Hot Springs

In a few minutes we are about to leave for Sloquet Creek, where the natural Hot Springs flow through remote creekside hot pools in the Coast Mountains. The main spring, one of the hottest in British Columbia at 154 degrees F/68 degrees C, cascades into a source pool hot enough to cook eggs. Six hours from home and 90 minutes from civilization, the place is just far enough away, that no one should know me. I'm so bloody exciting about getting away that I can hardly wait.

• No phones.
• No email.
• No one calling my name: Jennifer, Mom, babe
• No where to be.
• No clocks.
• No noise

We have plans on ...

• Sleeping in late.
• Having sex out doors.
• Nude photography
• Eating good camp out food.
• Making love.
• Soaking in the Hot Springs.

I could care less what the rest of the world is doing for the next few days, this is our getaway time and we so much deserve this break!

Inspiring

Build it and they will come.

Sixteen more people eagerly arrived for Member Orientation this evening, and are now Members.

Libido Lounges Member base is growing so fast, its just incredible.

Huge weekend ahead of me. Huge! I have to go and ready for it.

City Stroll

You ever have one of those blissfully delightful days? I had one today.

It started with the orthodontist removing my daughters braces this morning finally after two grueling years of treatment. Then I shuttled her and her girlfriend to the BC Ferries so they could board a boat for Victoria.

The girls went alone to see their first rock and roll concert alone! Wow, am I ever feeling.... not really old ...but certainly worldly. They won't be home till late tomorrow afternoon which gave RC and I the entire rest of the day together.

With the top of the Jeep we bombed through the city doing things we never seem to have the time to do otherwise. Our first stop was kinky clothes shopping in the infamous Gastown hitting all three of our favored shops which also happen to be with 1/2 a block of one another. I found a really sweet white leather armless tank style top, zippered in the front that fit me like a glove. It is now all mine.

Ice cold lemonade in hand we drove down to the West End. Our plan was to spend time hanging out together outside and we did just that. For six almost seven hours we walked, talked, ate and shopped more. We meandered both sides of Davie, from top to bottom, and stopped everywhere something caught our attention. RC bought a lot of dress up clothes for himself. He is such a metro sexual.

We headed along Thurlow over to Robson and then walked that route, all the way down to Denman. We had so much fun. There were people we knew that we saw, a great meal for us and plenty of sun. Excellent way to spend time.

We had a pre booked meeting at Pump Jack, the gay bar at 7 pm, but when we arrived the place was over run with big furries, leather men, and their allies ...no room for us or our meeting. We headed over to Blenz coffee where we spent the next two and bit hours hashing out stuff with the rest of the group we were meeting.

By the time we got home the sun had left its mark on us both. Sun kissed and tired here I sit on my computer, while RC is enjoying a fine cigar. I have to tend to my email account now before bed, or I'll never be able to catch up tomorrow. It has to be emptied daily or it piles up fast and I get overwhelmed.

Keeping Secrets

Certainly not every detail of my life ends up on this blog. But it can be said, I do put forth a fair bit of myself here.

Now and again I hold back. I don't disclose big things going on in my life in this public forum for a huge variety of reasons.
(Privacy, Idea Theft, Lost Opportunities, Discretion just to name a short list. )

A few weeks ago, a new man entered my world. He wasn't even on my radar before this.

Imagine my happy surprise and sheer delight when he made the bold first move. Literally out of nowhere he came at me with who he was, and all that he could bring forth into a relationship with me.

A man capable of seeing an opening and creating an opportunity for himself. I love it.

I had a woman relationship with K for years, and miss many of its service elements. This man is filling a big void and its feeling pretty damn good from where I'm sitting.

Thanks Dan for popping into my sex positive corner of the world. And the fact that you and RC get along smoothly is certainly yet another reason for celebration.

All I can promise you, is a wild ride.

Enjoy the experience.

over the weekend

My weekend has been jam packed with productivity. The chance to complete this much only happens every short while. Thankfully I took advantage of the time and resources available to me and made use of them extensively.

A full day was spent on Saturday organizing the rest of the July and August Libido Lounge, and Libido Events. All the volunteers were secured and new dates were added to the planning schedule. With the house to my self I motored along stark naked working for about nine and a half hours with out a break.

Saturday night RC and I went out on a date, and though it ended early it was so nice to be out with him. Sunday was a sleep in day for me, and much needed too! I spent yesterday in bed again and doing yet another six hours of computer work.


We had some pictures taken of us over the weekend, but I'm too lazy right now to upload them here. I promise to download them soon, as they are so cute .... our teenager took the photo of us as we were heading out on Saturday evening to an adult event.

I am so loved by many people. Recognizing this has been hard for me. My presence and activism has had such an impact on so many others and on local sex culture and for me the reality of this is challenging. My drop in the bucket, is actually gallons upon gallons.

Happily I sleep at night as someone content with who and what I have become and with where I come from.

Off to bed I go. I suspect that if I lay out in bed with the lights on low, that RC may just come along and give me a full body rub down.

My life is charming!

fireworks

Happy Fourth of July, to All My American Friends, Lovers, Supporters!

Tonight we has sixteen people enrolled in New Member Orientation and thirteen showed up.

Another excellent evening of success. There is certainly a lot of "new energy" around our corner of the world.

Year End

I'm caught up in a whirlwind of activity lately, and there is nothing that I can do about it, except continue forging on.

Its the end of our first fiscal year in business, and we are doing our year end, annual report and government necessary taxes. With this comes the inevitable general meeting to revisit the past year and discuss goal planning for the coming year/s.

We have learned so much and traveled so far. Our support and allies have grown stronger and stronger. We would not be where we are with out the help of some fantastic people.

• Certified General Accountant
• Book Keeper
• Personal Assistant (to Jennifer)
• Laundry Crew
• Maintenance Staff
• Ghost Writers
  
• Support Staff (door support, kitchen, cashier, greeter)
• Front Line Volunteers (monitors & exploration aides)
• Printer

Thank you to everyone who has helped hold us together the last year. We could not have done it with out you all. Last year was about our birth and this next year for us, is all about growth. Stick with us, and help shape us into the sex - positive entity that will continue serving BC for years and years to come.

A Salute to Reproductive Choice

Henry Morgentaler

Congratulations on receiving The Order of Canada for your service and vision. Canada's highest civilian honour. It recognizes a lifetime of outstanding achievement, dedication to the community, and service to the nation.

More on Order of Canada.



You are an incredible man, who deserves all the positive attention and acclaim that comes your way. Finally we are honoring you.

Morgentaler pioneered for a womans right to a safe and legal abortion. YES.

Morgentaler pioneered when he knew others couldn't do it for themselves. YES.

Morgentaler is a real life hero.

CBC news writes about Morgentalers being named to the Order of Canada

The Vancouver Sun on the bold and right appointment of Morgentaler for the Order of Canada, finally!

The Morgentaler Clinics are located throughout Canada.


Wikipedia lists Morgentaler extensively.

Name Tags

Being hurt by some one else is something that I try to shield myself from. I dislike negative experiences and try to learn from each of them, in the hopes of never having to endure the same misfortune again.

Being in the public eye, means that I'm often in the midst of local hot sex culture issues. Not regularly, but often enough that most people know of me.

More often than not, my name is thrown around as though some one knows me or acts as though I am a close ally when in fact, I am not. I'm simply the connecting link between communities, politics, social circles, sex education & events, all through the PNW sex culture.

The part that bothers me in this is the people who think they "know me" based on community gossip, or simply because they regularly see me, as in visually across a room. Asking me a question in email, or even hugging me at an event, does not make us friends.

Call yourself a friend of mine, when you know I will remember your name and perhaps some history between us. Being introduced to me at large events, bar nights, or even fetish evenings likely means I won't remember you. Not unless something big happened between us, and even then I know an obscene amount of people so excuse me while I ask you your name three, four or five times over till I finally remember who you are.

And yes, I know you always get my name right when you see me. Good on ya! You likely don't have a hundred people a week expecting you to remember their names and personal stories.

You'll know were friends, when I get your name right the first name it rolls off my tongue and I actually have something to say to you, other than err, um Hello....Scott, Frank, Peter, Dave...what was your name again?

I'm known to a lot of really wonderful people. Thank you for supporting me as a friend and as a business woman. I sure appreciate how well treated I am and all that you do for me.

Movie and a Cuddle

Travis, Allena and I went to dinner at a local restaurant, and ate on their patio, in the shade, to try and escape the heat. The TreeHouse is a nice little neighborhood place that we've been eating at for over a year now. We were perhaps going to head off to the pan party at the center afterwards but ended up making the wise decision to stay in watching a movie instead.

You have got to watch Lars and the Real Girl. What a funny movie and absolutely worth seeing. Cuddled up on the sofa till just after midnight we both laughed and cried as the show progressed. Given that I don't get emotional watching films, this movie to its credit drew from me many reactions.

In this comedy, Lars Lindstrom is an awkwardly shy young man in a small northern town who finally brings home the girl of his dreams to his brother and sister-in-law's home. The only problem is that she's not real - she's a sex doll Lars ordered off the Internet.

This morning I was awake way to early for my own good. Today is Pride here in Seattle and the weather is going to be a scorcher. My final class is late this afternoon, post parade and it's SM 101, A Little More Than a Slap & A Tickle. Everything is ready to go packed up and all I need to do is to arrive and hand over the information in a way that will excite and be accessible to all. I can do this, no problem.

I plan on getting some shopping done today before my class and before I head back north to higher prices and poor selections on most purchases. Oh Canada.


Checked on RC at home a short while ago, and he appears to be doing ok on the home front with out me. I've not had a chance to miss him yet, I've just been simply to busy.

Allena is madly typing in her office naked, and I am in the living room typing zipping fast getting things done as well. We really are a force of power. Girl Power that is.

Border Crossing

2:49 AM

I am in Seattle as planned and about to crawl into bed with Allena.


The border was smooth sailing without a car in front of me, and the drive was easy as I ate grapes and brownies the whole way.

With teaching two sex classes tomorrow, I must get rest now so I am at my best.

zippy fast

I am at home packing my bags frantically. Its my intention to be on the road by midnight and into Seattle by 3:00 AM. Allena is awaiting me after the I5 gets my attention for a few hours of freeway driving,

First this evening though I had to run the Exploratorium at the Lounge. What a wonderfully successful event that was. Friends manning the booths as volunteers, and members sampling activity after new activity.

I'm off to Pride weekend in Seattle. See you all next week!

delirious

Every time I see this commercial on TV, I have to pause to watch it through to the end. Definitely work safe, as it lands on cable during prime time, so you've got to check it out.

This takes you to the YouTube Link...



This morning I awoke earlier than my body wanted me to, the alarm had to roused me from my dead sleep. I had an early meeting and took RC along for support. Things went well, I think. Time will tell.

Its hard to masturbate with my usual spontaneity with school out now for the summer. I need to plan my solo pleasuring for times when I know the teenager is out of the house, or at least out of hearing distance.

Tomorrow night is Exploratorium, our sampler event open to our Members. Hope you'll come hang out with us for a few hours and try some new fun activities amongst a great group of people. Its a DROP - In event, so just show up!

wank a thon

I'm surprised RC's penis is still attached. After this evenings debauchery at Jack & Jill, one would think it would have been worked down into a wee small stump from all the usage. Six orgasms in 90 minutes is pretty significant, good for you handsome.

On my behalf, I strapped on a cock, and buried myself in a beautiful girl in a variety of differing positions. Afterwards she took my head in her soft lap, and pulled my hair while she stroked my hair as I vibrated myself to oblivion.

To reiterate again what I've been touting lately .... I am VERY tired and quite behind in some work. My email account is busting full of demands of my time and skills, flattering at first glance, then just overwhelming when the reality of the amount of time needed to complete it all hits.

Regular Program

We've returned safe and sound to our home, after a wonderful visit on the island this last while spending time with family and resting our minds. My mother-in-law gave me a gift of penis shaped pasta before we left, and I think I'll use it to make a dish for the next Deviant Dining. Something with a meaty sauce perhaps.

There are more items than I care to admit to that are awaiting my attention right now. Excuse me while I go deal with my business and catch up with my missed life.

The juggling act of managing so many projects at once, is one that I am working hard on slowing down at. Being able to give individual projects dedicated attention is certainly a goal of mine.

This photo is for you Bella, Happy Belated Solstice.

Victoria Audience

Todays Cock Sucking & Hand Job class was very well received. I've been on the island for a few days now and this jaunt into the city for work was short yet highly productive. Kiss and Tell is a really well laid out store, and tucked away in the downtown core of Victoria. I believe I'm back teaching there again in August for those of you live here on the island.

Rest, food, sleep, short walks, lounging, family, no sense of time. Yeah, I'm feeling pretty happy and worry free.

Bondage Events Vancouver

At this unsightly hour I should really be fast asleep, alas this is not in the cards for me quite yet.

Last nights Deviant Dining was a real blast. The food delicious, the desserts massive, conversation non-stop and the poetry would have blown your knickers of you. The woman who read, did such a splendid job, it was absolutely lovely and sexy as hell all at once.

I have cramps, the type that require a loading dose of pain medication ( three pills) and a top up (another two), before the required time .... by an hour. Cramps suck. Having my period on a weekend with no events is sure good planning on my behalf though. I do need to remember to program iWoman on my iPhone. Must do this before I go to sleep.



iWoman will automatically figure out the duration of your period and the number of days in your cycle. This is such an incredible application and very helpful too women. From there you can put in more specific information for every day of your period. More ....


Libido Lounge now has a Live Journal Site where you can read me. Try having a look over here, if you prefer the style of LJ, or you can just keep reading me here on blogspot. Information on both is the same for the most part, though the long-term-plan for the reasoning behind all of this is being closely guarded.

I have a 9 AM appointment. Another at 1:0o PM and a final one at 3, then I get to come home and ready myself for this evenings bondage event. Restraining Order. I'm wiped out just thinking about this all, perhaps I should go to bed now and start resting up.

Good night!

Sex Coaching Victoria BC

The next while I will be away on the island. We'll be staying and visiting with family for a long over due visit and much anticipated one too. Thankfully our retreat is quiet and the company loving and fun.

While in Victoria, on Sunday, this Sunday to be exact, I can be found teaching my Cock Sucking & Hand Job class at Kiss & Tell over on Harold Street. You have to purchase your tickets in advance so make sure you do this, like now folks!

$25 person - Advance Tickets Only " 250-380-6995 "

It turns out that I have a FEW limited spots available still to see clients. If you would like to meet while I am in Victoria for a Private Coaching session, then I encourage you to send me an email now, to book your time with me. I'm already have three sessions booked only room for a couple of more.

Tonight is Deviant Dining, and I am eager to sit back with everyone and shoot the shit for awhile. This event is so cool in that the point of dinner is (really aside from eating) to become better acquainted with the other members. And I plan on doing just that.

Wrapped in a towel writing this entry as I ponder what outfit will soon be on me. My preference of course is nude, but this is one event at the Lounge that always has everyone clothed.

RC is off to work leaving me to entertain this evening on my own. A lovely long time friend, is coming to read to everyone, I can't wait to hear her own poetry!

My life is rich, lively, productive, sex-positive and filled with passionate people and opportunities. I am so blessed and thankful to be surrounded by such goodness.

On Being Original

There are days when I am capable of accomplishing so much, and others that virtually nothing seems to be completed. This week appears to be about "taking care of business" and forging through the copious amounts of paper that is before me.

I'm not very pleased at how much work that I have to tend to in the next few days. I am however very impressed with the people that have stepped up, out-of-the-blue to aid me in not only getting the jobs done, but taking them from me, thus allowing professionals to worry about the stuff that plagues me with stress.

I have HUGE stuff going on right now in my life, but I don't want to share. Lest another try and take on, what is mine to conquer. I love pioneering in sex - culture and having others stand back and watch with their mouths gaping open before they jump into my world with both feet, and land safely. Creating sex - culture, breaking down taboos, opening doors for enlightenment and friendship and showing others how to be sex positive is simply my gift. It's pretty amazing too.


It's pretty outrageous how many events & groups in this province I have had a hand at creating in some way shape or form: either directly because I was asked for assistance or indirectly as the groups scooped up my formulas and past event plans as theirs because they couldn't come up with anything on their own.

Pioneering is what I do, and its kinda overwhelming how many people follow me. I find funny the lurkers, the ones in the shadows who follow my every move.


And my support, friendships, networking allies, income and success all come from my being genuinely ME and working my ass off for the last ten years. Thankfully this is one thing that no one else can replicate.

I had fun!

Ok, so the party last night was a lot of fun. I had sex with a girl, and I really enjoyed it a lot. It was a long time coming as we've known one another for a few years now, but never yet managed to get it on together till now. There is nothing comparable to working ones hand into a wet happy pussy, then hearing the "Oh yes, let's fuck" consent statement as I stood in front of her strapping on my big black cock before it took the place of my hand and continued consuming her.

Some how I convinced a rather large man to allow me to bind him to our stripper pole, he was completely immobilized in an upright standing position. Goodness, did I ever scare and excite the begeebers out of him. His first time at a play party and his first time in bondage. When I first mentioned tying him up, his wife said he'd NEVER allow it. Three minutes later, he was complacently standing still while allowing me to cinch him down to a place where he could not move an inch.

Two different women went for rides on the Sybian Sex Machine. One required a little of my assistance and the other required a whole lot. The woman who needed my attention and help was riding for the first time, and it was her first play party ever too.

It takes a few minutes to set some one up on the machine. First you plug in the ominous sized box, then set it in a place that looks good and away from close-up voyeurs. Then you position it to ensure drop clothes are underneath it, because ..... well .... so many women squirt. Then its all about the lubricant. Once things are slippery, well it just comes down to positioning yourself onto it. Which pose do you want to use? Once the pretty lady was nestled like a queen atop the pleasure making device, I was asked to control the dials and buttons. Happily with the black box in my hand, I took this woman for a wild ride.

Her husband was the man tied to the pole, facing her though unable to get to her, this man witnessed his wife's pleasure at the hands of myself and a Sybian. Next time I assume he will want the privilege of taking his girl into orbit on the orgasm producing machine himself.

There was an enormous amount of female energy at the party again, more women than men. Things are finally settling into a wonderful routine for myself and Libido Lounge.

This afternoon excitedly, we hired A NUDE YOGA INSTRUCTOR. Her attributes include being young at 25 years old, already is a pre existing yoga teacher, teaches two different types of yoga, she is very attractive, sweet, articulate and Asian. Very shortly now, Nude Yoga classes will be starting weekly.

And finally I can say it out loud what so many others keep telling me.... "Vera and Linda are both copy cats who couldn't for themselves or for their businesses come up with a single independent new idea with out stealing from Libido Events or Libido Lounge. Their lack of sex-positivity & morals is so ugly and obvious that others notice it right away, these two pioneer in this negative department."