Head Meet Wall

I struggle. The balancing act of motherhood is taking its toll on me.

The last number of years I have spent working diligently to gain the exposure that has brought me to where I am today in my career. It has been taxing beyond belief yet I managed to pull it off --- most days.

There is a routine to my life that is family, work, work, work, self care, sleep. Family, work, work, work, self care, sleep. Repeat over and over again. I work A LOT.

My new routine is family, care for baby, work, care for baby, care for baby, care for baby, self care, sleep. And repeat.

I find it difficult not to work, at my core is a drive to be on the go and moving forward at all times.

Lately I feel as though I am going no where fast.

It takes so much just to get the simplest things completed. What four months ago what took me ten minutes, now takes upwards of an hour. This makes my head spin.

I miss my pace and I am challenged when it comes to scaling back. My goals are lofty so you can imagine how this all is affecting me.

Being a new mother again is all that I wanted and the little man sure is all shades of awesome.

But I find myself wanting to put my head through a wall some days.

Today I had a To-List of items that really needed to be done. The day started off well and then just turned into a gong show.

The baby projectile vomited all over me twice and all over the floor twice, with a big fat SPLAT. Instead of napping for his usual hour twice, no such luck, each nap was only ten minutes at best. This was the day he chose to be suddenly clingy, not wanting to be out of my arms. At fifteen pounds he's heavy to haul everywhere. I even had to sit him on my lap when I needed to pee. There was no way that I could not give him what he needed, so instead I gave up on my To Do List and focused completely on him.

Then at bed time, he had a melt down. He screamed for forty five minutes. Unheard of, so uncharacteristic of him. He screamed, I sighed loudly and repetitively. Jason stepped in and finally got the little fellow to sleep. Which of course made me feel like a big ole failure.

Is it so much to strive to be successful in my career, raise two kids (one a teenager & the other four months old), be a wife, run a household, travel, and feel accomplished?

I can do this can't I? Sure I can, if I try hard enough and learn to prioritize better. Surely this is possible. Because if it's not, I may as well give up trying now and save myself the heart ache and disappointment attached to letting go of my dreams.

Let me find the strength to move forward with tomorrow, because today sucked the big one.

Picture Perfect

Thursday I taught a class up at Simon Fraser University to a lovely group of eager students. Wanting to keep baby near, I decided to bring him along. I also brought a friend with me and the stroller, so while I taught she took him for a jaunt around the campus.

While out meandering she pulled out her camera and took some gorgeous shots of Pickle boy. Isn't he handsome?

It's been a real juggling act getting back to work and I am only able to do this because I have so many helpful warm and caring friends and family who make it possible.

We Got It On

Our bedroom light was still burning bright yet the end of the day had arrived and the outside world was quietly dark.

Jason's naked body was next to mine in bed and our flesh warmed one another despite the brisk air in the room.

In hushed voices we spoke, as we dared not wake the baby in the next room who was not yet deep in slumber. We only spoke about our day in brief snippets and between each morsel disclosed we nibbled on one another with fervor.

He looked into my eyes with a hunger and I merely made the suggestion sex would be nice. He rolled me onto my side and as we giggled together, he slid his already rigid cock into my core.

It was sex driven by need. The need to connect. The need to merge as one. The need for a release. The need for love. The need to do for the other.

Later after that point of climax, both weary and satiated, we disentangled ourselves from one another. But not before I grabbed my iPhone and snapped a photo of the position we found ourselves in as it was one we'd not before used.

Then we went to sleep wrapped up in each others arms.

Perception: A Social Experiment

THE SITUATION

In Washington , DC , at a Metro Station, on a cold January morning in 2007, this man with a violin played six Bach pieces for about 45 minutes. During that time, approximately 2,000 people went through the station, most of them on their way to work. After about 3 minutes, a middle-aged man noticed that there was a musician playing. He slowed his pace and stopped for a few seconds, and then he hurried on to meet his schedule.

About 4 minutes later:

The violinist received his first dollar. A woman threw money in the hat and, without stopping, continued to walk.

At 6 minutes:

A young man leaned against the wall to listen to him, then looked at his watch and started to walk again.

At 10 minutes:

A 3-year old boy stopped, but his mother tugged him along hurriedly. The kid stopped to look at the violinist again, but the mother pushed hard and the child continued to walk, turning his head the whole time. This action was repeated by several other children, but every parent - without exception - forced their children to move on quickly.

At 45 minutes:

The musician played continuously. Only 6 people stopped and listened for a short while. About 20 gave money but continued to walk at their normal pace. The man collected a total of $32.


After 1 hour:

He finished playing and silence took over. No one noticed and no one applauded. There was no recognition at all.



No one knew this, but the violinist was Joshua Bell, one of the greatest musicians in the world. He played one of the most intricate pieces ever written, with a violin worth $3.5 million dollars. Two days before, Joshua Bell sold-out a theater in Boston where the seats averaged $100 each to sit and listen to him play the same music.


This is a true story. Joshua Bell, playing incognito in the D.C. Metro Station, was organized by the Washington Post as part of a social experiment about perception, taste and people's priorities.


This experiment raised several questions:

*In a common-place environment, at an inappropriate hour, do we perceive beauty?

*If so, do we stop to appreciate it?

*Do we recognize talent in an unexpected context?

One possible conclusion reached from this experiment could be this:

If we do not have a moment to stop and listen to one of the best musicians in the world, playing some of the finest music ever written, with one of the most beautiful instruments ever made . . .

How many other things are we missing as we rush through life?

Cherry Popping

Last night at the Couples Party I met a woman. There happened to be six of us on the group bed together. She was next to me.

I asked her if she had ever been with a woman before. In a low raspy voice, she replied "no".

"Have you ever touched a woman's breast before?" I was met with another "no", as I moved my body closer to hers.

The index finger of her right hand traced my warm soft breast with great gentleness. I knew that Jason who was between my legs caressing my lips would be greatly aroused by this visual before him.

I swept my finger along her breast and then brushed her pert nipple with quick slight motions. Her groans told me my attention towards her was appreciated.

The woman's husband starting having sex with her as my hungry tongue was licking the sensitive spots on her tight luscious body.

In short order Jason was on top of me and the four of us were all having sex side by side, all the while her and I continued to make out. The couple on the other side of us were now going at it hot and heavy too. The bed was in motion, the smell of sex was strong and it made my head swim in that lustful way I adore.

Jason came with a huge explosion and couldn't stop after that, he just kept going, caught up in the moment. The other woman's eyes rolled back in her head, her back arched and she was captivated by my talking dirty in her ear.

I had rolling waves of pleasure that left me gasping as the man next to me suddenly had the spent look of satisfaction come over him.

After cuddling everyone, I went and fetched a towel to clean Jason and I up. I asked the couple whom we'd been so engaged if they wanted anything .... "water". Upon my return I cleaned my man & I then gave each of them a cup of water much to their delight.

We sat around and debriefed for a few minutes then I left them alone to bask in the glow of the first time experience together with one another.

Got a truck?

March 26 a Friday and March 28th a Sunday I am in need of someone with a van or a truck to assist me.

I am teaching at The Taboo Sex Show in Abbotsford and need to move some equipment. Friday stuff is coming from The Lounge to the Tradex building where the show is taking place and then back to the Lounge again on the Sunday after the show ends.

Can you help me with this? I can offer you free tickets to the show and gas money.

Drop me a private email to jennifer@libidoevents.com

Discount Please

The Lounge has started it's Interior Design project - and this undertaking is a large one. I am really excited about it and not as overwhelmed as I thought I would be. Likely because a kick ass designer has laid out everything so professionally for us to follow. The end result I can see in my minds eye thanks to her planning, so now the actual work gets started.

With this in mind, I need a couple of things:

1. Walmart has these really cool trees I want to buy. At least 6-8 of them. I need someone who can get me an employee discount. Anyone out there able to do this?

2. ICI is where our paint is coming from. The purchase of this is going to be rather expensive and as such I am looking for someone able to get me an employee or some other form of discount. Anyone able to handle this?

3. Carpet. I am looking for a piece of carpet, and am open to where it is purchased from. However the color is set. Chocolate brown it is. Measurements to follow. Anyone work in or own a carpet store? Discount please?

Timing is critical here. I'd appreciate hearing from anyone able to provide assistance, sooner rather than later. Thank you.

Counting my blessings

You likely can not tell but I am extremely happy at this point in my life.

I am deeply in love with a man who cares for me in a way that I never dreamed possible. Both of my children bring me incredible joy each day. The baby is growing so fast and becoming so animated, it makes my heart swell. The teenager is a mover and a shaker, who is way more mature than her age and who is achieving exceptionally lofty academic goals.

My health after a long battle the last six months is finally recovering from being critical. Career wise, I am working as much as I want, and writing my own contracts that more than meet my needs.

It's true, you reap what you sow.

Taboo Sex Show Abbotsford 2010

I've been on contract with Taboo for many, many years.

At the end of the month is Taboo Abbotsford, March 26th - 28th. They have me teaching a host of classes and like last year, the are giving me my own theater room to do so in.

You'll be able to take in classes of mine in The Libido Lounge Seminar Room. (classes are free to you, your event ticket price of $15 get's you full access to everything)

Come see me.

Play Party & Class Vancouver BC

Two events happening this Saturday at Libido Lounge. Both are open to our members only and to their non member guests. Of course, you'll need to send in your reservation in order to attend.

SATURDAY MARCH 13
7:00 - 8:00
HOT SEX FOR THE UNINHIBITED - CLASS
$10 member / $15 guest of a member
presented by Jennifer
RESERVATIONS: jennifer@libidoevents.com

If you want intense passion and excitement in your sex life you need to take this course! This exhilarating workshop is crammed with Tantalizing Tips And Techniques for you to Keep Your Sex Life Smoldering Hot. This is not a beginners class. This is a class for people who are already good at sex and want to ramp it up to EXTRAORDINARY. This class will improve your sex life dramatically - whether you and your play mate have been together weeks or years!

We will discuss psychological preparation for wild sex and follow with lots of specific oral, toy, and manual techniques, with an emphasis on anal and vaginal intercourse. You will learn sexual positions which maximize your play time and give your partner deep satisfaction. You will discover just how responsive your body can be to certain sensations, which you and your partner can use to heighten your arousal and give you both truly amazing sex.

If you're looking for more sexual excitement, sensual touching tips, burning hot passion, mental foreplay, better sexual techniques, and greater sexual pleasure, then this class is the class for you!

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SATURDAY MARCH 13
9:00 - 1:00 AM
COUPLES ONLY SEX PLAY PARTY
hosted by Jennifer & Jason
$50 member couple / $60 guest couple of a member
RESERVATIONS: jennifer@libidoevents.com

Members May Reserve to bring 1 non member couple of their choosing

A Couples Only Sex Play Party. With music turned up, we swing open the doors to Couples Only and let the good times flow for an entire evening of hot sexy action. Meet other couples to watch, play with, swing with, chat with, cuddle up with and have a wild night out alongside.

Sex, Sex Machines, Bondage, Slap & Tickle & Social Time

Our massage girl will be on site providing her sensuous erotic massages at $20 for 15 minutes. Sign up when you arrive.

Open to Couples Only, same sex included of course. Bring your own toys and towel.

++Our Sex Machine the Monkey Rocker will be set up as will the Sybian, with attachments on sale, they range in price from $25-$90 CASH and once you buy it, you just continue to bring it back to LL so that you can ride each and every visit on your own personal insertable. The ride is free, it is the attachment piece you must buy. We have a number in stock, both singles and double insertables.

The kitchen will have snacks aplenty all evening long.

Dress Code: No street clothes, No business suits. No blue jeans. No running shoes, No athletic wear. No camouflage pants. No flannel robes. No sunglasses and No face masks.

Morsels

Happy International Woman's Day.

I'd write more but my day is committed to running a booth and teaching a class at Kwantlen's Health and Wellness Fair in Surrey.

NEED: I am looking for someone who works in a store or industry that sells fabric in massive quantities. (bolts) I need a really good price/ discount / deal so I can place a huge order. Can you get me a great deal? Drop me a line and let me know: jennifer@libidoevents.com


NEED: I am looking for someone who works in a store or industry that sells fake plants... trees to be precise. I need a really good price/ discount / deal so I can place a huge order. (about 14-16) Can you get me a great deal? Drop me a line and let me know: jennifer@libidoevents.com

All Things Sex [2]

The Swiss are now manufacturing a new condom to target the 12-14 year old boys who are sexually active and who find the regular sized condoms to be to large. I'm feeling like this is a bold move, as whatever can be done to make sex safer more accessible to all regardless of age (or size), is sex positive and progressive in my books.

A lovely couple who are Lounge members attended last nights Exploratorium event. They wrote something here about their experience. They are fast become a rather popular unit around our corner of the world. And he's an awesome baker who brings me tasty treats. Yummy.

Licking or rather being licked is certainly a favored activity of mine to partake in when the mood strikes. Nothing more satisfying than a warm tongue between ones lips, flicking in all the right place. You can imagine my delight then when I discovered this a few months back. Partnered or not, oral sex is now available whenever you are.

I have an old pal who can perform self pederasty ( insertion of his own penis into his anus). He does it as a party trick now and again, its mind-blowing to watch. I actually love watching other people see him do this for the first time. He sits on the edge of a sofa, twists his cock around once, pulls it backwards, lubes up his ass, then uses the arm of the sofa to bounce up and down until his dick is inside himself and he's thrusting. Incredible.

In a short while we are off to Paris, Germany and London for a few weeks. It would sure be great if you would send me the names of your favorite adult clubs and sex shops. We plan on making our way to as many of these favorite haunts as possible while holidaying.

All Things Sex

There is a very informative and eye opening article on Pornography circulating right now. You should spend the five minutes it will take to sit back and read it. It's from The Scientist and is titled Porn: Good for us?

Buy this book if you are a parent of a teenager (to give to your young person) or if you are a teen yourself, you'll be forever glad to have read it. It is also awesome reading for the college student, insightful as all hell and sex positive too.

How Women Measure Up. A London store is using mannequins in plus sizes in its store windows. Finally, realistically shaped women. Now if they would stop calling them plus sized and just use them intermixed with other sizes, that would be truly a miracle. Women come in all shapes and sizes ya' know?

The most beautiful word to myself as a polyamorous women, is one few can comprehend. It took me years to understand it, and a few more years to understand how to practice it with an open heart.

D is for Daisy Chain: At Sultry this past Saturday night, there was a daisy chain going on of women. (a group sex activity in which there is a linking of several people by oral connections) How delightful.


HELP ME: I am working on a new class. And I need feedback from a wide variety of people. Email me your opinions and observations on the the following.....

What behaviors do single men have at parties that make you uncomfortable or that make you decide to not engage them in conversation or play? What behaviors do single men have at parties that make you decide to talk with them or to play with them? What would you like single men to know or consider before approaching you for play?

These questions are being asked of single women and couples that play with men.

The new class is being written to support the single guy, so be descriptive and tell me what you've experienced over the years. It is my hope to develop a class that will assist them in reaching their goals more readily, while not offending anyone and achieving success more often.

You can write me at jennifer@libidoevents.com

List of Worry

There are days you simply wished you could erase from memory. Today was one of those unfortunate days where nothing went off as planned and I feel like I accomplished jack-shit.

Currently on my plate a number of things that are pressing.

1. I have an issue with a certain persons behavior and I'm trying to find a suitable way to work through this with them in a short period of time. I hate that this is causing me angst, usually I am able to handle things of this nature fast and with care.
   
2. Putting the baby to sleep is exhausting emotionally - he sleeps well, but getting him to fall asleep is ridiculous.
3. I have to drive the teenager to the airport at 4 AM.
   
4. The contractors working at The Lounge today were close to 2 hours late and as such are no where near finished the job they were hired for. Thursday we go at it again.
   
5. Juggling a 3 month old baby and working full time is not something that I recommend. Being self employed is draining at a time like this, like nothing I can describe adequately.
6. Tomorrow the little man gets his vaccinations. Oh joy, that should be.
7. I was requested today for yet another (print) media interview. The topic is one I am passionate about so I have said yes. They want to do it via phone this week when I have some free ... and quiet time. Good luck eh?
8. There is a large project I have been pondering doing for awhile, and I have finally decided to throw caution to the wind and move forward with it.
9. This month I am teaching at Kwantlen College twice, and at SFU. I need to work on my classes and update them for a "student" audience.
10. Friday I see the Infectious Disease doctor again for a check-up, this is actually making me nervous.
    

Let's hope I can clear my plate sooner rather than later. My head is bursting with thoughts and responsibilities. I need a vacation that's for sure.

Not-To-Be-Missed

FRIDAY MARCH 5
7 - 10 PM
EXPLORATORIUM - a self guided sampler event
$25 member / $45 member couple / $30 guest of a member
A DROP IN EVENT - no reservations required
No Dress Code

Is there an exciting erotic fantasy running through your mind that you have yet to dip your toes into? Perhaps you've tried to tease it out of someone before, but they wanted the shoe on the other foot? Maybe the idea of it tickles your fancy but when you've had the chance to watch it unfold you started to have second thoughts?

Exploratorium is the event where you can step into a new activity and try it on for size for just ten minutes at a time, in a casual but safe environment with skillful, experienced volunteers on hand to assist you. You can drop in all on your own throughout the evening--or bring a friend and be among the first to break the ice. You are encouraged to see all that is available to you: peruse the available activity booths, watch other people as they engage the volunteers in a guided tour before trying it yourself, and talk to people about their experiences over light snacks and beverages. Casual dress is welcome (this evening has no dress code).

Communication between volunteers and their subjects is paramount at this event--you tell us the pace at which you want to sample our smörgåsbord. Partial nudity may be required in order to participate in some of the booths. After all, how else can you experience spanking or a taste of electric stimulation?. Full nudity of some participants (and even a few volunteers from time to time) is not uncommon.

Did you know your skin gets more sensitive to light touch after a brisk spanking? You might find a booth for spanking and caresses on a typical evening of Exploratorium.

Have you ever wondered how someone could get a rush from a temporary piercing? Talk to someone about getting poked and you might find out.

Be erotically kissed or get a blissful body massage from our in house massage woman.

Does the idea of being dominated cause you to be excited and apprehensive in equal measure? There may be a booth for you at Exploratorium, where you can dare yourself to settle the matter once and for all!

No two evenings of Exploratorium are the same. Even the same booth may be attended by a different volunteer the next time you come out to whet your appetite for the exotic. The following is a brief (but not complete) list of common booths featured at Exploratorium to tantalize your senses and pique your curiosity:

- Restrictive rope bondage
- Sexy sensation seeking
- Paddling and percussion
- Flexibility check (with our yoga instructor)
- Erotic massage
- Tickling and light strokes
- Wax & Ice Play
- Suction cupping
- Pressure points
- Knife play
- Electricity play (e-stim)
- Clamping & Pinching
- Single Tails
- Silk Scarf Bondage
- Delicious flogging
- It's a wrap! -- mummification
- Intimate kissing
- Shaving with a straight razor (you pick: genitals? face? somewhere surprising?)

A Quarter of a Year

Our baby is three months old today. Actually he turns three months on the 29th, but since this month only has 28 days and no 29, today is the big day.

He is such a sweetheart. His personality is shining bright these days and we are so thrilled that he made his way into our family. What a joy.

It's tiring beyond belief working full time and having a wee one AND a teenager too. But it is so worth it.

A Full Nights Sleep

Last night our son went down to sleep in his crib at 10:10 at night. I went to bed at 11:15 about an hour later and curled up with Jason for a cuddle and then some much needed rest. Imagine my shock when I awoke at 8:20 in the morning and my breasts were swollen to easily three times there normal size.

Milk was trickling out of one breast and had pooled under my back and the sternum was filled with the white stuff too. The sheets were soaked and I was chilled from the wet spots that were more than damp.

I woke Jason up and asked him if he had gotten up during the night with the baby. He said no. Jason asked me if I had gotten up to the feed pickle during the night. I pulled back the covers and put his hands on my breasts ... no further explanation was necessary there.

Then Jason said bolt upright, and announced every parents worst fear. "Is he dead?" I chuckled. No, I can hear him cooing in his crib.

We both stared at the clock in our room as we did the math. Our son, who will be 3 months old tomorrow had slept for just over 10 hours straight, without feeding or waking us.

We woke refreshed, recharged and feeling really great. What a memorable day this is.

After being up for an hour Pickle and Jason left for a man day, and I was left at home by myself. You know what I did? I went back to bed for another two hours. What a luxury.

I am starting to come out of the fog that has been the past number of months of new motherhood and serious health issues.

With my PICC line out of my body, the home nurses gone, my infection on the mend and the baby starting to have better hours, my mood is now leveling out and I can see a light at the end of this very long dark tunnel we've been in.

Today has already kicked ass. I am grateful.

Tonight is Sultry our bath house event for couples, and we have plans on fucking like bunnies. Can you say "baby sitter"?

Mockery of the Perfect Penis

So yesterday I made a post about the man who wrote to me about his "perfect penis" and how he has a "gift". I have received numerous responses regarding this letter and they have all been silly and fun.

That post of mine inspired yet another reader to send me this

Hi,

So I’m a relatively attractive almost-28-year-old. I take issue with the recent claim by a relatively attractive 28-year-old, as recounted on your blog, that his penis is perfect. My own phallus has always received positive reviews and I will not ignore a gauntlet thus thrown. If he wishes to engage in a dick-measuring contest with the world, let it hereby be known that he will not be unopposed! The aesthetic qualities of my penis can be substantiated by miscellaneous photography, with and without adhesive googly eyes.

You are also welcome to perform in-person measurements and other examinations and evaluations, as deemed appropriate, pleasant, and/or entertaining.

This is exceptionally funny to me for a variety of reasons.

1. I know the man who wrote me the above email.
2. I have touched the penis of the man above and find it to be noteworthy.
3. I have an actual photo of his penis with googly eyes on it (courtesy of his girlfriend)
4. My friends penis would surely and easily win any contest against yesterdays perfect penis.


Ok, this now concludes me mocking the man who gave me so much to laugh at. Back to regular scheduled programming.

From My In-Box

As you have likely figured out, my email account is one that most people would not want to get near. And for good reason too. People write me about all sorts of personal issues, disclose things they should keep private and ask questions of a very intimate nature.

Most people are clever though and can figure out how to write a request without coming across as egotistical or creepy.

I say "most people" because there is always the exceptions to this rule.

Yesterday a man sent me an email, this is it, in its entirety

Hi, So i am a relatively attractive 28 year old who has become bored with many things in my life. Ever since i started having sex I have been told that I have a gift, some have even said perfect, penis. There are many things in the sexual realm that i stilll haven\'t been a part of and now i feel i am ready to do something more \"adventureous\", i guess would be the word. I don\'t know if this is the place for me, and if not i would appreciate if you could point me in a better direction, but some sort of amateur thing might be what i am looking for. In any event I am interested in your site and what you do and i look forward to further communication....

Now I think I am supposed to in awe of his gift. Because as you can imagine, I've *never* met any other man in life or in email claiming to have a PERFECT PENIS. Wow. Jeez. Really?

I can only presume that this man assumes (incorrectly) that his "supposed" perfect penis, will get him something special at The Lounge.

Yet if he had spent the time to read the Libido Events and Libido Lounge website he would have known that penis attributes are irrelevant to membership and to me personally.

Further if he had read the website he would clearly understand that we are not a porn site, so looking for something "amateurish" with us is also a mistake.

Then he asks me to point him in the right direction. To where? For what? I know nothing about this man.

I digress, I know a little about him. Lets see .... he's a 28 year old man, who has led a boring life and who can use email but not read a website. He has a perfect penis and a gift. He is not ego filled, no not-at-all. And he has found my website and email address, oh lucky me and thinks I will be the one to save him from his sexual boredom.


I guess I can count myself fortunate that there was no attached photo of his appendage to his odd email.

Some days I am torn between deleting such emails and putting my head through a wall.

Welcome to my professional life.

Stimulating Events

Three fast approaching events, the first two are only for Lounge members and the last one is for members and the general public alike.

THURSDAY FEBRUARY 25th, 6:30 - 9:00
CUDDLE PARTY
Cost: $25 member / $40 couple / $30 guest of a member
Reservations: jennifer@libidoevents.com
Open to Women & Men

Please note that you must also have your $25 cash renewal cost on you if your member number is PRE 516. And your renewal is good for 12 months.

The evening starts with an opening circle orientation that will set the ground rules, connect us together, make introductions and have some playful games too.
An event where you may indulge the snuggle bunny within yourself. A chance to enjoy Compliments, Cuddles and Caresses, in an environment where sex is not permitted on this one evening.

Massages, flirtatious energy, kind words, big hugs, and gentle stroking. A movie on the big screen and tempting snacks to nibble on.

Be as sensual as you feel comfortable with knowing that everyone must keep their bottoms on. You may remove clothing if you like, but genitals must be kept covered. Wear something comfortable, perhaps your pajamas even!

This event is designed for people of every persuasion, unkindness is not permitted. Everyone is worthy of a hug and sweet murmur.

There is no requirement to hug or cuddle with anyone if you do not wish to.




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FRIDAY FEBRUARY 26th, 7:30 - 10:15 PM
SENSUAL MASSAGE NIGHT
Cost $25 member / $45 couple / $30 non member guest
Reservations: jennifer@libidoevents.com
Open to Couples, Women & Men

Please note that you must also have your $25 cash renewal cost on you if your member number is PRE 516. And your renewal is good for 12 months


Here is your chance to get a sensual massage and to give a sensual massage in a safe environment.

This social relaxing event is open to men and women and is an all inclusive environment. You'll be respectfully touched by people of both sexes.

The evening starts with a short group ritual and then a conversation about group rules around boundaries to ensure each person gets the experience they are seeking. Then we break into groups on The Lounges countless massage tables.

Depending on the number of people attending each person will be massaged for a period of time, before "returning the favor". You may well have two or three sets of hands working you over at some point.

The event is non sexual, your preferences for pressure and massage placement will be honored.

There is no dress code, though wearing clothing easy to remove is most helpful. You may choose to be massaged while nude, or while wearing underwear.

You *must* bring your own towel. Massage oils are provided, though feel free to bring your favorite.

Snacks will be out and subtle music will fill the air.


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SULTRY - couples only bath house event
SATURDAY FEBRUARY 27th, 7:30 - 11:30 PM

Tickets are $80 for General Public couples and non refundable.
Tickets are $65 for Lounge Member couples and non refundable.
Tickets are $10 for Lounge Life Time Member couples and non refundable.
(PAYMENT DUE IN ADVANCE, NO TICKETS AT DOOR)

SULTRY Steam, Sauna, Sex - Couples Only

We make a private rental of an Original Style Bath House in Vancouver.

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An evening for the playfully adventurous: Just you, your partner...and twenty-four other couples, locked in for an evening of debauchery. With saunas, showers, play rooms, and massage tables, the stage is set for sensual, sexual, and fun games. Get lathered up with a large number of others in the shower (the lathering is mutual, of course); have a water fight; pair up (or triple up) for intimate play -- or watch other people while they do. Relax in the sauna between activities while Jennifer runs her version of Show & Tell (not quite the game you remember), have a snack or a cold drink, then dive back into the steam for more.

Tickets are first come, first served and are purchased by sending a check made payable to "LL":

Libido Lounge
PO Box 28578
4050 Hastings Street
Burnaby, BC V5C 6J4
Canada

OR

Send an Electronic Money Transfer = EMT, from your banks home page, to my email address jennifer@libidoevents.com

**Once payment is received, the address and other relevant party info will be sent to you. Be sure to include your email address when sending a check, and the answer to the security question when sending an EMT.

* All inclusive: Entrance to the event, finger foods, non-alcoholic beverages, lounge room entertainment, play stations, safer-sex supplies...

* ...Social lounge with TV and refreshments, play rooms (with recovery beds and massage tables), two large shower rooms, two large steam rooms

* You and your partner must arrive and leave together.

* Our own masseuse for couples massages (there is an additional charge of $20 for 15 minutes). Sign up when you arrive!