another mans bed

Woke up this morning in a strange bed and left wearing yesterdays clothes. All signs of a great evening out the night before. It was my date with B and he picked me up on his way home from the airport. Arrived in to his house, heels slipped off & food ordered. A bath by candlelight is suggested and the next thing I know I'm rolling around in bed with one sexy man. In the wee hours of the morning we fell asleep exhausted and content finally. Wrapped up in the warmth of a male partner who is not my bottom nor my Daddy, simply my date and someone who makes me feel really good. I've been told we're going out again. Date trois! Lucky girl I am.

And now this evening I'm off to Sin City to take it by storm. I've got a whole new whack of advertising leaflets and also business cards to take down with me, plus a few gifts for some people behind the scenes who are always doing much work for our sex positive city.

Packing a toy bag seems the way to go, with out taking one, I could lose the chance to play with someone that I find hot. However packing a toy bag means that it has to be carried around all night long by me and thus somewhat cumbersome. Maybe I'll find a bottom who offers a massage of feet or back to myself BEFORE they offer their bodies to me. One can wish yes?

I've no idea what to wear tonight and seeing as I'm going sans date, the only clothing preferences that matter are mine! Life is good today. With my daughter away for the whole weekend it doesn't even matter what time I get in this evening and a sleep in is possible tomorrow.

Sitting eating Chinese take out right now at my desk naked. Broccoli and beef on rice and when done this, it's my plan to walk over to my bed, part my legs, pump some lube on my mons....allow it to do the slow run down my labia, before I start stroking my slick lips as my vibrator settles nicely into it's routine of round and round my clitoris. Remembering to breath often, I will have a massive orgasm that will wash over me and leave me seeing stars. It's good to be able to take care of oneself well!

off to be productive

hugs

Jennifer

thank you note

A man whom had some questions about his sexuality spent some time talking with me about his situation privately and also attended the Vancouver Sexpo in October. This is an email I received from him the other day and after a name change here is his kindness

Hello Jennifer,

It is polite to send thank you notes when someone does something nice for you, so here is mine. I originally contacted you about a month ago because I was having difficulty orgasming and this, either as cause or effect, was effecting many aspects of my life. I can say now that I no longer have that problem, and it is thanks, in part, to you and your organization. Your advice and suggestions, as well as the Sexpo, which forced me to be more open about my sexuality, have given me a new confidence to pursue the life I desire. I cannot thank you enough, you do people more good than you could possibly know.

My sincerest gratitude,
P

it's emails like this that make my sex activism so rewarding!

Jennifer
sex activist

returning home

I just returned from Seattle where I spent the weekend with my daughter. At the The Wet Spot on Saturday afternoon I taught two classes Women's Dominace class & a Women's Only Masturbation class, what a great afternoon I had as did all the women who joined me. Thanks so much to all of you, you rocked!

Someone emailed me their blog link with a write up about their experience at the Vancouver Sexpo a few weeks back, check it out.

Here is the Wicked Womyn website as well, go and have a read.

I'm in love with the most amazing people. Jim, Allena and kara are my chosen family and the family that keeps me feeling grounded, safe and loved. I love many others but these people are the ones whom I feel the closest to and whom I'd always go the extra mile for.

Time for me to go and unpack the suitcases now. One is filled with our clothes from the weekend and the other with all the sex toys that I brought down for my Between Our Legs: Masturbation for Women Only class. Thankfully the border in either direction was not interested in looking inside my suitcases. I feel sorry for the ones who open my bags then get all embarrassed. Don't most people travel with 40 odd sex toys in their own personal pink Tinkerbell suitcase? I'm blessed, I suppose.

My cell phone has died and with it all of it's phone numbers inside of it are gone as well. If we talk on the phone, would you mind emailing me your number so I can get you loaded into my new phone once Fido ships it. Email those numbers to jennifer@libidoevents.com


blessings

Jennifer

where my time goes

Lunch at Wild Rice yesterday in downtown Historic China Town. Incomparable in atmosphere & decor as a restaurant than any I've dined in for some time. With a business lunch crowd yet we were able to talk all through our lingering meal with good service. What a great venue and the menu offered up tantalizing offerings that made my mouth water and later served as such a visual delight.

Met with a client at Wild Rice for a few hours of intellectual discussion about [local] sex positive culture and given all the ingredients, who could not enjoy a teaching moment like this. Excellent food and with someone whose hired me to teach them what I know and am passionate about.

Then last night L came over and we had a couple of hours together visiting. Not enough time alone, yet it allowed us to catch up some sans children. Before she left to go home, I asked her if she trusted me. Glances all around, almost blushes I believe then says "sure I trust you." "Close your eyes" I say to her as I approach with my Paul Frank cosmetic case. Unzippering it I withdraw one of my birthday presents and remind her to breath and not to hold her breath. I watch her hands go to her mouth to cover her fear, a smile on her face that trembles slightly. "You can hold my leg if you like to steady yourself, because I'm going to push me new cattle prod into your right calf once" I tell her. (I wait to see is she runs for the door or screams or even open her eyes, but nope, sooooo)

Inhales air rather sharply, eyes, spring open quickly and her hand is already rubbing the targeted site of my attention and affection. My heart beats faster, WOW, she let me do this to her. Hm, store this thought, this moment away, so next time we play together, I'll have something more about her to fall back on. She will do scary things for me and she's got the softest eyes. When she speaks about her life, her compassion is what moves me most.

Then tonight was my dinner date with B. Yummy! We literally shared a meal together and sat side by side in pushed-together chairs at the table. The Whip in East Vancouver is just off of Main Street at East 6th and as of late remodeled. A date is a good date, when before the dinner is even over, you've been invited out again and asked out by name. He's off traveling for a week now but once returned we'll be on a date again. I even managed to get myself kissed. Let's see what happens next time we go out.


and my cell phone died today while accidentally being in water. Email me privately your telephone numbers again those of you know who need me to be reaching you. jennifer@libidoevents.com

Jennifer

treats & seduction

Quite tired this evening after working all day today and being out late last night with my daughter trick or treating. We had much fun trekking from one spooky house to another's front door, collecting treats for over two hours before arriving to her school for an evening display of fireworks. My daughter thinks that it's very cool to be on the playground late at night when it's dark and filled with all her school mates dressed in costume.

Hot chocolate in a covered mug and the rain held off for most of the night, how fortunate were we. I was prepared though with an umbrella with us and a large clear recycle bag to drop over my daughters costume so the paint wouldn't run off of it should it have rained. My daughter was a home made / self made box of Smarties for Halloween and I was my bad self wandering about with little pink horns on my head and flashlight in hand so I wouldn't get hit by a car.

I've been asked out on a date-date by a man. A man who knows all about me, shares none of my pursuits yet admires my convictions and occupation. I find him to be very attractive, we've been friends for a long time and neither of us can deny our attraction to the other. Now that I've been asked out I'm realizing that I want something out of this date.

Seduction, I want to be seduced with language, food, glances, music and him. I'd like to sit back and allow this man to show me a night out with out myself trying to lead the way or direct our path. I'm not talking about submission. We're not going to do any SM play. I'm talking about dating rituals as I know them and I'd like to partake. A movie, a walk on the beach, a scenic drive & picnic, something I've not planned or orchestrated. I'm not there to bottom, be submissive, a little girl, a Top or a Dominant, I'm going to go and be his date for the night.

Later tonight I'll email him back and let him know that next week after I return from teaching at The Wet Spot in Seattle I'd like nothing more than to spend time with him. oOh I am so looking forward to this date - the last time he and I went out, he carried me in arms to his vehicle and to his bed, something that excites me.

My daughter is in her bed sleeping right now. Allena is safe in Seattle and Jim is tucked away nicely in Bellingham. Doug is at home with his wife and kara is cuddled up to her fiance in bed. It makes me feel secure to know where those that I care for and love are. We don't need to be together for me to feel connected, I just need to know the basics of where everyone is, how they are with themselves and also with me.

bondage in public

my Daddy left a few hours ago and I'm already missing him. He arrived in last night and took me for a wonderful birthday dinner and brought me a present.

Wrapped up securely in a rope harness over my chest and through my crotch, criss-crossed over my body and under my evening's clothes, my Daddy took me out for Indian food in a quiet little North Shore restaurant. We ate great food and enjoyed our time out together and alone before heading right back home to be together. Bondage in public and under my clothes, very erotic.

The rope between my legs, separated my labia, so that all night as I moved about my inner labia was always rubbing against hemp rope or the fabric of my slacks. Not used to having anything tickle my inner labia, the feeling was obviously very distracting. So distracting in fact that by the time the ropes came off hours later, they were more than damp with my girl juice and I was more than ready for....

33 cane strikes across my bottom for my birthday with a beautiful red cane from Bad Juju then had fabulous sex until shudders were running through each of us uncontrollably.

Curling up in bed together, wrapped safe in the warmth of my Daddy I slept well. And with the extra hour due to the time change the whole evening was great for me. Today we went shopping and I managed to come away with the most amazing black wool, full length to my ankle bones winter coat that my Daddy says will keep me toasty warm all winter.

Apparently I needed a new coat so that my complaining about being cold would be stopped while getting in and out of the car and also so I can now discreetly leave my building in kinky clothes and be completely covered up in the escape. : )

Dinner on Friday night with friends for my birthday was spent at a tapas bar. I've really been spoiled this birthday weekend with gifts, love and attention by those close to me. It feels good to be so loved.

Jennifer

news of the day

today is my birthday! hooray, Happy Birthday to me! Double digits, I'm now 33 and my mother phoned me this morning to tell me that I was actually born on a Thursday. Tonight, after working today all day I'm going to dinner with kara and a few friends.

this came to mefrom a group that I'm an active member of and that is a wonderful local place for women to meet other women for many opportunities...

BiGirls Vancouver (BGV) is a support and social
group for women in Vancouver and its surrounding
communities. Their mission is to provide a safe,
educational place for curious, bi, lesbian and
transgender women to meet and exchange thoughts,
concerns and ideas. Founded in early 2005 it has
rapidly grown to become one of the larger, free,
organized support and social groups for bisexual and
queer women in the Vancouver area. BGV invites all
queer women looking for a safe place, to join them at
BiGirls Vancouver

Have a great day and check out the calendar updates.

Jennifer

made me laugh & laugh

The woman at check out # 3 had a title beneath her name on her name tag that made me do a double take. As I'm standing there in line to pay this clerk I'm chuckling because her name tag has the title CBT Mentor.

Catching my breath to keep from laughing out loud and keeping my composure about me I ask this woman "what exactly does the acronym CBT stand for?" Clerk looks at me and says in a some what inflated tone of voice "I'm the Computer Based Training (CBT) Mentor." "Helping anyone with computer problems" she proceeds to tell me.

Nice I think to myself, wondering if I'm the only one who looked at her name tag and saw CBT, Cock & Ball Torture and wondered if they should tell her, only to decide to continue along leaving her and her name tag behind as a little laugh for the next "in the know" person to run across.

At this moment I could have taken my liter of chocolate milk and left on my break, but then the clerk said something that made me laugh out loud...

It really is a BIG title for such a little job.

that did it I laughed and laughed as that is so much my experience with CBT cock & ball torture as well.

Currently I'm in want / need of a set of sounds and a penis pump for my sex activist version of CBT, my Private Parts: Genital Play for the Adventurous class. Today standing in line to pay for my chocolate milk reminded me of this. : )

On another note, thanks so much Felicity for doing that hugely important pick up for me this afternoon and for the new pillow cases to go with the sheets! You rock.

Jennifer

Jennifer

the little things

Updated the calendar with two new events. A Kinky & Naughty Christmas Pajama Party and something else, have a read here.

It was 1/2 way day to completion at swimming lessons today for my daughter which meant I got my minute long visit with the swim coach who told me virtually now new information but assured me she was doing well. The best part of the whole visit was that I arrived early and managed to watch the last half of her lesson which left her smiling like mad at my surprise arrival to watch her swim.

Saw this quote on that Printers message board on Kingsway "Success requires courage and discipline."

When I need to understand something or someone better, I use this as my guide...

"All human actions have one or more of these seven causes: chance, nature, compulsion, habit, reason, passion, and desire."

- Aristotle

Took me about 20 minutes of gently buffing with a soft cloth and a gel cleanser onto my pink cotton candy knee high boots to remove the scuff marks from the Sexpo. Must confess though that those boots got a good work out that night at the sex positive play party so working out the scuffs was no big deal. I owed it as a thanks to the boots themselves. Tonight was the night that I took on that challenge and I managed to get off most of the offensive black skid marks.

Jennifer

multi partnered

This morning was busy with office work for hours before Doug even arrived on my door step. On the computer for hours working, studying, answering other emails filled with questions. The count down begins, 30 minutes till he's due to arrive and I've a plan.

House cleaned. Floors, beds and medical table cleared. (we could end up anywhere) Music playing in a couple of the rooms, drapes drawn in every room and the heat turned on.

John Fluevogs, I have a stunning pair of their boots. Knee high with a full length zipper running up my inner calf, the whole boot done in beautiful black leather with white stitching and an ankle buckle. Just like walking on air. They're called Bond boots and I wore them a lot the weekend of the Vancouver Sexpo and have really not had a good polish put to them in some time.

In fact, the last time my boots were done and done well, they were polished by Deb. Deb does the most amazing boot blacking and with her, well I wear my boots and a short skirt, sans the panties. For Deb of course, in exchange for the boot polish and she does an impressive job and enjoys her time spent boot blacking at SM & fetish events. (and looking up my skirt)

Today after Doug found a collar and nipple clamps awaiting him at my front door along with the sound of me at the other end of the house cracking a whip, he gained his composure rather quickly I'd say, then figured out what he needed to do and did it. As he came around the corner into living room, the sight of him with his boot polishing kit between his teeth made me wet. And there I was standing in the middle of my living room, naked-whip in hand and on my feet are my scuffed up pair of stunning Fluevogs.

Can you guess what Doug got to do today? Yup, boot polishing. And some lunch and a visit and then back to our regular worlds.


Then 3:00 pick up daughter from school, then we had to go door to door for 150 houses. Why you might ask would I do this for 70 minutes? Handing out flyers for a fundraiser her Girl Guide group is doing and every family gets to do 150 flyers. And so we decided to do ours today after school as it wasn't raining. Thankfully!

Home to sleep for 30 minutes on the sofa, then do a quick dinner up for my daughter before heading to ready myself for my evening's date with kara.

Left at 7:00 on a dinner date with a very lovely kara on my arm. Both of us dressed for our date, her in new fetish red and black open toed 5 inch heeled shoes and me in a form fitted, slit up one side, ankle length backless dress. kara asked me out on this date and brought a wrapped flower but I drove and carried the umbrella. kara helped me figure out what to order on the menu and she asked me please may I Mistress for a couple of things and I found her head on my shoulder often and her eyes meeting mine looking for more of us.

We had dinner with the BGV group, they are a BiSexual Women's group meeting for social opportunities and much fun. It was the founder Tammy's birthday today, she's 33. Happy birthday to you Tammy, on Friday I'll be 33 and caught up to you.

We celebrated by having a dinner party at a restaurant in New West and had a great time. All of us women and the one token man. The male waiter. Corey and he was cute, young and yup, I had a little fun with him AFTER I tied my cherry stem in a knot with my tongue for his viewing pleasure! Then back to kara who was ready to cuddle more with me and savor ice cream & cake after eating veal with asparagus in a hollandaise sauce with shrimp and pasta.

Drove home with kara in the pouring rain that made seeing the lines on the street impossible even as lightening slashed across the entire sky twice. Pulled in to my building in one piece, although soaked right then I've got to taste kara's sweetness. She looked so sexy tonight and was mine for an evening that was not an event where I was working and waving at her across the room. Sitting next to me and what do we end up doing in the car but necking! sweetness

And then as quick as it all started it HAD to end because

I have a child in my bed awaiting her mom and it's time for me to pull back

say I love you, thank you for the flower and the date. Drive carefully in the rain, it's slick and there's lightening. Her lipstick is completely smeared right across my face, up to right underneath my nose and down to my chin. My lipstick is on her teeth, neck and chin area. Signs of lots of love & passion.

Home and in the house, naked under my robe by 10:20 and starting to blog shortly there after while eating the remainder of a bowl of popcorn that was left on the kitchen counter.

Thankfully I love Jim and I know he loves my because today aside from email, we never actually made it to talking on the phone. Once the weekend arrives and my Daddy comes walking in the door I'll be ready to be that girl to him.


night

Jennifer

DVD to BDSM

My mom came to visit today and took my daughter and I out to lunch. I ate the most amazing piece of chicken with warm brie on top of it on a ciabitti bun - just delicious with fresh spinach, warm apple slices and fig jam spread over everything. My taste buds were dancing and it was a wonderful meal out. We were celebrating my birthday, which although not today, (it's actually the 28th) today is the day that my mom had available to visit from the island. A DVD/VCR player was what my folks gave me along with some other stuff. I was shocked, startled and most grateful for the gift, it will take kara awhile I'm sure to teach me how to make the damn thing go though. :) Lunch, gifts and time spent together for an afternoon, it was great to have all the 3 of us women together, then I came home and promptly fell asleep on the sofa for two hours.

Spent the early evening in at home then left to go to Rascals. Good times I had meeting a whole host of new people and touching base with others I'd not seen in a while. Wishing I had more time to spend out, but none available as daughter is at home sleeping in my bed awaiting me. Promised I'd be home by 11:45 at the latest and I left at 8:15pm.

Dark green shiny, low rise pants with closed toe, ankle strapped 5 inch stiletto black leather heels and a black leather fully boned corset, fishnet gloves from knuckles to elbows and a green/blue pair of itty bitty new panties barely covering my moistness. Toys were packed in my pink Tinkerbell rolling suitcase and I was wearing my pink fur trimmed coat.

Walked in the door of Rascals and within 10 minutes had set my bag down, scoped the place out and headed to the smoking lounge to find S. Negotiated as we were walking out of the smoking room and down the hall into the play space. Genital Play or CBT (cock and ball torture) whichever name you prefer but that was to be the game. Got S strapped to a table then bound each limb in pallet wrap to hold him in place firmly. Damn he looked so sexy in his shiny corset all pouty lipped, wide eyed, laying there with his cock exposed and vulnerable along with his nipples. Accented so beautifully by his corset - I love the look and he made for good eye candy for me all spread like that and tied and shiny tight in the center.

We played good SM games most on his body, some in his head and I enjoyed making him squirm and call out, seeing the beads of sweat roll of his brow as I captured a glimpse of his pout disappearing whilst he bit his lip to cope with the rich sensations going on between his legs. discontent, pleasure, pain, hunger, want...

S was fun and we must do it again some time, thanks for letting me on you. Caught my breath for a few minutes then went and asked someone that I know if he'd let me bottom to him, if he'd Top me in a scene. Saying yes and then the next thing I knew I was on a cross being hit with a very mean stick that the man bought at auction for $15. Damn it's got excellent bite and we had some good play time that left my panting and dancing, I enjoyed the feel of his hand on the small of my back, helping me to resume "the correct position" for the next strike by him. It was comforting to have his help in correcting me both for my own good and for his ease in working me over. Must do it again and soon too as we live extremely close to one another and there is no excuse not too now. Can you tell my lust is high for good play that has no strings attached?

Visited with more new people and some friends old and new. It was a good night but cut way to short. However, I'm just happy to have been able to make it out and to have been part to so many new experiences in one night. And handing out 2 for 1 coupons to everyone at Rascals was the right thing to do given that they can be used for workshops, bondage parties or our infamous naughty pajama parties. Which by the way we will be hosting A Kinky & Naughty Christmas Pajama Party in early December, info to be posted on the web early in the week.

I have to go and climb in my bed now with my daughter and give her extra cuddles as promised. We plan on sleeping in tomorrow and then grocery shopping for back to school lunch supplies.

Jennifer

SEAF 2006

CALL FOR ENTRIES: SEATTLE EROTIC ART FESTIVAL 2006
to be held March 24-26, 2006 at Consolidated Works in Seattle


The Seattle Erotic Art Festival (SEAF) was founded in 2002 by Seattle's Sex Positive Community Center (SPCC) to promote freedom of sexuality, speech and creativity through the erotic expression of fine art. The Festival strives to exhibit work not easily found in mainstream galleries and museums. We invite artists of all backgrounds, countries, ethnicities, cultures, genders, sexualities, and ages (18+) to submit up to four (4) works of art of any media. 3D artists and painters are particularly encouraged to apply; please note that photography is a highly competitive medium.

Enter online

day in church

today I spent 5 hours in a church at a white elephant / bake sale being in charge of pricing items. A bridge luncheon was going on around me and I was doing the mom role for the day as a group of young girls served these women lunch to make money for an up and coming trip.

For some reason a few people laughed and refused to believe me when they called on my cell and I told them where I was. The idea of me being at a bake sale /white elephant sale in a church and unable to have an explicit conversation in that moment left many laughing and unbelieving and me floored at there inability to see my versatility.

Mom, sex activist, store clerk, I can do it all. Might make you do a double take when you see the realism of it in front of you, but I have not made it this far by being in a box. I step out of the box all the time and recreate myself to fit the moment.

Doug came over this evening for a couple of hours on his way to work - I had him work on the knots in my back and shoulders. He's getting good at massage, finding his way on my body. He was so tentative in the beginning of our relationship, when I first started having him rub me down, but now, over time, he is getting good. Knows when to push in deeper and when to work a muscle, when to let up on me and keeps his strokes slick with oil. Listens to my moans and adjusts himself accordingly to make my body feel looser.

Frankly, I like the attention on my back which is where I carry my tension so anything that can be done to help that area makes me purr. Plus I'm enjoying the chance to gauge his skills over time while laying spread out comfortable and warm with him on me.

It's been a few days now since the Sexpo and just today did I get to the paperwork for it all. And tomorrow will be a day of phone calls and catch up with so many people who shared the experience with me as attendees and volunteers. The last few days of being home alone with my daughter have been valuable for us. Grocery shopping, eating, sleeping, laundry, Fright Night at Playland, we've been super busy but tomorrow is business again in the afternoon.

L & I are taking our girls scootering downtown in the morning and I'm excited about it already. It's time for me to start getting ready for bed - I've fallen asleep twice today and am still in need of much rest. It's a good thing that I'm still on days off till late next week.

Jennifer

the day after

today is the day after! The day after the close of the very successful Vancouver Sexpo. I said both good night & good morning to Dossie Easton and then drove her to the airport. Not that I should even be thinking of more work right now, but I'll tell you anyways that I'm bringing Dossie back again in 6 months to present for Libido Events with another unique workshop opportunity.

My mind needs to stop twirling and I must finally got some rest. Over the conference weekend I had a house full of guests including both Jim & Allena who each left today as well. Leaving me alone in the house for one hour before my daughter returned home.

Now I've got time on my hands at home with my daughter full time as I'm on leave from my day job for another week and a half and she is out of school due to the strike.

I'm eager to climb into bed tonight as I'm exhausted. This afternoon I slept on my daughters bed for a couple of hours and then again after dinner I slept for another few and here I go again now down for the night.

Success is tiring but hugely rewarding
I'm addicted to the pursuit
Of success and sex positive culture

Jennifer

todays issue of Dose newspaper

on page 9 has a wonderful article written about this weekends Vancouver Sexpo, Sex & Sexuality Empowerment Conference. Vancouver Sexpo. The article is titled Sex ed., class-participation style and is written about sex positive culture and the Vancouver Sexpo, be sure and get your hands on a copy to have a read for yourself about the sit down interview I did with the reporter from Dose.

In last weeks Georgia Straight and this weeks issue out today, Vancouver Sexpo has taken out advertising, look on page 40 of last weeks for our ad.

The Sexpo starts tomorrow night already, it's so hard to believe that time has gone so fast lately. What to wear has been the last thing on my mind but if I don't start thinking about it soon, I could end up naked during the opening plenary. : )

off to make more things happen for people I don't even know yet....

happily

Jennifer
the sex activist

*** sale ***

This evening while wading through the piles of email in my Libido Events mailbox, I found an email from another Jennifer. A friend of mine and the woman behind local Tickled Pink Toys. Jennifer is having a massive sale on a number of products that need to be liquidated to make room for other stock or different colors of products soon to be arriving to her in time for the Christmas rush.

Knowing that Libido Events loves Exclusive offers and passing on sound education and products, Jennifer asked me to let you all know about the sale. From restraints, smart balls and insertables there is surely something at Tickled Pink Toys for you to be excited about at this sale. Check out the great deals....



blessings

Jennifer
Vancouver Sexpo

caregiving & on the mend

A few days have past and my head still throbs like a bad hangover and my nose is as congested as is possible. When I cough I need to hold my rib cage as I'm in that much discontent. And lest we forget that although a masochist in S/m play I'm simply just a small little girl when I'm this sick and not able to make the shift from cold /flu aches & pains to erotic, good pain, endorphin, thrill-seeking masochistic fun.

With all that said though I am feeling marginally better and able to actually move about now. This morning after returning from driving my daughter to school, I phoned kara on her cell at about 9:05 only to have her tell me that although she had driven all the way in to the city to drop papers off at work, she was now in her car, promptly driving herself home to bed. Sick! Yikes, could I have infected her as well? The decent, loving Top in me says, have you driven past my place yet on your way back home? No, kara replies, I'm still 10 minutes away.

How about you come here and lay on the sofa while I work for a few hours on the computer. sighs, ok, I'll be there shortly

10 minutes later, one sick girl on my door step and so sick that she too used the washroom to hurl in. Twice. Good thing for mouthwash. Off to the sofa she went, where I covered her in blankets, made her tea, and fed her daytime cold medicine. After 4 hours of loving, it was time to pack her up and send her on her way to her home and partner as I needed to head out to do some errands. Not thinking kara up for my errands, it was better to send her home.

Some of the things that I need to do professionally, I need to take care of during school hours, when my child is away. 9:00-3:00 Monday - Friday are when it's easiest for me to do business so once kara was gone I had a few stops to make before picking up my daughter from school.

Off to Safeway, then the bank and now we're back home. I'm at the computer in the dining room working and she is reading a book on the sofa quietly before dinner. I've a beautiful child who is one of those children that other parents and teachers all praise - she's a warm soul, seeking to support those who are most understood or alienated for some reason. Intelligent. A child who favors books, camping and sleeping cuddled up with her mother, I am blessed. I don't believe she is the way she is by accident, it is because of the choices that I made for her before she was old enough to be supported in making her own choices as a girl and as a tween now.

For the division that I keep in my life and have kept for years I am most grateful. My relationship with my daughter is that of a mother and not one that most can even have a scope for how it could look on me. Most are surprised - especially since my daughter, and our home life are so not representative of my activism.

Shortly I'll make dinner, and from the living room the sounds of a child taking first year band with a wind instrument will be heard. Later tonight we'll cuddle up on the sofa and I'll rub her back before bed, then at 9:45 Felicity is due here to help me work through some of the Sexpo's final details before next weeks opening night.

Don't forget to get your tickets early to save yourself money at the door. A listing of where tickets to the Vancouver Sexpo October 14, 15 & 16 can be purchased is viewable here.

Thanks to C from Seattle, Karin and Vicky for your emails of warm hugs, chicken soup and good wishes.

Jennifer

tissues & ejaculator supplies

A box of tissues is on the end table next to me in the living room and used up tissues, rolled in to small wet balls are laying all over the floor. I'm so sick with a head and chest cold that I feel like I'm dyeing and being close to death means that I'm on the sofa, under a blanket, in my cotton 2 piece pajama's with snowmen on them. Apple juice is chilled in the fridge and the bathroom door is open down the hall should I feel the need to hurl again. Lovely visual hey? Both yesterday and today I've called in to work and taken sick days - how unfortunate as I'd hoped to get some extra hours in at my day job before the Sexpo in just a couple of weeks.

The other night I had Doug over for a visit and after watching some TV together on the sofa, I sent him, naked, into the play room to climb up on the gyn table. I played with Doug for awhile, him at my mercy, legs spread in stirrups, naked, on a gyn table, with an electric fly swatter laying across his cock, needles in his chest and BANG was the end result ever hot. Good times were had and I only needed to tell him the rules to our play once and he followed along so well. Rules mean consequences for not following along, but Doug was only rewarded.

When we were done playing and he had finished eating 6 or 8 chocolate chip cookies and some water, we got him dressed again, packed up and heading back to his wife and home.

The fly swatter did go off a number of times on the cock but it was always made better by praise, strokes and extra loving from moi! I can be mean and nasty & still loving and caring.

After Doug had left and night time had fallen, I sent him this email:

Doug,

After this evening's play, I went to investigate what other deviant things I should add to my toy bag now that we know CBT mixed with electrical play is so hot for you. Here is what I found: A Balley Ejaculator

If I save up for awhile I'll be able to afford one. It's a business expense as well so this makes it even more attractive. : )

Your thoughts?

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Doug whose writing often makes me laugh, sent this back:

Jennifer,

while I'll admit that this

"Stand away from the animal 6 or 10 feet after gently inserting the probe, and observe the reaction of the animal. Proceed as dictated by the animal's physical movements as the stimuli are applied in rhythm....Not recommended for horses. "

sounds intriguing, I've continued to be amazed by the ways you manage to use just about every toy in the bag.

Wow, needles for play. I'm still kind of wrapping my head around having been on the receiving end of that.

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It's time for me to blow my nose again and to take a nap. The only thing missing is a good massage and some wonton soup for this sick woman. I'm still chuckling over Doug and the look of shock that must have washed over his face as he read my email about Farm & Ranch ejaculator supplies. Chuckling hurts my lungs though as I'm so sick, perhaps he should be punished? ; )

blessings

Jennifer
Vancouver Sexpo
Libido Events

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Vancouver Sexpo, Sex and Sexuality Empowerment Conference
October 14, 15 and 16, 2005

Get ready for the first Vancouver Sexpo, Sex and Sexuality Empowerment Conference (www.VancouverSexpo.com) scheduled for October 14th through the 16th at the Hornby Banquet & Conference Centre 3rd Floor 595 Hornby Street in Vancouver BC. This is not a trade show or a thinly veiled opportunity to sell porn. This is a chance to explore your own sexuality and enrich your sex life. Packed into this weekend is a whole spectrum of workshops, entertainment, shopping, socializing and opportunities for play and for you to gain skills to empower yourself. What sets this conference apart from anything you've ever seen before? The details are what make this a quality weekend intellectually, financially and sexually for everyone.

You get workshops that are intensive in length and interactive, where you come out of them having learned a skill and/or more about yourself and your sexuality. Workshops and presentations include "Radical Ecstasy," an interactive presentation by acclaimed author Dossie Easton; noted sex expert and courtesan Veronica Monet on " Sex Courtesan Style", "Clitoral Revelations" by Terri Ciacci, several bondage workshops by Jim Duvall, a presentation on today's Sexual Renaissance by the Wet Spot's executive director, Allena Gabosch, basic Play Piercing by Elwood and of course several workshops by your host, Jennifer of Libido Events.

And the workshops are just one part of the weekend. Get ready for burlesque dancers to tease; an exclusive film screening of the international award winning movie, Crossing; a massage booth; edible muffs; a body painting booth; kinky and glamour photography and a full on decadent sex positive play party with something for everyone. And make sure you visit Vendors Row, where local and out-of-country shops will have deliciously wicked items to please you.

Attendance at the Sexuality Empowerment Conference is for those 19+ with valid ID. Advance Ticket are $75 per person all inclusive Friday - Sunday events, workshops & play party. Tickets purchased at the door are $90 per person all inclusive Friday - Sunday events, workshops & play party. Sex Positive Play Party Only tickets may be purchased in advance for $20. Tickets may be purchased at the following locations: Little Sisters Book Store located at 1238 Davie Street Vancouver (in the heart of downtown), Fetwear Adult Store 931C Brunette Avenue (Lougheed & Brunette on the border of Coquitlam, New Westminster and Burnaby) and at The Wet Spot 1630 15th Avenue West Seattle, Washington (from Allena Gabosch directly for $75 CDN or $65 US)

Vancouver Sexpo, Sex and Sexuality Empowerment Conference is brought to you by Libido Events (www.libidoevents.com) and is sponsored in part by Tickled Pink Toys, Licks and Lashes, Storm Brewing, Oran Foods & The Triskeli Guild.

mummified

This past week has simply proved that it is possible to do the impossible as I somehow managed to navigate through one hell of a busy schedule. Yesterday though I was able to put aside for 4 hours all of my work that was due and found myself naked on my living room floor.

Had to be my Daddy right? No one else could get in so when I heard the key in the lock a chill ran down my all ready naked body. I was on the living room floor a top a plush cream colored blanket with the drapes drawn almost completely to keep anyone from seeing in, yet sunlight flooded through the white shears filling the room with brightness. Trembling, from the slight breeze of the sliding door being open a crack, mixed with chill of uncertainty to the noises coming down the hall, my naked body trembled slightly on all fours, with a back arched just the way I know it's supposed to be. Forehead to the floor and now I can't even see a thing or look up.

Ok, not quite the way it's supposed to be, my arch is wrong. First thing I feel is a warm hand sliding over one of my ass cheeks, then a crisp swat and finally his hand on the small of my back forcing my arch more pronounced, bottom more upturned and legs more spread to accommodate. He's happy finally because I'm being rubbed nice now and the hand that's rubbing me into a happy girl is no longer arching my back for me.

Mummified, except for genitals and breasts you can tell where Jim wanted to focus his attention towards me. Unable to move and bound in black pallet wrap, electricity hooked up between my legs, not to harm me for good SM play but rather to be used as a discipline tool in our play over the day. Told to do something what choice is there, when electrical leads are connected to your most private parts? OBEY. Daddy helped me by doing this for me, isn't he so thoughtful to help take away some of the struggle I have from time to time. It did help me to submit easier. (yup out of fear and I can eroticize this so I was one happy woman)

Then a Chinese 7 star hammer and my breasts & sternum turned pink from the needles over and over hammering me and targeting my aereola and nipples. Jim sat a top me as I was bound and he hammered happily until way more nasty things happened that I'm not up to writing about for public consumption.

HOWEVER, we went through an OBSCENE amount of my lube and my sheets should be burned.

Then the clock said 1:15pm and it was time for me to make us lunch, naked of course, and then to do the dishes, clean up the remains from a half day of serious sex & SM play and put everything away. Asked permission to dress and then got in my car, drove to school to pick up daughter at 3, went grocery shopping and was home by 4:30pm back to Jim.

Work on the computer for an hour, then start cooking dinner for everyone as it's a family night in. Homework, phone calls, house work, computer work and we all just hung out together. We were asleep early last night as today Jim had to leave early to return to the States and I've got a volunteer meeting today to go over the venue set up for Vancouver Sexpo next month.

Everyone should be to me around noon. Until then I'm catching up my Blog and my personal email. And I've got to unpack my bags still from this past Sunday as my toy bags are still packed from my two classes at The Wet Spot and my tasters booth that I ran for them. This is a toy bag that I'm now realizing needs more than put away - it needs sterilized and sanitized. much fun was had

Tickets for next months Vancouver Sexpo both all inclusive and play party only are at Fetwear, Little Sisters and Seattles The Wet Spot.

off to grab a quick nap now before start arriving

Jennifer
Vancouver Sexpo
Libido Events