My child has a friend sleeping over this evening, hence why I was able to head in to two big city events in one night. With out the friend sleeping over, my big night out never would have happened. Here is how fast it went for me....Leaving the house at 8:55pm, decked out in a new electric blue dress with a zipper on one ass cheek, strap less, skin tight, with the entire belly cut out all the way down to to the top of my mons. And over it I wore a dark blue flowing baggy skirt and my powder blue leather car coat done up, along with flip flops on my feet. My new sexy shoes were in my bag to be put on, again, when away from the house and from my child's line of sight. I drive to a swingers dance/social night in Burnaby and promptly remove the skirt, jacket and flip flops in the parking lot and change them for stilletoes and the barely there cut-out dress. (thanks AJ) For 1 whole hour and 10 minutes there is time to sit around other like minded kinky folk and see who is checking out who, listen to some music and check out some cute woman too.
Spent most of the time talking to new people and trying hard to avoid the temptation to want to catch up with all those who I knew in the room as I'm short changed on social time with friends as of late. (ok, and I spent some time checking out this charming young man who had the cutest face, really) Handed out lube samples and advertising leaflets to a host of people and introduced myself personally to many people who have only ever read me from the mailing list. Did I dance? Did I dance with my girl, Kara while we were there? Nope, no time, too rushed to get into that kind of groove...however, while we sat on bar stools next to one another for 5 minutes I stroked her inner thigh as she stroked mine and put her head on my shoulder.
Left the swingers event at 10:12 in Burnaby and at 10:29 I was pulling us in to the parking lot's last vacant spot right next to the club where we were off to. Club Vibes on Davie and the night was Fetish lite, a sexy new night to do some naughty dancing and grooving. Hugged our way past friends standing out front and made our way inside. Hung out till 11:10 when I promptly put on my jacket and left. Yes, even leaving behind my date, she knew this in advance. While there I was pulled in many directions and finally I just left everything and walked out to my car to return home, very promptly to being mom and to my cell phone as it was time to phone in and check on the kids to see how they were doing.
Drive home (and while in the drive thru, put my skirt, flip flops and jacket back on over my sexy new dress) and stop and get myself a kids cheeseburger meal at McDonald's and eat it before arriving home, only bringing in the drink and looking at the clock to see that it is 11:40. Tell the children bedtime is 12:10 and at 12:10 I, in my robe, naked of the evening's earlier party clothes but still painted in war paint over my face, kiss the girls good night. In to the living room to tidy up and lock the place up for the night and now here I sit writing and it is 1:10am.
Time to go and wash the make up off my face and climb in to bed, right after I check my email accounts and hang up the party clothes that are laying on my bed.
it's all just like a whirlwind
Jennifer
Jennifer ... Vancouver's Sex Educator, Sexuality Coach and Activist. The content of this blog is not suited for those under the age of 18. What you'll find here is a written account of my personal journey in sex positive culture both personally and professionally.
