Sundays Sex Education

Just returned home a short while ago from my two SOLD OUT classes in Surrey. What a fantastic day I had.

My job is so rewarding and has so many benefits, I am blessed to be surrounded by such a wonderful community.

The Cock Sucking class was oversold by two couples, so four people, making it very full. We handled it well, all of us fitting in together and making it through the 90 minutes. The group was eager to learn and most everyone learned new ideas or techniques.

Next came the lunch break, which was much needed to refuel us. Kat put out a delicious spread of food and people ate from the buffet while taking there plates outside to enjoy the garden and day.

Then it was time for Pussy Licking and another full class. I gathered everyone and brought them in to the workshop room again. The women were soon more vocal in their pleasures than the stoic men were during there turn.


I saw more twitching cocks, pinched perky nipples, eyes rolled back in heads, backs arched, engorged labia and smelled way more arousal in a room than I have for quite awhile on this holy of days, Gods Day. Sunday.

Happy Sunday to all who were in class with me, or to all who were off practicing on your own somewhere.

Due to there being a waiting list for my classes, Kat's has decided to have me back twice in the month of October with more education and interactive classes.

Watch the calendar.

Sin City photos

A photo snapped early on, during our night out. Notice my pasties.A photo I took at nights end of RC, notice my pasties!

In Demand

Earlier this afternoon RC and I did a quick little porno photo shoot out on the porch. Most of the images are for our personal collection only, though this one I rather favor.


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Just got off the phone with Katt, the woman who runs the facility that I'll be teaching at this Sunday. I'll be presenting two separate classes in the afternoon, both fully-interactive as well.

The offerings are Cock Sucking and Pussy Licking.

Due to overwhelming response, each class is now SOLD OUT.

17 couples signed up for Cock Sucking and another 14 couples signed up for Pussy Licking.

There is now a wait list for each of these classes.

I'm thrilled to be able to offer such empowering education for so many people.

There is already a sign-up sheet for my October classes of Butt Sex and The G-Spot. Get your name on the list early, or you'll regret it.

Kat's Fantasies Surrey, BC


Cost $40 couple (includes lunch & club tour)


Register: katsfantasies@shaw.ca - address & driving instructions given at time of registration

life notes #12789

After a wee bit of stress, I managed to successfully move the mailing list over to a different server today and load the address book into a new program. This a task that has been long over due, I am elated at it's completion.

It took me a little longer than expected, but I also updated the website with some information that was pressing.

With no reason to wear clothes I spent today naked around the house while working. The sun beckoned me to relax outside in the chaise lounger then I made my way inside for a long soak in the tub.

With plenty of items vying for my attention, it seemed only appropriate that I center myself with some masturbation. A Big O as a reward for all my efforts thus far today.

All in all, it's been a rather full day.

getting back on track

Since we were away at Sex Camp with no phones or computers, the back log of work facing me upon my return was astonishing. It's taken a couple of days to figure things out and now I'm just trying to catch up. I find it difficult to deal with emails when there are hundreds of them, it seems so daunting as though I'll never be able to crawl out of the depths of peoples questions long enough to breathe.

The Fall Schedule needs to be written and loaded up to the web, it's an on going battle with HTML that grates me the wrong way. City Hall and I have a couple of pressing long-overdue appointments and low and behold, I have a number of private events booked that are taking from my spare time as I prepare for them.

Interestingly enough I have been hired by a group of women who all reside right in the heart of my neighborhood and want a specialized sex ed. class for themselves to add zing back into their relationships. Most likely is I'm going to walk into this gig and find myself face to face with some mothers from my daughters school or simply other women who I know from our hood, seeing as we've lived here for 14 years now. T's eyes simply rolled at the mere mention of.

Last night RC made love to me, and I made love to him. It was exquisitely beautiful, the euphoria that we floated on as we rolled around in the bed as one. Magnificently breathtaking were the moments that rolled into minutes of pleasure. It was the low noises emitting from my lips, that made me believe that I was being loved like never before. It's a wonder that we're together.

We made a stop at DressSew to pick up some supplies and now we're locked away creating new kinky outfits for our happy perverted selves. RC is sewing a pair of boy shorts right now, and I am making four different sets of elaborate pasties.

Life is good and I am blessed.

routine returns

As a mother, I am always grateful for this day. The day after Labor Day. The day the children go back to school.

Today is T's first day of Grade 9. Yet it seems like only a few short months ago I was taking her to preschool.

Time has flown so fast for me a parent. It's an excellent reminder to slow down.

RC, T and I are having conversations about the next little person that will be around our home. That we are readying for a baby reminds me of how far I've come raising a teenager on my own and how far we've got to go to bring another child into this world together.

Sex Camp After Thoughts

We found ourselves completely immersed in the experience of letting go of our outside world trappings and savoring the wonder of where we were in the here and now. Let me tell you, Adult Sex Camp is a whole lot of fun.

We prepared well for our six summer nights of sleeping in a tent and roughing it. (so to speak) Our tent sleeps eight, so it's rather large for RC and I alone. There was a comfy futon bed set up with sheets, pillows and a cozy comforter for us to sleep upon and another area for all of our personal gear to be laid out. And another corner as my class prep - the whole lay-out worked great.

Our second sun screen room had curtains to filter the sun on the sides and a carpet on the bottom, of course front at center, was our massage table. I bought earlier a small table for teaching / camping and it was set up as well, the coolers and beer beneath. It seems we brought a fair bit of supplies, more so than we'd ever use, but at least we were prepared.

The entire staked out area of our campsite was marked with four large tiki torches and of course, Canadian flags. I was so elated listening to our ipod's on the new portable speaker system, it was enchanting, along with the aroma therapy that was lit at night.

Of course we found ourselves camped out along side a whole whack of other Canadians, that we knew. Sharing campfire stories with them all, and meeting so many new people as well, was just fabulous. The late night fire time captivated me, as it always has. All attached to wonderful childhood memories of summer bible camp I'm sure. The songs and music were so touching, wow, listening to friends voices, I was in awe of there range. Together as a group we sure grooved.

Most of our time was spent sans clothing, just like at home. The weather was magnificent, quite hot actually, so nudity worked well, though at night when the temperature dropped I was clothed from head to toe in layers of warmth.

I swam a fair bit in the pool, yet never made it to either of the hot tubs. One night RC's butt was lit on fire (for play) and then he jumped into the pool in the dark with his butt aglow, it was a night not to be forgotten that's for sure.

I taught four classes. Butt Sex - 27 people. Teasing - 18 people. Cock Sucking - 54 people. Pussy Licking 45 people. Plus I led a Women's Masturbation Ritual. Goodness I was busy teaching up a storm and coaching people to discover new pleasure. I keep having people tell me how talented I am as an educator, I know it's true, yet I struggle to recognize when I arrived to this place. There was a time when I was so unsure of my capabilities, not anymore. What I don't understand about myself now, is what it is that finally made it all come together.

Had sex outdoors with RC all under the easy gaze of friends. Bottomed in a scene with Bella to TWO very mean men. Invited another couple to our tent one morning for a little impromptu sex play, and bingo if it wasn't a success. Made-out with many wonderfully sexy women, but two in particular keep springing to mind. RC and I were invited to two different flattering future play dates and dang if we don't plan on taking up the offer.

We slept a lot, going to bed fairly early and rolling out of our tent and one an other's arms late morning after breakfast each day. Showering outdoors and air drying brought me back to nature.

There was however not one minute that didn't seem to be filled with someone itching for my attention. Either in class, or following me along awaiting answers to life's sex questions, I was mobbed by people constantly. I love my job and who I have become, but when away for a week with fellow kinksters, the expectation that I be "on" every day, sure does become a daunting task.

I've acquired two new t-shirts in the last while, both being appropriate for me to wear where we were.

1. Girls Lick Pussy Better
2. I taught your girlfriend that thing that you like.


Sex Camp was fantastic as was 6 days away with RC from the real world. Now I am thrilled to be home for a while and not teaching.

Presents and Gifts. RC brought me a dozen red roses at camp. Bella gave me a new Tink hat box and the cutest ever pink apron for a some to be completed costume for my collection. Tali bestowed me with a beautiful new sarong. Another a new pair of new high black pvc boots. A paddling spoon, a box of chocolates and a great number of massages. I am blessed to be surrounded by such love and friends.

return home

Just a few short hours ago we returned from what was "an inspiring time away".

It took us slightly over two hours to unload and unpack everything and now we are almost all settled in.

I am so grateful to be home to my daughter, my bed and my country. Three things that I never want to be without for very long.

Tomorrow after some serious sleep tonight, I'll write about where we were, what we did, and a few of the highlights.

vacation

The vehicle is all packed and we are ready to hit the road. We leave for SIX days in Paradise in just a few minutes. There will be no cell phones, no t.v., nor computer use for us. We will be incommunicado and savoring every last bloody minute of it. I can't wait to get out of here.

We are off to Paradise, "adult sex camp".

Good-bye.

clothes lead to gossip

If you are reading this, are a woman and we are friendly enough that you believe I may give you my home address so you can attend the below noted special event, then drop me an email and tell me who you are.



Otherwise the invites to this private women-getting-naked together event have all gone out!


Stories to follow.

Hey there Girlfriend,

After doing a thorough clean-out of all of my clothing I discovered that I have an awful lot of good quality women's clothing that I either

a. do not want any longer
b. do not fit into any longer

A small amount of this clothing is day wear. The bulk of this clothing is sexy clothes. It would appear that what I am getting rid of alone is a small collection and I am happy to see it leave me.

This got me to thinking that you too likely have clothing that no longer needs to be taking space in your closet or drawers.

You are invited to my place for an evening of Drinks, Chatter, Clothes (Exchange / Swap / Sale) and a general Social Night for Women Only.

Please bring your gently worn

1. Club Wear - dresses, skirts, body suits
2. Leather
3. Corsets / Waist Cincher / Bustiers
4. High Heel Shoes, Boots
5. Gloves, Stockings / Hats
6. Bags / Totes
7. Sex Books / DVD's
8. Costumes, Fantasy Wear
9. Lingerie
10. Accessories - belts, harnesses etc
11. Toys - BDSM, Sex

Sell your clothing. Trade your clothing. Give it away.

Bring your old stuff and leave with some new stuff. Let if have a new life.

Do NOT bring garbage bags of clothing. Bring items either on hangers, or pre folded. There will be areas set up for you to lay out your goods and other areas for changing.

With so many wonderfully diverse friends by culture, age, tastes and size there will surely be just an OUTRAGEOUS amount of goodies for everyone to leave with some new booty!


September 13 Thursday 6:30 - 9:00


If you are interested in taking part, send me an email and let me know. I'll ensure you are on the guest list and that you receive the address.

There will be a bartender for the evening and appetizers.

Looking forward to having many of you over for this little soiree.

warmly, Jennifer

ps. Feel free to ASK me first before you invite someone along, as this is my home I am reserving attendance to only those whom I am comfortable with. - j

getting things done

As I've been under-the-weather the last few days, today was yet another sleep in day. It was quarter past noon when I rolled on top of of RC and told him that we should get up and face the day.

I made us a great brunch and we ate naked in the dining room together. Then as I worked around the house tackling a number of small chores, RC headed out to do some errands.

There was a call from T, home sick as anything. And nothing I could do for her over the phone except love her from afar. Its her time away on holidays with her dad [and family] and the time is a little much for her coupled with the fact that she was away from me for so long on her trip to Mexico. Made me sad to hear my daughter so choked up about being away from me. Again more love from afar and assurances of our soon reunion.

Then packing time as I had to ready for my evening Pussy Licking class. There I was loading all the accouterments into a bag so I could pull off such a spectacular class. I drove RC to work, then got my self to the store.

It was a wonderful group. A dozen people, two women and myself. We covered a lot of ground, and managed even to answer some off-topic, though related-to-sex questions. I stayed late at nights end to talk to a couple who seemed to be very flirtatious in class and rather personable.

Finally getting in a short while ago, I left my bags at the door and made myself naked quickly. Opening and checking emails and soon I am off to bed.

I have a grand feeling of accomplishment today.

Pussy Licking class Burnaby BC

NOT TO BE MISSED

August 26 Sunday 7:30 - 9:30pm
Pussy Licking Good
presented by Jennifer
The Love Nest, 4687 Kingsway Burnaby, BC
Cost $25 per person, pay at the door
Open to men & women, couples and singles

From the silky caress of your warm wet tongue lapping her labia, you'll soon feel more powerful and in control and she'll know you've got her pleasure in mind. With using but a few of the tips and techniques that Jennifer will demonstrate and share in this class you'll come away more confident in your cunnilingus and inspired to share what you've learned. Of course we’ll discuss a woman's arousal process and her clitoral, vaginal and G-Spot anatomy to empower you with maximum pleasure giving information.


*please bring a notebook & pen to class, this class is non participatory though includes excellent in-class demos for technique building

grumble, grumble

Despite sleeping a large portion of the day away while feeling very unwell, I mustered up the energy to dress myself by evening and head out to Dragon Fly's Den in Surrey.

RC had worked all day then come home and persuaded me to venture out for a short bit, what a devious man.

It was fun to hangout with everyone. Unable to stay long due to the gnawing pain in my belly it was still good to be amongst kinky comrades catching up on all the latest news and hearing war stories of friends conquests.

Unable to play, truly unable. Couldn't have swung a whip, had sex or even been playful if I wanted to. I felt that poor.

I came for one thing only, the social interaction of my peeps, oh and the gossip!

Since playing was not in store for the evening I wore a dress I've had for at least six, maybe even seven years. A beautiful black number that zips up the back with a full front and back side, sleeveless and with a respectable knee length. By nights end I realized that the dress was in need of retirement. It has some un-fixable marks on the backside that now make it no longer a part of my kink wardrobe. A shame really as I have had some fun times in it.


Being out did take my mind off my own discontent for awhile, RC was right about that much.

What I neglected to mention is that what really got my mind off of my belly ache was seeing RC all buff and pretty in new lace up PVC pants and a collar.

looking over my shoulder

Be reminded as you read this than I do not drink coffee so it's importance is a tad bit lost on me. - said tongue in cheek

Earlier while cleaning I broke the final coffee maker in the house. It was accidental as the glass insert slipped from my hand, to smash against the toaster oven. Of course breaking it to pieces.

Within seconds RC appears in the doorway, doing a quick scan of the scene. Quickly he helped me clean up the broken glass after making sure of course that I was not hurt. The puzzled look and wry smile gave way to what I next discovered.

Twenty minutes later I found a letter he had written Bella and cc'd to me as well in my in-box. Seems I forgot about the last coffee maker I broke and it was not even that long ago. And now I have to be mindful of these two characters as they plot against me for these duo disasters and hold me responsible.

Hey sweetie,

I have news. It concerns both of our coffee makers. My Ritazza was broken months ago, and earned Jennifer a spanking. 5 minutes ago, YOUR BODUM suffered a similar fate. Now she claims that it was an accident, but it seems to me to be a systematic effort to deny us of coffee.

A sadly transparent sadistic act which is frankly beyond my limits. I propose that we do something about this blatant unconsensual attack together. Since it was your Bodum, I defer to you as to the consequence. However, remember that the punishment must fit the crime.

looking forward to your Bodum thoughts.

love

RC

clearing the air

Ordered dessert only, and it was a decadent thick chocolate slab of heaven. I ate it all myself.

We went to the Munch earlier tonight and found the most wonderful assortment of people there. As it's a drop-in event, one doesn't necessarily always know whose going to be in attendance. Never a shortage of friends or familiar faces to catch up with, we sat ourselves down and joined the group.

The only noteworthy things to share that came from our evening of talking amongst community members was

• the September Play Parties x 2 : volunteering and attending
• Stink Tink yet again, and her foulness

After hugs, lots of laughter, and more truth baring, I knew that attending had been worth the effort of the drive out to Surrey.

(the munch is an on going informal gathering of people, meeting as a drop-in group, bi-weekly, that gather to enjoy a meal and/or drink while in the company of other like minded BDSM focused individuals or couples. Free to attend, though you pay for what you order to the host restaurant)

Me and my....

This is me wearing a Feeldoe, the ultimate dildo.

My PC muscles are so strong, that I am even able to make my boy bits bounce up and down on command.

Exciting, very very exciting!

mummified & electrocuted

A picture really tells a story. I'll let your imagination run wild this one.

Suffice to say, the toys used to bring this man such intense play were...

1. vibrating butt plug AND a bullet under his testicles
   
2. thumb cuffs to keep his hands together
3. pallet wrap to secure him, tightly
   
4. chopsticks & elastics to contain his cock
5. tens unit on his taint and inner thigh region
6. electric fly swatter / bug zapper

And on the creative end, I um, used my hands and mouth a lot as well!

where in the world...

Can I find what I thought would be a couple of simple items.

First I find myself looking for Astro Turf. You know the stuff, the fake grass that can go indoors/outdoors. Specifically two pieces, each about 8 x 10. Went looking on-line for local stores for such an item and came up empty. Have you seen it anywhere?

Next I need a pedicure, and one that is moderately priced, has female service help and is local to Burnaby, North Burnaby being the best. Does anyone have a referral for a great shop to get this treatment completed? I'm not in a huge rush as I'm wanting it for next week. In other words, I don't necessarily need a walk-in place.

Tonight I'm teaching a bondage class. Tie Me To The Bed Posts Please - bedroom bondage basics, locally here in Burnaby. My gear is all packed already, and soon I'll be out of the house.

With today as a laze around day, it really has been most peaceful.

T left yet again this afternoon, this time for the rest of the summer and now it is RC and I on our own. That she is old enough now and has chosen to be so involved in so many activities, well... it blows my mind at times.

The hedonism begins.

PNE 2007 & an evening out

This morning I was awake and out of the house long before normal for a Saturday. It was opening day of The Fair making it FREE entrance and of course, my daughter was itching to go. Off we went leaving a slumbering RC at home as he had just returned from a long shift at the hospital.

The whole day was madness, not that we expected anything else. It was a celebration for sure and a day of continuous activities. That the sun held out was such a blessing. We took in the Dog Show a yearly tradition for us and one that T looks forward to all year long. The place was packed solid, I mean every seat in the house, people blocking the egress of the fire exits / stairs even, just to see the show.

Of course we ran into many many people, never stopping long to speak with any one in particular though as this day was just about us. Mother and daughter.

Hopefully one night in the next week RC and I can get to PNE together and do a walk-through as T is leaving tomorrow for the rest of the summer.

After much over priced greasy food & sugar based drinks ... walking endlessly in a sea of people and being barraged by retailers trying to sell us an item or promote an idea, I was done in. T could have stayed longer savoring the experience, but five and a half hours was good enough for me.

We headed home through thick traffic while I plotted the evening ahead. I was given an invitation to a new swingers club in Surrey, plus the monthly night of Rascals as a choice. Friends birthday celebration or even a much needed go-to-bed early type of evening could have been arranged.

As exciting as a new facility sounds or even a birthday party, after a long day, I just wanted a short drive to the local public dungeon for some play-time. Rascals it is.

And now, we're off.

life lesson

I know for a fact that I am not a telephone person. I greatly dislike both answering the phone and having to speak on it.

Don't get me wrong, it's not a phobia, just a medium of communication that doesn't work well for me personally. I prefer being able to see someone, when speaking to them.

So take it as no surprise that my cell and home phones are often filled to maximum number of messages and accepting none further.

A friend today reminded me to empty my phone messages so more ones could be left.

I think the real lesson is that I should answer my phone a little more often or get a secretary.