grumble, grumble

Despite sleeping a large portion of the day away while feeling very unwell, I mustered up the energy to dress myself by evening and head out to Dragon Fly's Den in Surrey.

RC had worked all day then come home and persuaded me to venture out for a short bit, what a devious man.

It was fun to hangout with everyone. Unable to stay long due to the gnawing pain in my belly it was still good to be amongst kinky comrades catching up on all the latest news and hearing war stories of friends conquests.

Unable to play, truly unable. Couldn't have swung a whip, had sex or even been playful if I wanted to. I felt that poor.

I came for one thing only, the social interaction of my peeps, oh and the gossip!

Since playing was not in store for the evening I wore a dress I've had for at least six, maybe even seven years. A beautiful black number that zips up the back with a full front and back side, sleeveless and with a respectable knee length. By nights end I realized that the dress was in need of retirement. It has some un-fixable marks on the backside that now make it no longer a part of my kink wardrobe. A shame really as I have had some fun times in it.


Being out did take my mind off my own discontent for awhile, RC was right about that much.

What I neglected to mention is that what really got my mind off of my belly ache was seeing RC all buff and pretty in new lace up PVC pants and a collar.

looking over my shoulder

Be reminded as you read this than I do not drink coffee so it's importance is a tad bit lost on me. - said tongue in cheek

Earlier while cleaning I broke the final coffee maker in the house. It was accidental as the glass insert slipped from my hand, to smash against the toaster oven. Of course breaking it to pieces.

Within seconds RC appears in the doorway, doing a quick scan of the scene. Quickly he helped me clean up the broken glass after making sure of course that I was not hurt. The puzzled look and wry smile gave way to what I next discovered.

Twenty minutes later I found a letter he had written Bella and cc'd to me as well in my in-box. Seems I forgot about the last coffee maker I broke and it was not even that long ago. And now I have to be mindful of these two characters as they plot against me for these duo disasters and hold me responsible.

Hey sweetie,

I have news. It concerns both of our coffee makers. My Ritazza was broken months ago, and earned Jennifer a spanking. 5 minutes ago, YOUR BODUM suffered a similar fate. Now she claims that it was an accident, but it seems to me to be a systematic effort to deny us of coffee.

A sadly transparent sadistic act which is frankly beyond my limits. I propose that we do something about this blatant unconsensual attack together. Since it was your Bodum, I defer to you as to the consequence. However, remember that the punishment must fit the crime.

looking forward to your Bodum thoughts.

love

RC

clearing the air

Ordered dessert only, and it was a decadent thick chocolate slab of heaven. I ate it all myself.

We went to the Munch earlier tonight and found the most wonderful assortment of people there. As it's a drop-in event, one doesn't necessarily always know whose going to be in attendance. Never a shortage of friends or familiar faces to catch up with, we sat ourselves down and joined the group.

The only noteworthy things to share that came from our evening of talking amongst community members was

• the September Play Parties x 2 : volunteering and attending
• Stink Tink yet again, and her foulness

After hugs, lots of laughter, and more truth baring, I knew that attending had been worth the effort of the drive out to Surrey.

(the munch is an on going informal gathering of people, meeting as a drop-in group, bi-weekly, that gather to enjoy a meal and/or drink while in the company of other like minded BDSM focused individuals or couples. Free to attend, though you pay for what you order to the host restaurant)

Me and my....

This is me wearing a Feeldoe, the ultimate dildo.

My PC muscles are so strong, that I am even able to make my boy bits bounce up and down on command.

Exciting, very very exciting!

mummified & electrocuted

A picture really tells a story. I'll let your imagination run wild this one.

Suffice to say, the toys used to bring this man such intense play were...

1. vibrating butt plug AND a bullet under his testicles
   
2. thumb cuffs to keep his hands together
3. pallet wrap to secure him, tightly
   
4. chopsticks & elastics to contain his cock
5. tens unit on his taint and inner thigh region
6. electric fly swatter / bug zapper

And on the creative end, I um, used my hands and mouth a lot as well!

where in the world...

Can I find what I thought would be a couple of simple items.

First I find myself looking for Astro Turf. You know the stuff, the fake grass that can go indoors/outdoors. Specifically two pieces, each about 8 x 10. Went looking on-line for local stores for such an item and came up empty. Have you seen it anywhere?

Next I need a pedicure, and one that is moderately priced, has female service help and is local to Burnaby, North Burnaby being the best. Does anyone have a referral for a great shop to get this treatment completed? I'm not in a huge rush as I'm wanting it for next week. In other words, I don't necessarily need a walk-in place.

Tonight I'm teaching a bondage class. Tie Me To The Bed Posts Please - bedroom bondage basics, locally here in Burnaby. My gear is all packed already, and soon I'll be out of the house.

With today as a laze around day, it really has been most peaceful.

T left yet again this afternoon, this time for the rest of the summer and now it is RC and I on our own. That she is old enough now and has chosen to be so involved in so many activities, well... it blows my mind at times.

The hedonism begins.

PNE 2007 & an evening out

This morning I was awake and out of the house long before normal for a Saturday. It was opening day of The Fair making it FREE entrance and of course, my daughter was itching to go. Off we went leaving a slumbering RC at home as he had just returned from a long shift at the hospital.

The whole day was madness, not that we expected anything else. It was a celebration for sure and a day of continuous activities. That the sun held out was such a blessing. We took in the Dog Show a yearly tradition for us and one that T looks forward to all year long. The place was packed solid, I mean every seat in the house, people blocking the egress of the fire exits / stairs even, just to see the show.

Of course we ran into many many people, never stopping long to speak with any one in particular though as this day was just about us. Mother and daughter.

Hopefully one night in the next week RC and I can get to PNE together and do a walk-through as T is leaving tomorrow for the rest of the summer.

After much over priced greasy food & sugar based drinks ... walking endlessly in a sea of people and being barraged by retailers trying to sell us an item or promote an idea, I was done in. T could have stayed longer savoring the experience, but five and a half hours was good enough for me.

We headed home through thick traffic while I plotted the evening ahead. I was given an invitation to a new swingers club in Surrey, plus the monthly night of Rascals as a choice. Friends birthday celebration or even a much needed go-to-bed early type of evening could have been arranged.

As exciting as a new facility sounds or even a birthday party, after a long day, I just wanted a short drive to the local public dungeon for some play-time. Rascals it is.

And now, we're off.

life lesson

I know for a fact that I am not a telephone person. I greatly dislike both answering the phone and having to speak on it.

Don't get me wrong, it's not a phobia, just a medium of communication that doesn't work well for me personally. I prefer being able to see someone, when speaking to them.

So take it as no surprise that my cell and home phones are often filled to maximum number of messages and accepting none further.

A friend today reminded me to empty my phone messages so more ones could be left.

I think the real lesson is that I should answer my phone a little more often or get a secretary.

knocking on heavens door

Remember the couple that RC and I found ourselves entangled with last Saturday night?

Well I gave them my business card after our delicious time together, and now they've written. One of things I didn't mention when I wrote about our time with them, is that I also had the privilege of walking them through the G-Spot stimulation techniques that I'm so known for.

Hi Jennifer,

It's Tessa and Peter from Saturday night at Eden. We had such a great time with you and Jason. What an experience...... :) The next day we experimented with what you taught us and my God, it worked!...I ejaculated 3 times covering Peter completely! It was pretty cool...so cool we tried again the next day, but to no avail...:( Can you tell us if it takes awhile between sessions????

We also loved your bag of toys! We were thinking it would be fun if you could come over with them and have some more fun. Would you be interested in that?

Hope you are having a great night, and look forward to hearing from you.

Jeeeesh. Such flattery. Of course we'll be in touch, and they are right, it will be so much fun to spend time with my toys and us all together again.

Hump Day

A brief list of what occupied me this day...

• hand-picking 2 pounds of fresh black berries for the fridge and freezer in my gum boots
  
• one on one time with T (she's leaving again this Sun. for the rest of the summer)
• a seriously sought after two hour nap
  
• finished 3/4 of some long overdue paperwork that is going to be very lucrative for me
• enjoyed Organic Orange Peel - Dark chocolate
• answered 20'something emails, and yes I am still behind in this area *sighs*
  
• dealt with banking matters at a local branch of my bank
• picked up this in red to compliment the shoe acquisition a few days back (it was actually made to be sold together - great score!)

Brought home for me was this most amazing arrangement of perfect red roses, long just-opening white lilies, lavender and baby's breath. RC is very good to me, I am so blessed.

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Slip, sliding fun

Well well I am a fortunate woman...

The weather was gorgeous today and the heat was great, I do love the return of the summer sun after a few days of gray skies.

Yesterday T, RC and I talked about a family outing (today), and we'd agreed T could bring a friend as well.

After picking up her girlfriend, we made the mid morning trek across cities till we could smell the fresh air.

It was where the air smelled like ocean and the sounds of lively amused happy people joined as one, that we pulled in to our destination.

Jumping out of the vehicle, and grabbing our day's luggage, we descended upon this place of fun.

We made camp, after finding a clear area amongst the many other families, having a very similar day to ours.

Shedding our clothes, down to our bathing suits, we sat together and ate a wonderful cold picnic lunch.

Then it happened.

We stood in line but for a few minutes before it was out turn.

Each of us grabbed an inner-tube and hoisting it over our heads, we made the climb up to the start of the Big Jim's River Run.

Quickly we four were given the nod of approval and

SPLASH

each of us drops our tubes into the water, climbs our butts inside them
and starts to shoot down, this twisty river run all the while
holding on to our tubes for dear life and
laughing at the predicaments of one another

What fun.

We ate copious amounts of bad snack foods, and hung out sunning together all day. Well, in between going down slide after slide.

Water slides are a a blast for people of any age - we got tuckered out from all the activity.

I was having such a great day that when I realized the time, it became apparent that we needed to start making our way of the park area and into the vehicle. Six and half hours of water fun is about enough in my book.

Driving home, both teenagers in the back seat fell asleep. It was a sight to behold, two very exhausted girls sleeping for the entire return trip.

accessories

A day for accessories.

This afternoon found RC and I standing in Aldo, at the cash-register being handed a bag containing the most exquisite pair of perfectly fitting fire engine red stiletto shoes.

What a find, a must have purchase. And a thank you gift for Saturdays evening out. I am loved and spoiled; an excellent combination.

RC did make me promise to never beat him with these shoes, as I have with others in the past.

Next necessary item was a spiffy new Bluetooth Wireless Headset from Nokia, and all my needs had been met. (RC had the hands free working for me twenty minutes after we got home, driving a standard now made this acquisition necessary)

A stop at the produce store for some staples, as was our original intent when leaving and finally we were able to get out of the god forsaken mall. Thankfully it was early afternoon, the mall was fairly quiet as there were few shoppers and the air conditioning was blasting.

Shoes, panties and sex toys are the items that I have the most of, and that I also go through the quickest. What a surprise.

It is a collection worthy of its own insurance policy.


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Family Update:

My daughter arrived home from Toronto and Mexico yesterday just before noon, having left Toronto at 5:00 a.m. and being through three times zones in 2 days. She went to bed last night at 9:20 and woke up this afternoon at 12:45. That is 15 hours of sleep. She didn't even get up for the washroom, she just slept like a teenager, for hours and hours.

I was so elated to hear her calling my name again ... "Hey Mom".

A Big Stink

We went to bed at 4 this morning, RC and I making love till the wee hours of morning. Essential oils filled the bedroom, and the tea lights danced flickers of ambiance across the room. It was all very romantic as I was given a massage and more oral attention than imaginable. We fell asleep, having sex, me laying on top of my man, and he adoring me.

This hideous wailing noise awoke us at 9:00, apparently that is what the alarm clock sounds like on just five short hours of sleep. There was no choice but to dress quickly and head out of the house. We made the drive out to the airport where I was gearing up for the arrival of my daughter from Toronto via Mexico.

RC and I were at YVR, in front of carousel #5 for about ten minutes before the RCMP showed up for us. Seriously, the RCMP came and asked each of us for our ID. Then asked us what we had been doing 5 minutes earlier as they pulled out their note books and started writing a statement.

Well my daughter is a minor, traveling un-escorted on Air Canada and we are here to pick her up from her holiday at the passenger pick up area. Though her flight is delayed an hour, so were are sitting here, waiting patiently, thank you for asking.

The RCMP demand to know again what we "had" been doing 5 minutes earlier, and I say "five minutes ago I was massaging RC's feet, though his socks, with his shoes removed." RCMP come back with rude, pushy behaviour and then tell us that we are not allowed to wait in front of the carousel for my daughter, but rather back behind some short partition wall. I point out the easily 60, I mean SIXTY other people waiting on "the other side" of the partition wall and the aggressive little male officer, named Hugh, decided to push himself in to our personal space despite having no grounds and not even a charge.

Suffice to say, by the time the Mounties were done there power trip, strangers were watching on, and were none to impressed with the antics of the officers. After hearing from the "public" that they planned on going home and making a complaint to the RCMP on our behalves, we decided to go home and do the same. An older man walked up to us after the incident and said he was ashamed and embarrassed by the actions of the Mounties.

Finding the head complaint officer by phone we were mortified to learn that not only did they have no grounds to move us, or to stop us, but that their behaviour was poor and lacking enough judgement that the Head Officer was now making a drive out the airport detachment to align the attitude of that crappy officer. An apology is apparently forth coming.

Officer Hugh is giving support to the negative attitudes held about our RCMP by the general public, much like Stinky Tink makes others look at the BDSM community in a not so positive light.

It only takes one bad apple to spoil the bunch. And to smell a whole lot.

Sex & HTML

Some days are just a whirlwind of activity. Today of course was one of those afternoons and thankfully for just a few short hours as I was in no head-space to handle anymore than I did.

Slept till the afternoon as it's difficult to leave the bed when it's filled with my guy whose all warm and cuddly. Then rolled out of bed, and headed straight to the computer to update the website with some Fall Party dates and a number of interactive workshops set to happen at a new club out in Surrey.

After getting the HTML completed on the site and published, it was time to head out to dinner. We went for a incredible meal of sushi at this Top Notch Sushi restaurant in Vancouver - RC's friends treated us to this wonderful feast as celebration to something I just-can't-mention, yet.

It was a fast drive home with me behind the wheel as we had to be showered and out to the door again shortly. Arrived inside, stripped out of my dinner dress and pumps, sliding straight into the tub. A perfect shave job, a good soak and dressed I was again in just 30 minutes.

Wearing nothing more than a very complimentary little kinky clothes outfit myself, we strolled in the door of Club Eden just in time for a night of partying. After some socializing and a drink, we made our way to the dungeon. I mummified RC and then pulled out a knife and started slashing the plastic covering him, in strategic places. People gasped as though they were worried for his personal safety. Flogging him later on, and doing some light sensation play to him, somehow gathered us even more of a crowd of on-lookers.

After asking them to move out of swing-range they politely moved back, though still watching in awe as I did various sexy mean things to the boy. Near the end of our scene there was one particular couple sitting watching us, that earlier RC had said he'd found the woman to be attractive.

I struck up a smooth chit chat with them as we were alone in the dungeon now, and within minutes the four of us were upstairs in a Private room negotiating our way through what was to be a fantastic play experience for all.

girl-juice

What a great group gathered at Dragon fly's last night for my G-Spot class, a nice night out at work for me. Thanks again Deej for being both fun AND educational.

RC and I rolled out of bed at the unsightly hour of 4:30 this afternoon. The bed was wet, sheets including pillows were on the floor, our bodies cuddly and warm...and honestly, we were starving after all the sex we'd had. Naked I stumbled into the kitchen where I made a hearty breakfast for us to enjoy, and refuel.

I discovered two excellent positions for "woman on top" sex earlier, had three intense orgasms, savored a 69, got face, gave head, and rode RC till he was thrashing across the bed into a wave of spent happy exhaustion.

At 6:30 my guy left for work and now, I'm home with rest of the night to myself and still feeling amorous.

Happily I have my Hitachi Magic Wand and my new favorite toy which is rechargeable, water-proof and silicone.

Excuse me now, while I go and grab my toys, some lube and a towel and continue my day of debauchery.....

multi tasking

It's been an industrious day here at Libido Events. I've been booked to do a number of classes and events in the coming weeks, in fact I'm even working with a few new people. Still need to upload everything to the website when I next get the chance.

Just recently I have started to feel as though I've caught my breath after the Surrey location version of Libido Lounge. Without any spectacular build-up we will announce our Official Opening in our new city as soon as the license hangs framed on my office wall. You'll be more than pleased by our new home!

Tonight I teach G-Spot & Female Ejaculation at Dragon Fly's Den in Surrey and I'm taking along Deej as my volunteer model. RC's off picking her up from work, I'm making us all dinner and then we are on the road to my class.

About a week ago a beautiful brand new shiny fridge was delivered to us here at home.... a long overdue appliance acquisition as the old one was on it's last legs. That it matches the new dishwasher makes the domestic part of me very satisfied.

growth spurt

I miss not having my daughter home. It's been almost two weeks since she left and I'm eager for her return this weekend. This quiet time without a child underfoot has reiterated for me my deep desire for another child.

We were out earlier and saw a wee-fresh baby cradled in it's new mothers arms, and a beaming father walking next to them. I smiled at the babe. RC pulled me in tighter to his grasp, and said not to worry, we will be making one of our own soon.

Life could not be any better.

lucky girl

My daughter been away for quite some time now, and she's not due back till Sunday. 15 days gone. Right now she is in Ticalli Mexico. It's overwhelming to think of how far from home she is right now, without me and all that she knows & loves.

She phoned me today, not even home sick. Having the time of her life, experiencing another country at the tender age of 13, basically on her own, as she's with 13 other teenagers and a single chaperon. This afternoon they were at the Pyramids of Teotihuacan. I'm elated at her opportunities and happiness.

Next summer she's already decided to do a three week bike trip, across PEI.

She has such courage, an attribute I didn't have at her age. Her sights are always set to do something new, exciting , bold and containing an element of activism.

I have no idea where she gets this from. (grins sheepishly)

And I am really proud of her.

reflecting

Finally with a few minutes to reflect on last Saturdays Play Party and I'm overwhelmed with positivity. Let me share...

1. Set up 5 full beds, 6 massage tables, 7 pieces of BDSM equipment, 1 eight-ft. tall suspension frame, 2 cuddle stations, 1 lounge area filled with 6 large tables & surrounding chairs then brought in a myriad of party supplies to keep things going all night long.

2. RC & I joined another couple in the sex play room, coming out tousled and spent a short while later

3. All volunteers showed up on time, treated everyone with such respect to the point of accolades being sent from party attendees via email to thank me for such wonderful support help.

4. Watched as my guy had a play experience in front of me for the first time, that did not involve me. (I've traveled this road with partners before yet this is all new territory for RC; I'm checking his pulse often to make sure he's doing o.k, though the perma grin on his face sort of makes one believe he's doing just fine in the world of poly)

5. Met an outrageous amount of new people who had the time of their lives.

6. Was able to catch up with many long term community members, and loved, just loved the conversations about Stinky Tink, McEwan, and community sex-politics. Real conversations, honest information and again, I gathered even more support. Tis' good to have friends.

7. The support from everyone at the party, had me feeling the love surrounding the old Libido Lounge Surrey issue.

8. Played with an astounding number of people. Kissing many women. Aiding others to discover something new. Leading some to new heights of pleasure. Flirted shamelessly, it's part of my job description. Assisting umpteen individuals out of their street clothes as the transition at the door is difficult for some. Couples, and even a triad I found myself in the middle of. Yet I kept my knickers on all night long. How did that happen? Perhaps I'm just a giver.

9. Had a couple fly from Winnipeg Manitoba to attend the Play Party - they made many new friends and I was flattered by their arrival

10. Booked 2 new clients in for Private Coaching work later this week

11. At the front counter, I found a total of 4 large bags of sheets donated to the Play Party. Bonus for the event as sheets and duvet covers were super nice and already covering our beds by nights end.

12. Booked Play Parties for the rest of the year, on a monthly basis, because quite frankly there is not an atmosphere similar to Libido Events anywhere else locally. Our sex-positivity shines through in all that we do and people are demanding that I offer these regularly so they will have options in where to go to get their kink-on in the city as their current options are rather bleak in comparison to our Splash.

13. Party-goers were on our door step even before we opened, and at nights end (1:30 a.m.) I was helping people towards their coats.

14. Dyke and queer women in abundance in our inclusive space, as well as girly girls left right and center. Then again, who could forget the women.

SUCCESS

Were you at the Play Party, did you have a good time as well? Do tell.

Pride Vancouver 2007

As a queer woman, I wish you a HAPPY PRIDE!

The parade was magnificent, despite the two lone protesters who set up their home base right next to us for the duration of the event. The man in the photo and I had a short talk, then he promptly gave me a Get Out Of Hell For Free Card.

My God loves me and is not sending me to Hell for my sexual preferences. Instead my God, has given me a living heaven, ripe with the fruits of pleasure for me to enjoy. This is a reward for being true to myself, and my God.

I saw so many people I knew, we had a great time. It was fun taking a couple of RC's friends, who had not before been to a Pride parade. (it's fun to cherry pop)