Libido Lounges newest event seeks amateur enthusiasts ...
Women wrestlers will be given a 3 month temporary membership to the Lounge in exchange for their involvement if they are not already members.
Wrestlin’ Babes of Libido Lounge
What’s your porn star name? Quick! Think of it and sign up for this exciting and fun new event. Always wanted to channel that primal sexual energy into a brawl with another luscious female? Join in the fun and put on a bit of a show at the same time.
Libido Lounges first foray into the world regulation holds, touches, clasps, grabs and throws. A women’s wrestling event will be a feast for the eyes, ears. Delectable, raw eye candy right there on the mats before you. Appealing? Goodness, yes! Clean rules, come join us and no ones gonna get hurt (much)
The need to know stuff:
2-3 minute wrestling rounds.
Variable weight classes.
Enter as a:
* willow-wisp (100 – 150 lb)
* curvygirl (150-200 lb)
* succulent lusciousness class (200 lb+)
Multiple experience classes:
___ Oh my, that sounds hot but I’m a novice
___ I’m a rowdy bitch that knows how to brawl
Standard female question: What should I wear?!
Probably something you’re not too attached too, and yet something delightfully sexy, like a bit of duct tape on your piercings! Whatever makes you feel (and look) hot!
What’s your porn star wrestler name? Make it a delightful visual sound for our colour commentator!
Send me an email today with the answers to the questions above and we’ll put you into the program! Oh, and did I mention? There’ll be PRIZES!
WRITE: jennifer@libidoevents.com
Friday, April 02, 2010
Thursday, April 01, 2010
Group Masturbation
They were a couple a few years older than Jason and myself, each with a slight build and the eyes of apprehensive newcomers. He was a watcher, seemingly shy, she was bursting with inquisitiveness yet tamed down for her partner on this occasion.
The night was Jack & Jill, this past Monday evening. I watched them briefly before moving forward.
They grabbed a bed early on and laid out on it. He nude but his underwear, she in a delicate print on her bra and matching panties. Her smile was ferocious, his was a mere upward curve at the corners of his mouth.
Together they were talking in hushed voices to one another, in between bouts of kissing and heavy petting. People milled about, some masturbating, others riding sex machines and another couple on the bed next to this couple were already having sex.
Jason had popped off two orgasms already and it was time for us to have some frolic time with one another.
I asked the couple if we could join them on the bed. The man looked at his wife and promptly said yes. (I knew he would already) We started in doing it doggy style, me on the bed on all fours and Jason behind me. I asked the man on the bed if I could hold on to his leg. "Sure" was all he said, then he closed his eyes tight.
He started to finger his wife and she was groaning, I watched her intently as Jason was buried deep inside me. The man pulled her into the 69 position and they started going at one another furiously. I was still holding his leg while being screwed.
Suddenly I asked the woman if I could touch her and play with her breasts, she shoved her upper body towards me faster than the speed of light. I licked, nibbled and teased her. Jason had the birds eye view of it all.
She was working it hard, sucking his cock and jerking him with hand motions that were erratic. Jason hips were moving so rhythmically that I knew that soon he would be blowing his load.
I grabbed the woman by the hair pulling her head back, putting her ear next to my mouth. "You know you're a sex pot don't you? Your enjoying this all so much you hussy." Then as I pulled her head back even farther and noted her closed eyes I firmly said "open your eyes now!" "look at all the people watching you witnessing you be the steamy lover you are".
As her eyes opened she was met with the appreciative eyes of at least 15 or 16 people watching what was unfolding around them. The reality hit her, she was live porn in this moment. This loud groan escaped her mouth as she rocked herself hard all over her man. She came a few times, I am fairly certain.
As I let go of her I kissed the back of her neck and said thank you. Then wrapped my arms around Jason who was still behind me holding me tight. I stroked his head as we watched a threesome unfold in the bed next to us.
Lately it seems that we've been fortunate to have had the opportunity to introduce many newcomers to the Lounge and to sex in front of strangers.
The man wrote me two days later to say that since Jack & Jill they had been passionately rediscovering one another sexually non stop.
How sweet, to have facilitated something so positive for our new friends.
The night was Jack & Jill, this past Monday evening. I watched them briefly before moving forward.
They grabbed a bed early on and laid out on it. He nude but his underwear, she in a delicate print on her bra and matching panties. Her smile was ferocious, his was a mere upward curve at the corners of his mouth.
Together they were talking in hushed voices to one another, in between bouts of kissing and heavy petting. People milled about, some masturbating, others riding sex machines and another couple on the bed next to this couple were already having sex.
Jason had popped off two orgasms already and it was time for us to have some frolic time with one another.
I asked the couple if we could join them on the bed. The man looked at his wife and promptly said yes. (I knew he would already) We started in doing it doggy style, me on the bed on all fours and Jason behind me. I asked the man on the bed if I could hold on to his leg. "Sure" was all he said, then he closed his eyes tight.
He started to finger his wife and she was groaning, I watched her intently as Jason was buried deep inside me. The man pulled her into the 69 position and they started going at one another furiously. I was still holding his leg while being screwed.
Suddenly I asked the woman if I could touch her and play with her breasts, she shoved her upper body towards me faster than the speed of light. I licked, nibbled and teased her. Jason had the birds eye view of it all.
She was working it hard, sucking his cock and jerking him with hand motions that were erratic. Jason hips were moving so rhythmically that I knew that soon he would be blowing his load.
I grabbed the woman by the hair pulling her head back, putting her ear next to my mouth. "You know you're a sex pot don't you? Your enjoying this all so much you hussy." Then as I pulled her head back even farther and noted her closed eyes I firmly said "open your eyes now!" "look at all the people watching you witnessing you be the steamy lover you are".
As her eyes opened she was met with the appreciative eyes of at least 15 or 16 people watching what was unfolding around them. The reality hit her, she was live porn in this moment. This loud groan escaped her mouth as she rocked herself hard all over her man. She came a few times, I am fairly certain.
As I let go of her I kissed the back of her neck and said thank you. Then wrapped my arms around Jason who was still behind me holding me tight. I stroked his head as we watched a threesome unfold in the bed next to us.
Lately it seems that we've been fortunate to have had the opportunity to introduce many newcomers to the Lounge and to sex in front of strangers.
The man wrote me two days later to say that since Jack & Jill they had been passionately rediscovering one another sexually non stop.
How sweet, to have facilitated something so positive for our new friends.
Wednesday, March 31, 2010
All Things Sex [4]
A Gay BC MLA gets married and takes his husbands name. Damn I love my country.
In Federal politics, Canada makes more cuts to HIV vaccine research and halts plans on the vaccination production facility in Winnipeg. Crazy stupid hey?
The man behind this pretty bondage pin-up site is my good friend and Lounge member. Have a peek into his world as a professional "Pleasure Artist".
The Libido Events and Libido Lounge April calendar is now on-line, check out our busy schedule.
A Canadian health authority has enlisted the help of its target demographic to make an education video game about safe sex. The Sperminator is threatening the city, and only Captain Condom, Power Pap, Willy the Kid, and Wonder Vag, better known as 'The Sex Squad', can stop him from covering the world in his evil sperm. It's named Adventures in Sex City.
In Federal politics, Canada makes more cuts to HIV vaccine research and halts plans on the vaccination production facility in Winnipeg. Crazy stupid hey?
The man behind this pretty bondage pin-up site is my good friend and Lounge member. Have a peek into his world as a professional "Pleasure Artist".
The Libido Events and Libido Lounge April calendar is now on-line, check out our busy schedule.
A Canadian health authority has enlisted the help of its target demographic to make an education video game about safe sex. The Sperminator is threatening the city, and only Captain Condom, Power Pap, Willy the Kid, and Wonder Vag, better known as 'The Sex Squad', can stop him from covering the world in his evil sperm. It's named Adventures in Sex City.
Tuesday, March 30, 2010
Naughty Party Fast Approaching
This is the monthly party that everyone loves as it has something for all interests and experience levels. You'll need to reserve your space, so do no so now...
There is even a Play Party Etiquette Class which kick starts the evening, if you so choose.
Please note that you must also have your $25 cash renewal cost on you if your member number is PRE 600. And your renewal is good for 12 months.
SPECIAL:: Vancouver based professional photographer with 20 years experience will have studio lighting and set at Libido Lounge and will be providing mini professional photo sessions. Would you like professional quality images of you in lingerie / fetish wear, or intimate couple portraits, or erotica? The mini photo session will produce approximately 30-50 images from which you can select two images to have edited and retouched in photoshop. All photos from session burned onto CD-ROM for $25.00 which you will leave with at nights end.
Naughty -- A members (and their guests) only play party
At the Naughty parties, anything can happen -- it probably did, at the last one -- and anything goes. Whether your fancy is gentle caressing, hardcore BDSM, sensation play, exhibitionism, voyeurism (no one is required to play), or simply bringing a partner (or two) and having sex in such a charged environment, Naughty is for you. With music turned up, we swing open the doors to our Membership body and let the good times flow.
Sex, Bondage, Slap & Tickle & Social Time
Our massage girl will be on site providing her sensuous erotic massages at $20 for 15 minutes. Sign up when you arrive.
Bring your own toys and towel.
Equipment: Six queen size beds, suspension frame, gyno table, bondage table, a set of stocks, a cage, a kneeler spanker, the red rocket, a rack, seven massage tables, one massage chair and a whole lot more.
++Our Sex Machine the Monkey Rocker will be set up with attachments on sale; they range in price from $25-$50 CASH and once you buy it, you just continue to bring it back to LL so that you can ride each and every visit on your own personal insertable. The Sybian will also be out and attachments can be purchased $75-$90. The ride is free; it is the attachment piece you must buy. We have a number in stock, both singles and double insertables.
The kitchen bitches will return and be keeping the snacks stocked all night long for you.
Dress Code: No street clothes, no business suits, no blue jeans, no running shoes, no athletic wear, no camouflage pants, no flannel robes, no sunglasses, and no face masks.
There is even a Play Party Etiquette Class which kick starts the evening, if you so choose.
SATURDAY APRIL 3, 9:00 - 1:00 AM
NAUGHTY PLAY PARTY
Cost: $35 member / $60 couple / $40 guest of a member
Reservations: jennifer@libidoevents.com
Open to singles, couples, men and women alike
NAUGHTY PLAY PARTY
Cost: $35 member / $60 couple / $40 guest of a member
Reservations: jennifer@libidoevents.com
Open to singles, couples, men and women alike
Please note that you must also have your $25 cash renewal cost on you if your member number is PRE 600. And your renewal is good for 12 months.
SPECIAL:: Vancouver based professional photographer with 20 years experience will have studio lighting and set at Libido Lounge and will be providing mini professional photo sessions. Would you like professional quality images of you in lingerie / fetish wear, or intimate couple portraits, or erotica? The mini photo session will produce approximately 30-50 images from which you can select two images to have edited and retouched in photoshop. All photos from session burned onto CD-ROM for $25.00 which you will leave with at nights end.
Naughty -- A members (and their guests) only play party
At the Naughty parties, anything can happen -- it probably did, at the last one -- and anything goes. Whether your fancy is gentle caressing, hardcore BDSM, sensation play, exhibitionism, voyeurism (no one is required to play), or simply bringing a partner (or two) and having sex in such a charged environment, Naughty is for you. With music turned up, we swing open the doors to our Membership body and let the good times flow.
Sex, Bondage, Slap & Tickle & Social Time
Our massage girl will be on site providing her sensuous erotic massages at $20 for 15 minutes. Sign up when you arrive.
Bring your own toys and towel.
Equipment: Six queen size beds, suspension frame, gyno table, bondage table, a set of stocks, a cage, a kneeler spanker, the red rocket, a rack, seven massage tables, one massage chair and a whole lot more.
++Our Sex Machine the Monkey Rocker will be set up with attachments on sale; they range in price from $25-$50 CASH and once you buy it, you just continue to bring it back to LL so that you can ride each and every visit on your own personal insertable. The Sybian will also be out and attachments can be purchased $75-$90. The ride is free; it is the attachment piece you must buy. We have a number in stock, both singles and double insertables.
The kitchen bitches will return and be keeping the snacks stocked all night long for you.
Dress Code: No street clothes, no business suits, no blue jeans, no running shoes, no athletic wear, no camouflage pants, no flannel robes, no sunglasses, and no face masks.
Monday, March 29, 2010
All Things Sex [3]
Consent in advance is a legal defense according to the Ontario Court Of Appeal.
My good friend Craig sent me this essay on Threesome's and its a good read.
I met Kelly at the Taboo Sex Show this past weekend. She's a smoking hot babe who has a gift with words and is smoldering as a sex pot in a corset. She gets bonus points for gifting me with a box of Purdy's chocolates. She and I will be getting more acquainted over the next few months.
You'll find me in Regina Saskatchewan the weekend of April 23-25 teaching. I'm not listed yet on their website but will be in short order.
Pride Toronto had plans on censoring the messages on banners/signs of those marching, but public outcry has changed this now.
I am looking to write a couple more classes on dating and picking up someone. Can you think of some other topics for classes that you would like to see me teach? If so, please send me an email at jennifer@libidoevents.com
My good friend Craig sent me this essay on Threesome's and its a good read.
I met Kelly at the Taboo Sex Show this past weekend. She's a smoking hot babe who has a gift with words and is smoldering as a sex pot in a corset. She gets bonus points for gifting me with a box of Purdy's chocolates. She and I will be getting more acquainted over the next few months.
You'll find me in Regina Saskatchewan the weekend of April 23-25 teaching. I'm not listed yet on their website but will be in short order.
Pride Toronto had plans on censoring the messages on banners/signs of those marching, but public outcry has changed this now.
I am looking to write a couple more classes on dating and picking up someone. Can you think of some other topics for classes that you would like to see me teach? If so, please send me an email at jennifer@libidoevents.com
Sunday, March 28, 2010
Night Out
Friday, March 26, 2010
Working Mommy
Today was day one of the Taboo Show for me. I taught my scheduled three classes and they were jam packed with people. Not a seat left, no floor space either as people filled that up and still more lined the walls standing. It went really well for me, so good in fact that the show owner came to me at the end of the day to tell me that they would be making (my already huge) workshop room even larger for tomorrow. Plus my corporate sponsor O'Behave sold out on the first day of a huge number of the products I highlighted.
After my classes I easily talked with and answered questions to upwards of 90 people. Exhausted as I left the Tradex, and happy with myself for a job well done.
Came home to Grandma asleep on the sofa with Pickle laying on her. It was 10:40, hours past his bedtime and he appears to be really off his schedule. I was fearful this would happen as I am working three 12 hour days and have Jason with me too, so the little guy is surely not going to be giving us the 12 hour sleeps we've become accustomed to. He took one look me when we arrived in and his whole face just beamed with joy. I almost cried seeing that look of adoration.
I have to go to bed now as tomorrow is without doubt going to be more intense and tiring than today even.
If you came out to the show and took in a class with me, it was great to have you there. And that includes you B & G - and thanks for for getting The Lounge that projector screen, you rock!
After my classes I easily talked with and answered questions to upwards of 90 people. Exhausted as I left the Tradex, and happy with myself for a job well done.
Came home to Grandma asleep on the sofa with Pickle laying on her. It was 10:40, hours past his bedtime and he appears to be really off his schedule. I was fearful this would happen as I am working three 12 hour days and have Jason with me too, so the little guy is surely not going to be giving us the 12 hour sleeps we've become accustomed to. He took one look me when we arrived in and his whole face just beamed with joy. I almost cried seeing that look of adoration.
I have to go to bed now as tomorrow is without doubt going to be more intense and tiring than today even.
If you came out to the show and took in a class with me, it was great to have you there. And that includes you B & G - and thanks for for getting The Lounge that projector screen, you rock!
Wednesday, March 24, 2010
Butt Sex
Nestled safely in drawers in a storage tower down in my office are all the necessities for pegging.
My favorite dildos fill three drawers.
Sleek. Hard. Thick. Thin. Short. Long. Outrageously huge. Silicone. Heavy. Slender. Intimidating. Curved. Straight. With Testicles & without. Ridged. Bulbous. Textured. Black. Purple. Beige. Red.
The accouterments of course I have in copious amounts.
Silicone lubricant. Condoms. Cock Rings. Water based lubricant. Lube Shooters. Harnesses in spades.
I have an entire playground at my disposal where I can do the deed. Instead, I have visions of catching Jason as he bends over in the shower, or perhaps as he rolls over in bed unsuspectingly.
Nothing like showing someone you love them than with some back door loving.
My favorite dildos fill three drawers.
Sleek. Hard. Thick. Thin. Short. Long. Outrageously huge. Silicone. Heavy. Slender. Intimidating. Curved. Straight. With Testicles & without. Ridged. Bulbous. Textured. Black. Purple. Beige. Red.
The accouterments of course I have in copious amounts.
Silicone lubricant. Condoms. Cock Rings. Water based lubricant. Lube Shooters. Harnesses in spades.
I have an entire playground at my disposal where I can do the deed. Instead, I have visions of catching Jason as he bends over in the shower, or perhaps as he rolls over in bed unsuspectingly.
Nothing like showing someone you love them than with some back door loving.
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
Sex Education Abbotsford
Ok, after a solid nights sleep and many many supportive emails from those who read here, I feel much better than I did at days end yesterday when I made my last post.
It should be said that the Pickle went to sleep at 10 and slept straight through till 6 this morning. He awoke for a bottle and then went right back to sleep until 9:20 this morning. His sleep schedule is rather incredible and we are grateful because if he was still a serious night waker, I would have lost my marbles by now.
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I am greatly amused that Lady Gaga seems to have outed herself as being gay.
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Today I signed a new contract which is $800 for six hours of work. This certainly made my day brighter.
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The Taboo Show is fast approaching. *tick-tock*
My volunteers are arranged for each of the three days.
My handouts go to the printers tomorrow.
My teaching bags are a quarter packed.
New clothes have been purchased.
Thursday I get my haircut & a manicure and pedicure.
Print media interviews are complete and due out this week.
My mother in law is coming Friday to stay and to look after the Pickle.
Whew -- so much to ensure is in order before I am lost in the joyful sexual empowerment of the masses for three full days.
It should be said that the Pickle went to sleep at 10 and slept straight through till 6 this morning. He awoke for a bottle and then went right back to sleep until 9:20 this morning. His sleep schedule is rather incredible and we are grateful because if he was still a serious night waker, I would have lost my marbles by now.
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I am greatly amused that Lady Gaga seems to have outed herself as being gay.
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Today I signed a new contract which is $800 for six hours of work. This certainly made my day brighter.
=======
The Taboo Show is fast approaching. *tick-tock*
My volunteers are arranged for each of the three days.
My handouts go to the printers tomorrow.
My teaching bags are a quarter packed.
New clothes have been purchased.
Thursday I get my haircut & a manicure and pedicure.
Print media interviews are complete and due out this week.
My mother in law is coming Friday to stay and to look after the Pickle.
Whew -- so much to ensure is in order before I am lost in the joyful sexual empowerment of the masses for three full days.
Monday, March 22, 2010
Head Meet Wall
I struggle. The balancing act of motherhood is taking its toll on me.
The last number of years I have spent working diligently to gain the exposure that has brought me to where I am today in my career. It has been taxing beyond belief yet I managed to pull it off --- most days.
There is a routine to my life that is family, work, work, work, self care, sleep. Family, work, work, work, self care, sleep. Repeat over and over again. I work A LOT.
My new routine is family, care for baby, work, care for baby, care for baby, care for baby, self care, sleep. And repeat.
I find it difficult not to work, at my core is a drive to be on the go and moving forward at all times.
Lately I feel as though I am going no where fast.
It takes so much just to get the simplest things completed. What four months ago what took me ten minutes, now takes upwards of an hour. This makes my head spin.
I miss my pace and I am challenged when it comes to scaling back. My goals are lofty so you can imagine how this all is affecting me.
Being a new mother again is all that I wanted and the little man sure is all shades of awesome.
But I find myself wanting to put my head through a wall some days.
Today I had a To-List of items that really needed to be done. The day started off well and then just turned into a gong show.
The baby projectile vomited all over me twice and all over the floor twice, with a big fat SPLAT. Instead of napping for his usual hour twice, no such luck, each nap was only ten minutes at best. This was the day he chose to be suddenly clingy, not wanting to be out of my arms. At fifteen pounds he's heavy to haul everywhere. I even had to sit him on my lap when I needed to pee. There was no way that I could not give him what he needed, so instead I gave up on my To Do List and focused completely on him.
Then at bed time, he had a melt down. He screamed for forty five minutes. Unheard of, so uncharacteristic of him. He screamed, I sighed loudly and repetitively. Jason stepped in and finally got the little fellow to sleep. Which of course made me feel like a big ole failure.
Is it so much to strive to be successful in my career, raise two kids (one a teenager & the other four months old), be a wife, run a household, travel, and feel accomplished?
I can do this can't I? Sure I can, if I try hard enough and learn to prioritize better. Surely this is possible. Because if it's not, I may as well give up trying now and save myself the heart ache and disappointment attached to letting go of my dreams.
Let me find the strength to move forward with tomorrow, because today sucked the big one.
The last number of years I have spent working diligently to gain the exposure that has brought me to where I am today in my career. It has been taxing beyond belief yet I managed to pull it off --- most days.
There is a routine to my life that is family, work, work, work, self care, sleep. Family, work, work, work, self care, sleep. Repeat over and over again. I work A LOT.
My new routine is family, care for baby, work, care for baby, care for baby, care for baby, self care, sleep. And repeat.
I find it difficult not to work, at my core is a drive to be on the go and moving forward at all times.
Lately I feel as though I am going no where fast.
It takes so much just to get the simplest things completed. What four months ago what took me ten minutes, now takes upwards of an hour. This makes my head spin.
I miss my pace and I am challenged when it comes to scaling back. My goals are lofty so you can imagine how this all is affecting me.
Being a new mother again is all that I wanted and the little man sure is all shades of awesome.
But I find myself wanting to put my head through a wall some days.
Today I had a To-List of items that really needed to be done. The day started off well and then just turned into a gong show.
The baby projectile vomited all over me twice and all over the floor twice, with a big fat SPLAT. Instead of napping for his usual hour twice, no such luck, each nap was only ten minutes at best. This was the day he chose to be suddenly clingy, not wanting to be out of my arms. At fifteen pounds he's heavy to haul everywhere. I even had to sit him on my lap when I needed to pee. There was no way that I could not give him what he needed, so instead I gave up on my To Do List and focused completely on him.
Then at bed time, he had a melt down. He screamed for forty five minutes. Unheard of, so uncharacteristic of him. He screamed, I sighed loudly and repetitively. Jason stepped in and finally got the little fellow to sleep. Which of course made me feel like a big ole failure.
Is it so much to strive to be successful in my career, raise two kids (one a teenager & the other four months old), be a wife, run a household, travel, and feel accomplished?
I can do this can't I? Sure I can, if I try hard enough and learn to prioritize better. Surely this is possible. Because if it's not, I may as well give up trying now and save myself the heart ache and disappointment attached to letting go of my dreams.
Let me find the strength to move forward with tomorrow, because today sucked the big one.
Friday, March 19, 2010
Picture Perfect
Thursday I taught a class up at Simon Fraser University to a lovely group of eager students. Wanting to keep baby near, I decided to bring him along. I also brought a friend with me and the stroller, so while I taught she took him for a jaunt around the campus.While out meandering she pulled out her camera and took some gorgeous shots of Pickle boy. Isn't he handsome?
It's been a real juggling act getting back to work and I am only able to do this because I have so many helpful warm and caring friends and family who make it possible.
Wednesday, March 17, 2010
We Got It On
Our bedroom light was still burning bright yet the end of the day had arrived and the outside world was quietly dark.
Jason's naked body was next to mine in bed and our flesh warmed one another despite the brisk air in the room.
In hushed voices we spoke, as we dared not wake the baby in the next room who was not yet deep in slumber. We only spoke about our day in brief snippets and between each morsel disclosed we nibbled on one another with fervor.
He looked into my eyes with a hunger and I merely made the suggestion sex would be nice. He rolled me onto my side and as we giggled together, he slid his already rigid cock into my core.
It was sex driven by need. The need to connect. The need to merge as one. The need for a release. The need for love. The need to do for the other.
Later after that point of climax, both weary and satiated, we disentangled ourselves from one another. But not before I grabbed my iPhone and snapped a photo of the position we found ourselves in as it was one we'd not before used.
Then we went to sleep wrapped up in each others arms.
Jason's naked body was next to mine in bed and our flesh warmed one another despite the brisk air in the room.
In hushed voices we spoke, as we dared not wake the baby in the next room who was not yet deep in slumber. We only spoke about our day in brief snippets and between each morsel disclosed we nibbled on one another with fervor.
He looked into my eyes with a hunger and I merely made the suggestion sex would be nice. He rolled me onto my side and as we giggled together, he slid his already rigid cock into my core.
It was sex driven by need. The need to connect. The need to merge as one. The need for a release. The need for love. The need to do for the other.
Later after that point of climax, both weary and satiated, we disentangled ourselves from one another. But not before I grabbed my iPhone and snapped a photo of the position we found ourselves in as it was one we'd not before used.
Then we went to sleep wrapped up in each others arms.
Monday, March 15, 2010
Perception: A Social Experiment
THE SITUATION
In Washington , DC , at a Metro Station, on a cold January morning in 2007, this man with a violin played six Bach pieces for about 45 minutes. During that time, approximately 2,000 people went through the station, most of them on their way to work. After about 3 minutes, a middle-aged man noticed that there was a musician playing. He slowed his pace and stopped for a few seconds, and then he hurried on to meet his schedule.
About 4 minutes later:
The violinist received his first dollar. A woman threw money in the hat and, without stopping, continued to walk.
At 6 minutes:
A young man leaned against the wall to listen to him, then looked at his watch and started to walk again.
At 10 minutes:
A 3-year old boy stopped, but his mother tugged him along hurriedly. The kid stopped to look at the violinist again, but the mother pushed hard and the child continued to walk, turning his head the whole time. This action was repeated by several other children, but every parent - without exception - forced their children to move on quickly.
At 45 minutes:
The musician played continuously. Only 6 people stopped and listened for a short while. About 20 gave money but continued to walk at their normal pace. The man collected a total of $32.
After 1 hour:
He finished playing and silence took over. No one noticed and no one applauded. There was no recognition at all.
No one knew this, but the violinist was Joshua Bell, one of the greatest musicians in the world. He played one of the most intricate pieces ever written, with a violin worth $3.5 million dollars. Two days before, Joshua Bell sold-out a theater in Boston where the seats averaged $100 each to sit and listen to him play the same music.
This is a true story. Joshua Bell, playing incognito in the D.C. Metro Station, was organized by the Washington Post as part of a social experiment about perception, taste and people's priorities.
This experiment raised several questions:
*In a common-place environment, at an inappropriate hour, do we perceive beauty?
*If so, do we stop to appreciate it?
*Do we recognize talent in an unexpected context?
One possible conclusion reached from this experiment could be this:
If we do not have a moment to stop and listen to one of the best musicians in the world, playing some of the finest music ever written, with one of the most beautiful instruments ever made . . .
How many other things are we missing as we rush through life?
In Washington , DC , at a Metro Station, on a cold January morning in 2007, this man with a violin played six Bach pieces for about 45 minutes. During that time, approximately 2,000 people went through the station, most of them on their way to work. After about 3 minutes, a middle-aged man noticed that there was a musician playing. He slowed his pace and stopped for a few seconds, and then he hurried on to meet his schedule.
About 4 minutes later:
The violinist received his first dollar. A woman threw money in the hat and, without stopping, continued to walk.
At 6 minutes:
A young man leaned against the wall to listen to him, then looked at his watch and started to walk again.
At 10 minutes:
A 3-year old boy stopped, but his mother tugged him along hurriedly. The kid stopped to look at the violinist again, but the mother pushed hard and the child continued to walk, turning his head the whole time. This action was repeated by several other children, but every parent - without exception - forced their children to move on quickly.
At 45 minutes:
The musician played continuously. Only 6 people stopped and listened for a short while. About 20 gave money but continued to walk at their normal pace. The man collected a total of $32.
After 1 hour:
He finished playing and silence took over. No one noticed and no one applauded. There was no recognition at all.
No one knew this, but the violinist was Joshua Bell, one of the greatest musicians in the world. He played one of the most intricate pieces ever written, with a violin worth $3.5 million dollars. Two days before, Joshua Bell sold-out a theater in Boston where the seats averaged $100 each to sit and listen to him play the same music.
This is a true story. Joshua Bell, playing incognito in the D.C. Metro Station, was organized by the Washington Post as part of a social experiment about perception, taste and people's priorities.
This experiment raised several questions:
*In a common-place environment, at an inappropriate hour, do we perceive beauty?
*If so, do we stop to appreciate it?
*Do we recognize talent in an unexpected context?
One possible conclusion reached from this experiment could be this:
If we do not have a moment to stop and listen to one of the best musicians in the world, playing some of the finest music ever written, with one of the most beautiful instruments ever made . . .
How many other things are we missing as we rush through life?
Sunday, March 14, 2010
Cherry Popping
Last night at the Couples Party I met a woman. There happened to be six of us on the group bed together. She was next to me.
I asked her if she had ever been with a woman before. In a low raspy voice, she replied "no".
"Have you ever touched a woman's breast before?" I was met with another "no", as I moved my body closer to hers.
The index finger of her right hand traced my warm soft breast with great gentleness. I knew that Jason who was between my legs caressing my lips would be greatly aroused by this visual before him.
I swept my finger along her breast and then brushed her pert nipple with quick slight motions. Her groans told me my attention towards her was appreciated.
The woman's husband starting having sex with her as my hungry tongue was licking the sensitive spots on her tight luscious body.
In short order Jason was on top of me and the four of us were all having sex side by side, all the while her and I continued to make out. The couple on the other side of us were now going at it hot and heavy too. The bed was in motion, the smell of sex was strong and it made my head swim in that lustful way I adore.
Jason came with a huge explosion and couldn't stop after that, he just kept going, caught up in the moment. The other woman's eyes rolled back in her head, her back arched and she was captivated by my talking dirty in her ear.
I had rolling waves of pleasure that left me gasping as the man next to me suddenly had the spent look of satisfaction come over him.
After cuddling everyone, I went and fetched a towel to clean Jason and I up. I asked the couple whom we'd been so engaged if they wanted anything .... "water". Upon my return I cleaned my man & I then gave each of them a cup of water much to their delight.
We sat around and debriefed for a few minutes then I left them alone to bask in the glow of the first time experience together with one another.
I asked her if she had ever been with a woman before. In a low raspy voice, she replied "no".
"Have you ever touched a woman's breast before?" I was met with another "no", as I moved my body closer to hers.
The index finger of her right hand traced my warm soft breast with great gentleness. I knew that Jason who was between my legs caressing my lips would be greatly aroused by this visual before him.
I swept my finger along her breast and then brushed her pert nipple with quick slight motions. Her groans told me my attention towards her was appreciated.
The woman's husband starting having sex with her as my hungry tongue was licking the sensitive spots on her tight luscious body.
In short order Jason was on top of me and the four of us were all having sex side by side, all the while her and I continued to make out. The couple on the other side of us were now going at it hot and heavy too. The bed was in motion, the smell of sex was strong and it made my head swim in that lustful way I adore.
Jason came with a huge explosion and couldn't stop after that, he just kept going, caught up in the moment. The other woman's eyes rolled back in her head, her back arched and she was captivated by my talking dirty in her ear.
I had rolling waves of pleasure that left me gasping as the man next to me suddenly had the spent look of satisfaction come over him.
After cuddling everyone, I went and fetched a towel to clean Jason and I up. I asked the couple whom we'd been so engaged if they wanted anything .... "water". Upon my return I cleaned my man & I then gave each of them a cup of water much to their delight.
We sat around and debriefed for a few minutes then I left them alone to bask in the glow of the first time experience together with one another.
Saturday, March 13, 2010
Got a truck?
March 26 a Friday and March 28th a Sunday I am in need of someone with a van or a truck to assist me.
I am teaching at The Taboo Sex Show in Abbotsford and need to move some equipment. Friday stuff is coming from The Lounge to the Tradex building where the show is taking place and then back to the Lounge again on the Sunday after the show ends.
Can you help me with this? I can offer you free tickets to the show and gas money.
Drop me a private email to jennifer@libidoevents.com
I am teaching at The Taboo Sex Show in Abbotsford and need to move some equipment. Friday stuff is coming from The Lounge to the Tradex building where the show is taking place and then back to the Lounge again on the Sunday after the show ends.
Can you help me with this? I can offer you free tickets to the show and gas money.
Drop me a private email to jennifer@libidoevents.com
Friday, March 12, 2010
Discount Please
The Lounge has started it's Interior Design project - and this undertaking is a large one. I am really excited about it and not as overwhelmed as I thought I would be. Likely because a kick ass designer has laid out everything so professionally for us to follow. The end result I can see in my minds eye thanks to her planning, so now the actual work gets started.
With this in mind, I need a couple of things:
1. Walmart has these really cool trees I want to buy. At least 6-8 of them. I need someone who can get me an employee discount. Anyone out there able to do this?
2. ICI is where our paint is coming from. The purchase of this is going to be rather expensive and as such I am looking for someone able to get me an employee or some other form of discount. Anyone able to handle this?
3. Carpet. I am looking for a piece of carpet, and am open to where it is purchased from. However the color is set. Chocolate brown it is. Measurements to follow. Anyone work in or own a carpet store? Discount please?
Timing is critical here. I'd appreciate hearing from anyone able to provide assistance, sooner rather than later. Thank you.
With this in mind, I need a couple of things:
1. Walmart has these really cool trees I want to buy. At least 6-8 of them. I need someone who can get me an employee discount. Anyone out there able to do this?
2. ICI is where our paint is coming from. The purchase of this is going to be rather expensive and as such I am looking for someone able to get me an employee or some other form of discount. Anyone able to handle this?
3. Carpet. I am looking for a piece of carpet, and am open to where it is purchased from. However the color is set. Chocolate brown it is. Measurements to follow. Anyone work in or own a carpet store? Discount please?
Timing is critical here. I'd appreciate hearing from anyone able to provide assistance, sooner rather than later. Thank you.
Thursday, March 11, 2010
Counting my blessings
I am deeply in love with a man who cares for me in a way that I never dreamed possible. Both of my children bring me incredible joy each day. The baby is growing so fast and becoming so animated, it makes my heart swell. The teenager is a mover and a shaker, who is way more mature than her age and who is achieving exceptionally lofty academic goals.
My health after a long battle the last six months is finally recovering from being critical. Career wise, I am working as much as I want, and writing my own contracts that more than meet my needs.
It's true, you reap what you sow.
Wednesday, March 10, 2010
Taboo Sex Show Abbotsford 2010

I've been on contract with Taboo for many, many years.
At the end of the month is Taboo Abbotsford, March 26th - 28th. They have me teaching a host of classes and like last year, the are giving me my own theater room to do so in.
You'll be able to take in classes of mine in The Libido Lounge Seminar Room. (classes are free to you, your event ticket price of $15 get's you full access to everything)
Come see me.
Tuesday, March 09, 2010
Play Party & Class Vancouver BC
Two events happening this Saturday at Libido Lounge. Both are open to our members only and to their non member guests. Of course, you'll need to send in your reservation in order to attend.
If you want intense passion and excitement in your sex life you need to take this course! This exhilarating workshop is crammed with Tantalizing Tips And Techniques for you to Keep Your Sex Life Smoldering Hot. This is not a beginners class. This is a class for people who are already good at sex and want to ramp it up to EXTRAORDINARY. This class will improve your sex life dramatically - whether you and your play mate have been together weeks or years!
We will discuss psychological preparation for wild sex and follow with lots of specific oral, toy, and manual techniques, with an emphasis on anal and vaginal intercourse. You will learn sexual positions which maximize your play time and give your partner deep satisfaction. You will discover just how responsive your body can be to certain sensations, which you and your partner can use to heighten your arousal and give you both truly amazing sex.
If you're looking for more sexual excitement, sensual touching tips, burning hot passion, mental foreplay, better sexual techniques, and greater sexual pleasure, then this class is the class for you!
============================
SATURDAY MARCH 13
9:00 - 1:00 AM
COUPLES ONLY SEX PLAY PARTY
hosted by Jennifer & Jason
$50 member couple / $60 guest couple of a member
RESERVATIONS: jennifer@libidoevents.com
Members May Reserve to bring 1 non member couple of their choosing
A Couples Only Sex Play Party. With music turned up, we swing open the doors to Couples Only and let the good times flow for an entire evening of hot sexy action. Meet other couples to watch, play with, swing with, chat with, cuddle up with and have a wild night out alongside.
Sex, Sex Machines, Bondage, Slap & Tickle & Social Time
Our massage girl will be on site providing her sensuous erotic massages at $20 for 15 minutes. Sign up when you arrive.
Open to Couples Only, same sex included of course. Bring your own toys and towel.
++Our Sex Machine the Monkey Rocker will be set up as will the Sybian, with attachments on sale, they range in price from $25-$90 CASH and once you buy it, you just continue to bring it back to LL so that you can ride each and every visit on your own personal insertable. The ride is free, it is the attachment piece you must buy. We have a number in stock, both singles and double insertables.
The kitchen will have snacks aplenty all evening long.
Dress Code: No street clothes, No business suits. No blue jeans. No running shoes, No athletic wear. No camouflage pants. No flannel robes. No sunglasses and No face masks.
SATURDAY MARCH 13
7:00 - 8:00
HOT SEX FOR THE UNINHIBITED - CLASS
$10 member / $15 guest of a member
presented by Jennifer
RESERVATIONS: jennifer@libidoevents.com
7:00 - 8:00
HOT SEX FOR THE UNINHIBITED - CLASS
$10 member / $15 guest of a member
presented by Jennifer
RESERVATIONS: jennifer@libidoevents.com
If you want intense passion and excitement in your sex life you need to take this course! This exhilarating workshop is crammed with Tantalizing Tips And Techniques for you to Keep Your Sex Life Smoldering Hot. This is not a beginners class. This is a class for people who are already good at sex and want to ramp it up to EXTRAORDINARY. This class will improve your sex life dramatically - whether you and your play mate have been together weeks or years!
We will discuss psychological preparation for wild sex and follow with lots of specific oral, toy, and manual techniques, with an emphasis on anal and vaginal intercourse. You will learn sexual positions which maximize your play time and give your partner deep satisfaction. You will discover just how responsive your body can be to certain sensations, which you and your partner can use to heighten your arousal and give you both truly amazing sex.
If you're looking for more sexual excitement, sensual touching tips, burning hot passion, mental foreplay, better sexual techniques, and greater sexual pleasure, then this class is the class for you!
============================
SATURDAY MARCH 13
9:00 - 1:00 AM
COUPLES ONLY SEX PLAY PARTY
hosted by Jennifer & Jason
$50 member couple / $60 guest couple of a member
RESERVATIONS: jennifer@libidoevents.com
Members May Reserve to bring 1 non member couple of their choosing
A Couples Only Sex Play Party. With music turned up, we swing open the doors to Couples Only and let the good times flow for an entire evening of hot sexy action. Meet other couples to watch, play with, swing with, chat with, cuddle up with and have a wild night out alongside.
Sex, Sex Machines, Bondage, Slap & Tickle & Social Time
Our massage girl will be on site providing her sensuous erotic massages at $20 for 15 minutes. Sign up when you arrive.
Open to Couples Only, same sex included of course. Bring your own toys and towel.
++Our Sex Machine the Monkey Rocker will be set up as will the Sybian, with attachments on sale, they range in price from $25-$90 CASH and once you buy it, you just continue to bring it back to LL so that you can ride each and every visit on your own personal insertable. The ride is free, it is the attachment piece you must buy. We have a number in stock, both singles and double insertables.
The kitchen will have snacks aplenty all evening long.
Dress Code: No street clothes, No business suits. No blue jeans. No running shoes, No athletic wear. No camouflage pants. No flannel robes. No sunglasses and No face masks.
Monday, March 08, 2010
Morsels
Happy International Woman's Day.
I'd write more but my day is committed to running a booth and teaching a class at Kwantlen's Health and Wellness Fair in Surrey.
NEED: I am looking for someone who works in a store or industry that sells fabric in massive quantities. (bolts) I need a really good price/ discount / deal so I can place a huge order. Can you get me a great deal? Drop me a line and let me know: jennifer@libidoevents.com
NEED: I am looking for someone who works in a store or industry that sells fake plants... trees to be precise. I need a really good price/ discount / deal so I can place a huge order. (about 14-16) Can you get me a great deal? Drop me a line and let me know: jennifer@libidoevents.com
I'd write more but my day is committed to running a booth and teaching a class at Kwantlen's Health and Wellness Fair in Surrey.
NEED: I am looking for someone who works in a store or industry that sells fabric in massive quantities. (bolts) I need a really good price/ discount / deal so I can place a huge order. Can you get me a great deal? Drop me a line and let me know: jennifer@libidoevents.com
NEED: I am looking for someone who works in a store or industry that sells fake plants... trees to be precise. I need a really good price/ discount / deal so I can place a huge order. (about 14-16) Can you get me a great deal? Drop me a line and let me know: jennifer@libidoevents.com
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