surprise twist

The party last night was a hoot, much fun ensued. The main play room had five couples engaged, though the room was by no means full, so there was still plenty of room for others to watch or play themselves. We had sex together for nearly an hour .... hedonistic pleasure for us. Sharing our orgasms with a couple of people for whom we were never formally introduced made our night out extra special.

Of course we found our way to the hot tub - naked, lasting in there for quite some time. RC with Scotch and a Cuban cigar, me with women flirting me up at every chance. The heated water was a sexy contrast to the nippy June evening rain.

A whirlwind of woman tumbled towards me, suddenly. Grabbing my shoulder she propelled me round in the water and pointed at the window. Look there! she exclaimed, at her. She wants you to watch her Jennifer, she tells me fervently. From my naked, seated position in the hot tub I sat back comfortably, looking through the glass, watching this unknown woman. She had my attention. The stare deep into my eyes, intently and deliberately, I found her bold and decided to watch on and see what other charms she had to offer me.

Now the whirlwind of woman, she was saying things like "my friend heard you speak, she heard your voice and just thought you and your voice, you were so sexy" and "she really wants to meet you Jennifer, she is there dancing for you." "Watch, watch!"

As I looked through the blinds from the patio, into the dance floor, I make eye-contact with the brazen one for a long few minutes. She slows her stripper like dance right down to a whisper of hip rocking motion and I've made up my mind.

Out loud I say to RC "that woman wants me". RC breathless from hot tubing, watching me interact with women all night long and of course, this hot little number prancing before us can only nod and smile.

Her dance ends and about twenty seconds later the brazen one departs the dance floor. I know she is making her way to me, on the deck.

Do you want to play? I say to her in my power voice as I step naked out of the hot tub.

Play? she says whimsically as she eyes my dripping wet body.

Yes play. I want to have sex with you, how about strap-on sex?

YEAH. Like right now? Her eyes were twinkling, and her virgin white lingerie was the only thing between us.

"Yes Now. Right here. On the deck." "You bent over the chair here" I say as I throw a towel over the chair before me and start lubing up my own cock.

Excitedly she smiles and says Yay!

Then I hear a voice. The sound of an a disgruntled man. The other half. "What's in it for me?" He said it to her, not me and I knew then that she and I would not be playing.

I don't do drama.

Lesson: If you and your partner visit a swingers or sex club ever in your lives, decided and agree upon your rules as a couple and individually BEFORE you go out to play with others.

the day after

My frame of mind is better by the light of day, thankfully. Working so hard and diligently to achieve my dream, putting every ounce of energy effort time and professionalism that I could muster into this project. It is hard to not feel defeated.

I have every ones trust, faith, support, money and backing. I need to forge on, this is what I do as a sex-activist.

I've seen groups fail or go down hill because they act marginalized. It's pathetic to watch said people and groups. What is even worse, is the City of Surrey trying to MAKE me (Libido Events, Libido Lounge or Sex-Positive Culture) marginalized. I won't stand for it, I do have a fight in me.

Your letters of support are popping my inbox to exploding. Please keep them coming. Your strength is mine.

What is this with the whole Guilty till Proven Innocent routine they are dragging me through?

With stress coming out the wazoo, I have deemed it necessary to go out this evening in an effort to let go of the woes for a while. RC and I are off to a swingers club.

Good night.

heavy heart

I am filled with copious amounts of stress and anxiety. Things are becoming large and volatile. As everything is at this moment, I feel as though I can barely move. The weight of all of this has become too much. My strength is being tested and my faith has left me. Its hard to think about how to move ahead next when I am being beaten down at every juncture.

Lucky for me that I have an email box full of Testimonials from people, which all convey just complimentary and kind sentiments about myself.

I hope my moment of weakness is over before I wake up tomorrow and have to face another grueling day of sex-activism in this sex-negative society that we all live in.

A Testimonial from you, please

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save my day

Can you write a professional CV for me? Its required complete by Sunday at 8:00AM and in a document on my laptop.

I have all of the necessary information to go within it already compiled, though surely you will have many questions to ask of me to help fill in the gaps of what I did not already include. The CV needs to be professional, formatted and ease to read.

I am aware of the short notice of my request, but "The City" is making it a requirement for licensing of Libido Lounge, suddenly.

You can imagine my gratitude and that of so many others, if you are able to take this project on.


Thank you.

Send me your name and a quick email introducing yourself to

jennifer@libidoevents.com

Suggestions Please...

Do you, or someone you know happens to teach Belly Dancing?

And what about Pole Dancing, I need someone to teach this as well?

Since I am at it, what about Yoga, someone to teach this, got any names?

Who by chance is most charismatic for Burlesque classes?

What about your favourite sexologist or sex-therapist?

Send along your suggestions, with any contact info you may have for the individual to me at jennifer@libidoevents.com

THANK YOU

Position = Taken

SOLD!

Difficult to believe, but true none the less, this evening I hired myself a Personal Assistant to aid me in getting through the tedious amounts of work that I must complete regularly.

I'm feeling really good about this new persons job and title and look forward to formalizing our new arrangement.

For point of my blog here, I think I shall refer to my assistant as PA. I am going to leave any reference to gender or any thing more specific about this person free from my writings to allow my PA privacy and peace while doing there job for me.

My life is rolling along at an incredible speed these days. Go me.

Tomorrow is my meeting with the head of the city, the Inspector. We are meeting in my office at Libido Lounge. Wish me luck!

feedback - Libido Lounge

Subject: The Ace of Space

Hi Jennifer,

It's hard to stop you for thirty seconds to tell you what an awesome thing you've done! First, I was shocked (but not surprised) when I saw today how you have transformed the place, even from how it looked on Sunday. I know you've had help, but any project like this requires a leader, and you've provided leadership in spades.

Second, I was amazed at how comfortable the place feels. It could easily have turned out to feel like an illicit, back-alley, warehouse kind of a place, but even before you've finished it almost feels like an extension off of someone's home.

Finally, apart from the physical space, the whole concept is... it would be too easy to throw out a vague word like "awesome" here (and I've used it once already), so I won't. I know that you've said that being a pioneer and a trail-blazer is hard work (and I don't doubt it), but I hope it is rewarding for you, because it is rewarding and rewarding *for* those around you. I am glad that I was able to volunteer a small part to help.

And no, I'm not just saying these things because of our very nice goodbye kiss this evening. ;)

I await your lead vis-a-vis ---------, as the timetable is yours and certain things have to wait for you to be ready or make decisions. There's no rush from my point of view, and I only mention it to make sure you know I'm here when you're ready.


Tom

Bright and Awesome

A couple of photos to appease your curiosity. This is what two rooms of Libido Lounge look like thus far...

the first photo is a shot of the Workshop / Play room, it's one of 4 large multi use rooms
this second snapshot is of one side of the Social Lounge, Cuddle Puddle Room and our front lockers

saying hello

Family and rest were the only two things today to get any of my time or attention, it was glorious. I could not have done any more if I tried, but I didn't, nor did I want to. My day was perfectly relaxing. Tomorrow I'll tell you the highlights of the last week, it just flew by with activity. It's been so long since I wrote last, the changes have been monumental around here.

happy

There are any number of things that happened today that left me feeling happy.

First my day starting with a friend bringing a dozen donuts to our 2-hour work party at the lounge, of course donuts covered in chocolate make life better and painting easier. The paint went on smoothly and was done ahead of the days schedule. A single coat through out. This made me smile, and then laugh once I looked at myself and my painting comrades covered in red & black speckles and splashes. Shortly there after I found myself on my knees in the shower room, helping Craig remove the paint from his body. Actually really it was me bent over naked scraping and peeling black paint from Craigs thighs, calves and lower region. Then RC walked in and then I was in the shower with two very hot buff men. Good thing the shower room is large as we all fit in well. This would be yet another thing in the day to make me happy.


After our shower we dried off and drove to a Swingers Club not too far away to attend an Open House. The three of us had a great time and I enjoyed catching up with a few old friends at the event as well as meeting a whole new group of people. The Hostess and I had a chance to talk, giving us a chance to figure out that we need to meet so we can plan some type of event together in future. Kat was sweet and her place looked like lots of fun.

More happiness came from a bbq dinner of steaks, potatoes, salad, (cigars and scotch for the men), we three had a really nice dinner together.

Then to make the day complete Craig set about fixing a great number of web based issues I have been facing as of late and surprising enough delighted me with a small miracle.

Tonight RC is at work, daughter is at her dads and I have the bed and house to myself.

Good Happy Night.

continuos effort

Tonight is yet another work-party gathering over at Libido Lounge. Fifteen of us are going to wash, polish and finish off numerous projects that are still underway. Two seperate mail outs explaining where things are at went out to the mailing list earlier, so now we've got a little more time on our hands to ready the interior. Thankfully too, as I am exhausted. I need a day at a luxurious spa to rid myself of some of the stresses my body has accumulated over the past few weeks ... er ... months. I feel ragged and rough, I've not spent any time on me in quite awhile.

The plan for later is to order in pizza and work for at least four hours. The spirit of the team helping me, is contagious. Everyone each day has brought such enthusiasm and skills with them, that it has made my job easier. That many of the people vary by day because they only donate a few hours of volunteering, there is definitely a core group that has committed days of their time, they all have left there mark on the Lounge already though. I am most grateful for their belief in me and suggestions for further development.

With the day I've already had thus far, and evening plans that will have me in around midnight, I should be fairly exhausted by the time I roll into bed.

Perhaps now that I am somewhat more calmer over the matter, I'll say these few words to you...

EMERGENCY EVACUATION PLAN

The EEP has been my latest headache & an issue not known or thrown at me till the bitter-bitter-bitter end.

Cost $1000. + taxes AND my time = invaluable

REQUEST:

Are you a bartender (of course this will be for mixing non alcoholic drinks) and available this Friday and / or Saturday evening? If so please contact me ASAP at jennifer@libidoevents.com

we made it...

I am unaware of any time in my life where my professional talents have been challenged so often. I am doing all that is necessary right now to meet every ones needs & requirements, both individually and collectively. The weight of this is heavy.

Thank you to everyone who helped me shoulder some of the burden of today. (Keith, Craig, Hugh, Vicki, Allena) Without each of you, I would be broken right now.

It's almost difficult to comprehend or believe the amount of work that we accomplished today for Libido Lounge.

It was a looong day.

We made it though.

todays stress

Answer: $2200.00 + $350.00 = $2550.00
Problem: Missing Occupancy Load Number

Things Learned

Fire Inspection re: Assembly Licensing is lengthy
Egress is based on sq. footage
Panic Hardware is costly
Pioneering is taxing emotionally
Legal assistance is valuable

spread thin

What I can fit into 36 hours is remarkable. Yesterday in Seattle at The Wet Spot I taught two hands-on interactive couples-only-classes. They were a lot of fun, Erotic Wax & Ice Play along with Sensual Play for Lovers. It was cool to even have a poly triad in class as well.

Bella, RC and I went out for dinner at some new restaurant, where we ate decadent food and had many laughs together. Then back to the condo to dress and ready for the evening pan party. I was feeling rather tired, but went along because it is always a great night out, when able to see all of my friends.

We could have played though I was not up for it. Just too tired. But seeing friends and having time to talk with each of them was a good time for us both. We were home by midnight and asleep by 1:00AM together.

This morning we awoke at 10:00 and had a slow morning. Much needed. Then back to The Spot again as I had to teach my Cock Sucking class from 12-2 PM. 15 attendees, it was a mixed class with 4 men, the rest women. By the end of this class, I was drained to empty for group work.

I enjoyed my next appointment of the day, as it was a Private lunch of Greek food in Fremont, with a poly triad and they let me bring RC along. They picked us up from The Spot, treated us to lunch and lively conversations ensued.

Back to pick up the car and then we were on the road, back to beautiful BC. No border waits or delays and home we arrived, earlier than anticipated.

A long cuddle and catch up with my daughter of the sofa, while RC grocery shopped. We had some family time and then it was lights out for T. RC and I are each working on our own laptops now, sitting here in the living room.

My Jennifer account had 64 new emails, the list account had 23 new emails and volunteer had an additional 26 in it. My personal email account has a whopping 44 needing attention and I'm trying to wade through it all, I really am. There is only so much of me to go around and right now I'm feeling just a tad bit, spread thin. It's a good thing that I'm finally starting to feel a little better and the chest cough is easing some.

Gaining back my health and getting more rest are things I'm very aware that I need to take care of. Finding the time to dedicate to myself is hard for me, as I'm forever taking care of someone or something else.

90 cents short of a dollar

This email really grated me the wrong way. Can you see why? I left his sentence structure as is. It's already been a long day, this was just the icing on the cake.

Hello Jennifer

Can you tell me where and when the naughty parties are happening and if they ever need and volunteers for the womens class for blow jobs and hand jobs I would be happy to help out has a practice subject any info for singles would be appreciated.

Roy

eating smurfs

Love is your partner bringing you home eight of your favourite frozen ice novelties because you feel crappy.

Last night I ate a Smurf. Or rather, I looked as though I had just consumed one whole little blue person. When I woke up this morning, the drool on the side of my face had dried blue. Very funny.

I had been sitting on the sofa in the bedroom eating a FireCracker to soothe my sore throat, when RC showed up between my legs to soothe my pussy. He proceeded to lick my coochie with the same enthusiasm that I had towards my frozen treat.

It was yummy, both the pussy licking and the FireCracker . I finished the FireCracker first and came second, my throat relieved of some of its tickle and my coochie had a happy explosion.

In the morning we leave for Seattle as I'm teaching three classes this weekend at The Wet Spot, attending the pan party, getting some cuddle time in with Bella then doing Private Coaching work. We'll be back by Sunday evening and I will be exhausted.

Though still very sick, I am very happy with my life.

FYI - today we moved. We now live together.

Wheeeze...

When the clinic opened this morning, RC had me in the waiting room, drinking juice and awaiting answers. I have bronchitis, says my Doctor. And asthma.

I've been put on a powerful antibiotic and given two different types of Ventolin puffers to keep my airways open. It's a scary feeling not being able to draw a breath or catch my breath, suddenly.

I'm glad to have a diagnosis, though now I just want to be cured.

RC is pleased at my being sick, in an odd sick twisted sort of way. He's a medical professional, and having "his very own patient at home" is something that makes him happy. The stethoscope is next to the bed and it has nothing to do with us playing doctor and everything to do with him caring for me, which is what he does best.

Try the Wildest Adventure

I read my friends blog with some regularity. Enjoying it even more so, since I know the author. When I saw him post this the other day I decided to follow suit, answering and doing the same, save for tagging others to play along.

1. Each player starts with eight random SEXUAL facts/habits about themselves.
   

Here's my list.

1. My first time was in the woods next to my High School. Grade 8 - age 12
   
2. I can orgasm from having my nipples, sucked and bitten, well.
   
3. The smell of pussy, makes me smile every time.
   
4. My first orgasm was at age 24 riding my partners chin, using the wall to support me all the while with his encouragement.
   
5. The crack of whip, a single tail against my skin makes me tremble with fear & lust. yummy!
   
6. Watching people masturbate turns me on.
   
7. Every day I shave my vulva and butt with a razor. Smooth is nice.
   
8. Butt Sex aka Anal Sex is a favourite on mine, I find bouncing up and down with a cock in my bum to be very rewarding sex play.
9. When I am under a lot of stress I turn to solo play as my reducer of tension.
10. Having my eye lids kisses is dreamy.
    

gratitude

We had the most amazing group today for our work-party at Libido Lounge. Nine people gathered for 3 and 1/2 hours with an abundance of energy and enthusiasm. Everyone brought tools and set out to complete all that was on the To-Do List for the day.



They moved mountains (ok not actually mountains, but walls, they moved walls) for me and with smiles at every step of the process. Watching Libido Lounge be transformed so fast by my friends was so rewarding.




What a great day I had. The love and support is HUGE, thank You to all who volunteered.