Women's Naughty Party AGAIN

A quick note to tell you that I've booked the next Women's Only Naughty Party. The evening is scheduled to happen soon...

Friday March 9 2007
9:00 p.m. - 1:00 a.m
$30 per woman
Tickets at the door, cash only
hot tub, dancing, sex rooms, dungeon, lounge, pole dancing
no liquor, this is a dry event
sexy games to get you acquainted and woman everywhere
Venue: 11041 River Road N Delta Club Eden

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Club Eden has hired me again to teach my couples class Sensual Play for Lovers on April 15 a Sunday, it will be a blast to teach this sexy class in such a classy space.

Just got off the phone with Dragon Fly's Den in Surrey and they hired me for an additonal class on March 30. Sandi and I network well together and even manage a laugh over local politics regularly, today being no exception.

I'm also updating the Libido Events calendar right now with all of these new events and a Cock Sucking class as well, because the demand for it is huge. I can hardly keep up to all the mail from people wanting the cock sucking class, so back on the calendar it goes, again.

weekend festivities

Friday was a whirlwind of a day. 4 hours in coaching with a client in Surrey, then my dinner date at The Sandbar with RC. A fast return home to pick up my car so I could grab my daughter from the end of the play she was performing in at nights end. We came home together and were soon to bed as we were each exhausted.

Saturday was up early as I had to return my daughter to the make-up department by 11 am to ready her for the two performances they gave that afternoon and evening. Then some shopping for odd supplies to ready for my evening's Sensual Play class at Dragon Fly's Den. Grocery shopped, got to the bank, sent out a mail-out, had hot phone sex with RC, then packed for my evening's class.

My mother made a surprise appearance to see the granddaughters show and then came back here for a very short visit in between performances bringing with her of course my daughter. My mother has the capacity to really be intrusive in my and my daughters life, I had to tell her today to back off some.

Gear packed into an huge suitcase on wheels, we made our way down to the car just in time to make all my time deadlines to ensure we handled all of our responsibilities. Dropping the fairy back off at the theater, I made a bee-line straight for RC's. I quickly fell emotionally drained into his arms for half an hour while I unloaded on him being comforted. Then I ravaged the man. Well, after I gave him the keys to free his cock of the lock and cage which had surrounded it for over 24 hours.

Quickly I dressed for my work night and then off we went. It was nice to have someone drive me to work, especially RC. Arrived to find most everyone at the club already awaiting the class, so I just dropped to my knees next to my suitcase and started readying the room for Sensual Play, the interactive version.

I paired everyone off and then blindfolded half the room, they did things to one another, all the while not touching or exposing any genitals. It was intense, intoxicating, fun, progressive for teaching sex, relaxing, sexy, sensual and eye opening, not just for me but for those who were there. As a class, they respected one another well and allowed me the chance to take them on a journey. The trust I was given, the trust that I am constantly given is overwhelming to me, it speaks volumes to my work.

After a 5 minute break, the other half of the room was blindfolded and had various other and some same things done to them sensually, erotically and intentionally all led by me. It was a class I was proud of.

Then I packed up all my gear with the help of RC (who was screaming hot wearing tighty boy shorts) and put everything back into my suitcase. We zipped it closed along with all traces of me as Libido Events and went and joined the party as party goers after tucking the bag away.

We had such intense times emotionally & physically together that RC found bottom space. How cool is that! We were gone early in the night, yet we did so much that the bruises are just now starting to really shine on my guys bum and back.

Today, Sunday I packed my daughter and RC into my car and off we drove to Cypress Bowl to go Tubing for the afternoon. We had a blast together and it was such a great day to be on a mountain with snow. Returned home in time for me to leave for my evenings class on Polyamory and Multi Partnered Relationships at The Love Nest in Burnaby. Sunday classes are from 6-8 so I was sitting in my living room talking to my daughter again my 8:30.

Tonight with RC at work, my daughter sleeping in the next room, I have the chance to finally try and wade through the emails that are just now starting to arrive regularly within my in-box again.

phone sex & cock bondage Vancouver

Last night we had reservations for dinner at The Sandbar on Granville Island. Try as I might to recall the ambiance, I'm drawing a big stupid blank. RC had me mesmerized from beginning to end of the meal, it was a wonderful dinner date.

Before leaving the restaurant, RC excused himself to the men's room with something I'd given him tucked discreetly in his pants pocket. Minutes later he returned to the table sporting a big grin and hand in hand we left together for the car.

Once outside it was all I could do to keep my hands out of his pants. He was wearing a cock-cage and it was locked on him soundly with a small padlock. The keys of course were in my possession.

After I had an orgasm or two in the parking lot and conversations that left me breathless, I really did offer the man the keys to the lock encasing his penis. He declined.

RC drove me home and we made our plans for tonight at Dragon Flys Den out in Surrey. I'm teaching my Sensual Play class there and then we plan on playing. (and he gets his Valentines Day surprise from me)

I phoned handsome this morning to say hello and to check on the state of his cock. Unable to masturbate, or stroke himself in any satisfactory manner, his cock is longing for release. In more ways than one.

To be kind to him, since I was um, hearing his struggle, I decided to masturbate. Through the phone I talked him through step by visual step of my using a heavy glass dildo on myself and then my Hitatchi Magic Wand for an orgasm that was just waiting to escape out of me. I got off, and his trembling penis, tried to jut out the end of the locked cage, but alas, nothing more. Later tonight he knows what he has to do to have himself freed from the bondage to his cock.

If my camera were not broken I'd take a photo and show you two things. First the new bustier and panties in red for Valentines Day that RC gave me and secondly the pile of stuff I need to pack for tonight's Sensual Play class to make it work...

• Pillows
• Sheets
• Towels
• Music
• Strawberries
• Chocolate Sauce
• Scrubbers
• Ice
• Bamboo Skewers
• Massage Oils
• Floggers
• Vibrators
• Clit Gel / Penis cream
• Clothes Pegs
• Restraints
• Gags
• Blindfolds
• Duct Tape

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partnerships

I'm being seen. As a woman, I'm being transparent. As a lover I'm in awe and held in awe.

I want things in this new relationship between RC & I that are new for me to voice. Finding the words to express ones self is difficult for me, I do have a lot of internal dialogue going on, trying to capture the right sentiment first, before opening my mouth and coming out with some silly comment.

I'm treated very well by my friends, lover, acquaintances and feel blessed to be surrounded by such a variety of well rounded people. This is so different though. I'm adored. Together we fit. We are captivated by the other and "us".

I have no frame-work to do this relationship from. It's not based on D/s. It's a partnership. This is not something I have experience with. Welcome to a leg of this blog and my life where I gain voice for myself in some unfamiliar territory. A new relationship.

I have a boyfriend.

a few choice words

Kiss my wings Tink!

That's exactly what my new t-shirt says with a rather righteous Tinkerbell screen printed across the front.

How appropriate.

man love

Tonight I've spent the last 3 1/2 hours talking to the two most currently important men in my life. Each of them has left me speechless.

RC and I have time planned together and then Reive and I have some time together.

These two really know how to make a woman happy.

I feel remarkably blessed to be in love with one and quickly falling for the other in a way that I've never done before.

DNA & Sex

Powder blue matching bustier and panties with sleek 5 inch blue heels on. He arrived at my door, looking suave and handsome and caught by surprise at my outfit, I thought. Pleasantly surprised of course.

Sitting on the sofa in my bedroom, I told him to remove his clothes while standing before me. I wanted to see him get naked and watch the show he'd become for me, oh sweet eye-candy.

Shirt, shoes, pants removed and underwear remained on as per my instructions. Turn around, once, twice, oh my let me get a good long look at you. With his back to me I had him remain standing looking at himself in a mirror with me between his legs from behind him. Trailing my tongue up and down his inner thighs and watching his head roll slightly from side to side, his faint gasps enough to make all of my skin come alive, I am in lust.

Truth be told, in a matter of minutes, he was handcuffed, underwear removed, cock hard as he bent over the sofa in the living room with a very large knife running along the length of his shaft, between his legs. Still very still he became, with a huge smile on his face. The panting was loud and sweat dripped off of each of us.

My purple leather flogger rained down on his back for awhile and now and then I'd consume his cock briefly just to remind him that I'd not forgotten about him. Clamps on his nipples, I pulled on them , with a swift tug; the grimace on his face, excited me greatly.

Plugging his nose while kissing him, spanking him warm red and in that oh so perfect sweet spot, the captivating view of his balls swaying from the impact to his ass.

He caught me inside his arms, locked inside his handcuffed embrace. I ripped off the blindfold, clamps tossed to the floor, the force of energy roaring out of him was breathtaking & beautiful to witness. Kissing, sharing air and gasping together. We rocked for a long time, pelvis to pelvis, grinding. Eyes locked we did deep breathing, until, I came.

We shared orgasms and I ended up with DNA in my hair.

mistake

You won't and don't hear this from me very often, but here it comes.

Today was a fuck-up of a day. The amount of things that I try to make work and balance is a task that I'm ready to fucking share the burden of finally.

Suffice to say, if you feel the same way about my fuck-up of a day, or your part in my evening of it, please drop me an email

jennifer@libidoevents.com

What's worse is that once I get today's fuck-up of a day over with, I am tomorrow now faced with an extraordinary series of personal questions that need answers. Time is of the essence.

Butt Sex & Anal Pleasures class

TONIGHT'S CLASS, SEE YOU THERE....

February 6 Tuesday
7:30 - 9:30pm
Butt Sex & Anal Pleasures
(open to men & women, couples and singles)
presented by Jennifer
Love Nest - 4687 Kingsway, Burnaby
$25 PAY AT DOOR - cash, no need to register
FULL CALENDAR OF EVENTS

Fear not, anal sex advice is here in a practical class to prepare you
for the experience of maximum anal pleasure. Whether you want to dive
in deep or be the one to bend over know that this class will discuss
anal hygiene & anatomy, positions for play, ideas for seducing our
lover to enjoy this treat, products to enhance anal pleasure & orgasms
and also cover ways in which you can slowly add butt play into your
regular sexual repertoire.

The roll of oral-anal stimulation, finger
play, butt plugs and finally the cock for those slow to warm to the
idea of butt sex will be discussed as a journey. Bring your questions
and as a group we'll discuss our collective experiences with this
powerful form of intimacy.

Please bring a notebook & pen to class.

BDSM negotiations

There has been a man in my life for over 9 years whose held a prominent position. One of my oldest and longest lasting kink relationships. Over the years we have travelled down many windy roads together. One of these days I'll post some photos of us together in our younger years. (and tell you the beginning of the story)

Our friendship has seen both joyfully good and negative bad times. We've been fused as one for years in deep friendship unable to make a move without the others approval, adversaries for a few more years that hurt us deeply but where necessary growth & autonomy happened and now we're just friends, equals and mature adults.

Finally over the last while we have each gotten to a place in life where we are looking at one another with a fresh glance and only the future in mind, having grown and become more secure in ourselves.

We're negotiating play together. BDSM and sex. As seperate entities, not combined. I'm not really startled that we're talking about it, just amazed at how long it took us to get to this point of honesty after all these years.

There is a hunger for unity again and more than friendship. A friendship is not enough at this time. We have to go up a level of intimacy. We know this. There is a need to be wrapped up in the other in power and SM.

I want to share who I am with this person who thinks he can contain me then create pain & pleasure in me enough that my masochism and womanhood will be grateful and thankful. He knows of me what he remembers from long ago, a girl before her blossom.

Oh how we have, I have grown since our youthful time spent discovering ourselves side by side. I wonder if he realizes how my masochism and ability to submit has deepened with age. I can summon the place in myself that surrender comes from and this ability to surrender has gone up exponentially having been exploited in play for years.

Should I surrender to him? Should I submit to him? Should we even play together? I thought it would be easy an easy yes or no. We've been toying with the idea for some time, it's been months since we first started kissing, like 8 atleast and it feels good as does he. At first I was worried about how this would impact us as friends and then I realized that I have nothing to loose. Only things to gain. A better understanding of myself, him and perhaps a chance at some play with someone whose been lusting after me for years and needing to let out that pent up sex energy all over me Rrraaa!

On the phone a few minutes ago, I finally asked "when?" When can we have a play date? It appears my eagerness is fondly thought of, though he prefers to take me out on a couple of dates first before he does mean things to me. Lunch mid week to discuss play and what a scene between us will look like, then a couple of dinner dates.

How to be sexy with someone whose been family to me? It's going to be a challenge however I'm confident that we'll just click once we get into scene together. To find my place in play will likely be a challenge, he's going to have to work to aid me in staying in bottom space. His will have to exude his Dominance for me to follow.

He's had me on his mind, thinking about our conversations and flirtations with play. Talking to his partner about me and making sure everyone would be OK with our plans.

He told me he's been fantasizing for years about us being together. This should mean that he'll have a crafty plan with what to do with me.

I must admit I want to switch with him, to do things to him at some point. I have a feeling that I'll end up being able to do this. I believe that I can offer him something big enough that he'll just have to let me Top him. Just once. Though I am not bottoming to him so he will for me. Enough said.

Now I wait and in waiting for our date, I start thinking. Negotiations will be important to me, where we lay out our boundaries together and mutually agree on them.

What am I willing to give him of myself? (at what level do I submit, just as a sensation seeker or as someone looking for a journey and willing to follow, even if it is down a scary and dark path)

What do I want from him in our play? (how do I not want him to interact with me)


What do I need from the scene/play itself? (masochism, spiritual connection, cathartic release, role play, orgasms, etc)

What will be off limits emotionally? (playing with rage, anger, vindictiveness or denial will not be permitted for sure)

physically? sexually? (sorry folks, these are private)

I trust him to do me no harm, but to take me down hard. He'll care for me well in the aftermath, I know him well.

We plan on playing more than once and having a hell of a great time doing it. This post follows a hot & steamy telephone call between him & I.

knife play

A scene between my girl & I...

Mistress,

Last night you asked me what it was about the knife that got me all hot & bothered, and i couldn't answer. i agreed that it was the edge, and it is, the idea of a knife in my cunt *groan* the danger of it all, edge play, yep, i like it. But i think since ive had an hour or 12 to now come down from my floaty its so good & hot & just yeah place, ive got more of an answer for you. Its the trust, the giving myself to you that gets me hot & wet about it(still), the fact that you could have cut me and i would have not only let you but been grateful for it, the submission. The fact that not only did i just open my legs for you but i spread them farther, wider, i wanted you to take me further than ever before, to scare me, to mark me. and you did, i went home last night and showed off my scratches on my legs to Bobby , i woke up this morning and ran my hands along them again feeling the ridges & the hard spots where there are tiny little scabs, i looked at them the redness and it made me smile. yes i know i like confirmation of our play i know i like the bruises but this time its different, its cutting, its opening my skin, its making me bleed, its more dangerous. The other thing that made me so hot last night was looking up and seeing you so intent but also seeing the same look in your eyes that i knew was in mine, the fact that you knew i was yours right then & there. So thank you for last night, i'll be honest i'm still crossing & uncrossing my legs while i sit here thinking about it, it was hot i dont think that i will ever be able to replay that exact moment of knowing that you were holding a knife in my cunt (or as close to it as we could get) that i was literally putting all of my trust in your hands. so now i'm going to sit here and try to work while the image & rememberance of cold steel held tightly in your hand being pushed & slapped & run against my hot wet pink cunt keeps reverberating in my brain.

humbly yours,

girl

outlines & being sought after

Today has been full and busy for me. I was up bright and early despite my serious need of some healing sleep, my body is exhausted and my head hurts lately.

Wrapped in a blanket I sat at the kitchen table working for 4 hours all the while digging myself out of the back log of emails and work that pile up around me swiftly.

A Coaching Session by phone this afternoon and by the time this appointment was over I was feeling drained.

Masturbated myself. Pillows propping me up. Towel underneath me to catch my wetness & ejaculation. Bunny fur mitt rubbed all over my body. Warm lubricant dripped between my labia lips. A multi speed and directional bunny vibrator inside my vagina while an external toy worked my clitoris. All that was on my mind was my guy doing to me things that I wanted, yet never even knew to ask for. His creativity in playing me has me swooning like a teen-ager.

This email came today

Good Afternoon Jennifer,

My name is Matt and I am the Manager @ XXXX in Victoria. I have heard many, many great things about you and I would be very interested in bringing you over to do some of your fabulous workshops here @ our store in Victoria! If that is a possibility, I would love some more information from you about your rates and availability etc. You can contact me @ XXX XXX XXXX Monday to Friday @ XXXX or by email @ XXX@hotmail.com anytime. I look very forward to hearing from you. Thanks so much.

Have a beautiful day, Matt

How flattering to have a store come to me because of my reputation, as opposed to me trying to pimp myself out for work. I'm fortunate to have such wonderful working relationships with all of the stores that I do business that new stores just write me looking for my Erotic Arts Curriculum.

I've already sent this new store three classes and two different dates. This means watch for me in Victoria teaching in the next few months and then make sure you get your tickets early because my "on the road" classes have a tendency to sell-out. Go me!

Late this afternoon I picked up my daughter from drama rehearsal and stopped to pick up another package of AAA batteries from the store for my vibrator. I ran it dead earlier. :)

This evening AFTER baking fudge brownies with my daughter, making tacos for dinner, doing a mountain of dishes and having a bath I found a few free minutes to make a dent on each of the outlines for my 4 new classes that I'm desperate to complete writing.

Extended Teasing & The Art Of Foreplay
Strap-It-On and Slide-It-In
Coming Out Of the Closet
A Conversation about Sex

The classes are already up on the calendar and I cleaned the January dates events off of the front page and moved them to the herstory page. If there is some topic you'd like covered under the above subjects please let me know as I'm wanting to ensure these classes are from the get go filled with your ideas and answers to your questions as well as splashed with my own experiences.

RC and I are planning to investigate a local Tantra series together. I have some places I 'm going to look at for us, however does anyone have any suggestions or recommendations?

pacifiers to womanhood, literally

Early in 2006 I ended the D/s part of my relationship with Sir, the man whom I had served and submitted to for so many years.

Part way through the same year I ended the age-play part of our relationship, thus losing the single biggest connection we shared along with my greatest source of comfort.

It was a process of letting go for me. By years end I was ready for an even larger change.

I brought in 2007 with out being owned, without a daddy and finally after 34 years of life feeling like I am a strong woman.

Not new news to me, but perhaps to you.

Of course Allena & I still maintain our family plan of her retirement here in Vancouver with me.

g-spot ejaculation protection

Last week I made my monthly drive up to Squamish to teach for Trinity Romance Shop - the people up there rock and I always have a kick ass time with them.

Because I was teaching my G-Spot & Female Ejaculation class I had taken up with me a volunteer to do the demo on. Deej was kind enough to give up her evening and off we went.

Class was set up and there was still 10 minutes before I needed to start. I was sitting with Deej on the massage table in front of the class talking to other participants about random topics, waiting for my start time.

Hearing the front door, I turned to greet the latest arrivals. Two women, who were very oddly dressed.

These two women came in wearing gum boots, rain coats, garbage bags, hats and holding large open umbrellas. They appeared ready for a flood.

They marched towards the front row and sat down in chairs all the while smiling wildly from ear to ear.

I started laughing right away, it took others in the room a few seconds to catch on.

They were wearing "rain gear" to protect themselves (ha ha) from the ejaculation part of the class. Very funny, I'm still laughing over it.

A photo was taken of us all posing together and the women sent it to me just this morning saying that I could post it to my blog!

So here you go.






Deej called the women dressing up for the class "audience participation" and she's right, it was just that.

My life is blessed to have nights at work that look like this.

Crossing the movie

Tonight, myself & RC have been Invited by

Equinoxe Films, Warner Music, Telefilm Canada and Relevision

To the gala premiere of Roger Evan Larry & Sandra Tomc feature film debut:

CROSSING

We'll be joining the filmmakers, recording artists, and actors on the red carpet to celebrate the Canadian theatrical release of the award-winning film now sold in over 21 countries.


The evening finishes with a sponsored reception at the exclusive Figmint Restaurant & Lounge.

I've already seen the movie a couple of times and am still pleased to be seeing it on the big screen sharing it with RC, apparently there is acknowledgement of Libido Events and myself in credits.

sex educator in Vancouver

I awoke this morning to pornography awaiting me. Good porn sent to me, for my viewing pleasure. To be reminded of whom and what I want. Damn you are sexy - thank you for the candid photos RC.

Reive and I got together again tonight before class. It's safe to say we are negotiating something big right now. He is as excited as I am about our union. I have a feeling we'll soon be making one another feel really good. I'm pleased to be able to do something to make Reive happy, his last business partners had so much let him down that he deserves success at this point.

Class tonight was magnificent. It was the over flow night from last weeks sold out Cock Sucking class, and it was another full house. Hot damn, it was really that great. So much to teach, eagerness on all my students faces. I love it when I get inspired in teaching, tonight was an inspired night, the class just rolled along.

I'm proud of how class went and that's weird because I always have such a case of nerves at the onset of each class. Teaching sex, empowerment, communication and intimacy is my life. I love my life and the people surrounding me.

I may have little time, but my heart is in all that I do. I am a sex educator and a sex-activist. I do have the best job in the world. I get to teach people about "joy".

I've had some dating / relationship rules that I've maintained for many many years and am proud at my ability to uphold these at times challenging boundaries. I have met some one for whom I am breaking many of my rules. The feelings are overwhelmingly positive that are rolling around in me. Smitten is the word. WOW. The rules existed before for a reason and that served me well. Today I am open to possibilities that years back I never would have considered.

Must head to bed soon, I have a meeting at The Love Nest on the North Shore at 9 in the morning and then a private coaching session. Sleep, must sleep.

Good-night!

in the post box

I have a PO Box for my professional correspondence and have had it for years now.

I'm often amused at what the clerk must thinks as they stuff my box with the assortment of mail that arrives to me. By shape and size alone often my mail looks questionable, then add to that the business name of the source of origin and yeah, they smile when they see me coming in to unload the booty from it.

This week David sent me some pretty girl stockings and soon I'll post some photos for him just to put a smile on his face. Yeah that's it.

Two new sets of nipple jewelry from a Langley artisan who crafts non piercing nipple adornments and wants to try out his products. He made these two sets based on my personal nipple preferences and considerations.

A couple of checks. For upcoming work, deposits and payments in full.

A card of thanks for Private Coaching work I did with a South Vancouver couple a few weeks back. Seems they found the answers they were seeking during our time together and have now discovered a whole new groove.

2007 Catalogue of toys & costume wear for a new Canadian distributor. (they kindly sent along a Credit Note for me so I can shop for new supplies / toys for my classes, on their dime. Yippee!)

A new camouflage blindfold, with black sequins running around the sides of it. No return name or sender on the package. Hhmm? Thank you, whomever you are.

G-Spot class tonight

January 29 Monday
7:00 - 9:00pm
Finding & Stimulating the G-Spot & Female Ejaculation
(open to men & women)
presented by Jennifer

Venue: Trinity Romance Shop
Squamish, BC
604-892-2266

More Information

Finding and Stimulating the G-Spot & Female Ejaculation

Are you a squirter or gusher, or aspiring to be? This is the class for you alone or with your partner.

When the G Spot is stroked, there is often a sensation or urge to urinate. By learning techniques to move beyond this urge many women can experience heightened arousal and for others ejaculation becomes possible.

After a complete explanation of the female genital complex & female sexual response, we will discuss as a group positions for optimum pleasure seeking with a partner as well as ways in which we as woman can stimulate our own G-Spot.

Then Jennifer and one of her lovely models will demonstrate some techniques for G spot stimulation, orgasm, ejaculation and further exploration.

intimacy

I'm a very happy woman right now. It's most likely I'll remain this happy all day.

I was made to feel really good. So good in fact, that it too will likely last all day.

There is a huge smile on my face. My emotions are raw, I am vulnerable.

My knees are wobbly and the music playing on the stereo is flowing through my body like liquid silk.

Everything around me looks sweet, I feel light and pretty.

My skin feels like that of a lovers, delicious I touch myself.

Dampness where I love and can still feel the pulse deep inside of a lust shared.

Trying unsuccessfully to catch my breath, I realize it's easier to acknowledge the obvious.

I want you, to return to me.