my legs shout and exclaimed with a stern voice, yet still a smile.... "Enough! See these heels", pointing down at my shoes, "if you hit me again, they (the shoes) will clock you in the head!"

And I'll be damned if the boy didn't reach over, grab some rope and promptly tie my legs spread eagled, open to the bedposts. Then he continued again with the crop, stating that the shoes could do no damage now. Still smiling, both of us that is, I allowed things to continue.

Our scene ended with each of us spent, sticky, more in love and my proclaiming that though that was fun, I still when bottoming, prefer to keep my sex and SM play separate.

In the very near future, he will pay for todays indiscretion. And I will have much fun reprimanding him!

warm wishes

We've spoken to our extended families on the telephone at length today, and also spent the entire day together, the three of us. It has been very relaxing and well deserved.

Lots accomplished around the house, yet little professionally. *Sighs* I am finding it a challenge to get to some important items tended to in a timely matter right now as my efforts emotionally and work-wise are directed towards finishing a little something special.


Happy Thanks Giving to each of you.

And a special warm Thanks Giving to these dear-to-me people...

Allena, PA, Deej, Carolyn, Judy - from the island, Juliet, Yvonne, T & M, and PG!

XOXOX

a day in the life

With today being Sunday and all, it seemed only appropriate that we spend the day sleeping and eating. I roused just before 2:00 this afternoon and awoke RC next to me. Together we climbed out of bed around 3:00. T found the whole matter amusing, it's been a long weekend of rest for us all.

Dressing finally around 5:00pm, we made our way to the Richmond night Market.

I consumed spicy squid in a bowl. A bag of blue cotton candy. 1/2 a bag of sugary mini donuts. A skewer of bacon and prawns, yummy. 4 tasty pork and shrimp dumplings. And to round it all off, an ice cold bottle of water.

For purchases, it wasn't much. Just a new mini umbrella that fits in my purse, though RC and T both found a few items to their liking.

Thank the goddesses that the rain held off. This is the last weekend for the market this year in fact. And next year, it has no home yet as it lost it's lease on the property it's on now. I do hope they find somewhere accessible as the market has a wonderful cultural feeling about it, it's a unique environment for shopping, and eating.

We came back home and despite the drive back in the heat of the vehicle, my bones were still cold. With a soak in a hot bath complete, I'm now on the sofa naked, watching tv and surrounded by my family.

Life is fantastic.

passing time

There were many options thrown at me with what to do with my Saturday night. Despite all the wonderful suggestions and even a few demands of me, I made a decision that was the best possible choice. I chose to spend the whole night, actually the entire day at home, with my daughter. With time on hands, I dug a few photos out of the depths of my archives.

muscle strength

Picture this.

With a late afternoon appointment at our lawyers firm downtown, both RC and I were dressed professionally, looking shiny and groomed-up-fresh as a couple. After a lengthy and heady conversation between us all at the lawyers, we made the drive back home with much to think on. Making a pit stop we embarked upon our local Safeway store to pick up the turkey dinner fix-ins still necessary to complete this weekends festive family feast.

At the till, after paying the bill, I reach for a number of the grocery bags. The clerk, a young girl, grabs one of the two bags in my hands from me, and says, don't take this one it's too heavy for you. Here, take this one! And proceeds to hand the bag I had originally reached for to RC, who of course already had his hands full.

I just smiled and walked off carrying my barely two bags of food, mumbling something about Sexism at Safeway, all the while shaking my head. RC was three steps behind me weighted down by the multitude of heavy bags of groceries he had to carry, and laughing himself.

pass me the Advil

At times my fast-paced, sexy, fun and inspiring job is a bloody pain in the neck. Today of course was one of those painful days.

I've worked recently on a short term project and the person I worked alongside, turned out to be a real schmuck. Unethical, deceitful, and rude. For now, I have wiped my hands of them, because I can't be seen working with someone who is so obviously (to me now) not equipped to be doing the job they are. And I refuse to endorse with my presence or name anything this person is a part of. It is apparent that I will need to shortly let others know of the horrid indiscretions made by this weenie. Well, the wheels are in motion already.

T is 13 and almost soon to be 14, she is a fiery lovable young girl woman with a bright promising outlook on life. Today though she was a miserable teenager and as cranky as can be, not with RC though...only with me. aaahhhh!!! She is so like I was in many ways at this same age-range, yet there is an obvious youthfulness about her appropriately that I did not have at her age, at all.

Not often, but now and again it happens. Late this afternoon I had a headache that made my eye balls hurt and my shoulders scrunch up into little balls of angry muscle. Noise hurt, light hurt and moving hurt. Not good considering I had an evening coaching appointment out in Port Coquitlam and needed to be able to drive myself there and make it through the session. Two Advil later and things were looking up. Not healed was the ache, but at least I felt better.

My in-box was painstakingly cleaned out last week and everything was handled, I was up to speed. Now just a few days later and of course I am inundated with responses to my responses and of course the usual flood of mail that I face daily. This behind the scenes work, is often where a large part of my admin. efforts go.

My clients from this evening in PoCo were a wonderful couple who I made an impression on two years ago in a sex ed. class I was teaching on stage at an event in-front of about 500 people and now this evening I had the pleasure of talking with them for two very powerful hours alone, they had my undivided attention as their personal sexuality coach.

There is back log of items pressing for my attention and I'll be damned if I got near any of them today.

Tomorrow is a new day, I'm going to sleep now, to make it happen even quicker. (and to relieve myself of this god awful temple pressure ache)

quick entry

A photo of RC & I on our way to dinner. We were off to spend an evening with the young Pretty Girl, that we play with.

A friend is here from outside of the US to learn English, and could really use a bicycle to get around our beautiful city. He is a published author, and is brushing up on his English skills. Please help out a really interesting fellow, and drop me a note, if you are able to help him out.

jennifer@libidoevents.com

EDIT: I find myself listed under Group Outdoor Orgy, go see for yourself. I'm not surprised that I was this person's first in this exact context, seeing as it is what I do for a living.

memories

Friday night's women's sex party ended at 1:00 a.m. (Saturday morning) in Surrey and was it ever spectacular. Forty six women pre registered and we had 35 women show up. I couldn't have asked for a better party. Almost every women ended up playing and the sex was so hot. Oh my goddesses. The visuals were more than I could do justice to with words. Women in nirvana with one another.

After the party ended, RC picked me up at door at 1:15 a.m. and we made a bee-line for the border. It was so awesome to cross over with only one car in front of us. Arriving in Seattle at 4:06 a.m. and promptly went straight to sleep. Exhausted and very spent, so much so, that I left my suitcases accidentally in Allena's hallway overnight, just outside her door. How tired I was.

Got out of bed damn early and went right over to The Wet Spot as I had two classes to teach. Cock Sucking and Pussy Licking, both HUGE classes that went very well. Twenty something people in the first class and just a few less in the latter. RC, Bella her new guy and I all went out for a lovely dinner to end the day then we settled in for the night at Bella's for a quiet evening at home.

This morning I had a private coaching session for two-hours with a really sweet couple, then another class in the afternoon on Women's Dominance.

Mid afternoon we drove the I-5 back home back to Vancouver leaving Seattle behind, 36 hours after we had arrived.

By 6:30, we were back home and I was soaking finally in a hot bath. RC headed off to pick up something special for me for dinner. Returning he made me a yummy meal of salmon and mushrooms. My guy pleases me to no end, the love is palpable.

At 8:00pm T walked through the front door of home after her weekend at her dads. We had a cuddle and some catching up, then it was time to put her to bed.

Now shortly, we are off to our bedroom. RC has declared this tonight, Jennifer's night of pleasure in bed. A lot of Pussy Licking. How could I say no to such a loving offer? Seeing as I've been teaching so much of this as of late, it seems only appropriate that I "get some" to bring this mad rush of a weekend, to an end.

Good night.

Readying

Shortly I leave for the women's play party. I am sooo excited. Forty six women registered and I have more gear packed than we could possibly ever use.

Wish me luck! Hell. Never mind, I need no luck. In fact what I need is more hands and more time to do all the women things that I want to.

whuhaha, I have a damn blessed life AND occupation