remembering a few things

After each big event lately, I see another thing or two that needs purchased still or that I should have made for us. Currently it is obvious that we need three or four bar stools for the kitchen. Today I spent some time on Craig's List scouting ads for stools and hope to have them by tomorrow.

We also need a convection oven, not to cook food, rather to keep appetizers warm and such. The microwave works fine but a small counter top oven would certainly make a world of difference. While out earlier I found the top of the line Black & Decker Convection Oven model that is currently the rave. I shall pick it up tomorrow and check that item off from my wish list as well.

Where do I go to find a bench? I need one that has storage underneath it in some form. Flat top. Cushioned or cushion-able. No back to it. No ends on it. Metal or Wood is fine. Lightweight but very sturdy. One piece. Help please.


There was a man at the was spread eagled, "in his manties", on a bed while secured with four cuffs. We all did delicious things to him, it was his first time to a party and his first time to have the affection and attention of more than one woman at a time. There was nine women at one point all on top of this ONE man.

When one of my girlfriends squatted over his face, with her vulva 1/2 inch from his lips she was laughing as she said " I think this is what he really wants to see". His eyes rolled back in his head he was so over come with headiness, I thought he may pass out from bliss. Another woman was licking his nipples while yet another stroked his inner thighs with her nails just enough to watch his cock twitch back and forth. Someone else was holding his cock while two other women were masturbating on either side of his head so he could just turn his eyes to the right or left and see different pussies, or inhale deeply and smell all of the girl juice that was surrounding him.

Moving Forward

RC and I awoke early today and managed to check off most everything on our To-Do List, though this required hours out of the house and running around at a nauseous speed in the heat.

Tonight's Guest List is rather impressive, both in numbers and in the whose-who aspect of it all. I am looking forward to this lot of Members partying together for sure.

The new door bell is now installed, with huge thanks to RC. We will no longer have to staff the door, rather now just listening for the bell to go off and sending some one to answer to it.

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In other news, I am looking for a Graphic Designer who can cartoon me. Someone to make a cartoon image of me suitable for web and print. Are you this person and able to do this job in the next week or two? If so please make contact with me and we'll discuss particulars.

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If you have a FaceBook profile and either are a friend of mine OR a member of Libido Lounge, would you please friend me "Jennifer Skrukwa". Then if you are a Member of LL, I will subscribe/join you to the secret FaceBook page that keeps our members connected with one another.

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I need to make all the signs for the Lounge. Professionally laminated signs with instructions regarding cleaning, equipment use, cell phones & cameras, safewords and house rules. This is over due, and I am so tired of the tacky photocopied signs, I want 'em shiny and slick now.

Tidbits

The Attendee List was rather large. We had nineteen people attend this evenings New Member Orientation class, it was a very busy night. Plenty of items to discuss, tours to do and paper work to complete. Our Member base is growing exponentially and I couldn't be more pleased.

The chance to sit back and view others as they see Libido Lounge for the first time makes me proud and ecstatic. People love the space when they see what we have created for them and are thrilled themselves to be able to share it with us. It always flatters me when some one is caught off guard by how easy it was for them to walk in our front doors and feel welcomed safely, right away. I work hard to do all of this.

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From today's Province News Paper

Every B.C. Adult and Child will receive a one-time only cheque for $100.00 each for the climate action dividend (from last year’s government surplus). If you filed an income tax, you will automatically get the cheque late next month, but you have to apply for your kids.

Here’ is a link to the form.

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My friend Trish is moving out of country, and so she is selling her car.
THIS IS HER AD.
CONTACT: trishakastelein@hotmail.com

FOR SALE: 2007 Kia Rio 5, Grey Granite colour, 5 speed manual transmission, Convenience Package - Power locks, Power windows, Heated front seats, Air conditioning - purchased for extra $4,000 - Paint/Interior protection package - Sealen on paint - 5 year warranty - fading paint, bird droppings, car wash residue protected & Fabric guard - 5 year warranty - stains will be removed or seats replaced - purchased for extra $2,000, owned for just over 1 year - 28,000 kilometres still under warranty
PRICE $15,900.00 O.B.O

Work Photo

This photo was shot of me at The Abbotsford Taboo Show just a few weeks back. I had a lot of fun and received a wealth of praise for bringing my positive sex education series out to the bible belt; the very city in which I grew up and went to school.

The blue speckle corset is just phenomenal, and fully boned. The craftsmanship is awesome and the color is unique, it makes me smile to just see a photo of it. Thank you to Beth, who made the corset custom to my body specifications and desires. You did such a breath taking job.

Air Conditioning

Reflecting a little in the quiet morning of the house, on the last day of this long weekend it's hard not to be rattled by all the happenings.

Friday was Wreck ..... a get naked with my partner and hang out down at the beach enjoying the weather, ocean and one another kind of day. Despite using sun screen SPF 30, we each managed too much sun on various spots on our bodies. Not at all pleasant to have ones skin hurting, I actually had to ask RC to hold me by the hips when we were in bed fucking, cause quite frankly, it was causing me great pain. And NOT of the exquisite variety.

Saturday was Costco shopping, right as they opened for Business Members at 9:30, I was there and loading up a cart. Zooming through the warehouse towards the exit with everything purchased from my list, and a few more add-ons because hey, it's Costco, and their selection and pricing is quite attractive. My bill was less than I had budgeted for and I was feeling good about how my day was going thus far.

Got to the Lounge, and brought all the groceries in, which was a feat in of itself, all by myself. Stocking up the fridge, which by the way, we got a new one of. A newer white model that is already well in use. As I was finishing filling the cupboards with snacking items I realized how unbearably hot it was inside the facility.

I decided to turn on the lights finally in the place, and the air conditioning so I could run about and set up for the evenings event. A large number of women are about to converge on the Lounge at 7:30 for DIRTY GIRLS, our play party.

The A/C would not work. It won't come on, it is only blowing hot air. Not something the place needs more of. Especially since we have no windows that open it is imperative that there be cool air, cold air. But Nothing.

OK so I finish setting up for the evenings party, turn off the lights and head back home to my computer and files. Locating a repair company can't be that hard right? Wrong. Every entity I found was charging outrageous over time rates on a scorcher of a Saturday, which was of course our long weekend. This was beyond anything I was capable of dealing with.

Professional help came early today, thanks to the Property Management Company and fixed the sucker so it blows cold air again, and not stifling heat.

At times from the outside looking in, I am sure my life looks so flamboyant, happy and stress free. I just wanted to pay homage to the fact, that my life sucks from time to time as well, and that I too have stresses. Usually I choose to forge on and keep the sucky news to myself, this time I shared it with you all.

Good news is now we have our kick ass Air Conditioning System in perfect working order, and ready for a HOT summer of partying and exploits.

Sex Pleasure & Sex Changes

The photo that you see here, is the image of a women's mind during orgasm. Science says it is during orgasm that her mind is the most quiet. After looking at the photo a few times over, I still see and feel as though my head explodes during orgasm.

The Orgasmic Mind: The Neurological Roots of Sexual Pleasure

Achieving sexual climax requires a complex conspiracy of sensory and psychological signals—and the eventual silencing of critical brain areas.

Click on the photo to go and read the accompanying article, its from the esteemed Scientific America.


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There is an up and coming (to the mainstream world) notorious (to anyone on the journey of transitioning & their supporters) clinic in Montreal (yes that is in Canada for you Yankees) transforming people into the individuals they have always known they were.

In the last five years alone, I have had six friends change the outward face of their gender identity. Another three pals are on the verge of embarking on the process in the next year or so too. Both M-F (4) and F-M (3). And the age range of the people I know seems to be around 23 years to late thirties for those fully transitioning: Hormones, Surgery, Counseling and Life Re-Ordering.

This is a fascinating article and worth while read (on sex positivity) from CBC News.

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The other day my man showed up at home with a present for me. A Wanachi! Get yourself one, especially if you are as fond of the Hitatchi Magic Wand as I am. This toy comes in at a close second: its easier to hold and manage, smaller to get into tight places, flexible head, multiple unique speeds, more quiet as its battery operated and available in range of colors.




Did I mention the fact that its waterproof as well? Well, it is. And for those of you concerned about the product its made from, know that is is Phthalates Free , and powered by two simple AA batteries.

Disney does cock

It stands so proud, and I can see it clearly. Can you see the phallus shaped object in the photo art for The Little Mermaid?

Way to go Disney!

Restraining Order, bondage Vancouver

It can be said that I do well with structure and routine. Hosting events on a regular night of the week, bi monthly is starting to grow on me. Like, a lot.

It was Restraining Order, our bondage night tonight, and wow did we ever have fun. Most everyone played, it was a real hoot. I have no idea how things got rolling but once they did, they ran through till it was past closing. A very cute girl got tied to the bondage chair. Someone brought their Humbler. Chest harnesses were a plenty. A couple tied together, her on top him, both of them legs splayed, on the bondage table.

The new lay-out is working well for people and I think this gave us more freedom to move about. Somehow I found myself locked inside a cage and being poked by silly perverts with bamboo skewers. I laughed so much my sides hurt.

Some new faces at RO as well, the night is developing its own crowd and energy. We are now realizing that the night as of May should be 3 hours long instead of two and half to give every one more time to play and hang out with friends.

Sexy Board Game Night

We played a most unusual version of Scrabble at Vanilla Night Out earlier tonight, "Sex Words".

Playing against one another for most points, was two teams of two. You had the ability to combine letters (14 tiles) and talk with your partner. The end result was longer and more creative word usage.



I present to you, the finished board. (click to enlarge and giggle)




And yes, there were even some naked boobies around.

from a new couple

Upon asking a couple whom had attended Sultry if they could write something for me about their experience, this is what I received from them.

This is Sultry

Its a cold rainy night and we're chilled to the bone. We're damp when we arrive – my husband is shivering, I am shaking. Maybe its more than just the cold however – we are nervous. This is the first time we've done “something like this” - we don't know what to expect. We've talked about what's OK and what's not; we've talked about our boundaries and limitations. We've got agreements – secret codes worked out in case one of us gets skittish. Seems like a lot of preparation for a night out at a sauna, but this is no ordinary night out.

Inside we find warmth – the sauna is HOT but beyond that, the company is charming and welcoming. Jennifer meets us at the door with a hug and subtly suggests that the flimsy pieces of clothing we're climbing into might be better suited staying in the locker. After all, she explains, everything in there (gesturing the the showers and saunas beyond) is awfully wet...

We sit in the hot sauna, and exchange pleasantries with the other couples enjoying the heat. And man is is hot. I feel my skin dripping and wet and I smell the soothing embrace of eucalyptus in the steam. I feel my reservations starting to melt away, and when I lean over to rub my husbands shoulders, I feel his tension slowly diffusing.

As the night continues, we find ourselves in a whirlwind of sexiness and fun. The enjoyment is contagious; everyone is feeling it. Bodies are starting to rub together, couples starting to caress one another. The anticipation is reaching a crescendo and then all of a sudden, the fun begins. Couples start to gravitate to tables, to showers, to benches. Hands start to explore, mouths start to mingle, bodies begin to merge. We watch for a bit, cuddling in a shower, before going to enjoy some time together in the somewhat less hot sauna. There's another couple in there, but that fine. We're both exhibitionists, and I love having the eye candy. Even though the only person I play with all night is my husband (like most, if not all, of the couples there) I get to experience the decadent energy flowing through the place as the sounds of slurping, squishing, smacking and sucking resonate off the tiled walls.

There's something for everyone. Off to the side, there are semi private booths, cramped and clean, but still illicit enough that is feels so dirty-sexy giving my husband a blow job. Adding to the allure is the knowledge that our moans are dancing across the ears of other similarly engaged guests. Massage tables pepper the locker room, there is spanking and massaging and all sorts of wonderful things to watch. And then, of course, there's the shower room – filled with playfulness and joviality. Cold water splashes back and forth, shrieks reverberate through the shower sprays. There are water guns and water balloons and somehow, they bring out the bratty kid in so many of us. And when that gets a little too cold, or when the mood strikes, we gallivant back into the sauna, to steam in the comfort of our skin, watching the sweat glisten and roll down the curves of so many beautiful bodies.

When the night is done, we emerge, smiling from the sauna house, and confront the cold night air once again. Its been a wonderful night – we're both sated for now, and happy. Our boundaries were not pushed in the slightest – we played together and it was awesome. I can't help but wonder what we were so worried about. Back at home, we revisit the evening, talking about our impressions and feelings about everything we experienced.. I listen to my husband talking about all the great stuff we saw and did, and it makes me want to tear into him, again. But before I do, I can't help but think I am so glad we went. Oh yes, we'll be going back.

busted, almost

When you sleep as late as I have for the last couple of days, evening's tend to run into the wee hours. I'm not particularly sleepy right now and so I bring you a blog post.

Despite my resolve to stay under my covers and remain on bed rest, I did venture out briefly to the neighborhood video store in my sweats last night with RC. We wanted to pick up a few movies to see us through the weekend and the only way to ensure there was a movie that I would enjoy, was to go along myself.

And of course while out, a funny thing occurred worthy of sharing.

After wandering around with the hordes of other Friday night movie hopefuls, we completed touring the store, before settling on three different interesting selections.

Bringing the cases to the counter we were greeted by a friendly, young man. After idle chit chat as he was scanning each movie and checking ID, I made my way to the door ahead of RC.

As I walked through the security merchandise scanner, it started beeping. No problem I thought to myself, I will just back up, and walk through it again.

And I did, only to have the damn thing start beeping again. Now everyone in line was giving me a look, then turning to the guy handling the movies to see what he was going to do with me.

I looked at the employee, and stated, "I have nothing on me, I do not know why it is beeping like that". He gave me a once over from head to toes, then nodded saying "sometimes cell phones can make it go off".

Chuckling nervously, I smiled and said "ok, if you say so". Hoping madly that he was correct and that he wouldn't say, "come over here for a second".

On my shoulder you see, was a fairly large tote style red pvc satchel. And the LAST thing that I wanted for this youthful guy to ask to take a peek inside of my purse.

You see, there were no stolen or even borrowed movies in my bag. In fact there was nothing in my bag, that I wanted to be sharing with a stranger. Period.

What was in my bag though was a few personal items, like lets say, a whole whack of sex toys. I won't say why or how, but suffice to say there was a butt plug, a double vibrating egg, three vaginal insertables and of course a double butterfly. There are always condoms in my purse, so that wouldn't bother me, but I'd be uncomfortable having a video line up of people viewing my adult sex products.


I try to live by the mantra, Don't Scare The Villagers.

Bed Rest

Spending time in bed is hard for me. Well, if I am not sleeping, tied up, or having sex that is. It's not that I am a restless soul, rather its that my energy level is usually so high that I just spring to action constantly and run at full steam.

Meaning its often not till after I've been over-working so hard, that it becomes obvious that I have forgotten to care for myself adequately. Not eating proper or regularly, an erratic life and work schedule, a mountain of personal and professional commitments and a mind that goes constantly are all items that do catch up with me; causing great distress from time to time.

The last two days have been about recovery. I am on bed rest, having self ordered this little necessity before I fell over and ended up hospitalized due to some stress or work related illness.

My feet feel weary. I have a low grade head ache. My body is achy. My muscles are sore and tight. I am hungry for a home cooked, stick to your ribs kind of meal.

If you know me well, you know that I am not a telephone person. In fact, I don't speak much on the phone at all. It is not a way to communicate that works for me. If I am going to speak to someone, I really prefer the face-to-face conversations.

My personal cell phone probably rings around twenty odd times a day. My home line rings approximately a dozen times each day along with the Lounge phone ringing too.

Aside from taking calls from my daughter and RC, no one else is getting through to me right now. At least until I feel rested and ready to return calls. Everyone can just leave me a message or email their query. I am happily not responding to anyone at this time.

The house is clean so I do not feel compelled to get up and doing anything about it. The fridge is full and the bills are all paid. My lap top is with me in bed. The cat is nestled on top of me purring gently. Another nap is going to be taking place soon, right after I grab a toy and masturbate to a great big huge "O".

It's May right now, and May is happily Masturbation month. The month of Self Pleasuring & Solo Sex. I will be having more to say on this subject in the days to follow.

In a nutshell

I slept for twelve and half hours last night and into this morning. My fatigue is long standing and though the sleep did me a world of good, it is really a get way that I am in need of.

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Oh my goodness this is very well done and it made me laugh so hard. It is a BCAA commercial on TV, so it is work safe. Thank you to my good friend K, for pointing me towards the link.

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While out looking for girlie panties at a little store, my cell phone rang. Clutched in one hand was five or so pairs that had caught my attention thus far and I had to put them down to take the call.

I was startled to hear the voice of a long time acquaintance on the other end. After the obligatory few minutes of catch up between us, as we are in differing countries and on opposite sides at that, finally we made our way to business.

"When are you going to hire me Jennifer? .... it's about time I was out your way. Bring me to Canada. So, when can you do it???"

Me standing in the under garment section sat down on a chair and thought to myself about advance bookings.

"Well, I'd like you to teach for Libido Lounge soon, like very soon. You know this, hence my barrage of emails to you as of late."

We tossed dates and months back and forth between us, before finally I had to bow out of the conversation.

I said, "how about I go home and sit in front of my computer later tonight and work with your availability to see what dates I can come up that may work for each of us."

"Done" said my caller.

And that left me to finish choosing panties, and purchase all eight pair.

*want to make me a happy woman, buy me lovely silky panties, I adore well made undergarments

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Last night at Deviant Dining good friends S & V, brought me the most gorgeous bouquet of purple and yellow flowers. They are now displayed in a vase on a table and they sure brighten the dining room, there is no way I was leaving them at the office. Those flowers came home with me.

Holy Batman

We put two tables, equaling thirteen feet long, pushed together in the main room. Then set up chairs all the way around. A couple of table clothes, some candles and wonderful dinner music.

A third table set up in the main room was the hospitality table. Cutlery, plates, glasses, napkins, pitcher of water, salad, buns, butter and appetizers.

Were there ever a large group of Members at tonights Deviant Dining, our first ever community pot luck dinner. 18 people showed up for our fantastic buffet style, sit down meal at Libido Lounge. If you missed out, you should be kicking yourself.

The amount of food was outrageous and so yummy too. Everyone brought such delectable stuff to consume that there was plenty to go around and even more as left overs.

The kitchen (in another room) was exploding with food, which took over yet another table and area. Chili, smoked salmon cream cheese and capers, curry chicken and rice, cod and rice, turkey rolls, fruit platter, noodle dish, vegetarian dishes, borscht & sausage and all the fixings, god the food was abundant we were not short on anything.


A caramel apple pie, a banana cream pie, apple crumble and of course real whipping cream.

Having the chance to dine and converse with everyone so casually was nice. And it was obvious how much everyone else was enjoying their night too. The laughter and conversations were non-stop, making me very happy. Good friends, stimulating talk and scrumptious food.

RC helped me tidy up at nights end, after everyone was gone and I am now officially on top of the world.

The date of the next dinner event is

Wednesday May 21

another Tuesday

A small group of Members gathered for After-NOONER, it was a great mid day event. Our third time hosting it now, and it is finally starting to develop it's own flavor.

I saw another client today and am officially booked up this week for appointment times. I wish I was able to be more productive with my awake hours, though I am confident that I could not use my time any better than I already am.

Costco has become a warehouse that eats a lot of our income. There always seem to be some new exciting item there that we simply must own at the Lounge. RC picked up an eight foot long table, for tomorrow evenings Deviant Dining.

And bless RC's heart, he showed up at home with a new spiffy white wireless WiFi new printer. For me. How awesome is that? So much so that he is going to get some serious butt sex for this gift!

It's not been said lately, but I love RC so very much. He is my sweetheart and without his presence in my life, nothing would be as it is today. It is true he is head over heels for me, and I for him. Its thick in the air, our combined sexual energy. We are a match.

Allena, is my sweet sweet girl, whom I care about and love. RC loves her just as much. She was here for a couple of days, after taking the train up from Seattle. We had a blast zipping around the city, shopping and dining out. What fun. Having her visit us here is always such a treat.

All four of us, my daughter, Allena, RC and I have been discussing summer holidays. Our plans are coming together now in a big way. Likely I'll let you know where we jet off to, *after* we return from our get away.

Coaching Time

The last while I have been consistently booked solid when it comes to appointment times. This makes me very happy with a huge feeling of personal accomplishment. And it is a sure sign that my career is booming and on an upward swing too. I enjoy success, though am finding it tedious many of the labor intensive necessities I have to tend to in order to maintain this excellent exposure.

I've seen three clients in the last twenty four hour period and the differences to what brought each person to me is vast. That helping each person find what they needed was relatively easy for me, speaks to how large my experience in sex culture is and how vast my knowledge surrounding sexuality.

It's homework time for me now. This is next where I send my clients a summary of our time together, allowing them to have a base to spring from next.

Finally having my own offices now has changed the face of how I do business and what I can offer to those seeking out my expertise.

Go me!

shocking heh?

I have nothing to say right now.

Restraining Order

This Thursday March 1, you better plan on attending. Because this may well be our fastest growing, and exciting regular weekday event yet.


Restraining Order - play and social event

You might be fit to be tied or tied to be fit. You might be very, very knotty or a complete rope novice. You can have a hankering to be bound and suspended or an interest in learning the perfect hog tie. What matters most is that you’ve got an interest in bondage and would like to spend a casual evening with like minded individuals.

Restraining Order is Libido Lounge’s twice monthly Bondage Night, a light and fun evening of snacks, socializing and the possibility of making the acquaintance of truly intriguing souls with a shared interest. Couples, singles, men and women are welcome. Bring your bondage gear and a willing spirit. You might learn something new or teach something new, but one thing is hoped, you’ll enjoy yourself!

Bondage aficionados are generally keen to show off their skills, so Restraining Order is a great place to learn if you’ve always wondered about tying up a partner or being tied up yourself. Ask questions; you’ll find out favourite rope lengths, dying methods, materials and the benefits of each.


Venue: L.L.C. MEMBERS ONLY

DROP - IN / $25 cash per person, or $40 per couple
Life Time Members $5
Cash Pay at door

last nights party

Last nights party was a lot of fun. Most every one there played in some fashion and even the singles, many of them, found themselves a part of play with other couples.

At one point all four queen sized beds were in use and the new stocks were being used along with the gyn. table and the bondage table. And there were two couples on the suspension frame. Both large rooms had almost every piece of equipment in use. Though not all. We've got an abundance, that's for sure.

The kitchen bitches as they proclaimed themselves, did such a wonderful job. Can't thank them enough for making all the food look yummy on display and for helping guests with there hunger pangs and drink requests.

RC my love was so wonderful to all our guests, and to me. You own my heart.

And at the end of the evening, we spent eight minutes tidying up. Then turned off the remaining heat and lights, before walking out the door of our own place. Which I might point out, is already clean and beautifully ready for our next event there. No more set up, take down, hauling equipment around.

Have you seen the May Calendar, go look now.

Lucrative Positions Available

Of all the people I know, I find myself at a loss at who to contact for an upcoming gig I am planning.

Maybe I know a man, but I am drawing a blank right now and this is not helping me at all.

Does any one personally know a really good, naughty and sex positive male stripper?

I need to find me a stripper. Can you help me, perhaps you know some young guy that does this as a job, or maybe you've recently hired some one?

Send me his name and contact information and I'll take care of explaining to him what I require.

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Now I am in need of a Woman who is Saucy Naughty Flirtatious AND an Excellent Card Dealer. Poker, Black Jack, etc...

Is this you sweetness, then email me and have I ever got an offering for you. Perhaps this is your Girl Friend, Wife or Partner...have her email me, the event is super cool and you'll both be able to attend I promise.

Drop me an email telling me a little more about yourself, experience, and I in turn will send you information on what we're planning.