Sunday, September 10, 2006

Seattle already

After making the drive and crossing the border earlier today, I'm now sitting securely in Allena's living room in Seattle. Of course, I was the "random" lucky car number of the day and made to go inside Customs so a search of my vehicle could happen.

My first class today, a personal security panel on Internet Dating that I was on with Tim and Mistress Matisse was successful. I learned a couple of new ideas that I plan on incorporating into my own dating life and also in to my Negotiation class that I teach and thoroughly enjoyed the chance to sit and teach with two friends.

After the panel I drove straight to Allena's and climbed in to bed, sleeping for 1.5 hours! Go me.

Tonight at 7:30 I'm teaching at Babeland on Capital Hill, my class Take Charge! A Woman's class on Dominance.

Then the big debate...

Return to Allena's get some sleep and leave early tomorrow morning for home

OR

Get in my car and make the drive home arriving back to Burnaby late and able to sleep in my own bed?

What to do? I'm unsure.

Perhaps I'll wait and see how tired I am after tonight's class. Then decide.

Let's connect

We met last night at Sin City, downstairs in the dungeon. I talked you into removing your shirt. While driving home, I regretted not getting your e-mail address from you.

If you find this post from the link on my business card that I gave you, then I'd be thrilled to hear from you.

Please mail me privately so we can finish the conversation we started and I can ask you a question.

jennifer@libidoevents.com

Saturday, September 09, 2006

spirituality, sexuality & the Pope

Now I don't practice a religion but I do have my own beliefs and consider myself to be spiritual.

I still have respect for Pope Benedict and am in awe of his conviction BUT his statements sure bothered me. (in fact they are still bothering me)

As a Canadian, a mother and a proud woman loving woman bi sexual.


I was beside myself with delight in 2005 when Canada became the fourth country in the world to recognize gay marriage after Parliament finally passed legislation.

Then I'm further aggravated by his speech being excused away as being written by Vatican officials instead of himself. Perhaps then what! The Pope didn't know what he was reading?? aaahhhhh

Friday, September 08, 2006

Poodle Position Available

Know a sex-positive poodle?
Velveeta Krisp, local sex-positive artist, seeks a poodle
for short film for theatrical production. Needed for 1 hour max.
Filming early October.
Contact: thepassionatepoodle@hotmail.com




FYI - Velveeta is a long time friend of mine, and would treat you and your poodle well.

Thursday, September 07, 2006

Pussy Licking Good class

TONIGHT, JOIN ME
for some fun & some insight

September 7 Thursday
7:30 - 9:30 pm
Pussy Licking Good


presented by Jennifer
4687 Kingsway Street Burnaby @ The Love Nest
(directly across from Metrotown)
$25 pay at door, cash only
Celendar of Events

From the silky caress of your warm wet tongue lapping her labia, you'll soon
feel more powerful and in control and she'll know you've got her pleasure in
mind. With using but a few of the tips and techniques that Jennifer will
demonstrate and share in this class you'll come away more confident in your
cunnilingus and inspired to share what you've learned.


open to men & women, singles and couples

transitions

I'm now the parent of a high school student. Oh my.

My world shifted when as I dropped my daughter off to school, I noticed a number of young men. Each of them parking his car before walking into school, along side my daughter. I'd forgotten that her peers now, may also be driving and some even resembling adults in stature.

This is a whole new ball game. No more elementary school issues, we're playing big now.

Tuesday, September 05, 2006

Erotic Photo - Full

This photo is another in the series that David Steinberg took of me being consumed.


Monday, September 04, 2006

Vagina maker wanted

Are you able to take on the task of making me a large scale display model vagina?


With all the right parts for me to use as a teaching aide in classes.

You'll need to have excellent sewing skills, imagination, a flair for creativity and live in the GVRD area.

Think of the fun we'll have plotting the creation of this beautiful, grand, elegant, educational, coochie together.

I'd sure like to hear from you.

This needs to be made in under 30 days so please only respond if you have the time to take this project on right now.

Drop me an e-mail at jennifer@libidoevents.com

hit to the wallet

I'm cranky.

We've just returned from shopping for school supplies.

It was very expensive.

Expected yet still pricey.

It's an investment worth making though.

I must remember that later this week, the school will start collecting fees.

Oh joy.

Saturday, September 02, 2006

sweeping away cobwebs

At twelve years old, I was an awkward, self conscious yet striving young girl
entering grade 8, high school. Innocence, naiveness, purity, all long ago
removed from me even before I knew such qualities existed. I'd had private
regular sexual activity as far back as my young life knew.


Sex was taken from me but not my virginity. My virginity was my own, I'd
claimed this as something that could not be taken from me. I gave my virginity
to a bad boy. A bad boy who treated me good and agreed to meet
me after school for sex. All I had to do was ask.

I needed to give myself to Billy. Billy was my first. Billy was a choice.
Our sex was a planned, choice. Billy was the first person I got to choose to
have sex with. Billy was the first boy whom I wanted to share my body with.
Billy was my first. Billy took my virginity and I handed it to him on a silver
platter. Take me now. It wasn't about pleasure, it was about choice.
I came alive, not in orgasm, but in choice, it was simply powerful to be able
to choose sex and want it.

As a girl I was robbed of choice. Billy on the other hand, he let me come to
him and ask for sex. Billy, 14 maybe 15 years and he already knew not to push
a girl into wanting him. Billy let me come to him in my own time and it was by
doing this that he owned my heart. He let me have a voice for my sex &
sexuality. Billy taught me what others had never shown me when in pursuit of
their own pleasure. Billy listened, he cared, then he got the girl.


I loved Billy with all my heart and thought the world would end, when our
relationship ended. Of course the world didn't end, but my relationship with
Billy did.

Since Billy and my childhood I've gained a powerful loud voice for my sexuality
and fallen in love many more times over.

Friday, September 01, 2006

just another tourist

After a long, hot drive along the I5 corridor earlier today, my daughter and I have landed safely in Seattle. Arriving in a few hours ago, we stopped off at Allena's place in Queen Ann, leaving our bags behind and caught our breath, finally able to cool off some.

Once rested, we were right back out the door and off to the Pike Place Market to see some flying fish, brilliant colors for flowers and the masses of tourists, who like us, were there to savor this final Friday of the summer.

Now back at Bella's as the heat was just to much for us out there in the world. A family show on tv, a few e-mails and once the sun goes down a little, we plan on heading out again for sushi at our favorite neighborhood restaurant. I'm eager to sit myself down and eat till I've no room left.

Tomorrow I've got two classes to teach at "The Gathering, Wet Spot In Paradise", Cock Sucking: the Hand Job, Blow Job class and Erotic Wax & Ice Play.

Since Allena stays at WSIP for the duration, my daughter and I have her condo to ourselves.

Days like this one remind me of how blessed I am and that by making good choices I've permitted such opportunities for myself and my family to enjoy life.

Thursday, August 31, 2006

in a day

This afternoon I had an appointment at the Skin Care Center at VGH, my case & symptoms finally warranting a referral to this city specialist. New prescriptions in hand, the physician eased my mind and sent me back out the office door a mere 15 minutes later. What professionalism he exuded. I sure value a Doctor with an excellent bed side manner and punctuality. Doctor was a pleasant surprise, medical outcome & treatment more hopeful.

This evening before dinner, a knock on the door and it was the landlord on behalf of the property management group. Handing me a white piece of paper, asking for my signature and giving me 90 days notice of a rent increase. Damn this sucks the big one.

Home now from teaching this evening's How To Look and Feel Sexy class at The Love Nests Burnaby store. Feet up on the sofa, answering e-mails before bed while watching the evening news.

Wednesday, August 30, 2006

banned commercial

In light of my teaching my Forbidden Fantasies: Role Playing In The Bedroom class at Saturday's Naughty Party, a party attendee sent me a link afterwards she thought I'd enjoy.

It's a link to you tube and a short, 45 second hilarious Ikea commercial that never made it to TV and you'll soon see why!

It's a good belly laugh for those of us that do role play AND that are parents as well.

Tuesday, August 29, 2006

in passing

My father phoned a short while ago and when my daughter anwered he started sobbing, unable to speak passing the phone to my mother. My daughter spoke to my mom for about a minute before the phone was passed to me. I knew what was going to be said next.

My grandfather finally passed away, he'd been hanging on for the last few months and today was his day to leave us. Dying on his own, peacefully in a care home, minutes from my folks. When my dad got to him after his passing, he still had a smile on his face.

With everyone around me in tears & hurting, it's time for me to hold my family together for awhile.

Monday, August 28, 2006

day off

I awoke this morning to my daughter laying in bed next to me smiling, gently nudging me. Wake Up! We're going to PNE today! With sun shining in the windows, we flung back the covers and started our day.

Woke at a leisurely pace, then we were out of the house without doing a stitch of house work and off to the Fair for the whole day.

Parked at dear Hughs house, he lives a block and a half block away from PNE and made our way straight into the main gates as we had picked up tickets in advance from Safeway.

What fun we had. The joint pig and duck show is a must see each year for us and a real riot. The dog show is spectacular and such a crowd pleaser. (although sad & different this year with Herb now retired and gone) The diving team had a thrilling performance and the dance troupes all out did themselves. Street performers were all offering differing acts and managing to hold a crowd. Lucky us.

Parade was short and sweet, we even managed seats on a bench. Horse and carriage ride was a great way to spend a loonie and to get us off our feet for 15 minutes. The food was over priced yet we had to indulge and the air filled with wonderful aromas while me munched down yummy treats. A few games suckered us in and yet we came out ahead with stuffed cheap plushies as rewards to our stellar efforts.

The crowds as always were sexy and I of course ran in to many people who recognized me, or who I knew. Some show was cancelled at the last minute and so in it's place was a magic and illusions show which had us mesmerized from start to end. What a fitting way to end our day.

Today was a good day.

good night

Sunday, August 27, 2006

it's after the Naughty Party

and I've made it home in one piece, barely. Exhausted. Spent. Blissed out. Happy. Tired. Before sleep there are a number generous & kind folks I want to pay a special thank you to (again), for helping make last nights Naughty Party so damn sexy & successful for all. In random order they are

Danny
Steven
Stephen
Chris
Hugh
Victoria
Vicky
Shantar
Sabrina
Josette
Keith


Thank you to each of you for your volunteer time but more importantly for being people that others can count on. You're an incredible group and working with you all last night was a treat.


I'm in love with my new white cotton t shirt from Alberta that P & I gave me as a gift. It says "So Many Boys, So Little Rope". Knowing you both is a delight, I appreciate your thoughtfulness.




There is an extra big thanks going out to Victoria over at The Triskeli Guild in Bellingham, she and Stephen came up for the party and brought with them a spanking bench. You two made my night, the spanking bench and your company!

Saturday, August 26, 2006

Naughty Party tonight!!

Tonight, Saturday is our infamous Naughty Party!

Meet new friends, catch up with old ones, flirt, voyeur, have sex, a bubble bath for 2, a steamy shower, do some bondage or perhaps some S/m play in our air conditioned venue.

Remember the night starts with a free 1 hour class, Forbidden Fantasies: Role Playing In The Bedroom. 8:00-9:00 We will even have a male masseur on site this evening, it’s going to be a wild night.

Please read ALL the details below so you arrive with everything you'll need to know to make your night a success.


August 26 Saturday
9:00 - 2:00am
Naughty Play Party
a sex-positive event

$45 couple, $25 woman
pay at door, cash only
**No single men this event **

#120 - 307 West Broadway St., Vancouver

(directly across the street from Office Depot between Yukon & Albert St. -
ENTER AT REAR OF BUILDING)

***Rules & Tips***


**As a special addition to the party Ki Rohn a professional tantric
masseur will be providing full body, deep tissue, sensual and tantric
massage. It’s by donation, $1/minute. It’s worth it, so bring extra cash
and let Ki take you for an amazing journey into your body.


Read over the comments posted to my Blog from last months Naughty Party to give you an idea of how exciting these parties are.



Parking is free out front of the building along the side street and yes, even in the lot behind. It says, Reserved, that's because that's for the building you'll be entering from the rear, you can park here, please do. As you get out of your car out back, there is a door that says Libido Events, Welcome to the Naughty Party!

Remember to bring a snack or dish to share, it should require no kitchen help. Nothing please requiring utensils. Do not arrive empty handed. Cold pop and water are provided at no charge.

Our second Naughty Party ever geared towards couples and single women only and has your response been overwhelming, Thank you. After the success of last months party in the new space, I just had to do it again. Return for more fun or show up and see what all the fun really is all about.

The layout is spacious yet you'll feel at ease in the space quite quickly, it's seven multiple intimate rooms for play in various forms and more places set out for those we'll call the exhibitionists. Whomever you are, what ever your bend of your sexuality and expression there of, is what we want to see in you this evening. Be yourselves, be fun and be Naughty.

Another area set out for food and beverages so we can enjoy a little snack to help keep energy up over our evening together. In front of this all viewable through a large wall cut out is a large sitting room, with chairs, sofa and places for you to talk and chill amongst yourselves while enjoying your nibblies.

Down the hall a multitude of rooms await your discovery with massage tables, spanking bench, bondage tables and beds in a couple of those. The glassed in shower room and the bath tub room are both very popular, the tub seats 2 easily! We are carpeted, air conditioned & complete with a sound system through out.

Large washrooms men's, women's and handicap with space where you may change before you enter (if you need to) and then stow your bag in our check area. Bring a bag to contain all your belongings in. Street clothes will NOT get you inside, no no to jeans. Dress sexy and to impress and we consider naked or near naked, worthy of praise.

Of course we have on hand condoms, lube, gloves, massage oils, sheets, towels, wipes, inviting sexy atmosphere, excellent people whom you'll be able to spend time with and myself there for you to know, along with a team of volunteers that would be pleased to answer any of your questions.

Note the evening starts with a workshop Forbidden Fantasies: Role Playing in the Bedroom starting at 8:00 promptly and ending at 9:00. At 9:00 the Naughty Party starts and not before as there will be a workshop in progress, please be considerate.


We are a completely alcohol free event, do not bring any liquor. House Rules will be posted at the party.

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PLEASE OH PLEASE BRING & DONATE TO THE NAUGHTY PARTY

* pillows, small toss size
* sheets, fitted & flat
* VHS & DVD pornography - women's & men's

Friday, August 25, 2006

surprise



This beautifully bright bouquet of flowers is on my kitchen table, a surprise treat along with Lindt chocolate & deviant mini clothes pegs!

I am a blessed woman to have such wonderful friends in my life, to bring me such delightfully appropriate gifts.

ball bashing

did anyone else catch the 6:00 pm evening news on Global? At about 6:50 in the sports section there was a rather long, disturbingly funny foreign clip.

These 6 slender Asian men are standing on a stage. Each is given some sentence to repeat it appears. Said man starts rattling off the sentence, once a mistake is made, a catapult fires at their cocks and socks them a good one making them tremble, fall over, grab themselves, moan and even appear pained. Each of them also looked terrified at moment of impact. Well yeah, ya think?

It made me laugh myself silly to watch the choice of clips that our evening news here in BC Canada found so funny. Sensation seeking masochists are everywhere, knowing no division by race, gender, culture, geography or language. I'm happy to be one of them.

There are many types of play that I enjoy, some others may even find extreme however ball bashing is not something I find fun. Lucky play partners of mine, for when I'm on Top dishing it out!

Thursday, August 24, 2006

tonights Bi Curious Class for Women


August 24 Thursday
7:30 - 9:30pm
Bi Curious? Where To Start For Girls Who Want To Date Girls

presented by Jennifer
4687 Kingsway Street Burnaby
The Love Nest (directly across from Metrotown)
$20 pay at door, cash only

Libido Events Calendar



Making the move from bi-curious to bisexual can be a tough one. This workshop will cover the basics on dating for bisexual women. Tips on finding the right woman and on what to do when you find one will be on the list things we discuss. We will cover some tricks for writing that personal ad or finding the events and places to meet other bi-women.

We will also discuss etiquette used when dating women...because so many of us are used to dating only men. Often, bisexual women have male partners and whether, when, or even if they are included in your bisexual experiences will also be covered.