Today had me working a 7 hour day and then driving home to my daughter to pick her up and spend an evening out with her. Together we went to see Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory. What a wonderful movie, we thoroughly enjoyed ourselves getting lost in this adaptation of an old classic. There's this scene where Willy is showing the factory to 5 children and their guardians and as they go past all of the rooms which contain the centers for many of their best candies they stop suddenly infront of one room which just demanded my attention. Hair cream, toffee cream and you guessed it, whipped cream.
So when they get to view the whipped cream room I hear the distinct crack of a whip, the sound of many whips, sounds like a play party that I'd play at. But no it's not. It's 4 oompa loompa's whipping a cow with single tails and it's suspended some how above the ground. I was so busy being captivated by the sudden surprising sight of 4 midgets whipping the cow that I neglected to check out the rigging or even what was holding the damn cow up! ha, too funny, anyways, then Willy Wonka, looks at the group of visitors and says "well sweety, everyone knows that the best cream is whipped cream."
The movie was over at 8:45 and we were home by 9:00pm and seeing as I left this morning at 10:30am, it's been a long day for me.
Jim sent me this the other day and I thought I'd share it here...
Two Wolves
One evening an old Cherokee told his grandson about a debate that goes on inside people. He said, "My son, the battle is between 2 "wolves" inside us all.
One is Evil. It is anger, envy, jealousy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego.
The other is Good. It is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion and faith."
The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather: "Which wolf wins?"
The old Cherokee simply replied, "The one you feed."
blessings
Jennifer
Jennifer ... Vancouver's Sex Educator, Sexuality Coach and Activist. The content of this blog is not suited for those under the age of 18. What you'll find here is a written account of my personal journey in sex positive culture both personally and professionally.
Friday, July 29, 2005
Wednesday, July 27, 2005
bondage and me
I'd like to spend some time emptying my head of all that is spinning around in it to my Blog but I simply don't have it in me to write much tonight. The days are so full and long that it seems unending lately. Time is so valuable and scarce. I'm always on the go, both physically and emotionally. Perhaps these are a few of the reasons that bondage captivates me...
It's the contrast.
Bondage is my opportunity to be still with myself and to have to listen to my body instead of my head for a change. To follow the desires of my lust and cunt and not my intellectual self for awhile.
Bondage demands and gets my full attention all at once.
Bondage is where I get to be free of the load I carry in the day to day world and solely concentrate on making it through the next moment in breath or in comfort.
Bondage is where I submit myself to the sensations that are being created in me and on me both by the bondage itself and by the partner.
Bondage is where nothing else matters because I can't think past my bound bodies own happy bliss.
Bondage allows me! Me! Me Jennifer, it allows me to give up control. Takes not a lot to contain me, but once you've got me bound, damn the possibilities are endless. And I get in to this head space when I give up control that makes me want to please...funny thing that is. It's a damn fine thing then that I have wonderful people in my life who like to take control of me, contain me and allow me to submit to them and please them.
I'm grateful for Bondage. It's taught me much about my own self and contained me through many days & nights.
Jim's not here tonight, he's in Bellingham and I'd like nothing more than to be laying in bed next to him bound in hemp rope. I'm my Daddys good little rope slut and know exactly what I need. It's just a shame that my Daddy and his rope are not here though.
Time for me to sleep, alone.
Jennifer
It's the contrast.
Bondage is my opportunity to be still with myself and to have to listen to my body instead of my head for a change. To follow the desires of my lust and cunt and not my intellectual self for awhile.
Bondage demands and gets my full attention all at once.
Bondage is where I get to be free of the load I carry in the day to day world and solely concentrate on making it through the next moment in breath or in comfort.
Bondage is where I submit myself to the sensations that are being created in me and on me both by the bondage itself and by the partner.
Bondage is where nothing else matters because I can't think past my bound bodies own happy bliss.
Bondage allows me! Me! Me Jennifer, it allows me to give up control. Takes not a lot to contain me, but once you've got me bound, damn the possibilities are endless. And I get in to this head space when I give up control that makes me want to please...funny thing that is. It's a damn fine thing then that I have wonderful people in my life who like to take control of me, contain me and allow me to submit to them and please them.
I'm grateful for Bondage. It's taught me much about my own self and contained me through many days & nights.
Jim's not here tonight, he's in Bellingham and I'd like nothing more than to be laying in bed next to him bound in hemp rope. I'm my Daddys good little rope slut and know exactly what I need. It's just a shame that my Daddy and his rope are not here though.
Time for me to sleep, alone.
Jennifer
Monday, July 25, 2005
bottoming 101
Jim left this morning for home after a great weekend here together. Bondage party Saturday night was so much fun that I'm going to host another one. Then Sunday we had a wild morning and early afternoon in bed before heading out to do some errands for a short while. Returned home and invited a couple of friends over for some snacks and laid back conversation later in the evening.
Tonight I'm teaching a class that I first taught in 2001 at The North American Conference on Bisexuality, Gender, and Sexual Diversity held at UBC here in Vancouver. Here is the class information 4 years and a lot of personal practice later to fine tune it for 2005
Bottoming Skills 101 - learn how to bottom from a bottom
Monday July 25
doors open 7:00pm
workshop 7:30-9:30pm
Tickets $20 cash, Pay at the door
Venue: upstairs 2280 East Hastings Street Vancouver
More information
Do you want to give yourself up to someone in an erotic sense? Do you want to surrender to a partners wishes, orders or demands? Learn how to fly in rope bondage, SM or role play?
You'd like to learn some skills as a bottom then. Excellent! Now let's make you a better play partner or perhaps a more sought after one. Join me as I share with you the realism of making your bottoming fantasies become sexy realities. Learn to bottom from this bottom as we discuss the journey of bottoming from the mental self recognition of our desires to presenting one self for play to a Top. Whether your looking for insights to bottom a first time or for your hundredth time this class will offer you new ways to look at how you present yourself both for play and to partners.
Critical to a good bottoming experience is a good Top and we'll spend some time talking about what makes one. For some, the journey of bottoming flows in to submission and surrender over an evening or a relationship long, while for others it becomes a way of life. Safe words, SM play, negotiation skills, conditioning of erotic responses and many other needed topics for bottoms will be addressed while still leaving time for Q & A at the end.
Tonight I'm teaching a class that I first taught in 2001 at The North American Conference on Bisexuality, Gender, and Sexual Diversity held at UBC here in Vancouver. Here is the class information 4 years and a lot of personal practice later to fine tune it for 2005
Monday July 25
doors open 7:00pm
workshop 7:30-9:30pm
Tickets $20 cash, Pay at the door
Venue: upstairs 2280 East Hastings Street Vancouver
More information
Do you want to give yourself up to someone in an erotic sense? Do you want to surrender to a partners wishes, orders or demands? Learn how to fly in rope bondage, SM or role play?
You'd like to learn some skills as a bottom then. Excellent! Now let's make you a better play partner or perhaps a more sought after one. Join me as I share with you the realism of making your bottoming fantasies become sexy realities. Learn to bottom from this bottom as we discuss the journey of bottoming from the mental self recognition of our desires to presenting one self for play to a Top. Whether your looking for insights to bottom a first time or for your hundredth time this class will offer you new ways to look at how you present yourself both for play and to partners.
Critical to a good bottoming experience is a good Top and we'll spend some time talking about what makes one. For some, the journey of bottoming flows in to submission and surrender over an evening or a relationship long, while for others it becomes a way of life. Safe words, SM play, negotiation skills, conditioning of erotic responses and many other needed topics for bottoms will be addressed while still leaving time for Q & A at the end.
Sunday, July 24, 2005
to the shredder
For almost two years now I've had the same photo hanging on the bulletin board in my office. I spend great amounts of time working in this area every day and so I saw the photo countless times daily.
This photo wasn't the type that hangs on the wall, but you never really see. It hung on my corkboard because I put it there to remind me of how people change and I always had my eyes open wide when looking at it.
It was a photo of man standing in my living room, a friend at the time. Hanging next to the photo, has been a poem titled "How Do You Live Your Dash?" that I copied and put there. It reads like this...
For almost two years, I've read the poem daily, looked at this mans photo and finally came to a realization.
I was ready to rid myself of the burden and baggage of looking at him and his face daily. I knew it would give me great pleasure to put his photo through my paper shredder.
I proceeded to remove the photo from the bulletin board and laughed happilly all the while watching him shred. Collected the pieces and rehung him, shredded, back on the bulletin board. He hung as that mess for about a week while I showed a few friends who'd appreciate my efforts and then I tossed him into the trash like the piece of garbage the photo had become. The whole experience was good for me and rather therapeutic too.
Now all that remains on my board is the poem which I adore because I'm all about the dash.
And with the man removed from my board I'm now free to move on. Funny I hadn't really thought that a simple photo hanging there could hold me to the past but it did. Now free, I'm happy to have room to hang things that are actually important to me. Like my tax bill! ha
Jennifer
This photo wasn't the type that hangs on the wall, but you never really see. It hung on my corkboard because I put it there to remind me of how people change and I always had my eyes open wide when looking at it.
It was a photo of man standing in my living room, a friend at the time. Hanging next to the photo, has been a poem titled "How Do You Live Your Dash?" that I copied and put there. It reads like this...
For almost two years, I've read the poem daily, looked at this mans photo and finally came to a realization.
I was ready to rid myself of the burden and baggage of looking at him and his face daily. I knew it would give me great pleasure to put his photo through my paper shredder.
I proceeded to remove the photo from the bulletin board and laughed happilly all the while watching him shred. Collected the pieces and rehung him, shredded, back on the bulletin board. He hung as that mess for about a week while I showed a few friends who'd appreciate my efforts and then I tossed him into the trash like the piece of garbage the photo had become. The whole experience was good for me and rather therapeutic too.
Now all that remains on my board is the poem which I adore because I'm all about the dash.
And with the man removed from my board I'm now free to move on. Funny I hadn't really thought that a simple photo hanging there could hold me to the past but it did. Now free, I'm happy to have room to hang things that are actually important to me. Like my tax bill! ha
Jennifer
Friday, July 22, 2005
today's list
Last night I went and added a new presenter to the October conference line up. It's Vancouver's own Elwood.
Elwood is a local body modification artist whose done work (pierced, branded & cut) on me and my family. As well, I've hired him before over the years for other presentations and workshops and knew that you'd all want to see what he's going to be offering in the way of sex positive education at the Libido Events Vancouver Sexuality Empowerment Conference.
Today I'm working all day and then late tonight setting up the studio for tomorrow nights bondage party.
Tomorrow day time from 11:30-6:00 I work and then will head straight to the bondage party.
Jim is coming up tomorrow for the bondage event and a weekend with me! I'm so looking forward to having him here.
Later this weekend I plan on putting the Midori tickets out in stores so you can expect a mailout about that early next week and where you can pre purchase them.
My daughter is going to Grandmas for the weekend and I'm taking her to the ferry terminal at dinner time after my day of work.
blessings
Jennifer
Elwood is a local body modification artist whose done work (pierced, branded & cut) on me and my family. As well, I've hired him before over the years for other presentations and workshops and knew that you'd all want to see what he's going to be offering in the way of sex positive education at the Libido Events Vancouver Sexuality Empowerment Conference.
Today I'm working all day and then late tonight setting up the studio for tomorrow nights bondage party.
Tomorrow day time from 11:30-6:00 I work and then will head straight to the bondage party.
Jim is coming up tomorrow for the bondage event and a weekend with me! I'm so looking forward to having him here.
Later this weekend I plan on putting the Midori tickets out in stores so you can expect a mailout about that early next week and where you can pre purchase them.
My daughter is going to Grandmas for the weekend and I'm taking her to the ferry terminal at dinner time after my day of work.
blessings
Jennifer
Thursday, July 21, 2005
the next 16 days
Over the next 16 days I'm producing 9 events.
1 Bondage Play Party this Saturday night, open invite.
5 Workshops from Vancouver BC to Bellingham Washington and over to Seattle. (one of these is at ITW and two others are at The Wet Spot)
2 workshops with Midori.
1 Dine With The Diva Event.
And my daughter is home on summer holidays and oh yes, I have a day job. Then the poly partners and and and and
there is so much to do. Thankfully, I love what I do and whom I'm surrounded by.
Jennifer
1 Bondage Play Party this Saturday night, open invite.
5 Workshops from Vancouver BC to Bellingham Washington and over to Seattle. (one of these is at ITW and two others are at The Wet Spot)
2 workshops with Midori.
1 Dine With The Diva Event.
And my daughter is home on summer holidays and oh yes, I have a day job. Then the poly partners and and and and
there is so much to do. Thankfully, I love what I do and whom I'm surrounded by.
Jennifer
Wednesday, July 20, 2005
cutting in the office
This morning as I walked through the door of work right at the stroke of 9 AM I was aware that my day was going to start a little differently than most around the office.
Yesterday, Tuesday while working, my friend comes over to my desk, looks around with shifty eyes, quickly whips up her skirt, and reveals a fresh cutting done on her thigh. She loved the way the cutting looked on her yet was unsure as to whether or not her emotional reactions to it's happening were natural and normal? or not? She told me a little of her experience and then I shared with her what I knew from attending classes on cuttings, being cut and cutting others myself.
Today I had the priviledge of taking my friend into the dungeon play area that she and her partner have off of their office and doing a fresh cutting over her existing one. I retraced the lines and went deeper. Me, my scalpel and I!
As she lay nearly naked, clothed only in little cotton panties, in the fetal posistion, upper outer thigh exposed to the light, I prepared us all.
Her partner had come from his office and we were all joined in the dungeon. She on the medical table and he and I standing talking. I like moments like these, where there is an exchange going on and where everyone is learning something and going forward.
Gloves on my hands, area to be cut disinfected, scalpel unsheathed and then....
Breathe, breathe again and keep breathing
breathe deep
Do not move.
Don't move.
Stop moving.
Stop moving now.
Good breathing.
Excellent job being still.
You're doing great!
Can you see the outline of the circle I've cut? Look. Can you see it? I'm holding up a folded piece of paper towel that I'd applied to the cutting to saturate the little bit of blood that was there. It was really more for the visual effect! Your red blood is so bright on the white, it looks like Crayola yet we know it's not.
Beads of blood slowly come to the surface and where I've sliced opens to reveal the rawness that is you.
See what I did! I cut you! And now I'm showing you the pattern on this papertowel. You're blood did this. This is you.
Breathe.
Breathe again.
Keep breathing.
I'm going to keep going two more passes around the circle to create circles in circles. Took concentration, a steady hand and skill to do, so please don't try this at home.
1/16, with a disposable blade - it's a lot of power.
She breathed and didn't pass out. Didn't vomit and didn't climb the walls for me like had happened when her partner cut her.
I looked down at her at one moment during it all, and temporarily her eyes, were not squished shut. They were open wide and she had incredible focus on her body and what sensations she was noticing as my blade was cutting her skin open.
She wanted a scar and I had the rare priviledge of playing part to it all. And now she and her partner/Top will continue on there merry way and he likely will keep cutting her on those lines that he first started as it is something symbolic between them.
By 9:45 AM I was seated at my desk working at the computer. My friend, still only clad in panties was sitting on the office floor working with her fresh cutting drying in the morning sun. Her partner back in his office, taking a client call.
Worked diligently at my desk till it was time to leave to get my daughter from day camp. Day camp pick up, doctors office visit, fruit and veggies at the market, trip to the bank and now home to Blog and put away groceries.
Tonight at 7 I've an appointment in the city with a local porn producer whose talking with me about a project he'd like to use me for - an SM shoot.
Dinner will be late tonight as it's to hot to cook out yet and I've still got to zip out for an hour.
Sometimes I'm amazed at all that get's done in one day...
Hope to see many of you at this Saturday July 23rds Bondage Play Party
Jennifer
Yesterday, Tuesday while working, my friend comes over to my desk, looks around with shifty eyes, quickly whips up her skirt, and reveals a fresh cutting done on her thigh. She loved the way the cutting looked on her yet was unsure as to whether or not her emotional reactions to it's happening were natural and normal? or not? She told me a little of her experience and then I shared with her what I knew from attending classes on cuttings, being cut and cutting others myself.
Today I had the priviledge of taking my friend into the dungeon play area that she and her partner have off of their office and doing a fresh cutting over her existing one. I retraced the lines and went deeper. Me, my scalpel and I!
As she lay nearly naked, clothed only in little cotton panties, in the fetal posistion, upper outer thigh exposed to the light, I prepared us all.
Her partner had come from his office and we were all joined in the dungeon. She on the medical table and he and I standing talking. I like moments like these, where there is an exchange going on and where everyone is learning something and going forward.
Gloves on my hands, area to be cut disinfected, scalpel unsheathed and then....
Breathe, breathe again and keep breathing
breathe deep
Do not move.
Don't move.
Stop moving.
Stop moving now.
Good breathing.
Excellent job being still.
You're doing great!
Can you see the outline of the circle I've cut? Look. Can you see it? I'm holding up a folded piece of paper towel that I'd applied to the cutting to saturate the little bit of blood that was there. It was really more for the visual effect! Your red blood is so bright on the white, it looks like Crayola yet we know it's not.
Beads of blood slowly come to the surface and where I've sliced opens to reveal the rawness that is you.
See what I did! I cut you! And now I'm showing you the pattern on this papertowel. You're blood did this. This is you.
Breathe.
Breathe again.
Keep breathing.
I'm going to keep going two more passes around the circle to create circles in circles. Took concentration, a steady hand and skill to do, so please don't try this at home.
1/16, with a disposable blade - it's a lot of power.
She breathed and didn't pass out. Didn't vomit and didn't climb the walls for me like had happened when her partner cut her.
I looked down at her at one moment during it all, and temporarily her eyes, were not squished shut. They were open wide and she had incredible focus on her body and what sensations she was noticing as my blade was cutting her skin open.
She wanted a scar and I had the rare priviledge of playing part to it all. And now she and her partner/Top will continue on there merry way and he likely will keep cutting her on those lines that he first started as it is something symbolic between them.
By 9:45 AM I was seated at my desk working at the computer. My friend, still only clad in panties was sitting on the office floor working with her fresh cutting drying in the morning sun. Her partner back in his office, taking a client call.
Worked diligently at my desk till it was time to leave to get my daughter from day camp. Day camp pick up, doctors office visit, fruit and veggies at the market, trip to the bank and now home to Blog and put away groceries.
Tonight at 7 I've an appointment in the city with a local porn producer whose talking with me about a project he'd like to use me for - an SM shoot.
Dinner will be late tonight as it's to hot to cook out yet and I've still got to zip out for an hour.
Sometimes I'm amazed at all that get's done in one day...
Hope to see many of you at this Saturday July 23rds Bondage Play Party
Jennifer
Monday, July 18, 2005
cupcakes, haircuts and Daddy
Yesterday, that beautiful sunny day that happened had me down on Denman Street in The West End of Vancouver by 10 in the morning to get my haircut at a friends favorite salon. Lucky me not having to drive as I was whisked to the hair dresser as a passenger in my friends car. Oh how I hate driving.
While I was reclined back having my head massaged and shampooed by Jeff the hairdresser my friend went over to Cupcakes on Denman. An order of 2 dozen cupcakes to go along with a box of a dozen assorted iced mini cupcakes for my daughter and I to share is what she came back with. Cupcakes makes incredible little morsels of love. And boy do I ever have a sweet tooth! The gift was tasty and thoughtful, thanks F - both my daughter and I enjoyed them last night after dinner. In case you've never been these Cupcakes can be found at 1116 Davie Street. They've got a very cute site, enjoy!
Yesterday afternoon my daughter returned home after being away for over a week. It made me so happy to see her come through the front door and drop her stuff and come straight to me for some loving. I missed her so much, the last few days apart were a little rough, we were starting to phone and email one another to keep up. It's good to have her home with me. Of course, last night had her sleeping in my bed, and she drifted off to sleep listening to the sound of her mother at work typing on the computer. It's what she knows me to do.
Today I worked from 9:15-1:15 and it's easier to do with my daughter in summer day camp as I'm not feeling guilty about her being home alone while I'm out working. She's in day camp all week Monday - Friday. (thankfully as I work every day but Wednesday) This evening was again spent catching up as a mother to my daughter and readying for the upcoming October conference.
Jims been away in Olympia for days now and has just returned to Bellingham. I'm hoping that he'll be up tomorrow night with me as I'm in need of time with my Daddy. When I've got a lot going on in my life, I spend more time on my Daddies lap, figuring things out and calming myself down. It's my safe place, the place where things get fixed, healed and loved.
I'm overwhelmed as of late with work commitments and long term projects and Daddy helps to prioritize things for me so I can keep going. He's the person who calms the shakes that wash over my body often as I realize all that I've left to accomplish. He's the man who picks me up and dusts me off when the politics of my activism knock me down, over and over. He's the person who doesn't see me as Jennifer the sex activist, but rather as Jennifer the little girl and the woman struggling to mature my own way. I'm not looking to grow old based on how I was raised, society or fate. He's the man who recognizes that in me are layers upon layers to be revealed and he celebrates pulling back these layers with me and for me. My Daddy loves me and I love him, regardless of whether or not I'm calling him Jim or Daddy. It's because I'm so well taken care of and nurtured by my Daddy as his little girl that I'm able to head out in the world alone each day as the strong capable woman that I am.
Not wanting to ruin this idealic vision and all of my Daddy and I but here's the deal. There is a whole other side to our relationship than lapsitting and making Jennifer feel better that's more about my Daddy and this is a seperate Blog post another day. Know though that my Daddy takes liberties with my body & self, makes rules and enforces them on me, ties me up and suspends me, takes from me things you would call personal freedoms and all the while keeps me safe and loved. Another post, another day.
There is a photo on the front of my worksite of my thighs & mons, Daddy took it a few months back after some private bondage play time between us. Looking at the rope marks on my thighs I remember how uncontrolled & antsy I'd felt inside till he finally tied me up. Then finally tied up tight, the feeling of flight of body and soul as I was unable to move yet my emotions / lust took off in flight. My feet could not get me anywhere for a change since I was bound and I had no choice but to submit to the sensations that both the rope and my Daddy were creating in and on me. Go and have a peek at the photo it's at the bottom of this page. And while there read about this Saturday July 23rds Bondage Play party that I'm hosting.
I should get back to work now so there will still be some time left in the night for me to sleep.
blessings
Jennifer
Daddys girl
While I was reclined back having my head massaged and shampooed by Jeff the hairdresser my friend went over to Cupcakes on Denman. An order of 2 dozen cupcakes to go along with a box of a dozen assorted iced mini cupcakes for my daughter and I to share is what she came back with. Cupcakes makes incredible little morsels of love. And boy do I ever have a sweet tooth! The gift was tasty and thoughtful, thanks F - both my daughter and I enjoyed them last night after dinner. In case you've never been these Cupcakes can be found at 1116 Davie Street. They've got a very cute site, enjoy!
Yesterday afternoon my daughter returned home after being away for over a week. It made me so happy to see her come through the front door and drop her stuff and come straight to me for some loving. I missed her so much, the last few days apart were a little rough, we were starting to phone and email one another to keep up. It's good to have her home with me. Of course, last night had her sleeping in my bed, and she drifted off to sleep listening to the sound of her mother at work typing on the computer. It's what she knows me to do.
Today I worked from 9:15-1:15 and it's easier to do with my daughter in summer day camp as I'm not feeling guilty about her being home alone while I'm out working. She's in day camp all week Monday - Friday. (thankfully as I work every day but Wednesday) This evening was again spent catching up as a mother to my daughter and readying for the upcoming October conference.
Jims been away in Olympia for days now and has just returned to Bellingham. I'm hoping that he'll be up tomorrow night with me as I'm in need of time with my Daddy. When I've got a lot going on in my life, I spend more time on my Daddies lap, figuring things out and calming myself down. It's my safe place, the place where things get fixed, healed and loved.
I'm overwhelmed as of late with work commitments and long term projects and Daddy helps to prioritize things for me so I can keep going. He's the person who calms the shakes that wash over my body often as I realize all that I've left to accomplish. He's the man who picks me up and dusts me off when the politics of my activism knock me down, over and over. He's the person who doesn't see me as Jennifer the sex activist, but rather as Jennifer the little girl and the woman struggling to mature my own way. I'm not looking to grow old based on how I was raised, society or fate. He's the man who recognizes that in me are layers upon layers to be revealed and he celebrates pulling back these layers with me and for me. My Daddy loves me and I love him, regardless of whether or not I'm calling him Jim or Daddy. It's because I'm so well taken care of and nurtured by my Daddy as his little girl that I'm able to head out in the world alone each day as the strong capable woman that I am.
Not wanting to ruin this idealic vision and all of my Daddy and I but here's the deal. There is a whole other side to our relationship than lapsitting and making Jennifer feel better that's more about my Daddy and this is a seperate Blog post another day. Know though that my Daddy takes liberties with my body & self, makes rules and enforces them on me, ties me up and suspends me, takes from me things you would call personal freedoms and all the while keeps me safe and loved. Another post, another day.
There is a photo on the front of my worksite of my thighs & mons, Daddy took it a few months back after some private bondage play time between us. Looking at the rope marks on my thighs I remember how uncontrolled & antsy I'd felt inside till he finally tied me up. Then finally tied up tight, the feeling of flight of body and soul as I was unable to move yet my emotions / lust took off in flight. My feet could not get me anywhere for a change since I was bound and I had no choice but to submit to the sensations that both the rope and my Daddy were creating in and on me. Go and have a peek at the photo it's at the bottom of this page. And while there read about this Saturday July 23rds Bondage Play party that I'm hosting.
I should get back to work now so there will still be some time left in the night for me to sleep.
blessings
Jennifer
Daddys girl
Saturday, July 16, 2005
seeing me professionally
Jennifer, I'd very much like to book a private consultation with you. Can you tell me more about these appointments?
More and more I'm getting questions like this in my in box so it seems only fitting that I explore this option today, in case, you are like one of the many who is trying to make their way to see me privately, yet needs more information before making the first appointment.
To start my time is booked in two hour time slots at an hourly rate of $50 per hour. Most people email me with the topic or issue that they'd like to discuss in advance so I may do any prep work from home necessary before making my way to our appointment well informed and up to date. Usually I can be seen within a week of your contacting me.
What do people want to talk to me about? Or better, how do people use me as a Resource? What can I offer you?
People often book me to sit and talk about sex positive culture, local resources specific to their sex interests, lifestyle, coming out and partner issues. Play based events, social sexy events and alternative sex education. Polyamory, multi partnered relationships, group sex, kinky sex, bondage, fetish, swinging, BD bondage & discipline, SM sadism & masochism, bi sexuality & bi curiosity. Women's masturbation, submission for men and women, Dominance for Women and Men, role playing, introduction to sex positive culture, navigating public play and ethics in a sex positive community.
Many others just want someone who they can tell their desires to and I'm a safe person for this. Some people just want to know how to bring a little kink into their bedrooms without having to leave the privacy of home. A growing number of couples are seeing me before they start exploring the cities sex positive communities and they use me to help them prepare for what they will expect and how they can best prepare themselves for a positive experience. People use me a guide or perhaps a coach, I'm in a unique situation, there really isn't a name for me. I'm Jennifer an activist for sex positive culture.
We'll sit and talk about any of the above topics for two hours and while talking I'll compile a list of the Resources and Links, and my personal notes that I will be sending you, specific to you and your life, once our time is complete and I return to my computer. Tell me what you are looking for and I'll let you know if it exists in our Province and if so, where to get it. And if not, where the next best place will be for you to find something to titillate or educate you. With over 45 local Resources at my fingertips at any moment and friends throughout the province running groups, surely together we can match you up to a Resource.
Meeting in a local restaurant and having a meal together or a drink while we talk is most common. Should you need to see me at my studio, you can also book me privately there for a small additional cost. Some times I see people in the studio when they want a class taught to them privately. Perhaps you and your partner might like to take a bondage class privately or my Genital Play class. This can be worked out as not everyone wants to learn in a class group setting, so I do teach classes privately. You can read a list of classes that I teach here. Certainly not limited to these workshops only by any stretch, but these classes represent those that are the most frequently asked for at this time. Check out the current calendar for a few new workshops that have not yet made there way over to my Erotic Arts Curriculum yet.
I'm paid at the start of appointments, when we first sit down, thank you kindly.
If when you book me, you think you might like a third additional hour, (often useful when I'm working with couples) please let me know at time of booking. I will not tack a third hour on to an appointment if it was not booked as such.
Email jennifer@libidoevents.com for appointment times. I'm fairly flexible time wise and book appointments from 8:30 AM onwards.
When we meet in public, I will not be in my tank top that says Rope Slut. Rather, I will arrive dressed appropriate to the venue and weather. Nothing shocking to give away who I am. No pink brief case with www.LibidoEvents.com written across it, sorry!
Privacy, where does what you tell me go? It really goes no where, I share with no one who I meet with and guarantee that for you. I understand how important matters of privacy are when dealing with sexuality and people and share your concern for keeping us all safe.
I've been an active, out, vibrant part of Vancouvers sex positive culture for almost 8 years now. I play at public events and enjoy a variety of sexy activities some you can see at public events and some you get to read about here as they can only happen at home or in a dungeon. My life is very real and so whatever your interests, know that you won't be shocking or alarming me. I know so many diverse people doing so many amazing things with their lives and sexuality that the probability of you actually shocking me is quite small. I'm tolerant, open minded and able to initiate and help lead a conversation that I understand you may believe will be difficult to get underway. It's what I do and I'm really good at it.
It really is my pleasure to help make your entry to Vancouver's sex positive communities both a smooth and safe one.
Jennifer
Sex Activist
More and more I'm getting questions like this in my in box so it seems only fitting that I explore this option today, in case, you are like one of the many who is trying to make their way to see me privately, yet needs more information before making the first appointment.
To start my time is booked in two hour time slots at an hourly rate of $50 per hour. Most people email me with the topic or issue that they'd like to discuss in advance so I may do any prep work from home necessary before making my way to our appointment well informed and up to date. Usually I can be seen within a week of your contacting me.
What do people want to talk to me about? Or better, how do people use me as a Resource? What can I offer you?
People often book me to sit and talk about sex positive culture, local resources specific to their sex interests, lifestyle, coming out and partner issues. Play based events, social sexy events and alternative sex education. Polyamory, multi partnered relationships, group sex, kinky sex, bondage, fetish, swinging, BD bondage & discipline, SM sadism & masochism, bi sexuality & bi curiosity. Women's masturbation, submission for men and women, Dominance for Women and Men, role playing, introduction to sex positive culture, navigating public play and ethics in a sex positive community.
Many others just want someone who they can tell their desires to and I'm a safe person for this. Some people just want to know how to bring a little kink into their bedrooms without having to leave the privacy of home. A growing number of couples are seeing me before they start exploring the cities sex positive communities and they use me to help them prepare for what they will expect and how they can best prepare themselves for a positive experience. People use me a guide or perhaps a coach, I'm in a unique situation, there really isn't a name for me. I'm Jennifer an activist for sex positive culture.
We'll sit and talk about any of the above topics for two hours and while talking I'll compile a list of the Resources and Links, and my personal notes that I will be sending you, specific to you and your life, once our time is complete and I return to my computer. Tell me what you are looking for and I'll let you know if it exists in our Province and if so, where to get it. And if not, where the next best place will be for you to find something to titillate or educate you. With over 45 local Resources at my fingertips at any moment and friends throughout the province running groups, surely together we can match you up to a Resource.
Meeting in a local restaurant and having a meal together or a drink while we talk is most common. Should you need to see me at my studio, you can also book me privately there for a small additional cost. Some times I see people in the studio when they want a class taught to them privately. Perhaps you and your partner might like to take a bondage class privately or my Genital Play class. This can be worked out as not everyone wants to learn in a class group setting, so I do teach classes privately. You can read a list of classes that I teach here. Certainly not limited to these workshops only by any stretch, but these classes represent those that are the most frequently asked for at this time. Check out the current calendar for a few new workshops that have not yet made there way over to my Erotic Arts Curriculum yet.
I'm paid at the start of appointments, when we first sit down, thank you kindly.
If when you book me, you think you might like a third additional hour, (often useful when I'm working with couples) please let me know at time of booking. I will not tack a third hour on to an appointment if it was not booked as such.
Email jennifer@libidoevents.com for appointment times. I'm fairly flexible time wise and book appointments from 8:30 AM onwards.
When we meet in public, I will not be in my tank top that says Rope Slut. Rather, I will arrive dressed appropriate to the venue and weather. Nothing shocking to give away who I am. No pink brief case with www.LibidoEvents.com written across it, sorry!
Privacy, where does what you tell me go? It really goes no where, I share with no one who I meet with and guarantee that for you. I understand how important matters of privacy are when dealing with sexuality and people and share your concern for keeping us all safe.
I've been an active, out, vibrant part of Vancouvers sex positive culture for almost 8 years now. I play at public events and enjoy a variety of sexy activities some you can see at public events and some you get to read about here as they can only happen at home or in a dungeon. My life is very real and so whatever your interests, know that you won't be shocking or alarming me. I know so many diverse people doing so many amazing things with their lives and sexuality that the probability of you actually shocking me is quite small. I'm tolerant, open minded and able to initiate and help lead a conversation that I understand you may believe will be difficult to get underway. It's what I do and I'm really good at it.
It really is my pleasure to help make your entry to Vancouver's sex positive communities both a smooth and safe one.
Jennifer
Sex Activist
Friday, July 15, 2005
rainy Friday
This morning I slept in. Thankfully! Woke up at 6 AM, had a drink of water, and climbed right back into my queen sized bed by myself. Stretched out naked under the sheets and duvet with my Tinkerbell blanket and fell promptly back asleep until 7:45 when I awoke actually feeling somewhat rested for a change. I'm enjoying having my bed to myself, free from poly partners and my daughter.
I'm sitting naked this morning at my desk blogging before my day starts. I do not ever drink coffee, so what usually gets me going in the morning is a good orgasm at my own hand and then to work on the computer. To each their own right?
Finished putting up the Bondage Party info to the website:
July 23 Sat 8:00-1:00am
BONDAGE Play Party
Tickets $15, Pay at the door
Venue: upstairs 2280 East Hastings St Vancouver
Come to tie some one up, or to be tied up!
Mummification excite you? Pallet Wrap. Rope Bondage? Hemp Rope. Restraints? Cuffs in stainless or leather, what will you bring?
No experience necessary, just be a bondage enthusiast. Participation not required, you do not have to play, you may be a voyeur. Attend as a couple, or attend alone and meet new people who also have a passion for bondage. Bring your own bondage gear, if you've got it. We supply bondage furniture, beds and suspension points. House Rules in place to keep everyone safe and a Floor Monitor to watch over the bondage play.
When I got home from work late last night, Midori and I managed to figure out her second class for her Vancouver visit. Midori will be presenting Aural Sex 1: Seductions By Voice along with her Military and Interrogation workshop which both promise to be inspiring classes. And given that Midori is trained / ex military this should be titillating. The pricing is now up for her classes as well as for Dine With The Diva, go and have a peek.
When I return Midori to SeaTac airport on August 7 I will also be making a stop at Seattles Sex Positive Community Center The Wet Spot and teaching two workshops that afternoon there for them.
I was flattered to receive in my inbox offers from stunt bottoms, personal assistants and aides when The WetSpot sent out to it's membership through it's mailing list about my coming classes. Both men and women who've attended my past classes emailed to offer themselves to me. Damn I love my job and I value so much those who endear themselves to me. As an activist, this truly makes me feel supported, the support of individuals offering themselves. Thank you to all of you who emailed with offers of help, I ended up choosing two men and one woman.
The two classes that I'm teaching in Seattle are:
August 7 Sun 1:00-2:30pm
Bi Curious? Where To Start For Girls Who Want To Date Girls presented by Jennifer at The Wet Spot, Seattle WA
Tickets $15, Pay at the door, membership not required
workshop write up
August 7 Sun 3:00-5:00pm
Erotic Wax & Ice Play for Partners - a fully interactive class presented by Jennifer The Wet Spot, Seattle WA, membership not required, Tickets at the door $35 for two partners, $20 for an additional third partner
workshop write up
BOATS!!! Boats with Bowsprits. Wooden. Does this make sense to anyone? If this makes sense to you and you own or have access to a boat with one of these, then please email me privately as I'm looking for this boat for a photo shoot for August. jennifer@libidoevents.com
Today I work from 11:30-6:00PM which I'm not minding so much seeing as the weather isn't so great. Then home to finish conference building. It's a lot of work and of course VERY rewarding. Are you interested in volunteering at the Libido Events Vancouver Sexuality Empowerment Conference? If so, then email me with your skills and interest to jennifer@libidoevents.com What a great chance to meet personally some of our cultures icons behind the scenes as they prepare for this groundbreaking conference.
Have a great day, blessings,
Jennifer
I'm sitting naked this morning at my desk blogging before my day starts. I do not ever drink coffee, so what usually gets me going in the morning is a good orgasm at my own hand and then to work on the computer. To each their own right?
Finished putting up the Bondage Party info to the website:
July 23 Sat 8:00-1:00am
BONDAGE Play Party
Tickets $15, Pay at the door
Venue: upstairs 2280 East Hastings St Vancouver
Come to tie some one up, or to be tied up!
Mummification excite you? Pallet Wrap. Rope Bondage? Hemp Rope. Restraints? Cuffs in stainless or leather, what will you bring?
No experience necessary, just be a bondage enthusiast. Participation not required, you do not have to play, you may be a voyeur. Attend as a couple, or attend alone and meet new people who also have a passion for bondage. Bring your own bondage gear, if you've got it. We supply bondage furniture, beds and suspension points. House Rules in place to keep everyone safe and a Floor Monitor to watch over the bondage play.
When I got home from work late last night, Midori and I managed to figure out her second class for her Vancouver visit. Midori will be presenting Aural Sex 1: Seductions By Voice along with her Military and Interrogation workshop which both promise to be inspiring classes. And given that Midori is trained / ex military this should be titillating. The pricing is now up for her classes as well as for Dine With The Diva, go and have a peek.
When I return Midori to SeaTac airport on August 7 I will also be making a stop at Seattles Sex Positive Community Center The Wet Spot and teaching two workshops that afternoon there for them.
I was flattered to receive in my inbox offers from stunt bottoms, personal assistants and aides when The WetSpot sent out to it's membership through it's mailing list about my coming classes. Both men and women who've attended my past classes emailed to offer themselves to me. Damn I love my job and I value so much those who endear themselves to me. As an activist, this truly makes me feel supported, the support of individuals offering themselves. Thank you to all of you who emailed with offers of help, I ended up choosing two men and one woman.
The two classes that I'm teaching in Seattle are:
August 7 Sun 1:00-2:30pm
Bi Curious? Where To Start For Girls Who Want To Date Girls presented by Jennifer at The Wet Spot, Seattle WA
Tickets $15, Pay at the door, membership not required
workshop write up
August 7 Sun 3:00-5:00pm
Erotic Wax & Ice Play for Partners - a fully interactive class presented by Jennifer The Wet Spot, Seattle WA, membership not required, Tickets at the door $35 for two partners, $20 for an additional third partner
workshop write up
BOATS!!! Boats with Bowsprits. Wooden. Does this make sense to anyone? If this makes sense to you and you own or have access to a boat with one of these, then please email me privately as I'm looking for this boat for a photo shoot for August. jennifer@libidoevents.com
Today I work from 11:30-6:00PM which I'm not minding so much seeing as the weather isn't so great. Then home to finish conference building. It's a lot of work and of course VERY rewarding. Are you interested in volunteering at the Libido Events Vancouver Sexuality Empowerment Conference? If so, then email me with your skills and interest to jennifer@libidoevents.com What a great chance to meet personally some of our cultures icons behind the scenes as they prepare for this groundbreaking conference.
Have a great day, blessings,
Jennifer
Thursday, July 14, 2005
past few days
My daughter left for some time away with her dad last Saturday and is not due home till this Sunday. Now do you see why I've not been doing much blogging this past bit as I've been bouncing from one thing to the next as a person with no one else to responsible for.
What things have gone on of interest? Well it was my Daddy's birthday so we created ourselves a bubble of love, sex, domination and submission up in a beautiful condo in Whistler for two days where we only managed to leave once for a short walk. It was the best thing we could have done to have gone away. No internet, no phones, just each other. I'd promised to offer myself up to him and to be at his disposal and whim. It's safe to safe his wants were met by me and Jim had a good birthday as I was a very very good girl. I won't be laying in bed completely comfortable for another few days but it was still my pleasure to be used by him.
Today I'm working from 11:30-6 then heading off to a private consultation with a man from 7:30-9:30, the day will be long as I'll not walk through my front door till about 10 tonight which means that my In Box will be over flowing and in need of attention.
Early this morning Midori and I figured out one of her two classes for here Libido Events visit in August. Midori will be presenting Military and Interrogation Scenes on August 3. Some time later today or tomorrow I'll get the second class posted which will be happening on August 4th. Don't forget that Dine With Diva will be happening again. This is where you can pre purchase a ticket that allows you to be one of twenty people to have dinner with Midori in a restaurants private group room and meet Midori personally, talk with her and listen as she reads selections from her new book Wild Side Sex: The Book Of Kink (meal not included in ticket price) Remember this is the woman who teaches class on Aural Seduction, prepare to be mesmerized.
Last night on my way home from the workshop I stopped in to my postbox and what did I find but something very exciting from two top-selling sexuality authors. Dossie Easton and Janet Hardys latest book Radical Ecstasy. These two women are powerhouses in writing and they've been co authors together a long time. I'm thrilled to get yet another of their books to add to my collection and to guide me. Radical Ecstacy is another must read for me as Dossie is presenting a workshop based on this new book at the October Libido Events Vancouver Sexuality Empowerment Conference. Learn how to achieve transcendence and exaltation in Dossie workshop.
I'm writing this sitting at my desk in my office area cross legged in an office chair, laptop in front of me. Pink cotton panties, laced in black, that Allena gave me about two years ago now and across the bottom they say in bold letters sex kitten and on the front, over my mons is a little girl wearing fishnets, gauntlets and cat ears, looking somewhat Topish. Cute comfortable panties and they match the very faded pink t-shirt I've got on that has my navel piercing hanging out from underneath it. I'm thinking that very shortly I'm going to HAVE to go and get dressed as I do have to work today.
Allena was up on Tuesday and we had a really good visit together overnight and into Wednesday. Tuesday when she arrived, I'd bbq'd a salmon with dill and red peppers and we spent a few hours catching up and eating. Finally food settled, it was time for Bella and I to have some alone time as women in love. And for Allena, as a woman who is my bottom, an opportunity to play.
We played hard and long till it was time for me to turn out the lights and put Bella to sleep in my bed. I'd already picked her up off the floor twice, so moving her to the bed was easy. Lube, man did we ever go through the lube. And I realize that a little goes a long way, but wow, did we ever make sticky a whole lot of things that were not used or even inserted.
Strap on sex with my cock that I got from Tickled Pink Toys was more fun than I'd hoped for with Allena. I have the Flame Strap-on Harness set and it even comes with a vibrating bullet so that my clit gets a nice little buzzing sensation as I'm pounding on my girl. Imagine how elated I was to discover upon opening this cock from it's package the first time that it also comes with a cock ring which is so handy for keeping the condom on.
The Electric Fly Swatters, the ones that Allena had sent me? Well I used one on her toes, knees and inner thighs inbetween running a neuro wheel along her body, while she lay blinfolded on the medical table. Then shortly later, blindfold thrown to the floor, Bellas hair grasped hard & taught, tightly between my fist and pulled back hard as I drive in to her and we both watch ourselves and one another in the full length mirror in my room next to my bed. Orgasms followed shortly there after.
Allena left at 9:30 in the morning to return to Seattle after her night her with me. We slept little YET we loved and played hard. For being so good to me and letting me have my way with her, I surprised Bella with breakfast of bacon, eggs, hashbrowns, toast, juice and fresh fruit IN BED before she departed. It was nice closure to our time together.
Bed sheets needed to be removed and treated with Spray & Wash. (I use the pre-treat stick and the spray)
blessings
Jennifer
What things have gone on of interest? Well it was my Daddy's birthday so we created ourselves a bubble of love, sex, domination and submission up in a beautiful condo in Whistler for two days where we only managed to leave once for a short walk. It was the best thing we could have done to have gone away. No internet, no phones, just each other. I'd promised to offer myself up to him and to be at his disposal and whim. It's safe to safe his wants were met by me and Jim had a good birthday as I was a very very good girl. I won't be laying in bed completely comfortable for another few days but it was still my pleasure to be used by him.
Today I'm working from 11:30-6 then heading off to a private consultation with a man from 7:30-9:30, the day will be long as I'll not walk through my front door till about 10 tonight which means that my In Box will be over flowing and in need of attention.
Early this morning Midori and I figured out one of her two classes for here Libido Events visit in August. Midori will be presenting Military and Interrogation Scenes on August 3. Some time later today or tomorrow I'll get the second class posted which will be happening on August 4th. Don't forget that Dine With Diva will be happening again. This is where you can pre purchase a ticket that allows you to be one of twenty people to have dinner with Midori in a restaurants private group room and meet Midori personally, talk with her and listen as she reads selections from her new book Wild Side Sex: The Book Of Kink (meal not included in ticket price) Remember this is the woman who teaches class on Aural Seduction, prepare to be mesmerized.
Last night on my way home from the workshop I stopped in to my postbox and what did I find but something very exciting from two top-selling sexuality authors. Dossie Easton and Janet Hardys latest book Radical Ecstasy. These two women are powerhouses in writing and they've been co authors together a long time. I'm thrilled to get yet another of their books to add to my collection and to guide me. Radical Ecstacy is another must read for me as Dossie is presenting a workshop based on this new book at the October Libido Events Vancouver Sexuality Empowerment Conference. Learn how to achieve transcendence and exaltation in Dossie workshop.
I'm writing this sitting at my desk in my office area cross legged in an office chair, laptop in front of me. Pink cotton panties, laced in black, that Allena gave me about two years ago now and across the bottom they say in bold letters sex kitten and on the front, over my mons is a little girl wearing fishnets, gauntlets and cat ears, looking somewhat Topish. Cute comfortable panties and they match the very faded pink t-shirt I've got on that has my navel piercing hanging out from underneath it. I'm thinking that very shortly I'm going to HAVE to go and get dressed as I do have to work today.
Allena was up on Tuesday and we had a really good visit together overnight and into Wednesday. Tuesday when she arrived, I'd bbq'd a salmon with dill and red peppers and we spent a few hours catching up and eating. Finally food settled, it was time for Bella and I to have some alone time as women in love. And for Allena, as a woman who is my bottom, an opportunity to play.
We played hard and long till it was time for me to turn out the lights and put Bella to sleep in my bed. I'd already picked her up off the floor twice, so moving her to the bed was easy. Lube, man did we ever go through the lube. And I realize that a little goes a long way, but wow, did we ever make sticky a whole lot of things that were not used or even inserted.
Strap on sex with my cock that I got from Tickled Pink Toys was more fun than I'd hoped for with Allena. I have the Flame Strap-on Harness set and it even comes with a vibrating bullet so that my clit gets a nice little buzzing sensation as I'm pounding on my girl. Imagine how elated I was to discover upon opening this cock from it's package the first time that it also comes with a cock ring which is so handy for keeping the condom on.
The Electric Fly Swatters, the ones that Allena had sent me? Well I used one on her toes, knees and inner thighs inbetween running a neuro wheel along her body, while she lay blinfolded on the medical table. Then shortly later, blindfold thrown to the floor, Bellas hair grasped hard & taught, tightly between my fist and pulled back hard as I drive in to her and we both watch ourselves and one another in the full length mirror in my room next to my bed. Orgasms followed shortly there after.
Allena left at 9:30 in the morning to return to Seattle after her night her with me. We slept little YET we loved and played hard. For being so good to me and letting me have my way with her, I surprised Bella with breakfast of bacon, eggs, hashbrowns, toast, juice and fresh fruit IN BED before she departed. It was nice closure to our time together.
Bed sheets needed to be removed and treated with Spray & Wash. (I use the pre-treat stick and the spray)
blessings
Jennifer
Friday, July 08, 2005
night at the strip club
Spending an evening as one of 16 bi sexual woman at the BGV social event last night was a riot! It was even more fun than I thought it would be. All of us women met up at The Number 5 Orange down in the 200 block of Main Street across the street from the old police station. It's a strip club.
I arrived at 7:10 and was still the first to arrive, which is often the case for me. Aside from the women there working, I was the lone women in the room. No big deal to me, I settled in to a nice seat at a table, a seat with a full view of the young hottie on the stage and ordered myself a Coke. Some single man, a few tables over whose trying quite hard to flirt with me, I keep holding at bay and avoiding. Look down, look away, move my chair, look right through him. I'm here only for the women, why can't he get that?
Finally, two women from the group arrive and I wave and they point over to an area, and I realize that the BGV group has even booked us table areas. Nice! Feels good to be taken care of well. Off I go to leave the flirt man behind to join these two hot bi babes and what happens but over the course of the next 10 minutes another 14 women walk through the door of the club and walk straight to our table to be welcomed with hugs, waves, smiles and offers of seats. Some of us knew one another and some of us had first time meets other than those on their on line message board.
Yes, the strippers were good. And I think many who were there would agree that the woman in the yellow race track suit, definitely needs to be ridden long and hard. And oh yes, her act, was, um, well, I forget ok, but she looked really good and smiled pretty.
There was one young dancer who was so intrigued by our group that she kept coming by to sit and talk with us once she learned that we were all bi sexual (some kinky too) in our group. Half way through her second visit (of perhaps 4 over the night) to our table area, I gave her my card. She looked at it and smiled in the knowing way and said "really?" and like 3 other women sitting at the tables with me all said yes at the same time to her along with me.
I'll be honest with you, I invited her to the up coming Libido Events Bondage Play Party on July 23rd and told her to bring along another friend/lover or partner and that they'd be my guests. Her company was a nice touch to watching the other women who were performing on stage. Call it my thanks to her for the interaction intellectually, or perhaps call me an insatiable flirt. ha
Spent some time getting to know a few new woman in the group and catching up with some old friends as well. Was flirted with shamelessly by two of the groups women and I must say that I enjoyed their attentions. But then I'd set myself up to be flirted with. Wearing black leather ankle strapped stilletoes, blue, black and white striped bright skirt with a black leather vest and little lace black bra, I was dressed to feel attractive, be noticed and talked to. I got what I was looking for. A relationship many years ago taught me that if you want something badly enough instead of laying there hoping for it, go and create opportunities where by your want will be met. I've gotten very creative over time and consistently now have my wants met.
Left the club just after 10 and was home after a quick pit stop of The McDonalds Drive through for a childrens cheese burger happy meal, no onions or pickles and another Coke which I consumed before I was even in my under ground parking lot.
it was a night out that I'm glad I made the effort to be apart of
Jennifer
bi sexual woman
I arrived at 7:10 and was still the first to arrive, which is often the case for me. Aside from the women there working, I was the lone women in the room. No big deal to me, I settled in to a nice seat at a table, a seat with a full view of the young hottie on the stage and ordered myself a Coke. Some single man, a few tables over whose trying quite hard to flirt with me, I keep holding at bay and avoiding. Look down, look away, move my chair, look right through him. I'm here only for the women, why can't he get that?
Finally, two women from the group arrive and I wave and they point over to an area, and I realize that the BGV group has even booked us table areas. Nice! Feels good to be taken care of well. Off I go to leave the flirt man behind to join these two hot bi babes and what happens but over the course of the next 10 minutes another 14 women walk through the door of the club and walk straight to our table to be welcomed with hugs, waves, smiles and offers of seats. Some of us knew one another and some of us had first time meets other than those on their on line message board.
Yes, the strippers were good. And I think many who were there would agree that the woman in the yellow race track suit, definitely needs to be ridden long and hard. And oh yes, her act, was, um, well, I forget ok, but she looked really good and smiled pretty.
There was one young dancer who was so intrigued by our group that she kept coming by to sit and talk with us once she learned that we were all bi sexual (some kinky too) in our group. Half way through her second visit (of perhaps 4 over the night) to our table area, I gave her my card. She looked at it and smiled in the knowing way and said "really?" and like 3 other women sitting at the tables with me all said yes at the same time to her along with me.
I'll be honest with you, I invited her to the up coming Libido Events Bondage Play Party on July 23rd and told her to bring along another friend/lover or partner and that they'd be my guests. Her company was a nice touch to watching the other women who were performing on stage. Call it my thanks to her for the interaction intellectually, or perhaps call me an insatiable flirt. ha
Spent some time getting to know a few new woman in the group and catching up with some old friends as well. Was flirted with shamelessly by two of the groups women and I must say that I enjoyed their attentions. But then I'd set myself up to be flirted with. Wearing black leather ankle strapped stilletoes, blue, black and white striped bright skirt with a black leather vest and little lace black bra, I was dressed to feel attractive, be noticed and talked to. I got what I was looking for. A relationship many years ago taught me that if you want something badly enough instead of laying there hoping for it, go and create opportunities where by your want will be met. I've gotten very creative over time and consistently now have my wants met.
Left the club just after 10 and was home after a quick pit stop of The McDonalds Drive through for a childrens cheese burger happy meal, no onions or pickles and another Coke which I consumed before I was even in my under ground parking lot.
it was a night out that I'm glad I made the effort to be apart of
Jennifer
bi sexual woman
Thursday, July 07, 2005
strippers & conference building
Busy, busy, busy. After sending out a mail out till 2 this morning to the Libido Events mailing list about all the up coming events and classes plus news about the site update, I crashed into bed where I slept soundly till almost 7. Awoke to a fresh new day and was thankful for the sun in the morning as I was sort of dragging my butt and having a hard time getting started. Then I drove to work, finally awake, and was there from 9-2, leaving work to stop in at home to see my daughter then straight to drive to pick up her friend from day camp, just to bring him back to our house. He's hanging out with my daughter till his parents pick up both of them in a short bit. My daughter is sleeping over at her friends house this evening, and tomorrow night, her friend is sleeping here.
Once the kids leave, I plan on getting dressed in to something a little sexier than my typical mom look. Perhaps a brightly colored short skirt that will allow my long legs to show strong underneath of and maybe something backless so my muscled tattooed back will be displayed. Heels, at least 4 inches more likely 5, I'm not into platforms either, just give me a nice sleek heel. No bra, no panties but most definitely a sweater or a shawl as I always catch a chill. I plan on having a good time and given the excellent company and entertainment I know I will.
Where would a nice woman like me be going on a Thursday night? Strippers honey. I'm going along with another dozen or so women and we're meeting at a local strip club. This is a social event for the bi sexual women's group that I'm apart of here in Vancouver. We're going to watch women, flirt with women, be naughty, get to know one another and generally have a good time.
Then home to a quiet house to conference build. It's almost time. Soon I'm going to be revealing the complete line up for the Libido Events Vancouver Sexuality Empowerment conference happening this October 14, 15 & 16th. This project is a massive undertaking for me and I'm so bursting at the seams with excitement and astonishingly enough I'm going to keep this under wraps for a bit longer. Sorry to not reveal anything more, but I know you'll be pleased when you finally do see what I've created for you all.
I've got to do a few domestic chores now before I can rationally justify my leaving the house to watch strippers. It's just the type of woman that I am.
Jennifer
Once the kids leave, I plan on getting dressed in to something a little sexier than my typical mom look. Perhaps a brightly colored short skirt that will allow my long legs to show strong underneath of and maybe something backless so my muscled tattooed back will be displayed. Heels, at least 4 inches more likely 5, I'm not into platforms either, just give me a nice sleek heel. No bra, no panties but most definitely a sweater or a shawl as I always catch a chill. I plan on having a good time and given the excellent company and entertainment I know I will.
Where would a nice woman like me be going on a Thursday night? Strippers honey. I'm going along with another dozen or so women and we're meeting at a local strip club. This is a social event for the bi sexual women's group that I'm apart of here in Vancouver. We're going to watch women, flirt with women, be naughty, get to know one another and generally have a good time.
Then home to a quiet house to conference build. It's almost time. Soon I'm going to be revealing the complete line up for the Libido Events Vancouver Sexuality Empowerment conference happening this October 14, 15 & 16th. This project is a massive undertaking for me and I'm so bursting at the seams with excitement and astonishingly enough I'm going to keep this under wraps for a bit longer. Sorry to not reveal anything more, but I know you'll be pleased when you finally do see what I've created for you all.
I've got to do a few domestic chores now before I can rationally justify my leaving the house to watch strippers. It's just the type of woman that I am.
Jennifer
Monday, July 04, 2005
amazing hand held bug zapper
It's yellow and it's shiny and there are 10 of them. 10. Ten. I really said 10 of them.
Falling, upside down, is an 8 legged spider landing on it's head on the side on the package, and in a cartoon bubble above the dead insect it reads YIKES!
Verbatim from the front of the bug zapper package:
The Amazing Handheld Bug Zapper
runs on 2 AA batteries...included
2 button safety switch
Environmentally safe unless... you're a bug!!!
Kills Mosquitoes, Flies, Gnats and other flying insects on contact.
Verbatim from the back of the package:
The Amazing Handheld Bug Zapper uses 2 AA batteries (1.5 volts each) to send a current to the net of the zapper...to kill the insect on contact!
1. Install the batteries as indicated on the battery case (having problems, the
package has diagrams)
2. To kill the insect, hold the zapper by the black handle, and hold down BOTH
buttons. Move the zapper towards the insect to make contact with the net surface
3. The red light indicates that the net is activated. Be careful not to touch the
net surface (to yourself) while the switches are on. (only touch bugs & willing
play partners) Touching the net with the switches on will cause a shock.
4. Do not use water to clean!
Safe For Indoor Or Outdoor Use
ZZzzap
Made in China
and are you ready, the teeny tiny grocery sticker on the very bottom says that the cost on this weapon/sex toy is $1.99
Now would you beleive that I came home from work the other day and found ten of these bug zappers on my bed in my room. Allena had bought them all for me as they were a steal of a buy and she knew that I'd put them to use. You can imagine my surprise though to arriving home to 10 of them.
Allena's not fond of my using electricity on her. When she, Daddy and I went to Phoenix Arizona a few months ago we played at APEX. In the dungeon there I had pulled the caddle prod from my purse and used it on her a number of times...I'm thinking this is why she has given me an abundance of electric fly swatters. Bella likely wants me to never use a caddle prod on her again and only use the fly swatters, hence the bulk order. Truth be told, I know Allena would let me use just about anything on her if I asked her in just the right tone and offered up a good enough reward.
Kara has exercised her right to say no to certain types of play and electricity is one of them. Doug on the other hand, had a little current running up his sensitive inner thigh area the other morning - and with a hood on his head, let me tell you his voice was quivering when I asked how we was doing after the first few shocks rocked him.
Doesn't take much to make someone jump, or even break a sweat.
I realize that on the official website listed on my bug zapper package it says $14.99 but the actual sticker price really was $1.99 (ok, this is in American dollars)
Have a peek for yourself at the Bug Zapper.
While I've got your attention, I've been doing a major face lift over on the Libido Events site. Have a look around and let me know how I'm doing. thanks for the input
Jennifer
Falling, upside down, is an 8 legged spider landing on it's head on the side on the package, and in a cartoon bubble above the dead insect it reads YIKES!
Verbatim from the front of the bug zapper package:
The Amazing Handheld Bug Zapper
runs on 2 AA batteries...included
2 button safety switch
Environmentally safe unless... you're a bug!!!
Kills Mosquitoes, Flies, Gnats and other flying insects on contact.
Verbatim from the back of the package:
The Amazing Handheld Bug Zapper uses 2 AA batteries (1.5 volts each) to send a current to the net of the zapper...to kill the insect on contact!
1. Install the batteries as indicated on the battery case (having problems, the
package has diagrams)
2. To kill the insect, hold the zapper by the black handle, and hold down BOTH
buttons. Move the zapper towards the insect to make contact with the net surface
3. The red light indicates that the net is activated. Be careful not to touch the
net surface (to yourself) while the switches are on. (only touch bugs & willing
play partners) Touching the net with the switches on will cause a shock.
4. Do not use water to clean!
Safe For Indoor Or Outdoor Use
ZZzzap
Made in China
and are you ready, the teeny tiny grocery sticker on the very bottom says that the cost on this weapon/sex toy is $1.99
Now would you beleive that I came home from work the other day and found ten of these bug zappers on my bed in my room. Allena had bought them all for me as they were a steal of a buy and she knew that I'd put them to use. You can imagine my surprise though to arriving home to 10 of them.
Allena's not fond of my using electricity on her. When she, Daddy and I went to Phoenix Arizona a few months ago we played at APEX. In the dungeon there I had pulled the caddle prod from my purse and used it on her a number of times...I'm thinking this is why she has given me an abundance of electric fly swatters. Bella likely wants me to never use a caddle prod on her again and only use the fly swatters, hence the bulk order. Truth be told, I know Allena would let me use just about anything on her if I asked her in just the right tone and offered up a good enough reward.
Kara has exercised her right to say no to certain types of play and electricity is one of them. Doug on the other hand, had a little current running up his sensitive inner thigh area the other morning - and with a hood on his head, let me tell you his voice was quivering when I asked how we was doing after the first few shocks rocked him.
Doesn't take much to make someone jump, or even break a sweat.
I realize that on the official website listed on my bug zapper package it says $14.99 but the actual sticker price really was $1.99 (ok, this is in American dollars)
Have a peek for yourself at the Bug Zapper.
While I've got your attention, I've been doing a major face lift over on the Libido Events site. Have a look around and let me know how I'm doing. thanks for the input
Jennifer
Sunday, July 03, 2005
weekend activities
It's truly summer time now. No, not because today is a beautiful Sunday in July but rather because my child is home now with no where to be by day regularly again till September when school goes back in.
This morning she is laying in bed, sick with a head cold and reading books. Not surprising she's ill given the pace both her and I take often. Friday we spent at Canada Day Celebrations at Burnaby Heritage Museum for 3 hours in the afternoon and were overwhelmed by the numbers of people who attended and were so friendly and celebratory. The weather was beautiful and I had time to enjoy being mother to such a delightful young person.
Thursday night Jim came up for the night and he had an enjoyable evening in with me. On orders I was on all fours, naked, head down, sex & BDSM toys out waiting, showered and in a still and quiet room awaiting him. Finally, he walks through the door and I know that once I hear his bag drop to the floor and the front door lock and close, that in just a few seconds he will come for me down the hallway and in to the living room. As he enters the room his first visual will be of my back, long and tattooed, arched to bring my ass up, on all fours, curved bottom towards him and face down. This is as he wants me and I've been down here waiting for a bit now. My knees are already wobbly from the pressure and the excitement.
CLANK, the sound of something hits the floor, right next to my ear. I know the sound, it's a set of nipple clamps. SPLASH, there is the feel of warm water wetting me as a razor glides between my cheeks. My Daddy had arrived, need I say more?
Friday morning early at 9:30 I had a private consultation with a woman and we sat and talked for 2 hours about Bisexuality and Polyamory. I'm always amazed at how much I learn from the people I meet and talk with, it's because of all these people that I feel alive as an activist.
Saturday I worked all day, from 9:30-7:00. Yikes what a long day. Then it was time to pick up my daughter from where she had spent the afternoon, then head home finally where I arrived in at 8:15PM after leaving at 8:30AM that morning. As I said, "it had been a long day." Although tired, sleep just wasn't in the cards.
Instead I went and updated the face of the Libido Events home page and added another new presenter to the October Vancouver Sexuality Empowerment Conference. Teri D. Ciacchi MSW is the latest presenter to be added and she'll be joining us by doing her powerful presentation "Clitoral Revelations." Details on this class will be out soon of course, so watch for them.
It's Kara's birthday today and she's away taking care of some family matters and not able to celebrate. Makes me sad to know she's not able to enjoy her special day.
You have to go and check it out as it's the funniest, fall of your chair type laughing, poly, movie, humor, clip that I've ever seen. Enjoy and thanks Bella, for sending it to me.
I've got Midori here with me in like a month doing a couple of workshops for Libido Events and another Dine With The Diva Event as well. And finally while on a break from work the other day sitting in my car, I finished reading her most recent book Wild Side Sex : The Book of Kink. Damn it's a great book and simply put, it's a guide for the curious, the sexually curious and adventurers. I'll tell you more about the book later.
Jim's in Seattle with Allena for 3 days and this leaves me home alone to be mom and to work. My daughter is leaving next Saturday for a week of holidays, leaving me the whole house to myself. During this time, I've got already scheduled alone time with both Allena and Jim. And still to be booked is time with Doug. Whose Doug? aka "the new guy" The one I keep writing about. Yes, his name is Doug and he's told me to go ahead and write about him and use his name. Doug Then there is Kara. Kara's going to be needing some attention about this time from me as well so I'll have to find an opportunity to do something extra special for her as she's had some big family stuff going on.
That's it for me, I'm off to the market to buy some fruit and veggies and to check on the child whose now making a craft project at the kitchen table.
Jennifer
This morning she is laying in bed, sick with a head cold and reading books. Not surprising she's ill given the pace both her and I take often. Friday we spent at Canada Day Celebrations at Burnaby Heritage Museum for 3 hours in the afternoon and were overwhelmed by the numbers of people who attended and were so friendly and celebratory. The weather was beautiful and I had time to enjoy being mother to such a delightful young person.
Thursday night Jim came up for the night and he had an enjoyable evening in with me. On orders I was on all fours, naked, head down, sex & BDSM toys out waiting, showered and in a still and quiet room awaiting him. Finally, he walks through the door and I know that once I hear his bag drop to the floor and the front door lock and close, that in just a few seconds he will come for me down the hallway and in to the living room. As he enters the room his first visual will be of my back, long and tattooed, arched to bring my ass up, on all fours, curved bottom towards him and face down. This is as he wants me and I've been down here waiting for a bit now. My knees are already wobbly from the pressure and the excitement.
CLANK, the sound of something hits the floor, right next to my ear. I know the sound, it's a set of nipple clamps. SPLASH, there is the feel of warm water wetting me as a razor glides between my cheeks. My Daddy had arrived, need I say more?
Friday morning early at 9:30 I had a private consultation with a woman and we sat and talked for 2 hours about Bisexuality and Polyamory. I'm always amazed at how much I learn from the people I meet and talk with, it's because of all these people that I feel alive as an activist.
Saturday I worked all day, from 9:30-7:00. Yikes what a long day. Then it was time to pick up my daughter from where she had spent the afternoon, then head home finally where I arrived in at 8:15PM after leaving at 8:30AM that morning. As I said, "it had been a long day." Although tired, sleep just wasn't in the cards.
Instead I went and updated the face of the Libido Events home page and added another new presenter to the October Vancouver Sexuality Empowerment Conference. Teri D. Ciacchi MSW is the latest presenter to be added and she'll be joining us by doing her powerful presentation "Clitoral Revelations." Details on this class will be out soon of course, so watch for them.
It's Kara's birthday today and she's away taking care of some family matters and not able to celebrate. Makes me sad to know she's not able to enjoy her special day.
You have to go and check it out as it's the funniest, fall of your chair type laughing, poly, movie, humor, clip that I've ever seen. Enjoy and thanks Bella, for sending it to me.
I've got Midori here with me in like a month doing a couple of workshops for Libido Events and another Dine With The Diva Event as well. And finally while on a break from work the other day sitting in my car, I finished reading her most recent book Wild Side Sex : The Book of Kink. Damn it's a great book and simply put, it's a guide for the curious, the sexually curious and adventurers. I'll tell you more about the book later.
Jim's in Seattle with Allena for 3 days and this leaves me home alone to be mom and to work. My daughter is leaving next Saturday for a week of holidays, leaving me the whole house to myself. During this time, I've got already scheduled alone time with both Allena and Jim. And still to be booked is time with Doug. Whose Doug? aka "the new guy" The one I keep writing about. Yes, his name is Doug and he's told me to go ahead and write about him and use his name. Doug Then there is Kara. Kara's going to be needing some attention about this time from me as well so I'll have to find an opportunity to do something extra special for her as she's had some big family stuff going on.
That's it for me, I'm off to the market to buy some fruit and veggies and to check on the child whose now making a craft project at the kitchen table.
Jennifer
Thursday, June 30, 2005
leather restraints (review)
Every now and again I run across a really well made adult product or toy and this is one of those times. My friend Jenn who owns Tickled Pink Toys here in Vancouver is selling a set of restraints (through her on line store) and I thought I'd climb on board and tell you all a little something personal about them. (seeing as I've played with these restraints before AND they're in my personal toy box of kink, it seems only fitting that I share with you)
The cost on this set full set of matching cuffs is $84.95 and this includes all 4 pieces, made in simple yet almost elegant black leather.
Soft black ankle and wrist cuffs
Or you can buy just the soft black leather wrist restraint set for only $39.95
Soft black wrist cuffs
Or the soft black leather ankle restraint set for only $49.95
Soft black ankle cuffs
These restraints are made with not just any leather either, it's soft, supple leather that begs to be wrapped around naked flesh. Due to their softness it's easy to see how those new to bondage or restraints would feel at ease in these as they certainly don't have that hard rigid typical BDSM look or feel. These are quality and were made with quality products and it's seen in this fabulous leather, the simple stitching, smooth corners and of course what is most obvious, is the attention to detail.
The restraints have no rivets or metal to skin contact anywhere and have two O rings per cuff, which will make immobilizing your partner that much easier. Good size adjustment range on both the ankle and wrist cuffs and with a nice wide strap encasing the skin so it spreads out the load over the cuff nicely, putting little stress on one area. These restraints would be great for all levels of players new to bondage play through to bondage sluts, you'll be impressed just as much as I am.
Should you be a proud bondage loving Vancouverite or Canadian you'll be pleased to know these cuffs are hand crafted by a local leather artisan.
Tickled Pink Toys ships within 2 business days for in-stock items with 90% of orders shipping within 24 hours of order placement. Soon you can be on your way to immobilizing your sweety for a sexual fantasy come true.
Shipping Information: Standard shipping within North America is free for orders over $100. They offer flat rate shipping of $10 within North America for standard shipping of orders under $100, plus express courier service of $20 within Canada, and $40 to the USA.
Me, well I've used the restraints to contain a woman while I shaved her head bald and on another occasion it was time to put them on a man in my life to keep his hands away from protecting himself as I was hitting him. Life doesn't get any better than this, quality SM toys and the opportunity to use them on willing partners.
Jennifer
Bondage Lover
Libido Events
Vancouver's sex positive resource, Libido Events is a small event production company setting out to promote sex education and other events celebrating alternative sexuality in our culture.
The cost on this set full set of matching cuffs is $84.95 and this includes all 4 pieces, made in simple yet almost elegant black leather.
Soft black ankle and wrist cuffs
Or you can buy just the soft black leather wrist restraint set for only $39.95
Soft black wrist cuffs
Or the soft black leather ankle restraint set for only $49.95
Soft black ankle cuffs
These restraints are made with not just any leather either, it's soft, supple leather that begs to be wrapped around naked flesh. Due to their softness it's easy to see how those new to bondage or restraints would feel at ease in these as they certainly don't have that hard rigid typical BDSM look or feel. These are quality and were made with quality products and it's seen in this fabulous leather, the simple stitching, smooth corners and of course what is most obvious, is the attention to detail.
The restraints have no rivets or metal to skin contact anywhere and have two O rings per cuff, which will make immobilizing your partner that much easier. Good size adjustment range on both the ankle and wrist cuffs and with a nice wide strap encasing the skin so it spreads out the load over the cuff nicely, putting little stress on one area. These restraints would be great for all levels of players new to bondage play through to bondage sluts, you'll be impressed just as much as I am.
Should you be a proud bondage loving Vancouverite or Canadian you'll be pleased to know these cuffs are hand crafted by a local leather artisan.
Tickled Pink Toys ships within 2 business days for in-stock items with 90% of orders shipping within 24 hours of order placement. Soon you can be on your way to immobilizing your sweety for a sexual fantasy come true.
Shipping Information: Standard shipping within North America is free for orders over $100. They offer flat rate shipping of $10 within North America for standard shipping of orders under $100, plus express courier service of $20 within Canada, and $40 to the USA.
Me, well I've used the restraints to contain a woman while I shaved her head bald and on another occasion it was time to put them on a man in my life to keep his hands away from protecting himself as I was hitting him. Life doesn't get any better than this, quality SM toys and the opportunity to use them on willing partners.
Jennifer
Bondage Lover
Libido Events
Vancouver's sex positive resource, Libido Events is a small event production company setting out to promote sex education and other events celebrating alternative sexuality in our culture.
Wednesday, June 29, 2005
7am date this morning
It's true, you can call me an opportunist or someone whose greedy, others might say that I make the most of my time. Just depends on how you look at it. Doesn't matter what you call me though, as I know I was having happy times this morning by 7:10.
My daughter was away last night on a sleepover and so I didn't need to drive her to school this morning only pick her up. They only went to school today, the last day for one hour from 9-10. While she was away elsewhere, and before school officially ended I had the new guy arrive on my door step at the crack of dawn for a play date.
Funny, when he arrives he told me that his wife had laughed at him when she heard what time he had agreed to a date with me at. Think about it, 7 am is the only time that I had available, I offered it, and he took it. Remember this is after I shaved a woman's head last night and then went out to dinner with kara. Home to sleep for 6 hours before my morning treat arrived.
His wife says, "well atleast she'll get to see you how you are in the mornings." ha, he never once showed me any morning behavior that was grumbly, oh lucky me, or what a wise man he really is.
We played for a couple of hours, he in the hottest Northbound Leather thong that you can imagine and a slight blush to his cheeks, both on his face and ass. Damn if he didn't look so sexy that I was awake with desire to push his buttons and to do some SM play.
Canes hit thighs, hands spanked bottoms, clips and clamps compressed tender nipple tissue and kisses soothed much away. My Dominance directed him and his desire to please me and experience new things held him captive to my whims and fancy. The leather hood over his head kept him focused and aware of the necessity for trusting me completely.
When I was done with him, I told him what I wanted from him next. "Catch your breathe for a minute, then I'm going to take the hood off slowly. There is a bottle of massage oil on my dresser, I'm going to lay out flat on my bed. With STRONG hands you're going to run down my shoulders and back, then I'm going to show you a spot a little lower that I adore to have rubbed as well." "Do you understand everything?" The faceless, anonymous leather hood nods back at me as I slowly unlace the back of the hood and pull his head free.
Leaving him in his own bubble of reality checking, I roll over instantly and feel the bed shift as he reaches for the Sugar Oil. Strong strokes start gliding over my back as he massages me, he also on my orders, tells me nasty things he's hungering for me to do to him some day when we get the chance again.
If I told you he brought me a body bag as a gift would you find it odd? He thinks I may be able to use it in a workshop or scene some day. It's now in my toy chest along with all my other toys and accessories. It's not my first body bag either, once about 6 years ago another man gave me a body bag too. Although I wasn't teaching SM classes then I was already a sex activist and a sexual explorer. When I got the first body bag, the man who bought it for me said, "Jennifer, when I saw it sitting there, I just knew I had to get it for you. I couldn't think of anyone else kinky enough to be able to pull off using a body bag in a sexual setting and being able to make it erotic." And so, he bought and brought me my first body bag. Now I have two.
By 9:20 this morning new guy was on the road back to his home and life and I was left alone. Dressed quickly, tidied up the play area then jumped in to the car to drive to my daughters school to pick her up in time for the 10 o'clock bell. She was promoted to Grade 7, received 4 school awards and his happy to be done with another school year.
Stopped and bought fruit and vegetables and was home by 11:30. For passing I gave my daughter a new game called Yohoho Puzzle Pirates and it was all wrapped up waiting for her when we returned home. She opened it immmediately, then asked to play it on the computer. Agreeing with her she sat at my desk to play and I stretched out on the sofa in the living room waking up at 1:00 this afternoon after some much needed rest.
It's 3:30 now and I've done a Blog entry and also finished my latest product review and sent it off.
Now it's time for some lunch & some domestic stuff like dishes, vacuuming and dinner preparations. From one extreme to the next, welcome to my world.
Jennifer
My daughter was away last night on a sleepover and so I didn't need to drive her to school this morning only pick her up. They only went to school today, the last day for one hour from 9-10. While she was away elsewhere, and before school officially ended I had the new guy arrive on my door step at the crack of dawn for a play date.
Funny, when he arrives he told me that his wife had laughed at him when she heard what time he had agreed to a date with me at. Think about it, 7 am is the only time that I had available, I offered it, and he took it. Remember this is after I shaved a woman's head last night and then went out to dinner with kara. Home to sleep for 6 hours before my morning treat arrived.
His wife says, "well atleast she'll get to see you how you are in the mornings." ha, he never once showed me any morning behavior that was grumbly, oh lucky me, or what a wise man he really is.
We played for a couple of hours, he in the hottest Northbound Leather thong that you can imagine and a slight blush to his cheeks, both on his face and ass. Damn if he didn't look so sexy that I was awake with desire to push his buttons and to do some SM play.
Canes hit thighs, hands spanked bottoms, clips and clamps compressed tender nipple tissue and kisses soothed much away. My Dominance directed him and his desire to please me and experience new things held him captive to my whims and fancy. The leather hood over his head kept him focused and aware of the necessity for trusting me completely.
When I was done with him, I told him what I wanted from him next. "Catch your breathe for a minute, then I'm going to take the hood off slowly. There is a bottle of massage oil on my dresser, I'm going to lay out flat on my bed. With STRONG hands you're going to run down my shoulders and back, then I'm going to show you a spot a little lower that I adore to have rubbed as well." "Do you understand everything?" The faceless, anonymous leather hood nods back at me as I slowly unlace the back of the hood and pull his head free.
Leaving him in his own bubble of reality checking, I roll over instantly and feel the bed shift as he reaches for the Sugar Oil. Strong strokes start gliding over my back as he massages me, he also on my orders, tells me nasty things he's hungering for me to do to him some day when we get the chance again.
If I told you he brought me a body bag as a gift would you find it odd? He thinks I may be able to use it in a workshop or scene some day. It's now in my toy chest along with all my other toys and accessories. It's not my first body bag either, once about 6 years ago another man gave me a body bag too. Although I wasn't teaching SM classes then I was already a sex activist and a sexual explorer. When I got the first body bag, the man who bought it for me said, "Jennifer, when I saw it sitting there, I just knew I had to get it for you. I couldn't think of anyone else kinky enough to be able to pull off using a body bag in a sexual setting and being able to make it erotic." And so, he bought and brought me my first body bag. Now I have two.
By 9:20 this morning new guy was on the road back to his home and life and I was left alone. Dressed quickly, tidied up the play area then jumped in to the car to drive to my daughters school to pick her up in time for the 10 o'clock bell. She was promoted to Grade 7, received 4 school awards and his happy to be done with another school year.
Stopped and bought fruit and vegetables and was home by 11:30. For passing I gave my daughter a new game called Yohoho Puzzle Pirates and it was all wrapped up waiting for her when we returned home. She opened it immmediately, then asked to play it on the computer. Agreeing with her she sat at my desk to play and I stretched out on the sofa in the living room waking up at 1:00 this afternoon after some much needed rest.
It's 3:30 now and I've done a Blog entry and also finished my latest product review and sent it off.
Now it's time for some lunch & some domestic stuff like dishes, vacuuming and dinner preparations. From one extreme to the next, welcome to my world.
Jennifer
Tuesday, June 28, 2005
shaved a woman bald
Tonight at 6:30pm I walked through the front door of a woman's home in powder blue 5 inch heels & matching leather car coat and was welcomed into her world. Taking off my coat and settling myself I turned to see the recipient of my evenings energy. Before me stood the woman whose head I was about to shave bald.
After settling and binding her on a stool in the middle of the room, with music beating in the air and through my veins, I set about my task. Make her bald and return her to her natural state of beauty. Exposed.
Took me a minute to center myself, to find my strength, breathe, then...
Grabbing and twirling large clumps of it together, I chopped off areas of her hair at a time. Falling to the floor, covering her in her own hair. Over and over, with scissors I removed the length that once took much time to grow. I cut until my scissors could do no more and it was time for the electric razor. My focus was so dedicated to her, that I was aware of nothing else.
Standing looking at what I'd done and pausing, I was mesmerized by the transformation. She looked stunning already and where I started out tentative and slow, I was now motoring along and feeling high from the energy we were creating.
Screams, cries of joy but no tears. No mirrors either until it was over.
The electric razor slid over her head in short smooth lines until all hair was removed down to 1/16 of an inch. Which looks like 5 o'clock shadow. How controlled I felt and how thankful for the opportunity.
Blindfolded, she could only hear my words to soothe her spirit as I exposed her bald head to the air and to the light of day. She gasped and I smiled.
A straight razor and I ran it over her head completely once and then a second time for touch ups before deciding we were done.
After spending time winding down with the woman and talking for awhile it was time to leave. It was a feeling I'm not familiar with to walk away from someone after doing something so dramatic with them. It was an exhillerating experience for me and one where I learned some things about myself.
There is this great Chinese/Japanese restaurant that I love on Hastings and Kara and I had a late dinner there together tonight. We haven't had much alone time together lately so any time we can grab we do. Dinner was great, Kung Pao chicken and rice.
And to top it all off, Jims Birthday is today. It is my Daddies birthday but he was out sailing this afternoon in Bellingham, so we are celebrating his birthday this Thursday instead as that is when he is next up.
I'm alone tonight here in the house, thankfully. Without doubt, I'm one of those people who needs alone time. It's the plan for me to actually go to sleep early and get some good rest for myself.
Why might you ask would I suddenly today want a good sleep?
Well, I have a date with the "new guy" at 7:00 tomorrow morning here at my place, that's why! There is a whole blog post to be written on poly & dating surrounding this date, so let me tell you about that tomorrow.
Did you notice that on the right hand side of my Blog is a new heading called Affiliates. Have a look around Tickled Pink Toys. It's a local to Vancouver company, that's run by a friend of mine also named Jennifer. She sells quality adult products (sex toys, lingerie, books etc), in Canadian dollars and is great to deal with.
** I just received an email from the woman whose head I shaved this evening, it was her check in email to me. All is very well for her. The last line of her email said this to me "Sleep well pioneer of a more sex positive world!" And on this very pleasant note, I shall go to bed.
night
Jennifer
sex activist
After settling and binding her on a stool in the middle of the room, with music beating in the air and through my veins, I set about my task. Make her bald and return her to her natural state of beauty. Exposed.
Took me a minute to center myself, to find my strength, breathe, then...
Grabbing and twirling large clumps of it together, I chopped off areas of her hair at a time. Falling to the floor, covering her in her own hair. Over and over, with scissors I removed the length that once took much time to grow. I cut until my scissors could do no more and it was time for the electric razor. My focus was so dedicated to her, that I was aware of nothing else.
Standing looking at what I'd done and pausing, I was mesmerized by the transformation. She looked stunning already and where I started out tentative and slow, I was now motoring along and feeling high from the energy we were creating.
Screams, cries of joy but no tears. No mirrors either until it was over.
The electric razor slid over her head in short smooth lines until all hair was removed down to 1/16 of an inch. Which looks like 5 o'clock shadow. How controlled I felt and how thankful for the opportunity.
Blindfolded, she could only hear my words to soothe her spirit as I exposed her bald head to the air and to the light of day. She gasped and I smiled.
A straight razor and I ran it over her head completely once and then a second time for touch ups before deciding we were done.
After spending time winding down with the woman and talking for awhile it was time to leave. It was a feeling I'm not familiar with to walk away from someone after doing something so dramatic with them. It was an exhillerating experience for me and one where I learned some things about myself.
There is this great Chinese/Japanese restaurant that I love on Hastings and Kara and I had a late dinner there together tonight. We haven't had much alone time together lately so any time we can grab we do. Dinner was great, Kung Pao chicken and rice.
And to top it all off, Jims Birthday is today. It is my Daddies birthday but he was out sailing this afternoon in Bellingham, so we are celebrating his birthday this Thursday instead as that is when he is next up.
I'm alone tonight here in the house, thankfully. Without doubt, I'm one of those people who needs alone time. It's the plan for me to actually go to sleep early and get some good rest for myself.
Why might you ask would I suddenly today want a good sleep?
Well, I have a date with the "new guy" at 7:00 tomorrow morning here at my place, that's why! There is a whole blog post to be written on poly & dating surrounding this date, so let me tell you about that tomorrow.
Did you notice that on the right hand side of my Blog is a new heading called Affiliates. Have a look around Tickled Pink Toys. It's a local to Vancouver company, that's run by a friend of mine also named Jennifer. She sells quality adult products (sex toys, lingerie, books etc), in Canadian dollars and is great to deal with.
** I just received an email from the woman whose head I shaved this evening, it was her check in email to me. All is very well for her. The last line of her email said this to me "Sleep well pioneer of a more sex positive world!" And on this very pleasant note, I shall go to bed.
night
Jennifer
sex activist
Saturday, June 25, 2005
photo of presenters
This picture was taken a few weeks ago of Dossie Easton, myself, Allena and Veronica Monet. We 4 women are also all presenting workshops and classes together here in October for the Libido Events Vancouver Sexuality Empowerment Conference.
If I had the energy there would be so much more to write. Doesn't matter how tired I am, my life is never dull and truthfully most times rather titillating. More things happen in my bed, world, heart and home in one day than is imaginable. 500 free condoms were given to me the other day by a friend for our Naughty Pajama parties and on Tuesday I've been asked to shave a womans head. Damn I'm a lucky, blessed and trusted woman.
night
Jennifer
If I had the energy there would be so much more to write. Doesn't matter how tired I am, my life is never dull and truthfully most times rather titillating. More things happen in my bed, world, heart and home in one day than is imaginable. 500 free condoms were given to me the other day by a friend for our Naughty Pajama parties and on Tuesday I've been asked to shave a womans head. Damn I'm a lucky, blessed and trusted woman.
night
Jennifer
Tuesday, June 21, 2005
Bill C-38 for same sex marriage
Have you Cast Your Vote On The National Marriage Referendum yet?
“Should Parliament pass Bill C-38 to legalize same-sex marriage in Canada?”
The Liberal Government has brought Bill C-38 before the people of Canada which will change the definition of marriage from "a union between a man and a woman to the exclusion of all others" to read "a union of two persons to the exclusion of all others" to accommodate same-sex marriage.
Current Vote:
No
79,206
Yes
34, 288
Have YOU voted yet? If not, then now is the time and here is the link. It won't take but a few minutes of your time. Vote now!
http://www.referendumcanada.ca/uficanada/referendum/index2.cfm
blessings
Jennifer
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