Each evening I lay my head on the chest of the same man as I fall asleep. It is an intoxicating feeling to know that no matter who else we may each play with, that every night, we are together. Our love is not dependent on owning one another in monogamy, rather on mutual respect, lust, admiration and similar interests.
We as a couple are readying for a baby, and the time is now. There are big changes taking place in our lives and the chance for us to share our love, family and lives with a wee one is finally upon us.
I am eager to swell with our child inside of me. Hungry to labor with the man I love and my daughter encouraging me. Longing to breastfeed again. Anticipating with great joy the the first few years of rapid growth.
The trepidations I faced as a young mother, are no longer and have long since faded. Confidence, faith and a strong support system make this time round of baby readying, so easy for me to feel at ease.
RC has given me a stronger foundation than I ever could have thought possible. It is his love, the love of my other partners and the love of my daughter that makes it easy for me to move forward with huge life decisions without fear.
Times are changing, and I'm excited.
Jennifer ... Vancouver's Sex Educator, Sexuality Coach and Activist. The content of this blog is not suited for those under the age of 18. What you'll find here is a written account of my personal journey in sex positive culture both personally and professionally.
Saturday, February 28, 2009
Friday, February 27, 2009
Membership Sale
Mark you calendars and send in your reservations now.
Member Orientation this Tuesday March 3 is on sale, so get yourself a friend, pair up and become Members of the Lounge for the sale price of 2 people for $60, that is a $20 savings.
Read this thoroughly on all that we offer as Libido Events & Libido Lounge.
Mandatory Orientation for any person seeking a membership with Libido Lounge. We are a pan sexual facility, open to women & men, couples & singles 19 years +.
Libido Lounge Membership Information
Member Orientation this Tuesday March 3 is on sale, so get yourself a friend, pair up and become Members of the Lounge for the sale price of 2 people for $60, that is a $20 savings.
TUESDAY MARCH 3rd 7:00 -9:00 PM
NEW MEMBER ORIENTATION
presented by Jennifer & Jason
Venue: Libido Lounge, North Burnaby
Reservations: jennifer@libidoevents.com
Cost: Cash $40 person / photo ID necessary
Open to All Genders, Couples and Singles
NEW MEMBER ORIENTATION
presented by Jennifer & Jason
Venue: Libido Lounge, North Burnaby
Reservations: jennifer@libidoevents.com
Cost: Cash $40 person / photo ID necessary
Open to All Genders, Couples and Singles
Read this thoroughly on all that we offer as Libido Events & Libido Lounge.
Mandatory Orientation for any person seeking a membership with Libido Lounge. We are a pan sexual facility, open to women & men, couples & singles 19 years +.
Libido Lounge Membership Information
Thursday, February 26, 2009
Hot Women Photo's
I have good friends, and we like to get tied up together, for shits and giggles.These photos are from two different photo sets, the same day, with the same models but different outfits.
Me, and PG.
Wednesday, February 25, 2009
Body Modification Vancouver
I am pierced, then again most women are. As an often rite of passage many wee baby girls and girls or in some cases young women have each ear pierced so earrings can be worn. It most happens in the center of the lobe, hurts temporarily and heals in relatively short order with little stress.
My story was the same, my mother had them done when I was so young, that I have absolutely no recollection of it even happening to me.
Then as a young woman, a few years after my daughters birth, I surprised myself with a desire to do something edgy, something out there, that would be sexy for both myself and hopefully the man in my life at the time. I drove myself downtown and sat back in a chair in a studio, and let someone poke another hole in my body. This time, in my navel leaving me with a cute shiny belly button piercing.
This piercing look a long time to heal, at least a year. It sits right in the crease where you bend, and the seam of my jeans was forever rubbing against it. It oozed an unsightly colored puss forever it seemed. After the pain I felt of the piercing happening, there was no way that I was going to give up on it. I dealt with it daily until it was no longer an issue and to this day, it hangs from the center of my tummy as a reminder of the first piercing I consensually agreed to.
Imagine my surprise about a year later as I found myself laying tied to a medical table, surrounded by a large audience as I was branded with two huge strikes from a 1800 degree branding iron. That burning mark ten years later is still etched into the flesh of my right hip and the memory like the inscription will never fade. The pain was beyond unbearable and the healing process was gruesome, graphic, nauseating and months long.
About another year later, the itch to adorn my body was upon me again, and I started pondering the idea of a tattoo. It took some time, but an idea and an image finally resonated with me strongly enough that I felt it was time to put ink onto my skin. After booking myself into a tattoo parlor I came away with a symbol that represented my growing interest in my own sexuality and the exploration of it.
It didn't take but another year, for me to have a piece added to my original tattoo, the idea came to me suddenly and I wanted it and went for it. Happy I was to feel strong enough about something to want to see it on my body forever.
There were no more body modifications for a few years, then it seemed that every where I looked there was this growing popularity with a certain piercing. I found myself torn over getting my nipples pierced, and sat on the idea for a while. In the end, the itch won out and I hired someone to do each of my nipples. It was not something that I would do again, my so sensitive nipples were irate with my decision to have jewelry put in them and they took months and months time to heal. With no one being allowed near them either. Now though I really am pleased with how they look.
My body had a break for about the next five years with no mods done to it. I was really to busy professionally to think about anything and it just fell to the back burner. Till about eighteen months ago.
I started to want my genitals pierced and decorated in some fashion. But I was scared shitless and did not want to suffer any damage or prolonged pain to the area that affords me so much pleasure. It was not hard for me to convince all the women in my world with similar piercings to show me theirs, all I had to do was ask, and they would whip theirs out and tell me all about why they choose the ones they did and the explanation behind the placements of the many different types that are out there.
One thing was certain, if my girly bits were getting adorned, it would be one poke and not two. And since I like symmetry that meant that doing the labia lips was ruled out. It became evident that a clitoral hood piercing was in my horizon.
So it happened that on a cold night in November I had a vertical hood piercing done. The same man who did my nipples years before had now done my clitoral hood. It hurt intensely for, oh, say about, five minutes. Then not really that much. Truth be told, the next morning it did not bother me any longer.
Now it's a new year and I can not think of any part I want to have pierced, but I am brought back to reminiscing on one of the decorative pieces that feels unfinished. It is time for me to go and update my tattoo. It requires a new POP, some color baby, something to really make it stand out. I want it to scream with pride, as when it was originally done, it was done in black as I was feeling still, can you believe it, just a tad-bit-conservative.
Yup, I grown a lot over the years. My body has aged, my interests are more varied and my conservative ways have in many cases diminished. It's time to go back to my roots and brighten up a tattoo from my youthful starting point of body modifications.
I polled my friends and some general perverts I know a short while ago, for the recommendations as to where in town is the best place to go for coloring, and they gave me a great number of suggestions.
My feet hit the pavement next week, and I hope to have the tattoo work done in short order.
As a side note, know that unless you saw me naked, or topless, you would never ever see any of my body modifications aside from my pierced ears.
My story was the same, my mother had them done when I was so young, that I have absolutely no recollection of it even happening to me.
Then as a young woman, a few years after my daughters birth, I surprised myself with a desire to do something edgy, something out there, that would be sexy for both myself and hopefully the man in my life at the time. I drove myself downtown and sat back in a chair in a studio, and let someone poke another hole in my body. This time, in my navel leaving me with a cute shiny belly button piercing.
This piercing look a long time to heal, at least a year. It sits right in the crease where you bend, and the seam of my jeans was forever rubbing against it. It oozed an unsightly colored puss forever it seemed. After the pain I felt of the piercing happening, there was no way that I was going to give up on it. I dealt with it daily until it was no longer an issue and to this day, it hangs from the center of my tummy as a reminder of the first piercing I consensually agreed to.
Imagine my surprise about a year later as I found myself laying tied to a medical table, surrounded by a large audience as I was branded with two huge strikes from a 1800 degree branding iron. That burning mark ten years later is still etched into the flesh of my right hip and the memory like the inscription will never fade. The pain was beyond unbearable and the healing process was gruesome, graphic, nauseating and months long.
About another year later, the itch to adorn my body was upon me again, and I started pondering the idea of a tattoo. It took some time, but an idea and an image finally resonated with me strongly enough that I felt it was time to put ink onto my skin. After booking myself into a tattoo parlor I came away with a symbol that represented my growing interest in my own sexuality and the exploration of it.
It didn't take but another year, for me to have a piece added to my original tattoo, the idea came to me suddenly and I wanted it and went for it. Happy I was to feel strong enough about something to want to see it on my body forever.
There were no more body modifications for a few years, then it seemed that every where I looked there was this growing popularity with a certain piercing. I found myself torn over getting my nipples pierced, and sat on the idea for a while. In the end, the itch won out and I hired someone to do each of my nipples. It was not something that I would do again, my so sensitive nipples were irate with my decision to have jewelry put in them and they took months and months time to heal. With no one being allowed near them either. Now though I really am pleased with how they look.
My body had a break for about the next five years with no mods done to it. I was really to busy professionally to think about anything and it just fell to the back burner. Till about eighteen months ago.
I started to want my genitals pierced and decorated in some fashion. But I was scared shitless and did not want to suffer any damage or prolonged pain to the area that affords me so much pleasure. It was not hard for me to convince all the women in my world with similar piercings to show me theirs, all I had to do was ask, and they would whip theirs out and tell me all about why they choose the ones they did and the explanation behind the placements of the many different types that are out there.
One thing was certain, if my girly bits were getting adorned, it would be one poke and not two. And since I like symmetry that meant that doing the labia lips was ruled out. It became evident that a clitoral hood piercing was in my horizon.
So it happened that on a cold night in November I had a vertical hood piercing done. The same man who did my nipples years before had now done my clitoral hood. It hurt intensely for, oh, say about, five minutes. Then not really that much. Truth be told, the next morning it did not bother me any longer.
Now it's a new year and I can not think of any part I want to have pierced, but I am brought back to reminiscing on one of the decorative pieces that feels unfinished. It is time for me to go and update my tattoo. It requires a new POP, some color baby, something to really make it stand out. I want it to scream with pride, as when it was originally done, it was done in black as I was feeling still, can you believe it, just a tad-bit-conservative.
Yup, I grown a lot over the years. My body has aged, my interests are more varied and my conservative ways have in many cases diminished. It's time to go back to my roots and brighten up a tattoo from my youthful starting point of body modifications.
I polled my friends and some general perverts I know a short while ago, for the recommendations as to where in town is the best place to go for coloring, and they gave me a great number of suggestions.
My feet hit the pavement next week, and I hope to have the tattoo work done in short order.
As a side note, know that unless you saw me naked, or topless, you would never ever see any of my body modifications aside from my pierced ears.
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
Drug Consumption in BDSM
Yesterday was a photo shoot at The Lounge where another model, myself, a rigger and a photographer gathered for just over three hours to snap bondage images together. The young hot model T and myself go way back, making it a real pleasure to be tied up with her for the camera.
We struck some awesome poses and had numerous great laughs over moments between photos. All good clean fun for two girly girls who love bondage and one another. My man arrived a short while into the shoot as he stopped by following his work day. It was helpful to have him there, he acted as a Fluffer and and as a general helper to the models and the rigger.
We got home at a decent enough hour for me to spend a short while on the computer before bed. There is a currently a debate going on-line over drug & alcohol use at public BDSM events. (NOT AT LIBIDO LOUNGE) I of course am anti drug & booze use at said events, both for attendees and for those that over see the play that happens in such facilities.
Can you image playing in a BDSM context in a facility where the monitors in charge of watching over everyone and their scenes are stoned on marijuana? How absurd and how thoughtless. Would you want to take direction from a stoned person? Message me your thoughts would you.
jennifer@libidoevents.com
Here are some of the idiotic statements people have been throwing around...
It really is laughable and disturbing at the same time that some people think that playing while high is acceptable. I could keep cut and pasting dumb statements from others, but I've not the time for this.
What I am interested in is this.
Do you think that monitors at BDSM clubs who are using drugs should be permitted to oversee the safety of others?
Would you feel comfortable and safe walking into a BDSM facility and seeing others smoking up out front, or in their cars and then entering the building and smelling the ripe smell of marijuana on others?
Apparently my stance on this is too harsh for some, which is fine by me, as The Lounge runs on the premise of NO DRUG USE EVER, by anyone.
In our year of our operation we've had one event with alcohol and it was new years eve. If you wanted to drink you could, however only four drinks, served by us, and you were given drink tickets. We knew who each person who drank was, what they drank and the potency as their were NO mixed drinks. We also served a huge amount of food and each person upon entering that night had to relinquish their vehicle keys. So, to reiterate, 0.005% of our events in 12 months of operation have had a measurable and track-able alcohol consumption.
Thanks for playing along and I do want and value your feedback.
jennifer@libidoevents.com
_____________________________________
FOR THOSE IN THE KNOW - YOU'LL APPRECIATE THIS....
Madge, is kinda stinky! Hmm, I think I recognize her scent as being someone with a different name.
We struck some awesome poses and had numerous great laughs over moments between photos. All good clean fun for two girly girls who love bondage and one another. My man arrived a short while into the shoot as he stopped by following his work day. It was helpful to have him there, he acted as a Fluffer and and as a general helper to the models and the rigger.
We got home at a decent enough hour for me to spend a short while on the computer before bed. There is a currently a debate going on-line over drug & alcohol use at public BDSM events. (NOT AT LIBIDO LOUNGE) I of course am anti drug & booze use at said events, both for attendees and for those that over see the play that happens in such facilities.
Can you image playing in a BDSM context in a facility where the monitors in charge of watching over everyone and their scenes are stoned on marijuana? How absurd and how thoughtless. Would you want to take direction from a stoned person? Message me your thoughts would you.
jennifer@libidoevents.com
Here are some of the idiotic statements people have been throwing around...
- Some may think that pot smoking near a club sets a bad example,* and some people may think is sets a good example of openness and tolerance and acceptance of all people.*
- Why is caffeine (a potentially dangerous mind altering chemical) readily available at even the strictest no tolerance fetish nights but someone who leaves the event to indulge in their substance of choice is demonized?
- There is nothing unethical about smoking marijuana or playing while under the influence.
- I know myself and my drug limits really well, because I'm working with them constantly. I know how to monitor my chemical state and know when I'm capable of play and DM'ing.
- I agree with XXXX that DM's should not use alcohol or pot before their shifts, but I think afterwards is fine in small doses.
What I am interested in is this.
Do you think that monitors at BDSM clubs who are using drugs should be permitted to oversee the safety of others?
Would you feel comfortable and safe walking into a BDSM facility and seeing others smoking up out front, or in their cars and then entering the building and smelling the ripe smell of marijuana on others?
Apparently my stance on this is too harsh for some, which is fine by me, as The Lounge runs on the premise of NO DRUG USE EVER, by anyone.
In our year of our operation we've had one event with alcohol and it was new years eve. If you wanted to drink you could, however only four drinks, served by us, and you were given drink tickets. We knew who each person who drank was, what they drank and the potency as their were NO mixed drinks. We also served a huge amount of food and each person upon entering that night had to relinquish their vehicle keys. So, to reiterate, 0.005% of our events in 12 months of operation have had a measurable and track-able alcohol consumption.
Thanks for playing along and I do want and value your feedback.
jennifer@libidoevents.com
_____________________________________
FOR THOSE IN THE KNOW - YOU'LL APPRECIATE THIS....
Madge, is kinda stinky! Hmm, I think I recognize her scent as being someone with a different name.
Monday, February 23, 2009
Late Night Sex
Yesterday we went down to Granville Island and for the first time I was able to meet the jeweler who made my engagement ring. It was lovely to put a face to the man who changed my life and who created such a beautiful piece of art for my finger, announcing to the world, and proudly reminding me of our upcoming marriage. The jeweler was such a kind man, very soft spoken and so happy to see us together and the ring on my hand. He polished it all nice and shiny and told me to come back twice a year for a cleaning, free of charge.
Then last night, we had sex. It started very unusually, RC was in a surprisingly dominant mood as he pinned me to the bed with his body weight, and grasping hard a fistful of my hair to force me to comply. It came out of no where this assertiveness, but I believe it may have something to do with yesterdays scene where I was op top, and I beat on his chest, thighs and of course penis and testicles with gusto. So anyways.
RC was being dominant, and I was struggling to be more passive and accommodating for him. He was attempting to do things to me that cause me to cry out, and well, the teenager was asleep in the next room. Which I reminded him about, hoping he'd let up on me. Not so much. He told me to stifle it, and continued on his merry path of torture. Eventually he had me roll over, face down into the sheets and I was feeling a little better about everything at this point.
By the time the er um, erotic torture was over with, I was so happy to feel his cock slide into me, that my hips were rocking madly. He went so damn slow with each and every stroke, for about ten minutes, it was maddening. Then suddenly he just dove in, and turned up the speed to what I'll call toe curling bliss.
Since I am usually the dominant one in play, I found his surge of role reversal startling, but none the less, very satisfying on so many levels.
Then last night, we had sex. It started very unusually, RC was in a surprisingly dominant mood as he pinned me to the bed with his body weight, and grasping hard a fistful of my hair to force me to comply. It came out of no where this assertiveness, but I believe it may have something to do with yesterdays scene where I was op top, and I beat on his chest, thighs and of course penis and testicles with gusto. So anyways.
RC was being dominant, and I was struggling to be more passive and accommodating for him. He was attempting to do things to me that cause me to cry out, and well, the teenager was asleep in the next room. Which I reminded him about, hoping he'd let up on me. Not so much. He told me to stifle it, and continued on his merry path of torture. Eventually he had me roll over, face down into the sheets and I was feeling a little better about everything at this point.
By the time the er um, erotic torture was over with, I was so happy to feel his cock slide into me, that my hips were rocking madly. He went so damn slow with each and every stroke, for about ten minutes, it was maddening. Then suddenly he just dove in, and turned up the speed to what I'll call toe curling bliss.
Since I am usually the dominant one in play, I found his surge of role reversal startling, but none the less, very satisfying on so many levels.
Sunday, February 22, 2009
Dominant Woman
So we went to a dungeon party this evening. Arriving right as it opened and leaving relatively early too. In-between we hung out with friends, met some new people, were groped a fair bit, groped others back, kissed some pretty girls, had some cuddles and I beat on the boy with a vengeance.
The warm wishes and congratulations from so many we know regarding our engagement was truly nice to receive. It feels fantastic to be in love with some one who everyone I know likes and adores too.
It was a great night out doing something kinky in someone elses domain with no responsibilities of our own. Twas good indeed.
The boy has got some pretty bruising and sensitive nipples and despite what he thought during our scene, I did not really remove his testicles. He'll heal up in a few days, then likely take it out on me some time soon, if I'm lucky.
It's just about one in the morning and it's time for bed. Tomorrow has thrown us a strange bit of fortune and we plan on running with it.
The warm wishes and congratulations from so many we know regarding our engagement was truly nice to receive. It feels fantastic to be in love with some one who everyone I know likes and adores too.
It was a great night out doing something kinky in someone elses domain with no responsibilities of our own. Twas good indeed.
The boy has got some pretty bruising and sensitive nipples and despite what he thought during our scene, I did not really remove his testicles. He'll heal up in a few days, then likely take it out on me some time soon, if I'm lucky.
It's just about one in the morning and it's time for bed. Tomorrow has thrown us a strange bit of fortune and we plan on running with it.
Saturday, February 21, 2009
Sex Questions Answered
1. Is there anyone on your friends list you would ever consider having sex with?
Ha-Ha, oh yes and each knows it, shyness get's one no where.
2. Sex in the morning, afternoon, or night?
Morning is great, but a good shag any time is welcome.
3. What side of the bed do you sleep on?
Closest to the door, I am a mom. So the left.
4. Do you masturbate?
Of course a lot, and with plenty of orgasms thrown in.
5. How often?
See above.
6. Have you ever taken your clothes off for money?
Honestly, yes, but it's not what your thinking.
7. Do you prefer showers or baths?
A really steamy hot shower.
8. Have you ever had sex in the shower or the bath?
Um yup, all kinds of sex too, I'm a dirty girl.
9. Do you watch/read pornography?
I watch porn, but don't read it. My partners both watch it and read it.
10. Do you want someone aggressive or passive in bed?
Depends on my relationship with them.
11. Would you choose love or money?
Money, I have a child to raise and bills to pay, look after one's self and the love will follow.
12. Your top three favorite kinks in bed?
Domination, forced multiple orgasms and creating endorphins/adrenaline.
13. Has anyone ever gone beyond your personal line of respect sexually?
Many have tried, but my boundaries & personal negotiation skills kick ass.
14. Where is the most romantic place you have had sex?
Romantic sex, not so much. Hot sex, wherever we are when we connect really well.
15. Where is the weirdest place you have had sex?
Tied to a tree in the middle of the woods.
16. Have you ever been caught having sex?
Sadly, it has happened. I offered counseling, money or a shopping trip to wipe the memory clean.
17. Have you ever been to a strip club?
I've seen many men & women take off their clothes professionally. Most were good at it.
18. Ever been to a bar just to get sex?
Never, so not my style.
19. Ever been kicked out of a bar or a club for sexual reasons?
See above.
20. Ever been picked up in a bar?
There are usually a few people trying to get my attention.
21. Have you ever kissed or had sex with someone of the same sex?
Just last night as a matter of fact and for let's say the billionth time.
22. What's your sexuality?
Queer.
21. Had sex in a movie theater?
Don't scare the villagers, I live by this mantra.
22. Had sex in a bathroom?
Public ones a few times a couple of friends ones, and my own. Broke a toilet once too. He He.
23. Have you ever had sex at work?
Seriously at The Lounge I do what I want, so yeah, I get it on at work.
24. Have you ever been in an "adult" store?
I have keys to a couple of them, and spend loads of time in them.
25. Bought something from an adult store?
Yes, but never full price.
26. Do you own any sex toys?
Hundreds and hundreds, the collection is varied and vast. Yummy.
27. If yes, what are they?
Let's just say there are so many that they are stored broken down into categories.
28. Does anyone have naughty pics of you or are you on film?
I have friends all over the adult industry, so yeah, photos of me exist.
29. Have you ever had sex with someone and called them the wrong name?
Once, and I sure upset myself over it, not the other person.
30. Have you ever had phone sex?
Many moons ago - I loath talking on the phone.
31. Have you ever had cyber sex?
Nope, so not my thing.
32. What's your favorite sexual position?
Take me from behind.
33. What's your favorite sex act?
The one where I get what I want.
34. Have you ever had sex with more than one person at a time?
What are friends for!
Ha-Ha, oh yes and each knows it, shyness get's one no where.
2. Sex in the morning, afternoon, or night?
Morning is great, but a good shag any time is welcome.
3. What side of the bed do you sleep on?
Closest to the door, I am a mom. So the left.
4. Do you masturbate?
Of course a lot, and with plenty of orgasms thrown in.
5. How often?
See above.
6. Have you ever taken your clothes off for money?
Honestly, yes, but it's not what your thinking.
7. Do you prefer showers or baths?
A really steamy hot shower.
8. Have you ever had sex in the shower or the bath?
Um yup, all kinds of sex too, I'm a dirty girl.
9. Do you watch/read pornography?
I watch porn, but don't read it. My partners both watch it and read it.
10. Do you want someone aggressive or passive in bed?
Depends on my relationship with them.
11. Would you choose love or money?
Money, I have a child to raise and bills to pay, look after one's self and the love will follow.
12. Your top three favorite kinks in bed?
Domination, forced multiple orgasms and creating endorphins/adrenaline.
13. Has anyone ever gone beyond your personal line of respect sexually?
Many have tried, but my boundaries & personal negotiation skills kick ass.
14. Where is the most romantic place you have had sex?
Romantic sex, not so much. Hot sex, wherever we are when we connect really well.
15. Where is the weirdest place you have had sex?
Tied to a tree in the middle of the woods.
16. Have you ever been caught having sex?
Sadly, it has happened. I offered counseling, money or a shopping trip to wipe the memory clean.
17. Have you ever been to a strip club?
I've seen many men & women take off their clothes professionally. Most were good at it.
18. Ever been to a bar just to get sex?
Never, so not my style.
19. Ever been kicked out of a bar or a club for sexual reasons?
See above.
20. Ever been picked up in a bar?
There are usually a few people trying to get my attention.
21. Have you ever kissed or had sex with someone of the same sex?
Just last night as a matter of fact and for let's say the billionth time.
22. What's your sexuality?
Queer.
21. Had sex in a movie theater?
Don't scare the villagers, I live by this mantra.
22. Had sex in a bathroom?
Public ones a few times a couple of friends ones, and my own. Broke a toilet once too. He He.
23. Have you ever had sex at work?
Seriously at The Lounge I do what I want, so yeah, I get it on at work.
24. Have you ever been in an "adult" store?
I have keys to a couple of them, and spend loads of time in them.
25. Bought something from an adult store?
Yes, but never full price.
26. Do you own any sex toys?
Hundreds and hundreds, the collection is varied and vast. Yummy.
27. If yes, what are they?
Let's just say there are so many that they are stored broken down into categories.
28. Does anyone have naughty pics of you or are you on film?
I have friends all over the adult industry, so yeah, photos of me exist.
29. Have you ever had sex with someone and called them the wrong name?
Once, and I sure upset myself over it, not the other person.
30. Have you ever had phone sex?
Many moons ago - I loath talking on the phone.
31. Have you ever had cyber sex?
Nope, so not my thing.
32. What's your favorite sexual position?
Take me from behind.
33. What's your favorite sex act?
The one where I get what I want.
34. Have you ever had sex with more than one person at a time?
What are friends for!
Friday, February 20, 2009
Dressed Up for Sex
On my feet are new black knee high boots as nude stockings caress my thighs, with a nice straight seam up the back of each leg.
I have on black panties with a built in garter supporting said thigh-highs.
My waist cincher is black and is an under the bust, leaving my breasts free and exposed.
Around my upper arm, is a read leather rose and thorns, and on my face are librarian'ish style red retro glasses.
Tonight it's my plan to get wet, slippery and giddy with a bunch of women. Ride some big waves of endorphins, adrenaline and lust. Oh my.
With no men in site, Dirty Girls starts in just a couple of hours.
Let The Play Begin.
And FYI - this is a work night for me.
I have on black panties with a built in garter supporting said thigh-highs.
My waist cincher is black and is an under the bust, leaving my breasts free and exposed.
Around my upper arm, is a read leather rose and thorns, and on my face are librarian'ish style red retro glasses.
Tonight it's my plan to get wet, slippery and giddy with a bunch of women. Ride some big waves of endorphins, adrenaline and lust. Oh my.
With no men in site, Dirty Girls starts in just a couple of hours.
Let The Play Begin.
And FYI - this is a work night for me.
Thursday, February 19, 2009
Pregnant Sexy Women
Photo's are from last weeks shoot: Enjoy!::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::
It's happened, and it is a first. One of our Lounge Members (and a friend too) gave birth this evening. I am so happy for her and her new born daughter right about now. The past few hours I have been floating around awaiting news of the arrival of the bundle of love.
This is the first baby to be born from the Lounge, and the child spent many, many nights with us at parties as her mother spent time at our parties. We won't be seeing the baby around obviously for 19 years now, and her mother should be back around in a few months.
I want to be next, the next pregnant woman and the next to have a baby.
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
Sex Education Vancouver
Much mail has flooded my In-Box, and many calls to my phone to offer congratulations on the engagement post and subsequent email to our members and friends. The love from you all has been abundant, thank you.
Yesterday my class for the BC Center for Disease Control went rather well, it seems I'll be doing it again, and shortly too. This opportunity is huge and one that is on my pride list, I feel really good about being asked to share my knowledge with them and how well received my ninety minute talk was.
I have a gorgeous pair of black shiny pvc pumps that I adore. They have a tan colored skid mark on the side of one of the shoes, and I am stumped as to how to remove it without damaging the finish. Do you have any tried and tested remedies that you can share with me?
I spent five hours yesterday shopping with my bottom, she has been assigned a new job from her employer and is going from a uniform to own clothing. We spent the day looking and buying new clothes for her, and helping her select colors and styles that were not even on radar was a real smile maker for both of us.
Last evening's Member Orientation class was just incredible. Ten people reserved for the class, and ten people showed up. 100% show up rate, wow. And the icing on the cake was that there was six women and four men. Aah, the joys of doing something so successfully. The whole night went rather extraordinary, things went smooth and it was really fun. The group gelled well together and we all had some great conversations too. This group in particular was just primed and ready for the Lounge - great news!
Tonight is Deviant Dining at the Lounge, we hope you'll join us for dinner. It is a casual laid back chance to dine with other members, talk and get to know one another without a party going on around us all.
Yesterday my class for the BC Center for Disease Control went rather well, it seems I'll be doing it again, and shortly too. This opportunity is huge and one that is on my pride list, I feel really good about being asked to share my knowledge with them and how well received my ninety minute talk was.
I have a gorgeous pair of black shiny pvc pumps that I adore. They have a tan colored skid mark on the side of one of the shoes, and I am stumped as to how to remove it without damaging the finish. Do you have any tried and tested remedies that you can share with me?
I spent five hours yesterday shopping with my bottom, she has been assigned a new job from her employer and is going from a uniform to own clothing. We spent the day looking and buying new clothes for her, and helping her select colors and styles that were not even on radar was a real smile maker for both of us.
Last evening's Member Orientation class was just incredible. Ten people reserved for the class, and ten people showed up. 100% show up rate, wow. And the icing on the cake was that there was six women and four men. Aah, the joys of doing something so successfully. The whole night went rather extraordinary, things went smooth and it was really fun. The group gelled well together and we all had some great conversations too. This group in particular was just primed and ready for the Lounge - great news!
Tonight is Deviant Dining at the Lounge, we hope you'll join us for dinner. It is a casual laid back chance to dine with other members, talk and get to know one another without a party going on around us all.
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
The Third Sex is Intersex
I spend a lot of my time talking with people about their sexuality and gender. Over the last couple of years there has been more public talk about a third sex and others openly sharing their truth. Many call the third sex, Intersex.
Three current Libido Lounge members identify as being Intersex. Two are medically diagnosed and one is self appointed. It has been a privilege to learn from these people as they have shared their personal journey's with me and their deepest secret of the issue of their gender.
CBC has a documentary coming up at midnight on the 26th of this month, channel 26, it's an hour long and promised to be riveting and eye-opening.
I found this on the CBC website ....
Read more here on CBC's main page.
Here on the CBC fact sheet.
And here on Wikipedia
Three current Libido Lounge members identify as being Intersex. Two are medically diagnosed and one is self appointed. It has been a privilege to learn from these people as they have shared their personal journey's with me and their deepest secret of the issue of their gender.
CBC has a documentary coming up at midnight on the 26th of this month, channel 26, it's an hour long and promised to be riveting and eye-opening.
I found this on the CBC website ....
The sexual identity of a person is usually the first question one asks about a newborn: "Is it a boy or a girl?" To most parents the answer is a simple one. But what about the parents of a child born with both female and male genitals? It's a reality no one dares to speak about, the so-called third sex. Most people are unaware that this situation exists, and institutions are not designed to recognize a sex outside male and female.
Read more here on CBC's main page.
Here on the CBC fact sheet.
And here on Wikipedia
Monday, February 16, 2009
First comes love, then comes...
This has been our secret this past week and a half, and I am just now ready to share it.
While in Cuba we went walking on the beach one afternoon in the opposite direction of all the tourists at our resort. RC went a little ahead of me, lazily I was sauntering along staring at the gorgeous views and taking in the beauty of the day.
I was stunned and shocked when I turned from the ocean to see him standing a few feet away, with four words etched into the sand and a stick in his hand.
It seemed so surreal, I was speechless. (it's true) I was unable to believe he was actually asking me a question, especially this question. He stood before me, with eyes opened wide and a smile from ear to ear, awaiting my response.
My head and heart knew the answer but my mouth was not working. My eyes kept reading those four little words over and over.
He had to say the question out loud, the words in the sand, were not sinking in completely. It was like I needed to hear it in his own voice.
RC dropped the stick to the ground and in what appeared to be slow motion pulled a blue box out of his backpack. As he opened it, my own eyes were riveted and my senses were all magnified. He had my undivided attention.
Jennifer, will you marry me?
My answer was YES! Oh my god YES!
As he helped me slide the ring onto my finger I couldn't help but think of our good fortune to have found one another.
I love you handsome man!
Sunday, February 15, 2009
BC Center for Disease Control
We went to bed late last night, after a few rounds of explosive orgasms. Wobbly kneed and happy we were. So our wake up time this morning was a little bit late, it was a beautiful sleep-in.
I made a full breakfast for us and then spent time on the phone Allena, my girl. Catching up with her was important and we had a great talk and even are working on plans of an upcoming holiday together, waaay down South.
Still on today's agenda is a trip to Costco, a stop off to The Lounge and our Post Box, a run through the local veggie store and some quick photocopying. Errands for a few hours.
It is so warm and bright out that it really makes me feel good, I so much enjoy weather that is not wet.
If I'm lucky I may even get a chance to read the two newspapers that have been calling my name and perhaps get some work done on a presentation I'm giving next week. I am teaching for the BC Center for Disease Control, an intro class on alt. sex practices. It looks to be most promising, with an attendance of nurses that are needing sound information and exposure to positive teaching in this genre. Go me.
The teenager should be home later this evening, and then she, RC and I will plot and plan our coming week. The schedules we all keep are busy and fast paced, that is for sure.
I made a full breakfast for us and then spent time on the phone Allena, my girl. Catching up with her was important and we had a great talk and even are working on plans of an upcoming holiday together, waaay down South.
Still on today's agenda is a trip to Costco, a stop off to The Lounge and our Post Box, a run through the local veggie store and some quick photocopying. Errands for a few hours.
It is so warm and bright out that it really makes me feel good, I so much enjoy weather that is not wet.
If I'm lucky I may even get a chance to read the two newspapers that have been calling my name and perhaps get some work done on a presentation I'm giving next week. I am teaching for the BC Center for Disease Control, an intro class on alt. sex practices. It looks to be most promising, with an attendance of nurses that are needing sound information and exposure to positive teaching in this genre. Go me.
The teenager should be home later this evening, and then she, RC and I will plot and plan our coming week. The schedules we all keep are busy and fast paced, that is for sure.
Saturday, February 14, 2009
Valentines Intimacy
Happy Valentines Day Everyone
My day was spent being loved.
It's my hope you were loved just as much by some one special
OR
that you spent some time to love yourself today.
My day was spent being loved.
It's my hope you were loved just as much by some one special
OR
that you spent some time to love yourself today.
Friday, February 13, 2009
Submissive
Happy Friday the 13th.
Today I cleaned my desktop off and muddled through my To-Do list. Naked. I was most successful at accomplishing much of my grand pile of work. Like a garden, if I don't tend to it often, it looks overgrown with weeds.
Tonight we are off to dinner at a friends place. This is a weekend of relaxing for the most part. And some loving.
Today I cleaned my desktop off and muddled through my To-Do list. Naked. I was most successful at accomplishing much of my grand pile of work. Like a garden, if I don't tend to it often, it looks overgrown with weeds.
Tonight we are off to dinner at a friends place. This is a weekend of relaxing for the most part. And some loving.
Thursday, February 12, 2009
Sex Events Vancouver
I have a few different irons in the fire, which means I need some assistance. Your help dear readers, please.
Lee Harrington bondage guru is soon to be at Libido Lounge, and I have yet to pin down which exact classes I want him to be teaching. Seeing as I don't want to make this decision all by myself, I welcome you to send me suggestions for which classes you are most interested in seeing. Check out Lee's class list and then let me know what tickles your fancy. Ok? Good. Thanks.
We are looking to rent a venue (think larage hall), something NOT in Vancouver, our preference is Burnaby, New West, PoCo or Port Moody. It should be liquor licensed and have a capacity of at least two hundred and fifty. Send me along your suggestions please and any contact info you may have for said facility.
Do you know of a massage cream that can purchased for relatively inexpensive? The oil we use at The Lounge works awesome, however it stains our sheets and leave bump marks on our walls where the freshly massaged lean on them. Not so good for clean up. We'd like to find something that we can buy in bulk and something with no scent. Let me know what your ideas are, or what product you use and where you access it.
I have booked a Women's Swap & Shop at The Lounge in March, here are the details....
Lee Harrington bondage guru is soon to be at Libido Lounge, and I have yet to pin down which exact classes I want him to be teaching. Seeing as I don't want to make this decision all by myself, I welcome you to send me suggestions for which classes you are most interested in seeing. Check out Lee's class list and then let me know what tickles your fancy. Ok? Good. Thanks.
We are looking to rent a venue (think larage hall), something NOT in Vancouver, our preference is Burnaby, New West, PoCo or Port Moody. It should be liquor licensed and have a capacity of at least two hundred and fifty. Send me along your suggestions please and any contact info you may have for said facility.
Do you know of a massage cream that can purchased for relatively inexpensive? The oil we use at The Lounge works awesome, however it stains our sheets and leave bump marks on our walls where the freshly massaged lean on them. Not so good for clean up. We'd like to find something that we can buy in bulk and something with no scent. Let me know what your ideas are, or what product you use and where you access it.
I have booked a Women's Swap & Shop at The Lounge in March, here are the details....
Since I have loads of naughty items I no longer want, and I don't want to throw the stuff out, it seems appropriate that I host a Swap & Shop. I know others will get much happiness out of my no longer desired products and such, so I invite you to sell yours too or simply come and shop. This event is being offered for anyone I know (female only) who wishes to attend, it is happening at Libido Lounge.
Women's Sexy Clothing, Footwear, Toys, Accessories & Book Sale
Wednesday March 11
7 PM - 9:30 PM *arrive early for best selection
Admission: $5
Have items you want to sell? Need some kinky clothing and do not want to pay store prices?
This is the event for you. Sell your items, or make them available for free, or trade them for something else with another woman.
Empty your closets and rummage through your drawers. Bring your gently used fetish, kinky and sexy items to our Erotic Women's Sale.
Dig out anything that does not fit you any longer. Pack up anything you no longer wear or want.
Corsets, lingerie, boots, shoes, erotica, canes, floggers, sex toys, boas, collars, cuffs waist cinchers, heels, purses, bags etc. etc. etc.
Now is the time to rid yourself of any unwanted or unneeded kinky items that are cluttering up your cupboards and dressers.
Plan to vend at the event, send me an email: jennifer@libidoevents.com
RSVP your attendance, by sending me an email: jennifer@libidoevents.com
Wednesday, February 11, 2009
Struggling, are you?
If you are a person who struggles from time to time, or even regularly, this *short* video is filled with hope.
It matters not what your issue or obstacle is, but in how you look at it, and how you face it.
Watch this awesome video clip.
hugs, Jennifer
It matters not what your issue or obstacle is, but in how you look at it, and how you face it.
Watch this awesome video clip.
hugs, Jennifer
Tuesday, February 10, 2009
Prop 8 & Equality
Grab yourself a box of kleenex and be prepared to share this link. It's powerful, moving and inspirational. As a woman who loves women, I couldn't agree more. I love you Allena!
Monday, February 09, 2009
Back to basics
I was too bed early last night and woke refreshed and ready to face the day.
Unexpected news has thrown me for a bit of a loop this afternoon. Dare I say that thinking about it all has given me a wee bit of a head ache.
RC will be home from work soon, and spending some time alone with him, should help me feel better.
It might be nice if we ventured out this evening to pick up some groceries as the cupboards are a little empty. We did not do much shopping in January as we knew we would be leaving on holidays, so we ate everything we had, to clean out the freezers and cupboards. Since our return we have yet to find the time to do a food run and now it is time, because aside from condiments and fresh fruit and veggies, there is not-much-else.
Tomorrow I am doing a photo shoot with another local model. Bondage is the theme. Costuming and make up will need to be packed later this evening. I should really spend some time plotting out outfits and props shortly.
I need to be suspended and have a round or two taken out of me. Get me out of my head for awhile. The whole mother, partner, business owner, sex educator roles I wear are a little much today.
Unexpected news has thrown me for a bit of a loop this afternoon. Dare I say that thinking about it all has given me a wee bit of a head ache.
RC will be home from work soon, and spending some time alone with him, should help me feel better.
It might be nice if we ventured out this evening to pick up some groceries as the cupboards are a little empty. We did not do much shopping in January as we knew we would be leaving on holidays, so we ate everything we had, to clean out the freezers and cupboards. Since our return we have yet to find the time to do a food run and now it is time, because aside from condiments and fresh fruit and veggies, there is not-much-else.
Tomorrow I am doing a photo shoot with another local model. Bondage is the theme. Costuming and make up will need to be packed later this evening. I should really spend some time plotting out outfits and props shortly.
I need to be suspended and have a round or two taken out of me. Get me out of my head for awhile. The whole mother, partner, business owner, sex educator roles I wear are a little much today.
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