sexy happy things

Things That Make Me Feel Sexy and/or Happy

1. thigh high, black, pvc 6 inch heeled boots molded to my legs
2. cuban toed stockings rolled up my calves
3. massage with essential oils from the top of my back to the ends of my toes
4. good boot polish to a high shine from a woman boot black on her knees
5. having someone sing to me
6. being carried to bed
7. watching my partners face as she orgasms from my attention and love
8. playing voyeur to young couples on the street making out
9. love notes addressed to me - under my pillow, in my purse, tucked in my hand
10. cotton candy by surprise and as a reward for good behaviour
11. coca cola slurpies with 2 straws, one green and one pink
12. no line ups at the border crossing as I enter
13. my Daddy calling me his girl
14. my girl calling me Mistress
15. lube, more lube and even more LUBE, yippee for personal Lubricant
16. having my cheek stroked lightly
17. walking & feeling the beads on my nipple piercings bounce on my areolas
18. knowing my place in this world
19. creating sacred space for others to explore in
20. being flirted with by young men
21. my iBook G4 as it does it all for me
22. Bella calling me Ma'am
23. owning my submission & masochism
24. creating safe opportunities to play
25. big wet g spot orgasms at the hands of my Daddy
26. being bound, immobilized and left to float away
27. showing women that being bi sexual and a mother is possible
28. hearing the words " I love you"
29. a big bowl of cold cherries on a summer day naked on the porch
30. hearing a latex glove go on from behind my hood
31. being needed
32. celebrating my polyamorous relationships with others
33. Allena, Daddy and I together
34. cold chocolate milk at 3 am
35. bondage outdoors, suspended from a tree in Horseshoe Bay
36. handcuffs that restrict my partners ability to keep me at bay
37. sushi eaten off a naked womans body
38. flavored lube as something different
39. hot showers, warm baths and heated towels
40. someone taking a risk for me
41. tears of joy
42. my hitatchi magic wand, plugged in to the wall and in between my legs
43. the baby Jesus butt plug that Bella gave me as a gift
44. being an activist
45. no mail in the mail box
46. no messages on my phone
47. promptness and attention to detail
48. success
49. surrounding myself with like minded people
50. people who follow through on their commitments without excuses
51. knowing what the limit is in anything
52. sharing my journey
53. feeling music pound through my body as I make my way through a club
54. having and knowing love & passing it on
55. clean sheets smelling of lavendar
56. people asking me for exactly what they want (politely)
57. silky panties, covering my moistness
58. ice trailed over a breast till the nipple raises, perky
59. kisses on my eye lids
60. vibrators that make no noise
61. sharing sex positive culture with workshop attendees
62. fingers trailing over my post orgasmic body creating all new shudders
63. jiggle of bra free breast bouncing under a short t shirt on a hot summer day
64. the ass on some of Vancouver's bike couriers
65. my Daddy's chest and my knowing just where my spot is
66. soft leather corset binding me tight
67. teaching the erotic arts
68. saying no to alcohol
69. moans of pleasure
70. soft lace bras
71. the smell of leather as I enter a leather store
72. color co ordinated fetish wear
73. sharing SSC with new comers
74. erotic art in main stream culture
75. shopping for new sex toys and finding something I'm excited about
76. the look of rope marks on my body after a heavy bondage scene
77. bruises of love and consent
78. learning a new knot to tie
79. the feel of a hand spanking as my bottom warms
80. being suspended in rope bondage, inverted and flung around to fly high
81. sharing a fantasy and having my partner bring it to fruition
82. spending a day in bed being used
83. spending a day in bed using someone
84. the smell of hemp rope as it closes in on me
85. power, giving it up and taking it
86. sparkle cookies while reading erotica in my queen size bed
87. body butter worked in to every inch of my skin
88. breaking a sweat in the pursuit of pleasure
89. sound of a belt pulled quickly through pant loops
90. a tongue flickering on the small of my back
91. the smell of lust lingering in the air
92. creating want in someone
93. hot pink duck tape against flesh
94. the feel of a cool breath of air on my over heated body
95. someone breathless asking for more
96. women that orgasm multiple times and loud too
97. men, bald, with a few days worth of stubble on top
98. being denied
99. being granted permission
100. being OWNED


There was a time in my life when I was only loved by one person and today in my life I'm loved by many.

There was a time in my life when I was only intimate with one person and today in my life I'm intimate with many!

There was a time in my life when I only had sex with one person and today in my life I have sex with many. (define sex)

There was a time in my life when I couldn't ask for what I wanted and today in life I can.

There was a time in my life when I didn't understand the power of love and today I understand the freedom that comes with love.

Jennifer