Women's Only Naughty Party, Fri Sept 15

it's tonight, can't wait to have you join us all...


You'll feel it the moment you walk in, the energy, the enthusiasm, the
raw female magnetism swirling through the air. As you sign in and give
up your ticket (which only costs a measly $25cdn) to the sexy smiling
hostess, you'll have your first glimpse of what a Libido Event: Women's
Only Naughty Party at the lush and lavish Club Eden
is all about. Although you'll have come
dressed to impress and will, no doubt, expect to be wowed (the wonderful
thing about a no street clothes dress code is the ample eye candy);
nothing can actually prepare you for the sheer breathtaking beauty of so
many hot and delicious women in such a warm and inviting space. You see,
this is not your ordinary party this is a sex positive women's only
play party. This is a party for women to celebrate their love (and lust)
for women.

Downstairs, you'll find a comfortable social space that overlooks the
dance floor. In the corner you may spot women swapping massages on the
massage table with others stand nearby chatting. On the couches, you may
spy women with their lips locked in a flirty and hungry embrace
alongside women resting a moment and taking it all in after a long
session on the dance floor. The dance floor itself is a sight to behold
bodies undulating under the flashing lights, dancing around the pole and
with other women. Mesmerizing.

Just around the corner from the dance floor is a laid back kitchen area
that leads into a lounge with a definitely posh club-like feel. The
lights are low, the candles flicker and all around the room women chat
and flirt while getting a refreshing drink (note, the event is alcohol
free) and maybe a light snack to munch on. Out back, you'll definitely
hear giggles from the hot tub (which is clothing optional, of course)
that sits on a large deck overlooking a large and peaceful yard. And if
you listen really carefully, you'll hear the moans and shrieks swirling
in from the BDSM dungeon down the hall and the numerous bedrooms
upstairs.

You are free to do what you wish at this party the space is there for
your to use as you please (respecting, of course, others wishes for
privacy and/or non-involvement). Does the voyeur in you want to see some
fucking or maybe a flogging? Do you want to flirt with reckless abandon
all night long? Do you just feel like chatting with sexy women in a sexy
environment, feeding off the fiery energy in the air? Does the
exhibitionist in you want to come out on display? Do you want to dance?
Do you want to play?

Women's Only Naughty Party (a Libido Event) starts this Friday
September 15th at 9pm and runs till 2am, with the class Pussy Licking
Good offered from 8-9pm before hand (free for all party attendees).

If you have any questions, please feel free to email me
Jennifer@libidoevents.com.

For address, driving instructions and to
RSVP, please contact reservations@clubeden.ca

death & work, life goes on

Yesterday was the memorial for my grandfather and my daughter I made the drive out to Langley to share in the service with the rest of the family. Oddly enough on the way there I drove right past one of my high schools and the very high school were I met Billy. It was a day filled with emotions and old dormant memories swirling round my head from out of no where.

This after we'd been at the orthodontist at 9:00 am having spacers put between her teeth as next week her braces go on. A year after getting retainers, they were finally thrown out to make way for this new leg of the dental journey.

Last night I taught Forbidden Fantasies: Role Playing In The Bedroom at Club Eden to a small intimate class. After such a long day for me, the laid back class was a much needed change of pace. When I finally arrived home last night at 10:40 my daughter was in my bed almost asleep yet awaiting me for a hug. Finally at the computer again and I found 27 pieces of mail that required more than a form letter from me. Yikes!

By the time I turned on the computer this morning at 11:00, there was another 14 emails, not spam, but emails from people needing one thing or another from me or Libido Events. The mail doesn't slow down, nor does people's interest in getting their needs met. The things I get to learn about people, my oh my.

A stop at the post box today and it was filled with booty, Oh my....

- thank you card from the thirteen students I taught at Opt
- box of chocolates
- new book to review
- contract to review
- new DVD to screen
- hand written letter from a woman
- check with a letter
- pair of panties from some unknown person To the panty giver, thank you, they fit me, er um, really snuggly. )
- a magazine

I check mail at least twice a week from the Post Box, this was a certainly a big load!

Oh yes and I got a new Leather Parachute Ball Stretcher AND a new Leather & "O" Ring Cock Cage!

Licks & Lashes is a wonderful place to shop for quality, unique adult play toys, thanks Aaron for treating me so well and always making sure I have what I need.

stunt cunt to the rescue

A couple of years ago I (as Libido Events) hired author and activist Deborah Addington to present a class here locally on vaginal fisting.

Deborah, is a colleague whom I know through work and also the author and master woman who wrote A Hand In The Bush: The Fine Art Of Vaginal Fisting. Her book is great.

The event went off fabulous to a huge crowd at...get ready, The Vancouver Curling Club. Deborah did a lecture, talk and then proceeded to demonstrate her art, her craft and fisted a woman who was laying naked from the waist down in front of the room, full of people.

And the lights, we hung spot lights over the table she lay on to ensure everyone had a great view. It was a sponsored event, by the Love Nest. Everyone was in tight, close together, theater style so a good line of sight was possible.

Deborah is what's referred to as an Amazon of a woman in size. She's got amazing presence. And really big bloody hands. On the outside, she's a hard femme, six feet tall, dark-haired, green-eyed, tattooed and pierced.

This slim woman laying on the table, legs drawn up, feet planted solidly, open wide, rocked for a few minutes as Deborah started the descent, as her hand was creeping deeper inside her. Before she had swallowed up Deborah's hand rather swiftly. She could have taken it right away but the class needed to learn. Go slow, do it steps, talk the class through it. Smiling and happy it was looking like they were a good match. Fister and fistee. Everyone there watched it happen as they listened to Deborah's instruction and descriptive explantion.

Then this woman, petite next to Deboraha pushes herself to the end of the table resting her feet on the floor and slowly stands up. Which in turn brought the Amazon to her knees as her fist was completely up inside of her and wanting to be the ever giving fister, she was there pumping away. And of course, her fist was stuck up inside at this point and due to the new somewhat ackward angle, staying inside was the plan of action, still.

Deborah was arm wrestling a vagina, or so it looked.

All this time Deborah is trying to explain to a room full of people, how this is not the every day fisting experience. Please don't think it should or ever will go for you like this. She's never had a woman before literally climb on top of her fist and bounce, yet that's exactly what I did.

note 1: For you Carolyn. :)
note 2: The volunteer stunt cunt / vagina model for this event had withdrawn her coochie shortly before and the position was literally, suddenly available.
note 3: I'm an exhibitionist AND it's also just part of my job as a sex-activist
note 4: The show must go on.

G Spot class

I've spent 7 hours in front of this computer screen today hammering out business e-mails and writing proposals and such. It's been a long successful day inside alone.

A change of scenery will do me good so I'm looking forward to this evening and heading out of the house. My stunt cunt and I are off to make the drive to Bellingham where I'm presenting my G Spot class for the Triskeli Guild.

Tomorrow night is Forbidden Fantasies: Role Playing in the Bedroom at Club Eden, e-mail now and reserve your seat in class.



September 13 Wednesday
7:30 - 9:30pm
presented by Jennifer @ Club Eden, N Delta
$20 person, cash at door

reservations@clubeden.ca *for your RSVP & the address

Building a fantasy with your partner can be a rich and rewarding experience
which can add new dimensions to your sex life.

In this workshop, we will discuss how to get into the right mindset for whatever
fantasy you have in mind (youÂ’ll get a list of starting points as well) and
weÂ’ll discuss how to add props into your fantasy to add to the adventure.
Topics: pacing, leading, and following will be included, as well as how to let
your partner know if a fantasy is or isn't working.

The largest sex organ is between your ears, be prepared to learn about
communication.

* There is no requirement to attend this workshop with someone else;
attend alone or with a friend or partner.

seducing a workman

There's a man currently on his knees on my porch in the sun. Singing a really good tune and carrying it well. He's got a beautiful face and a firm ass. He's a really dirty and sweaty young man, wiping his brow every 5 minutes on the arm of his shirt.

Perhaps I should tell him that removing his shirt would keep him cooler and provide me with better visuals. :)

Would it be so wrong for me to seduce him, the hired help?

Two minutes ago said man, just looked at me typing here at my kitchen table and said the words...

Hey, aren't you .... Yup, that's right, it's me Jennifer. Told me he saw me in the hallway the other day and recognized me from past events I've hosted. He's been to a number of the workshops Libido Events has hosted with Midori. He asked me if I was a helper at Libido Events and that's why I was there.

I laughed, hard. Helper, sschmelper. I would be the force and energy behind Libido Events, the lone one. He chuckled at the realization of who I was.

Now that he's back working (caulking) on my porch and I now know of his interest in bondage, I'm even more intrigued to seduce him!

I'm 33, he can't be more than 25. He's really sexy, sort of Hispanic looking, trim, boyish, not my type usually, but he can sing and likes bondage.


I may just go into my bedroom and masturbate on my bed, while listening to the sounds of him working & singing out in the mid afternoon sun!

**just my luck, he's just showed up at my patio door to tell me that his pants button just popped off. I offered to give him a safety pin or some rope to hold his pants up with. He declined both. I personally hope his pants just fall off him.

Seattle already

After making the drive and crossing the border earlier today, I'm now sitting securely in Allena's living room in Seattle. Of course, I was the "random" lucky car number of the day and made to go inside Customs so a search of my vehicle could happen.

My first class today, a personal security panel on Internet Dating that I was on with Tim and Mistress Matisse was successful. I learned a couple of new ideas that I plan on incorporating into my own dating life and also in to my Negotiation class that I teach and thoroughly enjoyed the chance to sit and teach with two friends.

After the panel I drove straight to Allena's and climbed in to bed, sleeping for 1.5 hours! Go me.

Tonight at 7:30 I'm teaching at Babeland on Capital Hill, my class Take Charge! A Woman's class on Dominance.

Then the big debate...

Return to Allena's get some sleep and leave early tomorrow morning for home

OR

Get in my car and make the drive home arriving back to Burnaby late and able to sleep in my own bed?

What to do? I'm unsure.

Perhaps I'll wait and see how tired I am after tonight's class. Then decide.

Let's connect

We met last night at Sin City, downstairs in the dungeon. I talked you into removing your shirt. While driving home, I regretted not getting your e-mail address from you.

If you find this post from the link on my business card that I gave you, then I'd be thrilled to hear from you.

Please mail me privately so we can finish the conversation we started and I can ask you a question.

jennifer@libidoevents.com

spirituality, sexuality & the Pope

Now I don't practice a religion but I do have my own beliefs and consider myself to be spiritual.

I still have respect for Pope Benedict and am in awe of his conviction BUT his statements sure bothered me. (in fact they are still bothering me)

As a Canadian, a mother and a proud woman loving woman bi sexual.

I was beside myself with delight in 2005 when Canada became the fourth country in the world to recognize gay marriage after Parliament finally passed legislation.

Then I'm further aggravated by his speech being excused away as being written by Vatican officials instead of himself. Perhaps then what! The Pope didn't know what he was reading?? aaahhhhh

Poodle Position Available

Know a sex-positive poodle?
Velveeta Krisp, local sex-positive artist, seeks a poodle
for short film for theatrical production. Needed for 1 hour max.
Filming early October.
Contact: thepassionatepoodle@hotmail.com




FYI - Velveeta is a long time friend of mine, and would treat you and your poodle well.

Pussy Licking Good class

TONIGHT, JOIN ME
for some fun & some insight

September 7 Thursday
7:30 - 9:30 pm
Pussy Licking Good

presented by Jennifer
4687 Kingsway Street Burnaby @ The Love Nest
(directly across from Metrotown)
$25 pay at door, cash only
Celendar of Events

From the silky caress of your warm wet tongue lapping her labia, you'll soon
feel more powerful and in control and she'll know you've got her pleasure in
mind. With using but a few of the tips and techniques that Jennifer will
demonstrate and share in this class you'll come away more confident in your
cunnilingus and inspired to share what you've learned.

open to men & women, singles and couples

transitions

I'm now the parent of a high school student. Oh my.

My world shifted when as I dropped my daughter off to school, I noticed a number of young men. Each of them parking his car before walking into school, along side my daughter. I'd forgotten that her peers now, may also be driving and some even resembling adults in stature.

This is a whole new ball game. No more elementary school issues, we're playing big now.

Erotic Photo - Full

This photo is another in the series that David Steinberg took of me being consumed.

Vagina maker wanted

Are you able to take on the task of making me a large scale display model vagina?

With all the right parts for me to use as a teaching aide in classes.

You'll need to have excellent sewing skills, imagination, a flair for creativity and live in the GVRD area.

Think of the fun we'll have plotting the creation of this beautiful, grand, elegant, educational, coochie together.

I'd sure like to hear from you.

This needs to be made in under 30 days so please only respond if you have the time to take this project on right now.

Drop me an e-mail at jennifer@libidoevents.com

hit to the wallet

I'm cranky.

We've just returned from shopping for school supplies.

It was very expensive.

Expected yet still pricey.

It's an investment worth making though.

I must remember that later this week, the school will start collecting fees.

Oh joy.

sweeping away cobwebs

At twelve years old, I was an awkward, self conscious yet striving young girl
entering grade 8, high school. Innocence, naiveness, purity, all long ago
removed from me even before I knew such qualities existed. I'd had private
regular sexual activity as far back as my young life knew.


Sex was taken from me but not my virginity. My virginity was my own, I'd
claimed this as something that could not be taken from me. I gave my virginity
to a bad boy. A bad boy who treated me good and agreed to meet
me after school for sex. All I had to do was ask.

I needed to give myself to Billy. Billy was my first. Billy was a choice.
Our sex was a planned, choice. Billy was the first person I got to choose to
have sex with. Billy was the first boy whom I wanted to share my body with.
Billy was my first. Billy took my virginity and I handed it to him on a silver
platter. Take me now. It wasn't about pleasure, it was about choice.
I came alive, not in orgasm, but in choice, it was simply powerful to be able
to choose sex and want it.

As a girl I was robbed of choice. Billy on the other hand, he let me come to
him and ask for sex. Billy, 14 maybe 15 years and he already knew not to push
a girl into wanting him. Billy let me come to him in my own time and it was by
doing this that he owned my heart. He let me have a voice for my sex &
sexuality. Billy taught me what others had never shown me when in pursuit of
their own pleasure. Billy listened, he cared, then he got the girl.


I loved Billy with all my heart and thought the world would end, when our
relationship ended. Of course the world didn't end, but my relationship with
Billy did.

Since Billy and my childhood I've gained a powerful loud voice for my sexuality
and fallen in love many more times over.

just another tourist

After a long, hot drive along the I5 corridor earlier today, my daughter and I have landed safely in Seattle. Arriving in a few hours ago, we stopped off at Allena's place in Queen Ann, leaving our bags behind and caught our breath, finally able to cool off some.

Once rested, we were right back out the door and off to the Pike Place Market to see some flying fish, brilliant colors for flowers and the masses of tourists, who like us, were there to savor this final Friday of the summer.

Now back at Bella's as the heat was just to much for us out there in the world. A family show on tv, a few e-mails and once the sun goes down a little, we plan on heading out again for sushi at our favorite neighborhood restaurant. I'm eager to sit myself down and eat till I've no room left.

Tomorrow I've got two classes to teach at "The Gathering, Wet Spot In Paradise", Cock Sucking: the Hand Job, Blow Job class and Erotic Wax & Ice Play.

Since Allena stays at WSIP for the duration, my daughter and I have her condo to ourselves.

Days like this one remind me of how blessed I am and that by making good choices I've permitted such opportunities for myself and my family to enjoy life.

in a day

This afternoon I had an appointment at the Skin Care Center at VGH, my case & symptoms finally warranting a referral to this city specialist. New prescriptions in hand, the physician eased my mind and sent me back out the office door a mere 15 minutes later. What professionalism he exuded. I sure value a Doctor with an excellent bed side manner and punctuality. Doctor was a pleasant surprise, medical outcome & treatment more hopeful.

This evening before dinner, a knock on the door and it was the landlord on behalf of the property management group. Handing me a white piece of paper, asking for my signature and giving me 90 days notice of a rent increase. Damn this sucks the big one.

Home now from teaching this evening's How To Look and Feel Sexy class at The Love Nests Burnaby store. Feet up on the sofa, answering e-mails before bed while watching the evening news.

banned commercial

In light of my teaching my Forbidden Fantasies: Role Playing In The Bedroom class at Saturday's Naughty Party, a party attendee sent me a link afterwards she thought I'd enjoy.

It's a link to you tube and a short, 45 second hilarious Ikea commercial that never made it to TV and you'll soon see why!

It's a good belly laugh for those of us that do role play AND that are parents as well.

in passing

My father phoned a short while ago and when my daughter anwered he started sobbing, unable to speak passing the phone to my mother. My daughter spoke to my mom for about a minute before the phone was passed to me. I knew what was going to be said next.

My grandfather finally passed away, he'd been hanging on for the last few months and today was his day to leave us. Dying on his own, peacefully in a care home, minutes from my folks. When my dad got to him after his passing, he still had a smile on his face.

With everyone around me in tears & hurting, it's time for me to hold my family together for awhile.

day off

I awoke this morning to my daughter laying in bed next to me smiling, gently nudging me. Wake Up! We're going to PNE today! With sun shining in the windows, we flung back the covers and started our day.

Woke at a leisurely pace, then we were out of the house without doing a stitch of house work and off to the Fair for the whole day.

Parked at dear Hughs house, he lives a block and a half block away from PNE and made our way straight into the main gates as we had picked up tickets in advance from Safeway.

What fun we had. The joint pig and duck show is a must see each year for us and a real riot. The dog show is spectacular and such a crowd pleaser. (although sad & different this year with Herb now retired and gone) The diving team had a thrilling performance and the dance troupes all out did themselves. Street performers were all offering differing acts and managing to hold a crowd. Lucky us.

Parade was short and sweet, we even managed seats on a bench. Horse and carriage ride was a great way to spend a loonie and to get us off our feet for 15 minutes. The food was over priced yet we had to indulge and the air filled with wonderful aromas while me munched down yummy treats. A few games suckered us in and yet we came out ahead with stuffed cheap plushies as rewards to our stellar efforts.

The crowds as always were sexy and I of course ran in to many people who recognized me, or who I knew. Some show was cancelled at the last minute and so in it's place was a magic and illusions show which had us mesmerized from start to end. What a fitting way to end our day.

Today was a good day.

good night