Bondage Classes & Dungeon Party - June 2011

Start Spreading The Word....

Max of Seattle is returning to the Lounge to teach another four intoxicating bondage classes and to be our guest of honor for our June Dungeon Players Party. Max's classes have a price increase at the end of this month and his classes are all pre sale tickets only, to save yourself money and to ensure you make the guest list, you'll want to write me for ticketing information ASAP. Information on each class, what to expect and what to bring can be found by reading further along for the event descriptions.

Max's last round of classes at the Lounge were all 2 hours and due to their popularity, this time round all of his classes are 2.5 hours long, giving you even more skill set development time with this guru. Come alone or be partnered up, it will all work out.


Max's classes are:

1. High Security Rope Bondage
2. Bondage For Sex
3. Bondage 201
4. Mean Rope for Sadists and Masochists along with an evening party

5. Plus, an evening play party "Dungeon Players"


QUESTIONS, COMMENTS, TICKETS: jennifer@libidoevents.com


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1. HIGH SECURITY ROPE BONDAGE
Max of Seattle at Libido Lounge



Saturday, June 18, 2011
1:00 PM to 03:30 PM
where: Libido Lounge
address: members have our address, non members can email for it map
cost: $30 members, $35 non members / June 1 price increases by $5 for each class
dress code: no dress code - comfortable clothing advised

Description

Reservations and prepayment are mandatory, no tickets will be sold on the day of the event. Tickets are non refundable and non transferable.

Questions, Payment, Reservations: jennifer@libidoevents.com

Ever had someone "escape" from your bondage? Have you ever managed to get away - or not get away - from someone else's bondage? Whatever your orientation, bondage is all about escape, and this workshop focuses on playing with that "escape energy".

If you're a rope top, you'll learn - and see - a wealth of techniques you can use to make your bondage more secure. If you're an aspiring escapee, you'll get a chance to add to your "tools and tricks" repertoire. And if you just want a good show, come watch us pit those two skills against each other.

Most of our time will be spent using people from the audience to demonstrate ways to make rope bondage more escape-proof.

Bottoms will have an opportunity to wriggle their way out while we analyze their technique. We may have opportunities for tops to test their mettle too. And there's a handout you can use as a reminder when you're practicing at home.

Since the class will be structured as a demo, there's no need to have a practice partner, to bring rope or to have any prerequisite skills. If you're interested, there will be plenty of opportunities for you to participate. If you'd rather just watch, there will be plenty of entertainment. Rope Bottoms - this is a great chance to get tied up and to showcase your escape skills.

As always, the emphasis is on learning and having fun.

This workshop is appropriate for all skill levels and all genders / orientations.


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2. BONDAGE FOR SEX
Max of Seattle at Libido Lounge



Saturday, June 18, 2011
4:00 PM to 06:30 PM
where: Libido Lounge
address: members have our address, non members can email for it map
cost: $30 members, $35 non members / June 1 price increases by $5 for each class
dress code: no dress code - comfortable clothing advised

Description

Reservations and prepayment are mandatory, no tickets will be sold on the day of the event. Tickets are non refundable and non transferable.

Questions, Payment, Reservations: jennifer@libidoevents.com

Bondage for sex isn't as simple as you might think. It's easy to make mistakes - resulting in a perfectly nice bondage scene and no ready way to make the sex part work. We'll help you avoid this frustrating experience.

This workshop will get us right into the "what is sex" debate, and we'll be using a pretty liberal definition. Rest assured that we're NOT limiting the workshop to boy-girl penis-vagina sex here. As with all of Max's workshops this workshop is appropriate for all genders and orientations.

Topics to be covered include general considerations, a few useful knots and a variety of interesting positions.

We'll have instruction. We'll have demos. And yes - we'll have plenty of hands-on practice. Sorry - the demos and practice won't include actual sex -you'll have to stay for the party to practice the sex part.

Much of the class will consist of hands-on exercises so you'll have plenty of time to practice and enjoy what you've learned. And, as always, the handout distributed at the workshop will help you when you practice at home

If you can, come with a practice partner. If you don't have a partner, come anyway and we'll make sure you get a chance to practice the basic techniques. Rope Bottoms - this is your chance to meet some rope tops - come learn and get tied up!

Some rope will be provided for the workshop, but bring the following if you can

• (4) 10-foot pieces of 5/16" (8mm) or 3/8"
• (2) 30-foot piece of 5/16" (8mm) or 3/8"
This workshop assumes no previous bondage experience, and is appropriate for all genders and orientations.


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3. MEAN ROPE - Rope Skills for Sadists and Masochists
Max of Seattle at Libido Lounge



Sunday, June 19, 2011
1:00 PM to 03:30 PM
where: Libido Lounge
address: members have our address, non members can email for it map
cost: $30 members, $35 non members / June 1 price increases by $5 for each class
dress code: no dress code - comfortable clothing advised

Description

Reservations and prepayment are mandatory, no tickets will be sold on the day of the event. Tickets are non refundable and non transferable.

Questions, Payment, Reservations: jennifer@libidoevents.com

Many of us like rope bondage because it's pretty, sensual and intimate. Tops often like demonstrating their technical skills and bottoms often enjoy the firm, snug caress of the rope.

And some of us like being mean with our bondage - or like being tied up in mean ways.

Come learn more about using rope to produce powerful scenes and intense sensation.

We'll cover motivation, technique, safety and some style elements which complement this type of play.

Most of our time will be spent on demonstrations and discussion but there will be a few opportunities for hands-on practice.

If you're a top and part of your kinky repertoire is SM-based, you'll want to see how you can use rope to facilitate your scenes.

If you're a bottom and you crave the intensity of physically demanding scenes, you won't want to miss these demonstrations and discussions. You'll have opportunities to add to your skill set and mingle with a bunch of mean tops. And - Max will be looking for demo bottoms during the workshop.

A practice partner will be useful for the hands-on portions of the workshop but you'll also get lots out of this workshop if you come alone.

As with all of Max's workshops, there's a handout you can use as a memory aid when you're practicing at home.

Please bring two 30’ lengths of 6mm or 8mm rope and a few 15' lengths of 4mm if you can.

This workshop is appropriate for all skill levels and all genders / orientations. The emphasis is on learning and having fun.



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4. ROPE BONDAGE 201
Max of Seattle at Libido Lounge

Sunday, June 19, 2011
4:00 PM to 06:30 PM
where: Libido Lounge
address: members have our address, non members can email for it map
cost: $30 members, $35 non members / June 1 price increases by $5 for each class
dress code: no dress code - comfortable clothing advised

Description

Reservations and prepayment are mandatory, no tickets will be sold on the day of the event. Tickets are non refundable and non transferable.

Questions, Payment, Reservations: jennifer@libidoevents.com

So – you've learned the "fundamentals" and now you're ready for more.

This workshop helps you get to the next level by addressing the subtler topics which are applicable to most rope bondage scenes.

We'll talk about rope – types, diameters, strength – and we'll have plenty of rope on-hand to feel and evaluate.

We'll talk about resources for rope bondage – where to find rope, hardware, and information.

We'll talk about knots, and we'll practice some of the basic knots you'll use in your bondage scenes.

We'll talk about bondage positions - for fun, for pleasure, for pain, for sex, and for aesthetics.

And we'll talk about the "soft" parts of a bondage scene – things like rhythm, pace, connection, and showmanship. These are the things they never tell you in the books or on the web.

Much of the class will consist of hands-on exercises to help you get familiar with the material in a friendly, low-pressure environment. The emphasis is on learning, having fun, and building confidence.

If you can, come with a practice partner. If you don't have a partner, come anyway and we'll make sure you get a chance to practice the basic techniques. Rope Bottoms - this is your chance to meet some rope tops - come learn and get tied up!

Some rope will be provided for the workshop, but bring the following if you can

• (2) 10-foot pieces of 5/16" (8mm) or 3/8"
• (3) 30-foot piece of 5/16" (8mm) or 3/8"
This workshop assumes no previous bondage experience, and is appropriate for all genders and orientations.



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5. DUNGEON PLAYERS PARTY, Saturday June 18
“with guest of honor, Max"

Saturday, June 18, 2011
9:00 PM to 01:00 AM
where: Libido Lounge
address: members have our address, non members can email for it
cost: $30 members, $35 non members / $25 if attending all 4 classes
dress code: risque, fetish, kinky, fetish, lingerie, leather - no street wear, no jeans

Description

Libido Lounge is pleased to present our June Dungeon Party featuring Max from Seattle as our guest of honor.

Seeing as Max is presenting FOUR bondage classes over the weekend, we just knew all our guests would welcome the chance to party alongside him, send in your reservations and payment now.

Come take part, we welcome you.



DUNGEON PLAYERS PARTY
SATURDAY JUNE 18, 9 pm - 1 am
Members $30 / Member Couples $50 / Guest $35
Reservations: jennifer@libidoevents.com



SPECIAL GUEST THIS MONTH: MAX

Please note that you must also have your $25 cash renewal cost on you if your member number is PRE 850. And your renewal is good for 12 months.

Dungeon Players is a Naughty party with darker tenor. Of course everything you expect and are used to will be there -- the suspension rack, spankers, gyno table, red rocket, set of stocks, cage, sex machines, bondage table, A-frame and bondage chair -- but there'll also be an area set aside for needle play, and there may be a few surprises.

Spankings, Bondage, Floggings, Needle Play, D/s, a plethora of styles of play.

Wear your leathers, bring your slave or your top; come meet someone new or play with someone different -- either way you'll have an evening to remember.

Snacks and beverages are included in your ticket price.

Dress code: You MUST make an effort to dress up. No street clothes, no business suits, no blue jeans, no running shoes, no athletic wear, no camouflage pants, no flannel robes, no sunglasses, and no face masks. Bar/Dancing clothing is not acceptable.

This party is open to men and women, couples and singles. Any type of sex is of course permitted at this event.

Human Furniture Image

Me in 1998, sitting on the human chair and using the luscious human foot stool as part of a House Of Gord photo shoot. (one of many sets I modeled for them over time)

My life has been far from ordinary and remains extraordinary.

Human Furniture Photos

Note in the photo above, the lovely ass facing you. See the very large brand of the letter C. That is me in 1995 in a human bird cage, made by my then partner. (click photo to enlarge)

I am the woman on the left, restrained into a human chandelier with two other beauties. (click photo to enlarge)

Body Bag Bondage & E-Stim

It has to be about nine years ago now that I met my long time friend Z. We saw one another with regularity for years, then we stopped crossing paths for quite some time.

Recently while teaching at a local prison, there he was. A contractor doing work on the inside for the day. We were both equaually surprised to run across one another, especially considering our surroundings. As fate would have it, a few weeks later, he took me up on my offer and became a member of Libido Lounge along with his lovely partner L.

I am happy to be back in touch with each of them, as they are one of those lovely happy and in love type of couples who always look great together.

Recently they came to our bondage event Restraining Order and made a host of new friends. Obviously with personalities like theirs, this was an easy enough task.

They showed up ready to play on the night in question. Two big black toy bags accompany them, Z carried one in each hand as they arrived through our doors.

We all sat around making chit chat for about twenty minutes or so, before play began to break out around us. Then Z opened one of his bags and pulled out a splendid eye catching full length black leather body bag.

So many people in the space suddenly gravitated towards it. People asking questions about it, touching it, and caught up in it's obvious meaning. What a toy to own, expensive, niche and not for the faint of heart. Lovely, just lovely.

Z made his way to the restroom and returned in Superman underwear. He looked adorable. L had a smile from ear to ear as she told us tales of how they integrate it into their sex play while at home. Mesmerized we all were indeed.

The body bag then was laid out on top of our huge black padded cage and L spent the time to zip, strap and tie in Z so he would be immobilized.

I got caught up in talking in another room and when I returned I was tickled to note that Z was no longer distinguishable from within his suit, even his head was zipped in and covered now too.

With great interest I watched as L unzipped a small zipper around his cock and balls, then wrapped them in an elastic followed by a velcro strap which held in place a precious electrode to his perinieum thus being attached to an e-stim box. What a toy indeed. The entire package looked as though it should be an adveristement in a Mr.S catalogue. The visual was enticing and glorious for the sadist in me and for every masochist present too.

Gleefully when invited to, I pressed the magical button that zapped his taint with a jolt of electricity and listened as his muffled scream of protest was barely audible. His toes shook in the bottom on the body bag, but nothing more. I repeated this act many times over before adding my own perverted twist to his quandry.

Grabbing a very large and sharp hunting knife, I told Z of my plans. Simply, I am going to insert this pointy item down your urethra as far as it will go. Then with a steady hand I will hold it in place as I jolt your sensitive bits with electricity again. Your job: NOT TO MOVE AT ALL, or well, bad things could seriously happen having grave results. No joke!

Somehow I could smell terrified oozing out of the poor man. L was looking pleased at my plan, and watched intently as I then did just as I had promised. Other women came over to watch too, because well torturing a penis is just so much fun.

After a few minutes, I grabbed hold of yet another idea. Selecting an acrylic paddle, it was placed solidly under his tied tight scrotum, then with a fish bonker in the other hand, I smashed his balls firmly and exquistely. This seemed very popular, for many others wanted to catch sight of what I was doing too. Z just laid there absorbing each stroke and savoring all of the attention being bestowed upon him, he may well have been gasping in pain but thankfully the body bag prevented me from knowing such details.

There are times where my kinky life is indescribable to outsiders, some things you simply just must witness to actually understand the magnitude of. This was one of those scenes.

L and Z did some checking in with one another and I wandered off to clean my toys, leaving the couple back on their own. A short while later I saw Z with a shit eating grin wandering out of the bathroom looking high on endorphins, and I knew his trip through masochism had been time well spent.


It didn't take long either before both Z and L had enjoyed a snack and drink and I watched in awe as Z was tied spread eagled inside our suspension rack for a little ball busting and a flogging. Watching others use the Lounges equipment for their pleasure always leaving me feeling good.

It always amazes me what restraining someone will permit their minds to accept in the name of pleasure. There was so much unusual bondage happening on this particular evening that with all my time spent with Z & L, I actually missed some of the other deviant play that had transpired.

The next morning I awoke to a sincere thank you note from the couple, expressing their gratitude for an evening well spent in bondage amongst friends.

My job and world are the best ever.

Orgasmic Bondage

It came to be that sitting in front of me recently was a rather hot couple, perhaps a few years older than myself. The woman was stunning and certainly not a shy flower. After a few minutes of us all chatting I boldly invited her to play.

Just my luck she said yes without missing a beat. Then as she was removing her mid thigh length black coat I was mesmerized with her sheer and fishnet teddy that left everything visible to my roaming eyes. Her knee high black heeled come-fuck-me boots were the icing on my cake, most certainly.

Beautiful as she looked in her outfit, it needed to be removed. She had to be nude in order to properly enjoy my ministrations. With swift speed she made herself naked and I sighed with delight.

I positioned her in front of the stripper pole, so the pole was snugly between her perfect creamy butt cheeks. Then with a large roll of pallet wrap in hand I wound it tightly round and round her body, mummifying her to the pole rendering her unable to free herself.

With scissors in hand I startegically cut the bindings that covered her perk nipples and with mouth and fingers worked them free - the visual was glorious.

Her partner is nibbling away at her neck, I am sucking on her nipples and she is writhing in a way that says she will soon explode in bliss. Out of her mouth escapes a pleasurable moan that can only be described as orgasmic.

Grabbing scissors again, I cut the area around her genitals making them accessible next. Then placing a blindfold over her eyes, I gather together a few tools to further the sensations she's receiving.

Her man is necking with her, and I slip a vibrator between her pussy lips and start circling her clitoris. The sounds she makes and the bucking makes it evident that I am doing something that is pushing her towards nirvana. The dam bursts and with her head rolling from side to side, she cums hard on my hand.

I lube up my gloved hand and insert my fingers into her slick pussy and start prodding her G-Spot, she makes appreciative noises, then asks me to slow down. I comply. Then as I am working over her pleasure spot she starts gasping, turning shades of purple and gyrating. Within a minute her orgasm is massive and she is tousled looking and breathless.

She asks to be freed. We remove her blindfold, then cut her out of the restraints. Shaking slightly, she is walked back to the sofa, where she sits and cuddles with her man.

Cleaning my toys I look over and witness the two of them bonding together over what was most certainly a new experience for each of them. It made me feel good to see them sharing such a moment and to know I had played a part to their happiness.

Bondage & Fire Play

Restraining Order is the Lounges informal bondage night and tonight for three hours everyone gathered together to hang out and do some bondage.

A long time friend attended, and since Jason was busy self suspending himself I made the decision to play with Jeff. (a pseudonym)

I bound him to the top of our long padded bondage cage with multiple strands of pink and greeen 8 mm hemp rope. Face up, legs splayed, arms tightly bent, and each limb independently anchored down to render him immobilized.

I plugged in my violet wand, and ran it over his balls ... he writhed. I laughed. Then as I ran it over the sisal I had tied his balls with, the rope caught fire. Just-a-little. A small wee bit of smoke, some sparks and the smell of burnt rope. And maybe the smell of burnt pubes.

It was sort of amusing, watching the look of horror on his face and he fretted over whether or not his jewels were about to be fried. So not the case. By turning off the wand, the fire went out immediately.

He lived, was not burned and even enjoyed our play scene. Some times the play that is the most fun, is the stuff that is not planned or orchestrated.

Lee Harrington Vancouver

Tonight we put an offer on a house that we really want. It meets all our needs. Surpasses all our expectations. Has some beautiful surprises. The yard is divine. And is in our budget. Life is a roller coaster ride right now for certain.

Tomorrow Lee Harrington arrives. Oh my the weekend of bondage classes, D/s class, Gender class and Bondage Party is a stellar line up indeed. Are you reserved yet for any of these exciting events.

For the record, I am still bleeding a little. Saturday early morning I return to the hospital for more testing. At this point, only time will tell how things are. We are anxious and hopeful all will turn out as it should be.

Thank you everyone for the outpouring of love and support that has filled my in box the last couple of days.

Lee Harrington, Bondage Class

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Hot Women Photo's

I have good friends, and we like to get tied up together, for shits and giggles.

These photos are from two different photo sets, the same day, with the same models but different outfits.

Me, and PG.

Pregnant Sexy Women

Photo's are from last weeks shoot: Enjoy!

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It's happened, and it is a first. One of our Lounge Members (and a friend too) gave birth this evening. I am so happy for her and her new born daughter right about now. The past few hours I have been floating around awaiting news of the arrival of the bundle of love.

This is the first baby to be born from the Lounge, and the child spent many, many nights with us at parties as her mother spent time at our parties. We won't be seeing the baby around obviously for 19 years now, and her mother should be back around in a few months.

I want to be next, the next pregnant woman and the next to have a baby.

Tormenting a Bound Man

Last night was Restraining Order, and we had a great turn out. Once of our regulars even came by with a check and purchased a Life Time Membership - what a smart man. I tied up a very handsome long time friend, and then I had him artfully installed in the sex swing frame, spread eagle. It turned out rather beautiful I must say.

When he was settled into the bondage safely and I had tied my last knot, he was looking rather vulnerable so, I took advantage of him. I tormented with my large fishing / hunting knife with a gut hook, creeping it down his piss slit as he had no choice but to be very, very still. For his own good you see. I took a wartenburg and ran it all over his body, and then grabbed a second one and used them both at once over his cock, balls and perineum. Since he was blindfolded, he really was clueless as to what was ever going to happening next.


I found myself so happy at one point that I couldn't help but start to slap his cock and balls around, soft, then hard and harder, with the big knife. Then just with my firm hand. Funny, it made his bits swell and get excited. Who would have guessed!

Then I sat on his face, while I used a small strap on his body and punched his chest. This was most memorable - his hot breath on my crotch, while I pummeled him was quite sexy for me. Not sure how it was for him exactly, but I do know that he never asked to be let out. Go figure.

I couldn't help but clamp his nipples and then playing with those compressed little buttons of sensitivity. He squirmed a lot from this, and even tried to move. So, I started biting him. Soft little nibbles and then painful little mouth fulls that had him levitating in his bound pose. This brought a smile to my face and a large grimace to his.

After I untied him finally from his torment, I went and got him a nice piece of caramel apple pie - he ate it all and seemed quite grateful. As when the last bit of pie was gone, I found myself sitting between his legs. His skilled hands, grabbed my neck and shoulders and he worked out with massage countless muscles knots for the next twenty minutes or so. The massage was just lovely and a great chance for him to come back to earth after our scene together.

The night was a great one indeed. Everywhere one looked, people were playing together and sharing skills, that is what the Lounge is about: education, play and the social aspect of it all. Community.

Bondage Workshop Vancouver

Earlier today was spent making turkey soup and doing the inevitable paperwork attached to running two businesses. Not so much fun, but if I don't do it regularly, our accountant cracks her whip and reminds me to get it done as per her orders. I do listen to this woman, she knows way more than I do and I bow down to her knowledge in this case.

Now here I sit in the back room at The Lounge, while fourteen people are in the main room with Jim teaching his Bondage For Sex workshop.

A great group of people all gathered together to learn new skills to apply to their bedroom play antics. There is laughter going on and a lot of rope in the room, making for good times and an awesome educational opportunity.

My assistant is here tonight and is lending me a hand, getting some of the new site stuff worked on. I'd really like to get the old site down tomorrow and have it gone for good, I am so done with it. It will be such a relief to work only with the new one, as well, this is all completed in time for my Taboo Sex show tour and subsequent media interviews.

I'll be home around ten-thirty this evening and hopefully will have a chance to get to bed some what early. Last night I had the most bizarre dreams imaginable. In fact, this has been happening a lot lately. My dreams were off children infiltrating our bathhouse event, and me trying to escape out of a house by climbing out the air vent attached to the stove. And something about a person being fried in a frying pan. See what I mean? Intensely odd dreams that make no sense and are actually starting to bother me because I can not decipher them.

Blog post is now over and I shall resume working on the list of items awaiting me.

Keeping Up

It's already October, who can believe it???!!!? :::gasp:::

Some days, ever which way I turn I feel lost. Sadly a lot of today has been like this.

I slept shitty and placed blame wrongly on the man in my life, when *apparently* what woke me as I had just drifted off to sleep was not him. Uhh ... sorry sweetie.

Due to said horrid sleep, I was up and out of the house at the ungodly hour of 8:45 AM. I managed to run my morning errands in the city and be done with them in remarkably short order. Having returned a box of art to a local photographer in time for an exhibit she is apart of this weekend. Since we took down her "woman art" from our walls she is giving us "man art" next. I'm really excited to see everyone's reactions to the new series.

A stop off at the local sushi haunt, to get my daughter something special for dinner. RC and I have Deviant Dining this evening, so I just knew she'd appreciate a surprise for herself to eat.

Off to the post box to unload it into my purse, and then a run into the produce market and the butchers. Like I said, it was errand morning, sometimes this shit just has to get done.

Then I promptly came home, unpacked everything into the fridge, and crawled right back into bed for a 90 minute nap. Yup, another nap in the middle of the day and necessary to boot, as I'm still fighting this crapastic bug that won't let its hold on me go already.

I awoke just in time to notice that there were three calls on my cell that all required urgent attention. One call had such worrying news that RC threw on clothes and we were out of the house in panic mode in under 3 minutes to prevent a crisis. Both of our hearts were pounding as we tended to this high level emergency. Thankfully we had it under control in less than 2 hours and were able to return home again.

Now my guy bought 1200 feet of delicious hemp rope recently and has been dying, cutting and oiling it now with much gusto. Everything RC does, he does well and the rope is just another example of how fast he learns new skill sets to ... perfection. You can't tell his rope dying, oiling and cutting from any of the big named sources out there.

I'm cooking a roast with peppers right now, for dinner this evening at The Lounge and am already all dressed, and in a skirt even. My feet are adorned with a brand new pair of Steve Madden shoes in purple, one of the two pair RC bought me in Seattle last weekend.

Now off to Deviant Dining!

Jay Wiseman in Vancouver

I picked up Jay Wiseman early today and have him with me safely here in Vancouver. We went out for a fabulous lunch with his home stay hosts this afternoon.

Tonight is the big Pride meeting for all participants, which is of course, where RC and I are off to next. Today has been one important meeting after another.

Of course we hope to have you in one of the Wiseman classes we'll be offering over the next two days. (before the bondage party and social Friday evening which of course he is the Guest of Honor at)

Below is the information on the classes he is teaching, the dates, times, and class write ups.



Libido Events Proudly brings you ...

JAY WISEMAN has arrived in Vancouver and is teaching classes Wednesday July 30 & Thursday July 31st
read his full biography below

Author of the Erotic Bondage Handbook & SM 101 A Realistic Introduction
Venue: The Love Nest 4687 Kingsway Burnaby
(coin pay parking can be found on the street & its free to park directly across the street tat Metrotown mall)

Tickets $30 cash per class ~ no advance sales
Questions jennifer@libidoevents.com







July 30 Wednesday 7:00 - 10:00pm
SM 101 - A Realistic Introduction

Its known by a number of names: SM, BDSM, sadomasochism, B&D, and several more. What is it, exactly? Whats involved? How can somebody enjoy pain? Dont those who do it get hurt? Were these people abused as children? Jay Wiseman, author of one of the best selling how to books on the subject, will talk about the myths and realities of this intense form of eroticism. Topics covered will include an overview of what is (and what is not) involved, consent and negotiation, basic techniques, psychological aspects, safety measures, commonly used items of equipment, and aftercare. He will even give you a few tips on how you might start doing your own explorations.




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July 31 Thursday 7:00 - 10:00pm
Predicament Bondage - a hands on class
* bring your rope (if you have some) & a partner too

What is the essence of a predicament? What are the four basic types of predicaments? How does motivational psychology apply to predicament bondage? What are the unique hazards and benefits? Come learn the principles of predicament bondage, including a live demonstration of each type of predicament!

Bring along your bondage questions and practice the answer in the Interactive portion.


ABOUT JAY ...

Jay Wiseman has over 30 years of experience in BDSM and was one of the early pioneers and builders of the BDSM community in the San Francisco area. He continues to be heavily involved, both in his local area and nationally, as an SM author, educator, mentor, workshop leader, expert witness, and activist. Noted for being both an exceptionally knowledgeable and a highly entertaining presenter, he is highly in demand and has presented on various aspects of relationships and sexuality in more than 45 cities in the United States and Canada. In 2007, Black Rose voted him National Educator of the Year.

Jay is the author of the frequently recommended book "SM 101: A Realistic Introduction" and the founder of the publishing company that later became Greenery Press. His book, "Jay Wiseman's Erotic Bondage Handbook" is widely hailed as the book that sets the standard of fundamental knowledge for this practice. His instructional videos on rope bondage are excellent resources for both beginners and experienced bondage practitioners. His most recent book, "The Toybag Guide to Dungeon Emergencies and Supplies" provides crucial information to both players and dungeon monitors. He is currently working on a number of books and videos.

Jay holds a first-degree black belt in Tae Kwon Do, is a member of Mensa, and lived in San Francisco's Haight-Ashbury district during the Sixties. A former ambulance crewman with years of experience, and recipient of the highest Red Cross commendation for lifesaving action, Jay now teaches classes in basic and advanced emergency medical care for BDSM clubs and other groups. He is also a part-time law school professor. His areas of special legal interest include providing legal support for alternative communities, search and seizure law, and conflict resolution.

Jays Website.

Bondage Events Vancouver

At this unsightly hour I should really be fast asleep, alas this is not in the cards for me quite yet.

Last nights Deviant Dining was a real blast. The food delicious, the desserts massive, conversation non-stop and the poetry would have blown your knickers of you. The woman who read, did such a splendid job, it was absolutely lovely and sexy as hell all at once.

I have cramps, the type that require a loading dose of pain medication ( three pills) and a top up (another two), before the required time .... by an hour. Cramps suck. Having my period on a weekend with no events is sure good planning on my behalf though. I do need to remember to program iWoman on my iPhone. Must do this before I go to sleep.



iWoman will automatically figure out the duration of your period and the number of days in your cycle. This is such an incredible application and very helpful too women. From there you can put in more specific information for every day of your period. More ....


Libido Lounge now has a Live Journal Site where you can read me. Try having a look over here, if you prefer the style of LJ, or you can just keep reading me here on blogspot. Information on both is the same for the most part, though the long-term-plan for the reasoning behind all of this is being closely guarded.

I have a 9 AM appointment. Another at 1:0o PM and a final one at 3, then I get to come home and ready myself for this evenings bondage event. Restraining Order. I'm wiped out just thinking about this all, perhaps I should go to bed now and start resting up.

Good night!

bondage is the point

Today was about shopping

It could be said that two new dresses found their way into my collection. Ok, and a pair of shoes. And yes, even a few more things, but I won't go in to details.

RC and Allena brought me home a new ride em sex toy, worth $600. I rode it already. It was fun. I have now placed an order for one for Libido Lounge. Yup, it was that good, and I am that convinced. I am a hard-sell and yet this toy just goes beyond all expectations I could have for it.

In just a couple of hours, we are off to an event here in Seattle called Bondage is the Point. It is hosted by The Center for Sex Positive Culture. Allena, RC and I are going together. With rope bags in hand we shall see what tickles our fancy.

I have a gorgeous pair of Steve Madden shoes to put on, along with a dress that will make removal swift and easy should opportunity arrive for me to get naked for some reason or another.

Restraining Order, bondage Vancouver

It can be said that I do well with structure and routine. Hosting events on a regular night of the week, bi monthly is starting to grow on me. Like, a lot.

It was Restraining Order, our bondage night tonight, and wow did we ever have fun. Most everyone played, it was a real hoot. I have no idea how things got rolling but once they did, they ran through till it was past closing. A very cute girl got tied to the bondage chair. Someone brought their Humbler. Chest harnesses were a plenty. A couple tied together, her on top him, both of them legs splayed, on the bondage table.

The new lay-out is working well for people and I think this gave us more freedom to move about. Somehow I found myself locked inside a cage and being poked by silly perverts with bamboo skewers. I laughed so much my sides hurt.

Some new faces at RO as well, the night is developing its own crowd and energy. We are now realizing that the night as of May should be 3 hours long instead of two and half to give every one more time to play and hang out with friends.

Restraining Order

This Thursday March 1, you better plan on attending. Because this may well be our fastest growing, and exciting regular weekday event yet.


Restraining Order - play and social event

You might be fit to be tied or tied to be fit. You might be very, very knotty or a complete rope novice. You can have a hankering to be bound and suspended or an interest in learning the perfect hog tie. What matters most is that you’ve got an interest in bondage and would like to spend a casual evening with like minded individuals.

Restraining Order is Libido Lounge’s twice monthly Bondage Night, a light and fun evening of snacks, socializing and the possibility of making the acquaintance of truly intriguing souls with a shared interest. Couples, singles, men and women are welcome. Bring your bondage gear and a willing spirit. You might learn something new or teach something new, but one thing is hoped, you’ll enjoy yourself!

Bondage aficionados are generally keen to show off their skills, so Restraining Order is a great place to learn if you’ve always wondered about tying up a partner or being tied up yourself. Ask questions; you’ll find out favourite rope lengths, dying methods, materials and the benefits of each.


Venue: L.L.C. MEMBERS ONLY

DROP - IN / $25 cash per person, or $40 per couple
Life Time Members $5
Cash Pay at door

Queer & Bondage Night

Have you heard of or even seen in print, this new acronym?

LGBTIQQ

It stands for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans gendered, Inter sexed, Queer, and Questioning.

What a bloody mouth full.

Was the LGTB acronym not inclusiveness enough as it was originally? Of course it was. Though some person felt left out of that demographic obviously and now this lengthy abc mouthful is what is before us.

I am a bio born female with girlie genitalia, who is a mother of a child because of penetrative intercourse with a man.

Heterosexual is not a word that fits any description of me. I have not been heterosexual in eons, and always find the word unsettling when people accidentally put me in that category.

Though I *can* identify as a bisexual, because I am attracted to women and have sex with them regularly, being labeled as bi sexual just does not embrace all the dimensions of my sexuality. Note that I have a primary partner in a man.

In my adult life I have had sex with WAY more women than men by a long shot and will continue to do so.

When I fall either in love or in lust I do NOT do so because of my perception of the other persons gender, OR what I believe to be between their legs.

If I find someone hot, it is based on the connection we make with eye contact and our sexual energy that we exchange, and not on the bits between the legs.

Whatever happens to be between some one legs will be what I play with. I don't ask questions about gender when it comes time to play with some one in sex space that I am attracted to. Well other than the obvious of " So what can I do to make you feel really good?"

This is what makes me QUEER.

Now that is a word that resonates well.

QUEER, that's me!

As a queer woman, I support every persons right to love and pleasure however you can create it for yourself.

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RESTRAINING ORDER bondage enthusiasts: social & play time
April 17 Thursday

7:00 - 9:30pm


Venue: L.L.C. MEMBERS ONLY - DROP - IN
$25 cash per person, or $40 per couple Life Time Members $5
Cash Pay at door

Have an interest in bondage or restraint? This is the night for you,
sit back and watch others play and engage in stimulating bondage talk
or set yourself up for some play if you are so inclined.

A bondage enthusiasts casual evening of social & play time. Learn
some new tricks, tie some one up or be tied up. Meet new people,
enjoy light snacks & drinks and frolic in the facility as we will be
set up specifically for your bondage pleasure.

Event Rules will be posted when you arrive. Please ensure you read
them carefully before you begin your night.

Arrive when you can and leave when you are ready,
from this Drop-In event.

Open to Men & Women, Couples & Singles and assumes no level of
experience. All are welcome.

Bring your bondage gear. No dress code though note these items as
being *not* permitted: No flannel robes.
No sunglasses and no face masks.

last nights date

Jim & I slept in, waking & rolling out of bed just after 11:00 this morning. We'd been out the night before to dinner together, my man arriving at my door with a vase full of bright flowers for me, his girl and wearing the seductive smile of a partner filled with want.


After a leisurely dinner at one of our favorite places to eat we went to a play party and had some much needed fun. Jim tying me up securely in rope and then inverting me from my hips and attaching each arm to a length of bamboo and hoisting me into the air and off of the suspension frame.

He swung me gently for awhile, laying underneath me on the floor on his back, kissing me tenderly as I flew by unable to do anything but what he made me. Later with force he swung me to and fro leaving me to breath through my nostrils only so as to avoid vomiting. More tender kisses, a shift of position with removal of the bamboo pool and inverting me now from my spread thighs and then he played mean.

Pulled out a single tail and was throwing it at me and hitting me in horridly painful areas. Like my calf, shins and toes! Damn it! My masochism has been needing nurturing as of late and both it and I rejoiced in the attention.


Catching up with few people only, together we spent the better part of our date night just concentrated on one another. Of course there were certain friends with whom we had to say a special hello but our energy and focus was on each other.

Leaving at an early hour we headed home, for sex & cuddling. An excellent end to date night.