email difficulties

A gorgeous day and my sweetie was up and out with me to enjoy it. Seeing as he was going from a day shift to an overnight shift you can imagine my surprise and delight to be savoring the day alongside him.

We conquered household chores and even ventured out of the house to take care of some business. It makes doing life's not-so enjoyable tasks more enjoyable to not have to do them alone anymore. Sharing the responsibilities with another adult is very freeing on so many levels.

I've had my share of e-mail stress and woes the last two, three years now. I have had problems with my ISP, difficulties with the Host of my website, mail program disasters and an assortment of other absurd web related problems, but nothing beats the most recent screw up.

Blogger, which is the Program I use to publish my Blog, is considered now to be Spam. All of Blogger, not just my Blog.

Read more from my handsome web support guy...

The reason that some of your messages (and replies to those messages) are being blocked is simply because your emails contain the address of your blog. Mail scanners scan your email for links, and then check those links against blacklists. Because Blogger addresses are included in the Spamhaus blacklist, any email you send containing the address of your blog will be blocked by any mail server that uses the Spamhaus blacklist. And then, if someone replies to a message you've sent that includes the address of your blog, their message will also be blocked -- although people whose ISPs are using Spamhaus probably won't receive your messages anyway, so they are unlikely to be replying to a message from you unless it's an old one.

To mitigate this problem rather fast this is what's been created, rather inelegant (quoting handsome web guy), but it works

http://www.libidoevents.com/blogredirect.html

the new link that will go in all my mail- outs. We have a site turn over in November and when this happens, my Blog moves to WordPress (off of Blogger) and will be hosted on the Libido Events and Libido Lounge new sites finally.

This answers many things for me and helps me to understand why so much of my mail was apparently not reaching it's intended destination and clients emails not arriving to me.

With this glitch dealt with, I'm about ready to get back to other more pressing adventures. Like having sex & getting spanked and yes......opening Libido Lounge.

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Waves at David in Calgary!!! Hello, I received your envelope in the mail, I will email you in a day or two. Thank you for thinking of me, I am reminded of you as well from time to time.

Electrical Sex

If truth be told I finally gathered the strength and motivation to get myself out of bed at the ghastly hour of 3pm. Don't get me wrong, I did awake a few times over the day thus far. I woke once to pee, another to answer the phone and once more to check the computer briefly, before heading right back to the world of deep slumber. When RC moved in, with him came a new pillow top bed, sleeping on it is dreamy. Oh how my body and mind need sleep, and again today, the house to myself.

Last night was Rascals and we made it there shortly after they opened. Apparently my ensemble garnished me such compliments as classy and sophisticated. Me thinks this has to do more with the shoes, purse and panties matching in brilliant purple, and allowing one to be noticed rather than melting into the depths of darkness.

Our community has a love affair with black, it is the color that the doom and gloom crowd wear as there staple. I like black, but enough already, I can play and be Dominant or play and bottom and wear pink, yellow, purple, or polka dots, it does not change one bit how I play.

From the moment we walked in to the place, we were swamped in people saying hi, grabbing hugs, giving kisses, making offers of play, it was as always simply overwhelming just making it through the doorway and into the main area through all the people. We had not even put down our bags.

We talked briefly with a few people then I saw an opening. We hit the dungeon floor fast. There was a long low bondage table available that looked just about right for what I had in mind for RC.

Once he was naked sitting up on the table, and I had his cock taped with leads to the tens unit, I started to get excited. He, not so much. He was looking nervous. Time went by fast as it tends to when one is having fun. It didn't take long in the scene for me to feel RC losing control. It was intense physical sensations for him, and in public.

With the tens unit of his perineum and cock, there was still a great amount of sensitive flesh covering his lower abdomen or love trail as some call it. I took that skin and clamped in down with clothes pegs, in two solid rows of eight. Then I closed six more pegs around the head of his cock [the corona] and finally we were ready to start some action.

There is a lot of energy in a 9 volt battery. RC's boy bits found this out fast. I of course quite enjoyed holding the controls to this little box of fun.

I flogged and strapped his back some, but it wasn't cutting it for me. What was missing was his face, I needed the connection with him, to see his journey. Coming back round to face him, I found myself staring in the eyes of someone who was trying hard to retain his composure yet who was losing control of himself fast.

Within minutes of adjusting the dials to pulses not before reached, and my boy was levitated off the table. He went over the top, losing himself to the scene and the moment. Before I even saw what has happening his hands had flown between his legs and he was ripping the leads off of his cock and throwing them to floor.

Triumphant in his feat, the electrical torture ended and what followed was exactly what was needed. (well after I removed all the clothes pegs from him) We packed up our gear, went and caught our breath, then left and drove straight home to bed with one another and a good loving cuddle.

relaxing

A day at home. T is at her dads for the weekend, and RC is at work for the day. A whole day on my own. Aside from packing a toy bag for later tonight and prepping myself for our evening out, I have nothing special on the calendar to complete.

It could be said that I have already celebrated today as being Saturday, by taking a luxurious 2-hour long nap. Then laid out in bed, I pondered greatly the items necessary to pack into my toy bag to give RC a new experience and to perhaps play with some hottie, should someone strike my or our fancy at Rascals later tonight.

I'm off to make us some dinner so we can eat as soon as the guy walks in the door from work. A quick shower and change for him and then straight to the party, since I am already done readying myself. We plan on making an early evening of it, coming home before midnight seeing as someone has to work again at 7 a.m.

I love my guy and my life.

sex activism Vancouver

City Hall is really really making things a challenge right now. And no, I am not talking about Surrey either. It's another City that is grating me the wrong way right now. It's a zoning issue, it's a parking issue, it's the egress, it's the electrical, it's the [insert issue] here type of continuous scenario. Anyways this was the entirety of my morning and left me in a not so happy mood.

Off to get my toes painted again at the mall. It really is an indulgence. They look super pretty which makes me happy. And after my morning, this was an excellent choice of a pick me up.

Then off to pick up T. from her Orthodontics appointment and her exciting day at a Leadership conference up near Metrotown. We hung out together for the next few hours tackling life's necessities. Once home, I packed for my evening class and jumped into the shower to to refresh myself for the night ahead. It was a day certainly running on a close clock.

Class was a blast. I was in my own neighborhood, teaching a basic sex education class to all these new-to-me women. They were in age from 26 - 35 I believe. Two were married, a couple were mothers, the rest were not. A wonderful giggly group of women. Everyone wanted to learn general sex info and also they shared a theme of wanting to get more knowledge on achieving orgasm faster and more intensely. We just blew through two and half hours of information so fast, that I ended up staying late as the women were just starting to warm up, as I was packing up.

This class, unlike so many others I teach, was truly a very basic and general sex education class. One that the contents of, belong in a Grade 10 mandatory sex class to all pupils, both boys and girls. Every adult woman, should know and be able to identify her own genitalia by naming each piece with her own fingertips. Sadly so many adult women do not even know the correct words to identify their vulva's with, let alone to pass on the proper language to their own children. It is a tad bit disheartening to me as a mother to hear another mother say, that at 3 her daughter is too old to be seeing her father naked because she might ask questions about his boy parts. I am fairly sure she was talking about "the penis" so I did not ask for clarification. I find it equally heart wrenching that for many women their sole orgasmic experience with their vulva is that which their own partner gives them, and that is if they are even that fortunate.

I've been empowered surrounding my sexuality for a long time now, and in control of my own pleasure. For this has been one of the greatest gifts of my adult hood. Blissful orgasmic ecstatic pleasure at my own hand. Not at the hand of a lover, no other person involved. My being able to make love to me. With a toy, or my own hand. I have it in me, to do this for myself. Not by fluke. Not by accident. But because I took responsibility for it, for my own bliss. There came a time when I couldn't rely on another, when I needed to know how. There came a time when it was important enough for me to really get to know myself.

I spread my legs before a mirror many moons ago now, years in fact, and started learning the correct words for my girl bits. With this knowledge I gained strength. I passed this strength on to T, she won't be one of those women spreading her legs for some partner in her adult hood and being reliant on them for her both a glimpse of what she may look like down there as well as her pleasure. No, she like me, will claim her own! This is a legacy that is so important for me to bestow upon her.

I wish all parents would give their children the gift of sexual knowledge, it's power. Teach your children what's between their legs, teach them the difference between the sexes and celebrate this information together. Living in shame of one's genitals, or even showing them at home or asking questions about them, that is just a breeding ground for ignorance, further shame, exploitation potential and a growth stunt in sexual development.

And society wonders why young people [hell, adults in general] make mistakes when left alone with own another, their own idle curiosities about sex and their bodies. Everyone wants to feel good and most people don't even know how to go about it. Or if they do know how to give themselves pleasure, they are so limited in what works for them by preference, or worse, what is morally acceptable to them that the options are sparse. The people I meet in classes are starved for information, so much so that they don't even realize that to answer their questions, you have to explain to them first the unique names of each of there genital complexes and other concepts that are foreign to them as well.

This is my job, sex-positive activism.

Naked Pirate Girls

There was a group of women here at the house for the last few hours. Tonight was the kinky clothing exchange, gossip and girl time evening that had been on the agenda for the past few weeks.

We ate and talked.

We giggled and tried on fetish gear.

Drinks were served by RC in my new monogrammed apron, it is also how he greeted all the women at the door.

Kat was trying on a pirate top so I put on her head my pirate hat that I brought back from Disneyland last October.


It was good to catch up with friends.

grabbing my pillow

I am exhausted.

Sleep is the obvious answer though not the long term solution. Life keeps getting in my way.

RC spent today down at Wreck beach. I spent today at home, working.

In five minutes it is my plan to announce...

"Good Night, I am off to bed."

In search of...

I need a driver and a vehicle. A big closed in cube truck.


You will need to be available on Saturday September 22 for about 90 minutes.


You will also need to be available on Sunday September 23 for about 90 minutes.


There is a generous bonus for the person who assists us with this project.


Please contact me immediately with your name and contact info.


jennifer@libidoevents.com

Additions

I am working on two new classes.

It has taken some time to organize my thoughts after reading all the material I've felt necessary to review before putting together my outline. The volume of content I have covered over the last couple of weeks has been substantial.

With the outline as the next step in the process, I am feeling pleasantly surprised and overwhelmed by all that I have learned over the years.

There was a time when I could not have held a conversation on sex for more than 20 minutes, and now I speak sex [almost] fluently, by topic and alphabetical as well.

These new classes are more advanced classes, designed for those wanting more from their pre - existing play.

Once completed and ready for the curriculum, it will be time to put the classes on the calendar.

Already I have two separate facilities wanting these finished so they can have me in to teach for there groups and events.

The last six months have been a time of real growth for me as an educator, the accolades from the outside, unprompted have helped me to believe what so many others had been telling me for so long. I am really good and very skilled at what I do.

Some time over the next week I hope to be ready to unveil these exciting classes and a new presentation style to compliment each of them.

Sundays Sex Education

Just returned home a short while ago from my two SOLD OUT classes in Surrey. What a fantastic day I had.

My job is so rewarding and has so many benefits, I am blessed to be surrounded by such a wonderful community.

The Cock Sucking class was oversold by two couples, so four people, making it very full. We handled it well, all of us fitting in together and making it through the 90 minutes. The group was eager to learn and most everyone learned new ideas or techniques.

Next came the lunch break, which was much needed to refuel us. Kat put out a delicious spread of food and people ate from the buffet while taking there plates outside to enjoy the garden and day.

Then it was time for Pussy Licking and another full class. I gathered everyone and brought them in to the workshop room again. The women were soon more vocal in their pleasures than the stoic men were during there turn.


I saw more twitching cocks, pinched perky nipples, eyes rolled back in heads, backs arched, engorged labia and smelled way more arousal in a room than I have for quite awhile on this holy of days, Gods Day. Sunday.

Happy Sunday to all who were in class with me, or to all who were off practicing on your own somewhere.

Due to there being a waiting list for my classes, Kat's has decided to have me back twice in the month of October with more education and interactive classes.

Watch the calendar.

Sin City photos

A photo snapped early on, during our night out. Notice my pasties.A photo I took at nights end of RC, notice my pasties!

In Demand

Earlier this afternoon RC and I did a quick little porno photo shoot out on the porch. Most of the images are for our personal collection only, though this one I rather favor.


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Just got off the phone with Katt, the woman who runs the facility that I'll be teaching at this Sunday. I'll be presenting two separate classes in the afternoon, both fully-interactive as well.

The offerings are Cock Sucking and Pussy Licking.

Due to overwhelming response, each class is now SOLD OUT.

17 couples signed up for Cock Sucking and another 14 couples signed up for Pussy Licking.

There is now a wait list for each of these classes.

I'm thrilled to be able to offer such empowering education for so many people.

There is already a sign-up sheet for my October classes of Butt Sex and The G-Spot. Get your name on the list early, or you'll regret it.

Kat's Fantasies Surrey, BC


Cost $40 couple (includes lunch & club tour)


Register: katsfantasies@shaw.ca - address & driving instructions given at time of registration

life notes #12789

After a wee bit of stress, I managed to successfully move the mailing list over to a different server today and load the address book into a new program. This a task that has been long over due, I am elated at it's completion.

It took me a little longer than expected, but I also updated the website with some information that was pressing.

With no reason to wear clothes I spent today naked around the house while working. The sun beckoned me to relax outside in the chaise lounger then I made my way inside for a long soak in the tub.

With plenty of items vying for my attention, it seemed only appropriate that I center myself with some masturbation. A Big O as a reward for all my efforts thus far today.

All in all, it's been a rather full day.

getting back on track

Since we were away at Sex Camp with no phones or computers, the back log of work facing me upon my return was astonishing. It's taken a couple of days to figure things out and now I'm just trying to catch up. I find it difficult to deal with emails when there are hundreds of them, it seems so daunting as though I'll never be able to crawl out of the depths of peoples questions long enough to breathe.

The Fall Schedule needs to be written and loaded up to the web, it's an on going battle with HTML that grates me the wrong way. City Hall and I have a couple of pressing long-overdue appointments and low and behold, I have a number of private events booked that are taking from my spare time as I prepare for them.

Interestingly enough I have been hired by a group of women who all reside right in the heart of my neighborhood and want a specialized sex ed. class for themselves to add zing back into their relationships. Most likely is I'm going to walk into this gig and find myself face to face with some mothers from my daughters school or simply other women who I know from our hood, seeing as we've lived here for 14 years now. T's eyes simply rolled at the mere mention of.

Last night RC made love to me, and I made love to him. It was exquisitely beautiful, the euphoria that we floated on as we rolled around in the bed as one. Magnificently breathtaking were the moments that rolled into minutes of pleasure. It was the low noises emitting from my lips, that made me believe that I was being loved like never before. It's a wonder that we're together.

We made a stop at DressSew to pick up some supplies and now we're locked away creating new kinky outfits for our happy perverted selves. RC is sewing a pair of boy shorts right now, and I am making four different sets of elaborate pasties.

Life is good and I am blessed.

routine returns

As a mother, I am always grateful for this day. The day after Labor Day. The day the children go back to school.

Today is T's first day of Grade 9. Yet it seems like only a few short months ago I was taking her to preschool.

Time has flown so fast for me a parent. It's an excellent reminder to slow down.

RC, T and I are having conversations about the next little person that will be around our home. That we are readying for a baby reminds me of how far I've come raising a teenager on my own and how far we've got to go to bring another child into this world together.

Sex Camp After Thoughts

We found ourselves completely immersed in the experience of letting go of our outside world trappings and savoring the wonder of where we were in the here and now. Let me tell you, Adult Sex Camp is a whole lot of fun.

We prepared well for our six summer nights of sleeping in a tent and roughing it. (so to speak) Our tent sleeps eight, so it's rather large for RC and I alone. There was a comfy futon bed set up with sheets, pillows and a cozy comforter for us to sleep upon and another area for all of our personal gear to be laid out. And another corner as my class prep - the whole lay-out worked great.

Our second sun screen room had curtains to filter the sun on the sides and a carpet on the bottom, of course front at center, was our massage table. I bought earlier a small table for teaching / camping and it was set up as well, the coolers and beer beneath. It seems we brought a fair bit of supplies, more so than we'd ever use, but at least we were prepared.

The entire staked out area of our campsite was marked with four large tiki torches and of course, Canadian flags. I was so elated listening to our ipod's on the new portable speaker system, it was enchanting, along with the aroma therapy that was lit at night.

Of course we found ourselves camped out along side a whole whack of other Canadians, that we knew. Sharing campfire stories with them all, and meeting so many new people as well, was just fabulous. The late night fire time captivated me, as it always has. All attached to wonderful childhood memories of summer bible camp I'm sure. The songs and music were so touching, wow, listening to friends voices, I was in awe of there range. Together as a group we sure grooved.

Most of our time was spent sans clothing, just like at home. The weather was magnificent, quite hot actually, so nudity worked well, though at night when the temperature dropped I was clothed from head to toe in layers of warmth.

I swam a fair bit in the pool, yet never made it to either of the hot tubs. One night RC's butt was lit on fire (for play) and then he jumped into the pool in the dark with his butt aglow, it was a night not to be forgotten that's for sure.

I taught four classes. Butt Sex - 27 people. Teasing - 18 people. Cock Sucking - 54 people. Pussy Licking 45 people. Plus I led a Women's Masturbation Ritual. Goodness I was busy teaching up a storm and coaching people to discover new pleasure. I keep having people tell me how talented I am as an educator, I know it's true, yet I struggle to recognize when I arrived to this place. There was a time when I was so unsure of my capabilities, not anymore. What I don't understand about myself now, is what it is that finally made it all come together.

Had sex outdoors with RC all under the easy gaze of friends. Bottomed in a scene with Bella to TWO very mean men. Invited another couple to our tent one morning for a little impromptu sex play, and bingo if it wasn't a success. Made-out with many wonderfully sexy women, but two in particular keep springing to mind. RC and I were invited to two different flattering future play dates and dang if we don't plan on taking up the offer.

We slept a lot, going to bed fairly early and rolling out of our tent and one an other's arms late morning after breakfast each day. Showering outdoors and air drying brought me back to nature.

There was however not one minute that didn't seem to be filled with someone itching for my attention. Either in class, or following me along awaiting answers to life's sex questions, I was mobbed by people constantly. I love my job and who I have become, but when away for a week with fellow kinksters, the expectation that I be "on" every day, sure does become a daunting task.

I've acquired two new t-shirts in the last while, both being appropriate for me to wear where we were.

1. Girls Lick Pussy Better
2. I taught your girlfriend that thing that you like.


Sex Camp was fantastic as was 6 days away with RC from the real world. Now I am thrilled to be home for a while and not teaching.

Presents and Gifts. RC brought me a dozen red roses at camp. Bella gave me a new Tink hat box and the cutest ever pink apron for a some to be completed costume for my collection. Tali bestowed me with a beautiful new sarong. Another a new pair of new high black pvc boots. A paddling spoon, a box of chocolates and a great number of massages. I am blessed to be surrounded by such love and friends.

return home

Just a few short hours ago we returned from what was "an inspiring time away".

It took us slightly over two hours to unload and unpack everything and now we are almost all settled in.

I am so grateful to be home to my daughter, my bed and my country. Three things that I never want to be without for very long.

Tomorrow after some serious sleep tonight, I'll write about where we were, what we did, and a few of the highlights.

vacation

The vehicle is all packed and we are ready to hit the road. We leave for SIX days in Paradise in just a few minutes. There will be no cell phones, no t.v., nor computer use for us. We will be incommunicado and savoring every last bloody minute of it. I can't wait to get out of here.

We are off to Paradise, "adult sex camp".

Good-bye.

clothes lead to gossip

If you are reading this, are a woman and we are friendly enough that you believe I may give you my home address so you can attend the below noted special event, then drop me an email and tell me who you are.



Otherwise the invites to this private women-getting-naked together event have all gone out!


Stories to follow.

Hey there Girlfriend,

After doing a thorough clean-out of all of my clothing I discovered that I have an awful lot of good quality women's clothing that I either

a. do not want any longer
b. do not fit into any longer

A small amount of this clothing is day wear. The bulk of this clothing is sexy clothes. It would appear that what I am getting rid of alone is a small collection and I am happy to see it leave me.

This got me to thinking that you too likely have clothing that no longer needs to be taking space in your closet or drawers.

You are invited to my place for an evening of Drinks, Chatter, Clothes (Exchange / Swap / Sale) and a general Social Night for Women Only.

Please bring your gently worn

1. Club Wear - dresses, skirts, body suits
2. Leather
3. Corsets / Waist Cincher / Bustiers
4. High Heel Shoes, Boots
5. Gloves, Stockings / Hats
6. Bags / Totes
7. Sex Books / DVD's
8. Costumes, Fantasy Wear
9. Lingerie
10. Accessories - belts, harnesses etc
11. Toys - BDSM, Sex

Sell your clothing. Trade your clothing. Give it away.

Bring your old stuff and leave with some new stuff. Let if have a new life.

Do NOT bring garbage bags of clothing. Bring items either on hangers, or pre folded. There will be areas set up for you to lay out your goods and other areas for changing.

With so many wonderfully diverse friends by culture, age, tastes and size there will surely be just an OUTRAGEOUS amount of goodies for everyone to leave with some new booty!


September 13 Thursday 6:30 - 9:00


If you are interested in taking part, send me an email and let me know. I'll ensure you are on the guest list and that you receive the address.

There will be a bartender for the evening and appetizers.

Looking forward to having many of you over for this little soiree.

warmly, Jennifer

ps. Feel free to ASK me first before you invite someone along, as this is my home I am reserving attendance to only those whom I am comfortable with. - j

getting things done

As I've been under-the-weather the last few days, today was yet another sleep in day. It was quarter past noon when I rolled on top of of RC and told him that we should get up and face the day.

I made us a great brunch and we ate naked in the dining room together. Then as I worked around the house tackling a number of small chores, RC headed out to do some errands.

There was a call from T, home sick as anything. And nothing I could do for her over the phone except love her from afar. Its her time away on holidays with her dad [and family] and the time is a little much for her coupled with the fact that she was away from me for so long on her trip to Mexico. Made me sad to hear my daughter so choked up about being away from me. Again more love from afar and assurances of our soon reunion.

Then packing time as I had to ready for my evening Pussy Licking class. There I was loading all the accouterments into a bag so I could pull off such a spectacular class. I drove RC to work, then got my self to the store.

It was a wonderful group. A dozen people, two women and myself. We covered a lot of ground, and managed even to answer some off-topic, though related-to-sex questions. I stayed late at nights end to talk to a couple who seemed to be very flirtatious in class and rather personable.

Finally getting in a short while ago, I left my bags at the door and made myself naked quickly. Opening and checking emails and soon I am off to bed.

I have a grand feeling of accomplishment today.

Pussy Licking class Burnaby BC

NOT TO BE MISSED

August 26 Sunday 7:30 - 9:30pm
Pussy Licking Good
presented by Jennifer
The Love Nest, 4687 Kingsway Burnaby, BC
Cost $25 per person, pay at the door
Open to men & women, couples and singles

From the silky caress of your warm wet tongue lapping her labia, you'll soon feel more powerful and in control and she'll know you've got her pleasure in mind. With using but a few of the tips and techniques that Jennifer will demonstrate and share in this class you'll come away more confident in your cunnilingus and inspired to share what you've learned. Of course we’ll discuss a woman's arousal process and her clitoral, vaginal and G-Spot anatomy to empower you with maximum pleasure giving information.


*please bring a notebook & pen to class, this class is non participatory though includes excellent in-class demos for technique building