Dominant Woman

So we went to a dungeon party this evening. Arriving right as it opened and leaving relatively early too. In-between we hung out with friends, met some new people, were groped a fair bit, groped others back, kissed some pretty girls, had some cuddles and I beat on the boy with a vengeance.

The warm wishes and congratulations from so many we know regarding our engagement was truly nice to receive. It feels fantastic to be in love with some one who everyone I know likes and adores too.

It was a great night out doing something kinky in someone elses domain with no responsibilities of our own. Twas good indeed.


The boy has got some pretty bruising and sensitive nipples and despite what he thought during our scene, I did not really remove his testicles. He'll heal up in a few days, then likely take it out on me some time soon, if I'm lucky.

It's just about one in the morning and it's time for bed. Tomorrow has thrown us a strange bit of fortune and we plan on running with it.

Sex Questions Answered

1. Is there anyone on your friends list you would ever consider having sex with?
Ha-Ha, oh yes and each knows it, shyness get's one no where.

2. Sex in the morning, afternoon, or night?
Morning is great, but a good shag any time is welcome.

3. What side of the bed do you sleep on?
Closest to the door, I am a mom. So the left.

4. Do you masturbate?
Of course a lot, and with plenty of orgasms thrown in.

5. How often?
See above.

6. Have you ever taken your clothes off for money?
Honestly, yes, but it's not what your thinking.

7. Do you prefer showers or baths?
A really steamy hot shower.

8. Have you ever had sex in the shower or the bath?
Um yup, all kinds of sex too, I'm a dirty girl.

9. Do you watch/read pornography?
I watch porn, but don't read it. My partners both watch it and read it.

10. Do you want someone aggressive or passive in bed?
Depends on my relationship with them.

11. Would you choose love or money?
Money, I have a child to raise and bills to pay, look after one's self and the love will follow.

12. Your top three favorite kinks in bed?
Domination, forced multiple orgasms and creating endorphins/adrenaline.

13. Has anyone ever gone beyond your personal line of respect sexually?
Many have tried, but my boundaries & personal negotiation skills kick ass.

14. Where is the most romantic place you have had sex?
Romantic sex, not so much. Hot sex, wherever we are when we connect really well.

15. Where is the weirdest place you have had sex?
Tied to a tree in the middle of the woods.

16. Have you ever been caught having sex?
Sadly, it has happened. I offered counseling, money or a shopping trip to wipe the memory clean.

17. Have you ever been to a strip club?
I've seen many men & women take off their clothes professionally. Most were good at it.

18. Ever been to a bar just to get sex?
Never, so not my style.

19. Ever been kicked out of a bar or a club for sexual reasons?
See above.

20. Ever been picked up in a bar?
There are usually a few people trying to get my attention.

21. Have you ever kissed or had sex with someone of the same sex?
Just last night as a matter of fact and for let's say the billionth time.

22. What's your sexuality?
Queer.

21. Had sex in a movie theater?
Don't scare the villagers, I live by this mantra.

22. Had sex in a bathroom?
Public ones a few times a couple of friends ones, and my own. Broke a toilet once too. He He.

23. Have you ever had sex at work?
Seriously at The Lounge I do what I want, so yeah, I get it on at work.

24. Have you ever been in an "adult" store?
I have keys to a couple of them, and spend loads of time in them.

25. Bought something from an adult store?
Yes, but never full price.

26. Do you own any sex toys?
Hundreds and hundreds, the collection is varied and vast. Yummy.

27. If yes, what are they?
Let's just say there are so many that they are stored broken down into categories.

28. Does anyone have naughty pics of you or are you on film?
I have friends all over the adult industry, so yeah, photos of me exist.

29. Have you ever had sex with someone and called them the wrong name?
Once, and I sure upset myself over it, not the other person.

30. Have you ever had phone sex?
Many moons ago - I loath talking on the phone.

31. Have you ever had cyber sex?
Nope, so not my thing.

32. What's your favorite sexual position?
Take me from behind.

33. What's your favorite sex act?
The one where I get what I want.

34. Have you ever had sex with more than one person at a time?
What are friends for!

Dressed Up for Sex

On my feet are new black knee high boots as nude stockings caress my thighs, with a nice straight seam up the back of each leg.

I have on black panties with a built in garter supporting said thigh-highs.

My waist cincher is black and is an under the bust, leaving my breasts free and exposed.

Around my upper arm, is a read leather rose and thorns, and on my face are librarian'ish style red retro glasses.

Tonight it's my plan to get wet, slippery and giddy with a bunch of women. Ride some big waves of endorphins, adrenaline and lust. Oh my.

With no men in site, Dirty Girls starts in just a couple of hours.

Let The Play Begin.

And FYI - this is a work night for me.

Pregnant Sexy Women

Photo's are from last weeks shoot: Enjoy!

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It's happened, and it is a first. One of our Lounge Members (and a friend too) gave birth this evening. I am so happy for her and her new born daughter right about now. The past few hours I have been floating around awaiting news of the arrival of the bundle of love.

This is the first baby to be born from the Lounge, and the child spent many, many nights with us at parties as her mother spent time at our parties. We won't be seeing the baby around obviously for 19 years now, and her mother should be back around in a few months.

I want to be next, the next pregnant woman and the next to have a baby.

Sex Education Vancouver

Much mail has flooded my In-Box, and many calls to my phone to offer congratulations on the engagement post and subsequent email to our members and friends. The love from you all has been abundant, thank you.

Yesterday my class for the BC Center for Disease Control went rather well, it seems I'll be doing it again, and shortly too. This opportunity is huge and one that is on my pride list, I feel really good about being asked to share my knowledge with them and how well received my ninety minute talk was.

I have a gorgeous pair of black shiny pvc pumps that I adore. They have a tan colored skid mark on the side of one of the shoes, and I am stumped as to how to remove it without damaging the finish. Do you have any tried and tested remedies that you can share with me?


I spent five hours yesterday shopping with my bottom, she has been assigned a new job from her employer and is going from a uniform to own clothing. We spent the day looking and buying new clothes for her, and helping her select colors and styles that were not even on radar was a real smile maker for both of us.


Last evening's Member Orientation class was just incredible. Ten people reserved for the class, and ten people showed up. 100% show up rate, wow. And the icing on the cake was that there was six women and four men. Aah, the joys of doing something so successfully. The whole night went rather extraordinary, things went smooth and it was really fun. The group gelled well together and we all had some great conversations too. This group in particular was just primed and ready for the Lounge - great news!

Tonight is Deviant Dining at the Lounge, we hope you'll join us for dinner. It is a casual laid back chance to dine with other members, talk and get to know one another without a party going on around us all.

The Third Sex is Intersex

I spend a lot of my time talking with people about their sexuality and gender. Over the last couple of years there has been more public talk about a third sex and others openly sharing their truth. Many call the third sex, Intersex.

Three current Libido Lounge members identify as being Intersex. Two are medically diagnosed and one is self appointed. It has been a privilege to learn from these people as they have shared their personal journey's with me and their deepest secret of the issue of their gender.

CBC has a documentary coming up at midnight on the 26th of this month, channel 26, it's an hour long and promised to be riveting and eye-opening.

I found this on the CBC website ....

The sexual identity of a person is usually the first question one asks about a newborn: "Is it a boy or a girl?" To most parents the answer is a simple one. But what about the parents of a child born with both female and male genitals? It's a reality no one dares to speak about, the so-called third sex. Most people are unaware that this situation exists, and institutions are not designed to recognize a sex outside male and female.

Read more here on CBC's main page.

Here on the CBC fact sheet.

And here on Wikipedia

First comes love, then comes...

This has been our secret this past week and a half, and I am just now ready to share it.


While in Cuba we went walking on the beach one afternoon in the opposite direction of all the tourists at our resort. RC went a little ahead of me, lazily I was sauntering along staring at the gorgeous views and taking in the beauty of the day.

I was stunned and shocked when I turned from the ocean to see him standing a few feet away, with four words etched into the sand and a stick in his hand.

It seemed so surreal, I was speechless. (it's true) I was unable to believe he was actually asking me a question, especially this question. He stood before me, with eyes opened wide and a smile from ear to ear, awaiting my response.

My head and heart knew the answer but my mouth was not working. My eyes kept reading those four little words over and over.

He had to say the question out loud, the words in the sand, were not sinking in completely. It was like I needed to hear it in his own voice.

RC dropped the stick to the ground and in what appeared to be slow motion pulled a blue box out of his backpack. As he opened it, my own eyes were riveted and my senses were all magnified. He had my undivided attention.

Jennifer, will you marry me?

My answer was YES! Oh my god YES!

As he helped me slide the ring onto my finger I couldn't help but think of our good fortune to have found one another.

I love you handsome man!

BC Center for Disease Control

We went to bed late last night, after a few rounds of explosive orgasms. Wobbly kneed and happy we were. So our wake up time this morning was a little bit late, it was a beautiful sleep-in.

I made a full breakfast for us and then spent time on the phone Allena, my girl. Catching up with her was important and we had a great talk and even are working on plans of an upcoming holiday together, waaay down South.

Still on today's agenda is a trip to Costco, a stop off to The Lounge and our Post Box, a run through the local veggie store and some quick photocopying. Errands for a few hours.

It is so warm and bright out that it really makes me feel good, I so much enjoy weather that is not wet.

If I'm lucky I may even get a chance to read the two newspapers that have been calling my name and perhaps get some work done on a presentation I'm giving next week. I am teaching for the BC Center for Disease Control, an intro class on alt. sex practices. It looks to be most promising, with an attendance of nurses that are needing sound information and exposure to positive teaching in this genre. Go me.

The teenager should be home later this evening, and then she, RC and I will plot and plan our coming week. The schedules we all keep are busy and fast paced, that is for sure.

Valentines Intimacy

Happy Valentines Day Everyone

My day was spent being loved.

It's my hope you were loved just as much by some one special

OR

that you spent some time to love yourself today.

Submissive

Happy Friday the 13th.

Today I cleaned my desktop off and muddled through my To-Do list. Naked. I was most successful at accomplishing much of my grand pile of work. Like a garden, if I don't tend to it often, it looks overgrown with weeds.

Tonight we are off to dinner at a friends place. This is a weekend of relaxing for the most part. And some loving.

Sex Events Vancouver

I have a few different irons in the fire, which means I need some assistance. Your help dear readers, please.

Lee Harrington bondage guru is soon to be at Libido Lounge, and I have yet to pin down which exact classes I want him to be teaching. Seeing as I don't want to make this decision all by myself, I welcome you to send me suggestions for which classes you are most interested in seeing. Check out Lee's class list and then let me know what tickles your fancy. Ok? Good. Thanks.

We are looking to rent a venue (think larage hall), something NOT in Vancouver, our preference is Burnaby, New West, PoCo or Port Moody. It should be liquor licensed and have a capacity of at least two hundred and fifty. Send me along your suggestions please and any contact info you may have for said facility.


Do you know of a massage cream that can purchased for relatively inexpensive? The oil we use at The Lounge works awesome, however it stains our sheets and leave bump marks on our walls where the freshly massaged lean on them. Not so good for clean up. We'd like to find something that we can buy in bulk and something with no scent. Let me know what your ideas are, or what product you use and where you access it.

I have booked a Women's Swap & Shop at The Lounge in March, here are the details....

Since I have loads of naughty items I no longer want, and I don't want to throw the stuff out, it seems appropriate that I host a Swap & Shop. I know others will get much happiness out of my no longer desired products and such, so I invite you to sell yours too or simply come and shop. This event is being offered for anyone I know (female only) who wishes to attend, it is happening at Libido Lounge.

Women's Sexy Clothing, Footwear, Toys, Accessories & Book Sale

Wednesday March 11

7 PM - 9:30 PM *arrive early for best selection

Admission: $5

Have items you want to sell? Need some kinky clothing and do not want to pay store prices?

This is the event for you. Sell your items, or make them available for free, or trade them for something else with another woman.

Empty your closets and rummage through your drawers. Bring your gently used fetish, kinky and sexy items to our Erotic Women's Sale.

Dig out anything that does not fit you any longer. Pack up anything you no longer wear or want.

Corsets, lingerie, boots, shoes, erotica, canes, floggers, sex toys, boas, collars, cuffs waist cinchers, heels, purses, bags etc. etc. etc.

Now is the time to rid yourself of any unwanted or unneeded kinky items that are cluttering up your cupboards and dressers.

Plan to vend at the event, send me an email: jennifer@libidoevents.com

RSVP your attendance, by sending me an email: jennifer@libidoevents.com

Struggling, are you?

If you are a person who struggles from time to time, or even regularly, this *short* video is filled with hope.

It matters not what your issue or obstacle is, but in how you look at it, and how you face it.

Watch this awesome video clip.

hugs, Jennifer

Prop 8 & Equality

Grab yourself a box of kleenex and be prepared to share this link. It's powerful, moving and inspirational. As a woman who loves women, I couldn't agree more. I love you Allena!

Back to basics

I was too bed early last night and woke refreshed and ready to face the day.

Unexpected news has thrown me for a bit of a loop this afternoon. Dare I say that thinking about it all has given me a wee bit of a head ache.

RC will be home from work soon, and spending some time alone with him, should help me feel better.

It might be nice if we ventured out this evening to pick up some groceries as the cupboards are a little empty. We did not do much shopping in January as we knew we would be leaving on holidays, so we ate everything we had, to clean out the freezers and cupboards. Since our return we have yet to find the time to do a food run and now it is time, because aside from condiments and fresh fruit and veggies, there is not-much-else.

Tomorrow I am doing a photo shoot with another local model. Bondage is the theme. Costuming and make up will need to be packed later this evening. I should really spend some time plotting out outfits and props shortly.

I need to be suspended and have a round or two taken out of me. Get me out of my head for awhile. The whole mother, partner, business owner, sex educator roles I wear are a little much today.

End of the day

I spent twenty three hours at the Lounge, from last night till late this afternoon. The Naughty Party yesterday was incredible.

A woman had a big ol' wet orgasm on my leg. One woman fainted, she was mummified to our stripper pole and another cutie then she got over-heated and boom, she was down for the count.

Hot sex was everywhere, spankings, clamps and floggings were happening everywhere I looked. The action was super hot and the night went by speedy fast.

If your reading this entry and were at Naughty, send me some feedback privately on how you experienced the evening. You know I love to hear from you our dear members and your insights are always so valuable.

I'd write more but I am just too tired. You see I slept at The Lounge, because there was an Orientation there today and also Exploratorium, we gained another dozen members.

Now I am home and in bed. There is a mail out going out as I type this here and in a matter of minutes I shall be fast asleep.

Dating Women

Last night my bottom and I had a date. First we went out for a nice sushi dinner where we ate and talked for two hours straight. It was a lovely time together of catch up and alone girl time, greatly anticipated and needed too.

Then we went to The Vancouver Play House, where we witnessed a beautiful show. The SOLD OUT performance of Soledad Barrio & Noche Flamenca What an outstanding concert, it was energy filled, passionate and breath taking, the pace was incredible.

Seats in the ninth row afforded us an up close viewing of the perfectionist work of these artists. Dancers, singers and guitarists. I was in awe from beginning to end, as was everyone else.

The lead dancer Soledad is exquisite in her movements and proficiency, that I saw her dance is amazing, you would have been awe struck at how she owned the stage and audience, I was captivated for certain. The reviews on her and the show are top notch, and still do not do her justice.

Now tonight is Naughty and it is a big crowd at The Lounge, in just a few short hours. Oh my!

RC and I have a surprise to announce to this nights group of attendees, I am eager to see their reactions. Few know already, and it has been fun leaking it out slowly.

Cuba Photos

At The Tropicana in Havana, a sold out show that runs 7 nights a week.

Monuments are everywhere in Cuba, this is in Havana, the capitol. Photo is of Che Guevera.

At the market in Varadero.

I have a lot to accomplish today. What with out of country guests from London arriving later this afternoon to stay with us for a few days, it should happen that I get the house cleaned before their arrival. Further I have a hot date this evening with my bottom, she and I are going to the Vancouver Play House to see Flamenco dancers and also having a nice dinner out together. She's on orders to wear a skirt or dress, so I can grope her through out the night, it should be fun. Perhaps I'll even snap a photo or two of the woman that calls me Ma'am.

Plus I find myself still needing to prepare for tomorrow's Naughty Party, which I need to shop for a little bit and do some general paper work for the event itself too.

Sighs, it doesn't really ever let up around here. If it's not work related, then their is always personal situations arising. Always on the go. Thankfully I have been rousing early since our return from Cuba, which has left me hours in the day, and has also had me to bed at an early hour too.

Girl On Top Orgasms

Tuesday was an exceptionally long day, I spent most of it doing household tasks and work related catch-up after being away for over a week. When I crawled into bed at an early hour, my laptop was with me so I could continue ticking things off my to-do list.

After working for quite some time, I knew I was wiped and should really close the box and get some shut eye. Rather I summoned my guy from where he was across the room at his desk and gave him the seducing smile of "do you want me?"

With out missing a beat, he hopped right over to the bed. For longer than I thought I had in me, he laid out naked on his belly on the bed, with his head buried between my things and my hands holding his head on either side and at times stroking his hair. His licks were soothing, the sucking made me want him more and his caresses of my sex had me exploding.

By the time he entered me with his huge cock, I was starved for more of him. Great as his oral skills were, and are, I was in need of some serious thrusting. He mounted me and we moved together for a short while. Easy motions, familiar.

We rolled over and I atop him, took him for a ride, and I rode him hard. Grinding myself onto his pleasure maker, our eyes locked when our mouths were not tasting one another. It roared out of me, the second orgasm of the evening and as it came in a spasm out of me, he came too.

It happens now and again that two people will come at exactly the same time, but it is somewhat of a rarity. We did not plan for it, and no conversation was had to allow this to happen. It just did.

When the heat of his load ejected itself into me, I continued to glide up and down his manliness with great stamina and enthusiasm. He shook, he convulsed and he lost himself in me, just as I had done in him.

To be lost in another and with another at the moment of ecstatic bliss is always electrifying.

We've been having wild sex lately, and it's been just awesome. I'd tell you our secret as to"why" but I am not ready to divulge just yet. It feels good to have a little privacy on this one thing.

Swimming with tuna

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In Varedero at the Delfinario I went swimming with dolphins, and a lot of them. There were six if I remember correctly. My man was scuba diving in The Bay of Pigs, and my daughter and I were at the aqua center, it was so much fun.

First we saw a dolphin show, something similar to what you'd see at the aquarium, it was a real hoot. Then ten of us, from the nearly one hundred and fifty that were present had bought a ticket to get in the water with them.

We donned life jackets, and then slid into the water. Since the temperature was close to 30 degrees the water was nice and refreshing. I was just a wee bit scared, for the first couple of minutes but then the time just flew by.

Close to forty minutes was spent being kissed by these gorgeous creatures, pulled through the waters at a fast speed by holding onto their fins, being projected ridiculously high into the air by their noses on a foot push and generally just frolicking and swimming around with them.

What a surreal experience, both my daughter and I were enamored with their intelligence, skills sets and of course gracefulness.

What a trip ...

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Yes it's true. We arrived back from Cuba at the ungodly hour of just after eleven last night, and were home shortly there after.

The plane ride was seven hours of torture, but hey, we made it one piece, and with all of our luggage intact.

Cuba was intensely more colorful than I had imaged: the culture, weather, politics and the people. Varadero was quaint and inspiring, despite the horrendous poverty.

Havanna was over-the-top, the city was breathtaking and the attractions kept us moving at unbelievable pace.. We even took in the infamous Tropicana show as well, and were mesmerized by the skills and beauty of the performers.

I am still processing the entire experience of being away and now am faced with the daunting task of copious amounts of laundry and answering the deluge of email sitting in my accounts.

If I owe you an email, it may take a day or three for me to get to it. Please practice patience, I am still on Cuban time. Things move a little slower in the Caribbean.

We took a lot of photos of the trip which will be uploaded shortly as well, though it is not a big priority at the moment. My man is currently downloading them onto our different computers for us all, there are three different camera's to deal with.

I am looking forward to seeing friends and eating familiar foods. Tomorrow night is Deviant Dining at The Lounge, join us for great conversations and a chance to catch up.