Weight Loss Linked To Increased Sexual Function in Men

A recent article published in The Journal of Sexual Medicine presents research done by Professor Gary Wittert of the University of Adelaide that shows a very interesting relationship between weight and sexual function. The study looked at 31 obese men with type 2 diabetes, providing them with a reduced calorie or low-fat diet to induce weight lose. The results showed that after 8 weeks, when most men had lost a meager 5-10% of their body weight, the participants reported a rapid improvement in their sexual and urinary problems. The men continued to report improvement for the next 12 months. This evidence leads researchers to believe that erectile function and urinary tract symptoms are related to cardio-metabolic risks.

By now you would think we would have figured out that everything in the body is connected. Being healthy in one way, physically, mentally or emotionally, can often have unexpected effects on other parts of the body. By going on diets and trying to lose weight these men experienced the expected results of weight lose and easier management of their diabetes symptoms, but also got the more unexpected result of improved sexual function. Even a small weight decrease led to rapid sexual improvement. This shows that men who experience erectile dysfunction do not necessarily need to rush out to buy drugs and pills to improve their sex lives. Making a lifestyle change can be just as effective and can improve other health issues.

There are many reasons for people to lose weight, whether it is to become more healthy or to fit into one’s bathing suit. Some of these reasons are much more trivial than others; I’m sure most of us could discuss body image and weight for hours. Regardless of one’s reason for losing weight, this research shows that the relationship between weight and sexual function is more complicated than we had assumed.

Read more here in Science Daily

Sexual Acts for Shoes

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Animal Play Vancouver

A. wrote me weeks ago before a party asking if I wanted or needed anything brought to me. Sweet girl. I told her I enjoy chicken sub sandwiches from Subway and what veggies I am partial to.

Another week goes by and she writes me prior to attending another event and asks if I want a chicken sub. A. is also a submissive. The abbreviation for submissive is sub. I tell her to stop calling herself a chicken and to just bring me a sub. (submissive = herself)

She laughs. I laugh. Together we think we are funny.

Then she sends me a photo of Chicken Little, it was like she was mocking me.

So I sent her a picture of chicken anatomy.

Then she email me that she will be attending Dirty Girls. (which was last night) Well well, I think to myself. This is my chance.

I have always been curious about animal play and now I have started formulating an evil plan of naughtiness.

I tell A. that we are going to have a play date. Thankfully, she says yes. Consent is critical, you know?

I had already enlisted the assistance of two gorgeous women, each known to both me and the chicken.

After A. arrives to the party and has some settle in time, I have a friend warm her up, by tenderizing her a little with a lovely flogging.

Then A. is told to climb onto the gynecological table for me. She does so without missing a beat. She is naked and behaving well.

Next I ask her to "cluck". She chuckles once hesitantly, then starts "clucking", over and over again.

I attempt to put a comb onto her head, alas it does not work, the birds head is too big.

Suddenly next to me is another woman holding a mixing bowl. I can smell the contents of the bowl as I am watching the chicken be trussed, legs open wide. Arms tied tight, flapping like a bird.

A. clucked so beautifully once bound, it was like the bondage aided her submission.

It was about at this point, that the birds eye widened enough that I knew, she was aware of her destiny.

I donned a glove, reached inside the bowl and grabbed a handful of Stove Top stuffing and started stuffing it inside the birds open cavity.

I fingered in as much as possible amidst the laughter, then I grabbed a Hitatchi and masturbated that damn bird until the stuffing was shooting out of it.

That chicken was stove TOPPED.

Erotic Photography Vancouver

In 2006 I had the acclaimed David Steinberg give a presentation here in Vancouver for Libido Events. While visiting, David stayed with me and we even found time for a photo shoot. I dug out a few images that I'm willing to share!

Deep Throating Info

If you find yourself unable to deep throat comfortably then change the position that you are in but do not buy a product to numb your throat to make the task easier. Your gag reflex is critical and necessary, it is a sign of distress.

Try laying on your back on your bed, with just the top 1/3 of your head hanging off the edge.

Make your partner agree that he won't cum without telling you in advance. Nothing worse than being caught by surprise with a spurt you were not ready for.

Have your penis owning partner slowly lower his cock into your mouth. His job is to not fuck your face, and your job is to suck hard and bob your head. You have the control.

Groan and moan loudly while sucking, the vibrations feel amazing.

And turn your head from side to side, not just the bob up and down. Make sure your mouth stays puckered tight around his penis.

Grab his ass with your hands and squeeze his cheeks while holding him close into your face.

Buck your body, writhe provocatively. Give him some eye candy.

Breath through your nose.

You can do it -- deep throating is so hot.

Feedback

Women keep throwing themselves at me. It's such a beautiful thing too. I'm not complaining you see. Rather, I am wondering what it is that I exude that makes me the lucky recipient of all this scrumptious girl attention?

Happy Monday!

Today I plan on hanging out at home in my robe, while wading through more of the year end mess that awaits me in my office. What a daunting task and one that I find myself struggling with as it's hard to concentrate with a toddler running around emptying everything out and banging.

And I need a new desk -- the one that is in my office is not serving me well at all. In fact, the current desk is failing me so badly, that often I can be found working on our dining room table because I loathe the current desk that much. Ideally I'd like too find a work center that is thin and tall. Quite tall, with lots of shelves and such, but not wide. A corner unit that is tall may also work as well.

Tonight is Jack & Jill so I'll have to get ready for that a little later on. A night of masturbation and sex outside of the house with my man. This is so great because sex at home, with two kids wandering around can be difficult to sneak in. And we're not so quiet either, so heading out for a night of debauchery is titillating on many levels.

3 parties in 24 hours

It was not my first time being hired by this group of young women. In fact, they have hired me a few times before and I'm seeing twice more in the next six weeks. They take much from time with me and I enjoy teaching them. Private Classes are way more intimate and when in someones home and not the Lounge, it's still an evening of debauchery. (just on a different level)

The class I was teaching was called "Bedroom Poses" which of course is a 2.5 hour long class on positions for sex play. Interactive, hilarious, educational and created by me completely. It is an awesome class that this group of lovely ladies enjoyed on many levels and one that I am confident their partners are going to go gaga over the rewards from.

The tried to hire me to stay for an additional hour last night, though sadly I was unable to. Jason was picking me up and we were heading to a second party immediately after wards. It's always flattering to be so well thought of and sought after: especially when the crowd is a large group of extremely hot women.

An hour later and I was at my second party of the night and this one had me naked and kneeling within ten minutes of being in the door. It was a private party amongst close friends. Who knew that my attempts at submitting to the red head would have so many people laughing?

Then a little later on I convinced one of the men present to let me spank him. He's rather tall and yet was still a great fit as he bent over my naked lap for our encounter. It was of course tongue in cheek, and fast went from spanking to nerf batting, to a full on hilarious, pee yourself watching, wrestling match.

We wrestled on the dungeon floor for awhile, both of us panting and slowly depleting our energy reserves. I got him in a head lock. A camera came out of nowhere and someone started taking photos for prosperity sake. We took down the cameraman and he landed on his ass -- Ouch, Oh my!

It was a girlfriends birthday celebration and this was why we were at her home and dungeon with all of our pals.

A kind man, stood next to me in the dining room, and cracked me a crab, while handing me each and every piece. There were over a dozen crabs on the table, cheeses, cakes, nibblies and morsels -- yummy goodness.

The clock struck late and we returned to our car. I drove us back to the babysitters, were we fetched our wee one before making the trek back home.

In just over 24 hours, I have ran a Sauna Party, taught a private class to a stagette and got-it-on at a private soiree.

Today its my plan to spend the day sitting at my dining room table, in my robe. I have the house to myself and a tonne of stuff to complete and paper to finish pushing after such a successful weekend.

You too can hire me to teach at your home, office, or event, after reading this. It's easy, write me for more details.

jennifer@libidoevents.com

Couples Sex Event Vancouver

I look like a drown rat and I smell like whipping cream.

I just got in from Sultry, you know, the Lounges Bath House event. It's different because it's hosted in the city and it's a highly charged sexual environment that's wet and steamy -- this makes it out of the ordinary.

There were only fifty tickets to be had to this particular event and there were only three tickets left, so the evening was brimming with opportunity.

Within five minutes of our open time, the first of the people were already naked and touching one another.

The others started to file in. Anticipation filled the air. Locker doors shut, closing in them inhibitions and clothing.

Introductions were made. Hugs were given. The flirtatious banter that accompanies such an evening was turned on to high.

The gorgeous woman who does massage, her list had eleven different people on it, it did not take long for that to happen.

Pussy licking seemed the theme in one of the steam rooms and the other steam room had people in three's and fours making out with one another.

The social room was chilled just enough to cool you down after sex or a steam which made this room a gathering place for conversations, snacks and cold drink.

I wrestled a really hot woman on the ceramic floor of a public shower --- and I'm pretty sure she won.

We played naked twister, and whipped cream get to know you and human car wash.

There was group sex, I watched it take place. A group of people took on one woman and a group of women, took on another woman sexually.

For over 3/4 of the evening, every one of the five beds was filled with moans, screams and ecstatic bliss taking place.

There were people on first dates, people on second dates, couples who'd never attended before, couples who've attended most every one we've hosted, there were single women and the age range was well proportioned.

There was something for everyone there, if you try at this event, even a little -- anything is possible.

It was more fun than I've had in awhile. The only downside was that the baby had a problem with the sitter, so Jason left minutes before the event started to return home.

Thanks to K & L for getting me and all the gear home at nights end ... it was so gracious of you both.

Women's Sex Party

It certainly was not out-of-control, yet the mood in the air was frenzied. The energy was high and the women were on fire with desire.

This was my kind of party, from the moment the front doors of the Lounge unlocked, all the women connected together and were already busy plotting grand debauchery.

The jack hammer girl, donned a strap on, and then did another girl. It was a first time for both of them and heavens, was the enthusiasm for their sex fest just more than you can imagine. It was captivating to watch them fuck into a sweaty pile of laughing gooey happiness.

The circle jerk of women aiding one another to orgasm had me mesmerized. The two red heads were fierce, the bald woman was hot, and others proved their intensity as they worked diligently to locate pleasure and share it with the group.

There were women in a pack, all mounting, kneading and touching one another to bliss. The fingers of their hands creeping towards and into each others' warm sex, stroking with purpose, to be thoughtful.

At one point laying on a bed, surrounded by more ladies than imaginable and I close my eyes and touch myself sweetly. Startled, suddenly there is a mouth on each of my breasts and someone is dropping a warm nipple into my mouth. I crash - my orgasm washes over me as my eyes open and take in the sights and sensations on and around me.


Dirty Girls was intense this past Saturday -- and hosting it monthly again is sure making the ladies happy.

The next one is Saturday October 23rd, you in ladies?

Rough Sex

The kids were asleep as I stood in the glowing light of the kitchen tidying up from the day.

Jason appeared suddenly in my line of sight. "Come to bed, so I can have sex with you". Abrupt and to the point for certain. Hesitantly, I say "maybe, we'll see how I feel when I'm done here".

A few minutes later Jason reappears in the doorway. He meets me square in the eyes "I told you to come to bed, so I can fuck you". I chuckle. Oh, how I love this man.

A slight smile forms on the corners of his mouth as walks towards me. I'm tired and its getting late. His arm is outstretching and his hand is coming towards me. His right fist is soon filled with my hair. He's dragging me forward .... out of the kitchen and into the bedroom.

Pushed down onto the bed his hand wrapped securely around my locks ensures his full control. Roughly my robe is tossed to the side. His mouth hungrily consumes me ... his tongue is hot and his teeth find my nipple.

I groan from pain. He pushes me around further, growling "Sssshhh". His cock slips between my thighs with ease, due in no small part to my wet pussy awaiting him.

One, then two fingers part my cheeks and make their way deep into my ass. I buck in a frenzy of pleasure. His hand still holds my hair and he's thrusting wildly towards what will soon be our combined ecstatic bliss.

He shoots inside of me as I maneuver my hips in such a way as to milk every last drop out of him. His seed dripping slowly out of me ...a reminder of passion, heat, lust and power.

As I'm laying in his arms, still mounted atop him his cock, drifting on a sleepy cloud of warm pleasure he whispers in my ear "I need to take control of you more often". "Oooh, yeah", is the most coherent retort I have in the moment.

Woman Sex

She's a new member at the Lounge and so is her man.

I believe she is eight years younger than I. Her and her man are both super attractive and sharing really great bubbly personalities. From the moment we met at orientation, I knew we would get along well.

They came out to a party.

I took one look at her and just knew that I had to play with her. Without missing a beat I walked towards her loveliness and suggested we do so. She beamed. My insides got all warm and tingly at her delight. After she said yes, I told her she should tell her man of our plans. She listened.

Setting my toys down on the stand next to the rack, I watched her cross the floor towards me. "Take off your dress" I said firmly. She complied and even asked if she should remove her panties or not. I was flattered by the trust in that question.

After I told her what I would not do to her and round about what to expect, I taught her red, yellow and green. Turning her around so her tight ass was facing me I worked her over with floggers, straps and a fur mitt. I concentrated on making her want more of what I was offering.

It worked. As I flogged her ass, I let the tails creep in between her legs, to wrap nicely over her pussy. She writhed beautifully and moaned ever so appreciatively. This was doing much for my libido.

After I had her face I spent time on her breasts and chest. We played for some time before I grabbed the Hitatchi and pressed it onto her clit. That smile of hers grew fast. Her ass was glowing hot from the strikes and her pussy was throbbing - I knew it to be true, without doubt.

After a few minutes I crouched down on the floor and put the magic wand in my lap. Then I told her to straddle me and lower herself onto my lap. The vibrations rocked both of our bodies with a great intensity.

"Fuck me" I said. She followed my command and as soon as I had spoken those words, she started riding me with such passion that it was all I could do not to come unglued myself.

Between my teeth I caught one her nipples and I nibbled on it passionately - she whispered in my ear, "my nipples like it really hard. Bite them." And so I did, ruthlessly.

The panting escalated, her gyrations were strong and consistent and in no time, she orgasm'ed on top of me. Twice I think.

Later on in the evening I looked around to see where she was at. She was mounted on top of her partner and they were fucking like horny teenagers.

I love my life.

Fantasies Come True at Libido Lounge

A few months back at an event, one of our women members (whom we'll dub as Tanya) shared a wild and out-of-the-ordinary fantasy of hers to a large group of people. Amongst those present, was her husband.

Fast forward to just a short while ago and one of our members who was at "the big disclosure" contacts me. It seems her fantasies fueled his desire to make a contribution to the cause. He has built a piece of equipment to meet the requirements of Tanya's fantasy and he wants to donate it to The Lounge.

Her fantasy is to be on a "lazy Susan" of sex. Something that can spin her round and round whilst she orally pleasures many, many men.

Well this item, this accoutrement now exists. It is tucked safely into the Lounge and is being debuted this Saturday night at the Couples Only Play Party, then again at Jack & Jill on the last Monday night of the month.

If you wish to play on it feel free. But not before Tanya gets the first go around.


Not only will this woman's fantasy come true, but so will many others peoples now be brought to fruition.

I'm excited to see the lazy Susan in use.

Jack & Jill Memories

No two Jack & Jills are ever even remotely the same and last nights was no exception. Ten men and nine women took part, plus Jason and I.

There was plenty going-on, oh my. Three queen sized beds pushed together to make a group play space is where most of the action centered. Some others sat on the sofas or on chairs while voyeuring and solo playing.

Upon the beds laid out in quite a stunning spectacle was six women. Each of them started with a sex toy in their hands and quickly had said items between their thighs and nestled deep inside.

Three different couples were playing on the gyno table, the padded bondage cage and under the pagoda too.

There was jacking and there was jilling.

There was girl on girl all over the place, one huge girlpuddle even.

Some woman came on a mans head while standing over his flat out body on a bed.

Jason and I had monkey sex for an appreciative audience.

Another couple was busy having reverse cowgirl sex and she worked him over so sweet, I watched transfixed for awhile.

I fisted a woman for her first time --- lucky me and oh so lucky her. Here breasts were so soft in my mouth.

Women were laughing and popping off orgasms. There were four Hitatchi's in use. Lubricant was everywhere.

The moans were lovely and the cum divine.

I watched a lovely couple 69.

And I witnessed explosions from many many men.

Women were giddy with lust and one another.

Many of the attendees had never met one another before.

It was a most enjoyable way to spend an evening amongst new friends.

Watching Others Fuck

I like to watch other people have sex. It's true, I'm a voyeur.

It's not like I enjoy it all the time. There are times when watching others have sex is my job, it's me wandering through a party ensuring safety and briefly scanning the room over. Keeping my eyes from inadvertently meeting those who are playing, yet stealing stolen glances of peoples most erotic moments.

You might wonder when it's enjoyable for me. It's hot to watch people fuck when I'm not working. When my own arousal is at the forefront and when I am sharing the visual with a partner or a FWB. (friend with benefits)

I have seen my partners over the years have sex with others and thought nothing of it. I've witnessed them being hot and heavy with a person they had just met and I have not been moved by it at all. Well other than to be delighted for them to have found someone to be playful with in that moment.

I don't find it hot to see my partners being intimate with others. Not to date anyways.

However it is sexy as hell to watch two people I do not know, or whom I am not in a relationship with get it on with one another.

The raw moments of lust. The abandon to have sex with others around. The noised grunted, squeaked, screamed and moaned into the room. The smell of their union lingering heavy in the air. Counting their orgasms with them. Applauding their efforts.

Watching people screw when they know I am present is also highly charged for me. It fuels a deep sexual hunger in me to know that the couple banging are aware of my presence and my intent interest in viewing them. It's like being a third without having to put out.

Being a voyeur means I am privy to new ways to interact sexually with my parnter[s] that I may have not thought of previously. Voyeurism is safer sex at it's best. Being a voyeur permits me the luxury of arousal without the sweat. Watching let's me play my own fantasies in my head while my hand is down my pants frantically rubbing my hard clit without regard to when someone else is going to be getting off.

Ironically I find myself generally unmoved by pornography in a digital format. Watching fake performances that are happening for money leave me rather unimpressed. I don't necessarily need a story line either, but I would at least like to be led to believe that the actors portrayed are actually, really enjoying themselves and not just pretending or orgasm and preference for one another for a pay check. Don't get me wrong, porn has it's place for those interested in buying into it, but hey, its not with me.

I do however enjoy looking at sexy photos of couples and women -- and not so much for lone men. It's the interaction between couples that catches my breath and it's the babes with curves that make my clit twitch as I flip from one erotic image to the next.

Call me old fashioned but my preference for watching others fuck will always be the live show rather than the shiny DVD in a case.

We Got It On

Our bedroom light was still burning bright yet the end of the day had arrived and the outside world was quietly dark.

Jason's naked body was next to mine in bed and our flesh warmed one another despite the brisk air in the room.

In hushed voices we spoke, as we dared not wake the baby in the next room who was not yet deep in slumber. We only spoke about our day in brief snippets and between each morsel disclosed we nibbled on one another with fervor.

He looked into my eyes with a hunger and I merely made the suggestion sex would be nice. He rolled me onto my side and as we giggled together, he slid his already rigid cock into my core.

It was sex driven by need. The need to connect. The need to merge as one. The need for a release. The need for love. The need to do for the other.

Later after that point of climax, both weary and satiated, we disentangled ourselves from one another. But not before I grabbed my iPhone and snapped a photo of the position we found ourselves in as it was one we'd not before used.

Then we went to sleep wrapped up in each others arms.

Cherry Popping

Last night at the Couples Party I met a woman. There happened to be six of us on the group bed together. She was next to me.

I asked her if she had ever been with a woman before. In a low raspy voice, she replied "no".

"Have you ever touched a woman's breast before?" I was met with another "no", as I moved my body closer to hers.

The index finger of her right hand traced my warm soft breast with great gentleness. I knew that Jason who was between my legs caressing my lips would be greatly aroused by this visual before him.

I swept my finger along her breast and then brushed her pert nipple with quick slight motions. Her groans told me my attention towards her was appreciated.

The woman's husband starting having sex with her as my hungry tongue was licking the sensitive spots on her tight luscious body.

In short order Jason was on top of me and the four of us were all having sex side by side, all the while her and I continued to make out. The couple on the other side of us were now going at it hot and heavy too. The bed was in motion, the smell of sex was strong and it made my head swim in that lustful way I adore.

Jason came with a huge explosion and couldn't stop after that, he just kept going, caught up in the moment. The other woman's eyes rolled back in her head, her back arched and she was captivated by my talking dirty in her ear.

I had rolling waves of pleasure that left me gasping as the man next to me suddenly had the spent look of satisfaction come over him.

After cuddling everyone, I went and fetched a towel to clean Jason and I up. I asked the couple whom we'd been so engaged if they wanted anything .... "water". Upon my return I cleaned my man & I then gave each of them a cup of water much to their delight.

We sat around and debriefed for a few minutes then I left them alone to bask in the glow of the first time experience together with one another.

First Time Having Sex

Christmas afternoon there was sex happening at our house. This likely doesn't come as a surprise to you. It was our "first time" too. The first time we've had sex since the baby has been born and of course, we coined this opportunity as being a "test fuck".

Unsure how it would go, if it would hurt, make me bleed or cause anguishing cramps, we had our romp. So a Test Fuck, with no expectations.

I fed the baby till he was asleep. Jason showered and shaved his boy bits, then set up our lair.

As I entered our bedroom I was met with candles burning on all the flat surfaces. Incense lit and it's warm aroma in the air. The heat turned up to toasty. Sheets pulled back and on the bed, Kama Sutra Honey Dust, chocolate body paint, and lubricant on the bedside table.

From my arms I laid the baby in his bed next to ours and carefully covered him to keep warm. Gently I rubbed his belly to ensure he would not wake up prematurely and interrupt our adult time.

I removed my robe and panties in front of my man as his eyes drank in the sight of me. He told me how beautiful I was, and my mind whirled. Sex with this gorgeous man was about to happen. Excited and aroused he had made me.

I laid out naked on the bed as per his command and a delicate brush swiped over my body putting edible honey dust over me which he licked and nibbled off with greed, yet tenderness.

We kissed, touched and played with each other. The foreplay was sweet and necessary, at least for me. Aroused as I was, I was still nervous.

By the time our bodies melted into each others and we started moving as one, we were both giddily happily. I was safely mounted on top of Jason's manliness and not one stroke caused me any pain. (though some trepidation the first few minutes)

After the orgasms were over we lay spooned together. Breathless. Elated. Reconnected as a couple.

The most amazing reality of our afternoon frolic was that the Pickle cooperated enough to thankfully sleep through our "afternoon delight".

Sexual Prowess

It takes a lot of skill, thoughtfulness and effort to be a good lover. Most anyone can screw or fuck someone, but to be a lover requires a finesse, a dedication to the "art of loving."

Over the years it has become painfully obvious to me through watching others engage in sex and listening to people discuss their sex lives, that so many are not completely satisfied with their intimate time. They crave more, yet do not have the vocabulary or the skill set to teach another how to please them.

People want exhilarating sex, they want to be caught up in the throes of passion and to feel the wild rush of euphoria wash through their body that only happens when sex is spontaneous, engaging and varied.

Anyone can do the same techniques time and time again, and we all know it then gets boring and predictable. It may get you off but it sure is not rewarding, nor bonding, nor toe curling or earth shaking.

Many people I speak to want to be considered great lovers, either by their relationship partners, or their one night stands. They want to be revered as excellent lovers and they want the delight that comes from being able to give their partner their undivided sensual attention.

Are you a lover who is caught in a rut, unsure how to create new and memorable experiences between you and your partner? You can fix this without grave difficulty, you just need the willingness to explore some unfamiliar territory, be willing to listen and able to spend more time creating that hunger within your hunger.

Are you a lover with something to share, even the simplest single suggestion is valuable here.

Here is what I need from you.

Drop me an email to jennifer@libidoevents, with the subject line "Lover". In the email tell me if you are a man or a woman and whether or not you make love to men or women.

Then tell me your favorite sexy techniques you engage in as foreplay, mental play or sex play to wow your partner.

I am *not* looking for sex positions, rather for ideas on how you ensure your partner is well taken care of sexually as a whole body experience during your play time. Give me examples.

You can also tell me what you have enjoyed having down to you that has made your intimate time all that more special and spectacular.

I am currently working on a special project and this information will go along ways to ensuring a vast number of people will become more thoughtful and proactive lovers.

Remember, what goes around, comes around. Share your tidbits and help make bedrooms across the country happier and more orgasmic.

Hitatchi Orgasm

Still pregnant and not feeling well.

Though today I did muster up strength to turn on my Hitatchi and grind myself onto its end for a powerful, long over due orgasm.

When Jason came home from work and saw the toy and a bottle of warming lubricant laying on the bed his eyes lit up like a kid on Christmas morning.

I feel better for the orgasm, but no more horny.

Once this child is out of me, I can't wait to resume my otherwise bountiful sex life.