Last night I taught Sex Tips From A Bi Sexual Woman at the studio and then drove straight home to Jim who'd driven up to spend the night the night here with me. We cooked steaks and corn at 11:00 at night, then crawled into bed and made love till 2 in the morning. Our schedules have been so full as of late that we've resorted to snatching time however and whenever we can get it together.
We rolled out of bed this morning awhile ago now and not without complaint on my behalf. I love sleeping with my Daddy and being cuddled up in his warmth is intoxicating for me and so pulling us apart is often difficult as I hang on tight and make known my displeasure. (ha, it's the little girl in me) I've already cleaned up the bins and toys from last nights class and gotten Jim well on the road to Olympia. This afternoon I work, then this evening I'm teaching a private class.
I was contracted a week or so ago to teach a 3 hour class on Women's Dominance / SM 101 to a woman privately in the city at her home. The class went great and she got a lot out of it and now this evening, I've been hired again. This time, she and her partner have hired me and are going to see me as a couple to explore, female submission and male dominance.
Since I work this afternoon till 6pm I will be driving straight from work to my evening appointment and returning to a home and bed all to myself. Daughter still away on holidays and no poly partners in sight, my bed will be my own tonight. The questions that remains is "what time will I actually make it into bed and away from the work in my computer?"
Jennifer
Jennifer ... Vancouver's Sex Educator, Sexuality Coach and Activist. The content of this blog is not suited for those under the age of 18. What you'll find here is a written account of my personal journey in sex positive culture both personally and professionally.
Wednesday, August 24, 2005
Tuesday, August 23, 2005
smart balls for the vagina-review
What follows is a Product Review
Looks so innocent, almost like a stress ball that goes in the palm of your hand and you squeeze. But no, these are Smart Balls, coated in elastomer which is an inert,
hypoallergenic rubber that's safe and nonporous and they get covered in a layer of lube and slid up into the vaginal cavity where they'll stay nestled away as long as you want to enjoy them you lucky woman you!
My Smart Balls came in yellow and pink and are covered in subtle grooves that make even the simple act of insertion fun to draw out and toy with. Pop in one and slide it back it out, pop another in and grab the cord and tug. Tug, again and again and again, not hard enough to pull them out, just hard enough to make them wiggle and please you.
Two balls connected slightly and each containing a smaller ball inside designed specifically to allow the balls to constantly be in motion & rolling silently while we're moving about, thus giving way to a heightened sense of awareness to our pelvic interior and their delicious movement. What a lovely feeling of fullness and movement roaming your insides for an intimate massage with the Smart Balls.
Subtle, so subtle you can wear this to work and easy to remove with a simple pull cord when your done with it. The cord is covered in hypoallergenic rubber that makes cleaning simple and drips non existent.
This month Tickled Pink Toys has these Smart Balls on for $34.95 Canadian
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enjoy your pleasure seeking,
Jennifer
Libido Events
Sunday, August 21, 2005
waxing purple toes
Let me tell you about my Saturday afternoon...
I had this date with this really attractive woman that I love. Let's call her my bottom, kara.
She was dressed as I asked her to be, in a skirt, sun hat, bra and pantiless. (accessible) Me in a dress and a hat as well.
Strolling through the Vandusen Botanical Gardens in Vancouver for hours hand in hand, we had such a lovely day together with no where particular to be and no agenda other than spending time with one another. We paused and spread a sheet and lay in the shade eating a picnic lunch and talking together while looking out at a sea of foliage and brilliant colored flowers so tall they blocked others from seeing us completely sitting on the grass floor.
Wandered over to the waterfall that was so stunning we had to sit and pause on bench to appreciate the view. (and to fondle one another) Walking further past lawns that are immaculate so immaculate here that it makes you wonder what little people with gardening tools must come out at night to create this wonder.
Finally I settled kara on to another bench later in the afternoon, next to a pond with pink and white lilies floating in it and turtles swimming amonst the lily pads as the hot afternoon sun was shaded behind very tall tress. Put a blindfold on her so she wouldn't know what was about to happen and then pulled her sun hat down so no one could see her face. Remove her shoes and put her feet on the sheet on the bench. On my knees next to her, I kiss her cheek and light the candle in my hand. She knows nothing, yet can hear the lighter I'm sure.
kara loves to have her feet covered in wax so......I took my candle and in the middle of the park with people walking by, blindfolded her while sitting next to the pond, I slowly covered her toes covered in purple paint in paraffin wax. Dripped some all over her feet, down her ankles, made it splatter and watched her body move to the heat of the candle wax and to the want that was building up in both of us. We played with the hot wax for a good 20 minutes before our little impromptu scene ended. What fun, I am a very lucky woman.
I should spend more Saturday afternoons lost in the bliss of a partner and so should you!
Jennifer
And for those of you environmentalists, don't worry, we did not leave the park floor covered in wax, we removed it from her feet with a scrubbie and put it all on the sheet, rolled it up, then I brought it all home to dispose of it myself.
I had this date with this really attractive woman that I love. Let's call her my bottom, kara.
She was dressed as I asked her to be, in a skirt, sun hat, bra and pantiless. (accessible) Me in a dress and a hat as well.
Strolling through the Vandusen Botanical Gardens in Vancouver for hours hand in hand, we had such a lovely day together with no where particular to be and no agenda other than spending time with one another. We paused and spread a sheet and lay in the shade eating a picnic lunch and talking together while looking out at a sea of foliage and brilliant colored flowers so tall they blocked others from seeing us completely sitting on the grass floor.
Wandered over to the waterfall that was so stunning we had to sit and pause on bench to appreciate the view. (and to fondle one another) Walking further past lawns that are immaculate so immaculate here that it makes you wonder what little people with gardening tools must come out at night to create this wonder.
Finally I settled kara on to another bench later in the afternoon, next to a pond with pink and white lilies floating in it and turtles swimming amonst the lily pads as the hot afternoon sun was shaded behind very tall tress. Put a blindfold on her so she wouldn't know what was about to happen and then pulled her sun hat down so no one could see her face. Remove her shoes and put her feet on the sheet on the bench. On my knees next to her, I kiss her cheek and light the candle in my hand. She knows nothing, yet can hear the lighter I'm sure.
kara loves to have her feet covered in wax so......I took my candle and in the middle of the park with people walking by, blindfolded her while sitting next to the pond, I slowly covered her toes covered in purple paint in paraffin wax. Dripped some all over her feet, down her ankles, made it splatter and watched her body move to the heat of the candle wax and to the want that was building up in both of us. We played with the hot wax for a good 20 minutes before our little impromptu scene ended. What fun, I am a very lucky woman.
I should spend more Saturday afternoons lost in the bliss of a partner and so should you!
Jennifer
And for those of you environmentalists, don't worry, we did not leave the park floor covered in wax, we removed it from her feet with a scrubbie and put it all on the sheet, rolled it up, then I brought it all home to dispose of it myself.
Thursday, August 18, 2005
back to city life
Hours out of the city, up in Whistler relaxing with my child was exactly the holiday and rest needed for the both of us. We strolled through the Village center and wandered through stores like the Lush, Gap, Cows, Chocolate Houses, Jewlery Cabinets, Art Exhibits and every tourist store we came upon. Ate sushi for lunch and picked up groceries earlier so the condo fridge was stocked with snacks and supplies.
We went to see the new movie March of the Penguins and it was spectacular. Narrated by Morgan Freedman who has the most lovely voice, the movie/documentary was riveting.
I've cut and pasted this from the Official Website:
Penguins are monogamous birds, but only for a mating season and so each year when they look for a partner, they look to a new penguin. How cool is it, that once they mate, and the process is complete then the next year when they begin again to look for new companionship and another to have a baby with, they look to and search out a new penguin? What a story the penguins have, one that you should check out for yourself, it's a National Geographic feature film as well.
Last night we sat for over half an hour in an outdoor hot tub and watched the sunset together before retiring to the condo to watch a rental movie and eat Haagen Daaz Mango Sorbet a whole 500ml of it. Then late this afternoon after more time at Blackcomb children's zone, a couple of luge rides and packing up the car we finally headed back down the Sea to Sky highway only to return to Vancouver and our quiet little home life.
But before getting home it would be only fitting that my new tire runs over a nail and gets a flat, my second flat tire in less than a week and no I'm not joking. Off child and I drove to the wheel store to have them repair my tire and remembering me from last week found my demise amusing and quickly fixed our problem.
My daughter is in my bed right now sleeping and tomorrow she leaves to vacation with her father for a period of time. Right now, I'm playing catch up in front of the computer as being away from internet access has put me with a back log in my in box.
Jennifer
We went to see the new movie March of the Penguins and it was spectacular. Narrated by Morgan Freedman who has the most lovely voice, the movie/documentary was riveting.
I've cut and pasted this from the Official Website:
Each winter, alone in the pitiless ice deserts of Antarctica, deep in the most inhospitable terrain on Earth, a truly remarkable journey takes place as it has done for millennia. Emperor penguins in their thousands abandon the deep blue security of their ocean home and clamber onto the frozen ice to begin their long journey into a region so bleak, so extreme, it supports no other wildlife at this time of year. In single file, the penguins march blinded by blizzards, buffeted by gale force winds. Resolute, indomitable, driven by the overpowering urge to reproduce, to assure the survival of the species.
Guided by instinct, by the otherworldly radiance of the Southern Cross, they head unerringly for their traditional breeding ground where - after a ritual courtship of intricate dances and delicate maneuvering, accompanied by a cacophony of ecstatic song - they will pair off into monogamous couples and mate.... more on the website along with a great trailer
Penguins are monogamous birds, but only for a mating season and so each year when they look for a partner, they look to a new penguin. How cool is it, that once they mate, and the process is complete then the next year when they begin again to look for new companionship and another to have a baby with, they look to and search out a new penguin? What a story the penguins have, one that you should check out for yourself, it's a National Geographic feature film as well.
Last night we sat for over half an hour in an outdoor hot tub and watched the sunset together before retiring to the condo to watch a rental movie and eat Haagen Daaz Mango Sorbet a whole 500ml of it. Then late this afternoon after more time at Blackcomb children's zone, a couple of luge rides and packing up the car we finally headed back down the Sea to Sky highway only to return to Vancouver and our quiet little home life.
But before getting home it would be only fitting that my new tire runs over a nail and gets a flat, my second flat tire in less than a week and no I'm not joking. Off child and I drove to the wheel store to have them repair my tire and remembering me from last week found my demise amusing and quickly fixed our problem.
My daughter is in my bed right now sleeping and tomorrow she leaves to vacation with her father for a period of time. Right now, I'm playing catch up in front of the computer as being away from internet access has put me with a back log in my in box.
Jennifer
Tuesday, August 16, 2005
on holidays
In a few short hours I will be off with my daughter for 3 days of holidays in a centrally located rental condo in the heart of Whistler. Taking a break from everything to spend time with my daughter before school goes back in a few weeks is just what her and I both need.
This is time that I'm really looking forward to, alone time with my daughter and all I have to concentrate on is being a mother. Let me tell you about my not so little, little girl... (whose 11 years old)
she is beautiful, smart and fun
she is bright & inquisitive
she is creative & compassionate
she is liked by many and loved by many
she is quiet & a reader
she is strong, determined and resourceful
she is not like me all that much and yet, she is obviously my daughter
Our time will be spent sleeping in the same bed, holding hands, talking, napping, watching movies, shopping, eating, scooter riding, hot tubbing, getting massages, walking and relaxing.
My world here at home is very fast paced due to my activism & work and as much as I try to shelter my daughter from this stuff just by virtue of the fact that we live in the city our lives remain hectic. The opportunity to go away where no one has a phone number for me, there is no internet access in our condo so email will be checked only once daily and it's my hope to run it to NO ONE that I know. I want to be mom, my daughters mother only for this whole trip and leave my other worlds and stress behind.
wish us well...
Jennifer
my daughters mothers
This is time that I'm really looking forward to, alone time with my daughter and all I have to concentrate on is being a mother. Let me tell you about my not so little, little girl... (whose 11 years old)
she is beautiful, smart and fun
she is bright & inquisitive
she is creative & compassionate
she is liked by many and loved by many
she is quiet & a reader
she is strong, determined and resourceful
she is not like me all that much and yet, she is obviously my daughter
Our time will be spent sleeping in the same bed, holding hands, talking, napping, watching movies, shopping, eating, scooter riding, hot tubbing, getting massages, walking and relaxing.
My world here at home is very fast paced due to my activism & work and as much as I try to shelter my daughter from this stuff just by virtue of the fact that we live in the city our lives remain hectic. The opportunity to go away where no one has a phone number for me, there is no internet access in our condo so email will be checked only once daily and it's my hope to run it to NO ONE that I know. I want to be mom, my daughters mother only for this whole trip and leave my other worlds and stress behind.
wish us well...
Jennifer
my daughters mothers
Sunday, August 14, 2005
dungeon floor
Last night I had a blast playing with this luscious woman at Sin City. Using pink hemp rope, I tied her hands behind her back and put her on her knees on the dungeon floor. We laughed, shouted, yelled and got sexy with one another, me with the advantage of course, being on Top, standing and having my hands free to roam and use her. My mouth to bite and nibble on her flesh and my hands to grab, slap and manipulate her to my whim.
L has the most amazing breasts, the kind made for nuzzling and slapping and a face that gives away what she's feeling immediately as her expressions are beautiful and the type that make you gasp just to watch. Suffice to say that we had much fun together. So much fun in fact, that Sunday on my way to her home for a BBQ I stopped off at the local pharmacy to get her some topical anesthetic to make the abrasions on her breasts feel better. It's good as a Top to look after those who bottom to me, I find it keeps them coming back for more over and over again.
I'd tell you more about what I did with L. except that both her and I believe that if you were meant to see our play together, then you should have been at Sin City in the public dungeon watching.
What fun to be exhibitionistic, when there are voyeurs around!
Jennifer
who plans on doing L again, if she'll say yes
L has the most amazing breasts, the kind made for nuzzling and slapping and a face that gives away what she's feeling immediately as her expressions are beautiful and the type that make you gasp just to watch. Suffice to say that we had much fun together. So much fun in fact, that Sunday on my way to her home for a BBQ I stopped off at the local pharmacy to get her some topical anesthetic to make the abrasions on her breasts feel better. It's good as a Top to look after those who bottom to me, I find it keeps them coming back for more over and over again.
I'd tell you more about what I did with L. except that both her and I believe that if you were meant to see our play together, then you should have been at Sin City in the public dungeon watching.
What fun to be exhibitionistic, when there are voyeurs around!
Jennifer
who plans on doing L again, if she'll say yes
Saturday, August 13, 2005
off to play
black 6 inch heels open toed, on my feet
a thong black with circular O rings on each side and a black bandeau wrapped around my chest
white short pvc skirt with the matching car coat so I can escape my building and go somewhat undetected
down the hallway with my toy bag over my shoulder
packed with pink hemp rope loads of it, purple floggers, neuro wheel, blindfold, cane, crop and a paddle
I'm looking to Top
and I'm also looking to bottom (he he ha ha)
where might I be off to for such fun?
Sin City
Jennifer
a thong black with circular O rings on each side and a black bandeau wrapped around my chest
white short pvc skirt with the matching car coat so I can escape my building and go somewhat undetected
down the hallway with my toy bag over my shoulder
packed with pink hemp rope loads of it, purple floggers, neuro wheel, blindfold, cane, crop and a paddle
I'm looking to Top
and I'm also looking to bottom (he he ha ha)
where might I be off to for such fun?
Sin City
Jennifer
Friday, August 12, 2005
flat tire and menstruation
This morning I had a hugely important meeting at 10 and so at 9:15 I'm driving out of my parkade and down the street for a whole block before things start feeling bumpy and weird. Pull over to the side of the road, get out and check the trunk, thinking it hadn't been closed properly and was banging, but oh no, couldn't and wouldn't be something that easy.
Then a Canada Post man walks by smiling at me at points to the front tire passenger side and says "lucky you, it's only flat on one side" and continues walking. No, really? Is this really happening to me? Oh yes it is and it's going to be a long day, I can tell.
A low level panic call to kara & Doug and between them, they convinced me that I was capable of changing my own tire. Flagged down some nice young man to help me with the jack because I could not figure out where on the frame to put it and so he showed me and then jacked me half up, then asked if I'd be ok, on my own for the rest and I of course, replied "Why of course, and thanks for stopping to help me." I'd never changed a tire before let alone used a spare. I'd no idea it was so tiny but thankfully I had one. And I did it succesfully, I changed my tire and tomorrow I'm going to go and get it repaired or replaced. If it's not one thing it's another.
The tire incident started my day and my day ended with my getting myself a really cool fishing rod case so I can take my canes out in it and have them not get damaged. This makes me happy as I've got some wonderful canes that need protecting when not in use.
And I did mention menstruation right? I have my period, yup the most natural thing in the world that happens to me monthly and it's here, and it started last night. I'm not using a tampon, nor and I using any pads in any form, I am not using a cup either, who knows what I'm using to deal with the flow of blood then? I don't buy feminine hygiene products any longer, I only use this ???
When my mother asks me what I want for my upcoming birthday I am going to tell her BCAA.
Jennifer
Then a Canada Post man walks by smiling at me at points to the front tire passenger side and says "lucky you, it's only flat on one side" and continues walking. No, really? Is this really happening to me? Oh yes it is and it's going to be a long day, I can tell.
A low level panic call to kara & Doug and between them, they convinced me that I was capable of changing my own tire. Flagged down some nice young man to help me with the jack because I could not figure out where on the frame to put it and so he showed me and then jacked me half up, then asked if I'd be ok, on my own for the rest and I of course, replied "Why of course, and thanks for stopping to help me." I'd never changed a tire before let alone used a spare. I'd no idea it was so tiny but thankfully I had one. And I did it succesfully, I changed my tire and tomorrow I'm going to go and get it repaired or replaced. If it's not one thing it's another.
The tire incident started my day and my day ended with my getting myself a really cool fishing rod case so I can take my canes out in it and have them not get damaged. This makes me happy as I've got some wonderful canes that need protecting when not in use.
And I did mention menstruation right? I have my period, yup the most natural thing in the world that happens to me monthly and it's here, and it started last night. I'm not using a tampon, nor and I using any pads in any form, I am not using a cup either, who knows what I'm using to deal with the flow of blood then? I don't buy feminine hygiene products any longer, I only use this ???
When my mother asks me what I want for my upcoming birthday I am going to tell her BCAA.
Jennifer
Thursday, August 11, 2005
fate and kara
As I was driving home from work this evening along Parker Street in Burnaby a route I usually don't drive my car crested the top of a hill with my window unrolled for the fresh air. The radio's got 96.9FM playing and I hear my name called out loudly, even over the music, in a feminine voice as I'm motoring along at 50 km/h the wind carrying it to my ears. Quickly I look in my rear view mirror, shake my head as I'm startled to see a little red car so familiar that it makes my hear skip a beat, screeching to a halt and I honk happily over and over to acknowledge that I see her, kara that is, as I pull over to the side of the road and watch her pull a u turn and then pull up behind my car.
Out jumps my girl, lands in my arms and we somehow manage to sneak 5 minutes of loving into our day with one another. Bonus time. I got to sit on her hood in my short black skirt and kiss her and make cars honk. It was fun, it was silly, it was spontaneous, it was fate, it was necessary. Damn it was good to see her, the smile on her face and in her eyes as she pulled up to me.
Poly allows me this opportunity and relationship. This is love.
Jennifer
Out jumps my girl, lands in my arms and we somehow manage to sneak 5 minutes of loving into our day with one another. Bonus time. I got to sit on her hood in my short black skirt and kiss her and make cars honk. It was fun, it was silly, it was spontaneous, it was fate, it was necessary. Damn it was good to see her, the smile on her face and in her eyes as she pulled up to me.
Poly allows me this opportunity and relationship. This is love.
Jennifer
Wednesday, August 10, 2005
Tuesday, August 09, 2005
afternoon sex & a new bed frame
At noon today I went to see the infamous Lancer of Seattle at Vain and had him cut my hair. What a great job he did and also showed me how to use a straightener, very cool! I would have had my hair cut shorter but Jim wants it left long and so his preference wins. This no short hair rule is just not about me but also in place for Allena as well.
After the haircut in Belltown Allena and I did some shopping for a new bed frame and then went out for a quick sushi snack. Lunch over and now we're back at her condo and shortly plan on putting together the new frame in her bedroom. Little does she know that after we're done getting her bed put together, that in my bag is my brand new cock (already in it's harness) and a vibrating egg, lube and condoms.
My plan is to christen Allenas bed by fucking her immediately after it's set up. I'll have a great time for sure and I hope that Allena favours my plan and my cock. She knows nothing of the plan and of course the cock is new, so she hasn't ever had it in her. Oh well, lube, patience and a little loving can make almost anything possible. No matter how big or how scary. ha ha
off to play now, with my cock and my girl
Jennifer
After the haircut in Belltown Allena and I did some shopping for a new bed frame and then went out for a quick sushi snack. Lunch over and now we're back at her condo and shortly plan on putting together the new frame in her bedroom. Little does she know that after we're done getting her bed put together, that in my bag is my brand new cock (already in it's harness) and a vibrating egg, lube and condoms.
My plan is to christen Allenas bed by fucking her immediately after it's set up. I'll have a great time for sure and I hope that Allena favours my plan and my cock. She knows nothing of the plan and of course the cock is new, so she hasn't ever had it in her. Oh well, lube, patience and a little loving can make almost anything possible. No matter how big or how scary. ha ha
off to play now, with my cock and my girl
Jennifer
Monday, August 08, 2005
the zoo and poly
Sitting in Allena's living room in Seattle, we've just returned from the Woodland Park Zoo where we had sooo much fun. Giraffe's, hippo's, lamas, wallaroo, orangutan and a pink haired bird eating spider. There were way too many animals to list here, some that I'd never even seen before. We finished our zoo trip with a trip to the canteen for a strawberry frozen bar each.
This morning we spent here with Jim, the three of us catching up as a poly family for awhile. We were all so spent still from our day together yesterday that a lazy morning in at home was just what we needed.
Yesterday, I drove down to Seattle with Midori as my passenger and we headed for The Wet Spot. I taught two classes there, my Bi Curious class for women and my hands on Wax & Ice Play class. They both went well and it was delightful to have Midori sit in on the Bi Curious class.
After driving to Seattle and teaching two classes I hadn't thought I'd be up for the Bondage Party at The Wet Spot but it turned out I had more energy in me than I even knew. So much energy in fact, that Jim was able to do 2 full suspensions with me and send me in full motion and flight in each. Being a monkey in bondage is so great - and inversion play for me is very sexy.
By the time we all got back to Allena's last night we didn't get to bed till midnight so a good sleep was had by all.
Tonight on the other hand, Allena is heading out to a board meeting and I've got a dinner date with S, who I've not seen since I was in town for the Queer Femme conference and spent the night at his place. Should be nice night out for me.
Then tomorrow I'm spending the day in Seattle with Allena again and in the evening doing Sex Life Live with Dane Ballard on internet TV.
I'd write more as I've much to unload but it's now time for me to get all girly girl ready for my date...
more later
Jennifer
poly and proud
This morning we spent here with Jim, the three of us catching up as a poly family for awhile. We were all so spent still from our day together yesterday that a lazy morning in at home was just what we needed.
Yesterday, I drove down to Seattle with Midori as my passenger and we headed for The Wet Spot. I taught two classes there, my Bi Curious class for women and my hands on Wax & Ice Play class. They both went well and it was delightful to have Midori sit in on the Bi Curious class.
After driving to Seattle and teaching two classes I hadn't thought I'd be up for the Bondage Party at The Wet Spot but it turned out I had more energy in me than I even knew. So much energy in fact, that Jim was able to do 2 full suspensions with me and send me in full motion and flight in each. Being a monkey in bondage is so great - and inversion play for me is very sexy.
By the time we all got back to Allena's last night we didn't get to bed till midnight so a good sleep was had by all.
Tonight on the other hand, Allena is heading out to a board meeting and I've got a dinner date with S, who I've not seen since I was in town for the Queer Femme conference and spent the night at his place. Should be nice night out for me.
Then tomorrow I'm spending the day in Seattle with Allena again and in the evening doing Sex Life Live with Dane Ballard on internet TV.
I'd write more as I've much to unload but it's now time for me to get all girly girl ready for my date...
more later
Jennifer
poly and proud
Saturday, August 06, 2005
packing up the car
I'm packing up my car and driving my daughter to her friends house this morning. He and his family take my daughter away ever summer for a holiday and this year it is 13 days of a holiday. Sad to see her go but so happy that she is getting this wonderful opportunity. Wow!
Once child is dropped off at her friends I'll be driving straight home to pack for tomorrow's two classes that I'm teaching at The Wet Spot. Erotic Wax & Ice Play and Bi Curious? Where To Start For Girls Who Want to Date Girls. I'd pack this evening and head out and enjoy the beautiful day today but tonight I'm hosting the Dine With The Diva Event with Midori and following that later this evening her and I have some time booked together to unwind and catch up.
Tomorrow will be frantic with leaving for Seattle at 7:00 in the morning with Midori as my passenger so today will all be about readying myself for all of these events.
out the door now...
Once child is dropped off at her friends I'll be driving straight home to pack for tomorrow's two classes that I'm teaching at The Wet Spot. Erotic Wax & Ice Play and Bi Curious? Where To Start For Girls Who Want to Date Girls. I'd pack this evening and head out and enjoy the beautiful day today but tonight I'm hosting the Dine With The Diva Event with Midori and following that later this evening her and I have some time booked together to unwind and catch up.
Tomorrow will be frantic with leaving for Seattle at 7:00 in the morning with Midori as my passenger so today will all be about readying myself for all of these events.
out the door now...
Friday, August 05, 2005
the flow of a long day
It's 1:45 in the morning as I start this entry and I'm wide awake, hyper aware of my surroundings and working in the dead quiet of my home, all alone. A single lamp in the corner of the room for light and I'm infront of the computer at my desk still in my summer dress I wore this evening and naked underneath, of course.
The day has been long I should be in my bed, curled up as I like to be and sleeping right about now. Today though is still coursing through my veins like an energy source and I'm using it to my advantage.
At 7 Jim woke me up this morning for acrobatic sex - nope, no bondage just good old bend Jennifer this way and fold her that way rounds of sex a couple of times. It was a good morning together cuddled up in between rounds of sex, foreplay and yup couple talk too.
By 10 I had Jim, my daughter and myself up, dressed and out of the house. Jim was returning to Seattle after being up over night both doing the photo shoot with Midori and I and attending the workshop. My daughter was dropped off at her fathers and I with a head cold called in sick to work.
At 11 Midori and I were sitting outside having a good talk and Doug was sitting with me on an outdoor swing.
Around 12:30 I entered Costco and managed to leave without doing too much damage to the wallet. It sure adds up there quickly but damn do they carry excellent products.
By 2 I was home, unloaded and sitting in a cold tub of water trying to bring down my fever from my head cold and to remove some of the heat from my body due to the outdoor temperature.
Excuse me here for things start going fuzzy for me...
packed the bins for tonight's event
a distressed call on my cell phone from the person driving Midori today and they've had their vehicle towed
Little Sisters needs more tickets for tonight's events Aural Sex: Seduction By Voice as they've sold out.
realization that I need to bring more chairs
cancel the 30 minute date I had booked with Kara so I can go trouble shoot the towed vehicle dilemma - which broke my heart to do as I was in need of some time with her and a cuddle
pick up extra ice for the coolers as it's going to be needed in this heat
Phone rings over and over, and over and over again one thing after another about tonight's event, work, classes, family stuff, WOW!
The it's 5:45 and I'm standing in the middle of the studio all by myself, bare foot in my dress, drinking a Coke slurpee and feeling absolute peace. This is my most favorite time of an event - the standing alone in a space as it's empty and visualizing the event starting. To believe that I can bring it to fruition what ever it may be, and that the event unfolds before my eyes.
Opening and lining up the chairs in rows, makes me feel at peace. I love this part. Hanging the LibidoEvents.com banner and stocking the supplies making it ready for others to use to create good things for themselves.
6:30 and the volunteers, support staff and our vendor all show up for the evening and quickly everyone is briefed. And at 7:00 there is already people waiting at the door and by 7:30 the workshop was getting started and the final few were coming through the doors. Every chair in the place was filled, the futon sofas, 6 stools, 5 yoga mats, 4 office chairs 3 foam blocks, and 1 bench.
The class was great and as always Midori didn't just educate, she entertained as well. Of course everything was going so well in class that instead of ending at 9:30 Midori ended at almost 10 - it was an amazing evening. Watching people learn a new idea feeds my libido - it's a good thing I do what I do.
Then at the end of the night as people were standing around talking to have Doug, Felicity, S, Greg and others be so helpful with take down and clean up was such a blessing to me. Thank you so much as your help made it so I didn't have to lug things out myself.
The final bins were in the hallway and everyone was downstairs save for a couple of us and as I go to lock the studio, I proceed to close my ring finger and my middle finger on my left hand in the door. Closed it right on them and damn it I cried. Hopped up and down and did not like it one bit and could not erotice it either. This was bad pain and as soon as I looked down I knew why. My finger, mainly and particularly my middle one is the one that bled and feels completely numb on top yet hurts like hell to touch.
Greg kissed it better and Felicity tried to convince to go to a hospital and get an x-ray and Doug tried to make me feel better all the while checking out the finger for damage or breakage. (hours later now and it's still killing me, but no, it's not broken)
Off the group of us headed to a local restaurant for some Chinese and Japanese food. Sitting around a big round table, eating food till 12:30 in the morning with other kinky folk made for great conversations. Viagra, HIV, aging in our sex positive culture, stalkers, museums, D/s and story telling.
I rolled in to my parkade at about 1 this morning and then promptly unloaded my entire car back in to my home. Everything came back in so I wouldn't have to deal with it tomorrow aside from repacking it all properly so it can next be returned to storage.
As soon as I walked in the door, took off my flip flops I had to open some windows as it was way to stuffy for me in here with this heat and with my congested head. Finally able to breathe I phone my Daddy and tell him that not only was it a good night at work for me but that I'd been hurt. We talked and had a good visit till we caught up some & I felt better and now here I am blogging.
finally my eye lids are heavy and I know I belong in bed and the time is 3:20am.
Jennifer
Event Producer
The day has been long I should be in my bed, curled up as I like to be and sleeping right about now. Today though is still coursing through my veins like an energy source and I'm using it to my advantage.
At 7 Jim woke me up this morning for acrobatic sex - nope, no bondage just good old bend Jennifer this way and fold her that way rounds of sex a couple of times. It was a good morning together cuddled up in between rounds of sex, foreplay and yup couple talk too.
By 10 I had Jim, my daughter and myself up, dressed and out of the house. Jim was returning to Seattle after being up over night both doing the photo shoot with Midori and I and attending the workshop. My daughter was dropped off at her fathers and I with a head cold called in sick to work.
At 11 Midori and I were sitting outside having a good talk and Doug was sitting with me on an outdoor swing.
Around 12:30 I entered Costco and managed to leave without doing too much damage to the wallet. It sure adds up there quickly but damn do they carry excellent products.
By 2 I was home, unloaded and sitting in a cold tub of water trying to bring down my fever from my head cold and to remove some of the heat from my body due to the outdoor temperature.
Excuse me here for things start going fuzzy for me...
packed the bins for tonight's event
a distressed call on my cell phone from the person driving Midori today and they've had their vehicle towed
Little Sisters needs more tickets for tonight's events Aural Sex: Seduction By Voice as they've sold out.
realization that I need to bring more chairs
cancel the 30 minute date I had booked with Kara so I can go trouble shoot the towed vehicle dilemma - which broke my heart to do as I was in need of some time with her and a cuddle
pick up extra ice for the coolers as it's going to be needed in this heat
Phone rings over and over, and over and over again one thing after another about tonight's event, work, classes, family stuff, WOW!
The it's 5:45 and I'm standing in the middle of the studio all by myself, bare foot in my dress, drinking a Coke slurpee and feeling absolute peace. This is my most favorite time of an event - the standing alone in a space as it's empty and visualizing the event starting. To believe that I can bring it to fruition what ever it may be, and that the event unfolds before my eyes.
Opening and lining up the chairs in rows, makes me feel at peace. I love this part. Hanging the LibidoEvents.com banner and stocking the supplies making it ready for others to use to create good things for themselves.
6:30 and the volunteers, support staff and our vendor all show up for the evening and quickly everyone is briefed. And at 7:00 there is already people waiting at the door and by 7:30 the workshop was getting started and the final few were coming through the doors. Every chair in the place was filled, the futon sofas, 6 stools, 5 yoga mats, 4 office chairs 3 foam blocks, and 1 bench.
The class was great and as always Midori didn't just educate, she entertained as well. Of course everything was going so well in class that instead of ending at 9:30 Midori ended at almost 10 - it was an amazing evening. Watching people learn a new idea feeds my libido - it's a good thing I do what I do.
Then at the end of the night as people were standing around talking to have Doug, Felicity, S, Greg and others be so helpful with take down and clean up was such a blessing to me. Thank you so much as your help made it so I didn't have to lug things out myself.
The final bins were in the hallway and everyone was downstairs save for a couple of us and as I go to lock the studio, I proceed to close my ring finger and my middle finger on my left hand in the door. Closed it right on them and damn it I cried. Hopped up and down and did not like it one bit and could not erotice it either. This was bad pain and as soon as I looked down I knew why. My finger, mainly and particularly my middle one is the one that bled and feels completely numb on top yet hurts like hell to touch.
Greg kissed it better and Felicity tried to convince to go to a hospital and get an x-ray and Doug tried to make me feel better all the while checking out the finger for damage or breakage. (hours later now and it's still killing me, but no, it's not broken)
Off the group of us headed to a local restaurant for some Chinese and Japanese food. Sitting around a big round table, eating food till 12:30 in the morning with other kinky folk made for great conversations. Viagra, HIV, aging in our sex positive culture, stalkers, museums, D/s and story telling.
I rolled in to my parkade at about 1 this morning and then promptly unloaded my entire car back in to my home. Everything came back in so I wouldn't have to deal with it tomorrow aside from repacking it all properly so it can next be returned to storage.
As soon as I walked in the door, took off my flip flops I had to open some windows as it was way to stuffy for me in here with this heat and with my congested head. Finally able to breathe I phone my Daddy and tell him that not only was it a good night at work for me but that I'd been hurt. We talked and had a good visit till we caught up some & I felt better and now here I am blogging.
finally my eye lids are heavy and I know I belong in bed and the time is 3:20am.
Jennifer
Event Producer
Tuesday, August 02, 2005
head cold & a guest
Lack of consistent decent sleep and a hectic work schedule has left me now with a full blown head cold. Yucky! Just not what I had in mind for myself given that tomorrow afternoon I'll be bound in rope at Midori's hands and suspended from something that I can't say quite yet for photo's that Jim's taking. Midori is here in town with me now till Sunday and we've got three events to get through, a photo shoot and a variety of other kinky things to work out.
It's exciting enough to know that I'm going to do bondage play with Jim, now add in that Midori is tying me up, I'm getting suspended, it's happening outdoors in wonderful light and sun and yummy my life is fabulous. Head cold or not, I'm planning on having a great day tomorrow and living on Sudafed the whole time.
Off to pack my bags for tomorrow events, both the photo shoot and Midori's evening class with Libido Events. Come on out and join us for this class...
August 3 Wednesday
Doors 7:00
Workshop 7:30-9:30pm
Military and Interrogation Scenes presented by Diva Midori
Venue: upstairs 2280 East Hastings St Vancouver
Advance Tickets $20 available now at Little Sisters Book Store 1238 Davie Street Vancouver
Tickets at the door $25
full event details
**Vendor, door prizes, cold drinks
Crisp uniforms. Commanding women and dashing men. Relentless discipline. Cruel interrogators. Physically demanding training.
If these images make your heart beat faster, then march don't walk to this class! Your military play might involve only two people or a large cast with complicated
coordination. Midori will discuss the different types of scenes, how to prepare for them, how to maintain your roles, and how to do it all safely. Expect intense scenes demonstrated right before your eyes!
questions jennifer@libidoevents.com
It's exciting enough to know that I'm going to do bondage play with Jim, now add in that Midori is tying me up, I'm getting suspended, it's happening outdoors in wonderful light and sun and yummy my life is fabulous. Head cold or not, I'm planning on having a great day tomorrow and living on Sudafed the whole time.
Off to pack my bags for tomorrow events, both the photo shoot and Midori's evening class with Libido Events. Come on out and join us for this class...
Doors 7:00
Workshop 7:30-9:30pm
Military and Interrogation Scenes presented by Diva Midori
Venue: upstairs 2280 East Hastings St Vancouver
Advance Tickets $20 available now at Little Sisters Book Store 1238 Davie Street Vancouver
Tickets at the door $25
full event details
**Vendor, door prizes, cold drinks
Crisp uniforms. Commanding women and dashing men. Relentless discipline. Cruel interrogators. Physically demanding training.
If these images make your heart beat faster, then march don't walk to this class! Your military play might involve only two people or a large cast with complicated
coordination. Midori will discuss the different types of scenes, how to prepare for them, how to maintain your roles, and how to do it all safely. Expect intense scenes demonstrated right before your eyes!
questions jennifer@libidoevents.com
Monday, August 01, 2005
outdoor kinky campout
I've just awoke a short while ago, perhaps half hour ago at best, so we'll say 7:30am. For me having gone to bed last night at 10:05 and not getting up till now, just shows how exhausted I was when I fell in to bed. 9 and a half hours, wow, that's almost two whole nights rolled in to one for me.
Yesterday was such a beautiful weather day and I was headed for Sumas to attend this most incredible annual week long campout for kinky folk called In The Woods or ITW
I'd been hired to present my class A Little More Than A Slap & A Tickle - SM 101 there for them as an educator. Teaching outside under a massive tent was a very cool experience for me. I'd not wanted to be up on the stage to teach, so I ended up on level ground with everyone in the class and that left me standing in my pink and black running shoe style heels on the woodchip ground. It was a fun class to teach and in the end I met some incredible new people and had networked with many others.
Shirtless, I'd worn a beautiful beaded camisole top to the event and just before my class promptly removed it as the heat was to much for me. It's true, I taught the class in my capri jeans, high heels, a little pink bra and my pink cowboy hat on my head. Now I've stunt bottomed in workshops before and had to remove pieces of clothing (shirts, bras, and even panties) but I'd never as a presenter removed my top, this was a first just as my attending ITW was a first.
To honor my first time being at ITW I was presented with a VIRGIN CAMPER medallion. That's ok, I had Doug with me for the day as my personal assistant and he too was presented with one as well! Doug did a great job for me tending to my needs and wants and even anticipated a few on his own which earned him big points with me. He wore a kilt - which he looked damn fine in and I had him remove his shirt early on so I'd have some eye candy to look at.
Jim was at the event and had been there camping and playing all weekend. It was nice to have a chance to see his little homestead he'd made along with another couple Brendan & JuJu from Seattle. This couple makes the most delicious canes and soon enough I'll be telling you more about them. In the mean time, Juju gave me three pink canes each in varying widths and lengths, varnished like with 7 coats of varnish to bring up this gloss that is brilliant. Over the next while I'm going to play with the canes and I'll report back both about the canes and about Brendan and JuJu and their company.
Seeing Jim was a little hard for me, because I wanted to jump all over him and be very little and have him make me feel better because I was nervous being in this new place. But I was there not only as a Presenter but also as a Top and there's a time and a place for everything and yesterday was neither the time nor the place for me to get lost in my Daddy. So aside from covering him in handful after gleeful handful of grass as he lay talking on the ground, I was a good girl and remained in my big persona.
At 5:30 Doug had me nicely settled in the passenger seat of his vehicle and we were heading towards civilization again and a pit stop for an ice cold Coke for me and a milkshake for him. I had 2 week long tickets to ITW and yet only made it for the one day. I'd hoped to be able to attend for atleast two days but my daughter being home right now on summer holidays with me takes the front line each and every time and so by 7:30 she and I were here safe at home together and she was telling me all about her day at her friends place.
Then my daughter turned to me and said, "oh yeah mom, how did your workshop at the outdoor information fare go?" I smile warmly from my heart because she remembered how important it was to me and how I'd gotten ready for it and I tell her it went really well both the class and the opportunity. My daughter with arms open wide comes and hugs me tight and says, "See, I told you so, I knew you'd do a good job, you just worry to much mom. Congratulations."
Dean the Director of ITW paid me some fine compliments as I was leaving that made me head swim, but the compliment that will also ring true the loudest in any day for me will be one from my daughter.
Jennifer
mom and sex activist
Yesterday was such a beautiful weather day and I was headed for Sumas to attend this most incredible annual week long campout for kinky folk called In The Woods or ITW
I'd been hired to present my class A Little More Than A Slap & A Tickle - SM 101 there for them as an educator. Teaching outside under a massive tent was a very cool experience for me. I'd not wanted to be up on the stage to teach, so I ended up on level ground with everyone in the class and that left me standing in my pink and black running shoe style heels on the woodchip ground. It was a fun class to teach and in the end I met some incredible new people and had networked with many others.
Shirtless, I'd worn a beautiful beaded camisole top to the event and just before my class promptly removed it as the heat was to much for me. It's true, I taught the class in my capri jeans, high heels, a little pink bra and my pink cowboy hat on my head. Now I've stunt bottomed in workshops before and had to remove pieces of clothing (shirts, bras, and even panties) but I'd never as a presenter removed my top, this was a first just as my attending ITW was a first.
To honor my first time being at ITW I was presented with a VIRGIN CAMPER medallion. That's ok, I had Doug with me for the day as my personal assistant and he too was presented with one as well! Doug did a great job for me tending to my needs and wants and even anticipated a few on his own which earned him big points with me. He wore a kilt - which he looked damn fine in and I had him remove his shirt early on so I'd have some eye candy to look at.
Jim was at the event and had been there camping and playing all weekend. It was nice to have a chance to see his little homestead he'd made along with another couple Brendan & JuJu from Seattle. This couple makes the most delicious canes and soon enough I'll be telling you more about them. In the mean time, Juju gave me three pink canes each in varying widths and lengths, varnished like with 7 coats of varnish to bring up this gloss that is brilliant. Over the next while I'm going to play with the canes and I'll report back both about the canes and about Brendan and JuJu and their company.
Seeing Jim was a little hard for me, because I wanted to jump all over him and be very little and have him make me feel better because I was nervous being in this new place. But I was there not only as a Presenter but also as a Top and there's a time and a place for everything and yesterday was neither the time nor the place for me to get lost in my Daddy. So aside from covering him in handful after gleeful handful of grass as he lay talking on the ground, I was a good girl and remained in my big persona.
At 5:30 Doug had me nicely settled in the passenger seat of his vehicle and we were heading towards civilization again and a pit stop for an ice cold Coke for me and a milkshake for him. I had 2 week long tickets to ITW and yet only made it for the one day. I'd hoped to be able to attend for atleast two days but my daughter being home right now on summer holidays with me takes the front line each and every time and so by 7:30 she and I were here safe at home together and she was telling me all about her day at her friends place.
Then my daughter turned to me and said, "oh yeah mom, how did your workshop at the outdoor information fare go?" I smile warmly from my heart because she remembered how important it was to me and how I'd gotten ready for it and I tell her it went really well both the class and the opportunity. My daughter with arms open wide comes and hugs me tight and says, "See, I told you so, I knew you'd do a good job, you just worry to much mom. Congratulations."
Dean the Director of ITW paid me some fine compliments as I was leaving that made me head swim, but the compliment that will also ring true the loudest in any day for me will be one from my daughter.
Jennifer
mom and sex activist
Friday, July 29, 2005
2 wolves & willy wonka
Today had me working a 7 hour day and then driving home to my daughter to pick her up and spend an evening out with her. Together we went to see Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory. What a wonderful movie, we thoroughly enjoyed ourselves getting lost in this adaptation of an old classic. There's this scene where Willy is showing the factory to 5 children and their guardians and as they go past all of the rooms which contain the centers for many of their best candies they stop suddenly infront of one room which just demanded my attention. Hair cream, toffee cream and you guessed it, whipped cream.
So when they get to view the whipped cream room I hear the distinct crack of a whip, the sound of many whips, sounds like a play party that I'd play at. But no it's not. It's 4 oompa loompa's whipping a cow with single tails and it's suspended some how above the ground. I was so busy being captivated by the sudden surprising sight of 4 midgets whipping the cow that I neglected to check out the rigging or even what was holding the damn cow up! ha, too funny, anyways, then Willy Wonka, looks at the group of visitors and says "well sweety, everyone knows that the best cream is whipped cream."
The movie was over at 8:45 and we were home by 9:00pm and seeing as I left this morning at 10:30am, it's been a long day for me.
Jim sent me this the other day and I thought I'd share it here...
Two Wolves
One evening an old Cherokee told his grandson about a debate that goes on inside people. He said, "My son, the battle is between 2 "wolves" inside us all.
One is Evil. It is anger, envy, jealousy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego.
The other is Good. It is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion and faith."
The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather: "Which wolf wins?"
The old Cherokee simply replied, "The one you feed."
blessings
Jennifer
So when they get to view the whipped cream room I hear the distinct crack of a whip, the sound of many whips, sounds like a play party that I'd play at. But no it's not. It's 4 oompa loompa's whipping a cow with single tails and it's suspended some how above the ground. I was so busy being captivated by the sudden surprising sight of 4 midgets whipping the cow that I neglected to check out the rigging or even what was holding the damn cow up! ha, too funny, anyways, then Willy Wonka, looks at the group of visitors and says "well sweety, everyone knows that the best cream is whipped cream."
The movie was over at 8:45 and we were home by 9:00pm and seeing as I left this morning at 10:30am, it's been a long day for me.
Jim sent me this the other day and I thought I'd share it here...
Two Wolves
One evening an old Cherokee told his grandson about a debate that goes on inside people. He said, "My son, the battle is between 2 "wolves" inside us all.
One is Evil. It is anger, envy, jealousy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego.
The other is Good. It is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion and faith."
The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather: "Which wolf wins?"
The old Cherokee simply replied, "The one you feed."
blessings
Jennifer
Wednesday, July 27, 2005
bondage and me
I'd like to spend some time emptying my head of all that is spinning around in it to my Blog but I simply don't have it in me to write much tonight. The days are so full and long that it seems unending lately. Time is so valuable and scarce. I'm always on the go, both physically and emotionally. Perhaps these are a few of the reasons that bondage captivates me...
It's the contrast.
Bondage is my opportunity to be still with myself and to have to listen to my body instead of my head for a change. To follow the desires of my lust and cunt and not my intellectual self for awhile.
Bondage demands and gets my full attention all at once.
Bondage is where I get to be free of the load I carry in the day to day world and solely concentrate on making it through the next moment in breath or in comfort.
Bondage is where I submit myself to the sensations that are being created in me and on me both by the bondage itself and by the partner.
Bondage is where nothing else matters because I can't think past my bound bodies own happy bliss.
Bondage allows me! Me! Me Jennifer, it allows me to give up control. Takes not a lot to contain me, but once you've got me bound, damn the possibilities are endless. And I get in to this head space when I give up control that makes me want to please...funny thing that is. It's a damn fine thing then that I have wonderful people in my life who like to take control of me, contain me and allow me to submit to them and please them.
I'm grateful for Bondage. It's taught me much about my own self and contained me through many days & nights.
Jim's not here tonight, he's in Bellingham and I'd like nothing more than to be laying in bed next to him bound in hemp rope. I'm my Daddys good little rope slut and know exactly what I need. It's just a shame that my Daddy and his rope are not here though.
Time for me to sleep, alone.
Jennifer
It's the contrast.
Bondage is my opportunity to be still with myself and to have to listen to my body instead of my head for a change. To follow the desires of my lust and cunt and not my intellectual self for awhile.
Bondage demands and gets my full attention all at once.
Bondage is where I get to be free of the load I carry in the day to day world and solely concentrate on making it through the next moment in breath or in comfort.
Bondage is where I submit myself to the sensations that are being created in me and on me both by the bondage itself and by the partner.
Bondage is where nothing else matters because I can't think past my bound bodies own happy bliss.
Bondage allows me! Me! Me Jennifer, it allows me to give up control. Takes not a lot to contain me, but once you've got me bound, damn the possibilities are endless. And I get in to this head space when I give up control that makes me want to please...funny thing that is. It's a damn fine thing then that I have wonderful people in my life who like to take control of me, contain me and allow me to submit to them and please them.
I'm grateful for Bondage. It's taught me much about my own self and contained me through many days & nights.
Jim's not here tonight, he's in Bellingham and I'd like nothing more than to be laying in bed next to him bound in hemp rope. I'm my Daddys good little rope slut and know exactly what I need. It's just a shame that my Daddy and his rope are not here though.
Time for me to sleep, alone.
Jennifer
Monday, July 25, 2005
bottoming 101
Jim left this morning for home after a great weekend here together. Bondage party Saturday night was so much fun that I'm going to host another one. Then Sunday we had a wild morning and early afternoon in bed before heading out to do some errands for a short while. Returned home and invited a couple of friends over for some snacks and laid back conversation later in the evening.
Tonight I'm teaching a class that I first taught in 2001 at The North American Conference on Bisexuality, Gender, and Sexual Diversity held at UBC here in Vancouver. Here is the class information 4 years and a lot of personal practice later to fine tune it for 2005
Bottoming Skills 101 - learn how to bottom from a bottom
Monday July 25
doors open 7:00pm
workshop 7:30-9:30pm
Tickets $20 cash, Pay at the door
Venue: upstairs 2280 East Hastings Street Vancouver
More information
Do you want to give yourself up to someone in an erotic sense? Do you want to surrender to a partners wishes, orders or demands? Learn how to fly in rope bondage, SM or role play?
You'd like to learn some skills as a bottom then. Excellent! Now let's make you a better play partner or perhaps a more sought after one. Join me as I share with you the realism of making your bottoming fantasies become sexy realities. Learn to bottom from this bottom as we discuss the journey of bottoming from the mental self recognition of our desires to presenting one self for play to a Top. Whether your looking for insights to bottom a first time or for your hundredth time this class will offer you new ways to look at how you present yourself both for play and to partners.
Critical to a good bottoming experience is a good Top and we'll spend some time talking about what makes one. For some, the journey of bottoming flows in to submission and surrender over an evening or a relationship long, while for others it becomes a way of life. Safe words, SM play, negotiation skills, conditioning of erotic responses and many other needed topics for bottoms will be addressed while still leaving time for Q & A at the end.
Tonight I'm teaching a class that I first taught in 2001 at The North American Conference on Bisexuality, Gender, and Sexual Diversity held at UBC here in Vancouver. Here is the class information 4 years and a lot of personal practice later to fine tune it for 2005
Monday July 25
doors open 7:00pm
workshop 7:30-9:30pm
Tickets $20 cash, Pay at the door
Venue: upstairs 2280 East Hastings Street Vancouver
More information
Do you want to give yourself up to someone in an erotic sense? Do you want to surrender to a partners wishes, orders or demands? Learn how to fly in rope bondage, SM or role play?
You'd like to learn some skills as a bottom then. Excellent! Now let's make you a better play partner or perhaps a more sought after one. Join me as I share with you the realism of making your bottoming fantasies become sexy realities. Learn to bottom from this bottom as we discuss the journey of bottoming from the mental self recognition of our desires to presenting one self for play to a Top. Whether your looking for insights to bottom a first time or for your hundredth time this class will offer you new ways to look at how you present yourself both for play and to partners.
Critical to a good bottoming experience is a good Top and we'll spend some time talking about what makes one. For some, the journey of bottoming flows in to submission and surrender over an evening or a relationship long, while for others it becomes a way of life. Safe words, SM play, negotiation skills, conditioning of erotic responses and many other needed topics for bottoms will be addressed while still leaving time for Q & A at the end.
Sunday, July 24, 2005
to the shredder
For almost two years now I've had the same photo hanging on the bulletin board in my office. I spend great amounts of time working in this area every day and so I saw the photo countless times daily.
This photo wasn't the type that hangs on the wall, but you never really see. It hung on my corkboard because I put it there to remind me of how people change and I always had my eyes open wide when looking at it.
It was a photo of man standing in my living room, a friend at the time. Hanging next to the photo, has been a poem titled "How Do You Live Your Dash?" that I copied and put there. It reads like this...
For almost two years, I've read the poem daily, looked at this mans photo and finally came to a realization.
I was ready to rid myself of the burden and baggage of looking at him and his face daily. I knew it would give me great pleasure to put his photo through my paper shredder.
I proceeded to remove the photo from the bulletin board and laughed happilly all the while watching him shred. Collected the pieces and rehung him, shredded, back on the bulletin board. He hung as that mess for about a week while I showed a few friends who'd appreciate my efforts and then I tossed him into the trash like the piece of garbage the photo had become. The whole experience was good for me and rather therapeutic too.
Now all that remains on my board is the poem which I adore because I'm all about the dash.
And with the man removed from my board I'm now free to move on. Funny I hadn't really thought that a simple photo hanging there could hold me to the past but it did. Now free, I'm happy to have room to hang things that are actually important to me. Like my tax bill! ha
Jennifer
This photo wasn't the type that hangs on the wall, but you never really see. It hung on my corkboard because I put it there to remind me of how people change and I always had my eyes open wide when looking at it.
It was a photo of man standing in my living room, a friend at the time. Hanging next to the photo, has been a poem titled "How Do You Live Your Dash?" that I copied and put there. It reads like this...
For almost two years, I've read the poem daily, looked at this mans photo and finally came to a realization.
I was ready to rid myself of the burden and baggage of looking at him and his face daily. I knew it would give me great pleasure to put his photo through my paper shredder.
I proceeded to remove the photo from the bulletin board and laughed happilly all the while watching him shred. Collected the pieces and rehung him, shredded, back on the bulletin board. He hung as that mess for about a week while I showed a few friends who'd appreciate my efforts and then I tossed him into the trash like the piece of garbage the photo had become. The whole experience was good for me and rather therapeutic too.
Now all that remains on my board is the poem which I adore because I'm all about the dash.
And with the man removed from my board I'm now free to move on. Funny I hadn't really thought that a simple photo hanging there could hold me to the past but it did. Now free, I'm happy to have room to hang things that are actually important to me. Like my tax bill! ha
Jennifer
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