Reflections of a Woman

1. What did you do in 2008 that you'd never done before?

I achieved a level of educator success and notoriety that I had not even believed was possible.

My clitoral hood pierced in a setting of absolute support.

Ran a sex positive facility as my full time dream job.

2. Did you keep your new years' resolutions, and will you make more for next year?

I did keep my New Years Resolution, though it took me till July to implement it in my life.

3. Did anyone close to you give birth?

No, but soon someone I am getting to know is going to POP.

4. Did anyone close to you die?

Not yet.


5. What countries did you visit?

Dominican Republic.
The USA.

6. What would you like to have in 2009 that you lacked in 2008?

A full time business assistant. More alone time with my daughter. My Masters Degree.


7. What dates from 2008 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?

The date in July that I made a huge life change. The date of the US presidential election.


8. What was your biggest achievement of the year?

Being compensated with the largest check I have ever received for a work project. It left me trembling with excitement.

9. What was your biggest failure?

Not having more of a desire to reconcile long standing family discord.

10. Did you suffer illness or injury?

No, I am very healthy, unless you count my being fatigued almost full time.

11. What was the best thing you bought?

My new MacBook.

12. Whose behavior merited celebration?

A few people: RC's mom, Lisa M, Keith.


13. Whose behavior made you appalled and depressed?

No one has the power to depress me. Who appalled me, Marlee Ginter from Komo news.

14. Where did most of your money go?

A new wardrobe, a new beauty regime and sushi. Oh, and a growing teenager! (grins)

15. What did you get really, really, really excited about?

My daughter being such a grounded teenager who does awesome in everything she touches. My relationship with RC being so secure.

16. What song will always remind you of 2008?

N/A

17. Compared to this time last year, are you:

a) happier or sadder? happier
b) thinner or fatter? same
c) richer or poorer? richer in money, opportunities and love


18. What do you wish you'd done more of?

Sleeping. Full body massages. Travel. Loving more.

19. What do you wish you'd done less of?

Looking at my computer screen and answering e-mail.

20. How will you be spending Christmas?

At home, with my daughter and RC. Then on the island with both sets of parents, his and mine.

21. Did you fall in love in 2008?

Yes, I fell in deeper love with RC and found love for myself that had been forgotten about the year before.

22. How many one-night stands?

**Blushes** I will not kiss and tell.

23. What was your favourite TV program?

20/20
John and Kate Plus Eight
CSI


24. Do you hate anyone now that you didn't hate this time last year?

Hate, I have no time to hate.

25. What was the best book you read?
I read at least thirty different sex related books and guides this past year. Too many to recount and all equally valuable, entertaining, and um, stimulating.

26. What was your greatest musical discovery?

N/A

27. What did you want and get?

Wanted 500 members at Libido Lounge through Orientation and got them all and then some.

28. What did you want and not get?

Weekends off of work.

29. What was your favorite film of this year?

N/A

30. What did you do on your birthday?
Had dinner out with my man and was adored by friends.

31. What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?

Pregnancy or rather the birth of a child between RC and I.

32. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2008?

Pulling it all together.

33. What kept you sane?

Alone time at home. Cuddling with my teenager. Love from RC.

34. Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most?

Barack Obama.

35. What political issue stirred you the most?

Prop 8 - fuckers


36. Who did you miss?

A long lost friend with cancer.

37. Who was the best new person you met?

Too many to count, our Lounge members continue to amaze me.

38. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2008.

Keep at it no matter what. Work it, until you achieve it.