Naughty Party tonight!!

Tonight, Saturday is our infamous Naughty Party!

Meet new friends, catch up with old ones, flirt, voyeur, have sex, a bubble bath for 2, a steamy shower, do some bondage or perhaps some S/m play in our air conditioned venue.

Remember the night starts with a free 1 hour class, Forbidden Fantasies: Role Playing In The Bedroom. 8:00-9:00 We will even have a male masseur on site this evening, it’s going to be a wild night.

Please read ALL the details below so you arrive with everything you'll need to know to make your night a success.


August 26 Saturday
9:00 - 2:00am
Naughty Play Party
a sex-positive event

$45 couple, $25 woman
pay at door, cash only
**No single men this event **

#120 - 307 West Broadway St., Vancouver

(directly across the street from Office Depot between Yukon & Albert St. -
ENTER AT REAR OF BUILDING)

***Rules & Tips***


**As a special addition to the party Ki Rohn a professional tantric
masseur will be providing full body, deep tissue, sensual and tantric
massage. It’s by donation, $1/minute. It’s worth it, so bring extra cash
and let Ki take you for an amazing journey into your body.


Read over the comments posted to my Blog from last months Naughty Party to give you an idea of how exciting these parties are.



Parking is free out front of the building along the side street and yes, even in the lot behind. It says, Reserved, that's because that's for the building you'll be entering from the rear, you can park here, please do. As you get out of your car out back, there is a door that says Libido Events, Welcome to the Naughty Party!

Remember to bring a snack or dish to share, it should require no kitchen help. Nothing please requiring utensils. Do not arrive empty handed. Cold pop and water are provided at no charge.

Our second Naughty Party ever geared towards couples and single women only and has your response been overwhelming, Thank you. After the success of last months party in the new space, I just had to do it again. Return for more fun or show up and see what all the fun really is all about.

The layout is spacious yet you'll feel at ease in the space quite quickly, it's seven multiple intimate rooms for play in various forms and more places set out for those we'll call the exhibitionists. Whomever you are, what ever your bend of your sexuality and expression there of, is what we want to see in you this evening. Be yourselves, be fun and be Naughty.

Another area set out for food and beverages so we can enjoy a little snack to help keep energy up over our evening together. In front of this all viewable through a large wall cut out is a large sitting room, with chairs, sofa and places for you to talk and chill amongst yourselves while enjoying your nibblies.

Down the hall a multitude of rooms await your discovery with massage tables, spanking bench, bondage tables and beds in a couple of those. The glassed in shower room and the bath tub room are both very popular, the tub seats 2 easily! We are carpeted, air conditioned & complete with a sound system through out.

Large washrooms men's, women's and handicap with space where you may change before you enter (if you need to) and then stow your bag in our check area. Bring a bag to contain all your belongings in. Street clothes will NOT get you inside, no no to jeans. Dress sexy and to impress and we consider naked or near naked, worthy of praise.

Of course we have on hand condoms, lube, gloves, massage oils, sheets, towels, wipes, inviting sexy atmosphere, excellent people whom you'll be able to spend time with and myself there for you to know, along with a team of volunteers that would be pleased to answer any of your questions.

Note the evening starts with a workshop Forbidden Fantasies: Role Playing in the Bedroom starting at 8:00 promptly and ending at 9:00. At 9:00 the Naughty Party starts and not before as there will be a workshop in progress, please be considerate.

We are a completely alcohol free event, do not bring any liquor. House Rules will be posted at the party.

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PLEASE OH PLEASE BRING & DONATE TO THE NAUGHTY PARTY

* pillows, small toss size
* sheets, fitted & flat
* VHS & DVD pornography - women's & men's

surprise

This beautifully bright bouquet of flowers is on my kitchen table, a surprise treat along with Lindt chocolate & deviant mini clothes pegs!

I am a blessed woman to have such wonderful friends in my life, to bring me such delightfully appropriate gifts.

ball bashing

did anyone else catch the 6:00 pm evening news on Global? At about 6:50 in the sports section there was a rather long, disturbingly funny foreign clip.

These 6 slender Asian men are standing on a stage. Each is given some sentence to repeat it appears. Said man starts rattling off the sentence, once a mistake is made, a catapult fires at their cocks and socks them a good one making them tremble, fall over, grab themselves, moan and even appear pained. Each of them also looked terrified at moment of impact. Well yeah, ya think?

It made me laugh myself silly to watch the choice of clips that our evening news here in BC Canada found so funny. Sensation seeking masochists are everywhere, knowing no division by race, gender, culture, geography or language. I'm happy to be one of them.

There are many types of play that I enjoy, some others may even find extreme however ball bashing is not something I find fun. Lucky play partners of mine, for when I'm on Top dishing it out!

tonights Bi Curious Class for Women

August 24 Thursday
7:30 - 9:30pm
Bi Curious? Where To Start For Girls Who Want To Date Girls

presented by Jennifer
4687 Kingsway Street Burnaby
The Love Nest (directly across from Metrotown)
$20 pay at door, cash only

Libido Events Calendar


Making the move from bi-curious to bisexual can be a tough one. This workshop will cover the basics on dating for bisexual women. Tips on finding the right woman and on what to do when you find one will be on the list things we discuss. We will cover some tricks for writing that personal ad or finding the events and places to meet other bi-women.

We will also discuss etiquette used when dating women...because so many of us are used to dating only men. Often, bisexual women have male partners and whether, when, or even if they are included in your bisexual experiences will also be covered.

latex breasts

my evening was in fact spent painting a nude woman in liquid latex while she laid out before me eating white peaches & grapes on my gynecological table.

We started with flesh tone and did multiple coats over the breasts, to great success.


doesn't she look pretty? I enjoy using the flesh tone on the delicate bits so you don't ever lose sight of them.



Remembering mind you that this was all work for me, simply practicing for my upcoming class at Little Sisters on Latex. Homework, this was all homework.



Later on I painted a wonderfully fun & easy mask in black on her face and wrote four significant words on her back, taking some private photos, to give to her husband.

Just because I know many of you are perverts and want to know, the answer is yes! Yes I did in fact paint Shantars coochie in two solid coats of the liquid latex, and as much as she enjoyed the brush strokes going on, she was not so impressed with it being caught in her pubic hair as I removed the painted on panty in one fell swoop, just like a band-aid.

unsolicited volunteering & liquid latex

This e-mail made my afternoon and put a spring in my step

Hello Jennifer,

Just wanted to touch base with you to let you know that posters and tickets are going out in the next week. There has been excellent interest and excitement in the community, including unsolicited volunteering...unheard of!! :)

I'd like to get your logo on the poster if you have one to send? And a picture?

Through other circumstances we have moved our Realm of Fantasy night (the fetish D/s event) to Friday October 20, I would be happy to change your flights if you'd like to come in earlier and attend that event? The theme for this one is Bacchanalia, complete with togas, orgy room, slaves and flogging...woohoo...

...cut here for privacy...

That my three classes which are 2 months away (and in Calgary Alberta) have unsolicited volunteers lining up for them makes me a happy little sex educator and though their play event has moved, they are willing to rearrange my flight schedule so I may still attend.

I love my life, the people I'm surrounded by & the opportunities I get to create and take part in.

Now time for me to ready for my evening appointment. Shantar is coming over and I'm painting her nude body in Liquid Latex. I need to prep & practice techniques for my new education series starting this Fall at Little Sisters Book Store and liquid latex is one of the classes I'm teaching.

Perhaps some photo's later, if my latex clad model is willing!

photo shoot with Midori & Jim

these were taken under the Second Narrows Bridge. Jim, Midori and I hiked in to an isolated spot, I removed my clothes and then I was rigged and hanging from a tree while the two of them shot photo's

finally home

After being away and out of country for days now, I've finally returned home this evening at 11:35 safe and sound. My trip was a whirlwind of activities. Meetings to plan future events, three intense classes, family, partners, private coaching AND a couple of parties (Monks Abbey & Charles) are all what's had me so busy this past while.

The one thing that is bringing me the most joy right now, is today while at SeaTac airport, I became the proud owner of tickets for two to Disneyland. My daughter and I have big plans in California together and when she returns from her fathers in a few days, she's going to be elated at those tickets awaiting her on the pillow on her bed.

That my life, career and business is successful enough for me to be enjoying the fruits of my labor with a holiday with my child makes me very proud of myself and how far I've come in my adulthood.

It's time for me to go curl up exhausted yet grateful in my own bed, sleeping deeply until sleep frees me in the morning from it's deep slumber so I can start another day of what I call life.

naming your vagina

Does your vagina have a name?

Do you call it your kitty, or perhaps jewel, tunnel of love, maybe even pussy, cunt or some other term of endearment.

Or please share with me what names your partner has called her vagina in past.

I'm trying to fill in the blanks on my new Pussy Licking Good class and need input here.

thanks so much

Jennifer

gluttony

With my daughter away for a couple of weeks and the fridge empty, it became obvious that a shopping trip was required for food if I was to live.

In the car I packed my weary self as I'd only returned from Bellingham earlier this afternoon and off I drove to Safeway where I indulged & splurged on every single item of food that tickled my fancy without any regard for anyone else's taste preferences.

Steaks, roasted chicken, pound of prawns, pound of scallops, smarties, brie, crackers, chocolate milk, fresh pineapple and way more other tasty morsels.

Regular eating habits will resume upon my daughter's arrival home.

While bent over in the meat department who should call my cell but volunteer wonder, Shantar. Thanks for the call babe, it was good to catch up.

clothing removal

I am sitting in Jim's studio in Bellingham and we're just back from seeing a movie together.

Music in the background: a cello.

The removal of clothing, down to naked is next, as my Daddy wants some eye candy, followed by some loving.

Good Night.

broken penis

it was an accident, it surely was an accident. Running my palm along the shaft of my cock, I felt an inconsistency and as I gently pushed my thumb into the anomaly to further investigate, I felt the silicone spread open and my finger get lost inside the depths of what was once my solid cock.

Within seconds, my cock was broken in two distinctly separate pieces, testicles in one hand and my shaft and head in the other.

Sad, sad news.

I'm sorry C, I know it was your favourite & to K, apologies in advance, as I know you'd been lusting over it for our upcoming date!





The Death of a Penis.

rope bondage book & an erotic memoir

It's Friday and am I ever excited, it's finally the end of what has been a very long week for me. My daughter leaves tomorrow on holidays with her dad and I'm left on my own for dating, play and living for two whole weeks. Ah, the joys of independence. (my child is becoming a teenager, it's painful at times to watch and listen to the unfolding of this saga)



Spent this morning on the phone with Bridgett Harrington and we're in the middle of planning some big stuff. She's sending me her new book later today via UPS and from there we'll announce our combined plans and efforts.

The other day while at the public library, I ran across a book that jumped off the shelves at me to be borrowed. Had to sign it out, it was called " The Surrender", by author Toni Bentley. One woman's journey to submit to the pleasures and sweet agony of her partner and his desire for anal sex.




** the book was a great read!

one, two, three

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quick change

How do they do this? Watch this and see what I mean. It's simply amazing.

Athenor Dark Ages Faire

at times my life is like a block buster hit movie, below is a write up about where I was Saturday. After 8 hours of formal board meetings & 3 informal hours, my brain needed to stop thinking. I headed to a private function (half an hour outside of Minneapolis, MN) by one of their sex-positive communities to let off some steam and have some dinner as we'd been invited.

We sat at the head table with Count Vronsky, enjoying stories, jugglers and one another, Dinner was magnificent, the setting outdoors in the middle of no where with a whole load of kinky dressed folk, the servants were superb with attention to detail and protocol.

I left early with the man charged to over see me (well the board actually) but everyone else had left) so we headed back to his house, to crawl in to bed and on one another. Ooops, what fun.





Athenor Dark Ages Faire

The Renaissance Festival starts in August. But as we all know, before the
Renaissance, there were the Dark Ages. Thus on Saturday, August 5th,
prior to the Renaissance Festival, Athenor will be hosting the "Dark Ages
Faire". This will be an outdoor, 24 hour party starting at noon on
Saturday and going through the dark of the night and into Sunday
morning.

The event will take place on a secluded campsite not far from town that
has a 32' by 60' barn. But just as it was in the dark ages, there will
be no electricty or running water. Just fire, a pump, and a
latrine. We'd also like to encourage people to dress up as they might for the
Renaissance Festival, although that is not a requirement.

During the day at this Faire you'll be joining the hosting royalty for a
slate of competitions which may even include some jousting if suitable
"horses" are found. We'd also like to encourage merchants to come and
display their wares for sale at no charge to them. I suspect we'll also
have a few mystics at the Faire who may be able to tell you your
fortune. There will also be other entertainment and perhaps even some visiting
master craftsmen willing to teach some apprentices.

As we head into the evening, there will be a feast for everyone at the
Faire and more merrymaking as we approach the hour of sunset. Then the
fires will be lit and the Faire will continue into the night. In
fact, we fully expect people to stay the night and bring a tent in which to base
their households.

All throughout the day and night we will have a dungeon set up in the
barn. People are free to visit and try out the dungeon at their will.
We'll also give people the option to buy a "peasant" ticket. As
a peasant, you're subject to the will of the lords hosting the event and may find
yourself arrested at any time. Having been arrested, you will face
whatever punishments are handed down to you, generally to
be administered by the public.

On a realistic note, people who attend as peasants will get a checklist
beforehand to rule various activities in or out. They may also restrict
who intereacts with them (SSC and all) and they will have strict
supervision by an agent of the Lords of the faire.

finding strength

"To be nobody-but-yourself in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight; and never stop fighting."

-- E. E. Cummings

Returned just this afternoon from Minneapolis after many days on the road and some bonus travel glitches. I had flown out for a 2-day Leather Leadership meeting, more meetings / tours in adult stores, frolicking with the kinky locals at evening play events and some much needed face to face time with other board members.



I met a man, he was assigned to oversee the board of directors visit to the city and was my driver from the airport, to the airport, hell he was assigned to us and damn did he serve well. For a tour of the city he took me off riding on his Harley Davidson along the Mississippi River in 90 degree humid weather for hours and from there we hit it off so fast talking that we managed two nights alone together. Sexy times.



He was just the diversion I needed from meetings and great in bed too. From complete strangers, to intimate new friends, the experience was worth sacrificing sleep for and as I'm returning to Minneapolis in April we're already talking about booking some play time again together. SM, bondage and sex date booked months in advance, life is good!



Later after much sleep, I may tell you about another man, very handsome, whom I trampled in my leather stiletto heels as he laid on the concrete outdoor dungeon floor for me. His wheelchair pushed out of the way and he laying under my spiky heels as I pushed my way into his torso, (he had no legs) causing him exquisite pain. He asked me for this and I gave it to him. As I left that night, from the Renaissance Festival he was still thanking me and my head was a little trippy from the power I both took and used in that scene.

Check out this restaurant, it will knock your socks off and thrill your palate when you're next in Minneapolis, Hells Kitchen is where we ate, twice!


off to bed now as I'm so exhausted, but first an orgasm is needed & deserved

A Funny Thing Happened On...

A Funny Thing Happened On the Way to a Wedding


My girlfriend phoned with the news that we’d been invited to her best friend’s wedding on a cruise ship in Vancouver. “I hate weddings,” I muttered to myself. But knowing there was no way out of this one, I suggested we leave Chicago a few days early to explore some of the great northwest. We never did make it to the summit of Mt. Rainier or arrange tea and crumpets in Victoria with the Queen. But, to our great surprise, we wound up instead exploring our most intimate sexual biases.

“When you drip hot wax on the naked body,” Jennifer, the enthusiastic workshop facilitator and head of Vancouver’s “Libido Events” said as she demonstrated, “start with the candle held high, like this, so the wax has a chance to cool down a bit before it hits.” “YOW!” I lunged into the air as a few drops of molten wax splattered across my back. If that was “cooled down,” I didn’t need to find out what it was going to feel like up close and personal.

Neither Debbie nor I had ever before experienced any form of sexual “pain for pleasure,” S/M, bondage or the like. But here we were, naked among naked strangers being scalded, frozen, tied up, whipped and beaten – well…“paddled.” We felt a little guilty at first – not getting it – failing to connect with the potential erotic thrill of it all. But instead of being pressured by the group to go further until we felt “it,” we were made to feel appreciated for trying something new. The new activities continued to seem strange, but the strangers surrounding us soon began to feel like friends.

Debbie and I had stumbled onto what the workshop leaders called a “sex positive community.” Apparently unique to the northwest from San Francisco to Vancouver (a Google search of “sex positive Chicago,” LA and New York revealed nothing), sex positive communities are comprised of individuals who identify themselves as hetero, gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans-gendered, she-male, swingers, polyamorists and/or fetishists of all stripes who come together to learn from each other, play together and explore their erotic/spiritual potentials.

“In the early days, nobody trusted anybody else,” offered Allena and Jim, poly life-partners with Jennifer and founders of Seattle’s “Wet Spot.” “The gays wouldn’t mix with lesbians or bisexuals let alone straights. The swingers wanted nothing to do with the hard-core S/M folks. Everybody held on tightly to their own particular labels and group identities to the exclusion of everyone else. Nobody yet realized the political strength in numbers.”


Allena told us that early on, she had owned a coffee house which attracted, among others, sexual adventurers of several varieties. When the coffee house went out of business, those who had begun to dialogue over java and across sexual orientations refused to relinquish the opportunity they had created to explore and play together. Subsequently, a string of new locations were tried and abandoned until the Wet Spot was born.

“But even after the various groups began sitting down together,” according to Jim, “resistance continued with everybody defining themselves in terms of what they wouldn’t do. ‘I’ll attend a meeting or tie somebody up but I don’t do any of that gay stuff.’ There’s still resistance, but the labels and barriers are slowly coming down.” Continued Allena, “People came and loosened up and tried things they never thought they would ever try, simply because the environment was so friendly, safe and inviting.” “In a lot of cases,” Jennifer added, “they found that some of what they had been shutting out actually held erotic potential for them.”

Debbie and I marveled at what we saw as we looked around the smoke, drug and alcohol-free room, noticing two women of different racial backgrounds snuggling in one corner; an older male/female couple enjoying sex with a much younger woman; two men sharing a rope, a whip and a rack; a young “man” discussing the stages he was going through on his way to becoming a woman, and a dance floor filled with partially clothed and naked bodies of various ages, shapes and designs, revealing tattooed torsos and branded behinds.

Nowhere did we see people “coming on to” others or being offensive in any way. People politely brought each other lemonade and candy from the free community stash and demonstrated respect for each other in a hundred other ways. The activities people chose to participate in were those with the greatest potential for satisfying their particular sexual desires while all around them, others with differing sexual interests, were pursuing far different sexual pleasures. Everywhere we looked, people were busy going about the business of maximizing their own erotic/spiritual potential while respectfully acknowledging everyone else’s right to do the same. It was as if Debbie and I had landed in a little corner of sexual heaven. I surmised that in a world of erotic harmony, the only label needed would be “sex positive.”

After three days of amazing sexual exploration, we finally made it to the wedding which of course turned out to be a bigger challenge of my endurance than anything Jennifer had to offer. But now, better able than before to access my spiritual core, I placed everything in loving perspective, and as a result, was able to rise nicely to the occasion. Later that evening, drawing on all we had learned, Debbie and I made love spectacularly for what seemed like hours. As we held each other in the afterglow, I couldn’t help but wonder if the newlyweds were having it this good.

Copyright 2006 Craig
Reprint with permission

wanted

today I taught a class for Opt in Vancouver
(short for: Options for Sexual Health, formerly Planned Parenthood)

I was brought in to do a presentation on bisexuality and polyamory, the class went very well and once over, I was asked to return again later this month to teach as part of their educate the educators series. Thoroughly enjoyed the chance to share my experiences with individuals who were hungry for ""real life" sex education and whose attention was focused on learning for the sake of educating oneself, not for titillation.

There were a number of people in the room who they themselves identified as poly or bi, the hands shot up about me as I asked the question. I found each hand to be a powerful reminder that our numbers are on the climb.

Five years ago if I was in a room full of people and asked for a show of hands for either bi sexuality or polyamory, one hand, if any may have been raised. (and a whole room full of people would have looked at me with a puzzled look as those words were once foreign to most people) Now, all these years later, we are growing in numbers and we're everywhere. I'm proud to be bi, polyamorous and out about who I am.

This afternoon was spent on the phone taking care of final planning details with the Tyra Banks show as they've been working with me for about a week and a half trying to negotiate terms and such for an upcoming episode that I'm to be on.

Like Opt, the Tyra Banks show wants me for my identity and a huge part of it.

Wet

This evening I teach SM 101 - A Little More Than A Slap & A Tickle at the Love Nest on the North Shore. Bags are packed and I've already had a soak in the tub to relax.

A few minutes ago I found myself with some serious pent up sex energy that needed to be let loose, so off I went into my bedroom and laid myself out on the bed for some solo play.

(door locked and music playing to drown out the noises as child is home on summer holidays and the Hitatchi is not a quiet source of pleasure ALTHOUGH an amazing source of pleasure and orgasms for yours truly)

The hunt for the big O was on. Successfully I coaxed a delectable, eye popping orgasm out of myself and it was a WET one...