bouncing boobies

Last night I taught my Cock Sucking class in Burnaby to a wonderful group of women. A real pleasure to spend an evening educating and laughing all at once, I adore the opportunities & people my occupation presents. RC picked me up from class...drove me home, then brought me to bed, where he made sweet love to me till I fell asleep. So sexy.

Then today no clothes were worn till after three in the afternoon as I had spent the day answering about forty emails and catching up on long over due paper work on the sofa. We dressed finally and made our way out to pick up some desired furniture pieces for Libido Lounge in the early evening. A beautiful new storage unit and a utility cupboard. (Newf, cancel the previous order) RC spent a few hours getting everything settled in properly while I cleaned and did office work round the place.

All in all, a very productive 24 hours round here.

Now one last things to tend to. I need to write a mail - out and send it out to the mailing list, before I can even consider going to sleep.

At least I feel fortunate in that I get to work naked, from my bed.

Secret Sorority leaked info

What exactly happens at a DIRTY GIRLS party??

Imagine your best sleepover pajama party when you were younger. Without pajamas. When you arrive at the venue you will step inside a place where the cares and the stresses of the day are left at the door. The lighting is soft, the colours are soft, the carpets and furniture are all soft. (The girls are soft too)

The best part about a DIRTY GIRLS party is that it’s a light, fun, carefree evening where almost anything and everything goes; a place to explore your voyeuristic or exhibitionist side (or both). If you’re just at the beginning of your adventurous journey, it’s a great place to dip a toe into the water and decide if you want to dive in deep or wade gently into the shallows. You can be naked as the day you were born, decked out in lace, satin or silk, wrapped in leather, shiny and sparkly in glitter, or festooned in feathers. Choose something that makes you feel beautiful, because by the end of the evening it will be pulsing through you. Beauty. Softness. Laughter. Joy.

No two women are the same and no two DIRTY GIRLS parties are the same. Some are filled with happy shrieks of girls being flogged & caned, some with the soft murmurs of an appreciative audience to a girl practicing her best pole dance. There will surely be massage oil at some point, and the chocolate fountain might well be bubbling in the kitchen. Anything is better dipped in chocolate.

The big room is surrounded by sofas, edged by a suspension frame, perfect for working on rope bondage or suspension techniques. The dance pole in the center of the room is a great place to practice that stripper dance you’ve been dreaming about. The medical table has the potential to bring a happy ending to an internal examination. There’s a Sybian sex machine for those feeling like going for a ride, a massage chair, many massage tables and a hot stone kit to relax with.

A DIRTY GIRL'S party is a feast for all the senses. Delicious appetizers, fragrant candles and massage oils, giggles and whimpers, touches as bountiful as you might desire or none at all if you’re merely a contented voyeur, and pretty girls of all ages, shapes and colors everywhere.

It’s like a secret sorority with no particular pledge and no particular uniform. The only expectation is that you leave your inhibitions at the door and venture boldly where no man has gone before. It’s a girl thing. Try it. You’ll like it.

Good Clean Living

With a whole day to sleep in yesterday and a chance to catch up on domestic items both RC and I were feeling as though a night out was in order.

Last night we ventured into the city to go to the infamous Sin City, fetish night. We got there just after they opened, and made our way inside fast. We were barely dressed in anything designed for warmth, and it was freezing out. Once inside with our coats checked, we socialized with a whack of people that we know.

Its always fun to see old friends, and I love catching up with everyone who only comes into town monthly for this wonderful night. Plus we ran into countless individuals and couples whom I have spent personal coaching time with. What a rush to be out amongst so many people that I share a strong connection with.

The Dungeon area was open and we made our way inside, of course. Once there, RC found himself restrained with his arms behind his back, and blindfolded sitting up on a spanking bench. Suffice to say, much fun ensued as I tortured his penis through his Ginch Gonch, and manipulated his nipples underneath those nicely healing piercings. I love him so much. He even tried to defend himself by crossing his legs. Pointless, in the end. But a good laugh in the moment.

Tonight was a whole other story. Deej was my volunteer again and her G-Spot was stimulated in class, shown to the attendees, and then we gave her a big wet orgasm. The class loved Deej and took much away from the two hours as combined with my teaching, seeing her G-spot is a wonderful compliment to the learning process.

And now, it is time for me to go and crawl into bed.

Legalized Prostitution Vancouver

*Should Prostitution be Legalized Before the 2010 Olympics?*

Vancouver- The legalization of prostitution has been a long neglected
topic in the City of Vancouver. It’s time to revisit the question,
consider alternatives, and look at solutions once again. The coming 2010
Winter Olympics make the topic especially timely.

How will a mega-event that will bring thousands of tourists to Vancouver
affect the sex trade in the city? Will the recent implementation of a
sex worker's cooperative help or merely compound the problem and further
exploit already marginalized women? Is there a solution to Vancouver's
sex trade? What about the trafficking of women? Can a rationale policy
that recognizes the multiple dimensions of the sex trade be found?

Please attend a free public forum in order to foster greater public
awareness on this important topic.

Some of the speakers and organizations attending are:

Vancouver Rape Relief - Daisy Khler
- AWAN (Aboriginal Women's Action Network) - Carrie Humchitt
- XPALSS (Ex-Prostitutes Against Legislated Sexual Servitude) - speaker
to be confirmed
- Tamara O'Doherty (Researcher specialization in experiences of
victimization for off-street workers in the sex industry)
- Dave Dickson (Vancouver Police Depart, Sex Worker Liaison)
- BCCEW (British Columbia Coalition of Experiential Women) - Susan Davis
- Jamie Lee Hamilton - Transgender Sex Worker Activist
- Canadian Association of Sexual Assault Centres - Lee Lakeman
- Pivot Legal Society - Elin Sigurdson
- FIRST – Esther Shannon


The forum will present an opportunity for the public to hear and air
different perspectives on the sex trade. A question and answer session
with the panel will follow the presentations.
**Childcare is provided.**

Time and place:
Tuesday, March 11, 2008, 6:30pm – 9:00 pm at the YWCA, 733 Beatty
Street, Vancouver.
For more information contact Carly Teng at pforum08@gmail.com
Organized by the Work Less Party

Yet again...

RC and I are leading another Orientation this evening.

Have you made it to one yet?

Remember you can NOT attend any of our parties OR interactive workshops any longer until you have completed this Mandatory class.

See you in a few hours.

Event titles

I need your help. You're just so much creative than I.

First I am looking for an enticing name for our new monthly Bondage Night at Libido Lounge, and I can't come up with anything on my own.

Second I am looking for an enticing name for our new Members Only Parties. A party where everything goes ...bondage, sex, spanking, swinging and socializing!

Send me your suggestions, and keep it as a one or two word title for each night please.

Come up with the winning name and you'll be gifted with tickets for you and your date to attend the night for free as my way of saying thank you!

Little Sisters undergoes change

This article reminded me of how things are changing in local sex-culture. This just seems so fast really. And makes me kinda sad.

I hear though, that Jim may run for City Councilor in Vancouver as his next pursuit.

Interesting thought!

friends that give

Another load of books were donated last night at the Members Party, SIXTY FOUR to be exact.

Five new DVD's and thousands of hours of music put on our portable hard-drive, by a friend.

And someone else brought in three new adult board games.

There was also half a dozen fitted sheets added to the collection.

A set of goat forceps.

Two packages of baby wipes.

And lest we forget the three massive rolls of plastic and tarping.


All for Libido Lounge. Our booty collection is inspiring, we truly are an adult playground!

Then there was the dozen long stemmed roses for ME, along with a box of chocolates from a hot guy in leather shorts and vest.

Today is all about recovery. Two parties, two nights in a row, is enough to leave me feeling weary.

naked women massaging one another

I crawled into my bed with RC just after 3 this morning. My was it ever a night of firsts. So many women, the visuals were stunning. And the play grew more intense over the course of the evening, cresting in many big O's.

The learn to strip class, was wild fun and believe it to be true, I managed to give three different women orgasms aside from playing with a multitude more.

Naked women body group massages was a juicy voyeurs haven. Women on women and oil everywhere, one woman laying down and four sets of hands, 8 hands working her body over. Plus our massage girl doing naked body sliding and massages was a hit too! She rubs me down every event and makes me feel as though I am melting.

Someone coined me the Ring Master of Fun and I heard another refer to me as the queen of the dirty girls and they my loyal subjects. It leaves me with such a feeling of awe to know I hold each of these womens trust and admiration.

We had fun and played hard. The only rules, aside from those of the House, were the ones you set yourself. Everyone played enjoying the energy and lust all the while maintaining safe boundaries.

Tonight is the pan-sexual Members party. Two parties two nights in a row. This is my occupation, not a night on the town.

DIRTY GIRLS

In the early evening the first-wave of women will start arriving for DIRTY GIRLS.

First is the "Strip, Rip & Twirl" class where the women will learn a routine to take off their every day clothing in a whole new sexy way.

Following this is our First ever DIRTY GIRLS event, and I can not wait to get-it-on, with all these women. Its going to get sizzling hot with all of us partying together and I for one have big plans of sharing my copious amounts of joy.

I feel like I'm failing in an area where I know I am succeeding. I'm also bothered by the fact, that I feel as I do. Somewhere in me, I know it is wrong to be put off with my achievement, yet I do because it makes my area of weakness show prominently.

I want to be able to do it all, and I can't. This bothers me. Juggling so much is a real drain emotionally and quite frankly something I no longer want to do. So now to hand off some of the easier items to hired help should take some of the burden off of me and my work load.

In plain language, I need to hire someone to work in the office. The e-mail alone, is an obscene amount of time. Hours of it in fact.


It is time for me to bring in someone whose sole job is to tackle and complete the list of items I put on their desk in a day.

Someone who comes to work at Libido Events and Libido Lounge as a job, not as a volunteer. This would be a weekday morning position.

It is now apparent to me that I need to reflect on what I require of this person and what skills they must possess. It is time for me to write a Job Posting.

Again, life changes so fast, and I simply breathe.

I need the help and that is all there is to it.

strippers in Vancouver

The stripper pole has now been permanently mounted into our ceiling and floor.

The words pole AND mounted in the same sentence make my boy very excited.

It was very HOT watching two men strap that pole into place and polish it too.

Some days my work load is actually more amusing than mind - blowing.

Thankfully, they also installed our last two new sets of blinds and wired in the fifth and last speaker out of sight.

The place is ready for tomorrow nights DIRTY GIRLS Play Party.

Booty

• Two Hundred Sex Kits.

• A Sybian Sex Machine.

• 17 New Titles / Books.

This is what was donated today to Libido Lounge.

Can you believe it?

Each new Member of Libido Lounge upon attending there first play party with us, gets a FREE welcome sex kit from The Love Nest.

The Sybian can be used by anyone in our facility. Just ask and have your own attachment. (yes of course, I have many that can be purchased) A machine that both men and women can ride and that is almost always a guarantee of toe curling orgasms.

There are over four hundred books actually in the Library right now. And another two large bags of selections were donated today. In another week or so, we will top 600 books, as there is a huge donation being made this Saturday and again on Sunday by two different people. Remember that your membership allows you to sign out up to three selections at a time from our In-House Sex-Positive Lending Library.


I am a very happy sex educator and sex activist right now.

I've mentioned lately being tired right? Well aside from working all day today, tonight I had to teach a Private class out in the middle of no where in Surrey as part of a womans home party.

Twenty eight woman wanting Sex Tips To Rock Their Worlds, and Their Partners. I enjoyed the group, and also teaching them. For a group of women late forties and above, a number of them had behaviors like pre pubescent teenage girls hearing about sex for the first time. Not just the blushing, but the giggling and outbursts that made themselves look so insecure and ill informed was almost sad. Then I taught them a whole bunch of information and I left knowing that I had blown their socks off. I'll hear from many of them in email as asking questions amongst such non supporting friends, is always tricky.

I can't imagine my daughter, or even myself unable to say to the word vulva, vagina or pussy out loud, to either a partner or a doctor. It is shameful to lack the language to communicate with another for what you either want or need.

I made it home in time to give my daughter a back rub before her bed time. She was quite pleased and I enjoyed the time spent with her.

freebies

Another Member Orientation happened a couple of hours ago. Ten more members, we are motoring along at a phenomenal rate. RC had to work tonight so I taught alone, and just loved the chance to sit and talk with everyone, explaining to all, our goals and mission.

A very sweet woman drove me home from Orientation and we had the chance to catch up some. Together we were marveling at how we first met, some eight years ago. Seems I have been around for so many peoples first experiences over the years, what a privilege. Seeing her made me realize yet again, how my path is split between a profession I love and my own passionate interest in evolving as a sexually healthy human being.

I have no energy to write any more today. But I did want to mention that I have been averaging SIXTY FIVE emails a day right now, after I delete the spam. Which means that if you write me and it needs attention in a timely matter, your best to make that note in the subject line.

Writers Beware! Sending me email means a guarantee of a personal reply sure! However note, that it also could mean a delay of up to or just over a week while you await that response. Do NOT resend, just await my response. Unless your email to me is about something today or tomorrow, it gets put in queue and I respond when I have the time.

Remember when you send me an email demanding answers for something about your personal sex life, that if you are not hiring me for Private Coaching work, then I'm only going too delve slightly into your issue. I do my paid work first, then my pro-bono stuff second. I do more work for free, than I do for pay. (in the long run, it all does pays me somehow) It can be said though that it is people looking for answers for free who eat up the most amount of my time, IF I LET THEM. Which is why I have such good boundaries around knowing what I can and won't do for free. That is another post to be made another day.

Right now, I have to go and process Membership numbers 247, 248, 249 etc.......

feeling fatigued

It is all that I can do to get out of bed and to put on a robe. I am so weary. The weekends road trip and teaching circuit was rough on my body. Fatigue is the word and I am quite familiar with it.

I've spent my entire day at home, exactly where I belong. Recovering. And getting ready to work tonight and every night this week. It takes a lot of energy from me, to organize all that I do, create events, answer emails, run classes ... Libido Events and now Libido Lounge. Being a parent who is a good parent and spends time with her child, being a partner who does things for her other partners, sleeping now and then and lest we forget, that I try to have a life of my own.

Moments where my activism is not defining me. This is quality time then. Forgetting who I am professionally and being a free woman who cries, gets sick, makes mistakes, accepts instead of gives, partakes in lieu of watching and who honors her own desires and not that of a communities or the banks.

I love my job and my activism, though not all days do I want to be defined by them.

I can honestly say, that I never end a days work wishing I had a different career. I end up always just wishing for a more positive society and more time to tackle the obstacles and challenges before me.

Cruel Condom

It can honestly be said, that I now own some serious new kick-ass Spring line, Chinese Laundry shoes. My they are eye catching, fun and womanly. I can't wait to wear them. Next month there are a few more pair that I have intentions on picking up for myself, as new shoes are necessary to celebrate the change in seasons.

And in my toy bag now, is a Cruel Condom. The creator and I know one another, in fact, he stood by and watched me bottom in a scene on Saturday night at The Center. But back to the Cruel Condom, what a horrific little piece of brilliance and madness all rolled into one. It looks like it is going to fast become a preferred item of play for me. Hopefully my partners feel the same way? Scott Paul, you are a twisted man, and I salute you!

Not that it is any of your business really. But I just thought I'd share it with you, to show you how versatile I am. The scene I bottomed to? Well, I was done by a Fucksall. A sex machine that is a reciprocating saw nestled itself into my orifices on the weekend at the hands on some friends of mine. And RC just stood idly by holding my leg in the air, drooling and looking generally silly as he stared at me "being done". Then again he wasn't alone, there was an entire cheering section at The Center who stood by to watch this silliness and pleasure take place.

I also got the most tasty looking edible pasties, that were found for me at Pike Market. And a trip to an adult stores yielded me copious amounts of new stockings, socks and panties all in reds and one thing in RC's favorite of neon pink. A girl can never have to many underthings, especially when her underthings are all that are ever really seen!

By the way, we are home now.

where?

I'm in Seattle.

We arrived hours ago and already have settled in our luggage and gotten much accomplished out of the house.

Coming down south for me, is like coming home. Then again, Bellas is my other home.

I love Seattle and my community here just as much as I love Vancouver and my home peeps.

We'll be back in a few days though.

Now, we are off to a Mexican dinner.

Night!

Taboo Abbotsford

Does the naked happy dance!

Taboo just hired me for a whopping NINE classes at the Abbotsford show in March.

I already knew they wanted me, but the contract is now done and complete!

I am very pleased with this. And feeling on-top-of-the-world.

Given that I get a few hundred FREE tickets every year, I thought it would be nice to share them with you my readers, not just to those who attend classes and parties with me.

So, if you live out in the Valley, and plan on going to The Tradex on March 28, 29 or 30th to see The Taboo Show, then send me a self addressed stamped envelope, and I'll send you back a couple of tickets at no charge.

L.L.
PO Box 28578
4050 Hastings Street
Burnaby BC
Canada V5C 6J4

Get back to me....

I slept like the dead last night, a long overdue catch up on needed rest. My body is still weary from the flu and I am lacking my usual energy levels. Definitely not back to 100% yet.

This afternoon I had plans to start the horrid process of updating the Libido Events calendar with the March class listings and the Member Orientation Dates. Not a task that I enjoy doing at all AND one that I never got around to completing. Tomorrow is another day, right?

There are a few things that I could use you my readers insight for right now.

First.
When is it ok, to reveal something true that has happened to you at the hands of another? If someone caused you harm and continued to interfere in your personal and professional life, would you see the value to knowing the story along with its truths? Or, would you consider it gossip, and not useful information?

Drop me an email to my professional address please and let me know your thoughts on this topic.

Second.
Libido Lounge is starting a new monthly Rope Bondage Night for those that want to be tied up and those that want to tie people up. For the novice to the advanced bondage enthusiast. A weeknight. Members only. This event needs a catchy title, something that jumps out at you. Any ideas, as I am at a loss?

Third.
3HT is the best seamstress in town. (ok, I don't need your help with this, I am just really saying thank you to T for another magnificent job well done)

Fourth.
SULTRY has been booked again. Our third one now. Watch the calendar for the new date being uploaded some time shortly. If you were at the last SULTRY on February 16, and are well written, would you do me a favor?

I need a few paragraphs describing the night from your point of view. Something that I can use as part of the advertising package to draw new couples out to our steamy and sexy event. 3 - 7 paragraphs painting a good visual of the night would be awesome. You can send this to my professional address.

Fifth.
If you live out in the Valley, I need your help. I need you to simply email me the names of your local adult sex stores that you frequent along with any contact info you may have for the store and telling me also what city it is in. I don't need your name, just the names of the adult stores out by where you live. I am looking to know about Surrey to the Kootenays please.

Sixth.
Libido Lounge is looking to Hire, a Yoga teacher. Some one skilled at leading groups and a person comfortable with sexuality as well as the instructor will need to teach in the buff. This class is to be a Nude Yoga class, open to our members. A bi-weekly group. If you, or some one you know wants this position, then drop me an email and introduce yourself and your work, ASAP.

Nipple Piercing

Valentines Day had an adventure attached to it, that is worth sharing.

I awoke on this special day, to a brightly wrapped in red paper, gift. And RC smiling at me all giddy like. He got me a high end personal sex toy. Not an SM toy, not a toy to use on others, but a toy all for me, and my personal orgasmic pleasure.

I sat across the kitchen table from him half an hour later, and gave him his Valentine's Day card. Not the traditional Hallmark type either, one in fact that honored and made mention of one his sexual turn ons. Then I told him to hurry up and get ready as we had an appointment at 11:15 to pick up his gift.

After making the drive to Richmond, we parked the vehicle and I led my guy into the appropriate place of business. At the door, as my friend greeted us, I could feel it in the air, when RC realized what was about to happen.

I had brought him to a piercing studio, and was about to get his nipples pierced for him. His hesitancy was felt, not uncertainty over the choice to be pierced, more about the moment of clarity that is was truly going to happen. Today. Now.

He had expressed the interest almost a year ago, but it was not the time then to do it. Body Modifications should always been done by an experienced person and when you are certain you are ready for the experience.

Elwood made the experience a good one. RC made the choice of barbells as his jewelrey, and ironically we found out he has 6mm nipples.

I am quite certain that Elwood won't be forgetting our visit to his office very soon. While RC was in the chair, all sterilized and marked with ink for points of entry, I looked out the studio window and saw the vehicle going down the street.

I RAN OUT OF THE OFFICE, with no jacket screaming "it's moving, it's moving"! Ran straight out onto the street and chased the Jeep down the sidewalk. At this point it hit the vehicle parked in from of us and was pushing it too down the street.

Jumping in the driver door, I realize the Jeeps starter is trying to turn itself over, over and over again. People are coming out of neighboring business following the vehicles down the sidewalk and road telling me to turn the vehicle off.

There was NO BLOODY KEYS IN IT. It was moving on its own with no keys, so I scream this small fact back to the worried bystanders, who are now joined by a shirtless RC and the piercer Elwood.

Not believing what I have just said to them, they pull open the passenger door of the vehicle to look for the keys, only to see NONE.

Elwood and RC get some tools from some neighboring business, and with me with a foot on both the clutch and the brake get the damn thing stopped. Though the starter is still turning over and with the hood open, apparently sparking.

They disconnect the battery and the starter stops and I can finally take my feet from pushing so hard onto both pedals.

It took three men to push the car off the sidewalk and one of them turned out to be the owner of the car that our vehicle was pushing down the street. He actually saw the whole no keys things and even said, if he had not seen the whole thing take place he never would have believed it to be true.

But Elwood said, and it is true that there is never a boring moment when I am around. He could not believe what had happened right in front of his studio.

And RC, he believes that the vehicle was trying to escape from the horror of being pierced.

After catching our breath, and finishing our laughter it was time for RC to return to the chair.

Shirtless back in the chair, he had both nipples done in under eight minutes. The chair vibrated with his nervous energy like a small plane taking off.

Two large screams, some deep breathing and it was all over.

We sat around talking for a few minutes while awaiting BCAA as I enjoyed the chance to watch RC's eyes go from round as saucers and looking zoned to the squint look of a dull ache.

What a wild Valentine's Day.

Anal Ring Toss

Two things.

First. Last nights SULTRY was an absolutely unbelievable event. Everyone had so much fun, and so did I.

My evening at work consisted of: food, sex, massages, showers, steam, girls lots of girls, orgasms, whipping cream, body salts & loofahs and a game of Anal Ring Toss. (yes you just read that correctly and YES, it was as much fun as you think it was you pervert)

Second. Another email came in that was very touching to me, from the Contest I offered the other day. From a very different perspective than the one I posted yesterday.

Hi Jennifer,

I know it's late for your contest, but I wanted to tell my story surrounding our first meeting.

The first time we met was at one of Teri's G-Spot classes that you hosted about 2 and half years ago. It was the first time I ever attended a sex-positive event of any type. It was a bit surreal at first, but I soon became comfortable with environment and was able to interact with others. About a week later, I had a private coaching session with you.

This marked the start of my journey of allowing myself to express my true sexuality. I've always accepted myself for what my sexuality is, but always kept it hidden from others for fear of being labelled with such terms as pervert, freak, queer, etc.

At the start of our coaching session, I was hesitant to reveal too much about myself. I didn't know you very well and was very afraid that you would be mortified to learn that my sexual desires included such things as being flogged, caned, being forced to submit and forcing others to submit. During our coaching session, I still kept a lot to myself and you needed to prompt me a bit to reveal bits of myself. I was reminded of this during the other days member orientation session when you commented on the differences in your approach in your coaching sessions with new people and with those that you have known for a while.

That coaching session was the first time I ever told anyone that I wanted to explore kink and BDSM . My wife suspected a lot of this, but I never openly talked about it with her. Since then, we've have explored many new things and are able to openly talk about our kinkier sides. While I still have a long journey ahead and my wife and I are at very different places, it's good to know that there is place where I can openly discuss and express my kinkier side.