pain & relief

As I lay curled in the fetal position in excruciating pain, he looked down at me and smiled tenderly. He asked me a few short questions and walked out of my room quietly & swiftly. The clock said 4:30 a.m.

A nurse dressed in blah green scrubs void of curves and not some sexy shiny short skirt outfit with cleavage spilling out walked towards me holding a syringe.

The Doctor has ordered a shot of Demerol and Gravol, roll over and expose your right hip please. I obeyed of course and promptly.

That needle slid beneath my skin and in less than 10 minutes there was relief finally. However that single shot left me out of it for 10 hours. No wonder they don't keep that stuff on the shelves.

Medicine and hospitals I like neither, yet need both from time to time.

Grateful to be a Canadian with health care and coverage available to me at any time. And really grateful that I was at home when this happened and not traveling out of country.

finding Jennifer

a quick look reveals what people were entering into a search engine, when they ran across my blog.

Let's check now for accuracy...

pvc and heels oh yes, I own a lot of these
triad poly yes I'm part of a poly triad
kama sutra it's an area I'm hoping to learn more about over time
sadism and dominance the core of my sexuality
acrobatics sexy pit no clue?

vancouver bc swingers club eden teach AND host women's only sex parties here
razor shave bald women I've done this a couple of times now
dominant whip seattle cane that's me
luschious box between my legs
collapsible whiteboard stand would like to own one
tongue washing cock sucking nipples sounds like a good time
upper thighs mine are hot

cock stroking techniques teach these in my Cock Sucking classes
sexstore mn shopped in sex stores when last in MN & will again in April
bondage pallet wrapper adore mummification
alone initiate 07 no clue?
bodybag bondage I own two
homestyle two bites brownies yummy, a favorite

teri spread labia yes Teri and I do this together
libidoevents duh
dissolving stitches with tape my left breast, post lump removal
dildoes recommended by women Ask the Women of The Love Nest
bondage tied up sleepover I haven't done this since Barry did it to me
ball bashing my foot has firmly slammed some sensitive scrotum, yippee

deadly couture vancouver Jenni's clothes rock
pne plushies only my daughter won one this year
overextended labia all labia are uniquely shaped & present in varying lengths


vancouver sex clubs I can be found teaching & playing here
testicles broken by feet poor guy
caddle prod definition Sex Toy
kinky coupon book make your own
the realm of fantasy play party calgary I teach for them, cool group

smiles in Disneyland

Photo's were taken of me by my daughter while we were in Disneyland. (I've never posted a picture of my daughter and I never will, nor will I use her name here)

Autopia car ride, Paddle Wheeler boat trip over to Tom Sawyer island and of course a stop over at Pooh's place. Collected an album full of memories but most contain my daughter & I, or her alone.

We rode every ride and our favorites multiple times over. Used the Fast Pass Program and an early morning admission along with 5 days to spend touring and yup, we did it, both California Adventure & Disneyland. Both Parks.

We bought every thing that made us smile, both of us, what incredible fun to splurge like this. We arrived at 7:00am and left at 11:30pm happy, exhausted, wide eyed & together. Love.

Talking about where we'd like to holiday next, my child has informed me of her interest in Hawaii! It's where I suspect we'll next visit together.

Leather Leadership Conference 07

LEATHER LEADERSHIP CONFERENCE XI
REGISTRATION IS OPEN !
Minneapolis, MN
April 20- 22, 2007


Registration for the eleventh Leather Leadership Conference is now live at the Leather Leadership website: www.leatherleadership.org


Scheduled for April 20-22, 2007 in Minneapolis, Minnesota, those planning to attend the Leather Leadership Conference are encouraged to take advantage of the early bird $90 registration rate before the end of 2006.

Programming for the 2007 Leather Leadership Conference will include six presentation tracks working off of the conference theme “The Art of Sharing Power…a Work in Progress.” Presentation proposals are currently being accepted from individuals in the community. The Call for Presentations, which opened last month, will remain open through November 15, 2006. Presenters will find an application form online at the Leather Leadership Conference website that can be downloaded and then emailed to the Programming Committee for consideration to be included in the event.

“We have made a significant effort to move up the timetable for all functions of the conference,” said Steve Lenius, Chair of the Minnesota Local Organizing Committee. “We believe strongly in the value of the Leather Leadership Conference and our goal remains to offer registration and programming information before the end of the year in order to allow individuals to make cost-effective travel plans for the event.”

Entering its second decade of operation, the Leather Leadership Conference is overseen by a national board of directors with the annual conference planned by a committee of local individuals representing groups which have come together to host the event. The Minnesota Local Organizing Committee has been making plans for the 2007 conference since August of 2005.

Dont miss LLC XI !!!

For more information, visit the website or email info@leatherleadership.org

exhausted & high

Disneyland was incredible, my life is wonderful, my family is my strength and my future is so bright it's blinding.

Feeling on top of the world and glad to be home.

Happy Birthday in Disneyland

Today's the day, it is, it is! I am very excited, so much so that I'm a twitter patter of energy.

Everything is packed from clothes to sunscreen, we are ready. Computer is NOT coming with us, this is a holiday. My daughter and I are leaving for Disneyland and are going to have a blast without any disruptions or distractions, returning home next week.

It's my birthday this Saturday the 28th, I'm going to be 34 years old. I plan on finding a crown for myself to wear in Disneyland on my big day, we've got a special dinner booked to enjoy that night as well.

Happy Birthday to me AND a Joyous & well deserved Holiday for my daughter & I!

comments

From my In Box...

Hi Glorious One,

I hope you realize that you have caused a shortage of snake bite kits in the lower mainland and Vancouver is acquiring the reputation of being the snake bite capital of Canada. I hope you're happy.

Keeeep on trucking on your mission

It's rather amusing, the thought of a sell out of snake bite kits, mid October in Vancouver suddenly. Due of course to a whole bunch of happy perverts using them for sex play now.

Women's Dominance

Unable to sleep as I'm still wound up. My flight got in from Calgary at 8:00 and by 8:45 I was being welcomed into a huge embrace by my daughter as I walked in the house. It's so good to be back home, my daughters in my bed asleep really happy to have her mom back.

Early today back in Calgary I taught a four Intensive on Women's Dominance. Twenty three woman, they all rocked. Hell the class itself was awesome, everyone came away having learned so much. (including me) It was empowering to pass on some of what I've come to know and understand about Dominance, Power and Sex Play in such a focused period of time.

Oh yes and again tomorrow night I'm teaching Take Charge! A Women's class in Dominance, however this is the 2 hour evening class. Twice in 48 hours, WOW, women are really putting themselves out there more.


Time for me to head to sleep, I'm really grateful for my own bed. (though it contains one lovely child who likes to sprawl out in MY queen size bed)

October 23 Monday
8:00 - 10:00 pm
Take Charge! Being Dominant in the bedroom, a scene or a relationship
women only
presented by Jennifer
119 East 1st St. North Vancouver @ The Love Nest
$20 pay at door, cash only

**please bring pen and notebook to class

Ever want to take the lead in the bedroom? Or had a lover ask you to take charge and control? Ever wanted to order a partner to pleasure you sexually?

Many women shy away from dominating in lovemaking and sex play. This workshop will deal with the issues of why this is and how to reverse it. We will cover how to deal with your issues about being in charge and how to read your partner once you are. Jennifer will share plenty of stories along the way to give you inspirations for your own play. Let's explore female dominance together.

What do you do with a play partner once you have one in your firm grasp through pacing a scene? How do you get your partner crawling to you for more, again and again? Whether SM play, Sex play, or Role-play, learn to take charge. Find your Top persona and learn how to make it work for you so that scenes meet your needs as well as the desires of your partner. Learn how to be and look like the sexy Dominant woman that you are.

having fun at work

It was snowing here this morning. Seriously, it shocked me, especially since I'd forgotten my winter coat in BC.

My suite is on the near top floor of a beautiful hotel in Calgary, just four blocks from where I'm teaching my weekends classes at CAPC. Today's two went great and by the end of the second class the organizer of this trip of mine had decided along with others that I must return again. We're already looking at and planning new dates for other classes, how wonderful.

Room service, plush robe, new friends, future work bookings and three different play opportunities, damn has my weekend ever been incredible. (so far)

Tomorrow I'm teaching a final class, a four hour intensive on Women's Dominance and then jumping right back on a plane and heading home to Vancouver and my daughter.

My life is brilliant and I'm so blessed.

clit pump get's praise

This man was in my last Genital Play class and saw me using a snake bite kit on a naked woman. I had her on a massage table, legs spread, and I put it straight over her clit and sucked the whole clitoris and it's hood inside. This of course creates quite the suction you see and can really elongate the clitoris.

Anyways this man, Brian wrote to ask me a question about a URL and this was the other paragraph from him regarding my telling him to purchase himself a snake bite kit for sex play.

Oh I got one of my own, and tried it out. What you might like is that while these were attached to a pair of nipples, and while I was doing a good job massaging her G-Spot, my partner started yelling "Oh God, Oh God", I corrected her and told her she should be thanking Jennifer. It was quite interesting to see her writhing through her third G-Spot orgasm of the evening, crying "thank you Jennifer, Oh thank you Jennifer".

Thank you Jennifer

Brian

NOTE: Brian's name was changed of course for privacy.

on line survey and focus groups

The Centre is conducting a Feasibility Study to determine if Vancouver’s LGTB communities need and have the capacity to develop and maintain a new cultural community centre for the LGTB communities and our allies. The first part of the study is a broad-based consultation with the communities this fall. This is an open process --- anyone can take part!


An online survey is now available in addition to Focus Groups and Public Meetings. All are invited to participate in the survey. Please click to get started.




For more information about Focus Groups and Public Meetings click here.



Thank you!



Becky Herrmann,

Director, Board of Directors

Pacific Foundation for the Advancement of Minority Equality (PFAME).

The Centre
1170 Bute Street
Vancouver B.C. V6E 1Z6
Canada

becky.herrmann@supportthecentre.com

http://www.supportthecentre.com/

Spice Up Your Sex Life

A few days ago I lost an old friend and a hero of mine to death & still have some family stuff going on that's taking much of my emotional energy, it's been a time of personal reflection for me lately and sadness. (2 deaths in a month has been too much to handle)

I'm busy, busy, busy getting ready to fly to Calgary, Alberta tomorrow for the weekend. There's three classes that I'm teaching as you can see in the poster here and today is being spent packing for each of them.




Friday night is the Realm of Fantasy Play Party and a must attend for me!

Saturday night is a swingers social which permits light SM, as sex is permitted and some light play it may be fun for me to attend, though I am teaching an Intensive on Sunday and do need solid rest before hand.

The chance to play in a new environment sounds cool. From the moment my plane lands in Calgary I'll be on the prowl for someone to bottom to me in service, SM and sex, and perhaps a male Top to beat me in a completely different scene.

Off to finish packing and to ready for my class tonight at Little Sister's Book Store, I'm teaching Sex Tips From a Bi Sexual Woman.

the types of couples I coach

(note: reprinted with full permission & blessing by author, names were of course changed)

Ever wondered who hires me and for what reason/s?

This very attractive couple lives out in Abbotsford, no children, nice home, good neighborhood and has worked with me privately before and we have plans again next week for another four hour private class together.

Hi Jennifer. Frank here, remember me, I hired you in Feb for a Dominance
empowerment private lesson for my wife and her best friend?

Well a couple of months later and I am thinking about hiring you again
for late sept (22nd or23rd) on a friday or sat night for a seminar for
my wife and some of her girlfriends before they go out for a night on
the town. I was thinking about the cocksucking class ( and dang if I do
not write you the strangest emails) again early evening starting at 6 or
7 pm. I am asking you in advance so as to go with what is convenient for
you. so let me know what is good for you.

Secondly I am curious if you would like to do some tutoring/sexpositive
advocacy with my wife and myself. Preferably together, or seperate with
my wife depending on dynamics and comfort level in order to have a
strong dialogue. I know that my wife felt extremely ovewhelmed after her
last session with you You gave her too many options :)

BUT I also know that about a month after she was feeling more
comfortable with it all and I came into the bedroom to find her dressed
ready to impress and she DOMinated and totally (no hiding her arousal)
got off on making me submit. (heh I did not mind at all totally new and
wonderfull experience for me as it showed me that even though I had done
a bit of slap and tickle I had no idea what we where missing out on
cause I was missing the mark as it were.

Betty and I have a nice strong marriage and a very nice sex life, with
heaps of openness when it comes to most all aspects. But I think that
sitting down with you as a couple and having an honest open discussion
with someone who has made a strong and sexpositive impression on both of
us. Would at the very least give us some ideas and to quote you "improve
our game" would be a bonus, cause I think we are playing the game pretty
darn amazingly now.

Anyways after she reads this (not a Bday surprise this time) she can
send it to you. Looking forward to hearing from you either by phone
604-XXX-XXXX or via email at your convenience.

Frank & Betty

Deviant Liquid Latex & Little Sister's

Just off the phone with Jim over at Little Sisters Book Store we talked shop & had a laugh as well. I'm teaching there this Sunday, a class on Liquid Latex, how cool is that!

October 8 Sunday
2:00 - 4:00
Liquid Latex - an interactive class
open to men & women
presented by Jennifer
1238 Davie Street Vancouver @ Little Sisters Book Store
604 669 1753
$15 both advance tickets or pay at the door

Is it art? Clothing? A fetish? It's simply just deviant. Liquid Latex, painted as a single layer coating adheres to the skin as your second skin. Applied many layers over it becomes a top, thong, bold words written across your chest or perhaps a cat suit or hot shorts for your night at the club or in the bedroom! When dried it forms custom wearable rubber clothing & masks for your deviant side.

Jennifer will demonstrate on models a variety of techniques useful to making Liquid Latex a sexy success.

Liquid Latex, rollers & brushes will be available for sale after the class, stock up now either for your intimate play or for your Halloween costume. Ideas a plenty.

Bonus: your ticket to the workshop is also good for 20% off merchandise.

I was pleased to learn that Little Sisters has already started a wait list for my next Cock Sucking class at their store, given that the first one there went so well. Currently I'm teaching six classes from my Erotic Arts Curriculum for them and more up and coming.

We're booking the next round of classes for me to be teaching soon, I'm thrilled to be at Little Sisters and enjoying the opportunities it's presenting me with.

finding a nut

I need to find walnuts still in the shell. Medium to large size.

Three dozen of them to be precise.

Anybody know where to find walnuts? Or have 36 walnuts that I can get from you in the next week?

You'd be my hero, thank you.

Good night.

Oral Pleasure

always makes me feel at least some what better, then again, so does a good beating. Endorphins and orgasms, yummy!

This type of pleasure though isn't on any recommended diet especially when eaten in a single session by one person and it leaves behind no bruises. Chocolate.

challenging times

Work load, family commitments and life are overwhelming.

thud

crash

bang

I'm back

Home from Vegas with a whirlwind of memories and visuals still going on in my head and am thoroughly exhausted. Allena & I saw so much together, there were moments that were breath taking in beauty. Others that were incredible in grandness. Saw architecture that left my jaw open in awe.

My computer & phone were left alone, not doing a stitch of anything except to savor the holiday that I so deserved. It rejuvenated me the time away and gave Allena & I some time together away from our work commitments and leaving us the chance to come together all over again. I love you so much Bella. Thank you.

Must head to sleep soon. Couple of pictures...

This one is for Keith, it was taken at the Star Trek: The Experience at The Hilton Vegas.



This photo is for Albert, it was taken at The Bellagio water show, which we caught 3 of, two of which made me cry. The beauty of the music along with the water display was something that touched me deeply.




Good Night!!!

time away

I'm on Holidays and started Friday and return Friday.

Yes it's true, I'm on vacation right now, sitting in Seattle. In a few short hours I board a flight to Las Vegas where Bella and I will be spending girl time together for days. Unwind and let go, what better place to do this than Vegas right?

We've got front row seats to see Cirque Du Soleil's Zumanity show it's a provocative, cabaret-style production OR adult themed show.

Amazingly we have acquired a front row, dead center red leather duo seat sofa for our personal viewing & make-out pleasure. I'm freaking excited about this! Both the show and the pending make out session.



Today in the states I bought the most adorable red mesh / lace crinolin, it looks so sweet on me and short. Did I mention it's short. It's short. And sheer.

With my existing bosom cupcakes in red (with tassels) from Sweet Soul Burlesque along with my black fitted opera gloves and a pair of heels, all I think I have left to find to complete this outfit is perhaps a new pair of Cuban toed stockings and a new pair of bloomers.

Ok, if I wear stockings I'll need to buy a garter as well to match this ensemble. I was thinking maybe a waist cincher with removable garters built right in would do the trick.

My days are spent avoiding shopping and vanity so it's a nice diversion to have time and opportunity to indulge in such pleasures for a short time.

As a gift today I was given a Boy Scouts Uniform, covered in badges, awards, pins and other mementos. How lucky am I? Blessed be the Godesses that's for sure. There's a certain woman out there whose got a Boy Scout fantasy in mind and soon she may discover that sharing her secret with me has afforded her much pleasure.

Careful darling, you'll know your fantasy has come true when either A. you see me coming at you, wearing a Boy Scouts Uniform OR B. suddenly you are face down on the floor & you feel my boot on your back firmly holding you down

Happy Holidays to me.

toy acquisition

You can imagine my delight when Jenn handed me these recent additions to my teaching / toy collections. She's the owner of Tickled Pink Toys and I get a good number of my sex toys from her and was overjoyed to acquire these new items to aid in my pursuits.

An inflatable vibrating multi speed butt plug (The Deluxe Wonder Plug) and another Cock Ring this one though in latex and with an adjustable loop for varying levels of intensity.

Thanks so much Jenn and Tickled Pink for the fabulous new toys.