Coming Home

One of the perks of going away to trade shows is all the swag that is handed out to educators and all the new products we are given to sample.

This weekend has been full of numerous surprises from different manufactures and creators of adult items. I am always pleased to see creative new novelties making there way into the market along with time tested oldies being updated for a fresh appeal.

I am flying home this evening and am returning with one more full suitcase, then what I left with.

A couple of new books that I have to read are exciting me already, a new woman's arousal pill, a few unique vibrators, candles, a mans cock toy, an e-stim item, sexy clothing, some jewelry and a host of others are amongst the freebies thrown at me at the show.

I had planned on taking the arousal pill on the flight home tonight but then thought better of it. Jason deserves to be forewarned before such things take place and I am just too tired after four days off non stop teaching to go home and screw for days on end. Because apparently, the pill has a THREE DAY duration.

It won't be till late, but I will be back in my own bed, in my own home later tonight thankfully.

Frequent Flyer

Calgary Alberta is cold and right now, this is where I am till late Sunday night. I arrived in town yesterday and am here teaching for the Taboo Sex Show. Twelve classes over four days and a bunch of media interviews scheduled as well.

My hotel room was mediocre, but now with a business class upgrade (for free) the next few days will be most glorious in my over sized suite, all by myself.

Sweetness

The birthday cake that Jason made for me recently was over the top. Proof of this, is of course, in the picture.

Jack Rinella

My good friend, author and fellow kinkster Jack Rinella has decided to start writing again. For those of you not familiar with Jack, he's an old gay leather man who is insightful as hell and whom I share a mutual um, attraction to.

Leather Views is his column and it is published weekly. He can be controversial, opinionated, dark, witty and honest all in one breath. Well, almost. For a long time Jack published regulary, then went on hiatius from his column for a period, so the return of his words, thrills many of us to no end.

Cannibalism Vancouver

Love Struck

I get this pang now and again. A weird feeling that comes at me usually out of the middle of nowhere.

I see Jason and then I realize that I am so incredibly fortunate to be loved by him. I am reminded that any day he could choose to not come home.

Our love is strong and our relationship is filled with joy and future plotting plans. There is no reason to doubt us.

And this is reason to remember to not become complacent. This is reminder that relationships are only as wonderful and good as what we invest into them.

I want his love for always. I want to love him for always too.

Have you lately done something "out of the ordinary" to honor the one you love?

Disclosures

The disclosures that land to my in-box are guarantee discrescion and privacy. At times the items people feel compelled to share go above and beyond even my level of needing to know though.

You know who you are.

Tricks and Treats

Happy Halloween. It's our babies first time in a costume out begging for treats. Our household is so excited for this milestone to be happening that we all dressed up to celebrate.

The teenager took the photo so as you can likely imagine, she looks like a photographer, even though you can't see her. Jason is a charming sailor, I am a pirate and the Pickle is a chicken. Quite the colorful family aren't we?

Today I Reflect

Thirty eight years ago today I entered this world, bloody and screaming.

All these years later and I am still making a mess and kicking up a storm.

Happy Birthday to me.

And to all of you who are joining in on my birthday celebration later this evening, I'll see you soon.

Man on Man Vancouver

Last night something happened. Something big. No, I mean BIG.

And oddly enough, I played no part in the scenario I am about to describe.

A woman (not me), convinced three of the men that were at Jack & Jill that the women would find it super sexy to see them jack one another off and suck some dick.

And sure as shit. You guessed it. They did it.

My clit was twitching, my smile was beaming, my eyes glazed over and likely a little spit escaped the corners of my mouth as it hung gaping open in wonder.

What a sight to behold. Three. 3. Trois. Three men got it on and it was so nice to lay back and masturbate while watching live multi man porn.

Fuck if that did not make my day.

Kleenex Tissue

The plague has non consensually entered our household and I have been hit, hard. Its like there is concrete block in the middle of the chest, my eyes are burning and my me entire body is so weary.

I lack the ability to take medication well as a patient because swallowing pills is very difficult for me. But, I am so unwell right now, that I have forgotten my pill phobia and I am downing day and night time cold medication.

This illness feels as though it's going to settle in for awhile. It would be so wonderful if by Thursday, my birthday, I was feeling better.

Keep your fingers crossed!

SULTRY Bath House Party - Vancouver

This event is a week today, if you plan on attending, best to make your payment now.

SATURDAY OCTOBER 30, 7:30 - 11:30 PM
SULTRY BATH HOUSE EVENT
COUPLES & SINGLE WOMEN ONLY
Reservations: jennifer@libidoevents.com

*A membership to Libido Lounge is *not* necessary to attend


Tickets are $80 for General Public couples and non refundable.
Tickets are $65 for Lounge Member couples and non refundable.
Tickets are $30 for Lounge Member Single Women and non refundable.
Tickets are $35 for General Public Single Women and non refundable.
Tickets are $10 for Lounge Life Time Member couples and non refundable.
(PAYMENT DUE IN ADVANCE, NO TICKETS AT DOOR)

SULTRY Steam, Sauna, Sex - Couples Only

We make a private rental of an Original Style Bath House in Vancouver.

~~~~~ SULTRY ~~~~~

An evening for the playfully adventurous: Just you, your partner...and twenty-four other couples, locked in for an evening of debauchery. With saunas, showers, play rooms, and massage tables, the stage is set for sensual, sexual, and fun games. Get lathered up with a large number of others in the shower (the lathering is mutual, of course); have a water fight; pair up (or triple up) for intimate play -- or watch other people while they do. Relax in the sauna between activities while Jennifer runs her version of Show & Tell (not quite the game you remember), have a snack or a cold drink, then dive back into the steam for more.

Tickets are first come, first served and are purchased by sending a check made payable to "LL":

Libido Lounge
PO Box 28578
4050 Hastings Street
Burnaby, BC V5C 6J4
Canada

OR

Give me cash or check directly at an LL event.

OR


PayPal - write me for more details.

**Once payment is received, the address and other relevant party info will be sent to you. Be sure to include your email address when sending a check, and the answer to the security question when sending an EMT.

* All inclusive: Entrance to the event, finger foods, non-alcoholic beverages, lounge room entertainment, play stations, safer-sex supplies...

* ...Social lounge with TV and refreshments, play rooms (with recovery beds and massage tables), two large shower rooms, two large steam rooms

* You and your partner must arrive and leave together.

* Our own masseuse for couples massages (there is an additional charge of $20 for 15 minutes). Sign up when you arrive!

Deep Throating Info

If you find yourself unable to deep throat comfortably then change the position that you are in but do not buy a product to numb your throat to make the task easier. Your gag reflex is critical and necessary, it is a sign of distress.

Try laying on your back on your bed, with just the top 1/3 of your head hanging off the edge.

Make your partner agree that he won't cum without telling you in advance. Nothing worse than being caught by surprise with a spurt you were not ready for.

Have your penis owning partner slowly lower his cock into your mouth. His job is to not fuck your face, and your job is to suck hard and bob your head. You have the control.

Groan and moan loudly while sucking, the vibrations feel amazing.

And turn your head from side to side, not just the bob up and down. Make sure your mouth stays puckered tight around his penis.

Grab his ass with your hands and squeeze his cheeks while holding him close into your face.

Buck your body, writhe provocatively. Give him some eye candy.

Breath through your nose.

You can do it -- deep throating is so hot.

Shed The Fear

I gave a few media interviews while in Edmonton last week as part of my Taboo contract.

This one article was published today in the local alternative newspaper (like our Georgia Straight) and it was written by a most lovely woman named Brenda. I liked her a lot and enjoyed the time we spent talking.

Whenever I see myself through the eyes of others, I am most often surprised by what I encounter.

Enjoy the article and feel free to write me and let me know what you think of it.

Lovers Embrace

Home bound. How wonderful it is to be back in my nest with the rest of my family.

Last night as I disembarked from the plane and walked into the airport I was greeted with the most welcoming sight. Jason at eleven at night all dressed up sexy, holding a dozen roses, smiling from ear to ear was awaiting me.

He scooped me up and gathered me in a huge embrace. Being back to the ones I love sure makes my heart swell.

We made the drive home in the dark and I filled him in on the happenings of Taboo Edmonton. Then he took me to bed. And with my head on his shoulder and Jason sighing heavily while moaning how wonderful it is to have me back home, I drift off into a deep sleep.

Edmonton Sex Education: Day 2

The sound system that I am expected to work with sucks. The back ground noise is horrible, the volume competes with another system in the same room and is also finicky.

Some time between yesterdays classes ending and today's beginning my workshop room here in Edmonton goes from one hundred and eight chairs to one hundred and ninety chairs.

Thankfully I feel confident enough in my teaching abilities to work with a low-cost budget head set and to fill every seat in the room.

Day 2 is about to begin.

Edmonton Sex Education

Here I sit in my hotel room in Edmonton Alberta. I am in town of course for the Taboo Sex Show. Over the next four days I will teach twelve classes for the show and do a couple of media interviews.

Libido Lexicon 3

This is the new column that I've been contracted to write for the Taboo newsletter. Subscribe yourself on the left side of their home page so you can have their monthly installment sent directly to your in-box.



Libido Lexicon - Ready, Set, Go
by Jennifer Skrukwa
October, 2010



Squeezing in a quickie to connect with the person you are hot for can be satisfying on many levels.

A quickie is a break from the mundanities of our day to day life.

A quickie can rejuvenate and takes little energy from our reserves.

A quickie can keep the home fires burning when longer time for play sessions is just not viable.
You may have been looking longingly at one another for a few days or the mood may have just snuck up on you out of nowhere. There is nothing quite like a quick little ‘sex fest' to recharge your battery. Any time of day or night if you’re both suitably moved, is then time to get it on.

Pushed up against the garage door.

Bent over the freezer in the basement. In the shower first thing in the morning.

The parking lot, in the front seat of your car at the grocery store.

In the office, face buried in the bookcase.

The woods along the path where you go walking, there is a tree calling your names.

On the sofa in the living room in the middle of the afternoon.

Snuggled in bed for a rare few minutes.

Atop the dining room table, legs spread, with a chair pulled up for your partner’s ease.

A quickie is a make out session, filled with stolen moments. Heavy petting at its best, becoming entangled in one another. Passionate lip locks, tasting the tongue of your lover. Arousal building. Fast. Tension building in your bodies. Strong embraces, gripped with ferocious intensity. Kneading muscles, as you hang on to one another. Shallow breathing as you hover. On the edge of. Orgasm Eye gazing as you look into each others souls. The release as it pours from your body, the thankfulness of being so strongly desired and wanted.

Have you had a quickie lately?

Indulge.


- Jennifer Skrukwa



About the Author

Jennifer Skrukwa has been a dynamic sex activist and educator for over a decade. The owner of Libido Events and Libido Lounge located in Metro Vancouver, she is a creative, vibrant, enterprising powerhouse of energy. As the 37 year old mother of a 7 month old son and a 16 year old daughter she is living with one child learning to crawl and another learning to drive at the same time. Besides her work as a sex educator teaching in the local sex positive community, Jennifer travels extensively across Canada and the United States, sharing her wisdom, knowledge and expertise on all things sex.

She has been a presenter with the Taboo Sex Show in several provinces for the last nine years, the lead educator for the past two and been featured in print in Xtra West, The Georgia Straight and the Westender. Her resume includes presentations at a number of leading BC colleges and universities, within the prison system, at numerous adult stores and for the BC Center for Disease Control. She has extensive private educational experience as an intimacy coach and is also a certified substance abuse counselor. Jennifer is passionate about her life’s work teaching and leading others by example; sex positive, bold and outspoken.

Maple Ridge Pumpkin Farm

It's Pickles first Thanks Giving and Halloween this month. To celebrate this we took Grandma and her beau, along with the teenager, Jason and I and we headed out to a pumpkin patch today. This place is super cool, you could spend a couple of hours there easily. Check it out for yourself.

We had a blast, or at least I did. There was photo opportunities, pumpkin choosing, animal petting, and lots of walking.

The fresh air and change of pace served me well. And thankfully I ran into not one person that I know while out doing the family thing.

Sex For Lunch

I had a "nooner" today. With a girlfriend, a client and two sex machines.

My life is charmed.