Saturday, March 29, 2008

Day Two of the show

Second day of the show is now over, and the day had me looking good.

RC had a blast running around doing the metro sexual shopping thing he so enjoys and I moved slow reserving my energy. My voice is starting to crack, despite wearing a head set in each of my seven classes thus far and trying to save my volume. My classes have all been pppppacked.

I love at the beginning of each class, when I ask everyone to raise their hands if they've been in class with me before. Watching all the arms raise in the air and the smiles spread across their faces remembering what I've taught them, leaves me feeling like a power house as I start the class.

Stores, many stores...over five thus far have approached me to now start teaching out in there Valley adult stores. In the coming weeks I will get all the contracts sealed then post these new additions to the calendar. There is nothing better than having store owners come to me because they want me and my Erotics Arts Curriculum. Particularly flattering was two different store owners, hunting me down to tell me that they had taken in my classes and that they were floored not just at my professionalism but also the sell - ability of my education series and carnal knowledge.

None of these things are over night happenings. People waiting and lining up for my classes early. Packed rooms. Stores buying me out and coming looking for me. An In Box that over flows with requests and praise, this is the result of years of activism and teaching. I have worked so hard to create this, though now finally I can be choosy about which work I accept and which I don't. Times have changed.

With out doubt there was no other presenter or educator better received than I in terms of attendance numbers by a long shot! The coming weeks are going to be very busy as I welcome all of these new followers to Libido Events and local sex culture.

Walking through the show with RC we were constantly surrounded by friends who had come to visit. It's nice having ones own posse and that they are all such solid grounded kind people is testament to the wonderful friendships that can be formed in sex culture. Thank you all for the food, snacks, hugs, applause and love it was all so appreciated.

My feet ache, really bad. I wore decent shoes, though heels none the less. Had to. Just had to to go along with my Officer Naughty outfit that I had on.

Lee and Mark are two different local fetish photographers who were both at the show taking professional photos of me while I was teaching different classes today. I am so eager to see what images they caught of me in action as I never get to see myself this way. I'm not bothered by people I know taking my picture for things I am aware of, but I find it a tad disturbing to have strangers at the show taking my picture while I am teaching.

Chinese food awaits me....we brought home take - out. Then sleep. Tomorrow is the final day of the show and my last two classes. Thankfully the day is Sunday, Gods day, so things close down early. Good, because I need the rest.

Friday, March 28, 2008

ready, set, go

Unsure of whether or not Abbotsford is ready for me, but here I come. And I'll be bringing my sex positive education, enthusiasm and voice with me.

Charge!

Thursday, March 27, 2008

readying for the bible belt

It snowed today while I was out driving. This amused me greatly of course. Thankfully it did not stick.

I'm partially ready for Taboo, it starts tomorrow. It is only my personal items that need tended to now. Classes are all ready, and my belongings are sorted.

A photographer has been booked to take some shots of me over the weekend, while I'm on stage teaching. These images will hopefully make a wonderful addition to my professional portfolio.

In a few hours I'll be sending out a mail - out to the Libido Events mailing list about Taboo this weekend, my classes and the shows hours.

I am eager to drive into Abbotsford later tomorrow for the show. It is the city where I grew up, went to school and still had a solid family unit, pre: the divorce of my parents. There are a few stops to check out from long ago that we plan on seeing as I trip along down memory lane, with RC at my side.

The bed to myself tonight as RC is at work, so I plan on taking my new Wahl for a test drive. It runs so quietly that playing with it in the dead of night doesn't bother me at all, as it makes virtually no noise. And the cord is extra long so you can really move around with the toy and have lots of range.


Wednesday, March 26, 2008

cramps equal bedrest

Period from hell started at 4 this morning and woke me from a deep slumber.

The only upside to this bloody situation, getting the rough early couple of days over with before Taboo starts on Friday.

My day will be spent on the sofa, in bed, on Tylenol 3's while clutching a hot water bottle.

Tonight is another Member Orientation, and I am meeting a couple I've been looking forward to making face to face contact with.

Tuesday, March 25, 2008

for my girl



HAPPY
BIRTHDAY
BELLA

you are very loved

Monday, March 24, 2008

Happy Monday!

Aaah, today was the last day of Spring break and the day we had chosen to celebrate with our family dinner and the customary Easter baskets. Somewhere mid day the desire to nest became overwhelming and I found myself rifling through closets and drawers ridding myself of dated clothing & accessories.

A day well spent I must say.

This week is all about readying for Taboo this weekend. Nine classes over three days, and I am their lead. Time to start packing for this shin dig to ensure I have all my stuff together. My fifth year with the show now and my sixth round of productions for them, I am eager though to be in this new venue out in the Valley.

I mailed out those free tickets to Taboo a while back, you should have yours by now if you sent me a SASE. The show schedule can be found on the Taboo site and on the Libido Events calendar.

Recently my collection of "higher end" provocative body pieces, to wear when I am working and looking for that polished image has grown dramatically. I'm eager for this opportunity of teaching at the show, to wear some daring of these new numbers out in public.

Sunday, March 23, 2008

Happy Easter Peeps!

A necessary drive over to Ballard (I'm still in Seattle) for two very important, yet different stops.

We pulled in front of Cupcake Royale and RC went inside to pick up a dozen of these devilishly delightful mountains of sin. There was so much to celebrate that a dozen seemed appropriate.

Then a quick jaunt down the street and we were at our next stop. A few visits back, we had seen some beautiful shiny fabric that seemed suitable for fetish clothing but I had not purchased any. Upon our return this time they had more stock than our previous visit happily. I made fast, snatching enough crayon sparkle purple and a similar amount in forest green to be made into some spectacular new custom designs for my body.

Colors, makes me very happy. As does the woman I've found to be making me some of my latest acquisitions.


We arrived home in excellent time today and even had the strength left to unpack. Unheard of, almost.

Time to ready for our family Easter next. The Costco roast needs to be taken out, defrosted and seasoned. We are celebrating the festivities on Monday, tomorrow. The baskets need to be filled with chocolate, love & treats still.

Easter Peeps
CLICK TO ENLARGE ..... VERY FUNNY

Saturday, March 22, 2008

hot bi babes

There are a lot of adult stores in Washington and some of my favorites too.

Within thirty minutes of crossing the border yesterday, we were in the first store of the day. Of course I left with two different new fishnet shirts, a Wahl vibrator with the complete attachment series and a couple of other doodads.

A couple of hours later in another store in Seattle, bad things happened. I went overboard and made purchases that were impulsive, and sexy. I deserved everything though. A shiny corset in red pvc was screaming at me from the hangers, a pride flag was waving itself in my direction, DVD's were jumping out at me, and a few teaching aides were obviously meant for my curriculum. Must-Own-Items, that are all now MINE.


Out to dinner with Allena, Janice and RC for an excellent meal. They got liquored up, so I became the designated driver. Joy! It was a riot driving around all of us kinky folk. Ended up at a pool / dance hall till really late. We met up with Allena's guy and his new girlfriend to celebrate a birthday there, with another half dozen friends.

It could be said that I danced last night, with my guard down, and relaxed. Charming.

A few people found out who I was without my saying a word at the club. By nights end I had two individuals demanding my contact info, as they both want something from me professionally. Flattering? Sure. Something that I will ever get used to? No.

Even when I make my best attempt at flying under the radar, and trying to not be noticed, I still end up getting attention.

Last night was fun and laid back. I'd do another night like it, just perhaps in a different venue. Something a little less red neck.

The pool / dance hall, was really not a very sex - positive place to be. All the women that were dancing together, were just doing the whole pretend to be bi thing. (for the men watching and hoping for a free drink)

The girls danced side by side, strictly for the amusement of the boys/men watching and not because the women liked or even were attracted to one another. They men could have cared less if the girls were interested in each other so long as they danced close together and put on a decent show, involving the illusion of "two girls getting it on".

So wanting to not be noticed, I decided against strutting out on the dance floor, and getting it on with one of the *many* supposed bi babes out there. Instead, I stood at a distance, giggling at their stage show for the horny heterosexual men standing around looking at them like they wanted to be wanking instead. I was so glad to not be a part of that look.

Not needing to prove my Bi status, or to show my Queer card is a sign that I have matured over the years and thankfully finally have enough sex & people in my life that I don't need to advertise to an entire bar of my orientation or interests.

Instead.

I fell asleep, listening to Bella and RC, laughing and having orgasms. Their sounds of bliss were comforting as I drifted off into much needed sleep.

Thursday, March 20, 2008

All over the map

They arrived one after another. Seventeen people were at Member Orientation tonight. What a great group of individuals to welcome to our new home and sex culture.

I thoroughly enjoyed the class, and much humor was intermixed as well making everything light, fun and fast paced for all.

Can you believe that we are over 280 members deep already? And still going strong. By years end, I can't wait to see where we are with our member base in terms of numbers.

I've been readying for the Abbotsford Taboo show next week. Those of you who sent in your SASE should have your FREE tickets by now, or Monday as I mailed them out a few days past.
If you plan on attending make sure you take in one of my classes or at the least come by and say hello.

It looks as though I have a new contract with a different large entity and may be ready to start making announcements some time soon. Once their deposit check clears and I know exactly what I will be doing I'll update you with the particulars. Really just information on what channel and when as I wouldn't want any one to miss me educating and inspiring the general public with what we are all so passionate about.

The attention is a tad nerve wracking though the exposure is more than I ever could afford out of my own pocket. So, on with the show!

Tuesday, March 18, 2008

Rolling Around

I made another purchase.
Something a little different.
A great deal on it.

Practical.
Fold-able.
Multi-purpose.
Health or Convenience.


It's on wheels.
Has a seat.
Two brakes.
Two handles.

You guessed right.

A wheel chair.

You can't believe it either huh?

Finally we own a wheelchair for medical scenes, or for bondage play.

How convenient that you can now move your victim around regardless of whether or not they are bound.

RC says the wheelchair may well be our most unusual acquisition to date.
(I thought the vote for unusual goes to our gyn. table or the seven massage tables, ha)

Monday, March 17, 2008

Going Green Vancouver

The first official day of Spring Break, begins today. Oh lucky teenager of mine, getting days of rest on end. She is very pleased for the chance to recover for this next while before needing to return to school for the final term.

Happy St. Patricks day to you. Our breakfast was eggs, bacon and died green hash-browns. Very festive.

Some time over the next few days, I plan on posting our Presenter Series on the Libido Events website. I can't wait for everyone to see who we have booked in to teach for us here locally.

Also needing to be posted would be the party dates and open play time for the next two months or so. There is too much to do, that I actually find myself going to bed at the end of the day, unable to complete my To-Do List. Despite my best of intentions. And sadly I can't squeeze any more action items into my day.

Sunday, March 16, 2008

Public SM


A snapshot taken of RC and I last night as we entered Rascals.


Since we were still so bedraggled after last evenings exploits, we planned on not spending another full night out.

Though we were home by midnight, we did somehow manage to find the stamina necessary to play on the dungeon floor.

I bottomed to RC. Then he, to me.

Twas a wonderful night out.

Now excuse me while I head to pack for tonights Pussy Licking Good class at The Love Nest in Burnaby.

Saturday, March 15, 2008

Sleepy Time

At four o'clock in the morning, the party was quieting down. We were in the thick of it, to the very end.

I didn't mention it before, but the party was at a hotel over-night. The eight of us slept in separate rooms though playing and hot tubbing all night as a group...and into the wee hours .

With everyone retreating to their rooms at nights end, we made our way to ours for some sex. It appears that Jack Daniels and RC do funny things in bed together.

For some bloody reason, we awoke at 9 in the morning and I drove us both home so we could go back to sleep in our own bed.

Why you might ask?

Because tonight we have further plans to head out to another event.

Friday, March 14, 2008

frazzled

Some days I run so fast, non stop that it actually becomes difficult to slow down at days end.

Today I have great number of things to accomplish.

  • Private Coaching appointment.
  • Groceries.
  • Furniture purchase. Then the furniture Move-In and Set-Up.
  • Banking, Post Office and PO Box
  • Member Orientation 7-9 pm

Later this evening, after Orientation RC and I heading over to the greatly anticipated birthday party we've both been readying for. The event is for a friend, planned by his wife. Delightedly we have no responsibilities, other than to enjoy ourselves and the company we'll be surrounded by.

Let's hope there is enough left in me by 10pm this evening when we arrive late to the party, for us to still have a rip roaring good time.

Wednesday, March 12, 2008

Maple Ridge vs. Meyer

Maple Ridge vs. Meyer

A link to the infamous court case that had it become legal for all women, to be top-free at any of the same places a man may be, in PUBLIC. (sidewalks, your yard, public beaches & community swimming pools)

Should you be harassed by the police or some city employee while being top-free cite Maple Ridge vs. Meyer June 08 2000, while they check in with their supervisors as to your legal right to be so.


It has been almost eight now years now, since it became legal.


With the warmer weather soon to be upon us, its my intention as usual, to spend many beach days, top-free.



Tuesday, March 11, 2008

bouncing boobies

Last night I taught my Cock Sucking class in Burnaby to a wonderful group of women. A real pleasure to spend an evening educating and laughing all at once, I adore the opportunities & people my occupation presents. RC picked me up from class...drove me home, then brought me to bed, where he made sweet love to me till I fell asleep. So sexy.

Then today no clothes were worn till after three in the afternoon as I had spent the day answering about forty emails and catching up on long over due paper work on the sofa. We dressed finally and made our way out to pick up some desired furniture pieces for Libido Lounge in the early evening. A beautiful new storage unit and a utility cupboard. (Newf, cancel the previous order) RC spent a few hours getting everything settled in properly while I cleaned and did office work round the place.

All in all, a very productive 24 hours round here.

Now one last things to tend to. I need to write a mail - out and send it out to the mailing list, before I can even consider going to sleep.

At least I feel fortunate in that I get to work naked, from my bed.

Monday, March 10, 2008

Secret Sorority leaked info

What exactly happens at a DIRTY GIRLS party??


Imagine your best sleepover pajama party when you were younger. Without pajamas. When you arrive at the venue you will step inside a place where the cares and the stresses of the day are left at the door. The lighting is soft, the colours are soft, the carpets and furniture are all soft. (The girls are soft too)


The best part about a DIRTY GIRLS party is that it’s a light, fun, carefree evening where almost anything and everything goes; a place to explore your voyeuristic or exhibitionist side (or both). If you’re just at the beginning of your adventurous journey, it’s a great place to dip a toe into the water and decide if you want to dive in deep or wade gently into the shallows. You can be naked as the day you were born, decked out in lace, satin or silk, wrapped in leather, shiny and sparkly in glitter, or festooned in feathers. Choose something that makes you feel beautiful, because by the end of the evening it will be pulsing through you. Beauty. Softness. Laughter. Joy.


No two women are the same and no two DIRTY GIRLS parties are the same. Some are filled with happy shrieks of girls being flogged & caned, some with the soft murmurs of an appreciative audience to a girl practicing her best pole dance. There will surely be massage oil at some point, and the chocolate fountain might well be bubbling in the kitchen. Anything is better dipped in chocolate.


The big room is surrounded by sofas, edged by a suspension frame, perfect for working on rope bondage or suspension techniques. The dance pole in the center of the room is a great place to practice that stripper dance you’ve been dreaming about. The medical table has the potential to bring a happy ending to an internal examination. There’s a Sybian sex machine for those feeling like going for a ride, a massage chair, many massage tables and a hot stone kit to relax with.


A DIRTY GIRL'S party is a feast for all the senses. Delicious appetizers, fragrant candles and massage oils, giggles and whimpers, touches as bountiful as you might desire or none at all if you’re merely a contented voyeur, and pretty girls of all ages, shapes and colors everywhere.


It’s like a secret sorority with no particular pledge and no particular uniform. The only expectation is that you leave your inhibitions at the door and venture boldly where no man has gone before. It’s a girl thing. Try it. You’ll like it.



Sunday, March 09, 2008

Good Clean Living

With a whole day to sleep in yesterday and a chance to catch up on domestic items both RC and I were feeling as though a night out was in order.

Last night we ventured into the city to go to the infamous Sin City, fetish night. We got there just after they opened, and made our way inside fast. We were barely dressed in anything designed for warmth, and it was freezing out. Once inside with our coats checked, we socialized with a whack of people that we know.

Its always fun to see old friends, and I love catching up with everyone who only comes into town monthly for this wonderful night. Plus we ran into countless individuals and couples whom I have spent personal coaching time with. What a rush to be out amongst so many people that I share a strong connection with.

The Dungeon area was open and we made our way inside, of course. Once there, RC found himself restrained with his arms behind his back, and blindfolded sitting up on a spanking bench. Suffice to say, much fun ensued as I tortured his penis through his Ginch Gonch, and manipulated his nipples underneath those nicely healing piercings. I love him so much. He even tried to defend himself by crossing his legs. Pointless, in the end. But a good laugh in the moment.

Tonight was a whole other story. Deej was my volunteer again and her G-Spot was stimulated in class, shown to the attendees, and then we gave her a big wet orgasm. The class loved Deej and took much away from the two hours as combined with my teaching, seeing her G-spot is a wonderful compliment to the learning process.

And now, it is time for me to go and crawl into bed.

Saturday, March 08, 2008

Legalized Prostitution Vancouver

*Should Prostitution be Legalized Before the 2010 Olympics?*

Vancouver- The legalization of prostitution has been a long neglected
topic in the City of Vancouver. It’s time to revisit the question,
consider alternatives, and look at solutions once again. The coming 2010
Winter Olympics make the topic especially timely.

How will a mega-event that will bring thousands of tourists to Vancouver
affect the sex trade in the city? Will the recent implementation of a
sex worker's cooperative help or merely compound the problem and further
exploit already marginalized women? Is there a solution to Vancouver's
sex trade? What about the trafficking of women? Can a rationale policy
that recognizes the multiple dimensions of the sex trade be found?

Please attend a free public forum in order to foster greater public
awareness on this important topic.

Some of the speakers and organizations attending are:

Vancouver Rape Relief - Daisy Khler
- AWAN (Aboriginal Women's Action Network) - Carrie Humchitt
- XPALSS (Ex-Prostitutes Against Legislated Sexual Servitude) - speaker
to be confirmed
- Tamara O'Doherty (Researcher specialization in experiences of
victimization for off-street workers in the sex industry)
- Dave Dickson (Vancouver Police Depart, Sex Worker Liaison)
- BCCEW (British Columbia Coalition of Experiential Women) - Susan Davis
- Jamie Lee Hamilton - Transgender Sex Worker Activist
- Canadian Association of Sexual Assault Centres - Lee Lakeman
- Pivot Legal Society - Elin Sigurdson
- FIRST – Esther Shannon


The forum will present an opportunity for the public to hear and air
different perspectives on the sex trade. A question and answer session
with the panel will follow the presentations.
**Childcare is provided.**

Time and place:
Tuesday, March 11, 2008, 6:30pm – 9:00 pm at the YWCA, 733 Beatty
Street, Vancouver.
For more information contact Carly Teng at pforum08@gmail.com
Organized by the Work Less Party

Friday, March 07, 2008

Yet again...

RC and I are leading another Orientation this evening.

Have you made it to one yet?

Remember you can NOT attend any of our parties OR interactive workshops any longer until you have completed this Mandatory class.

See you in a few hours.