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Libido Lexicon - Ready, Set, Go
by Jennifer Skrukwa
October, 2010
Squeezing in a quickie to connect with the person you are hot for can be satisfying on many levels.
A quickie is a break from the mundanities of our day to day life.
A quickie can rejuvenate and takes little energy from our reserves.
A quickie can keep the home fires burning when longer time for play sessions is just not viable.
You may have been looking longingly at one another for a few days or the mood may have just snuck up on you out of nowhere. There is nothing quite like a quick little ‘sex fest' to recharge your battery. Any time of day or night if you’re both suitably moved, is then time to get it on.
Pushed up against the garage door.
Bent over the freezer in the basement. In the shower first thing in the morning.
The parking lot, in the front seat of your car at the grocery store.
In the office, face buried in the bookcase.
The woods along the path where you go walking, there is a tree calling your names.
On the sofa in the living room in the middle of the afternoon.
Snuggled in bed for a rare few minutes.
Atop the dining room table, legs spread, with a chair pulled up for your partner’s ease.
A quickie is a make out session, filled with stolen moments. Heavy petting at its best, becoming entangled in one another. Passionate lip locks, tasting the tongue of your lover. Arousal building. Fast. Tension building in your bodies. Strong embraces, gripped with ferocious intensity. Kneading muscles, as you hang on to one another. Shallow breathing as you hover. On the edge of. Orgasm Eye gazing as you look into each others souls. The release as it pours from your body, the thankfulness of being so strongly desired and wanted.
Have you had a quickie lately?
Indulge.
- Jennifer Skrukwa
About the Author
Jennifer Skrukwa has been a dynamic sex activist and educator for over a decade. The owner of Libido Events and Libido Lounge located in Metro Vancouver, she is a creative, vibrant, enterprising powerhouse of energy. As the 37 year old mother of a 7 month old son and a 16 year old daughter she is living with one child learning to crawl and another learning to drive at the same time. Besides her work as a sex educator teaching in the local sex positive community, Jennifer travels extensively across Canada and the United States, sharing her wisdom, knowledge and expertise on all things sex.
She has been a presenter with the Taboo Sex Show in several provinces for the last nine years, the lead educator for the past two and been featured in print in Xtra West, The Georgia Straight and the Westender. Her resume includes presentations at a number of leading BC colleges and universities, within the prison system, at numerous adult stores and for the BC Center for Disease Control. She has extensive private educational experience as an intimacy coach and is also a certified substance abuse counselor. Jennifer is passionate about her life’s work teaching and leading others by example; sex positive, bold and outspoken.
Jennifer ... Vancouver's Sex Educator, Sexuality Coach and Activist. The content of this blog is not suited for those under the age of 18. What you'll find here is a written account of my personal journey in sex positive culture both personally and professionally.
